attend? who at the event allowed him to attend? This idea of strangers (courts, police) constantly being required to be "my brother's keeper" is insane.
@@cbvagabond Keep your values to *yourself* and live by what you believe. I do my best not to force my values onto others. I call that "being considerate". No, we are not each others' keepers. If we are, then 2/3rds of the American public will hear me constantly remind them to *lose weight* . See how that works???
no. MURDER. Few things have infuriated me as much as seeing what this evil monster of a human being did to his family, and after YEARS of abuse, has the gall to blame his victim. This is proof of hell, for it was made for such as this monster.
@@mermaid30019 and probably even encouraged his brother to „re-establish family pride that had been sullied by that woman“. Wonder if the murderer was on the phone with his brother right before entering the center…
Sounds like the man and his family believes she shamed them by moving out/divorcing. They might have that mentality that when she married into the family, she belongs to them. They can mistreat her because she's now theirs.
@@MichElle-zc9tu Meh it seems common in the west just not as much tied up in the concept of "honor", I have yet to see a study proving otherwise anyways.
That brother claiming it was not justice and it was manslaughter must be as awful as his brother. It's a misogynistic self entertainment to believe that a man has full control to harm his family is based on insecurities and ignorant culture traditions.
BRAVO. I am always in awe of the fact that if the wife abuser got into a fight with his neighbor, the Abuser would be charged with assault and battery. Abuse your Wife, well that's a Civil Matter. LOLOLOLOL SMH
Amen to that! 🙏 No-one has the right to take anyone's life or have control of their lives. Hurts my soul to hear things like this. Her poor children, my prayers of peace and strength go out to them.
Lesson: STAY AWAY FROM INSECURE LITTLE MEN. The brother’s words were DISGUSTING…justifying that he was provoked to stab somebody, in public, like hunting an animal…
My dad killed my mom to. There's support groups for us but I don't go. You're not alone. Our mothers memories will stay alive forever. Never forget her!
So blamed the Authority in Australia for not doing their jobs to protect the women's? Imagine in Europe 🇪🇺 or England or America or in Canada 🇨🇦 it still happens?
@@arianayoung7537 She didn’t say anything about blaming the police in her comment and even if she did you’re still really out of line. Obviously I can’t tell you not to comment since that’s not how this platform works but you should really learn to read the room and at least try to have some empathy for people. Honestly shameful.
I am so very sorry for your loss Kayla. I can’t imagine how awful of a situation you’ve gone through and how painful it must be. My mom died from cancer so I really appreciate what you said about our mothers memories staying alive. I wish you all the best and a life full of love and happiness.
THE COMISSIONER MADE ME SICK WITH HIS COMMENTS. I'M SURE THEY WOULD'VE ACTED SO DIFFERENTLY IF IT WAS A MEMBER OF HIS OWN FAMILY OR FRIENDS, IT'S SHOCKING BEYOND WORDS. SHAME ON THE AUSTRALIAN POLICE.
Did you see how even the commissioner caught himself and realized how ridiculous the "law" was and did not know what to say except stuttering say"it's the law". Sad, but yes I'm sure he would feel different if it happened to close to home.
This guy and his brother they still thinks they’re in their old country where women don’t have any rights and protection from abusers. The Australian police failed her and her family. Police commissioner should be fired. My condolences to the survivors of that great lady. RIP
His brother is clearly a piece of crap like he is, but this murderer should have been charged with assault in the first place, his visa/passport/citizenship stripped from him and he should have been sent back to live in his home country. Then his wife and children would have been safe. If he was tried and convicted on the original assault, that should have been enough to expunge him from the country. There need to be laws where domestic abuse victims have no say about charges, and it should be up to law enforcement and the courts to separate victims from abusers wherever possible. Victims will typically cover for abusers for far too long, so the option should be taken out of their hands. In this situation, simply leaving him was never going to be enough, and the excuse that he was just going to kill her no matter what, is a cop out for any progressive society.
What an unbelievable coward. True justice would be to dish out what he tortured that beautiful woman with. I'm so angry so I can't imagine how her family feels.
Right?! Imagine having a innocent, and many others, dead for nothing and he’s still trying to defend a failing system, where his humanity is I wonder, if he has some left..
This man Zia was our family’s case worker from AMRC for us immigrating to Australia Adelaide from Iran in 2008. This documentary does not cover his infidelity with multiple women while he was STILL married. His mistress was our neighbour and he used to bring his youngest daughter to our house and he would go next door to see her. The mistress is an ugly woman she never tried to hide it and always was bragging about how he loves her more than his wife to my mum and I remember her taunting his wife and telling her about how she is sleeping with her husband and evil woman. I will never forget her beautiful daughter she would tell me that her dad always beat her mum and them which made me very sad but I was 10 myself did not know how to react. The day he murdered his wife we were getting ready to also attend the celebration but once we go to the hall the police were already there and everywhere was closed off. May she rest in peace, I cry for them and it still feels like a dream.
And the brother claiming that it should have been manslaughter because a lot of provocation have been done to him... wow I am absolutely appalled for this family.... victim-blaming...
@@jasperhorace7147 family killings happen more in western and in Christian countries. in western countries not a day without a father murdering his whole family
My mum, myself/my siblings suffered this also at the hands of our father. He was ... "A STREET ANGEL, HOUSE DEVIL" Everyone outside our home loved & respected him yet nobody knew just how truly evil he was!
