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Hello from France! Sun and SUGAR make your skin aging faster there is studies demonstrating it. Thank for your advices one did really help me: Dividing myself in 2 the boss and the task archiver, since that I did get out of my procrastination!
For a man, I feel like that late 20's into 30 is where we start to mature and really work on ourselves. For me, I was at my rock bottom from 25-29 as I worked a minimum wage job, had a gf that didn't have as much drive as me and we only saw each other as roommates, and had parents who were constantly worrying how I would live life. I studied my ass off during those years because I knew I was the only one who could change the course and outcome of my life. Now, I am a software engineer, making money my parents dreamed of and it's just the beginning. If anyone is out there, especially as a man, who is feeling alone and struggling, know that I've/we've been there and possibly still there, and it's okay. What's not okay is to push off that feeling of "I gotta make a move". Start today, right now. No excuses. We got this💪
I think there's alot of truth in that. People expect to have it figured out by the time they get out of highschool or college. Reality is, it takes MUCH longer.
Summary: 1. Start investing sooner both in your relationships and your skills 2. Stop telling so many lies 3. Skip college or at a minimum simply learn how to learn on your own 4. Cultivate your inner circle with intention and care 5. Put on that sunscreen I still highly recommend watching the video in its entirety as it contains valuable information and insights that cannot be fully captured in this summary You got this man..
@Darren yeah I think this is very dependent on details If you learn accounting or engineering or medicine or law or something, that's practical Even not learning something practical is fine, but I feel like a lot of people end up going to college just because it's what everyone else is doing
@@Neonb88 ur right i think it should start with highschool learning more practical self learning , philosophy and creativity , not even just financial literacy but just say hey its going to be tough guys after this, but you’ll be ok!
Hell yeah. Society expects us to have it all figured out well by the time we are 18 or 20, be in a good career and making tons of money. Especially now in the Instagram age, everybody thinks that you should have multi million dollar success by the age of 22 or 23! And they treat you like you’re nothing if you don’t. But I think it’s much more realistic to understand that we’re going to bump around a lot and go through some pretty tough times in our 20s, and often in our 30s as well!
I am there as well and I wonder where people are. It just seems like a strange time of existence, we are all siloed away on our own. Everyone is in a completely different place. Friends I grew up with have a family of their own now. I'm single and in my own world.
I just turned 21 and honestly this video was exactly what I needed. Ever since I started college I've felt incredibly lost. It's like trying to get to a destination with no map and with everyone pointing you in a direction you're slowly beginning to realize is the hardest, longest route to where you want to be. My ahdh brain has been a scramble mess, but I've been slowly learning the game these past two years and getting more confident at it. The part about investing in relationships and cultivating your inner circle really struck a cord with me. Problem is when you realize all these important things extremely early on, you're thinking on a whole different wavelength than a large majority your peers and it can get pretty darn lonely. I don't think it's something talked about very often, but eh, honestly what do I know? I'm still figuring it out as I go. Keep the great vids coming!
I just turned 21 went to college for 2 years and felt this exact same feeling. So far ahead of everyone i was around and it’s so lonely. I ended up dropping out and could not be happier working a career in real estate with people 30/40/50 years old who want to help and think the same way i do.
I really appreciate you sharing a part of your story, Alison. You're so much further ahead on your journey than I was at your age. That's for sure. I didn't start thinking about many of these topics until yeaaars later. Keep it up!
Something you may have not considered is when you were in your 20's, the access to educational resources (such as Google, UA-cam, and just the WW web in general) was vastly constrained compared to what we take for granted today in 2022. Today we have access to all the knowledge mankind has ever acquired literally in the palm of our hand that anyone can call up 24x7x365. Today's youth cannot conceive of how much time and effort and money it took in the 70's and 80's to obtain knowledge on any topic, and when you actually did find something it was more often than not out-of-date. But, even with all that learning power there for the taking, totally free of charge, it still takes a positive and proactive attitude and hundreds of hours of work and dedication and actual participation to obtain a payoff for the future.
This is a great point. My dad and I talk frequently about the fact that if he'd had access to knowledge and resources I have back in the 80s, his life would've played out fundamentally differently. We're blessed to be living during this time and to have access to the opportunities we do.
Funnily enough even though I agree with this sentiment, I usually counter with the statement that the vast amount of knowledge available to my generation also makes it easier to get "analysis by paralysis". Before the internet age, the problem was getting information. In today's era, the problem is getting the RIGHT INFORMATION. Also, the technology in this generation also saps the attention span of the youth as companies make sure that their fancy algorithms make sure that you are glued to your screens. So yes, that does not discount the amount of hard, smart and consistent work to achieve certain things.
@@yangcoatienza3273 I agree with your comments. The pursuit of knowledge in today's internet age means we also have to remain keenly aware of the non-stop onslaught of gypsies, tramps, thieves, and trolls coming for our money, resources, and security. That can be a challenge for sure, but rest assured it gets easier as you get older (and wiser).
There is also a huge amount of distraction that comes with unlimited internet access. It can be hard to actually filter out the useful information and take action.
I'm 30 and still live at home. I lied a lot to my self, but I am fixing myself. I made a few of the mistake you made and I'm now learning to copy-write too. I read 50 pages a day on writing and write 1k+ words a day. Been doing this for a week, and I enjoy it. The last few months so many part of my ego died, and I've come to realize and overcome so much trauma and defense mechanism and self-delusions. I have no network and for the first time since a decade I feel really lonely. Like I feel it physically. But maybe I'll make something of myself, although it's rough to believe with my track record.
Hey man, I'm turning 31 next month and on the EXACT same boat! Ego, self delusion, defense mechanisms and justifications. Let's do this and turn things around.
I'm nearly in my 20's and your second regret feels absolutely like me. I'm planning on facing and exposing my insecurities directly from now so I can change and get help
I'm in my mid twenties. I can relate so much man. The thing about lying blew me away. I have lied so much over last 3 years. Also the relationship investment thing is so true. I need to work on this. You are a true gem to share this. Thank you Anthony!
As somone who is entering their 20s I appreciate this video! I especially liked how you touched on investing in your learning and picking up skills outside of the college setting!
Wow man, I'm 18 and the idea of wasting my 20s as always scared me. So far I've never found a video which explained the whole picture and not just one part of life. Thank for making this now I know what to change and what to keep doing.
For me the idea of wasting my 20s never seemed like it was a thing and now that I am 35 honestly I don't feel like I wasted them per say but it's hard to explain I feel like a lot of stuff that happened in my 20s was nessary to help Me become the person I am right now and to be where I am in life.
Also a piece of advice I have for is no mater how hard life is for you in the moment unless it kills you. Permentally disables you in some way or puts you in jail/prison there is always hope for you to improve your life no mater what life throws at you. Good or bad.
