So Much Progress! Footage of Our Autistic Son at 2 Years Vs. Almost 5.
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- Опубліковано 31 жов 2020
- Our son Dexter is autistic and has speech difficulties. He was almost completely non-speaking until age 4.5. We are rapidly approaching his 5th birthday (eek!), and in a recent nostalgic search through some old videos I found one of us interacting when he was just 2 and a half years old. You can really see how far he has come!!! So proud of our amazing boy.
We did exactly the same intervention. 6 days a week for 6 hrs a day. He’s very like my son. My son is now 24 passed his driving test and living his life. Hard work pays off.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
6hrs a day at therapy centre?
I started sobbing when it said "I was so desperate to connect with my little boy". I know that feeling when my daughter was younger. 😭
I was thinking the same thing I read that part. 😭 I also feel like I am so desperate to connect with my baby boy
@@PaolaMartinez-zv4wg Me too. I started sobbing...I'm so sad. 😭
How I am feeling too
This is how I felt. So desperate to connect. ABA and turn taking activities at home have helped so much. He comes to me now and shows me things
Me too ❤️😭 there is a nutrition treatment and people said it works, I am going to start it with my two year old daughter. Search for Katia Dolle 🙏🏻
Suchhh a great mom in this video, so much love and patience for her little angel 🤍 many blessings
This makes me want to post my kids process. 2 years ago I couldn’t even touch her. Constant meltdowns. Non verbal. She would hit herself non stop. Pull her hair . And the stimming was bad!! She was Always grunting and avoiding speech by directing me what she wanted by pulling my hand. It was getting so hard. I almost gave custody to my parents because I felt like I didn’t have the patience. I was raising her as a single parent most of the times and I was taking her to all the therapies I could get and nothing was working! After being with babies can’t wait for three years they passed her over to the school system for special education . And it was a whole 180! She began using her words being able to count to saying her ABCs. The grunting is gone. She stopped stimming by 80%! She has stopped hitting herself and now enjoys being hugged and kissed but she’s overactive sometimes and it still a work in progress but she’s done so much better now. From 3 hour meltdowns to the max 15 minute meltdowns. So if anyone here is discouraged please don’t give up. It’s hard but in the end it’s worth it .
Keep up the good work I won’t lie I think your a better mom than I. You look so patient with your child. And i can see how much he loves you :).
Is there any other thing that helped her?
@@priyankadhage1855 well she was in a program called babies can’t wait for two years along with Occupational therapy twice a week and speech therapy also twice a week, then when she turned three she went to school Monday through Wednesday with therapy days being Thursday and Friday . Now she’s good with just going to school Monday through Friday.
Hi, where do you lived? Where is these babies program based?
Are you in GA? My son is in Babies can’t wait and we were just sent to evaluation, which will not happened till April :( So far they only offer telehealth and he is getting speech therapy.
@@anabarkova5991 yes I am :). Awe :(. My kid is 5 right now so she is already in the school system. They will usually send someone to your house depending on your kids needs. My kid was seen twice a week.They can help you with more services if you request them. My kid had poor motor skills so apart from speech she also received occupational to help her hold things well. Hopefully they can see your son soon. Only issue was I have been on an ABA waiting list for two years now.:/ but that’s no ones fault. I get those services are harder to get.
Especially around these times everything is so delayed :/. Hopefully your son benefits from the program. Progress my be a little slow but don’t give up. They are truly caring people and do their best to make sure your kid is meeting their kids by increasing services if your kid needs them:).
You are an excellent mother. Dexter is certainly blessed as are you ♥️
I feel like crying right now. My 26 month old is nonverbal and showing other signs of autism. Her first appointment with Behavioral Developmental Health is in a few weeks. We have a long road ahead of us and it’s been challenging. Watching this video gives me hope. Praying for God to give my daughter her voice soon. I can’t wait to interact with my baby verbally ❤
Did you get him checked
What did the doctor say
I am in the same boat. My 2 year old is non-verbal and showing signs of autism. I am actually sick of hearing " every child dows this"..
Sending you prayers and hugs.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
@Amina90982
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A messy house is common for us mothers especially with the small ones, it doesnt bother me at all. What bothers me is how can u be so patient?...
