You can touch him, but you can't help him (*PHOBIA TRIGGERS*)

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  • @MrBallen
    @MrBallen  12 днів тому +1333

    The year is nearly over! Let's do something fun and post the name and link to your favorite story of mine from 2024 as a new comment and tell me why you chose it. I'll respond to as many as I can and rotate my favorites as pinned comments. Put 2024 in the comment so I can find as many as possible.
    Edit: I can only pin new comments, not replies to this one. 🙏

    • @Flamgo777
      @Flamgo777 12 днів тому +34

      ua-cam.com/video/RZA7BqNO-YU/v-deo.htmlsi=ISQMp-DjuUAYI6Kg

    • @lea-anne9133
      @lea-anne9133 12 днів тому +94

      Bells Canyon is probably my all time favourite. I've listened to it several times and it still gives me chills.

    • @Sharon-kl3by
      @Sharon-kl3by 12 днів тому +62

      Do you know the way to Bells Canyon..... 😂❤

    • @RAREDRAGONFRUIT
      @RAREDRAGONFRUIT 12 днів тому +33

      All of them

    • @kaileyritchie5690
      @kaileyritchie5690 12 днів тому +2

      Who else wants a move made about MrBallen, and his life journey from teen trouble maker, to navy seal, to global UA-cam SENSATION!!
      Throat punch the like button if you agree.

  • @ericb31
    @ericb31 12 днів тому +3362

    Mr. Ballen is basically my weekly reminder of how precious life is and why we shouldn’t push past the thin border between adventure and stupidity.

    • @msbee5183
      @msbee5183 12 днів тому +37

      Dropped the mic ❤

    • @hollyperrin7353
      @hollyperrin7353 12 днів тому +2

      Ah, yes. My weekly reminder to not touch anything, not talk to anyone, and to stay in the house with my cellphone fully charged and tied around my wrist.

    • @EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz
      @EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz 12 днів тому +18

      Adventure and Stupidity is mixed but I loved to lives that kind of life...

    • @mrushford2
      @mrushford2 12 днів тому +9

      And never leave the house lol

    • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
      @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 12 днів тому +6

      So much pure stupidity going around 😮

  • @norwegianblue2017
    @norwegianblue2017 12 днів тому +5699

    Of all the daredevil stunts one can do, wedging yourself into a completely unknown crawlspace is the most insane to me. It has to be some sort of compulsive madness.

    • @gabriellashimone6546
      @gabriellashimone6546 12 днів тому +377

      See, now we can use cameras to look first into places like this. To me, that would be the most sensible first step to exploring such places.

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 12 днів тому +173

      Yeah, imagine not finding your way back or dropping your flashlight or getting stuck? Panic and anxiety will definitely set in and may lead to a heart attack, or you will lose your mind as your air is running out, knowing your gonna die. It would be very traumatic. Even the thought can cause stress.

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 12 днів тому +1

      ​@@gabriellashimone6546
      That's what I say. Put a swimming drone in there first

    • @eyesopen66
      @eyesopen66 12 днів тому +47

      Thank you! I said similar, it's just so difficult for others to understand why you would do such a thing?

    • @tituspaul2345
      @tituspaul2345 12 днів тому +16

      @@gabriellashimone6546yeah well there weren’t really good tiny cameras. I believe now we have tiny cameras.

  • @Mike-ez1bk
    @Mike-ez1bk 12 днів тому +1570

    This was a hard one for me to watch. I used to do a lot of exploring of tunnels and caves when I was a teenager then I was buried alive by a land slide. If it was not for my dog digging down enough to expose my head so I could breath I would have died, then my brother found me about an hour later and dug me the rest of the way out. Now I am very claustrophobic and get anxious when I hear stories like this one.

    • @trueestoriesonly
      @trueestoriesonly 12 днів тому +105

      Omg that is crazy & super scary...and here I am severely claustrophobic from getting stuck in an elevator as a kid.
      I adore dogs, & your story is just another reason to why I love them so much❤❤❤

    • @concettaworkman5895
      @concettaworkman5895 12 днів тому +118

      Lesson learned. Good dog.

    • @tassierach3582
      @tassierach3582 12 днів тому +75

      Is anyone else thinking this needs to be a Mr. Ballen episode. What a cool story!

    • @RPLAsmodeus
      @RPLAsmodeus 12 днів тому +65

      I just read this and now I'm gonna pause the video and go give my dog a hug

    • @HeatherL7290
      @HeatherL7290 12 днів тому +44

      O.M.G this is my worst fear being burried alive. Dogs are amazing😭❤️

  • @SUGAs_Shadow85
    @SUGAs_Shadow85 5 днів тому +199

    Omg THIS IS MY WORST NIGHTMARE. I once almost hyperventilated when I accidentally put my head through my shirt sleeve when I was like 6 or 7 😂😂😂

    • @OxPolya
      @OxPolya 3 дні тому +10

      Relatable 😂

    • @paulathorne8703
      @paulathorne8703 2 дні тому +5

      I got stick.in a dress that was too small for me
      I literally had a panic attack
      So caving is defo not for me
      Poor Neill

    • @ShannonGooch-ro5ru
      @ShannonGooch-ro5ru 2 дні тому +7

      kindred souls lol. I put a shirt on that was t tight in my shoulders and chest and when I went to pull it off got it stuck and my arms stuck folded inside smothering my face. All my sisters did was sit there and laugh as I hyperventilated and panicked. LOL Gotta love sisters.

    • @lucious890
      @lucious890 2 дні тому +1

      Couldn't take my bra off it rolled and twisted was dire for me 😂

    • @amyshilling7412
      @amyshilling7412 День тому +1

      Each one of you are my soul mates. I can't even stand for the covers to be over my face...

  • @20luftballons
    @20luftballons 12 днів тому +3105

    Poor Neil. I can never understand the thrill one gets from putting oneself in such a situation.

    • @Nobodyisgreat123
      @Nobodyisgreat123 12 днів тому +101

      Adrenaline is a hell of a drug ( paraphrasing)

    • @emilybarker3240
      @emilybarker3240 12 днів тому +60

      Same. I truly don’t understand

    • @susane49461
      @susane49461 12 днів тому +92

      Thankful I'm too chubby

    • @linpittsburgh2375
      @linpittsburgh2375 12 днів тому +76

      I get nauseated just listening to these stories sometimes 😭

    • @GrammarSplaining
      @GrammarSplaining 12 днів тому

      This is why women live longer than men.

  • @CJSteffff-ip8xp
    @CJSteffff-ip8xp 10 днів тому +902

    Niels father is a truly heroic man for making the decision to stop the rescue efforts. I’m never touching a cave in my life because of this channel

    • @graze-plays3594
      @graze-plays3594 9 днів тому +42

      Tbf he didn't stop the rescue efforts. He stopped the recovery efforts

    • @RAThatFNGirlChicago
      @RAThatFNGirlChicago 8 днів тому +8

      That had to be so tough man

    • @47ravenlord
      @47ravenlord 8 днів тому +13

      The nutty putty cave incident is horrifying compared to this one. This one is very tame in comparison.

    • @rescue08jrgaming72
      @rescue08jrgaming72 8 днів тому +5

      That’s not necessarily heroic… a heroic action is one that puts yourself at risk for the betterment of others. He didn’t put himself at risk.

    • @plumdutchess
      @plumdutchess 6 днів тому +2

      ​@@rescue08jrgaming72 People really use the term hero too quickly these days.

  • @30yearsagonow
    @30yearsagonow 12 днів тому +756

    Neil corkscrewing himself deeper into the tunnel gave me chills. It’s incredible how some people thrive in situations most of us would find nightmarish.

    • @julierobinson3633
      @julierobinson3633 12 днів тому +53

      He quit thriving at some point...

    • @fishhuntadventure
      @fishhuntadventure 12 днів тому +27

      Exactly what I was going to say. He did not thrive.