This was, (and still is), my mom. She was a personable, educated, well-mannered fashion plate to those who didn't live under her roof. I've been recently thinking about the mental, emotional, and physical abuse I suffered as a child. Could my friends tell? Could the teachers tell? My mom worked for the school and was doted on by the nuns who taught us. I was an unaware anorexic starting around age 7 (I still suffer with the disorder at times). I suffered from debilitating panic attacks where I'd hide in the school's bathroom. No one offered to help me. No one even acknowledged the odd behavior till I had a psych break at age 11. Sometimes I'm impressed with what my mind, heart, and soul dealt with but continued to endure and even thrive a little bit. I'm 42, I have no children, never been married, and have trouble making and maintaining friendships. I'm almost 3 yrs sober and doing well. My mom is 81 and I see her almost everyday to take out her trash and listen to her trash me. C'est la vie. (Damn, I needed to vent)
Same for my house growing up. And ended up being the same in my marriage.. The difference is I left shortly after he really became abusive. My mother is still married to the man who abused her, me & my siblings.. our entire childhood... I escaped.. so I thought... by moving in with my EXHUSBAND (boyfriend at the time) & married him at 20.. We moved out of state 5 months after we married.. Once, I was moved away.. the controlling insecure notch was turnt up to high, Dr Jeckle & Mr Hyde.. The ULTIMATE NARCISSISTS WAS REVEALED TO ME.. ALTHOUGH AT THE TIME I HAD NEVER EVEN HEARD OF THE WORD "NARCISSISTS".. I WOULDN'T BE TIL 20 YRS LATER THAT I WOULD LEARN WITH A NARCISSISTS IS.. HE RUINED MY ENTIRE LIFE.. I GREW UP IN AN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOUSEHOLD AND I ATTRACTED AN ABUSER.. TRAUMA BONDING IS REAL... WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ITS NOT OUR JOB TO EMOTIONALLY SAVE, & HEAL THE WOUNDS OF BROKEN PEOPLE THAT WE DIDN'T CAUSE.. YES, WE CAN STAND BY THEIR SIDES AND BE WITH THEM THRU THEIR HEALING, LOVE THEM.. WITH ABUSERS THO.. THEIR HAS TO BE CONDITIONS.... ONCE THEY TURN ON US.. GET UP OUT OF THERE.. I'M 49, MY SISTER IS 50, HER BROTHER IS 48 AND WE ALL HAVE DEEP WOUND AND RESIDUAL (DEEP) DAMAGE THAT HAS EFFECTED OUR LIVES IN MANY WAYS.. STAYING FOR THE KIDS IS CHOOSING FOR YOU KIDS TO BE ABUSED.. WHAT MOTHERS GO THRU THEIR CHILDREN GO THRU. PERIOD.
If you threaten to kill the prime minister you will go to jail. Whats the difference if you threaten to kill your spouse. If its proven someone is threatening to kill someone they should get a mandatory 5-10 years jail. Threatening life should really be amended and looked at so this doesn't happen.
Where will all these people be housed, Prisons are already overcrowded. Will you give billions to build more Prisons?! Use logic! People threaten people everyday,mostly just emotions. Like most of you don't have the aptitude to handle a news story. Knowing, this situation is affecting your life none.
Copy Rasmus Paludan: *Qur'an 4:34* “Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other. So righteous women are devoutly obedient. But those from whom you fear arrogance - advise them; forsake them in bed; and *BEAT* them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.” *Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 72, Hadith 715* "Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!'" *Sahih al-Bukhari 5825, Book 77, Hadith 42* "Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!'"
Your mama would be so proud of the kind, resilient, caring children she has raised. May you all continue to find strength and comfort in each other as you slowly come to terms with this awful thing.
She had an order against him and he was still threatening her and that cop says it's the law not to intervene. Mind boggling and that cop should be ashamed
@@hiseverest9074 Because it's a Family Law case. Police won't intervene. If it's Civil and the scenario happens, then they intervene. They won't intervene if victims or victim in the family gets abused. Been there with a few families before. Sometimes it's too late. It happens.
I had a restraining order and my ex kept coming around my house looking in the windows. The police would do nothing. They said I had to get a picture of him violating order for proof. I was horrified.
yep and this men complaining about false accusations, when the reality is that the majority or times abuse happens we don't even go to police because is useless
Exactly!! A threat is just that a threat, which always needs to be taken seriously, and expecially when matched with the ideology of the Afghan men!! Honestly what's wrong with us??
But, but, but . . . that would be a violation of Universal Human Rights (of worship): *Qur'an 4:34* “Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other. So righteous women are devoutly obedient. But those from whom you fear arrogance - advise them; forsake them in bed; and *BEAT* them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.” *Qur'an 9:29* "Fight against those who do not believe in Allāh or in the Last Day." *Qur'an 2:216* "Fighting is obligatory for ˹believers˺, though you dislike it. Allah knows; you do not." *Qur'an 8:12* "I shall cast t____r into the hearts of those who disbelieved, so strike them upon the necks." *Qur'an 3:151* “We will cast t____r into the hearts of those who deny the Truth” *Qur'an 9:111* “Allah has indeed purchased from the believers their lives and wealth in exchange for Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah and k__ or be k____.” *Qur'an 9:123* “Believers! Fight against the disbelievers who are near to you; and let them find harshness in you. Know that Allah is with the God-fearing. O ye who believe!”
I have never heard of a murder happening in a room full of people, that takes evil to a whole new level! That poor woman did not deserve that and neither did the kids! Hell is waiting for this man!
This is just heartbreaking. The system failed them big time. Why is this so hard for authorities and people to understand, she knew how dangerous he was, and they just brushed it off.
It's not the system it's they're culture. What law would stop this? Should we arrest all Muslim men who've been shamed or disrespected by their family members?
the system is not very good at prevention because the laws are not efficient and also it may cost a lot of money ! it is difficult to put someone in jail until he did not break the law, if they go to jail it is not for long periods and when they are free they are more infuriated ! very sad !
@@heywtfisgoindownlol9879 feminicides happen in all cultures, it would be so simple to point the finger at one culture only ! exemple : Gaby Petito and his boyfriend/killer, not muslim ....
The absolute audacity of that bastard to call himself a victim is nauseating. What he saw as someone trying to destroy his life , was actually the fact that he felt like humiliation because his wife left him , he didn't care that she was afraid, didn't care to hurt her or his kids, no , he only cared about what other ppl would think. These men from that region of the world are always bent up about "Honor " , to the point that they'll literally kill wives , children and anyone else in order to satisfy their imaginary slights . The whole thing is ridiculous. Is there honor in throwing your life away and rotting in a prison cell ??? Like , yeah I killed my wife for dishonorable conduct, but now that I'm in prison, alone and all my children hate me. I've got honor out the wazoo. Its like cutting of your nose to spite your face. These cowardly little men have no clue what real honor is . RIP to the poor mother , and prayers for the children of hers. This was so cruel and pointless
The audacity of the brother staying "he was provoked and charges should be manslaughter". Ego and despotism. My condolences to the beautiful children she had raised and sacrificed her life for.
