How Does Our Autistic 2 Year Old Play? | Home Videos Of Autistic Toddler Playing
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2020
- All Toddlers Play. In fact, at 2 years and 9 months old, big milestones are being met as the child approaches to big 3; arguably the most important developmental Mark in Early Childhood. When Autism Comes in to the Mix However, that Development and those Milestones can look a lot different.
But the most important thing to remember out of this Video, and all the others on this channel? Different is not equal to Wrong. It’s just... Different❤️
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Happens to me all the time I feel so bad
Hi pls explain how damon has special needs too
Damen is also Autistic, he struggles much differently from eli and struggles emotionally much more severely. Therefore i dont usually share as much about his needs as he is usually left more emotionally vulnerable due to the types of issues he deals with.
With therapy does his level go down or no on the autism spectrum?
hi could you please update me how Eli is doing now. My son is 13 months and still not walking. The sign is showing towards autistic and we are all devastated.
“Different does NOT mean wrong” BEST STATEMENT I’VE HEARD TODAY! You’re an awesome Mom!
That is the best statement I heard!
Making me cry. You are a beautiful mother for your beautiful children.
I ❤️ to see lovely, dedicated, patient moms like you. Your boys are lucky to have you. God bless your family.... ❤️❤️
I am an OT and I always believed that parents are the best therapists and the most important one in a child’s life. . A therapy session is an hour at best and the other session is 23 hours . Great job mom.
Wow your kids are so cute and you are such a beautiful mom inside and out, thank you for explaining in a easiest way to understand. autistic or not, we love our kids to the moon! I have a 6 year old son on the spectrum, he is verbal but no eye contact, a little math genius, says he loves his mom to infinity 😊😀
So when he was young, I use to do lots of silly faces, sing songs a lot and that really made him give me eye contact, hope this helps someone, he still needs prompting to eye contact coz it’s hard for him, but once u get into their world, they look at u, talk to u and most importantly you have a happy joyful child.
All moms out there, hang in there, we have good and hard days…it gets better…we are strong! autistic parenting makes us even better humans!
I’ve been questioning if my son has autism or not and watching this video reminded me a lot of my baby boy. I appreciate this video and I really liked the message u put out there thank you for this ❤️
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
I loved your message and how you show love to your kiddos. Thanks for sharing this video.
What an amazing mother you are, your kids are beautiful ❤️
What a sweet little face Eli has! He just looks like such a joy! ❤️
Ohhh melts my heart. "He didnt look at me but he gave me hug and that's enough for me".. you guys are amazing! He is cute the way he is, and you're a wonderful and loving mommy🥰
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Our son is 21 months, and he still doesn't say any words. He also climbs everything in sight, all day. He sometimes walks around in circles, but he doesn't really flap his arms or hands. He does fixate on the individual parts of his toys, but sometimes he puts the little puzzle pieces where they go, etc. I've never seen him play with a car-type toy in a way that mimics a car driving. I don't think he even understands the concept of driving or connects it with his toys.
He will sometimes respond to his name, but only like 50% of the time. Sometimes we'll say his name over and over again, with him staying oblivious to it. I've tried pointing at things to see if he looks at what I'm pointing to, but again, he only looks a fraction of the time.
He does look us in the eye at times. He's also quite affectionate at times. But in general, I get the sense that he's fairly oblivious to us, in the way that Eli is. Our son hums, makes clicking sounds and says "Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma" over and over again, but I don't see any evidence that he's really understanding speech.
My wife, on the other hand, is in denial of any possibility that he could be autistic. When he says "ma-ma-ma" she credits him with calling her mama. But I don't see any indication that he connects that sound with his actual mother. I think it's just a sound that he makes. He occasionally repeats other small words over and over again, like "Ga-ga-ga-ga" or "Da-da-da-da," but again, I don't see any evidence that he connects those sounds with the concept of dad or grandma or anything else. He seems to just be babbling. My wife, on the other hand, usually pretends that he's trying to say "dada" or "grandma." The last time I brought up the possibility of his being autistic, she got extremely angry, and we had a bit of an argument.
I honestly don't know what to do, because I want to get our son in front of a specialist, but can't get my wife to allow it. Even if the boy isn't autistic, I feel like it's smart to check. But she just insists that I'm seeing what I want to see and blames me for not giving him enough credit.
