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Been there. I think Cole Hastings made a pretty good video about breakups a while back, if you'd want to give that a watch. Either way, just remember not to beat yourself up about what happened because everything happens for a reason
That whole introduction of how and where you grew up was almost word-by-word of how I grew up, kind of uncanny but it is comforting to see someone with the same experience :)
damn that perfectly describes whats going on for me rn post breakup. Raw solitude, like when the wind is howling turning the waves choppy all around you and you sit alone on a small rock of land just watching the storm around you. It's been hard so far but I am almost finding myself enjoying moments in the calm of the storm so to speak. It's a weird balance between an intense yearning and overwhelming feeling of loneliness, but also appreciating myself sitting at the center of the storm just watching the waves around me
Thanks for making this video. My friend group is small and I've had to ditch some toxic friends which made me lonely. I'm now planning on going to my local arcade, so thank you.
This week I felt lonely for the first time. I've always been alone, but never felt lonely. And I learned why: I don't even know what it means to have someone, so I just never missed it. My mother destroyed our family when I was 8, she did what she could to keep me away from my father as long as she could, and she was out 12-14 hours a day for work. The little time she was home she would complain to me about the chores and she let me use the computer without any limits and wouldn't do any effort to take me away from it to spend time with her. Needless to say, I suffered from depression before my transition to adulthood (2.5y ago). Since then I've been starting to understand why, little by little. The more I think about it the more I learn, and I just can't stop thinking about it. I think I'm really hurt. All I wanted was to have had a family.
i usually spend most of my time in vrchat, mainly because it is that human connection that text or video chat cant do, but still far away. I absolutely hate talking on voice chat or discord or text chat and VR is the main way of talking to me.
My gf broke up with me yesterday. And when I woke up I saw you're video and I just had to click it. And I felt good and thank you for making this video and it really made me have a good morning. I miss her and I still love her. Even though we ended on good terms I still regret and still know I was the one who fucked up. And your right I think I should lower my social media and lower my usage on my phone, in order to move on.
i get what ur saying tho u actually have to do something if ur tired of being lonely u cant just wait for good things to happen u gotta make them happen
The real problem is not social media. You touched it at the start, its urban design and lack of places, especially free places. I WANT a social place. But where can I go that is not full of drunks, dance music, or sports maniacs? Like a coffeeshop, but with books, some weed, arcade machines, pool tables, where people can chill and just talk?
@@shrunkensimon Id take weed over booze any day, I quite strongly dislike how my culture (Swedish) sort of associates having fun with partying and binge drinking. Weed isn't good in excess, then again nothing really is good in excess. Edit: I agree that it would help allot of there where more spaces where you could socialize, clubs and associations are great places for stuff like that (used to have a gaming club with some friends, helped make some of the best memories from my youth).
@@SvengelskaBlondie Especially for kids, teenagers, they need unstructured play and places without helicopter authorities. Like arcades, or somewhere you can wander in without being charged.
@@shrunkensimon Speaking of arcades, that's one thing id love to own if I could get it to work. Mostly cause I was a bit too young to enjoy the arcade period we had in Sweden, once I was old enough, the arcade where pretty much gone from my town. Not sure if I would start up such a business, at least not in my town (idk, want to do it but not sure where I live is a good place for it).
niko, thank you for going the long way to popularizing this non-short video content. In a world, where TikTok, Reels, Shorts and etc. is trending, you can see the negative effects people have developed for themselves. I want to see these types of videos more and more on youtube from other creators, and I hope you have the means to do that.
Hey thanks! I'm at a pretty lonely point in my life right now. Graduated high school last year and moved a few states away with my parents. Stuck in a really weird situation where I don't have a job and am not in school (it's a long story) and I won't be able to get either for a couple months, so meeting people passively is totally out of the question. Anyway, one really good way that I've found to be around people is to volunteer. It might seem a little daunting at first, but if you keep volunteerung at the same place, you can make some good connections there. You also get to see so many unique people. And I guess you help make the world a better place or something. Highly recommend giving it a shot!
Niko I've just recently discovered your channel and I couldnt agree more with most things you say, I really think the way to move forward with some of these things is to back off and be in reality
I really feel it when you start talking.Im depressed, stressed,etc rn and hearing words of advice from you makes me feel better even if it's just for a moment
thank you so much for this video, niko. you have no idea how much i needed this. since i’m 16 and homeschooled i definitely relate to the experience of being chronically online and having most of your social interactions online. i am currently in one of the loneliest periods of my life but this video has really helped me and inspired me to put myself out there and start doing something about it. thank you once again, and keep it up!