At what level is so called provocation not a provocation but a desperate attempt to flee? These men have a wrapped sense of reality! They use the word provocation flippantly and without understanding. It's like saying if you abandon a fight you provoke ur opponent? It's so ridiculous it's unreal.
This is how the monsters see it; as provocations, such a self importance. He is a self entitled criminal. So is his brother. I feel sorry for her children, so hurt they are.
Men can be so utterly selfish and possessive. They somehow think women and children belong to them to dispose as they wish. It's so lacking in humanity and reason. It's INSANE
@@Z8terfix WOMEN CAN BE THAT WAY ALSO. I think it's just more common with men. But remember the Mother of three beautiful children who shot all three at point blank range in cold blood just because she thought they stood in her way of getting the man she was obsessed with? That's the same thing. In her twisted sick mind she thought if she got rid of her kids "for him" forever he would be glad to have her.
Yet in the courtroom the victims are expected to have good lawyers to win the case against the abuser who WILL have a good lawyer since he will control the money, unlike the victim who will only have a court appointed 1st year lawyer. This is why the abuser wins with his attorneys. Do you take cases for abusers? bc if you do, you're part of the problem.
The son is such a great guy…so protective and loving towards his mother and sisters. The son could also have turned out to be like his dad but he chose not to and instead was a caring brother and son.
I think a lot of young middle eastern men including myself, worked hard to make sure we don't continue this cycle of violence towards people or our spouses, as it is a big problem in middle eastern culture abuse within the family, he has grown up in a place where we are taught to respect and value people and life and that our differences can be resolved.
@@arianayoung7537 Excuse me? Whose talking about looks? We are talking about the son’s protective and caring personality and not about how good looking they are. So what if you don’t care or don’t wanna know about them .The majority of the people in this world does care because we have empathy and kindness in our hearts for them.
@@fransmaroki I’m so glad that the younger generation of today are making a change when it comes to the protection and safety of women and children. Brother hats off to you. We should always treat the women in our lives with love and respect. They are the ones that bear children ,nurture children .and care for the family. Without them there would be no existence in this world. A loving mom is the greatest gift to a child and family.
She is an absolute hero. She literally gave her life for her children's safety, my utmost respect to this beautiful woman. What a tragic loss of such a loving mother 💔❤️
She didn't "give" her life, with intent, she was avoidant, ambushed, her life taken from her. The kids were not at risk. You make no sense, it's so creepy how you say things that are untrue, in a need to get a positive reaction, I think? I wish folks like you would stick to facebook.
I am so tired of abusers getting away with threatening with no repercussions. Threats on someone's life have Got to be taken seriously. Truly terrifying experience. Domestic violence has got to stop. Stop blaming the victim. There is zero excuse for hurting another life.
no, start blaming the victim. women keep going back to their victimizer - or they never leave at all. It should not be up to taxpayers to deal with someone else's "love life" and that goes for STIs and LGBT issues, as well. And, why didn't others - both within and outside of the family - do or say something about this?! In small towns, some people stopped doing business with a local pizza place because the man verbally degraded his wife and somewhat financially cheated his young wait staff out of their tips. We each must play an active (brave) role in affecting change.
@@genkiferal7178 The abuse/victim relationship is like two pieces of the puzzle they fit together and a co-dependency is what holds the bond ; that is why early in the relationship when the red flags appear the victim will downgrade, excuse and forgive the violence. A predator abuser will NEVER be attracted or pursue a confident, emotionally and financially independent person equally the victim is a person with low self-esteem, lack of direction in life and is attracted for a person that will lead her , guide her and be her center. At this point of the race we call life we have seen these stories time and time again; there needs to be A SHIFT IN HOW THIS IS APPROACH. For instance, why partners in a domestic abuse situation DECIDE to have children and bring vulnerable beings into an environment of chaos, abuse and fear WHERE IS THE COMPASION? Thus, society has to determine how to deal with couples that are in a domestic violence relationship and are plan to have children because they are the COLLATERAL DAMAGE.
What a sorry excuse for a living being. And no, he is not a man, just someone that should never have been born. PS: The statements by the police are beyond pathetic; if someone threatens to kill you, take it serious, or will it only be taken seriously after you are dead as with Zara.
What a gutless, pathetic excuse for a man. Abusing his wife is one thing but his children is beyond disgusting. That judge that changed the order should be reprimanded, what an idiodic thing to do
No abusing your wife is as bad as abusing your children,wife isn't your punching bag,she's the mother of the children,besides that..... no man ever stops at just abusing his wife,this always extends to children too especially daughters
@@DaughterofMother1 No, I'm not gonna sit back and let this narrative be pushed, someone hurting their spouse it horrible but someone hurting a child that's terrible people who put children and grown women on the same pedestal makes me mad, and the fact you said " especially daughters" like be foreal, most sons get beat and neglected by there's dad because " there men and there knowlong 5 so they should be able to take it" while they treat there daughter like little pretty flowers, especially in Hispanic house holds and black house holds white house holds and even Asian, now being sexual asulted yes that happens for more often to daughters but being physically abused , in my opinion both are very terrible and I feel bad for both parts however to put women on a child's level and to say especially daughters when referring to physical abuse as if it doesn't to happen to boys more is disgusting just , children or kids.
@@ChristDynasty That hypothetical woman was once a child...a girl, a human being; just like her brother is, was, will. Wtf? I guess you can't understand what you said from any views or low life morals. Your argument breaks coherence laws even in therms or real logic or semantics. You're a walking fallacy.
@@ChristDynastyI agree. Men who abuse their spouses are absolutely abusing their children too, regardless of what sex they are. It may not be physical,but no one can say they were happy in a home watching a parent being abused even if the other one never lays a hand on them. It's emotional terrorism, and the main reason I waited six years to get married. We've been together a decade, and he's never once laid a hand on me. I have a happy home for the most part, and that's after it took me almost four years to leave my abuser. I now own a gun(several) if he ever feels like revenge for me leaving is a dish best served cold, and a cast iron skillet 😂. Don't mean to make light of it, but it's how I deal, and my abuser will never lay a hand on me or my daughter ever again.