But even if she's right, wouldn't it still be smart to at least get him checked out?
Hi any updates
may this is due to excessive amount of screentime. there is somthing called virtual autism. try to stop screen time completely and take the kid outdoor and see.
@@xsisax hi how is ur son doing now.. How many months
That’s me and my husband
same symptoms as our son. You must get it checked by Doctor please.
Thank you for sharing! Super cute.
Thank you for sharing. Beautiful connection between the 2 of you.
omg, thank you so much! ❤️ I’m glad you enjoyed the video!❤️🤟
God bless you. There aren’t a lot of people who could remain so positive and loving when met with rejection on a daily basis. I wish you and Eli the best.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Thank you 🙏, from the bottom of my heart ❤️
Lol you come here. He is living his best life. You are doing a fantastic job embracing his autism and who he is. He is lucky to have you for his Momma 💕🌈
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ They keep changing in different ways and I’m excited to learn them and help them become the people they want to be one day😊 I hope we can be the happy family that makes hover balloon crafts together one day!
You look so young but strong you are doing a great job with your beautiful babies.
god bless you and your beautiful family!
Thank you for this Video, I now know! God bless anyone and all but for this post, specifically the ones who experience/have or and know someone with Autism
My son will do the same things. He definitely flaps and spins when he is overstimulated. He also will lay down like your son did and look at the wheels of a car or something like that. I thought it was unique to him! It's good to see others are in the same boat as us! New subscriber here! Can't wait to check out more of your videos.
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
I love it, "different does not mean wrong". Thank you. 😊
Just finding your videos. You are clearly an awesome and intuitive mom to amazing kids!! Thank u for your story.
my son was diagnosed a month ago (18 months) and already has PT, OT and speech coming to our house. He is growing and gaining skills everyday. He is so social and looks at us right in our eyes now which makes me happy cry. He stims by flapping when he's exciting, waving objects near his eyes and he clenches his jaw. He also wants to smell everything lol!
Just like my son. Everything you said. They are so beautiful. Happy tears 😭
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Different is beautiful.
Thank you for this video, it's very helpful especially the eye contact segment. What a beautiful boy you have :)
More power and strength to you mommy lots of good energy from me to u and little boy...
How can someone dislike this video? It’s so real, informative and loving ❤️ thank you for sharing!
awe, thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed the video!!❤️
@pateckaaron7013 I’m not comfortable with the adds from this to be continuously posted on my videos. I do not condone ANY unstudied formula or supplement for curing or treating Autism, and I think it is preying on parents to pander to newly diagnosed families who maybe aren’t aware of how dangerous this can be.
@@louderthanwordsInclusivityYou could see these spam comments about herbs for autism. They are just not helpful.
Your son is adorable! I love that you just let him play in the mud and get dirty and have fun. Some of his behaviors remind me a LOT of my nephew. He doesn't have an official diagnosis yet, but he's working with a speech pathologist, as he's 2 1/2 and hasn't picked up on words yet. When he gets really excited, he pumps his arms and grinds his teeth and then goes over to his favorite silky pillow and squishes it really hard, and then pats it and gives it a kiss. 😂 It's been really interesting to learn different ways to communicate with him and engage him as much as possible. Thank you for sharing your and Yi's journey. 🤍🤍
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
So glad I have found your channel. 🤍
You are such a good mom ❤
You are such a good mommy ❤️
Thanks. Thanks. God bless
This just popped up on my recommendations. I have a 26 month old. I just wanted to say its great that you are posting these. My son had a speech delay i was researching autism a couple months ago for early signs and although i am not concerned about my son habing autism anymore but when i was researching there was not enough real life people out there sharing their experiences. I think people are scared to expose what their children are going through, but you are spreading awareness and showing its okay if your children are diagnosed .You are a strong woman and a great mom!! Good luck with your channel i think you will do great if you document his journey as he gets older☺️
Wow, Thank you so much for your kind words and support!
It really means a lot to know that this channel really is starting to help other families.
I can definitely understand why families would not want to show their children’s struggles, in fact I aim not to as well.
I don’t consider his delays as struggles to be overcome necessarily, but just his current abilities and limitations, which changes the way he goes about his daily life, but these things don’t take away from his happiness at all.