Great mum u are... Lots of love from Singapore. 🇸🇬❤️❤️❤️
What a caring and great mother you are! God bless your family!
God bless all the parents in the world who bear so much pain and make both ends meet for their kids❤
This is so beautiful to watch. My son is turning 4 in January and doesn’t have any speech. He also struggles with concentration and walks tip toeing. The pandemic hit us hard and we haven’t had any speech and language therapy for over a year because of it. Watching Dexter’s progress gives me hope for my child. Thank you so much for this ❤️
My son still goes for therapy during this pandemic after the first lockdown...I guess he is allowed bcoz he gets it from a hospital...
Same is with my daughter can u assist me something
@@namrasofia1704 same is wid my daughter also
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
So beautiful, thank you for showing updates and continuing to inspire us through your journey!
You’re a wonderful mum and Dexter is a beautiful boy. This was really amazing to watch, thanks for sharing.
Congratulations! So happy for you and Dexter. Huge milestone achieved. It will only get better and better.
You’re an amazing mother! I wish the best of the world for your family.
Keep the videos coming please 🙏🏼 you was doing a fabulous job of spreading awareness.
Your a brilliant mom
I'm following Dexter from long time ago. You're really an amazing Mom. Dexter is so lucky to have you.
All I see when I watch this is so much love between a mother and son!! It made me smile so much. Dexter is a gorgeous little boy and you are a wonderful mummy. 💕
What a wonderful boy Dexter is ! Your efforts and hardworking can be clearly seen in the photage . Keep up the good work mommy
This video actually made me cry, tears of joy. 😭😢 It broke my heart when you said you were desperate to connect with your son, and I started crying 😭 seeing how much you kept trying to connect with him and how he is trying his best to do the same. 🥺❤️💕 You are such a great mother and your son is so sweet, cute, and smart. 💕🥺 Seeing his smile, laughter and progress made me so happy and I couldn’t watch a more wholesome heart happy video. ❤️ Sending much love and positive energy and prayers for even more progress to you and your sweet family! 💕💝
Thank you so much for this video. It gives so much hope for someone that has already walked this path
Dexter is such a happy child 😍 you mama is a role model!! I’m so glad I discovered your Channel ❤️
Dexter is doing so very well. You are a wonderful mother to your children. And from previous videos your husband is also a wonderful father. 💜
My son is 4 and was diagnosed with autism. Your videos have been incredibly helpful and uplifting. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope you and your family are well.
You are such an amazing mother and do such a wonderful job with all these activities with Dexter. He is such a blessed boy to be your son. I love your videos and they inspire me so much as an early childhood speech pathologist and I love sharing them with the parents of students.
Really hope you are all well and safe. All the best to Dexter!
you are a fantastic , loving mum wonderful to see how you interact with your son and the gorgeous relationship you have and how much fun you both have :)
You have done an excellent job with your son- You have been patient and loving. I loved seeing him pair his words with the signs- this different enhances speech. Well done- He is such a cutey!!1
You brought tears to my eyes with this video. Your connection is amazing and the effort you put in showed off. Dexter is an amazing child and has come a long way. He's very much confident in his choice making. Well done to you both
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
Good Job Mum! You can tell that Dexter is loved so much!
You're so amazing. Dexter's success and happiness will be even sweeter after realizing how special his mother is!
he is so adorable. This is such a beautiful video with full of love and happiness. God bless you, amazing mom. He will be speaking soon and first sentence will be ‘ I love you, mum’ as he is saying now with all his body in this video.
This gave me all the feels. I love seeing baby Dex and then all the progress - it's incredible. You're doing a fantastic job!
You are such a great mum. All the patience and love. Your boy is lucky to have you
Congratulations!! You are amazing! He is very lucky to have you!
God bless you and your son. I admire you for being so patient in everything you do for your son. A mother's love indeed. 😘
Love from Philippines 💕
You are such a phenomenal mother. I can see you’ve learned beautifully from therapists and have probably taught yourself a lot with your own research. Your son is so very smart and I can see his sweet personality shining through more and more
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
Watching your videos shows that you're an amazing mother! I have a 22 month grandson who I'm concerned is autistic. This gives me hope and I want to thank you for sharing yours and Dexter's journey with us! 🥰
@Azim Premji Thank you so much. I'm going to look now!