    • @jamieknox1806
      @jamieknox1806 12 днів тому +34

      If thriving is dying. These people put themselves in stupid situations in turn putting many others in a bad situation when the morons have to be saved.

    • @0Regie
      @0Regie 12 днів тому

      The term "cork screwing" was accurate. I was picturing someone trying to pull a screw out after it was drilled in place. There was no way pulling on him was going to free him

    • @colekimball4945
      @colekimball4945 12 днів тому +1

      ​@@jamieknox1806 Don't belittle someone for being braver than we are. How far would humanity have ever advanced if not for the type of people you would call "morons?"

  • @kiramccrainey4673
    @kiramccrainey4673 6 днів тому +80

    i had several mini anxiety attacks throughout this entire episode! i can only imagine the torture & agony he went through seeing rescuer after rescuer come within arms reach of him & then retreat again b/c they couldn’t save him 😩 & his POOR POOR father 😩💔 Lord, i can’t even begin to imagine! & then for his father to say, stop the rescue mission b/c he didn’t want anymore deaths is the absolute BRAVEST & MOST CONSIDERATE & SINCERE thing i’ve EVER heard!!! i KNOW i wouldn’t be able to say that

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 3 дні тому +1

      I have mixed feelings about that… When someone makes multiple REALLY dumb decisions back to back, it’s hard to feel sorry for them.. I mean, ya I feel sorry for them to some degree, but another part of me feels like they asked for it 🤷‍♀️

    • @Image503
      @Image503 3 дні тому +1

      I pictured myself down that hole, i started to trip out while ballen was telling the story.. i could feel what moss was feeling in that hole .. RIP 🪦

  • @budgiebirdy
    @budgiebirdy 11 днів тому +623

    These cave stories are the hardest for me to get through. The wincing intensified with each passing minute.

    • @KittyKat1
      @KittyKat1 11 днів тому +14

      @@budgiebirdy I start to have difficulty breathing

    • @mollyirene816
      @mollyirene816 11 днів тому +6

      @@KittyKat1Me too 😰

    • @ec1222
      @ec1222 11 днів тому +10

      The frustration of thinking....if he was a dead man anyway, why didn't they proceed with the rope pull? Even if it cracked some bones or caused RIP. :(

    • @treefiddy5411
      @treefiddy5411 10 днів тому

      don't worry, it's hard for them to get through, too. lmao

    • @StealthAZ
      @StealthAZ 10 днів тому +2

      I’m 12 minutes in and have paused it 6 times already. Not sure I’ll be able to finish this one

  • @1369brandon
    @1369brandon 10 днів тому +184

    The fact that at the beginning of the story all they wanted was a chamber or cavern named after them, and then the very last sentence revealing that the place that became his tomb was actually named after him gave me chills… like he actually got what he wanted but it cost way more than he wanted to pay… THAT is good story telling.

    • @shawbros
      @shawbros 5 днів тому +9

      It's like a Twilight Zone ending.

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 3 дні тому +7

      I thought I was the only one who caught that lol. But ya, that’s so chilling that he got exactly what he wanted without realizing it was gonna cost him his life. Im sure he wasn’t even thinking of the possibility of not making it out…

  • @SigM1811
    @SigM1811 12 днів тому +262

    Big Props to the father saving anyone else from potentially being killed.

    • @simonspacek3670
      @simonspacek3670 22 години тому

      Yup. At least he knew that his son died and where the body is, so he has the closure.

  • @LV426-Acheron
    @LV426-Acheron 8 днів тому +89

    Iam struggling with a very strong, dare i say crippling depression. Not so long after i've found you channel, a little bit more than a year ago my first baby bunny, who we raised with my wife as a child of our own, has died. I've been watching your amazing work ever since.... A year later, my second beloved bunny also passed away yesterday christmas eve. Needless to say, life hasnt been kind on me on other fronts either. But... Hearing your voice, listening to you helps me a lot. These stories of horror you tell, helps me to escape the horrors of my own reality. This may sound strange , or even bizarre , but your voice became synonymus for me with passing away, and letting go. I cant thank you enough for what you do. Thousands of miles separates us, but you helped me so much. Thank you , and thank you thousand times. Mr. Ballen , i know you probably doesnt have the time and/or capability to answer me, but i would just like you to know that you are a real hero for me.

    • @LeeMuayThai
      @LeeMuayThai 7 днів тому +3

      I was devastated when my 13 year old bunny had passed away, I raised him from a little 6 month old baby, he truly was a sweet heart, and it took a long time to let go and move on, I still miss him to this day, but I think back with fond memories of his spunky personality and remember how precious life really is.

    • @LV426-Acheron
      @LV426-Acheron 7 днів тому +1

      ​@@LeeMuayThaithey can mean the world for you

    • @Bergaraa
      @Bergaraa 6 днів тому +4

      Hang in there buddy, sometimes we just have to wait to find out things that make us feel life it's not that bad🙌🏻

    • @LV426-Acheron
      @LV426-Acheron 6 днів тому +2

      ​@@Bergaraa thank you for your kindness. I hope you are right

    • @shortcakeangel3495
      @shortcakeangel3495 6 днів тому +3

      I'll remember you in my prayer, friend!🙏💞

  • @Hawaiinkid509
    @Hawaiinkid509 12 днів тому +889

    Currently sitting in the hospital with my mom while they treat her COPD & she instantly felt better when I told her Mrballen dropped a new video, glad we have the strange dark & mysterious to pass the time.

    • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
      @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 12 днів тому +52

      Oh man I am so sorry-I hope she gets better quickly

    • @Nanci-AnnBiviano
      @Nanci-AnnBiviano 12 днів тому +43

      Praying for your mom ♥️ my mom had COPD too & it can get really rough

    • @CoffeeIceScream
      @CoffeeIceScream 12 днів тому +11

      🥰

    • @MrBallen
      @MrBallen  12 днів тому +301

      Tell your mom I hope she feels better and gets to listen to the next video with you at home. Be well.🙏

    • @misshollyheck2475
      @misshollyheck2475 12 днів тому +21

      Hope your mom gets to feeling better .My step dad has been in the hospital for almost a month now with COPD and here I sit smoking 😮😮😮😮 Merry Christmas to you and your mom😊😊

  • @HollyMarie72
    @HollyMarie72 12 днів тому +1185

    There is absolutely no way in hell I would EVER go into a cave. That poor young man’s death is horrific. RIP

    • @carolbarton3609
      @carolbarton3609 12 днів тому +4

      You Crack ne up with the like button sayings😂😅

    • @pioneercynthia1
      @pioneercynthia1 12 днів тому +13

      My caving experience is limited to Mammoth Cave.

    • @hollyperrin7353
      @hollyperrin7353 12 днів тому +22

      From one Holly to another… NEVER go into a man cave! It’s nothing but dirty dishes, stinky socks, and electronic trip wires.

    • @HollyMarie72
      @HollyMarie72 12 днів тому +1

      @@hollyperrin7353 yup that’s prolly a death sentence too 🤪🤣😳

    • @CarpeNutella
      @CarpeNutella 12 днів тому +3

      ​@@pioneercynthia1Me too! A Kentucky 5th Grade traditional field trip 😂

  • @gdhaney136
    @gdhaney136 12 днів тому +1208

    I have Nutty Putty Cave flashbacks as you're telling this story. My stomach feels twisty, and my face is contorting into various expressions of oh no.

    • @marshalee4509
      @marshalee4509 12 днів тому +20

      agreed

    • @j-note3285
      @j-note3285 12 днів тому +50

      I also thought about Nutty Putty.

    • @dondamon4669
      @dondamon4669 12 днів тому +3

      When did you go there?

    • @SpookiCooki
      @SpookiCooki 12 днів тому +47

      Yeah Nutty Putty cave is synonymous with claustrophobia to me. Also the first story that made me feel claustrophobic.