I am very careful not to show the parts or share the parts that are particularly vulnerable areas, such as meltdowns, toilet training struggles, and emotionally distressing moments, etc. although those are reality, those are things I feel can be portrayed just as well through a conversation of the topic as a whole rather than focusing in on my sons specific struggle in those areas. All of the things we discuss and show here are typically the overall Delays, therapies, play, stims, his personality, and fun times. I really want to help families understand that there is much more to it than struggles, and that even if it looks different, there is also love and play and fun and personality just as any other child, and there is plenty of fun to be had!
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My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
Such a lovely boy ♥️
You’re such a good mom. My son has an appointment to be tested for autism. He just turned 2 last week. I was devastated thinking he may be autistic, I don’t even really now what it is. Thanks for sharing
awe, I am sorry you are going through such intense emotions dealing with the unknown❤️ I hope you always feel free to reach out to me if you ever have any questions, or just want some support.
My Instagram is linked in the video and you can private message me there or comment to me on here any time.
Wishing you and your son lots of love and best wishes🤟
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I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
He so cute omg an my daughter loves watching him play
Just found this Chanel. I’m a mum of autistic twins. They are 7. Both still mute. I’m so happy I’ve found you 💕
awe! I bet they are precious!! my little brothers are twins, and girl I cannot imagine! mine are close in age, but there’s nothing like having twins❤️
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity thanks for taking the time to reply! Yes twins, Archie and Evie. They are great kids, honest amazing they are….. but very very hard work. Two kids near same age is kinda like twins really! X
Thank You for making this video my son also spins in circles and has grown in 2 it ur boys are Beautiful God Bless You Guys
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video related to it with your son too!❤️
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Thanks for the information 🥰. I'm learning daily 🙏
New subscriber so happy I found you guys you such a beautiful gorgeous loving caring family so excited to follow your journey you have the cutest boys in the world hope your all well 💕🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Oh my goodness thank you so much!! That means the world to hear such sweet words!
We are so glad to have you here and look forward to sharing this journey with you!❤️
Y’all stay safe and happy in all the craziness going on in the world!❤️🤟
Ty this helped me a lot. As my child is two years old and is verbal and we were going to start a first early intervention. They asked me about the pacing and steming and my child only does it a little. So I feel this video really helps me to understand autism more as a mom. I for now have only one child and thinking of having more and need to know more info about child autism.
Honestly, as a mum of a 2 year old that was really interesting to see. Thank you for sharing that with us. My son is not autistic (at least I don't think so), but it's still interesting to see how different children are. There is a little boy, the same age as mine, living in the same appartment building as we are. I think he might be autistic. Watching your son was like watching him. But I'm no doctor and definitley don't want to diagnose him. It's just an observation.
I’m glad you found it interesting!
That’s why I made that actually, because I had never seen another child like mine until I saw a child a the therapy clinic that was diagnosed, and that’s when it clicked that he really likely was autistic (we already were waiting for his eval, but I was still thinking that it was just a delay and unique traits)-I very much wanted to put this out there so that another parent like me at that weird place before knowing can also see another child like theirs, especially since modern parenting can be so competitive, and it can feel like you’re doing something wrong when one of your children just aren’t meeting the milestones, despite doing things the same.
He is going on 6 now, and is still very similar, but he will mimic a word here and there or phrase like, “happy birthday” when he sees us bringing groceries in (bagged items) or handing items to each other or eating pastries, and he has much more interaction now, as far as pulling us where he needs and such things.
There definitely are other things that can cause a presentation similar to autism, however Autism seems to be the most common cause of such a presentation regarding disabilities, at least most commonly diagnosed.
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
Wants to play the trumpet, it looks and sounds like. Perhaps he has a musical deep love of interest into music. Thank you for sharing an educautional good example 🦋🌿. Im glad I dont remember my early days and even now is unpleasent, some people care for life 🌱🌿 and some dont🍃🍂. Different is not wrong, more awairness on autism isnt always welcome, tho should be, Im grateful to know just how differance such as autism is and is percieved in society.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Thank you soooooooo much. I needed this Video. You explained everything so well and made it very easy to identify things I know for sure my child does equally.
I haven’t posted in a few months, but there is an updated one for 3 years old on my page somewhere as well if you think that would be helpful ❤️ I plan on doing a video going more into detail about the signs he showed and when, I have had post Covid syndrome and been really sick for several months but hopefully will be back posting sometime after the first of the year, so if you have any questions I can try to help❤️
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
my niece is turning two and she has autism and whoa the similarities are striking!