Thank you! I’m 25 and I’ve been feeling really down lately but this really did help! One thing for me is I’ve always been rushed in life, told that I don’t have time I need to figure it out in my 20s so I can live the rest of my life financially free but hearing your story is inspiring.
Nah, don't let anybody stress you out and feel rushed. One of the mottos I live my life by: "Never rush. Never be rushed." Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast. Just keep moving forward, brother. That's truly all that matters.
@@Terrydon I’m 22 and currently regretting not partying and having fun in my teens. Don’t make the same mistake I did. You’ll never be young again and you may not see your friends ever again once they start getting jobs or go to university, so enjoy it while you can. That being said, don’t do drugs or drink excessively as that may hurt your future.
Psyched you found the channel, Zain. Listen, you're young, so don't stress out too much about making the wrong decisions or doing things you'll regret. Life is long and you've got time to figure it all out. Don't be afraid to get out there and make some mistakes!
Subscribed just off this video alone. I’m 23 and I act like 43 is what people tell me. I care about my education in my hands, I work at a good job and department and learning so many skills alone in my 20’s while my “friends” are out partying and drinking and going to the club every weekend. I’m building the foundation of my life young so I can enjoy it later. Im investing 20% of my check and I have a 791 FICO score. Stay disciplined everyone !
Man you don't understand how much this post resonates with me. In my early 30s now and have so many regrets with going to college and wasting away my 20s. Been working on building up some dreams of mine and wished I did this sooner. Thank you!
4 days after my 30th birthday I had to move into my pickup truck, similar to you wondering how the hell did it all happen. There’s power in hitting rock bottom, there’s no where to go but up. Thanks for your story
I am 23 and want to thank you for this video... if young people really really really listen and take it in we can save ourselves alot of time and grief
I love that you just give a genuine advice here that is not just about making money, but also taking care of yourself. I wish I’ve learned some of these things in my early 20s, but itself great that there is information like this out there now and next generation can use it 😊
Thank you! If this can help just one 20 year old feel slightly better about where they are in life without feeling overwhelmed or like they're falling behind, then awesome! Mission accomolished.
I’m 29 and just figured out all this stuff this past like 8 months. I never had a plan or clear goals. I got married in my early 20s and have just been riding my husbands coattail while I figured stuff out. Last summer I grew tired of being stuck and making the same mistakes and jumping from job to job that I decided to go to college. Although I think college is a scam, it’s helped me tremendously with my self esteem, making clear goals, and being completely honest with myself. I’m sad that it took so long to get myself going, but so excited I’m finally going in what seems to be the right direction.
That's rad you were able to get those thngs out of college. Truthfully, I got a lot out of college as well (just not in the form of my degrees/traditional education). :)
Wow… life & social media are fucking crazy!!! Whenever we think about something, it magically appears on the internet. Just turned 25 & been going through life. Taking these words to heart. Thanks, bro.
Thank you for this video. I had a wasteful past especially in my late twenties but I see the world differently now. I am now on a mission to help younger people make good decisions for their lives. Thanks again
Genuine 👍💯. Just turned 28! You're so real. I have known what you're talking about since 23rd ish. I have been working very hard coz I have seen what you're talking about in my peers. I had to change lanes and it felt lonely for years and seeing this, I can relate. Thank you G!
Wow to be honest I’m impressed with this guy’s content, I’ve watched and listened to quite a few influencers, content creators and etc yet most of them seem to sugar coat things however it’s nice having someone around who’s going to tell you the honest truth even though it’s hard and a bit tough to swallow and do the actions
I loved my 20's. I spent it all on partying, girls, friends, movies, etc. I was so carefree and loved every moment of it. Career and money be damned. Now, in my late 30's, I landed a job with great pay (~300k). And building a side business as well. No regrets whatsoever.
I'm gonna be 25 this year. Last year was my toughest year yet, but now my mind is now the strongest it has ever been. That's why i'm up at 2 am improving my knowledge.
With wisdom comes the growing acceptance of who you are and what doesn’t work for you. One year of pure focus can trump five years of “fooling around” as they say. Which is really just learning lessons. Invest always.
made my plan at 16. 21now and can say it working out better than expected. All faults were worse than expected but through problems come solutions which comes chance which comes cost. You will be your best self when prepared
I am 21, and I have already made some very dumb decisions already. Instead of looking back and beating myself up about, the only thing I can use them as is learning lessons. This video really hit home, I feel very lost with so many things, as when it comes to a career should I go to school and where to take my first steps. I'm slowly taking my first steps, to change everything. And I can see things are starting to improve, I most definitely will keep watching.
Man my first job I got when I was 23. I know that was crazy but my work ethic got the attention of an engineer who needed help. (I was going to school at the time for engineering). The job is amazing. I'm an engineer now for the US government. Best job anyone can ask for. The dream everyone in my town wants and here I am.. now that I'm here I realize this isn't what I want. I'm 28 now. I am about to start my own business and hopefully I can pour all my energy into it and see it flourish. But everything this man says is true. Only reason I'm at where I'm at is because all the engineers I work for taught me things. My circle was strong. They're all millionaires because they have the side hustles. Sometimes I think about being 28 and getting older but I'm on my way. Just have to do what you have to do.
I'm 29 and really spent my 20s working and trying to make sure I didn't go against my family's wishes. Just work sleep repeat. I'm trying to break out of that. I really hope younger people are more bold about what they want actually going for it, never letting anyone talk them out of their goals.
Your story is one i needed ot hear. I am 23 and somehow was feeling like my life was over for one reason or another. Hearing how you turned yourself around in your late 20s really reoriented my perspective on how much I needed to have achieved by this point. I am better off building every day than worrying about whether I am too late or not.
@@AnthonyVicino thank you. I just went and bought some suncream hahah. I also really appreciate a certain authenticity you have. For me, it comee from how you wear the difficulty of your achievement on your sleeve. Your journey has taken its toll on you in a good way and you don't hide that. Please keep being like this!
@@cameronhughes9707 I really appreciate that, Cameron. Took me a long time to realize people often get more from the vulnerable parts of our stories rather than the stunning victories.
Alright, I usually avoid videos like this, and have been ignoring like self-improvement videos in general because I'm just don't wanna watch em anymore, and some people mix in "advice" that is not authentic and is entitled, kinda materialistic and stuff and but this was actually a good video, and I'm genuinely glad I watched it. People aren't machines and you don't need to be productive all the time, so much that you're miserable a lot and stop having fun, you should take it easy, and also, being busy isn't the same as being productive. Being authentic and not lying to yourself or other people, avoiding bad company and most importantly, wearing sunscreen, are all pretty good advice.
I dropped out of collage 8 month ago and life really feel boring and lonely. But this video just describe my early 20s mistakes i made in collagein 12 min except sunscreen my skin is the sun screen. This just become my top 5 youtube video of all time. THANK YOU
Some great insights given here and I definitely do have my fair share of regrets in my 20s as I am 29 now. I know I can still go and accomplish my goals. See you at the top brother! ;)
Your point on college is very true. University has this toxic effect of making people believe they will automatically be set for a great career. Reality is most degrees are a total waste of time except medical, engineering etc etc… I’m an example of this where half a decade of my life was wasted in one with another half a decade wasted afterwards. Easy to say now with hindsight I guess.