"My mom was unconscious and my dad was still kicking her." He hated his wife. If you don't love your spouse *walk away.* If your spouse abuses you *they don't love you.* Don't stay with someone who doesn't love you. Please...
He abused his children, too. It‘s all about control, not love. Some people just enjoy to have power over someone… the only reason for them to marry: to act out the controlling maniac!!
@@buberrycrunch oh, I know first hand it isn't easy. I had to change my name and move 1500 miles away. I had to leave everything behind. But I didn't want to be murdered, and he was promising me that.
His brother said it should be manslaughter, does he even know the difference between manslaughter and murder? It is obvious this was a premeditated calculated act, the whole reason he brought the knife. He was simmering and waiting for the chance to kill her and that's exactly what he did. I understand wanting to defend your family, but she was also your family, the mother of your nephew and niece's. His brother is almost as cowardly as the father. I hate to think how he treats his wife and kids. That behavior is usually a learned thing. Makes me sick to think about. I hope this monster never sees the light of day. Thankfully he didn't have access to a gun, no telling how many lives he would have taken that day with his blind rage.
Any and all evidence the police can collect from the crime scene is important. Witnesses make mistakes, don't always recollect correctly what they saw, etc. So it's important for police to collect any and ALL evidence, since juries can be odd, biased, or make huge mistakes.
@@BedlingtonGroomerno, of course evidence needs to be reserved, but using PAPER bags????, paper is absorbent. Not convinced PAPER bags would help the forensics afterwards.
As a child survivor of Domestic abuse of a mother who did not walk away, I want everyone to know that staying with an angry, abusive, intimidating, violent husband is NEVER the BEST for the children. I’m so sick of this hero shit narrative around women who cannot leave an abusive relationship where innocent bloody children are scarred for life from their inability to walk away from a deadshit. I’m 60 years old and the stain this has left in the life of myself and 5 other humans, who were innocent and unable to get away, is always there and has poisoned our lives. If you cannot walk away from a dangerous man then get your kids away. Give them to a loving, healthy and safe family until you can get your head right. It takes more courage to walk away then to stay. I’m the hero who picked up my children, pregnant with the third and fled a foreign country with them with one suitcase to get them away from an angry psycho control freak.
I’m so happy that u didn’t repeat the cycle. I unfortunately have had similar experiences in my past so please don’t think I’m defending ur mother but u did mention u were 60 so I imagine u were raised in the 1960s women had a lot less options back then unfortunately…..I’m so sorry u still carry that weight but maybe it’s time to let it go and forgive ur mother for urself. If u can’t do that then please maybe u can see that she didn’t know it would harm u all so much or else I’m sure she would have left. I hope u find peace with this.
As a child & an adult who's still suffering as a result of the domestic violence between them which has made its way to me in a profound negative way in adulthood, I know too well what you mean. Feared abused, neglected & oppressed mothers raise children worse than them in every which way possible unfortunately. By staying not only they put themselves in jeopardy but more so the very children they claim to love, care & protect with their lives 😔 its got nothing to do with religion, gender, culture, age etc but the mindset, personal ideologies & choices parents make when they are raising their children coupled with genetics.
@@myjourneytotruth absolutely agree. There is a psychological mental health disorder in these women who logically can see and know the danger but can’t leave.
Agree with you that in the 60s there were not many options available to married women who wanted a separation. Additionally, the general public did not know as much about domestic violence as they know now-neither did people talk about it.
You are 100% correct, but where your mums circumstances the same as yours? Like did she speak the language in the country she was in? Was she educated enough to get up and leave? These are all factors that force women to unfortunately stay and carry on enduring abuse. I used to moan about other things about my mum, but now that I'm older I think, with some things, she just didn't know any better. She wasn't educated she was forced to do house work as a kid, she got married off at 20 and sent to UK where she didn't speak the language and the list goes on. So I get you might be angry because of what you went through, but mum's are only human too.
They dad was heartless and cold As if she was his property and she disrespected him by leaving like she was supposed to continue to be a victim This is heartbreaking
9:49 He was satisfied with himself because his plan worked. I am so incredibly proud of this women's children and the strength they have shown. The brothers are probably everything Zia hoped her son would never be and she succeeded in that.
The breakdown here is that the Australian system didn’t understand Iranian/ Afghan culture. If they had, the threats on this woman would have been taken more seriously.
The Australian system doesn't understand their own culture and people, let alone anyone else's. The system is there purely to make money. Nothing to do with protecting the innocent sadly.
Thank you!! Finally someone recognizes that. I had a friend in a similar predicament years back when she lived in Saudi Arabia. It was bad, she was terrified. She was able to get away from her husband with her children, but had to move to a different continent to feel ‘somewhat safe.’ I feel so bad Zahra didn’t have that opportunity.
Oh please , the police knew this was a treat to his wife and possibly her children l. They failed this women and her children. This cop turns my stomach. I feel so bad for the children and family.
so, she married the man, and it was his foreign culture that was a large part of the problem, but the host country's taxpayers and police must accept that burden?? If that doesn't make people bitter about immigration, what will?
For 30 years I was married to a man of this culture and sometime I realised the whole culture is a narcissistic culture. The mothers of these men contribute to bringing up mentally sick boys and men by treating them like little gods. They give them a god-complex by not pointing out their responsibilities in life. I find the police officer ridiculous. In these cultures men have all the rights and women none. But he lived in Australia so he could have become civilised some time. This guy delighted in causing pain & harm to his family.
Restraining orders are fairly useless. I live in Ohio and helped a group of strong fighting women present a bill so that any person with a restraining order against them has to wear a tracking device/ like a gps monitor/ankle bracelet that they have to pay for, so that if they violate it by coming close to contact, the authorities are notified, and they are found and arrested. This was in honor of a woman who was murdered by her ex husband and her daughter nearly got away. He also murdered their horse. These MONSTERS must be held accountable BEFORE they murder any more women. My heart goes out to this family. May your next lifetime be much kinder. May your hearts heal. Bless you.