This is so helpful, my son acts exactly the same and I was in denile about his potential autism but thankyou for this video, it has helped me learn & embrace my sons differences and aslong as they're happy thats all that matters. Both gorgeous boys 💙💙 you're a fantastic mother x
Hello here supporting your channel thanks for sharing this video
Thanks for watching!❤️❤️
Such a cute little boy. Seems to me he's avoiding not only eye contact, but also joint attention. Even without eye contact, if you find a way to promote JA that can help him a lot with his learning
Thank you for sharing this video I'm new to this and I believe my son has autism
Wow our sons are almost identical in their mannerisms and characteristics
He is 6 now turning 7 this year, he is still very similar but has lots of new little things now too!
Eli acts identical to my son who is the same age Eli was in this video. I've never seen a child so similar.
I went to an Autism Meet up last year where we brought our kids for play dates, and I met this little boy who was EXACTLY like Eli, like down to the stims and demeanor and everything, lol, so I definitely know the feeling!
Lovely kid. I love kid. Good information sharing . New friend . Please keep in touch .
Thanks for watching!! So glad you enjoyed the video❤️🤟
Same experience here
great video louder then words autism i have autism
I am a first time mother with a 2.5 year old child waiting for a doctor appointment to talk about my son speech delays.this is very useful clip to get an understanding about this spectrum.he is very lucky to have you as a mother...
my concerns are for my son
lining up toys speech delays (making sentences) he use words not sentences
I am bit worried but I hope I'll get better soon.
I am so glad you found this video helpful, and thank you so much!
I am sorry you are dealing with these concerns and not knowing with you child, and I hope you find the answers you are looking for soon!
You and your family are in my thoughts❤️
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
My son Cameron is four and just loves running and ripping out grass and throwing it.
It sounds like our kids would have no problem getting along😂❤️
…good job mama. #mompower 🚺⚡️
Chris Ulmer of SBSK would love to see you
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I'm 2 years old mother...same symptoms having my daughter...it makes me very nervous...first I have see pediatrician...thank you for your video....
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Hi how is ur daughter doing now..
My son displays these actions in ways especially the fast spinning 😭🤣. I’ve had doubts for about a year & he’s been in speech therapy my mother doesn’t think he has it bc he says select words but as his mom I feel it’s something they’re not paying close attention to
please reapond how s ur son now
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on UA-cam and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons autism. speech and social skill has improved till now
My two year old son run around,stim,have about 5 words in vocabulary,he has a tongue tie have appointment to check it out,he holds my hands and bring me to things he wants. I AM SO SCARED I AM NOT DOING THE RIGHT THING FOR MY SON,someyimes i get so depressed
it sounds like you are a very observant and loving mom❤️ I hope you find all the answers you are looking for but in the mean time, don’t ever doubt yourself because you are doing what’s best for your baby ❤️
Eli acts exactly like my 26 month old daughter we just had her first speech class today and they think she has autism. Glad we caught it early so I can research and better learn how to help her before our second child arrives in November
Im seeing the same behavior in my son. He just started speech as well
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on UA-cam
My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before
Woooww mines do all of that..
Hmm I also have a child who is autistic and we are using the nemechek protocol which is helping a lot.My son now is aware of his environment and now speaks in short sentences.He even comes to welcome me when I come from work and ask me how I am.Pls try it and see a big improvement in your sons life.
We are working closely with his team of professionals to provide h all the supports needed for his individual needs and developmental growth❤️
I’m so glad to hear y’all’s approach works well for y’all as well!
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on UA-cam
My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before
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Hi love your videos you are an awesome mom, does Eli speaks now?
He is beginning to mimick a few words and phrases, but he still can’t communicate his needs verbally (he is 6) and is beginning to use a speech device and having success with the speech device so far
New subscriber.
He reminds me a lot of my son. He's 17 months and was diagnosed today with autism.
My son sometimes does not look at me when I call his name. But usually he does. He can speak like all other babies. What about your child can you plz tell me.
That's WAY WAY to young. Wait till he is 3 until then just enjoy mommy vill 😁
@@SanaNazari-oq2po my son doesn't respond at all to his name.
And he can also not speak exept babbling. And he says mama rarely. That's not normal for a almost 2 year old. He also Stems a lot, he gets over stimulated extremely easy. It's not way way to early. And I'll always enjoy my child.