I'm about to be 24 in a couple of days and I don't know if it's too late for me to figure all this out but I'm kind of happy I did it either way , bittersweet feeling.
I'm 50 and I'm still full of regrets of the life I've been living. Now, I'm just trying not to have any regrets of the afterlife I'm gonna be living in.
My man. I spent over 5 years daily improving my situation. Now I’m healthy and am slowly living the life I want. I regret most of my life but now I can begin living it to the best of my abilities. I know how hard it is to go through life and to have regrets but fixing the situation slowly means that your experience of life will improve. Now that it feels good to be alive those time seem like a distant memory. The same will happen to you too.
I came across of your videos when I'm now learning the path to achieve the financial freedom you have now. These video's are motivating and inspirational. I'm now 20 and hope to achieve a lot in the next few years to come. Love from Japan.
Skipping University is a good idea if you’re only planning to go due to your parents or you just feel you have to follow the system. But, if you are craving for that education in a skill set you already pursue and love, it’s worth it 1000% It’s about the intention
I think most people waste their 20s and some 30s. I know when I was young I thought if a person worked hard they got good raises and promotions. I was naive about that. I was helping my parents financially and never thought they would be held against me. I thought people would think it was the right thing to do not take advantage of me acting like I don't need the money.
Dude I’m glad I found your channel. Can relate to you- I am in my 30’s and having gone to college and the degree I got (and spent the rest of my 20’s using) was barely enough for a living.
I'm 25 and I feel like you are describing me to a T (aside from the sunscreen lol). These harsh truths make me uncomfortable, yet hopeful at the same time, knowing I have the ability to change.
I regret a few things from my 20’s (mostly not managing my money correctly) but I figure that we do the best we can with what we know at that time. If we knew better, we would’ve done better. I’m 45 now and I’m sure in 10 or 15 years I’ll look back think there are some things I could’ve done better, but oh well. You live, you learn, and you evolve.
Anthony thanking you so much for sharing, My son is 16yrs old and I have been planting Personal Development from the age of 14yrs. Today his mindset is incrementally changing, this video is a Gem so down to earth experience which I know he will resonate with. Thank you again its Brilliant! 🤜💥🤛 Ned 😊👍
Thanks for sharing these. I felt like I “lost” a lot of my twenties due to a prescription medicine (taken as prescribed) which was slowly poisoning my brain (and body). 10 year injury in total (so far). And it’s so easy to look back and feel regret, anger, longing. But there’s still the time ahead. There’s still so much to be grateful for, and I feel very lucky in many ways. Not everyone makes it past their twenties. Not everyone has freedom. I think reflecting on past times and recognising our regrets also helps set the compass going forward too. So to anyone reading this who’s maybe felt regret…perspective and gratitude can be real game changers in finding peace, and finding the right path forward for you.
If you're young please listen to this genius, he took all of the words I have been preaching to people I care about out straight out of my mouth. We live in a world with countless opportunities but all we have to do is research and ACT! Good luck in your journey it is a process but one that will benefit yourself, those around you, and future generations!
1. Make a healthy family for yourself (spouse and children). Make this your top priority. Don't put it off to your 30s. 2. Establish self-care practices to sustain you through the ups and downs of life (physical, mental, spiritual practices). 3. Develop discipline (set short-& long-term goals, learn to persevere). Apply discipline to your finances & all life matters. 4. Make a lifelong habit to help/give/be a good example. Think of all the ways you can contribute positively & then just do it! 5. ENJOY your life, appreciate the simple things & the big things. Experiment, live & learn. Laugh a lot! ~ ENJOY LIFE!
having a family this young should not be a priority. In my opinion you should work and build up yourself before you take care of others. How can you properly help/raise a child when you can’t even help yourself?
I can’t see your channel not blowing up! Great stuff ! P.s. I sent you an email + dm on Instagram . Like you said , trying to cultivate my circle haha .
So, my situation right now is as follows. I am Venezuelan, 27, i have a computer science degree, I came to the states about 4 years ago. About 2.5 years ago I got my work authorization. I feel so behind to other people my age, I know I shouldn't compare myself but I did waste a lot of time while being in Venezuela, although. I studied English and completed my degree I think I could have learned or do many more things. However, the situation over there didn't help much that is why I am here. I was able to start a 65k/year job about 1.5 years ago with my degree. Waayy more money that I thought I could even see or think of while being in Venezuela. However, I feel like trapped in this cycle of get paid, "save", pay credit card at the end of the month then have about 500 left. And the cycle repeats. I pay all my expenses with my Credit Card though. I will love to break that cycle somehow and actually open a food truck or anything within the cooking area since that is something I love to do and everybody I ever sold or cooked something for have told me I am a great cook. Long story short, I think I make decent money living in Tulsa, OK but can't seem to be able to save up to start a business. Sorry for the long message, but i started typing and it helps to type stuff out to not feel frustrated lol. Any help or pointers will work, thank you to anybody that took the time to read this.
Dude, what a badass story! Forget feeling behind other people, you're crushing it. Seriously. When I was 27, I was making $40k a year in the bay area. It sucked! First thing that stands out to me is you're making $65k /year while living in a relatively inexpensive city (Tulsa). This tells me you've probably fallen prey to lifestyle creep (or you've got a bunch of kids you didn't tell us about). If I were you, my first step would be to ruthlessly cut expenses. Second, I would take on a side-hustle to start generating more money. Your goal is to save as much as possible on lifestyle and then invest that money into learning and growing your skills. If you want to start a foodtruck, maybe start by going to farmers markets, or sporting events and have a food cart. Figure out a cheap, delicious, easy to make and transport snack/meal and then get out there and start selling. I got a friend who did this with a hot dog stand. He'd sell hundreds of hot dogs at sporting events, concerts, etc.. If you want it bad enough (and I think you do), you'll find a way to make it work. Now get to it!
@@AnthonyVicino you are right, I have fallen into that I guess, because I have no kids, I live by myself in a not so expensive apartment, 1000 a month with water, electricity and the rent itself. I do help my family back in Venezuela by sending money but is not a huge amount. I will go for those steps then, I did sell food from my apartment for about 10 month and it was great lots of people but then I was afraid of taking the next step of a food trailer and kind of let it go even though I loved it. But yeah, I will follow that and report back in a few month for sure I have sat down and already made a budget I guess that is a good starting point.
@@sipsi1995 Sick, dude. Sounds like fear and expenses are the biggest things holding you back. The good thing is, you're 100% in control of both of those.