His ego was bruised so he took revenge. Poor excuse for a male in my opinion. Our so called laws when it comes to protecting women from domestic violence needs to desperately change. Why should Zahra have to go into hiding in order to feel safe? How many warnings does it take in order for action to be taken? Clearly death! My heart goes out to the children
This is such a horrific tragedy that NEVER should have happened!!!😡…the horror pain and suffering this beautiful woman and her children were forced to endured is absolutely heartbreaking!!!😢…my prayers and condolences to her family and her children!!!!🙏🙏🙏😔…SHAME on ALL that ignored SO MANY bright red flags and complaints!!!🤬🤬🤬
And yet police will consider misgendering someone abuse and act on that! The world has gone crazy! My late mother was the victim of domestic violence for most of her married life and though police would attend the home, nothing was ever done. This devastated my family and we have all suffered life-long effects of the trauma for more than 50 years.
I feel so sad for the children and their mother. This kind of thing should not happen in Australia. So heartbreaking. Some judges need to step down as they clearly show that they are so incompetent and cannot do there job and continue to put women and children in harms way. They just don’t care.
The Australian police need to understand "Honour Killing". You can not just dismiss the situation stating "He might have threatened to kill her or not". This family has been terribly let down by outdated systems, their mother was cruelly murdered by the husband and the ridiculous laws in Australia.
The only thing that the Australian police understand is dishing out fines and arresting people. Anything above that is ignored. Rule 1 in Australia: You never call a police officer to help you if you are a victim of domestic violence. They flat out cannot and will not help you.
Police are not to be blamed. Immigration process is to be blamed. Asking police to deal with immigrant abusers is like paying human doctors to treat animals...dangerous most of the time.
Their is no honor in killing..it's an excuse for the men to beat the s@%t out their partner, if she don't comply... After all they are from that sh#&tty part of the world. They are the unwelcomed ones.
I am an Iranian mother, have children your age, I am heartbroken for you all, so sorry for your loss. She is a proud soul in heaven watching over you all. Take great care of each other.
Not suspecting an Afghan of going trhough with his deaththreats after he has said that she disgraced him shows the Australian police and court system know nothing about Afghan "culture". It also bafles me that only women can disgrace or shame the honour, but not men. I wonder who invented that rule..
So many of us like her. Some still survive simply because the abuser is too cowardly to do what he did in public view. RIP to all who passed. Stay strong and vigilant you who survived
To anyone here watching this and knowing they are in an abusive relationship please find your local resources and use them. There are domestic violence services like shelter, counseling, childcare, clothing and more. Shelters are usually houses that are safe houses that people don't know the location of. So you have to reach out to a local domestic violence organization to get into a shelter. Sometimes you will be bussed to a different city. Please remember everything you have pretty much can be replaced. Don't take make up, clothes etc etc. Take a journal of you have it, a phone if you can, your personal art but none of that is as important as you getting out. It doesn't matter how old you are, what you look like or who you are, you deserve peace and do not need to stay in this toxic place. This person will not change and they do not deserve any more chances. Get out and get out now. Take your children and go to a domestic violence place. They will call the police, get you to a medical professional, help you with shelter, show you how to fill out legal papers. Yes it's scary, you'll feel all alone. But that's what makes you brave, you have the courage to do this. Don't think about the immediate life changes as much as start envisioning your peaceful radiant future after this whole mess gets fixed. No one can make you do this. You have to do this for yourself. Now go. You are your strongest advocate for you and your children. May you be blessed.
You must not be Australian bc there are no such resources here like that. There are only services PRETENDING to give this help, but they do not actually help you.
Its disgusting that police are saying for them it was not serious enough to act to protect her. Also at the end they state the law can't protect you if someone is hell bent to kill. A decent system should apprehend people that are likely to commit such crimes even when they only wisper a threat. Isn't too late to act after the fact which is always the case. How many women need to butchered for the law to learn?
This is heartbreaking. This guy committed vindictive premeditated murder after his wife took HER power back...and the children ended up suffering the most.
The Afganie brother calling fur Manslaughter was despicable. Learn about a potential spouses culture before making a commitment. So sad ,too many of these abusers bring thier evil mindset with them Yi adopted country.
I am so sorry for this beautiful family. I cried for what had happened and felt your mother's presence, she loves you all. May God's love be with you all also, until you all see your beautiful mother again.
Another example of the system failing women who flee abusive relationships. The way he sat in the chair after murdering the mother of his children is disturbing. Writing to his children and placing blame for her own murder is classic narcissistic behavior. May she rest in eternal peace.
Agreed. The system is there only to make ppl fight with each other so the courts will be full and ppl will be broke from paying lawyer's fees. No money to be made from protecting victims. That's why the law will never change.
This is a horrific story that should have never happened ,the system failed her. She did everything right, sought out help and support but she still lost her life. I am grateful that she has strong children and her son isn't going to be a man who is abusive like his father. The son is there for his sisters and will be a fathet roll for them. He is young but has a very strong, loving caring personality. My heart goes out to this family for their pain and suffering from the father and loss of their loving mother. ❤
How dare this sorry excuse for a human being dare say that he is the victim??!! I really hope that his fellow prisoners show him what a victim really is!
That is so sad. Feel for her children. They lost the mother they loved and the troubled unstable violent Father is hopefully jailed for life. Such good loving Children. How devestating for them. God bless them
I don't know if family members ever watch these shows on YT and read comments, but to Zahra's children, your mom was beautiful inside and out. I hope you have felt her comforting love come over you at times since your terrible loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. 🙏❤🙏
May she rest in peace and may her murderer spent the rest of his life in jail remembering what a horrible act he did I hope he never gets out prayers and condolences to the family
OMG, why is it the system can't see when someone's life is in danger after everything the police and courts are told. The judge and officers should have charges brought up against them for not doing anything to help this woman and her children. He was a lawyer so that's probably why they didn't believe her. These poor kids lost their mom, but at least their free of their tyrant of a dad. I hope these kids can try and lead as normal as a life as possible. He should have gotten the death penalty
The judge who allowed the killer to attend should be charged with manslaughter
@@cbvagabondthe lawyer was under oath and so he gets pardon. The judge on the other hand has poor judgement and should punish accordingly
attend? who at the event allowed him to attend?
This idea of strangers (courts, police) constantly being required to be "my brother's keeper" is insane.