Your monetized? I just got an ad 2 mins in. This isnt a bad thing because part of me is annoyed but the rest of me is happy that youtubers I like can get payed :)
Yeah it's rough, i couldn't imagine not having a brother or sister. If i was truly alone during those years of emotional and physical abuse. I don't know what would be of me at the moment. Locking yourself in your room like a makeshift prison, then that slowly over time develops to being a makeshift prison in your own head. When that happens it's pretty hard to reverse. Friends that at one point in time you could hug, touch. it's no longer like that anymore, it's so disconnected, impersonal. Pretty much what you said.That's probably why a lot of people 30 and below, are deeply depressed people most of the times. Not only that but i believe the older generation cared more about themselves then their own children. I'll share a vividly etched memory. I'm in first grade at the time, over at my uncle jacks house. He's sitting on the couch visibly drunk and drinking, watching his old shitty black and white westerns. I'm sitting on the ground watching with him, to scared to get on the couch next to him. Tells me to do push-ups out of no where, I can't. Calls me a puxxy, and weak. Tell him I don't know what a puxxy means, tells me it's like a bixch, tell him i don't know what bixch is, tells me it's like a coward, tell him i don't know what that is. Calls me rexxxx, You can figured it out don't want youtube removing this because of that, that one clicked knew what that was. Tells me to do multiplication 3x3, didn't know in first grade wasn't taught that yet. Calls me that word again, tells me to go grab him a beer, I do. That was just some of the emotional abuse not the psychical stuff but you get the point. He sat there and changed his words multiple times until i finally understood and felt bad about myself. That went on for years, my aunt, his wife just as cold hearted as him. She said she was beat and stuff as a kid, so i guess in her eyes that means when you grow up you're just an absolute piece of human garbage to the kids around you and you inflict them with the same pain and abuse you went through.
I somehow woke up early today and decided to click on a random video on yt as i impulsively ordered coffee to start my day. Today’s been very gentle. Ive been feeling very peaceful. and this was video was a very nice reminder. Thankyou for the yapping. Youre now probably my new comfort youtuber.
I do think that the issue of being lonely is causing more problems by the things we do to avoid loneliness than the loneliness itself. If your interactions with others is causing you a ton of stress and you're scared to leave because "you'll be lonely," then you should leave whatever space is causing the problem. I had a rough falling out with friends that could've been avoided just by recognizing I was feeling unhappy with them and if they realized the same regarding me. Sometimes lonliness is all you need for a bit, and that time apart can help you appreciate other people/things that you didn't value before. If you are surrounded by friends but feel alone then those people aren't your friends. Take the time to get away, even if just temorarily, because sticking close to people that make you unhappy will hurt both you and them in the long term. Also yeah in person interactions will do way better for you than strictly online stuff.
I've actually been avoiding talking to people through messaging apps and insisted in meeting in person more and it's has resulted in people avoiding me because I don't interact with them online.
thanks bro your videos help me a lot. i got a question tho what if everybody around you acts weird and they’re not where you want to be in life, how can you fix being lonely?
Thanks :) I'm strugging with this. I literally typed I feel lonely Minecraft. xD I've been having a hard time with this lately. I do get out a lot and interact. Like I work and workout and stuff, but it's still lonely. I don't have a lot of friends and such, especially reliable ones. I do talk to friends online, but it's different, and I tell them it'd be different if we met. Still that sense of lonliness, but starting my Minecraft channel has helped a lot. I'm glad I found a new channel to follow. :) Although I'm never going to lower my Minecraft screen time. ^_^
Guys are like that tho I’m always wanting to talk to people and it makes me feel weird and my friends don’t really know how to set times for times to hangout
I have friends, but they are very bad friends and I don't like people talking to me because I have to talk to them in person and im very autistic I got forced to talk to people that's one of the main reasons for my depression and I hate school because of that if there were no one else in school I love it I love school but hate the other people 😢
I have friends but i dont feel connected with them. Ive been feeling this for a long time. I feel like its because ive chosen a path most dont relate to. They talk abt girls and popular games but i dont like those stuff so i dont fit in.
I just had my first kiss with my girl best friend after we've been talking for a while. I've always gone back and forth with like liking her and recently she said she thinks we should just be friends since i'm not completely sure about my feelings and my family isn't too fond of her. This was only a couple of days ago. Now we aren't really talking and I feel incredibly lonely because she was one of the only person who really really cared about me and I care about her. Life really sucks in times like this, and I'm not sure how to move forward. I'm going to trust God and I know it'll all be okay, I just wanted to hear your opinion.