    • @Uhtred-the-bold
      @Uhtred-the-bold 12 днів тому +15

      I lived in Fairfield and we used to go to the Nutty Putty’s and all the old mines out there all the time when I was young. No way I could do it now

  • @cherylh5706
    @cherylh5706 7 днів тому +17

    I just wanted to tell you that my daughter gifted your book to me for Christmas. I was brought to tears because it was the one gift that wasn't on a list, I didn't ask for it, and I was totally surprised. She just knows that I'm a major fan which makes your book one of the most thoughtful gifts I've ever received.

  • @amandasmith-m8j
    @amandasmith-m8j 12 днів тому +160

    I usually get bored with other storytellers because they drag things out or overhype, but you strike the perfect balance. You get right to the point while still including all the important details, and your videos are never clickbait. They always deliver exactly what you promise. Your storytelling skills and wording are so engaging; no one does it better!

    • @PrinceKima_12
      @PrinceKima_12 12 днів тому +6

      True. So many content creators take a meandering, 'natural' approach, as if chatting to a friend. I too get bored with them. Mr Ballon is so professional and enjoyable.

    • @rebjorn79
      @rebjorn79 12 днів тому +8

      I concur. But I do want to say - He is very good at gesticulating, too. Observe how he uses his hands etc.
      Not to take anything away from him, he's a GREAT storyteller.

  • @adammitchell3462
    @adammitchell3462 12 днів тому +371

    As a kid growing up in Appalachia,i had no shortage of caves to explore and i went through them all...ive been in places so tight that i had to suck my gut in to squeeze through. Had I known about stories like this,i never would've went anywhere near those things

    • @imscaredofwomen-i
      @imscaredofwomen-i 12 днів тому

      well, i glad u didn't get stuck or smtg

    • @drake6sermos665
      @drake6sermos665 12 днів тому +36

      I'm glad you didn't learn the same way Neil did! Hopefully, you're being more careful these days!

    • @adammitchell3462
      @adammitchell3462 12 днів тому +1

      @@drake6sermos665 absolutely! I seriously doubt that I'd even go in a cave period these days,I can't imagine a more terrifying fate

    • @CarpeNutella
      @CarpeNutella 12 днів тому +12

      My Mom is Appalachian and she wouldn't even jump off the trestle into the water with her brothers 😂

    • @aslhondu1688
      @aslhondu1688 12 днів тому +39

      Even if you hadn't known about these kind of stories, had it never occured to you that you might get stuck? Like how come it isn't the first thing that comes to your mind? No offense, genuinely curious.

  • @2AVA37
    @2AVA37 12 днів тому +572

    Mr. Ballen always reminds me that not doing stupid stuff is generally the best way to stay alive.
    Thanks, Mr. B. 🙌

    • @dillyDillzmuaythai4life
      @dillyDillzmuaythai4life 12 днів тому +1

      It takes Mr ballen to tell you that,😂 I'm sorry not being a smart kunt, I just over think everything 😂, here is me lol just jokeing,you last year what's stupid mean?,this year found Mr ballen,ohhhhh STUPID people ohhhhh 😂😂😂

    • @ericbernardo9161
      @ericbernardo9161 11 днів тому +6

      Very sad story.i hope next year mr.ballen tell da story of mysterious drone in new jersey😅😅😅

    • @dillyDillzmuaythai4life
      @dillyDillzmuaythai4life 11 днів тому

      @@ericbernardo9161 jersey devil lol 😆 wait,I'm wrong so very wrong thats lost tapes

    • @Yamyatos
      @Yamyatos 11 днів тому +3

      Refering to his nickname it's Mr.B, but that's basically a result of him using his full name on (i think it was) TikTok, where he could not separate it. John B. Allen. John Ballen. People just started thinking his last name was Ballen and wrote emails to him, calling him Mr. Ballen. I love this kind of backlore lol.

    • @dillyDillzmuaythai4life
      @dillyDillzmuaythai4life 11 днів тому

      @Yamyatos I been a fan for meany years,can't tell you how long but years, I'm calling him Mr ballen,don't give a fuxk what you new Gen call him but fuxk off and cry to daddy, git a problem you know where to find me

  • @XaMarie21
    @XaMarie21 16 годин тому +2

    Every time I hear you tell one of these stories, my anxiety goes through the roof significantly. I always hope that, right at the very end, you'll reveal that, against all odds, someone emerged from the rubble and survived whatever catastrophic event they endured.
    Despite the outcome of these stories, I will always listt. You truly are the best of the best when it comes to storytelling. You have a gift and I do appreciate it. Thank you, kind sir.❤

  • @dwanehubbard2935
    @dwanehubbard2935 12 днів тому +266

    As a father, I know that his dad must've been crushed just sitting there knowing his son is alive but will be dying and not being able to just hug his son when he felt alone and trapped. Ugh I can't think of anything worse

    • @katiewilliams2653
      @katiewilliams2653 11 днів тому +11

      I'm a mother of a little boy and this made me cry xx

    • @mikkihesson3509
      @mikkihesson3509 11 днів тому +8

      and that is why this kind of thing is super selfish with no reason or gain only dumb

    • @arrowtoknee69
      @arrowtoknee69 9 днів тому

      And that’s why you educate you’re children so you don’t gotta ever face that feeling and they don’t gotta die while you’re still kicking👍

    • @balrog123flys
      @balrog123flys 8 днів тому +4

      I have a pet fish and knowing my shift tomorrow is a 10 hour shift, and I won’t be able to feed my neighbours birds. Made me realise I need to get my shopping done and feed the kids that are locked up in my basement. I’m fishing for likes too.

    • @miketexas4549
      @miketexas4549 6 днів тому

      Watching your kid get eaten by velociraptors is probably worse

  • @Shetravelled
    @Shetravelled 12 днів тому +1238

    "Todays story is a claustrophobic nightmare" - me knowing I'm going to get anxiety - "Let's do this" ▶️

    • @LauraNicoleBarlow
      @LauraNicoleBarlow 12 днів тому +25

      SAME, I can't breathe listening to this...

    • @Itsthatoneguy371
      @Itsthatoneguy371 12 днів тому +13

      Me too! It’s making me feel like I’m in clothes that are too tight. I’m sick right now so it’s already hard to breathe, so that’s adding to stress and I’m not even in the cave.

    • @KnuckleheadStuey
      @KnuckleheadStuey 12 днів тому +4

      I thought it was just me.

    • @lesley4085
      @lesley4085 12 днів тому +3

      Me too 😬

    • @THAT_WUN_DUDE
      @THAT_WUN_DUDE 12 днів тому +7

      He did a similar spelunking story like this before and I have the same feeling watching this, pure gut-wrenching anxiety 😂 Nothing like sending your brain into primordial fear for fun

  • @RealGhoda
    @RealGhoda 12 днів тому +426

    Dude one look at the tunnel and I already knew that this was gonna be one of the toughest MrBallen eps to go through

    • @karlavonhuben1381
      @karlavonhuben1381 12 днів тому +4

      One look and I decided I'm NOT watching this one!

    • @Itsthatoneguy371
      @Itsthatoneguy371 12 днів тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @Jaker2123
      @Jaker2123 12 днів тому +3

      Yep I’m at work trying not to cry ffs

    • @desertstar223
      @desertstar223 12 днів тому

      It's not a picture of the real tunnel. It's just for illustration purposes. Do you know how UA-cam videos (and other videos) are made? This is not a documentary. Paper Brain. American maybe?

    • @JaimeCrockett-Campbell
      @JaimeCrockett-Campbell 12 днів тому

      I'm not claustrophobic, but this nearly threw me into a panic attack

  • @AthenaBethBlack
    @AthenaBethBlack 7 днів тому +7

    My need for deep breaths just increased with every passing minute of this horrific tale!