You are a fantastic mother! And he is adorable ❤
This is amazing! Really inspiring me.
Thank you for this video, it has brought tears to my eyes but also hope.
Singing is the only way I can engage my son and just like Dexter he is very loving but struggles with expressive language (receptive language is getting better).
You gave me a wonderful idea with the bag and song symbol cards, I think Tudor will love it, thank you so much!
Dexter has made so much progress, it is amazing and a blessing. I am so happy for him, it must be so hard for them to want to express themselves and not to be able to do it..
God bless!
My son is almost 3 and he finally got an ASD diagnoses. Watching this video makes me feel like I should be doing more with my son, but honestly it's hard to push through when he just don't seem interested to play or get his attention. He's non verbal and very limited in his understanding. I get so frustrated that I just give up most days. But seeing your interaction with your son makes me want to push harder. Thank you.
Jenny, i wish you the very best.i dont doubt the journey can be tiring or frustrating..I'm sure you'll find a perfect way for you and your son. Especially if he's only just be officially diagnosed, then you're just beginning a new chapter. I hope you get every resource available to you..all the very very best to you and your little lad 💚
I can't imagine what you moms are going through. It is hard work and it's only natural to get tired. Lots of love to all the little ones. It must be frustrating for them too. Wishing you and your family lots of patience and strength.
Sound like my son. He’s almost 3 and recently diagnosed. Crazy but he uses to have word and then just stopped at 2.
Try nemechek protocol. It has helped huge number of kids
@@khurshidkhan280 did you do that for your kid? How was it? How did you do it?
I would love to see new updated videos! They are very encouraging for parents and grandparents like me.
Did she ever post an update video? Because I have been looking. It’s been 3 years. I hope they are ok
Thanks for the video. My kid also has ASD. Its working very well to tell him to see my eyes and then ask him whatever. Regards and thank you again for the video ❤️
Your are a amazing mum and your son is such a star ⭐️ both lucky to have one another 🥰
Mummy Of 2... Yea look I have to agree with you here- she really is a wonderful mother, that's very clear in the videos and although I know sometimes people can often have themselves appear to be like this or that, and isn't a very accurate portrayal of how someone actually behaves etc, but here in this case, though, I do believe that what she's sharing with us is most likely a pretty accurate picture.
It's just incredibly disappointing that there are people out there that have, and through their own actions, caused people to doubt what they see or hear, dropping the bar for all those whom actually have actual and genuine things to add, tell, etc, on parenting.
I think alot of mums and dads could probably learn a thing or two from this wonder-mum!! I know I probably could, for sure. There's no loss when it comes to learning new parenting skills and methods as having as many little tricks, hacks or ideas only broadens your abilities as a mum or dad! So maybe one day try out for size, so,e of these whatever they are, if they don't work the way you'd hoped, is alright!. You can't have too much experience with being a parent it's just not possible.. there's no maybe, it is what it is, I suppose!
Anyways, my own little one needs me to clean him up as we just had some lunch!