One thing that makes me agree with you is back when I grew up, I had some classmates that I would spend time with. We would play Golden Eye 64 with split-screen, would do the same in a different town with friends (we had a gaming club where we met once a week to play console games). There's such a huge difference between playing the same game together with people in the same room as you, compared to playing the same game with people online. There's just a huge connection part that you don't get from online friends, sort of makes me wish I could go back to having the gaming club me and my friends started..
Hey Niko, i wanna be honest at least here to you and all. The second i opened up this video, for a second i didn't felt lonely. About a year i've been living in a foreign country for my education and sometimes it gets so hard that i feel like i can't take anymore. I can't be by myself anymore and after this you go looking for friends but friends or friendships is not a thing that you can find by searching them. It happens all of a sudden, after that point all you can do is build that friendship if you'd like to. I'm writing this cuz i don't have the people who really understands me and i feel like i'm on my way to have one. I hope i didn't jinxed it. Anyways, if you see this niko, your videos probably heal people like me or like you. Thank you man.
Loneliness is something for me because my brother is just not someone who is nice to be around and my sister is not around very much and my parents are at work a lot, so loneliness is something I have to deal with a lot so this is deep for me
dude niko your actually my favorite youtuber, your the only youtuber that boosts my confidence or, makes my mindest better, and makes me feel good, thank you bro.
Extremely good video, currently I'm in the exact same place that youre talking about in this video! I quit my job recently to find something that I can and meet some new people :)
Im so annoyed other people are getting more views then this guy while using HIS video style, either its more energetic or theyre on a newer version of minecraft, they're all missing the point of these type of videos.
I work and get fun in computer, but i'am not alone, also i got to the shooting range time to time, to relief some stress, and get more anxiety due to new shitty laws about guns, we almost can't shoot a paper because it was a tree nowadays. Soo, hard to keep have any level of fun. Anyway, i feel lonely time to time, but most the time i'am not, and i have maybe more than 12 hours per day of screen usage in average... Some days i start my day wake up and going to work at 8 a.m. get out of my work about 18 a.m. with some pauses to launch and coffe in the day, i guess i have about 7 to 8 hours in screen usage by job itself, also i play and have my own youtube channel to run, it get about others hours in screen as well, up to 22~24 of the night, soo, the dinner i get out for about 1 to 2 hours, soo about 11 up to 14 hours each day, in the weekend i most keep at home, but as i sayed i go to range shoot some gun, a while ago i used to visit some coffe shop with a friend, but he is building up a life with a girl that love him, but he actually never loved anyone, like a lot this girl, but using his words, "i never felt anything greater than a like a lot, soo, i guess it is not love, right?" something about those lines, and well, my other friend that hangout almost all months once or two moved to another city kinda far, because her girlfriend get pregnant them they decided to rush a mariage and something get wronh with his apt, soo borh moved to her parents house at least for now. And another of my friend kinda get really religious a long time ago, he almost not play anymore, but we live close and he always getting something on curch to do, or travelling with his wife. But i understand the need to be arround people, even random people, i mostly not like to rush a mail or shopping to do some fast task, but when i just "waste" time in it, is a blast, nor exactly the normal way, like running kart with friends, but a blast like, look all those people here, it refresh ourself i guess, somehow... But, i normally not need those type of feeling in a long time, maybe because i always have party with neighbors or family, or friends, is rare to get a long time without any event that i goes and get a lot of fun. Last weekend just to put out, a family part i talk a lot with some parents, and friends of family members, also play a lot of domino, a tabletop game here, i won 1 match, and lost 2, but that was fine, we play duo vs duo, kinda cool. Soo, i understand, but is rare to me felt like that even in a surface level, but also i know that it is hard for people that live almost alone all the time
Alright, my suggestion when dealing with loneliness, is to join like... clubs or societies. I have joined several different things throughout my time. I've joined Hema Fencing clubs, Artist clubs. and my favorite by far is just to join in Viking re-enactment.
See i cant go anywhere. Im 15 i wanna go to basketball courts theres this good court i know but i cant cause my parents are like “why do u wanna go theres traffic and this and that” and if i wanna go over to someoen’s house theyd say “youre annoying them you cant go” and i cant leave my house except go to the park and.. wait i can go to the park yea! I could visit the parm often! And when school opens im a socializing machine. But when school is over idk what to do
I have to disagree and imo it depends on who you are and where you have been in life per person. irl interaction utterly traumatized me and I've been diagnosed for it officially. I personally find comfort in having safe and legit friendships for the first time in my life online. Nothing wrong with that. I hate the stigma of "go outside, you'll be happier". It just doesnt work like that for everyone.