  • @catherinewilliams3850
    @catherinewilliams3850 12 днів тому +191

    Oh how sad that poor young man and how thoughtful and brave of his father to stop anyone else risking their life trying to retrieve his sons body.

  • @DanielleBrown-x6p
    @DanielleBrown-x6p 12 днів тому +372

    Everyone gangster til the strange dark and mysterious is delivered in story format

    • @SaraAllsopp-z6u
      @SaraAllsopp-z6u 11 днів тому +6

      🏆

    • @keona3157
      @keona3157 11 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @redbrick2121
      @redbrick2121 9 днів тому +1

      😂😂

    • @HuckBuddies
      @HuckBuddies 8 днів тому +2

      Story Time Gangster! 😅

    • @sarahwong5592
      @sarahwong5592 6 днів тому +1

      Someone comments this on EVERY MrBallen video....and it still makes me smile every time!😂

  • @nicolistruszkowski3355
    @nicolistruszkowski3355 8 днів тому +20

    I'm generally not claustrophobic, but I could never be that brave.

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 3 дні тому

      Same! I’ve never felt claustrophobia in my life until I heard this story and nutty putty. It’s crazy to me how some ppl don’t have that primal instinct to not do these types of things. Most of us would’ve abort mission as soon as the cave started to get small. We would never try to keep stretching and contorting our bodies to push through those tight spaces… Sad to say, but its natural selection taking its course 🤷‍♀️

  • @Rocky-q
    @Rocky-q 12 днів тому +328

    The thing I love about Mr. Ballen's storytelling is that you are not even consciously aware you are being told a story. It's like you are actually there and it is happening to you. That is a rare quality.

    • @samanthablount139
      @samanthablount139 12 днів тому +11

      That is a excellent way to describe Mr. Ballens story telling. You really do feel like it is happening to you and you are there

    • @Vibes_FC
      @Vibes_FC 12 днів тому +6

      Ikr its crazy

    • @beccamitchell2722
      @beccamitchell2722 12 днів тому +2

      I agree. Mr. Ballen is the best that I have listened to. Each episode takes us on a different journey. I began listening to him when he first started posting and was hooked immediately. Now I am a long time top fan. 🩷🩷🩷😊

    • @Neenie1976
      @Neenie1976 12 днів тому +2

      I disagree, he just sounds like a very good story teller.

    • @DemonKingBadger
      @DemonKingBadger 12 днів тому +2

      For me, more of a campfire type story telling, if that makes sense

  • @alliterationUK
    @alliterationUK 12 днів тому +122

    Reading so many comments from people who are struggling with bereavement at this time of year, please know you have my heartfelt condolences and love as a bereaved parent (12 years on from the loss of our 9-year-old daughter to acute myeloid leukaemia) and having lost my father to Covid in 2020 on 28 December (he was also a US Army veteran). May we all get through this holiday with as much peace as possible. Thank you, Mr Ballen, for your stories which help so many who are bereaved in their time of struggle.

    • @Kismetakiss
      @Kismetakiss 12 днів тому +3

      Wishing you peace joy and happiness during this tough time

    • @salchipapa5843
      @salchipapa5843 12 днів тому +2

      I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter and father. All the best wishes to you and your family.

    • @Kureclan
      @Kureclan 12 днів тому

      Just geose to show that being a us army veteran don’t mean you can survive Covid

    • @PAULDAMIEN197FOUR
      @PAULDAMIEN197FOUR 12 днів тому

    • @valenciajohn3043
      @valenciajohn3043 11 днів тому +2

      @@alliterationUK My condolences on the loss of your father and daughter. My mother past on Dec. 11, 2019 right before the pandemic. I miss her so much and I'm trying my best not to go headlong into depression. All I can do is ask God to help me through it and I pray that you put your broken heart into his care and he'll mend your heart. Thank you Lord Jesus for blessing us all with another day so that we may show love to others in their time of need. It's in your name I pray, Amen

  • @cassykissess
    @cassykissess 11 днів тому +262

    Anyone else notice how much the quality has improved? Audio, visual, and green screen. Idk it just seems like it’s gotten so much clearer :) thanks for any upgrades you’ve done !

    • @MohamadhoseinSabzevari
      @MohamadhoseinSabzevari 11 днів тому +1

      @@cassykissess yes honey
      Me 😂♥️

    • @thirdmonkeyent_llc
      @thirdmonkeyent_llc 10 днів тому +5

      Yeah. Because he's actually an entire company now with a team haha

    • @cassykissess
      @cassykissess 10 днів тому +2

      @@thirdmonkeyent_llc well even with his entire team he used to film on his iphone and recently mentioned he did in a live stream so I think he may have changed it since the quality got better :)

    • @cassykissess
      @cassykissess 10 днів тому +3

      @@MohamadhoseinSabzevari omg I noticed it in the last video too !!! I didn’t see your comment tho, so I’m sorry I missed it 😭 I’m so happy to see that we notice the little things 😂

    • @jessicahannah2522
      @jessicahannah2522 10 днів тому

      @@MohamadhoseinSabzevari crreepy

  • @RachelMiller-l3l
    @RachelMiller-l3l 5 днів тому +7

    My sister lived in Castleton, there is a tree planted in his memory, with a plaque for him

  • @mattjerram3624
    @mattjerram3624 10 днів тому +75

    Rest in peace. Thats a mindset I cant even begin to comprehend. Finding an unexplored hole barely big enough fit in, climbing in, and then continuing to descend when it becomes even tighter is a legitimately terrifying thought. The walls were closing in on me as I was listening to this.

  • @reginamachamer821
    @reginamachamer821 12 днів тому +416

    My dad died a week before xmas so this is a very rough time of year for me. Distractions are how I get through. Thanks MrB I really needed this right about now. ❤

    • @alexbowers2713
      @alexbowers2713 12 днів тому +30

      I’m sorry for your loss

    • @reubenaballo7347
      @reubenaballo7347 12 днів тому +19

      Sorry for your loss☹️

    • @SandyF_trouble
      @SandyF_trouble 12 днів тому +12

      God bless

    • @Lily-has-wings
      @Lily-has-wings 12 днів тому +23

      My Dad died tragically right before Christmas in 2011. I was devastated. Now it seems that the holidays only being grief and sadness for me. So I know exactly how you feel. Distraction and my faith are what gets me thru. Plus, I know Daddy is always with his little girl

    • @lea-anne9133
      @lea-anne9133 12 днів тому +11

      Sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in December too. It's a difficult time for some.

  • @angelofmusic1992
    @angelofmusic1992 12 днів тому +98

    Hadn't heard this particular cave disaster before, damn, this was a hard one to watch. Forget serial killers, cannibals, or other gory stuff, claustrophobic tunnels where you're stuck for hours and the only thing you can do is just slowly suffocate until you die, that scares me more than anything else.

    • @K-bq3lv
      @K-bq3lv 12 днів тому +2

      Or worse, if he had oxygen but simply had to wait for a long death. An absolute tragedy. Every adventure like that should be thought through as if it were only one person doing the cave exploring, because as in Neil's situation, it all depended on him to extricate himself. And it all depended on him to make judgements about the limits of a difficult exploration.

    • @capness1228
      @capness1228 12 днів тому +2

      I mean all you have to do to avoid this happening is not be a dumbass.

  • @rogueraven2531
    @rogueraven2531 7 днів тому +41

    If the female rescuer was close enough to attempt to break his collar bone, why could she not have put a mask on him?

    • @MSOGameShow
      @MSOGameShow 6 днів тому +11

      I was looking for this comment. I was thinking the same. Truly crazy try didn't think to do that.

    • @plumdutchess
      @plumdutchess 6 днів тому +5

      For what purpose exactly? To keep him alive longer when there's no chance he'll get out? It wasn't just because there was less oxygen. The problem was that he was so wedged in that his lungs couldn't expand fully. No matter how much pure oxygen you put into someone. It was 1959. The rescue methods weren't very advanced.