18 months is when the M CHAT should first be Done for a pre evaluation for ALL children, and if the MCHAT shows red flags, then they should be referred for Autism evaluation, as well as therapies because if you fail the MCHAT then delays are already present, and even in the absence of Autism, therapy can help them catch up and give them need3d support.
also, autism evals often have LONG wait lists, and getting a referral at 18 months and placed on a waitlist will often result in testing around 3 years old anyway due to the long wait.
If there are concerns, waiting until 3 means any time for early intervention, the biggest game changer, is now gone, and is why they are beginning earlier testing, as research shows earlier diagnosis greatly increases the success rates of children, and the likelihood of children moving levels.
The worst thing that could happen if you get your child seen for concerns early if they aren’t actually autistic, is that they get them extra help and realize that the child is not autistic, and out those fears to rest for the parent. There is no “too early”, as there aren’t negative consequences for letting a professional evaluate a child.
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My baby stay doing that
The cutest thumbnail. 💚
Awe! Thank you!❤️😊
I have a 2 year old that does the exact stuff as Eli. They haven't diagnosed him with autism yet until he is 3 but he is enrolled with the regional center for therapy twice a week my only son and it does break me😢
Mona words have more power than you think. When people ask if he's autistic just say I doubt it. If you truly feel he is believe it or not he can be delivered. Look up Richard Lorenzo ( Roc church) or Pastor Richard Lorenzo)
Well whether it is autism or not, the fact that they are already getting support they need is great! If they do get diagnosed with it, then just remember that it is identifying a neurology that is already present, to help equip you and the medical and educational system with the knowledge to meet their needs!
I know that there is more to it than that, but just take things one day at a time.❤️
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity Thank you for the advice I think that in about 1 or 2 more years I might be flying to Virginia Beach for magnetic e therapy....
@@julianrichy5830 Lorenzo yes I saw his videos . He's really good
My autistic sons name is Eli🥰
Hi brilliant video. My son does everything on this video. Its 100% him , I'm just really sacred and nervious about how it will effect his life when he is older. How is you son doing now ? Does it have a huge impact on his life now ? X
he is nearing 4 years old now (he was 2.5 ish I believe in this video) and his needs have changed a lot, some things have improved in amazing ways, some things have gotten more difficult, just like with all kids, only in our case the “things” that get better and more difficult are much different.
While he is still non verbal and is showing severe receptive delay (some non verbal kids can understand language well but struggle to express the language themselves, Yi struggle more with understanding language, which clearly will affect his ability to express language) however in the past 6 months, he has exploded with this new awareness, he is aware of and interested in his surroundings, in me depending on his mood and whether there are people around overwhelming him, he wants to communicate, he grabs my finger and drags me behind him, things that he was so far from 6 months ago.
He is starting to try to play in his own way with his brother, running in circles with each other.
He can now jump and has begun imitating and copying things, like throwing a basketball, trying to use a shovel to dig, and wiping his face with a napkin.
And while his sensory issues have increased, and his Self injurious behaviors and elopement, these things are to be expected with development in his situation. it is overwhelming to go from being withdrawn into yourself to engaging in such a busy world and we are just working through things one day at a time.
I do want to express that Yi has been in therapy since 8 months old, and it took up until this year for there to be some really big gains. Our biggest goal now is to help him to use his AAC, but I am more than great full for the relationship we are building now that he is interacting with me on a different level and it really makes the past 3 years of OT, PT and Speech and researching worth it.
Sorry for such an in depth response lol. I just know that at the point I made that video last year, while of course I was happy with him and who he was and is, it was becoming really.. sad I guess, and worrisome, to think that these years of therapies had passed with such little gains in areas he needs be able to survive, like physical reflexes, awareness, joint attention, fine motor skills, etc. And after over 2 years with little developmental growth, I began to wonder how much there would be. And then all of his interacting and reaching out just sprung out of no where after years.
So if this is a path your family ends up going down, just know the scariest part is the beginning, so much is unknown. Don’t let the worry overtake you too much❤️
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity My son just turned 14yrs old and the spinning, crashing into the couch, toe walking, I remember thinking will he ever be able to walk without looking like he's a helicopter thats about to crash? I can confirm, that yes he most definitely can and does. His interest are very restricted but the few that he does have, he puts all the sensory seeking energy into.