Maybe try renting out a food truck for when special events are in town or surrounding areas maybe even for the weekends park your truck or cart in front or across from night clubs goodluck
Hi Anthony, I love your videos, notifications on :) I'm a Crypto Technical Analyst and I would love to learn more about copywriting, and content writing. Do you have any advice? Thank you for the work you do.
Thanks for being here, dude! On the copywriting front, there are two people/resources I found a ton of value in: Sean Vosler's Increase Academy: increase.academy/ Neville Medhora Copywriting Course: copywritingcourse.com/ Beyond that... the simple truth... Practice. Lots and lots of practice.
I am still in my teens🥺, and I have a lot of things to learn. Even I want to make a video " My teenage regrates... " 🙃.When I get a bit upset in my journey, I watch you and your videos, it completely lightens me up and makes me start again. You are really amazing.
Wish I would have saved a lot of the video games I've played for later, not all of them though. World of Warcraft, should have quit when everyone else did that's for certain. Could have put that into making money and friends as well. At the same time I really like where I'm at now I have a good way forward selling online right now. Definitely agree, salads are so important and for those of you who have a decent sized belly cutting refined carbs out completely for awhile and then never eating a lot of them will be a big help as well as sugar. Also if you can eat them, eggs are a lot higher in protein than meat.
Dude, I played a toooon of video games when I was younger. Loved it, but it really didn't move me forward in life. I put games down a couple years back (ended with Destiny), and it's been one of the best decisions ever.
Hey buddy thanks for this advise! i am literally 23 now and i literally saw me there you talking! I could tell it comes from your experience and i love that you sharing it :)
Great video. I’m 23, got a job at a big 4 accounting firm currently studying for the ACA, I never went to university, I joined straight from school on an apprenticeship. I always worry whether I’m improving on myself at a good rate, but for me it’s taking everything into perspective, and as long as I’m making steady, sustainable progression of my career then I’m not doing too bad for my 20s.
Hey friends, appreciate you watching. I hope you got some value from this one.
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Hmm relationship investment
Hello from France!
Sun and SUGAR make your skin aging faster there is studies demonstrating it.
Thank for your advices one did really help me: Dividing myself in 2 the boss and the task archiver, since that I did get out of my procrastination!
My friend. sunscreen will probably give you cancer before sun will
Oh, so familiar 😊
"A school education makes you a living, self education makes you a fortune" I take that advice
Awesome!
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sounds like Jim Rohn
this advice will be with me for life!
university is the biggest scam of the last 2 centuries.
For a man, I feel like that late 20's into 30 is where we start to mature and really work on ourselves. For me, I was at my rock bottom from 25-29 as I worked a minimum wage job, had a gf that didn't have as much drive as me and we only saw each other as roommates, and had parents who were constantly worrying how I would live life. I studied my ass off during those years because I knew I was the only one who could change the course and outcome of my life. Now, I am a software engineer, making money my parents dreamed of and it's just the beginning. If anyone is out there, especially as a man, who is feeling alone and struggling, know that I've/we've been there and possibly still there, and it's okay. What's not okay is to push off that feeling of "I gotta make a move". Start today, right now. No excuses. We got this💪
I think there's alot of truth in that. People expect to have it figured out by the time they get out of highschool or college. Reality is, it takes MUCH longer.
Software engineering is easy af tho
Im turning 27 this April and I have nothing figured out 😭. Having midlife crisis.
Did you go to college for your software engineering
@@Karuska22ps if u have experience but as a beginner it’s far from easy
Summary:
1. Start investing sooner both in your relationships and your skills
2. Stop telling so many lies
3. Skip college or at a minimum simply learn how to learn on your own
4. Cultivate your inner circle with intention and care
5. Put on that sunscreen
I still highly recommend watching the video in its entirety as it contains valuable information and insights that cannot be fully captured in this summary
You got this man..
Great summary
*JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU AND CARES FOR YOU HAVE A GOOD DAY EVERYONE*
@Darren yeah I think this is very dependent on details
If you learn accounting or engineering or medicine or law or something, that's practical
Even not learning something practical is fine, but I feel like a lot of people end up going to college just because it's what everyone else is doing
@@Neonb88 ur right i think it should start with highschool learning more practical self learning , philosophy and creativity , not even just financial literacy but just say hey its going to be tough guys after this, but you’ll be ok!
I just turned 28. I needed to hear all of this. Thank you
Awesome! I'm glad it hit you at the right moment.
Hell yeah. Society expects us to have it all figured out well by the time we are 18 or 20, be in a good career and making tons of money. Especially now in the Instagram age, everybody thinks that you should have multi million dollar success by the age of 22 or 23! And they treat you like you’re nothing if you don’t. But I think it’s much more realistic to understand that we’re going to bump around a lot and go through some pretty tough times in our 20s, and often in our 30s as well!
@@aarongaffney6466 So true
my 20's were empty, you can easily mess up or end up going down the wrong rabbit hole. I'm trying to make a good life in my 30s
@@Conormcnproductions i'm also
I related to this so much. My 20’s sucked, in my early 30’s now and doing a lot of learning
Love to hear that, Alfred! Just imagine how awesome your 40s are gonna be at this rate! :)
I am there as well and I wonder where people are. It just seems like a strange time of existence, we are all siloed away on our own. Everyone is in a completely different place. Friends I grew up with have a family of their own now. I'm single and in my own world.
I just turned 21 and honestly this video was exactly what I needed. Ever since I started college I've felt incredibly lost. It's like trying to get to a destination with no map and with everyone pointing you in a direction you're slowly beginning to realize is the hardest, longest route to where you want to be. My ahdh brain has been a scramble mess, but I've been slowly learning the game these past two years and getting more confident at it. The part about investing in relationships and cultivating your inner circle really struck a cord with me. Problem is when you realize all these important things extremely early on, you're thinking on a whole different wavelength than a large majority your peers and it can get pretty darn lonely. I don't think it's something talked about very often, but eh, honestly what do I know? I'm still figuring it out as I go.
Keep the great vids coming!
I just turned 21 went to college for 2 years and felt this exact same feeling. So far ahead of everyone i was around and it’s so lonely. I ended up dropping out and could not be happier working a career in real estate with people 30/40/50 years old who want to help and think the same way i do.
I really appreciate you sharing a part of your story, Alison. You're so much further ahead on your journey than I was at your age. That's for sure. I didn't start thinking about many of these topics until yeaaars later. Keep it up!
Something you may have not considered is when you were in your 20's, the access to educational resources (such as Google, UA-cam, and just the WW web in general) was vastly constrained compared to what we take for granted today in 2022. Today we have access to all the knowledge mankind has ever acquired literally in the palm of our hand that anyone can call up 24x7x365. Today's youth cannot conceive of how much time and effort and money it took in the 70's and 80's to obtain knowledge on any topic, and when you actually did find something it was more often than not out-of-date. But, even with all that learning power there for the taking, totally free of charge, it still takes a positive and proactive attitude and hundreds of hours of work and dedication and actual participation to obtain a payoff for the future.