I’m 14, and almost 2 years ago I moved away from home. About 6000 kilometres. I gotta say he’s completely right about everything in this video, especially the online communication part. I still talk to one of my friends back home very regularly, but it’s not as engaging as if it were real life. I haven’t really made any good friends here, besides people who I can ask what class we have next or what the homework was, etc. Even though my one really good friend back home is one of the best people I know in the whole world, he’s half the world away. And even though I talk to him and game with him regularly, I feel lonely pretty often. Anyways just thought my experience might be worth something in regards to this. Keep up the videos dude they’re great.
Im Gen X. I hate how tech has taken over everything. I grew up as a only child. I entertained myself just fine. Kids are not the same anymore. I seldom get along with the younger generation.
Just a quick note on the topic: "Gen Alpha" isn’t an officially recognized term, and technically, this generation hasn’t even been born yet. A lot of the confusion stems from Pew Research’s controversial decision to condense generational timelines to around 15 years instead of the traditional 20-year spans. This rush has led to misinformation and disrupted meaningful generational discourse. For those interested in a more robust understanding of generational trends, the Strauss Howe Generational Theory stands out as the gold standard. They’ve been in the field the longest and are widely regarded for their comprehensive insights. They were the ones who coined the Millennial generation and identified them as those born between 1982-2005, followed by Gen Z or the Homeland generation, born from 2006-Present.
I would take breaks from the internet if I actually had people to talk to and hang out with in real life. I have literally no friends and I'm sure that some people could relate to that.
I love how you forget he's talking over live gameplay and think it's just stock footage of Minecraft gameplay until he reacts to it and you're just like "oh yeah"
just broke up (22m) with my gf(20f) after 4 years together and it is a living hell ...
Follow Jesus and you will be happy❤
I’m the same age and broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years the last weekend, the first days are tough but it’s going to get better bro ❤️
Remember what Niko and other smart people have said. “This too, shall pass.”
@@axxel9626 REAL
Been there. I think Cole Hastings made a pretty good video about breakups a while back, if you'd want to give that a watch. Either way, just remember not to beat yourself up about what happened because everything happens for a reason
That whole introduction of how and where you grew up was almost word-by-word of how I grew up, kind of uncanny but it is comforting to see someone with the same experience :)
The coziness of a relationship makes it easy to forget the piercing sensation of solitude
damn that perfectly describes whats going on for me rn post breakup. Raw solitude, like when the wind is howling turning the waves choppy all around you and you sit alone on a small rock of land just watching the storm around you. It's been hard so far but I am almost finding myself enjoying moments in the calm of the storm so to speak. It's a weird balance between an intense yearning and overwhelming feeling of loneliness, but also appreciating myself sitting at the center of the storm just watching the waves around me
Thanks for making this video. My friend group is small and I've had to ditch some toxic friends which made me lonely. I'm now planning on going to my local arcade, so thank you.
Very much in the same position. Hope everything goes well for you!
This week I felt lonely for the first time. I've always been alone, but never felt lonely. And I learned why: I don't even know what it means to have someone, so I just never missed it. My mother destroyed our family when I was 8, she did what she could to keep me away from my father as long as she could, and she was out 12-14 hours a day for work. The little time she was home she would complain to me about the chores and she let me use the computer without any limits and wouldn't do any effort to take me away from it to spend time with her.
Needless to say, I suffered from depression before my transition to adulthood (2.5y ago). Since then I've been starting to understand why, little by little. The more I think about it the more I learn, and I just can't stop thinking about it. I think I'm really hurt. All I wanted was to have had a family.
I'm sorry this happened to you bro and I hope things get better for you man
i usually spend most of my time in vrchat, mainly because it is that human connection that text or video chat cant do, but still far away. I absolutely hate talking on voice chat or discord or text chat and VR is the main way of talking to me.
Same,
Watching this + playing my childhood game which I used to play with my brother who moved away in 2018. Genuinely hits
Bro, it's not the problem to be alone, but the problem when u around people and friends and still feel alone.