His older sister didn't spin but hand flapped and although was considered verbal, she experiences periods of mutism (she shuts down/burns out). When verbal her speech was (still can be) disjointed. At 16, if she starts to go off topic, I can (anyone for that matter) remind her to stay focused. As far as shutting down/burnout, puberty is very tough in autistic girls and we are starting to come down that hill. It's been a tough few years but , she was finally able to verbalize just enough for me to begin to understand what was going on, what would trigger it and although everyday we are both still learning, I can finally say that the empty, hard to describe feeling that something was "missing" isn't constantly in my head. Learning when to push and when not to has brought her and my son closer than I ever thought possible. She may not let me hug her and give her kisses like her yougeat sister or brother (I think the sensory seeking helped with hugs ect) but when she text me a few months ago and said "Momma, I don't think Ive ever said this but I appreciate you very much" I starting crying, Only a parent to an Autistic child can understand how emotional and powerful hearing that can/could be. It was HUGE for her (being able to put something like that into words and then share it with me ) it was the first thing she ever said to me without promting. (I don't tell my kids to say "I love you" not do I force eye contact)
Long story short my 2 oldest are Autistic/ Sensory and my youngest NT (different dad) I worry about all 3 the same, having an NT child gaurentees us nothing and everyone shows love in different ways but they all feel the same.
I've learned more from my kids than I will ever be able to reach them.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs
His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on UA-cam
My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before
Gosh i see my son.
What activities do you play with him?
Hi, nice to meet you
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My baby is 2 and he doesn't want to get touched by others, does flapping and sometimes get excited too.....I am very worried since last week...he does limited eye contact and doesn't socialize with other kids....
Hi how is ur little one doing now
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Wow my son is 20 months and acts just like him. 🥺 I’m not in denial anymore. I always felt like my son wasn’t normal.
Define Normal.
It's seeming to be that the neurodivergent community is what's normal, I feel Neurotypical people are the ones that aren't right, hidden meanings behind the sentences they may speak instead of direct 'blunt' communication, forced eye contact, if you have non verbal days they near force you to speak, the ability to not have a sensory overload when theres too much going on at once I think it's abnormal of people to withstand endless amounts of visual, auditory and physical overstimulation and not have a slight if not full meltdown after a bit 😅 I mean I'm autistic and I feel like even though I'm pretty alien like or considered 'ecentric' 'never met anyone like me' I can describe things very accurately and so descriptively that people literally can picture exactly what I'm saying, to the point they laugh to themselves like "what the heck I love your brain like you just took me there so vividly" lol there are things that you probably would consider not normal but in my case, I'm surrounded by neurodivergent people, family, friends.. just everywhere and I look around and think well I think the normal people are outnumbered now so that would technically make us neurodivergent folk the normal ones now lol
Sorry about the life story and rambling, I'm AuDHD (autistic/ADHD) that's 2 of 10 of my diagnoses, that's another con, the comorbidities
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
To help him reach his best potential you should look into the GAPS protocol - this completely altered the course of my son's life, the first week or 2 are hard... OK they are hell - but I would go through that 10 times over for the benefit and amazing progress my son made.
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
Did he start avoiding a lot of foods ? Sorry if it's a weird question
Yes, he eventually stopped eating and now only gets his nutrients from a pediasure mixture from a baby bottle
Lol I just said that.. I be so scared
My son will turn 2 next month. He is not talking at all. Random baba, mama, dada that's it. He responds to his name 8 out of 10 times, waves his hand, know 1 or 2 body parts, do ringa ringa roses and some other stuff. But what I noticed is, he does exact same thing in the video from 4.22 to 4.55. I am really concerned about him. I have attended 1st session of speech therapy for parents but he is not at all interested in learning because whenever he wants something, he holds our hand n take us to the thing he wants or points sometimes. Sorry for the long post.
What are you doing for him? Any therapy ? I am going through same
He goes to day care, plays there but no improvement in terms of speech. We have taken appointment next month for speech therapy session. Will go to pediatrician also for his evaluation next month. He ll be 2 years old.
he has been in Physical therapy since 8 months old, Speech since 14 months old and OT since March 2020, and while we also were doing the Special Education Preschool Program with our district for 3 year olds, we did pull him out due to several issues we were having in our situation. We work with AAC and homeschool and interact as much as we can.