This is a great point. My dad and I talk frequently about the fact that if he'd had access to knowledge and resources I have back in the 80s, his life would've played out fundamentally differently. We're blessed to be living during this time and to have access to the opportunities we do.
Funnily enough even though I agree with this sentiment, I usually counter with the statement that the vast amount of knowledge available to my generation also makes it easier to get "analysis by paralysis". Before the internet age, the problem was getting information. In today's era, the problem is getting the RIGHT INFORMATION. Also, the technology in this generation also saps the attention span of the youth as companies make sure that their fancy algorithms make sure that you are glued to your screens. So yes, that does not discount the amount of hard, smart and consistent work to achieve certain things.
@@yangcoatienza3273 I agree with your comments. The pursuit of knowledge in today's internet age means we also have to remain keenly aware of the non-stop onslaught of gypsies, tramps, thieves, and trolls coming for our money, resources, and security. That can be a challenge for sure, but rest assured it gets easier as you get older (and wiser).
@@AnthonyVicino but its also overwhelming, because theres so much stuff on the internet. very hard to filter the useful stuff.
There is also a huge amount of distraction that comes with unlimited internet access. It can be hard to actually filter out the useful information and take action.
I’m 40 and not finished with improving my life, I’m just getting started, not stopping to learn, grow, explore life from a perspective of wonder 😊
Boom! I turn 40 in about a year. We're just getting started.
I'm 30 and still live at home. I lied a lot to my self, but I am fixing myself. I made a few of the mistake you made and I'm now learning to copy-write too. I read 50 pages a day on writing and write 1k+ words a day. Been doing this for a week, and I enjoy it.
The last few months so many part of my ego died, and I've come to realize and overcome so much trauma and defense mechanism and self-delusions. I have no network and for the first time since a decade I feel really lonely. Like I feel it physically. But maybe I'll make something of myself, although it's rough to believe with my track record.
There's always time to turn it around, my friend. You got this.
I hope your doing okay my guy stay strong
Im 20 and i need to change my life soon
Hey man, I'm turning 31 next month and on the EXACT same boat! Ego, self delusion, defense mechanisms and justifications.
Let's do this and turn things around.
No better time than now.
As an 18 year old, would like to thank you for making this video so that others can learn from your experience
Glad it was helpful!
I'm nearly in my 20's and your second regret feels absolutely like me. I'm planning on facing and exposing my insecurities directly from now so I can change and get help
Psyched to hear you resonated with the video!
I'm in my mid twenties. I can relate so much man. The thing about lying blew me away. I have lied so much over last 3 years. Also the relationship investment thing is so true. I need to work on this.
You are a true gem to share this. Thank you Anthony!
Youre not alone. We've all been there, man. Thanks for being here!
@@AnthonyVicino Means a lot!
As somone who is entering their 20s I appreciate this video! I especially liked how you touched on investing in your learning and picking up skills outside of the college setting!
Thank you, brother! Glad you enjoyed. Hope it serves you well in the coming years!
Wow man, I'm 18 and the idea of wasting my 20s as always scared me. So far I've never found a video which explained the whole picture and not just one part of life. Thank for making this now I know what to change and what to keep doing.
Glad you found it valuable, Mario!
For me the idea of wasting my 20s never seemed like it was a thing and now that I am 35 honestly I don't feel like I wasted them per say but it's hard to explain I feel like a lot of stuff that happened in my 20s was nessary to help Me become the person I am right now and to be where I am in life.
Also a piece of advice I have for is no mater how hard life is for you in the moment unless it kills you. Permentally disables you in some way or puts you in jail/prison there is always hope for you to improve your life no mater what life throws at you. Good or bad.
@@thewewguy8t88thank you ❤
Thank you! I’m 25 and I’ve been feeling really down lately but this really did help! One thing for me is I’ve always been rushed in life, told that I don’t have time I need to figure it out in my 20s so I can live the rest of my life financially free but hearing your story is inspiring.
Nah, don't let anybody stress you out and feel rushed.
One of the mottos I live my life by:
"Never rush. Never be rushed."
Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast.
Just keep moving forward, brother. That's truly all that matters.
I'm 17 but I find myself doing quite a few of these mistakes, I'm so grateful I stumbled on this video. Thank You!
Bro I'm 17 and the friends I have is focused on girls and parties I don't think that's a great thing I don't know if I want to cut them off
Don't kill yourself you won't be perfect
@@Terrydon enjoy being young tho lil bro
@@Terrydon
I’m 22 and currently regretting not partying and having fun in my teens. Don’t make the same mistake I did. You’ll never be young again and you may not see your friends ever again once they start getting jobs or go to university, so enjoy it while you can. That being said, don’t do drugs or drink excessively as that may hurt your future.
Psyched you found the channel, Zain. Listen, you're young, so don't stress out too much about making the wrong decisions or doing things you'll regret. Life is long and you've got time to figure it all out.
Don't be afraid to get out there and make some mistakes!
Subscribed just off this video alone. I’m 23 and I act like 43 is what people tell me. I care about my education in my hands, I work at a good job and department and learning so many skills alone in my 20’s while my “friends” are out partying and drinking and going to the club every weekend. I’m building the foundation of my life young so I can enjoy it later. Im investing 20% of my check and I have a 791 FICO score. Stay disciplined everyone !
Awesome! Psyched to have you here!
Great, hope the best for you 👍
Don’t forget to have fun, maybe go out with your friends for a drink once in a while.
Bro you’re the most transparent guy on YT rn for being this honest especially the #2, I could totally relate, I’Preciate this. I just sub
Thanks, brother. I really appreciate the kind words and support!
Man you don't understand how much this post resonates with me. In my early 30s now and have so many regrets with going to college and wasting away my 20s. Been working on building up some dreams of mine and wished I did this sooner. Thank you!
I appreciate you, brother. THanks for checking out the video and letting me know how much it resonated.
4 days after my 30th birthday I had to move into my pickup truck, similar to you wondering how the hell did it all happen. There’s power in hitting rock bottom, there’s no where to go but up. Thanks for your story
So many similarities in that story. I feel it, man.
I am 23 and want to thank you for this video... if young people really really really listen and take it in we can save ourselves alot of time and grief
I appreciate that, David. Thank you!
I love that you just give a genuine advice here that is not just about making money, but also taking care of yourself. I wish I’ve learned some of these things in my early 20s, but itself great that there is information like this out there now and next generation can use it 😊
Thank you! If this can help just one 20 year old feel slightly better about where they are in life without feeling overwhelmed or like they're falling behind, then awesome! Mission accomolished.
I’m 29 and just figured out all this stuff this past like 8 months. I never had a plan or clear goals. I got married in my early 20s and have just been riding my husbands coattail while I figured stuff out. Last summer I grew tired of being stuck and making the same mistakes and jumping from job to job that I decided to go to college. Although I think college is a scam, it’s helped me tremendously with my self esteem, making clear goals, and being completely honest with myself. I’m sad that it took so long to get myself going, but so excited I’m finally going in what seems to be the right direction.