My gf broke up with me yesterday. And when I woke up I saw you're video and I just had to click it. And I felt good and thank you for making this video and it really made me have a good morning. I miss her and I still love her. Even though we ended on good terms I still regret and still know I was the one who fucked up. And your right I think I should lower my social media and lower my usage on my phone, in order to move on.
i get what ur saying tho u actually have to do something if ur tired of being lonely u cant just wait for good things to happen u gotta make them happen
Any ideas on new videos? What topics would you like to listen to? Btw amazing video as always Niko❤️
More talking vids yeah
Keep making the same videos man, I already subbed, been waiting for a new video for a while now
The real problem is not social media. You touched it at the start, its urban design and lack of places, especially free places.
I WANT a social place. But where can I go that is not full of drunks, dance music, or sports maniacs? Like a coffeeshop, but with books, some weed, arcade machines, pool tables, where people can chill and just talk?
I stopped taking your comment seriously at the "weed" part.
@@NikosM112 I don't even smoke it. It's about having a place for other demographics besides booze fiends and other corporate approved social groups
@@shrunkensimon Id take weed over booze any day, I quite strongly dislike how my culture (Swedish) sort of associates having fun with partying and binge drinking. Weed isn't good in excess, then again nothing really is good in excess.
Edit: I agree that it would help allot of there where more spaces where you could socialize, clubs and associations are great places for stuff like that (used to have a gaming club with some friends, helped make some of the best memories from my youth).
@@SvengelskaBlondie Especially for kids, teenagers, they need unstructured play and places without helicopter authorities.
Like arcades, or somewhere you can wander in without being charged.
@@shrunkensimon Speaking of arcades, that's one thing id love to own if I could get it to work. Mostly cause I was a bit too young to enjoy the arcade period we had in Sweden, once I was old enough, the arcade where pretty much gone from my town. Not sure if I would start up such a business, at least not in my town (idk, want to do it but not sure where I live is a good place for it).
I think being alone and being lonelli are two different emotions, feelings, experience. Good video.
100%
I guess you do feel lonely in the comment section if you're this early!
Not so lonely anymore!
Real knee slapper there😂😂😂😂😂😂
I disagree, it feels way lonelier when the video is old and what you comment won't get read by anyone
this is true@@matheuscabral9618
Yeah me to man, i am also very lonely not many children live around me.😢
niko, thank you for going the long way to popularizing this non-short video content. In a world, where TikTok, Reels, Shorts and etc. is trending, you can see the negative effects people have developed for themselves. I want to see these types of videos more and more on youtube from other creators, and I hope you have the means to do that.
Hey thanks! I'm at a pretty lonely point in my life right now. Graduated high school last year and moved a few states away with my parents. Stuck in a really weird situation where I don't have a job and am not in school (it's a long story) and I won't be able to get either for a couple months, so meeting people passively is totally out of the question. Anyway, one really good way that I've found to be around people is to volunteer. It might seem a little daunting at first, but if you keep volunteerung at the same place, you can make some good connections there. You also get to see so many unique people. And I guess you help make the world a better place or something. Highly recommend giving it a shot!
Niko I've just recently discovered your channel and I couldnt agree more with most things you say, I really think the way to move forward with some of these things is to back off and be in reality
I really feel it when you start talking.Im depressed, stressed,etc rn and hearing words of advice from you makes me feel better even if it's just for a moment
i needed this, thank you.
I tried to meet strangers on the street but they all said I was an NPC and not a loved one
i live alone most of the time cause i’m an only child & i live with my dad who’s always working. Luckily i have my dog & my online friends lmao
thank you so much for this video, niko. you have no idea how much i needed this. since i’m 16 and homeschooled i definitely relate to the experience of being chronically online and having most of your social interactions online. i am currently in one of the loneliest periods of my life but this video has really helped me and inspired me to put myself out there and start doing something about it. thank you once again, and keep it up!
you aren't gonna believe this but I am also 16, homeschooled, and very lonely. I hope your situation gets better.
@@aerobiesizer3968 thank you so much, at least knowing that we aren’t alone makes things a bit better :) i wish the best for you as well!
Idk why, but almost every one of your videos makes me cry a few times
dont stop posting, these videos are so amazing, thank you
i have just watched 4 of your videos in a row and i alredy love your content
Your monetized? I just got an ad 2 mins in. This isnt a bad thing because part of me is annoyed but the rest of me is happy that youtubers I like can get payed :)
dude tbh i love listening to ur videos i play minecraft and just listen and its so calming keep going bro
Man his voice sounds so soothing I love it thank you for making these videos I really need them
Yeah it's rough, i couldn't imagine not having a brother or sister. If i was truly alone during those years of emotional and physical abuse. I don't know what would be of me at the moment.