    • @heatherrueppel9144
      @heatherrueppel9144 5 днів тому +15

      ​@@plumdutchesswasn't it said that they needed Niel to wriggle and help unwedge himself? He needed to be conscious to participate in his rescue efforts.

    • @Clairejart
      @Clairejart 5 днів тому +2

      RIGHT?!???

    • @joanbaczek2575
      @joanbaczek2575 5 днів тому +2

      He was compressed so air couldn’t get in even if supplied

  • @timking-iy9jw
    @timking-iy9jw 12 днів тому +43

    Some of the hardest Mr. Ballen stories ive ever listened to involve caves, or divers.....or both. Absolutely terrifying, and horribly sad. Such an awedful, and lonely way to go.

  • @cjohnson2159
    @cjohnson2159 11 днів тому +29

    I got it when you said, “ amateur explorers!” Nothing good can come after that description! 😮

  • @lotterwinner6474
    @lotterwinner6474 10 днів тому +61

    I'm glad these days we have cameras, not that you will find me in these predicaments but that hopefully they will prevent others from getting into this kind of trouble.

    • @jamiesonfamily1201
      @jamiesonfamily1201 5 днів тому

      Agreed

    • @johnwicksdog4399
      @johnwicksdog4399 3 дні тому

      What’s a camera gonna do ? Nothing was stopping him from going in that hole

    • @aleashacasarez855
      @aleashacasarez855 6 годин тому

      ​@johnwicksdog4399 If he had a camera, he could've seen there was no cavern at the end, and wouldn't have put himself in danger.

    • @johnwicksdog4399
      @johnwicksdog4399 5 годин тому

      @@aleashacasarez855 get outta here. Nothing was stopping him

  • @lildsmith6324
    @lildsmith6324 8 днів тому +5

    I personally BELIVE .. that skinwalker ranch.. is one of the best story’s you’ve ever told! The way you explain it and all its detail even to the groceries the mom left out and the wolf and how big it was! It’s amazing !

  • @goldberg9260
    @goldberg9260 12 днів тому +386

    As a firefighter I’m not claustrophobic, but doing something like this would be a huge no from me
    Just to clarify I would go in to attempt a co-ordinated rescue, but cave diving in general absolutely not,

    • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
      @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 12 днів тому +23

      You’re a hero anyway for being willing to save lives ❤

    • @tdoran
      @tdoran 12 днів тому +6

      Yeah this would be a "Sorry, you gonna die, son" from me. Not a firefighter.

    • @hhistertheosis
      @hhistertheosis 12 днів тому +3

      Hey firefighter, do you know Bigfoot stories?

    • @Desert_Rogue_Tanker
      @Desert_Rogue_Tanker 12 днів тому +11

      I was a tank driver and inside of the tank is really claustrophobic and I am 6'0 and I was 230 at the time and even then I would be like "nah I'm good"

    • @davesmith5656
      @davesmith5656 12 днів тому +8

      One of the things about caves is simply air to breathe. The last rescuer who put rope around Neil's shoulders ... why could he not fix the oxygen mask to his face?

  • @thereal_2184
    @thereal_2184 12 днів тому +59

    The best part about spelunking is that you don’t have to do it. RIP Neil

  • @DenieGayle
    @DenieGayle 12 днів тому +61

    John thank you for your 😮storytelling. At 71 years old it's heartbreaking that families no longer participate in making sure they pass on the stories to new generations. There were 12 in our family and my dad was a master storyteller. It didn't matter if it was scary, sad or funny. We would all be on the edge of our seats not taking our eyes off him till the story was over. Such rich information and stories of where we all came from etc. So as someone who knows a good story teller imagine how thrilled I was to find you. As long as you’re around the rest of us can go back in time when this was something all families do. I hope you realize the impact this has for people like me to just for a moment travel back to that time I sat on my dad’s lap soaking in every word. It’s a precious gift you give and I wanted to thank you personally. 😊

    • @debbieleeniva4581
      @debbieleeniva4581 12 днів тому +2

      I completely felt this. Have a peaceful evening.

  • @kellysong2256
    @kellysong2256 5 днів тому +2

    That poor father! 😮 What a courageous sacrifice he made not to risk others' lives

  • @stephenbrown7937
    @stephenbrown7937 12 днів тому +59

    20:45 if the guy reached him, why didn’t he put the mask on??

    • @Kai-Is-Pie
      @Kai-Is-Pie 10 днів тому +16

      I was just thinking that when this comment popped up. Are we missing something here?

    • @whatisthisworld1529
      @whatisthisworld1529 10 днів тому

      Came to ask the same thing. If they could get a rope around his chest and take it off why couldn’t they get the mask to his face?

    • @mattreimer382
      @mattreimer382 10 днів тому +4

      My exact thoughts

    • @cherylhickmon8573
      @cherylhickmon8573 10 днів тому +1

      Because his arms were stuck.

    • @Holzbacherway
      @Holzbacherway 10 днів тому +16

      @@cherylhickmon8573 the person who made it down to him .. why didn’t he put the mask on for him

  • @MW222-s8u
    @MW222-s8u 12 днів тому +199

    My main goal in life is to never be a victim in these situations or stories just a listener only!!

    • @obamasteeth
      @obamasteeth 12 днів тому +1

      Okay you're still gonna get got my colon cancer or something.

    • @obamasteeth
      @obamasteeth 12 днів тому +1

      Sounds like a guaranteed way to have a boring life in vain

    • @Nobodyisgreat123
      @Nobodyisgreat123 12 днів тому +3

      I feel you

    • @xdlchaos2768
      @xdlchaos2768 12 днів тому +9

      ngl id never wanna be in one of these stories but at the same time if mr.ballen told my story id be so honored

    • @Brian17-l4i
      @Brian17-l4i 12 днів тому +1

      You're a very sensible person. 🤗

  • @coconut7474
    @coconut7474 12 днів тому +41

    What I find the most disturbing is the superlong death struggle. Heartbreaking.

  • @dbomber03
    @dbomber03 3 дні тому +1

    The fact that nobody had been down and into such an easily in an accessible area, you know it was like around a lot of places where people had been before, and the fact that nobody went down there after all of that access had been saturated, tells you something as a reason that no one went down there

  • @starsforeve
    @starsforeve 12 днів тому +68

    The way Mr ballen tells stories makes me get chills every single time

    • @kiwe7511
      @kiwe7511 12 днів тому +1

      Yup, heard the Neil Moss story several times but i still had to hear the Ballen rendering

  • @EmoneyYaHeard
    @EmoneyYaHeard 12 днів тому +135

    I'm sorry Mr. ballin but I could not finish this episode..I began feeling a tightness in my chest and I was beginning to drown in anxiety just listening to this story..this is literally my worst nightmare..on a different note: Merry Christmas to you and your family..may you all have a safe holiday

    • @judyt1204
      @judyt1204 12 днів тому +8

      Same, 11 mins in and I just can’t handle my claustrophobia listening to it.😅

    • @ASMRyouKidding
      @ASMRyouKidding 12 днів тому +1

      Merry Christmas 😊

    • @Spammer_the_hedgehog
      @Spammer_the_hedgehog 12 днів тому

      He makes it out alive

    • @Spammer_the_hedgehog
      @Spammer_the_hedgehog 12 днів тому

      ​@@judyt1204he makes it out alive

    • @sdriza
      @sdriza 12 днів тому +1

      ​@@judyt1204 same - not enjoyable for me to think about, I'm out - poor guy (I rock climb, sky dive, etc - but the cave stuff is not for me

  • @WynneL
    @WynneL 12 днів тому +292

    Eric Moss is an angel for caring more about lives than his son's former body. All too many parents are willing, even eager to let people risk their lives for a dead form.
    RIP to his son. Please don't risk your life, people. Please just don't. There are ways to get adrenaline without taking huge risks. Remember Moss Chamber.