That's rad you were able to get those thngs out of college. Truthfully, I got a lot out of college as well (just not in the form of my degrees/traditional education). :)
Wow… life & social media are fucking crazy!!! Whenever we think about something, it magically appears on the internet. Just turned 25 & been going through life. Taking these words to heart. Thanks, bro.
That's awesome to hear. Glad the universe brought this to you at the right time.
Thank you for this video. I had a wasteful past especially in my late twenties but I see the world differently now. I am now on a mission to help younger people make good decisions for their lives.
Thanks again
I love it. That's an awesome mission. Go get it.
Genuine 👍💯. Just turned 28! You're so real. I have known what you're talking about since 23rd ish. I have been working very hard coz I have seen what you're talking about in my peers. I had to change lanes and it felt lonely for years and seeing this, I can relate.
Thank you G!
Thanks, brother! Glad you enjoyed!
Wow to be honest I’m impressed with this guy’s content, I’ve watched and listened to quite a few influencers, content creators and etc yet most of them seem to sugar coat things however it’s nice having someone around who’s going to tell you the honest truth even though it’s hard and a bit tough to swallow and do the actions
Much love, brother. Glad you enjoyed and got value from the video.
@@AnthonyVicino Thank you Anthony please release more videos your content will be much appreciated
As I turn 40 there is so much value in this video I can't even begin to describe. Keep up the great content!
Thank you!
I loved my 20's. I spent it all on partying, girls, friends, movies, etc. I was so carefree and loved every moment of it. Career and money be damned.
Now, in my late 30's, I landed a job with great pay (~300k). And building a side business as well. No regrets whatsoever.
That's awesome. Congrats!
Badass!
You';re living a badass life.. lol
This is one of the most eye opening videos i've ever watched in this platform and i'm lucky to watch it at 19
I love hearing that. Thank you!
I just turned 21 today, this video is a good reminder. Thank you
Happy Birthday, Albert!
I like that the sunscreen advice isn't a metaphor for something, but that he really wants us to look out for our skin :D! Great man!
I'm a simple man just trying to cover the basics. :)
I'm gonna be 25 this year. Last year was my toughest year yet, but now my mind is now the strongest it has ever been. That's why i'm up at 2 am improving my knowledge.
I love to hear it. Just imagine where you're gonna be in another year of hard focused effort.
@@AnthonyVicino yup, I start Gym later today.
Holy shit, how do you get up at 2am?
Wow the Minneapolis intro to this was awesome, so nostalgic as I was out there on an internship when I was 19 and now live in England at 23
Very cool! Psyched you enjoyed that intro. I love this city.
With wisdom comes the growing acceptance of who you are and what doesn’t work for you. One year of pure focus can trump five years of “fooling around” as they say. Which is really just learning lessons. Invest always.
100%.
If people could just buckle down and focus hard for 5 years, they could live the next 40 in any way they choose.
Thank you Anthony ! 100%
My pleasure, brother!
P.S. Good looking channel you've got there. Impressive!
made my plan at 16. 21now and can say it working out better than expected. All faults were worse than expected but through problems come solutions which comes chance which comes cost. You will be your best self when prepared
That's really awesome to hear!
I'm 25. This is the type of content I've been consuming for a year now... and it's a life changing game, This is a great video. Thanks 🎉
I love SS😂
Thanks!
Another thing I learned also. Is the longer it takes for you to do something. The harder it becomes to do it.
So true!
I am 21, and I have already made some very dumb decisions already. Instead of looking back and beating myself up about, the only thing I can use them as is learning lessons. This video really hit home, I feel very lost with so many things, as when it comes to a career should I go to school and where to take my first steps. I'm slowly taking my first steps, to change everything. And I can see things are starting to improve, I most definitely will keep watching.
Don't look back and fixate on your mistakes. Just keep moving forward
You can't regret the person you were. I see my past as my old self. That old self birthed the new me.
Interesting perspective. I'll have to chew on that.
But your new self doesn't have a longer lifespan
Well said .. I like that Zen approach..
@@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456 that doesn't matter. What really matter is you was reborn into a new you.
Man my first job I got when I was 23. I know that was crazy but my work ethic got the attention of an engineer who needed help. (I was going to school at the time for engineering). The job is amazing. I'm an engineer now for the US government. Best job anyone can ask for. The dream everyone in my town wants and here I am.. now that I'm here I realize this isn't what I want. I'm 28 now. I am about to start my own business and hopefully I can pour all my energy into it and see it flourish. But everything this man says is true. Only reason I'm at where I'm at is because all the engineers I work for taught me things. My circle was strong. They're all millionaires because they have the side hustles. Sometimes I think about being 28 and getting older but I'm on my way. Just have to do what you have to do.
Nice, Ryan. You're on the right path, brother. Keep it up!
I'm 29 and really spent my 20s working and trying to make sure I didn't go against my family's wishes. Just work sleep repeat. I'm trying to break out of that. I really hope younger people are more bold about what they want actually going for it, never letting anyone talk them out of their goals.
A lot of people are chasing their parents dreams, not their own.
This!!!!!
Your story is one i needed ot hear. I am 23 and somehow was feeling like my life was over for one reason or another. Hearing how you turned yourself around in your late 20s really reoriented my perspective on how much I needed to have achieved by this point. I am better off building every day than worrying about whether I am too late or not.
I'm psyched to hear that, Cameron! Thanks for sharing.
@@AnthonyVicino thank you. I just went and bought some suncream hahah. I also really appreciate a certain authenticity you have. For me, it comee from how you wear the difficulty of your achievement on your sleeve. Your journey has taken its toll on you in a good way and you don't hide that. Please keep being like this!
@@cameronhughes9707 I really appreciate that, Cameron. Took me a long time to realize people often get more from the vulnerable parts of our stories rather than the stunning victories.
"Courage is a muscle use it or lose it"
Truth!
Alright, I usually avoid videos like this, and have been ignoring like self-improvement videos in general because I'm just don't wanna watch em anymore, and some people mix in "advice" that is not authentic and is entitled, kinda materialistic and stuff and but this was actually a good video, and I'm genuinely glad I watched it.
People aren't machines and you don't need to be productive all the time, so much that you're miserable a lot and stop having fun, you should take it easy, and also, being busy isn't the same as being productive. Being authentic and not lying to yourself or other people, avoiding bad company and most importantly, wearing sunscreen, are all pretty good advice.
I'm really psyched you gave the video a chance and found it valuable! Thank you.
My 20s I spent in addiction, depression, bad decisions.
Life gets better after 30.
It truly does. Glad you made it through those rough times.
I’m currently stuck in the post-college bubble waiting for it to pop. It’s a torturous spot to be in.
Interesting. I hate waiting.