I hope all goes well and you guys find the answers y’all are looking for❤️
How does he do on the MCHAT? www.autismspeaks.org/screen-your-child
@@dishant92 hi how is ur son doing now..
My daughter is like that..I really have a difficult time letting her sleep at night..any tip?
Honestly my son has some big sleep issues, and we are still struggling. We use melatonin but it doesn’t help keep him from waking up and he may eventually need medicine it it stays at this severity so I do not have tips lol we haven’t found a solution ourselves❤️
Sorry I can’t be of more help!
Children without autism also spin round and enjoys when they fall
I don’t think the video said they didn’t. The main difference is that these are things that were done for hours and hours, something that is not considered typical play especially when combined with other things.
This video did not say anything about any of these being signs of Autism-this video is literally just an Autistic child playing.
Also, even actual signs of Autism as well as other disabilities could also be related to “well other kids do that”.
Of course they do. It is not like these are not humans we are talking about. The thing that makes the behavior or action atypical is often the way it is done, duration, intensity, etc.
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity ok got it
Lol mines climb everything and spin in circles
Hows he doing now.?
He is doing great! He is 5.5 now, and he has more interaction, he still doesn’t have a reliable method of functional communication developed but he is beginning to mimic some words, he is coming along in his own time🥰
My son does every single
Thing your son does that’s crazy
Mine too.. other videos of autism signs does not relate to my son. But in comparison of yi noticed almost all my son does.
My 2 year old plays the same way but my doctor thinks she doesn’t have autism but I believe she does.
Hi how s she soon now any updat
@@ezhilarasimarimuthu9092 yes she’s fine just had late development
Just came across your video and I know it’s old but I really need some help my son just turned 2 in feb he doesn’t talk at all and he does have autism I am a young mom of soon to be 5. It’s so hard to find stuff about autism on line or even moms who have sons with autism I am literally at lost I have so many question and I feel so alone sometimes. I never even knew anything about autism until his pediatrician said it and most of my info had to be from google. I would appreciate if anybody sees this message and messages me back .
Feel free to message me on Instagram if you would like to, my link is in the description of this video ❤️ I will help however I can.
There are also a lot of groups on Facebook you can join where you can talk to other parents dealing with similar things, dinos and nuggets is one that I like the person who runs it is an autistic mom of an Autistic child. There are a lot more I can recommend to you too if you would like❤️
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity thank you so much I’ll send you a message on ig I could really use some support
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity I tried to click your link to add you on ig it says link unavailable
@@EricaELove786 I’ll fix it and get you the link sorry about that! Not sure what happened!
@@EricaELove786 Instagram: instagram.com/louderthanwordsautism
Please try aac
We have been working with AAC since 14 months old
We have been working with modified sign for over 2 years as well as PECS, and we also model a speech device in and out of therapy.
Unfortunately he has not been very responsive to AAC so far but I know he will pick it up as he has developed amazing physical communication this past month or two
You make good sense but you also talk a lot LOL before getting into it
Lol I know you should have heard it before I edited it. I have like thoughts that seem good, but then putting them into words is not nearly as graceful-I am working on that 🤣
I am not the best at making videos, idk what else to say
How is he now? What age is he?
He is turning 6, he is still mostly non verbal but is beginning to get some echolalia and words for labeling, just not for communicative purposes, he also can use a yes no touch chart sometimes for communication, he also cannot follow simple one step directions quite yet, he still is globally delayed and does not interact with other children outside of his brother, and it is not in a playful or typical way
But, he also has so much more awareness and interaction with his family, he has more of an interest in being with us, and he is experiencing more and more things. He is still disabled and always will be, but he is also coming along and growing and progressing and becoming a sweet young man lol.
We also have found out since this video that he has 5 genetic variants, several of which are associated with autism, one causes CDLS, the NIPBL gene, which commonly causes autism as well as other symptoms he has (slow growth, IDD, chronic vomiting and severe feeding issues, raynauds, etc).
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity thank you so much for sharing this. Hes very similar to my 2.5 year old
I wish you all the best
Climbing on things is austism? No hate but that looks like a normal boy thing.
I didn’t say any of this WAS Autism, my son has severe Autism and this was how he played at 2, which developmentally is delayed and repetitive, the climbing maybe not so much I just thought it was cute lol.