    • @k.elysium6819
      @k.elysium6819 11 днів тому

      Spoiler ☹️

    • @Yamyatos
      @Yamyatos 11 днів тому +17

      This. Having people risk their lives to rescue the dead body of a person who knew what they were getting into is just, sorry to say.. but stupid. Especially if it's ironic like this. I dont mean to be rude, but i mean.. he is buried underground and people are supposed to risk their lives to get him out there, just so he can be buried underground somewhere else? Ridiculous.
      Cave exploration and cave diving are so stupid hobbies to have. I get the thrill of wanting to explore something unknown, but risking your life is just not worth it. Intuitively i think cave diving is more dangerous, but i feel like cave explorers think the same and just make up for it by doing even riskier stuff...

    • @MiddayEnglishman
      @MiddayEnglishman 11 днів тому

      The main issues I found were going to the pro’s and listening to their ego’s. One has pictures of a toddler in the cave I nearly died in with my brother. Saying that I’ve been since but use my own common sense and take proper safety precautions. Pridhamsleigh Cavern.
      Hmmmm… need to go back.

    • @Uhohohno319
      @Uhohohno319 11 днів тому +15

      @@k.elysium6819then don’t read the comments before watching the video.

    • @HoV326
      @HoV326 11 днів тому

      Or Nutty Putty Caves

  • @Qdub1
    @Qdub1 4 дні тому

    Just hearing how he kept shimmying down put my anxiety through the rough, as I’m listening to him talk I’m just shaking my head, cause I couldn’t imagine, the fear and hopelessness Neil felt

  • @DerekFarnquist23
    @DerekFarnquist23 12 днів тому +19

    What a devastating decision to have to make as a father. As a person in general, really.
    Another wonderful and respectful telling of someone’s last moments, Mr. Ballen! Always a pleasure hearing a tale from you.

    • @michalrehacek3462
      @michalrehacek3462 11 днів тому

      What I wonder about most is the perspective and thought process of the father when he was letting his son crawl into the tight space.
      I am not a father, just an uncle and I do acknowledge that being overprotective at all times is a bad idea. But how does would I live with the burden that I let my family risk so much without putting a stop to it, or maybe even encourage it?
      I don’t want to be insensitive to someone who clearly has indured a painful loss. With that said, how isn’t it the father’s responsibility?

  • @ashmaybe9634
    @ashmaybe9634 12 днів тому +38

    I've been caving in Peak Cavern. They didn't tell us about this entombed body of Neil before we went! We went into some really tight tunnels as well. Poor guy. Just when you think caving couldn't get any scarier, MrBallen pulls another caving tragedy from his hat.

    • @trueestoriesonly
      @trueestoriesonly 12 днів тому +8

      I have no idea how you could ever go into such small spaces😮

    • @arrowtoknee69
      @arrowtoknee69 9 днів тому

      lol they prob didn’t wanna kill the mood with speaking of a dead kid forever entombed in the rock you’re exploring

  • @erayburn6354
    @erayburn6354 12 днів тому +40

    I absolutely cannot fathom how anyone could willingly enter into some small, confined underground "mystery" tunnel & then voluntarily subject themselves to the extremely high likelihood of complete entrapment. For me, that's a torture worse than death! Sometimes, I'm simply amazed by the lengths to which people will go for the mere possibility of (even minimal) notoriety. 🤦‍♀SMH

    • @ibm30rpg
      @ibm30rpg 12 днів тому +2

      People don't know the limits of their mortality until they push the bounds to the very edge. People have survived close to this, but unfortunately in this case, Neil went past his limit.

    • @amberschippers601
      @amberschippers601 11 днів тому

      I believe it is exactly that. These challenges make you feel like you are alive and remind you of your morality. That feeling also really appeals to me. Tho I am not that extreme and prefer just to walk through wild nature, instead of claustrophobic stuff like this. XD @erayburn6354 ​@@ibm30rpg

  • @cindyandrewsthompson
    @cindyandrewsthompson 9 днів тому +4

    I have seen all of Mr. Ballen videos. This is the first time I had to stop the video halfway through and quit listening. This scared me so bad that I didn't have the guts to finish the video. Just can't handle tight spaces. Never thought I wouldn't be able to finish one of your episodes. Master storyteller, sir.

  • @elinakeranen4499
    @elinakeranen4499 12 днів тому +72

    It's crazy that so many caving disasters are not about something going suddenly wrong, but people deliberately go into places where getting out has a smaller chance than getting stuck. Forcing himself to an unknown cave to the point he doesn't realize he can't move his arms up, rocks falling? After the turn his chances to survive were 0%.

    • @Suz4155
      @Suz4155 12 днів тому +1

      This happened like 70 years ago.😢

    • @tonn333
      @tonn333 12 днів тому

      Interesting, please share your source if you can! You can, right?

    • @elinakeranen4499
      @elinakeranen4499 12 днів тому +4

      @@tonn333 source: listening to Mr. Ballen's stories, where he describes the conditions of the caves people went despite it being an unknown cave.

    • @tonn333
      @tonn333 12 днів тому

      @@elinakeranen4499 do you see how that can be misleading? You're making conclusions on incomplete data

    • @elinakeranen4499
      @elinakeranen4499 12 днів тому +1

      @@tonn333 "so many" is not a statistical claim.

  • @Gratefulfellow
    @Gratefulfellow 11 днів тому +90

    Wishing everyone here including Mr Ballen a merry christmas. Thanks again Mr Ballen for your amazing story telling. This cave exploration story let's me know there are some exploration or curiousity that is not worth losing your life for. Tragically he finally had a cave named after him but posthumously.

  • @cyndybrehio7566
    @cyndybrehio7566 12 днів тому +54

    No one else is getting nauseated listening to this story? Im only at 7:17 idk if i can keep going. Small spaces are very hard for me. On the other hand i love Mr. Ballen!

    • @lillian4842
      @lillian4842 12 днів тому +8

      literally me rn at 7:15 BRO TURN BACK

    • @DemonKingBadger
      @DemonKingBadger 12 днів тому +4

      Dang I noticed this and stopped at 7:18.

    • @chasemolo
      @chasemolo 12 днів тому +7

      im literally having a small anxiety attack

    • @LauraJessop-su5zu
      @LauraJessop-su5zu 12 днів тому +2

      Me too! 7:25

    • @BengaliMartyMcfly
      @BengaliMartyMcfly 12 днів тому +3

      Suffering the same dude. Strength in numbers 🤟🏽🫶🏽

  • @evolution0016
    @evolution0016 7 днів тому +2

    I work a stones throw from this, crazy Mr Ballen doing a video on it. Im claustrophobic so I’ve never been in and was a difficult listen but good to hear about something local.

  • @RainbowWrangler
    @RainbowWrangler 12 днів тому +45

    Excellent video! A friend of mine goes caving and ive been in a few baby level caves with him as im partially disabled. Im talking you can walk through and maybe duck or climb over a small boulder from time to time. Even so we get the same talk every time. One of the most important rules. If you don't know where a cave goes NEVER EVER force yourself through a squeeze. Theres no garentee i get out

  • @shawnadennis613
    @shawnadennis613 12 днів тому +99

    I’m so claustrophobic, that I could never even try to go in this tunnel.

    • @marshalee4509
      @marshalee4509 12 днів тому +2

      me too

    • @truth_hunter
      @truth_hunter 12 днів тому +4

      Same, my anxiety was raised listening to this story and imagining what it would be like if I was in Neil’s position. I couldn’t handle the climbing down and the idea of trying to squeeze and force my body down this tunnel is too scary for me.

    • @528Circle
      @528Circle 12 днів тому +1

      That, my portly shape and heart condition make it a hard no for me too!