I’ve actually never related to a creator this much. Thanks for this; subscribed and following you and your journey
Psyched to hear that, Derek. Truly thankful to have you here!
I dropped out of collage 8 month ago and life really feel boring and lonely. But this video just describe my early 20s mistakes i made in collagein 12 min except sunscreen my skin is the sun screen.
This just become my top 5 youtube video of all time. THANK YOU
That's so awesome to hear! Thank you!.
Some great insights given here and I definitely do have my fair share of regrets in my 20s as I am 29 now. I know I can still go and accomplish my goals. See you at the top brother! ;)
Absolutely! Appreciate you being here for the journey, bro.
"Learn how to learn". What a beautiful idea and simplistic concept to achieve wealth and success. Thanks!
Glad you liked it!
Your point on college is very true. University has this toxic effect of making people believe they will automatically be set for a great career. Reality is most degrees are a total waste of time except medical, engineering etc etc… I’m an example of this where half a decade of my life was wasted in one with another half a decade wasted afterwards. Easy to say now with hindsight I guess.
Truth. Thanks for sharing your perspective, Jim.
19 turning 20 in 3 months. Thanks for this.
Happy early birthday, Hans! Go crush your 20s!
Dude!!!! You’re a good story teller 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 great job.
Thanks, Marco. That's one of the greatest compliments I could receive. Truly!
I came here thinking it would be one of thousands, but it was actually good, down to earth type advice i can relate to. Thanks!
Thank you so much!
"Not wearing more sunscreen" has earned you a like good sir lolll great content keep it up!
Huzzah! Thanks, Jake!
Thank you, i needed this.
You're welcome!
I ALWAYS love and appreciate such content
Thanks for sharing!! GLad you enjoyed.
this is great! im 20, and this is life changing.
Awesome to hear!
I'm about to be 24 in a couple of days and I don't know if it's too late for me to figure all this out but I'm kind of happy I did it either way , bittersweet feeling.
You got all the time in the world, Chris. You've got a lot of road ahead of ya, brother.
On a binge rn!!
Thanks!
I'm 50 and I'm still full of regrets of the life I've been living. Now, I'm just trying not to have any regrets of the afterlife I'm gonna be living in.
Today is a new day. You got this!
My man. I spent over 5 years daily improving my situation. Now I’m healthy and am slowly living the life I want. I regret most of my life but now I can begin living it to the best of my abilities. I know how hard it is to go through life and to have regrets but fixing the situation slowly means that your experience of life will improve.
Now that it feels good to be alive those time seem like a distant memory. The same will happen to you too.
I came across of your videos when I'm now learning the path to achieve the financial freedom you have now. These video's are motivating and inspirational. I'm now 20 and hope to achieve a lot in the next few years to come. Love from Japan.
Thanks for checking out the videos! Love from Minnesota!
Never regret anything, just see every "failure" as a lesson learned = )
Truth
Kudos to you for being refreshingly brutally honest about your past ! And good advice given!
I appreciate that! Psyched you're enjoying the videos.
Skipping University is a good idea if you’re only planning to go due to your parents or you just feel you have to follow the system.
But, if you are craving for that education in a skill set you already pursue and love, it’s worth it 1000%
It’s about the intention
Intention in everything is what matters most. You are correct.
Yep. It doesn't have to be the strongest love ever, just something you feel confident about and that actually benefits you.
This really helped me today man. I really appreciate your content.
Thanks for sharing that! Made my day!
I think most people waste their 20s and some 30s. I know when I was young I thought if a person worked hard they got good raises and promotions. I was naive about that. I was helping my parents financially and never thought they would be held against me. I thought people would think it was the right thing to do not take advantage of me acting like I don't need the money.
I think we all have to learn the "hard work doesn't = money" lesson the hard way!
Dude I’m glad I found your channel. Can relate to you- I am in my 30’s and having gone to college and the degree I got (and spent the rest of my 20’s using) was barely enough for a living.
Really psyched you stumbled onto the channel!
I'm 25 and I feel like you are describing me to a T (aside from the sunscreen lol). These harsh truths make me uncomfortable, yet hopeful at the same time, knowing I have the ability to change.
Move towards that discomfort, Kyle. That's where the growth is.
I regret a few things from my 20’s (mostly not managing my money correctly) but I figure that we do the best we can with what we know at that time. If we knew better, we would’ve done better. I’m 45 now and I’m sure in 10 or 15 years I’ll look back think there are some things I could’ve done better, but oh well. You live, you learn, and you evolve.
Exactly right. Live, learn, evolve.
Anthony thanking you so much for sharing,
My son is 16yrs old and I have been planting Personal Development from the age of 14yrs.
Today his mindset is incrementally changing, this video is a Gem so down to earth experience which I know he will resonate with.
Thank you again its Brilliant!
🤜💥🤛
Ned 😊👍
Every time I click on a video of the genre I lose interest within the first couple minutes but this video has quality advice. Great job!!
Thank you so much for giving the video a chance!
Thanks for sharing these. I felt like I “lost” a lot of my twenties due to a prescription medicine (taken as prescribed) which was slowly poisoning my brain (and body). 10 year injury in total (so far). And it’s so easy to look back and feel regret, anger, longing. But there’s still the time ahead. There’s still so much to be grateful for, and I feel very lucky in many ways. Not everyone makes it past their twenties. Not everyone has freedom. I think reflecting on past times and recognising our regrets also helps set the compass going forward too. So to anyone reading this who’s maybe felt regret…perspective and gratitude can be real game changers in finding peace, and finding the right path forward for you.
This is beautiful, Emma. I dug into a bit of your content recently. Love the message and your willingness to share your story. Thank you!
@@AnthonyVicino Thanks Anthony, much appreciated!
If you're young please listen to this genius, he took all of the words I have been preaching to people I care about out straight out of my mouth. We live in a world with countless opportunities but all we have to do is research and ACT! Good luck in your journey it is a process but one that will benefit yourself, those around you, and future generations!
Thank you so much, Eduardo!
Hitting the gym consistently but don't over train. 1hr a day/4 times a week, jogging 1-2 times a week.
Avoiding overtraining is key
I really appreciate I’m in my early 20s and I use to listen seb and you giving me so much energy then follow young ppls.
That energy can be a great thing! Use it.
They can’t be a waste if your here now, becuase if you had been comfortable. You wouldn’t have worked to change the uncomfort
Very true. In reality, I wouldn't go back and change a thing.
thanks for sharing man. much love
Thank you, Russell!
1. Make a healthy family for yourself (spouse and children). Make this your top priority. Don't put it off to your 30s.
2. Establish self-care practices to sustain you through the ups and downs of life (physical, mental, spiritual practices).
3. Develop discipline (set short-& long-term goals, learn to persevere). Apply discipline to your finances & all life matters.
4. Make a lifelong habit to help/give/be a good example. Think of all the ways you can contribute positively & then just do it!