Locking yourself in your room like a makeshift prison, then that slowly over time develops to being a makeshift prison in your own head. When that happens it's pretty hard to reverse. Friends that at one point in time you could hug, touch. it's no longer like that anymore, it's so disconnected, impersonal. Pretty much what you said.That's probably why a lot of people 30 and below, are deeply depressed people most of the times. Not only that but i believe the older generation cared more about themselves then their own children.
I'll share a vividly etched memory. I'm in first grade at the time, over at my uncle jacks house. He's sitting on the couch visibly drunk and drinking, watching his old shitty black and white westerns. I'm sitting on the ground watching with him, to scared to get on the couch next to him. Tells me to do push-ups out of no where, I can't. Calls me a puxxy, and weak. Tell him I don't know what a puxxy means, tells me it's like a bixch, tell him i don't know what bixch is, tells me it's like a coward, tell him i don't know what that is. Calls me rexxxx, You can figured it out don't want youtube removing this because of that, that one clicked knew what that was. Tells me to do multiplication 3x3, didn't know in first grade wasn't taught that yet. Calls me that word again, tells me to go grab him a beer, I do. That was just some of the emotional abuse not the psychical stuff but you get the point. He sat there and changed his words multiple times until i finally understood and felt bad about myself. That went on for years, my aunt, his wife just as cold hearted as him. She said she was beat and stuff as a kid, so i guess in her eyes that means when you grow up you're just an absolute piece of human garbage to the kids around you and you inflict them with the same pain and abuse you went through.
Finally, a good therapist.
I somehow woke up early today and decided to click on a random video on yt as i impulsively ordered coffee to start my day. Today’s been very gentle. Ive been feeling very peaceful. and this was video was a very nice reminder. Thankyou for the yapping. Youre now probably my new comfort youtuber.
I was just feeling lonely, thanks Niko
ong this guy is so wholesome
i spend half of my screen time watching your masterpiece's. Am I cooked?
I do think that the issue of being lonely is causing more problems by the things we do to avoid loneliness than the loneliness itself. If your interactions with others is causing you a ton of stress and you're scared to leave because "you'll be lonely," then you should leave whatever space is causing the problem. I had a rough falling out with friends that could've been avoided just by recognizing I was feeling unhappy with them and if they realized the same regarding me. Sometimes lonliness is all you need for a bit, and that time apart can help you appreciate other people/things that you didn't value before.
If you are surrounded by friends but feel alone then those people aren't your friends. Take the time to get away, even if just temorarily, because sticking close to people that make you unhappy will hurt both you and them in the long term.
Also yeah in person interactions will do way better for you than strictly online stuff.
VRChat is a very different beast
this was beautiful, thank you so much
You should try to make a podcast your topics are so good.
I've actually been avoiding talking to people through messaging apps and insisted in meeting in person more and it's has resulted in people avoiding me because I don't interact with them online.
Same, except for some guys who live too far for me to meet. Like some friends I have in Switzerland.
thanks bro your videos help me a lot. i got a question tho what if everybody around you acts weird and they’re not where you want to be in life, how can you fix being lonely?
Thanks :) I'm strugging with this. I literally typed I feel lonely Minecraft. xD I've been having a hard time with this lately. I do get out a lot and interact. Like I work and workout and stuff, but it's still lonely. I don't have a lot of friends and such, especially reliable ones. I do talk to friends online, but it's different, and I tell them it'd be different if we met. Still that sense of lonliness, but starting my Minecraft channel has helped a lot. I'm glad I found a new channel to follow. :) Although I'm never going to lower my Minecraft screen time. ^_^
You can't be alone, because if you are, and other people too, you aren't technically alone.
I wish all your videos had this tone and pace from this video,it was very enoyable!
bro speaking the truth
thank you
Please never stop making these videos
Guys are like that tho I’m always wanting to talk to people and it makes me feel weird and my friends don’t really know how to set times for times to hangout
I inspire to be like you
How do you deal with the idea of your ex suddenly just moving on and having fun without you while you’re still dealing with the pain?
thank you so much for this video, I thought I was the only one lol
I have friends, but they are very bad friends and I don't like people talking to me because I have to talk to them in person and im very autistic I got forced to talk to people that's one of the main reasons for my depression and I hate school because of that if there were no one else in school I love it I love school but hate the other people 😢
happened to upload this during the loneliest period ive ever had, minor coincidence 🗣️
I have friends but i dont feel connected with them. Ive been feeling this for a long time. I feel like its because ive chosen a path most dont relate to. They talk abt girls and popular games but i dont like those stuff so i dont fit in.