    • @elinakeranen4499
      @elinakeranen4499 12 днів тому +4

      I'm not claustrophobic but that tunnel, nope.

    • @natelittle3878
      @natelittle3878 11 днів тому +1

      Yup. I'd be too claustrophobic just looking at the opening of the tunnel and I am not even claustrophobic. 😮

  • @axelfrance9020
    @axelfrance9020 12 днів тому +30

    These stories give me the worst gut wrenching anxiety just listening!! I can't even imagine what makes people want to do this stuff for fun!!

  • @heatherarce3744
    @heatherarce3744 5 днів тому +2

    This is the most disturbing episode I’ve heard yet. Took me 2 days to get through it was so upsetting. Poor guy. Heartbreaking.

  • @daniellomas6310
    @daniellomas6310 12 днів тому +14

    I live 3km from where this happened in Castleton, High Peak. Tragic. Can never understand how people can enjoy being constricted underground in the dark. Its my worst nightmare!! 😫
    RIP Neil. ❤ Eric was a real one for doing that too. 👏

  • @EmilyKube
    @EmilyKube 12 днів тому +20

    All of us folks from different places and backgrounds, with sad stories or happy stories, all united together by the strange, dark, and mysterious. Thank you, MrBallen, for all you do for this storytime family you have inherited.
    Merry Christmas and happy holidays!!!

  • @haydenyork8414
    @haydenyork8414 12 днів тому +107

    As a father myself, this story crushed me and now I'm crying. Can we get a strange dark and mysterious story with a happy resolution soon please?

    • @InteriorDesignStudent
      @InteriorDesignStudent 12 днів тому +35

      It's strange, dark, and mysterious not strange, happy, and mysterious.

    • @iainjohnston788
      @iainjohnston788 12 днів тому +1

      That’s right mate , and I know it too.

    • @juliemanarin4127
      @juliemanarin4127 12 днів тому +5

      Unfortunately most are tragic

    • @travisspaulding9540
      @travisspaulding9540 12 днів тому +6

      There are some, but they’re few and far between

    • @xyz12345457
      @xyz12345457 12 днів тому +3

      Terrible to think of the anguish that man must have gone through. Not just while it was happening, for the rest of his life.

  • @Ely_sean
    @Ely_sean 4 дні тому +37

    So sad! I cried. His father made the hardest decision any parent could ever make. He couldn't even get to see his son for a last time. 😩😭😭😭

    • @kayleigh3648
      @kayleigh3648 3 дні тому +5

      I think his logic was that there was no point in risking other ppl’s lives to retrieve a dead body. If he was still alive, theres no way he would’ve said that. But since he knew he was never gonna see his son again anyways, he figured there was no need to put others at risk just so he can have a proper burial ground. He was gonna get buried in the ground regardless, so it only makes sense to just leave him there and guarantee everyone else’s safety

    • @Ely_sean
      @Ely_sean 2 дні тому

      @kayleigh3648
      He's so selfless. I pray such never happen to anyone again. 💜

  • @battleborn1055
    @battleborn1055 11 днів тому +20

    As someone with claustrophobia, this is pure nightmare fuel

  • @shawnadennis613
    @shawnadennis613 12 днів тому +81

    Poor Neil, I cant imagine the pain he had to go through. This is so heartbreaking 💔

    • @aldiirsanmajid4235
      @aldiirsanmajid4235 12 днів тому +17

      poor? he hinself decided to do such dumb things. why would they put themselves in such dangerous place just for the praise from other people? lmao 😂

    • @DonFahquidmi
      @DonFahquidmi 12 днів тому

      I try not to be so harsh. Remember, this happened in 1959, long before accident/incident reports were widely published. I took up skydiving in the early 80s. Our sport parachute club required us to join the United States Parachute Association. The accident/incident reports in thei publication was instrumental in saving lives. I assume that might be the case with spelunking and other potentially hazardous sports. ​@aldiirsanmajid4235

    • @avalon4693
      @avalon4693 12 днів тому +9

      @@aldiirsanmajid4235it is pretty funny how whenever someone dies people say how amazing they were, how kind they were to everyone, etc. I’m like there’s no way that’s true😅 most people are dumb and/or assholes

    • @Paradigm-change
      @Paradigm-change 12 днів тому

      @@aldiirsanmajid4235 he was just doing what he did. You can't blame him for that. He did tight tunnels a thousand times and it worked out. I'm sure he didn't go into this thinking it would be his last. You don't have to be so harsh and judgmental.

    • @cuppycakey5013
      @cuppycakey5013 12 днів тому +6

      @@avalon4693I know! In every story about someone dying, they were always loved by everyone, kind, intelligent, and amazing. 😅 Sure, they all were.

  • @devsie11915
    @devsie11915 11 днів тому +11

    Dude this whole story has me nauseated. I’m so claustrophobic I’m struggling just to listen without hyperventilating, but your storytelling is so enthralling, I can’t stop. Thanks for inspiring my nightmares. Love the channel.

  • @noonslullabies
    @noonslullabies День тому

    I didn't realise I heard this story before until his dad said to stop. I didn't forget him. He truly loved his son, and didn't want anyone else to share the same fate.

  • @erichthedread4595
    @erichthedread4595 12 днів тому +32

    At 9:47 I’m going dude just go back up! Like there is no morphine, no tranqs to help you as you leave this world. Nothing but absolute isolation & horrific terror.

    • @gingereden546
      @gingereden546 12 днів тому +2

      Thats the EXACT same thing I was thinking. Common sense. Don't go into spaces smaller than your body. Nothing wrong with caving, but you HAVE to do it with logic and sense. Spelunking and cave diving are actually safe if all rules are followed and basic sense used, but we hear about deaths due to the fact that those things aren't done.

    • @AParkerRn09
      @AParkerRn09 5 днів тому +2

      The EXACT second I had to pause listening!

  • @gina101creativeartofficial
    @gina101creativeartofficial 12 днів тому +38

    Poor Neil, I kept hoping for a happy ending. Such a heartbreaking story.

    • @Paradigm-change
      @Paradigm-change 12 днів тому

      me too. that was really sad 😢

    • @gina101creativeartofficial
      @gina101creativeartofficial 12 днів тому

      @Paradigm-change Yes it was absolutely heartbreaking. I kept thinking of my sons and I can’t even begin to imagine how I would feel had it been one of them and I had to make such a gut wrenching decision. I just can’t even put myself in his father’s shoes… The pain he must’ve endured and carried for the rest of his life is just unimaginable.

    • @Spammer_the_hedgehog
      @Spammer_the_hedgehog 12 днів тому +3

      Idk why but I just can't seem to feel bad for him

    • @gina101creativeartofficial
      @gina101creativeartofficial 12 днів тому

      @@Spammer_the_hedgehog I don’t know why either.

    • @NinjaZXRR
      @NinjaZXRR 12 днів тому +1

      @@Spammer_the_hedgehog me neither he did that to himself

  • @kayla1245768
    @kayla1245768 12 днів тому +11

    This episode had a bigger effect on me than any other episode…. Wow man that’s just… terrible. You did this story such justice.

  • @aly27
    @aly27 4 дні тому

    I’ve listened to pretty much every one of your stories and this one made me more stressed than any other. The fact that he was still alive all those hours later is such a nightmare.

  • @ThrillSeeker3524
    @ThrillSeeker3524 12 днів тому +45

    4:00 - Wallow in Self Pity
    4:30 - Stare Into The Abyss
    5:00 - Solver World Hunger. Tell No One!
    5:30 - Jazzercise
    6:30 - Dinner With Me (I can't cancel that again!)
    7:00 - Wrestle With My Self Loathing
    8:00 - Watch Mr. Ballen
    I'm Booked!