5. ENJOY your life, appreciate the simple things & the big things. Experiment, live & learn. Laugh a lot! ~ ENJOY LIFE!
A pretty solid list overall.
having a family this young should not be a priority. In my opinion you should work and build up yourself before you take care of others. How can you properly help/raise a child when you can’t even help yourself?
Why shouldn’t I wait to get married and have children until I’m 30?
Time flies so fast. I feel 25 but I'm turning 27 now. It's almost March. Crazy
Just wait til you turn 35 and still feel 25. It's a trip.
Good stuff !
Thanks, Timmy! Super psyched to hear you enjoyed it.
I can’t see your channel not blowing up! Great stuff !
P.s. I sent you an email + dm on Instagram . Like you said , trying to cultivate my circle haha .
DUDE!.... gaaaaaawd. thank you man. ur a legend.... I'm turning 30 this year.
Thanks, brother! I really appreciate it. Welcome to your 30s!
Very good advice. However never bum lick to get in with successful people. They see it straight away and will either dismis you or use you!
Truth.
great video man! took this to heart
I'm psyched to hear that.
So, my situation right now is as follows.
I am Venezuelan, 27, i have a computer science degree, I came to the states about 4 years ago. About 2.5 years ago I got my work authorization.
I feel so behind to other people my age, I know I shouldn't compare myself but I did waste a lot of time while being in Venezuela, although. I studied English and completed my degree I think I could have learned or do many more things. However, the situation over there didn't help much that is why I am here.
I was able to start a 65k/year job about 1.5 years ago with my degree. Waayy more money that I thought I could even see or think of while being in Venezuela. However, I feel like trapped in this cycle of get paid, "save", pay credit card at the end of the month then have about 500 left. And the cycle repeats. I pay all my expenses with my Credit Card though.
I will love to break that cycle somehow and actually open a food truck or anything within the cooking area since that is something I love to do and everybody I ever sold or cooked something for have told me I am a great cook.
Long story short, I think I make decent money living in Tulsa, OK but can't seem to be able to save up to start a business.
Sorry for the long message, but i started typing and it helps to type stuff out to not feel frustrated lol.
Any help or pointers will work, thank you to anybody that took the time to read this.
Dude, what a badass story! Forget feeling behind other people, you're crushing it. Seriously. When I was 27, I was making $40k a year in the bay area. It sucked!
First thing that stands out to me is you're making $65k /year while living in a relatively inexpensive city (Tulsa). This tells me you've probably fallen prey to lifestyle creep (or you've got a bunch of kids you didn't tell us about).
If I were you, my first step would be to ruthlessly cut expenses.
Second, I would take on a side-hustle to start generating more money.
Your goal is to save as much as possible on lifestyle and then invest that money into learning and growing your skills.
If you want to start a foodtruck, maybe start by going to farmers markets, or sporting events and have a food cart. Figure out a cheap, delicious, easy to make and transport snack/meal and then get out there and start selling.
I got a friend who did this with a hot dog stand. He'd sell hundreds of hot dogs at sporting events, concerts, etc..
If you want it bad enough (and I think you do), you'll find a way to make it work. Now get to it!
@@AnthonyVicino you are right, I have fallen into that I guess, because I have no kids, I live by myself in a not so expensive apartment, 1000 a month with water, electricity and the rent itself. I do help my family back in Venezuela by sending money but is not a huge amount. I will go for those steps then, I did sell food from my apartment for about 10 month and it was great lots of people but then I was afraid of taking the next step of a food trailer and kind of let it go even though I loved it.
But yeah, I will follow that and report back in a few month for sure I have sat down and already made a budget I guess that is a good starting point.
@@sipsi1995 Sick, dude. Sounds like fear and expenses are the biggest things holding you back. The good thing is, you're 100% in control of both of those.
Maybe try renting out a food truck for when special events are in town or surrounding areas maybe even for the weekends park your truck or cart in front or across from night clubs goodluck
@@aaaaaaa4821 Love this idea!
Great video. Thank you for sharing. I share your sentiments. 💯
I appreciate that. Thanks for checking out the video!
Hi Anthony, I love your videos, notifications on :)
I'm a Crypto Technical Analyst and I would love to learn more about copywriting, and content writing.
Do you have any advice?
Thank you for the work you do.
Thanks for being here, dude!
On the copywriting front, there are two people/resources I found a ton of value in:
Sean Vosler's Increase Academy: increase.academy/
Neville Medhora Copywriting Course: copywritingcourse.com/
Beyond that... the simple truth... Practice. Lots and lots of practice.
@@AnthonyVicino Much appreciated 🙏
I am still in my teens🥺, and I have a lot of things to learn. Even I want to make a video " My teenage regrates... " 🙃.When I get a bit upset in my journey, I watch you and your videos, it completely lightens me up and makes me start again. You are really amazing.
I love, love, love hearing that. (Really wish I was still in my teens). Oh, to be young again. :)
This is good 😊
I’d like to talk sometime about your systems
Thanks, Nathan. You're gonna want to check out the next video we're about to drop which dives a lot into the systems that've helped me most.
Thank you for sharing.
My pleasure! Thanks for watching.
I'm exactly in the same spot as you were.. I'm currently enduring all the regrets you're mentioning.
I empathize, man. First step towards correcting the issue is to become aware of it, so you're on the right path.
thanks a lot for your valuable advices, I will give it a try and hopefully, get success.
Much love. Good louck on your journey.
Wish I would have saved a lot of the video games I've played for later, not all of them though. World of Warcraft, should have quit when everyone else did that's for certain. Could have put that into making money and friends as well. At the same time I really like where I'm at now I have a good way forward selling online right now. Definitely agree, salads are so important and for those of you who have a decent sized belly cutting refined carbs out completely for awhile and then never eating a lot of them will be a big help as well as sugar. Also if you can eat them, eggs are a lot higher in protein than meat.
Dude, I played a toooon of video games when I was younger. Loved it, but it really didn't move me forward in life. I put games down a couple years back (ended with Destiny), and it's been one of the best decisions ever.
Hey buddy thanks for this advise! i am literally 23 now and i literally saw me there you talking! I could tell it comes from your experience and i love that you sharing it :)
Glad I could help!
About living a lie - it's because we were told to "fake it till you make it!"
That's a huge part of it.
Great video. I’m 23, got a job at a big 4 accounting firm currently studying for the ACA, I never went to university, I joined straight from school on an apprenticeship. I always worry whether I’m improving on myself at a good rate, but for me it’s taking everything into perspective, and as long as I’m making steady, sustainable progression of my career then I’m not doing too bad for my 20s.
Congrats on the job. That's awesome. Sounds like you've found a great path forward for ya. Keep going.
I’m about to be 21 may 8th, 2 months from now, I needed to hear this! Stay woke and keep grinding the hustle stay motivated lets goo 2023 !
Awesome! Happy early birthday