Thank you for being here. There are so few people helping the abusers. In your book you hit the nail on the head describing how an abuser feels like they are in defense of an attack, and not a hateful person abusing out of spite. It is an extremely helpful book. Im going through all the recomended reading now. If there is any way i can contribute to your cause, please let me know. Like i said, there are too few out there helping us change our paradigms, and help us objectively analyse incidents and learn to recognize patterns and early warning signs. You put in words what i only felt inside. That improved my understanding and helped me better communicate with my wife.
So refreshing to see others like me. I never abused out of spite or misogyny. But I always anticipated being hurt and got scared, so I’d hurt first out of defense. Faulty thinking but now that we know, we can change. This channel helps me tremendously
Thank you for being here. There are so few people helping the abusers. In your book you hit the nail on the head describing how an abuser feels like they are in defense of an attack, and not a hateful person abusing out of spite. It is an extremely helpful book. Im going through all the recomended reading now. If there is any way i can contribute to your cause, please let me know. Like i said, there are too few out there helping us change our paradigms, and help us objectively analyse incidents and learn to recognize patterns and early warning signs. You put in words what i only felt inside. That improved my understanding and helped me better communicate with my wife.
So refreshing to see others like me. I never abused out of spite or misogyny. But I always anticipated being hurt and got scared, so I’d hurt first out of defense. Faulty thinking but now that we know, we can change. This channel helps me tremendously
Am.enlightened
Thanks
So nice of you