@@cbvagabond Keep your values to *yourself* and live by what you believe. I do my best not to force my values onto others. I call that "being considerate". No, we are not each others' keepers. If we are, then 2/3rds of the American public will hear me constantly remind them to *lose weight* .
See how that works???
Yes I agree
no. MURDER. Few things have infuriated me as much as seeing what this evil monster of a human being did to his family, and after YEARS of abuse, has the gall to blame his victim. This is proof of hell, for it was made for such as this monster.
How could his brother say it should have been manslaughter? He brought a knife into a public place and committed premeditated murder. Period.
Cuz he’s probably just like his brother
@@mermaid30019 and probably even encouraged his brother to „re-establish family pride that had been sullied by that woman“. Wonder if the murderer was on the phone with his brother right before entering the center…
Sounds like the man and his family believes she shamed them by moving out/divorcing. They might have that mentality that when she married into the family, she belongs to them. They can mistreat her because she's now theirs.
Because they moved to Australia but did not move into a different mindset. Brought their regressive thinking along
Yep, his brother would have done the same. Shame on all of them.
What a monster
What a beautiful son . She is proud of you .
She is proud of each and everyone of you darlings
That man is so sick! No woman should endure husband’s abuse and violence!
this is very common in that cult-ure.
@@MichElle-zc9tu Meh it seems common in the west just not as much tied up in the concept of "honor", I have yet to see a study proving otherwise anyways.
That's normal in his culture
@@Xinjiekou_新街口_Stationtry living in Afghanistan bruh
No man should endure wife's abuse and violence either!
That brother claiming it was not justice and it was manslaughter must be as awful as his brother. It's a misogynistic self entertainment to believe that a man has full control to harm his family is based on insecurities and ignorant culture traditions.
BRAVO. I am always in awe of the fact that if the wife abuser got into a fight with his neighbor, the Abuser would be charged with assault and battery. Abuse your Wife, well that's a Civil Matter. LOLOLOLOL SMH
Amen to that! 🙏 No-one has the right to take anyone's life or have control of their lives. Hurts my soul to hear things like this. Her poor children, my prayers of peace and strength go out to them.
Lesson: STAY AWAY FROM INSECURE LITTLE MEN.
The brother’s words were DISGUSTING…justifying that he was provoked to stab somebody, in public, like hunting an animal…
It's their upbringing.
@@chitrabhakta3820 Yes. Sounds like islam teaching's.
My dad killed my mom to. There's support groups for us but I don't go. You're not alone. Our mothers memories will stay alive forever. Never forget her!
Very sorry to hear. I hope your wound is healed.
I’m so sorry too! That’s terrible 😞
So blamed the Authority in Australia for not doing their jobs to protect the women's?
Imagine in Europe 🇪🇺 or England or America or in Canada 🇨🇦 it still happens?
@@arianayoung7537 She didn’t say anything about blaming the police in her comment and even if she did you’re still really out of line. Obviously I can’t tell you not to comment since that’s not how this platform works but you should really learn to read the room and at least try to have some empathy for people. Honestly shameful.
I am so very sorry for your loss Kayla. I can’t imagine how awful of a situation you’ve gone through and how painful it must be. My mom died from cancer so I really appreciate what you said about our mothers memories staying alive. I wish you all the best and a life full of love and happiness.
THE COMISSIONER MADE ME SICK WITH HIS COMMENTS. I'M SURE THEY WOULD'VE ACTED SO DIFFERENTLY IF IT WAS A MEMBER OF HIS OWN FAMILY OR FRIENDS, IT'S SHOCKING BEYOND WORDS.
SHAME ON THE AUSTRALIAN POLICE.
Agree 100%. Basically they don't give a toss.
@@joanne3049
HEY JOANNE,
IT MOST DEFINITELY SEEMS THAT WAY. . .
ENJOY THE REST OF YR DAY. ✌️🙂
Exactly 😢😢
Did you see how even the commissioner caught himself and realized how ridiculous the "law" was and did not know what to say except stuttering say"it's the law". Sad, but yes I'm sure he would feel different if it happened to close to home.
The law is open to interpretation. He's likely just trying not to get sued.
This guy and his brother they still thinks they’re in their old country where women don’t have any rights and protection from abusers. The Australian police failed her and her family. Police commissioner should be fired.
My condolences to the survivors of that great lady. RIP
and you and I get to pay more in taxes to deal with the results of their old world attitudes. Is that fair? i find that being victimized *twice* .
@@genkiferal7178the only victim is the mother and her children please stop trying to victimize yourself it’s pathetic.
Narcissists come in all races, from all corners of the Earth.
So tragic. Those poor kids, losing their mom this way. Their mom is a hero. What she endured is unimaginable.
His brother should go to jail just for suppoting this garbo
I hope he isn’t married….. because his wife should be very afraid
@@eaglementality4380
Probably too scared to speak up 😢
His brother is clearly a piece of crap like he is, but this murderer should have been charged with assault in the first place, his visa/passport/citizenship stripped from him and he should have been sent back to live in his home country. Then his wife and children would have been safe. If he was tried and convicted on the original assault, that should have been enough to expunge him from the country. There need to be laws where domestic abuse victims have no say about charges, and it should be up to law enforcement and the courts to separate victims from abusers wherever possible. Victims will typically cover for abusers for far too long, so the option should be taken out of their hands. In this situation, simply leaving him was never going to be enough, and the excuse that he was just going to kill her no matter what, is a cop out for any progressive society.
His brother is one and the same
Her sons Grief is heartbreaking..what a despicable Father
What an unbelievable coward. True justice would be to dish out what he tortured that beautiful woman with. I'm so angry so I can't imagine how her family feels.
The threats ARE very specific. He said he WOULD kill her. That cop is full of shit!
Totally! They didn't care. 😡
Right?! Imagine having a innocent, and many others, dead for nothing and he’s still trying to defend a failing system, where his humanity is I wonder, if he has some left..
This man Zia was our family’s case worker from AMRC for us immigrating to Australia Adelaide from Iran in 2008. This documentary does not cover his infidelity with multiple women while he was STILL married. His mistress was our neighbour and he used to bring his youngest daughter to our house and he would go next door to see her.