P.s. hi all the way from Australia!! 😎😊😉😁
@AbdulRahman-lv5pjfrom where to get this medicine
Great achievement! My son has turned 4 and is also on the autistic spectrum. We are spending a lot of time trying to help him develop his verbal and other skills. I know, how hard that is. You are a great mom, keep it up! Dexter is lucky to have you as his mom 🤗
How is he now
@Amina90982😅
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
My son didn't start getting services until he was diagnosed at 4 years old and I have been fighting for him to get services at the age of 1 years-old. Kudos to the family and the state that didn't fail him.❤
You are an absolutely amazing mama. Love to you all. 💕
You are a great mother..When I feel less patient towards my baby, I will try and think of you and how lovingly you look after your kids..Thank you for being an inspiration..And thank you for teaching me to never give up on our children
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
Hi. I've seen all your videos. Started watching them about a year ago when i started suspecting my then 20 months old could be on the spectrum. I've learned so much from your videos! And I cried my eyes out on each (still do) because i could relate so much. My son is 2 yrs 9 months now and hope months away from being diagnosed by nhs. Already diagnosed privately but not accepted by nhs because isn't following NICE guidelines. He is still non verbal,no attempt to form any words,limited understanding,delayed in many areas. Dexter reminds me so much of my son. Coincidence i was gonna name him Dexter but jis dad wouldn't let me :) If he could achieve what Dexter did by the time he's 4.5 i would be thrilled. Thanks for your videos. Keep them coming x
Dexter is precious, he is so lucky to have you! I recently started my journey with my sweet boy, he is 19 months and we are receiving results from his autism evaluation tomorrow. God bless you and your family and thanks you for sharing your journey with us 🥰🥰
wow this made me cry from a very deep place within, my son is going through a series of assesments all i want to do is connect with him so very much xxx
What a darling little dude !! Love the special interaction between Mummy and Dex.❤
Hi , i just found your channel/video! Great video! So great you posted this with singing ! My youngest really responds to music as well! This is soo important! He also loved (was obsessed with the daddy finger song) that song, i mean constantly! He only started talking last year, he is now 7 years old. I just like clicked and subscribed to you! Introvert mom of 4 sons (2 autistic) enjoying making youtube friends, learning from others, while trying to grow my channel. I am still working on having the courage to make my autism video on my eldest son (he is 19 yrs old). Thanks, God Bless! Stay strong! You are an amazing mom!
You are a rockstar mom! Your son is beautiful! God bless you all! And stay safe!
Wow! You are just amazing with your boy. You are such a great mom.
Wonderful job. I am amazed. Wish you all the best
Mother is the best therapist for her kid. That love sign is undeniable
You are such an amazing mom...so inspired by you....God has given u an angel to look after...
You are an absolutely amazing mom
I am so happy I found your channel. My 2 1/2 yr old isn't talking. I got her into early intervention a year ago. Now we see an OT and speech therapist. It's been a long emotional journey. They think she has autism but hasnt been officially diagnosed yet. I see so many similarities in her as your son. Some days are tough but I am willing to do anything it takes to help my baby. I am so glad that I started early with the help. I noticed something was off. This gives me so much hope
Any updates ?
This video is so helpful! My husband and I realised that our son was autistic just before the first lockdown. It is a slow process getting access to the services we need. We have had one speech and language zoom chat so far and have no idea when our next will be.
I think a lot of parents would appreciate a video showing the different activities you have used to encourage speech with Dexter. I know I would love some ideas while we wait for the support we need xx
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
Hi Dexter 😍 I am Reimiel. I am a young autistic adult from Singapore. Nice to meet you. I had speech difficulty before and non-verbal too. You are doing a great job! 😍
You are such a great mom. I cried through your video because my son is 5.5 and is still struggling with Speech. I get desperate and frustrated because I can't communicate with my son. It's hard and his little brother is 2.5 and he doesn't say any words also. My 5.5 is autistic and they want to evaluate my younger one. Keep it up, you're doing great.
He is growing so fast... time runs. Enjoy! You are wonderful mommy. He will grow up to be the proof of it! Trust Him! Never believe the negatives... they just hurt, and they are lies.
We miss you ! You have been of a great help to us (me and my autistic child). Hope you come back soon and hope you and your little one are fine! Lots of love from France !
She posts a bit on Instagram and Dexter seems well 😊
Beautiful boy. Keep it up. You doing a great job little man
Thank your for your videos. You are amazing ❤️
Dexter is beautiful he brought a tear to my eye. In the beginning you explain still had a lot to learn with your approach to Dexter please could you make a video about tips on how to approach in the early stages? I do really struggle and sometimes feel like I maybe a little to much? Thank you I love your channel so much x
Dexter is progressing well. Wishing him pritten future. You amazing mum I like your patience and love God bless you.
Thank you for your reply, I am really happy to hear from you doing well. When you will record another vedioes.
He's just like you, loving.