  • @justmekelc
    @justmekelc 9 днів тому +7

    I appreciate that you not only give warnings in your descriptions but also tell your viewers.
    This story definitely gave me some goosebumps

  • @Nae_aka_toras_wifey
    @Nae_aka_toras_wifey 12 днів тому +31

    Love having MrBallen as a part of my Saturday routine 🙌🏽💖

  • @starlightangel1990
    @starlightangel1990 12 годин тому +1

    The thought of a slow death like that is soo scary. Idk why anyone gets a thrill of being in tight spaces.

  • @Verno343
    @Verno343 12 днів тому +18

    Thanks to this channel I’ll never mess around in caves

  • @codydraving8184
    @codydraving8184 12 днів тому +17

    I am living for these Saturday uploads, Mr. Ballen!! They are amazing!! I designate Saturday as house cleaning day, and it’s always a nice companion.

  • @berbiche19988
    @berbiche19988 9 днів тому +1

    What really amazed me is that, even though he showed a lot of struggles for just 4 hours, he managed to keep breathing up to 36 hours ! That’s amazing, it just shows how much stronger we are, way past what we believe what our limit is.

  • @lea-anne9133
    @lea-anne9133 12 днів тому +25

    Poor man. What a terrible way to die. My sympathy goes out to his family and loved ones.

  • @elaexplorer
    @elaexplorer 12 днів тому +27

    I really don't understand why they didn't put the oxygen mask on him when they were able to crawl down close enough to touch him.

    • @arathyn8294
      @arathyn8294 12 днів тому +9

      Yea, that bit wad never explained, and it bothered me too

    • @ibm30rpg
      @ibm30rpg 12 днів тому +1

      You forgot the part where the cave is so narrow that there's not space around you to push the mask down.

    • @Here_is_Waldo
      @Here_is_Waldo 12 днів тому +1

      It was in 1959. The technology wasn't as good, and oxygen tanks were probably a lot harder to come by.

    • @Yamyatos
      @Yamyatos 11 днів тому +6

      @@ibm30rpg You forgot the part where they were able to wind a rope around his chest in the same space that's supposedly to narrow to put a mask on his face then..

    • @SMindaa
      @SMindaa 11 днів тому

      To make the agony longer?..

  • @NexuJin
    @NexuJin 11 днів тому +19

    Young, reckless, overconfident, desperate to seek glory and prestige and a cave. What could possibly go wrong?

  • @TheATMproduction
    @TheATMproduction 7 днів тому

    Love how involved you are with your community. Best guy !!!

  • @zachkurczewski5415
    @zachkurczewski5415 12 днів тому +10

    "It's all we do" and "we upload once a week" hits the logic side of the mind hard after binging your older videos where it was 4 sometimes even 5 times a week 😂
    But it just makes the new releases that much better 🔥❤️

  • @Kory-h9x
    @Kory-h9x 12 днів тому +12

    seriously how can someone find pleasure in going to such narrow places inside tunnels??!! This is Madness! Poor Neil. Very sad.

    • @Twizzzums
      @Twizzzums 12 днів тому

      They get an adrenaline rush out of it. The thrill of the unknown, and ultimately the idea of a death like this. They get closer and closer to it, squeezing in tighter and tighter as they gain experience in different cave systems until eventually it happens. They need to be rescued and most do, but not always. The peak of adrenaline, near death. It’s an addiction and you can find it everywhere. Skydiving, Scuba diving, cave exploration, the isle of man tt, mountain climbing, skyscraper climbing, there’s literally human beings right now addicted to playing Russian Roulette. I feel sympathy for them but at the end of the day you did it to yourself. It’s elegant suicide.

    • @ibm30rpg
      @ibm30rpg 12 днів тому

      High risk, low reward.

  • @jet__girl
    @jet__girl 12 днів тому +12

    Rodney, from Run Fool, has the perfect voice for scary stories. Not exaggerated. It sounds like he is telling things that actually happened. So good.

    • @k.elysium6819
      @k.elysium6819 11 днів тому

      He does have a good voice. I like the content of Mr. Ballen's main channel and his medical mysteries podcast better though. I gave Run Fool a try and it was too hard to believe the story.

    • @jet__girl
      @jet__girl 11 днів тому +1

      @k.elysium6819 the stories are not real. They are told as if they happened for real but it's all folklore tales, monsters, haunted things. Like wendigos, spirits etc You're not supposed to believe I'm them.

    • @k.elysium6819
      @k.elysium6819 11 днів тому

      @jet__girl I know they're not real, I'm just saying, I don't like that style. The reason my post was a bit ambivalent was because I've only heard one or two, so didn't know if there were other ones that were more real sounding. I like stories that are either true, or impossible to explain. Mr Ballen does a great job with his paranormal themed stories, because he doesn't tell them in a way that shows he believes there is no logical explanation, rather, he dubs them "unexplainable" and moves on.

  • @TiredCorvid07
    @TiredCorvid07 День тому

    I’ve seen so many of these videos but this is one of the saddest to me. Knowing he was so close to being rescued so many times and then having his father there to witness him be declared dead is just heartbreaking

  • @mallarysangel
    @mallarysangel 12 днів тому +47

    This is exactly the kind of dude that would’ve watched mrballen. Strange dark and mysterious caves were his thing. Damn shame he didn’t have UA-cam.

  • @naterewing
    @naterewing 12 днів тому +20

    8:08 The answer is no.

  • @Capxq
    @Capxq 12 днів тому +31

    Claustrophobia is another level of horrifying

  • @Dreadzilla
    @Dreadzilla 2 дні тому

    Heart pounding throughout the whole story, hoping this would be the first where they actually made it out alive, knowing full well how this channel operates! 😮‍💨

  • @CocoBella88
    @CocoBella88 12 днів тому +11

    I lost it when they came back & still heard Neil breathing knowing he was at the end... they stayed until they knew he was gone

  • @country-m1
    @country-m1 12 днів тому +28

    No video about clostraphobia will ever compare to those men who got sucked into the oil pipe out in the middle of the ocean.

    • @Todzuum
      @Todzuum 12 днів тому +4

      Ya that ones messed up.

    • @Kurt1969
      @Kurt1969 12 днів тому +1

      Yeah, that one was terrible. I don't often think back on stories but that one stuck with me.
      Off topic, but one of the most brutal shark attacks that still haunts me at least a few times a month is Vladimir Popov. There is video footage of the attack off the coast of Egypt I believe.

    • @Joyangel278
      @Joyangel278 12 днів тому +1

      Whats the name of that video?

    • @SarinaG
      @SarinaG 11 днів тому

      @@Joyangel278”The Caribbean Disaster”

    • @Freeatlast51
      @Freeatlast51 10 днів тому +1

      Oh God..yeah.. beyond anything I can ever imagine..

  • @yazansyouf8529
    @yazansyouf8529 12 днів тому +8

    I only recently found this channel and I've been binging your videos everyday for the past two weeks. You and Mr. Nightmare are the best story tellers on here.

  • @jenjenthe10
    @jenjenthe10 18 годин тому

    At first I had so many questions about the rescue efforts but then I looked at the date of the accident. I feel so much for the father that had to make the heartbreaking decision, knowing he would never be able to see/touch his son again.

  • @cuppycakey5013
    @cuppycakey5013 12 днів тому +18

    I feel like people who look at holes in the ground and decide to go inside them, and especially ones who don’t go back out once they realize it’s getting smaller and tighter, and they’re having to contort their bodies to get through are highly lacking in intelligence and common sense. Because of one man’s foolish decision, all those other people risked THEIR lives and could have died because of him. It’s sad that he died, but he really should have known better.

    • @sifisdalezios2123
      @sifisdalezios2123 12 днів тому +4

      I think the same... the hole was getting smaller and smaller and the guy just kept squeezing himself further down... sorry my friend you brought that to yourself...

    • @OrcinusLaryngologist
      @OrcinusLaryngologist 12 днів тому +2

      Ostrich brains.