I just had my first kiss with my girl best friend after we've been talking for a while. I've always gone back and forth with like liking her and recently she said she thinks we should just be friends since i'm not completely sure about my feelings and my family isn't too fond of her. This was only a couple of days ago. Now we aren't really talking and I feel incredibly lonely because she was one of the only person who really really cared about me and I care about her. Life really sucks in times like this, and I'm not sure how to move forward. I'm going to trust God and I know it'll all be okay, I just wanted to hear your opinion.
One thing that makes me agree with you is back when I grew up, I had some classmates that I would spend time with. We would play Golden Eye 64 with split-screen, would do the same in a different town with friends (we had a gaming club where we met once a week to play console games). There's such a huge difference between playing the same game together with people in the same room as you, compared to playing the same game with people online. There's just a huge connection part that you don't get from online friends, sort of makes me wish I could go back to having the gaming club me and my friends started..
Lan parties hit difff
Meanwhile me: almost dies due to loneliness
Loneliness is really a pain to deal with, but I hope your situation gets better
Just wanted to say, your videos genuinely help me man. I owe someone like you with experience to help me with my life
saw this at the right time. I know Im not lonely, but all my friends suck and are annoying so I feel lonely
You sure they are your friends?
@@aathried i dont want them to be but im stuck with them until i can switch schools next year
This was a great video Niko. You really speak fax for our generation. Us 2000-2006 kids gotta stick together.
Hey Niko, i wanna be honest at least here to you and all. The second i opened up this video, for a second i didn't felt lonely. About a year i've been living in a foreign country for my education and sometimes it gets so hard that i feel like i can't take anymore. I can't be by myself anymore and after this you go looking for friends but friends or friendships is not a thing that you can find by searching them. It happens all of a sudden, after that point all you can do is build that friendship if you'd like to. I'm writing this cuz i don't have the people who really understands me and i feel like i'm on my way to have one. I hope i didn't jinxed it. Anyways, if you see this niko, your videos probably heal people like me or like you. Thank you man.
I was once the new guy in a foreign country, friends will eventually come your way do not worry. Best of luck!
@@nikoyaps 🥹
Loneliness is something for me because my brother is just not someone who is nice to be around and my sister is not around very much and my parents are at work a lot, so loneliness is something I have to deal with a lot so this is deep for me
Nice topic
dang 3 views
i love your vids man keep em up
dude niko your actually my favorite youtuber, your the only youtuber that boosts my confidence or, makes my mindest better, and makes me feel good, thank you bro.
i was literally gonna make a video on this but the concept is slightly different lol
Extremely good video, currently I'm in the exact same place that youre talking about in this video! I quit my job recently to find something that I can and meet some new people :)
Im so annoyed other people are getting more views then this guy while using HIS video style, either its more energetic or theyre on a newer version of minecraft, they're all missing the point of these type of videos.
i dont feel that way
Honestly I kinda wanna make real and online friends to play with, but I kinda only have roblox :(
I work and get fun in computer, but i'am not alone, also i got to the shooting range time to time, to relief some stress, and get more anxiety due to new shitty laws about guns, we almost can't shoot a paper because it was a tree nowadays. Soo, hard to keep have any level of fun. Anyway, i feel lonely time to time, but most the time i'am not, and i have maybe more than 12 hours per day of screen usage in average... Some days i start my day wake up and going to work at 8 a.m. get out of my work about 18 a.m. with some pauses to launch and coffe in the day, i guess i have about 7 to 8 hours in screen usage by job itself, also i play and have my own youtube channel to run, it get about others hours in screen as well, up to 22~24 of the night, soo, the dinner i get out for about 1 to 2 hours, soo about 11 up to 14 hours each day, in the weekend i most keep at home, but as i sayed i go to range shoot some gun, a while ago i used to visit some coffe shop with a friend, but he is building up a life with a girl that love him, but he actually never loved anyone, like a lot this girl, but using his words, "i never felt anything greater than a like a lot, soo, i guess it is not love, right?" something about those lines, and well, my other friend that hangout almost all months once or two moved to another city kinda far, because her girlfriend get pregnant them they decided to rush a mariage and something get wronh with his apt, soo borh moved to her parents house at least for now. And another of my friend kinda get really religious a long time ago, he almost not play anymore, but we live close and he always getting something on curch to do, or travelling with his wife. But i understand the need to be arround people, even random people, i mostly not like to rush a mail or shopping to do some fast task, but when i just "waste" time in it, is a blast, nor exactly the normal way, like running kart with friends, but a blast like, look all those people here, it refresh ourself i guess, somehow... But, i normally not need those type of feeling in a long time, maybe because i always have party with neighbors or family, or friends, is rare to get a long time without any event that i goes and get a lot of fun. Last weekend just to put out, a family part i talk a lot with some parents, and friends of family members, also play a lot of domino, a tabletop game here, i won 1 match, and lost 2, but that was fine, we play duo vs duo, kinda cool. Soo, i understand, but is rare to me felt like that even in a surface level, but also i know that it is hard for people that live almost alone all the time
dying light reference at the end?!