The mistress is an ugly woman she never tried to hide it and always was bragging about how he loves her more than his wife to my mum and I remember her taunting his wife and telling her about how she is sleeping with her husband and evil woman.
I will never forget her beautiful daughter she would tell me that her dad always beat her mum and them which made me very sad but I was 10 myself did not know how to react.
The day he murdered his wife we were getting ready to also attend the celebration but once we go to the hall the police were already there and everywhere was closed off.
May she rest in peace, I cry for them and it still feels like a dream.
This is so terrible. I feel like the judge who lifted the order also has a bit of responsibility
That mistress should be careful she might be next if she gets him mad.
@@carmenjimenez7929 not to worry his behind bars,,the systeme fail this women,,wow what a con..unreal , my heart goes out to her....
And the brother claiming that it should have been manslaughter because a lot of provocation have been done to him... wow I am absolutely appalled for this family.... victim-blaming...
Muslim mindset will ALWAYS SUPPORT the man, whatsoever he does
@@ΦΡΑΝΣΟΥΑΖΠΑΝΑΓΙΩΤΙΔΟΥ Hindutva obsessed in blaming Islam when neither of these were Muslims
@@homer1273 Same misogynistic mindset. It’s cultural as much as religious.
@@jasperhorace7147 family killings happen more in western and in Christian countries. in western countries not a day without a father murdering his whole family
@@jasperhorace7147 misoginy as well as racism is prevalent in western countries as well as india
My mum, myself/my siblings suffered this also at the hands of our father. He was ... "A STREET ANGEL, HOUSE DEVIL" Everyone outside our home loved & respected him yet nobody knew just how truly evil he was!
CaRob Mc. Im so sorry to read this. The worse kind - Street Angel, House devil ... very well put. I hope you were all able to get away?
I hope you guys are doing better now
This was, (and still is), my mom. She was a personable, educated, well-mannered fashion plate to those who didn't live under her roof. I've been recently thinking about the mental, emotional, and physical abuse I suffered as a child. Could my friends tell? Could the teachers tell? My mom worked for the school and was doted on by the nuns who taught us. I was an unaware anorexic starting around age 7 (I still suffer with the disorder at times). I suffered from debilitating panic attacks where I'd hide in the school's bathroom. No one offered to help me. No one even acknowledged the odd behavior till I had a psych break at age 11. Sometimes I'm impressed with what my mind, heart, and soul dealt with but continued to endure and even thrive a little bit. I'm 42, I have no children, never been married, and have trouble making and maintaining friendships. I'm almost 3 yrs sober and doing well. My mom is 81 and I see her almost everyday to take out her trash and listen to her trash me. C'est la vie. (Damn, I needed to vent)
@@caitlinthompson7540 I’m sorry you went through this. I am glad you have described yourself as even thriving a little. 🌱
Same for my house growing up. And ended up being the same in my marriage.. The difference is I left shortly after he really became abusive. My mother is still married to the man who abused her, me & my siblings.. our entire childhood... I escaped.. so I thought... by moving in with my EXHUSBAND (boyfriend at the time) & married him at 20.. We moved out of state 5 months after we married.. Once, I was moved away.. the controlling insecure notch was turnt up to high, Dr Jeckle & Mr Hyde.. The ULTIMATE NARCISSISTS WAS REVEALED TO ME.. ALTHOUGH AT THE TIME I HAD NEVER EVEN HEARD OF THE WORD "NARCISSISTS".. I WOULDN'T BE TIL 20 YRS LATER THAT I WOULD LEARN WITH A NARCISSISTS IS.. HE RUINED MY ENTIRE LIFE..
I GREW UP IN AN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOUSEHOLD AND I ATTRACTED AN ABUSER.. TRAUMA BONDING IS REAL...
WOMEN NEED TO KNOW ITS NOT OUR JOB TO EMOTIONALLY SAVE, & HEAL THE WOUNDS OF BROKEN PEOPLE THAT WE DIDN'T CAUSE.. YES, WE CAN STAND BY THEIR SIDES AND BE WITH THEM THRU THEIR HEALING, LOVE THEM.. WITH ABUSERS THO.. THEIR HAS TO BE CONDITIONS.... ONCE THEY TURN ON US.. GET UP OUT OF THERE..
I'M 49, MY SISTER IS 50, HER BROTHER IS 48 AND WE ALL HAVE DEEP WOUND AND RESIDUAL (DEEP) DAMAGE THAT HAS EFFECTED OUR LIVES IN MANY WAYS..
STAYING FOR THE KIDS IS CHOOSING FOR YOU KIDS TO BE ABUSED.. WHAT MOTHERS GO THRU THEIR CHILDREN GO THRU. PERIOD.
If you threaten to kill the prime minister you will go to jail. Whats the difference if you threaten to kill your spouse. If its proven someone is threatening to kill someone they should get a mandatory 5-10 years jail. Threatening life should really be amended and looked at so this doesn't happen.
Amen. Police pretending not to know a threat when they hear one.
I hope his kids doesn't have anything with him? Or with his sides Families.
Those kinds of peoples r dangerous.
Where will all these people be housed, Prisons are already overcrowded. Will you give billions to build more Prisons?! Use logic! People threaten people everyday,mostly just emotions. Like most of you don't have the aptitude to handle a news story. Knowing, this situation is affecting your life none.
Well said.
Prayers to ANYONE in danger/being abused
Amen 🙏
Thank you 🙏
🙏🏼 ❤
Copy Rasmus Paludan: *Qur'an 4:34* “Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other. So righteous women are devoutly obedient. But those from whom you fear arrogance - advise them; forsake them in bed; and *BEAT* them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.”
*Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 72, Hadith 715* "Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!'"
*Sahih al-Bukhari 5825, Book 77, Hadith 42* "Aisha said, 'I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!'"
Prayers? PRAYERS? TF are words gonna do?
Your mama would be so proud of the kind, resilient, caring children she has raised. May you all continue to find strength and comfort in each other as you slowly come to terms with this awful thing.
She had an order against him and he was still threatening her and that cop says it's the law not to intervene. Mind boggling and that cop should be ashamed
what is the order supposed to be used for if the police don't intervene? So upsetting
Exactly, why is it unlawful to prevent a murder?