Watching here from the Philippines and we also inspire other people thru our Channel.. Don't lose hope.. He will speak fluently in time 😊. Our son with autism used to be echolalic before and he is now 10yrs old that he initiate conversation already.. We just need to give them time to adjust 😊
My 8 years old daughter is 9 now and similar to your son lots of respect for all your doing so much love affection bless u ❤
Amazing mum....Life is full of miracles
Thanks for sharing, you are a great mom!
My son was the same just keep going parents. Never stop connecting with them. They might be aloof but they can hear us.
My 4 year old is so similar verbally it is so nice to see and relate to a family. Great video! Thank you for posting ❤ we are still awaiting diagnosis but luckily my boy has been in speech therapy for 2 years now and has improved in speech and socially so much.
@Ignace Alli STOP trying to profit off of health issues with your scams. Reported, again.
First time I have watched your clip and you have brought me to tears. My hat off to you for letting people see your daily lives being a Mum of Dexter who has autism. People who don't have a child with needs don't realise how much patience and persistence you need. It is hard work but the love for your child keeps you motivated. You are truly amazing and have given me so many ideas on how I can implement the same activities with my 7yr old son who has severe autism (ASD Level 3). Thank you so much 🙂♥️🌻 - Isa from Sydney, Australia
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
My daughter is only 7 months old, but I see identical stim patterns in her as I see here in Dexter. The stiff arms out to the side, the little dance spasms, the way he seems to push away at you when you get close to his personal space. She's also not babbling at all yet, not even a single consonant. It's hard to stay optimistic in the process since it feels like my dreams are crashing down around me, and all it makes me want to do is commend you guys for being such great parents. Very strong people.
You are a wonderful mother!
99% of this describes my son. At this point we have no diagnosis and I am terrified. My husband and I work shift work and are doing the best we can, but we can’t get him any further assistance. I wish can be a typical child because I know how cruel the world can be, but your boy put such an incredible smile on my face. He’s beautiful and so are you Momma. Thank you so much for sharing.
You are a really good mother. God bless you
You guys are doing great ❤️
You are an amazing mother.
Your son is fantastic coming along very well, looks so grown up, can you do a update on his day
Beautiful!!! ❤️.
He’s absolutely adorable🥰
Loving mum . Good job 👏
God bless your family, you are so inspirational parents
You are a strong women...wish you and your boy the best! It s going to be better! Mine is 6 and he s telling poems and he s great at maths. It s verbal only if he needs someting. The ,"i want" is all day 😊
Such an amazing effort and the results are speaking for themselves. My son is a pre-verbal four year old on the spectrum and I know how difficult it can be at times but your videos are a great demonstration of what can be achieved through patience and love. What a fantastic mother you are. Well done 👏
Ah you are so kind, thank you!! You are right, it can be tough, but I swear these kids teach us more than we can teach them 😂❤
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel
My sons speech and behavior/social skill has improved perfectly using his herbs
Holy cow he’s smart!! Wow I’m impressed
I have been recently following your adorable Dexter videos and I am so appreciative of you sharing his journey bc my Grandson Emmitt is in the early stages of possibly being on the spectrum (still can’t get in anywhere for the assessment) but doctor gave the referral. So I have been searching for information to help him and your stories are amazing and Dexter is so cute and smart. You are doing a great job. Thanks for taking the time to share and helping others.
She has so much patience, with the kid
He is so adorable.
Thank you so much.
Just amazing!
I wonder how much patience you have . Hats off to you
My son is almost 5 and he has autism as well ... Dexter, at the time this video was posted, reminds me SO much of my son!!! It is unbelievable. And I'm not talking about physical appearance, but the mannerisms, the stemming with his hands, the long speech journey (that we are STILL on), his demeanor, his laugh, ... I have watched this video 4 times because I just cannot get over how incredibly alike they are! Needless to say, Dexter is just about the sweetest, most adorable little boy I've ever seen!!! 🥰 I would LOVE to know how he's doing now! Time to go look for more of your videos 😊
Your herbs has work wonders in my family.
Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the beste. #droyalo
I notice you haven't uploaded in a while and hope you are all OK!
Your videos are so informative and helpful! Thanks
Every one struggling with this problem please give your child olive oil message everyday..it really helped my child a lot
SO MANY HUGS FOR YOU ;;;; U R A SUPER MUM