Just try multiple things guys! hope we all figure it out
Alright, my suggestion when dealing with loneliness, is to join like... clubs or societies. I have joined several different things throughout my time. I've joined Hema Fencing clubs, Artist clubs. and my favorite by far is just to join in Viking re-enactment.
Time to join Cthulhu cults, thx for tip! /j
@@Abrifq Valid!
See i cant go anywhere. Im 15 i wanna go to basketball courts theres this good court i know but i cant cause my parents are like “why do u wanna go theres traffic and this and that” and if i wanna go over to someoen’s house theyd say “youre annoying them you cant go” and i cant leave my house except go to the park and.. wait i can go to the park yea! I could visit the parm often! And when school opens im a socializing machine. But when school is over idk what to do
The topic of this video has ridiculous timing for my life lmao
What version are you playing? I think its 1.7, but it might be 1.8? edit: definitely 1.7! Favorite version of minecraft of all time lol
This guy called me friendless for 10 minutes straight and I can't even be mad about it
8:21 zombie got slung
How in not alone im alone from 8 yrars
I have to disagree and imo it depends on who you are and where you have been in life per person. irl interaction utterly traumatized me and I've been diagnosed for it officially. I personally find comfort in having safe and legit friendships for the first time in my life online. Nothing wrong with that. I hate the stigma of "go outside, you'll be happier". It just doesnt work like that for everyone.
I’m 14, and almost 2 years ago I moved away from home. About 6000 kilometres. I gotta say he’s completely right about everything in this video, especially the online communication part. I still talk to one of my friends back home very regularly, but it’s not as engaging as if it were real life. I haven’t really made any good friends here, besides people who I can ask what class we have next or what the homework was, etc. Even though my one really good friend back home is one of the best people I know in the whole world, he’s half the world away. And even though I talk to him and game with him regularly, I feel lonely pretty often. Anyways just thought my experience might be worth something in regards to this. Keep up the videos dude they’re great.
That house is fucking cool
Im Gen X. I hate how tech has taken over everything. I grew up as a only child. I entertained myself just fine. Kids are not the same anymore. I seldom get along with the younger generation.
Man, I don't know if you thought this before but Minecraft is an exemple that videogames don't need to have good graphics to make success yo kno
You should upload these as a podcast
I have associates not friends
niko, i am batman niko, i feed on loneliness.
Hehehe Niko video
Niko is my comfort creator now. I'm going through a lot and these videos are helping a lot. Great job Niko. Thank you for everything.
Just a quick note on the topic: "Gen Alpha" isn’t an officially recognized term, and technically, this generation hasn’t even been born yet.
A lot of the confusion stems from Pew Research’s controversial decision to condense generational timelines to around 15 years instead of the traditional 20-year spans. This rush has led to misinformation and disrupted meaningful generational discourse.
For those interested in a more robust understanding of generational trends, the Strauss Howe Generational Theory stands out as the gold standard. They’ve been in the field the longest and are widely regarded for their comprehensive insights. They were the ones who coined the Millennial generation and identified them as those born between 1982-2005, followed by Gen Z or the Homeland generation, born from 2006-Present.
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I would take breaks from the internet if I actually had people to talk to and hang out with in real life. I have literally no friends and I'm sure that some people could relate to that.
You can't get people to talk to you if you don't try to talk to them
@@Nebotek1 Ah yes, I’m going to approach the people who hate me to try and talk to them.
keep up the videos
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shut up honey... Niko just dropped
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I love how you forget he's talking over live gameplay and think it's just stock footage of Minecraft gameplay until he reacts to it and you're just like "oh yeah"
I’m a simple man : I see niko I click.
Honey, stop hibernating, our yapper has uploaded another audiovisual masterpiece.