He is 4 now there is a more recent video because he has changed a lot but he is still non verbal and the overall developmental age equivalent of a 19 month old-some of these things just in the few seconds may be normal, but for example he will sit in one spot staring at wheels spin for 3 hours straight when this was filmed and if you interrupt it he would self harm. So some of these things that may be normal when not done so excessively or repetitively become different when you take into account this is ALL he does-for example we removed all the furniture out of the room last year because he climbed so much so often, would leap off things without safety awareness, had a lack of reflexes so did not protect himself with his hands, and he squeezed behind furniture from proprioceptive obsessively and got stuck on a regular basis-in this scenario it goes beyond what is typical and this was the best I could convey that in a 7 minute video
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
It’s sad how you all are embracing Autism and saying your child doesn’t need to be cured or changed. It’s not normal. Your child isn’t living a normal life and will forever be affected by this and you won’t always be around to care for him. So why pretend like it’s ok and deny your sons the help they need to change this? I will never wish this on my worst enemy and I have a child on the spectrum.
No one said deny them help? Getting your children the help they need and accepting your children for who they are are not mutually exclusive.
Autism is many different things. The symptoms that effect him negatively are just a part of that and of course needs treatment and supports. In fact all of my videos mention somewhere about early intervention, therapies, I even have videos SHOWING People our Speech and Occupational therapies.
But him having Autism doesn’t mean that he is not amazing the way he is. Him playing with the wheels of his career rather than driving it around doesn’t mean that I should stop him from spinning his wheels when he clearly enjoys it just because it is not “typical”.
And while it is of course important to get early interventions and supports, it is equally important for the parent to also embrace their child’s differences and accept and love them in who they are.
No matter how much you may want a cure, active studies to find one have been long gone because they realized that a cure doesn’t and cannot exist As it is genetic- so the supports and therapies need to be followed by a parent that is accepting and accommodating-because even with differences, disabilities and struggles, they are still just as valuable and the goal is not to change every single thing that is different about them due to their disability
I suggest you look further into my channel and ask questions before making such a large assumption based off of a video. I drive 4 hours a day to get one of my sons to the best intensive outpatient therapy clinic in the state, my other son is in OT Several times a week, speech several times a week, PT and pt OT co treat, feeding therapy. They have multiple specialists and we have appointments every day of the week most weeks sometimes multiple. My sons get plenty of help. I started this channel to help people with information about how to help their kids with things like therapy
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs
People need to calm down on labeling children with things. All children develop at their own pace. And it isn't a race.
Stop comparing and realize times have changed and people as a whole communicate differently and have way less human interactions throughout a day.
We have changed as a society, broken family structures. And we blame the child and label them with something that is more or less a negative label.
Stop.
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity I was not directing this comment at you. You need some rest.
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity get some rest
I actually will be making a video addressing this exact topic, if you would like to become a bit more educated in the future as well ❤️
How many 💉has he had?
He has 5 genetic variants, including NIPBL (Cornelia De Lange) which is being studied by SPARK for Autism. He is not up to date on his vaccines, a decision we made in conjunction with his ped due to his multiple genetic variants.
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity that is not what I meant. I don't mean how many he gotvor is getting for a possible treatment. I meant how many of the standard issued 💉before the diagnostic of autism. Example the vitamin k shot immediately after birth that hospitals tend to push and give as routine then when you go to the doctor he 1month or 2 later they push another then another than another etc.
My son was born 2 years ago and he still can't talk, he did receive vitamin k shot only. I didn't know that the vitamin k shot is not a vitamin, it is actually a synthetic drug meant to coagulate the blood for excessive bleeds(original intent).
This not a normal shot and there is very little info on ingredients and side effects of this.
@@mynamemylastname7179 no I’m saying we delayed vaccines due to his complex medical profile
@@mynamemylastname7179 he didn’t get hep b, or the others at birth,
@@louderthanwordsInclusivity what about the vitamin k shot, that synthetic shot is suppose to coagulate the blood after birth so that they don't have excessive bleeds. This shot actually goes to the brain passing through the brain barrier that regulates the bood circulation to the brain (it is not suppose to go past the brain barrier). Therefore synthetic matarial of the shot reaches the brain.
Have you spoken with a specialist doctor about the possible side effects of this shot. Normal doctors won't say or admit that this or any other shot is a possible cause of anything.