@@hiseverest9074 Because it's a Family Law case. Police won't intervene. If it's Civil and the scenario happens, then they intervene. They won't intervene if victims or victim in the family gets abused. Been there with a few families before. Sometimes it's too late. It happens.
@@shanethemuzz5060 Huh? That's literally strange. What's the point?
I had a restraining order and my ex kept coming around my house looking in the windows. The police would do nothing. They said I had to get a picture of him violating order for proof. I was horrified.
Domestic violence is never taken seriously enough
Truth
🎯🥺
Because the laws and the courts hate women and children.
@@kellyreilly-robinson2130 yup
yep and this men complaining about false accusations, when the reality is that the majority or times abuse happens we don't even go to police because is useless
ANY Threat Should be taken SERIOUSLY 😡😡😡
Exactly!! A threat is just that a threat, which always needs to be taken seriously, and expecially when matched with the ideology of the Afghan men!! Honestly what's wrong with us??
But, but, but . . . that would be a violation of Universal Human Rights (of worship): *Qur'an 4:34* “Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other. So righteous women are devoutly obedient. But those from whom you fear arrogance - advise them; forsake them in bed; and *BEAT* them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.”
*Qur'an 9:29* "Fight against those who do not believe in Allāh or in the Last Day."
*Qur'an 2:216* "Fighting is obligatory for ˹believers˺, though you dislike it. Allah knows; you do not."
*Qur'an 8:12* "I shall cast t____r into the hearts of those who disbelieved, so strike them upon the necks."
*Qur'an 3:151* “We will cast t____r into the hearts of those who deny the Truth”
*Qur'an 9:111* “Allah has indeed purchased from the believers their lives and wealth in exchange for Paradise. They fight in the cause of Allah and k__ or be k____.”
*Qur'an 9:123* “Believers! Fight against the disbelievers who are near to you; and let them find harshness in you. Know that Allah is with the God-fearing. O ye who believe!”
My brother threatened to kill me , I left never saw him again
It's ridiculous in this day and age 2024 this is common in every country in the world it makes me sick.
@forestcottage7321 it's the same in Scotland.
Her children are her legacy…so brave and beautiful.
I have never heard of a murder happening in a room full of people, that takes evil to a whole new level! That poor woman did not deserve that and neither did the kids! Hell is waiting for this man!
This is just heartbreaking. The system failed them big time. Why is this so hard for authorities and people to understand, she knew how dangerous he was, and they just brushed it off.
Pip
It's not the system it's they're culture. What law would stop this? Should we arrest all Muslim men who've been shamed or disrespected by their family members?
the system is not very good at prevention because the laws are not efficient and also it may cost a lot of money ! it is difficult to put someone in jail until he did not break the law, if they go to jail it is not for long periods and when they are free they are more infuriated ! very sad !
@@heywtfisgoindownlol9879 feminicides happen in all cultures, it would be so simple to point the finger at one culture only ! exemple : Gaby Petito and his boyfriend/killer, not muslim ....
@@tarantellalarouge7632 So gruesome but so true too 😞
The absolute audacity of that bastard to call himself a victim is nauseating. What he saw as someone trying to destroy his life , was actually the fact that he felt like humiliation because his wife left him , he didn't care that she was afraid, didn't care to hurt her or his kids, no , he only cared about what other ppl would think. These men from that region of the world are always bent up about "Honor " , to the point that they'll literally kill wives , children and anyone else in order to satisfy their imaginary slights . The whole thing is ridiculous. Is there honor in throwing your life away and rotting in a prison cell ??? Like , yeah I killed my wife for dishonorable conduct, but now that I'm in prison, alone and all my children hate me. I've got honor out the wazoo. Its like cutting of your nose to spite your face. These cowardly little men have no clue what real honor is . RIP to the poor mother , and prayers for the children of hers. This was so cruel and pointless
May he's rott in Jail
He is from Afghanistan, they are like this , fanatisc
Very well put.
Thumbs up for that great comment! It's absolutely unacceptable. Ciao from Italy 🇮🇹
@@viverepensare thank you sugar ❤
Unfortunately he would have killed her even if he wasn't allowed in there. He would have done it somewhere else. This is terribly sad 😔
What an evil man, his brother is just as bad.
That brave mother was 100% let down by authority ❤❤❤
She wouldn’t be the first or last.
Yeah what a surprise. May he rot in jail then hell.
Yet people should give up their rights to self defense.
He was going to get her in one or another.. I mean if he could do it in a room full of people? What would stop him from trying other ways?
You kids stay close , unite , only way for you to see peace
This is utterly terrifying. My condolences to the children.
The audacity of the brother staying "he was provoked and charges should be manslaughter". Ego and despotism. My condolences to the beautiful children she had raised and sacrificed her life for.
At what level is so called provocation not a provocation but a desperate attempt to flee? These men have a wrapped sense of reality! They use the word provocation flippantly and without understanding. It's like saying if you abandon a fight you provoke ur opponent? It's so ridiculous it's unreal.
@@Z8terfix Escaping from the violent husband after decades of assaults
was 'provocation', according to his brother. Fkn ridiculous.
@@pugs425 I know. They are sick minds with distorted reality 🥴
Sorry to hear about ur abuse! These knuckleheads here will never comprehend it..
@@Z8terfix HI. I'm not abused.
@@pugs425 Soz. I thought u were talking about urself. My bad
This is how the monsters see it; as provocations, such a self importance. He is a self entitled criminal. So is his brother. I feel sorry for her children, so hurt they are.
He's a narcissist
I would write to the prison asking that they stop his letters to me from getting mailed.
Men can be so utterly selfish and possessive. They somehow think women and children belong to them to dispose as they wish. It's so lacking in humanity and reason. It's INSANE
@@Z8terfix WOMEN CAN BE THAT WAY ALSO. I think it's just more common with men. But remember the
Mother of three beautiful children who
shot all three at point blank range in cold blood just because she thought they stood in her way of getting the man she was obsessed with? That's the same thing. In her twisted sick mind she thought if she got rid of her kids "for him" forever he would be glad to have her.
The brother must be investigated
The brother should rot in jail with him. Piece of crap. Excusing a killer’s behavior. So awful may she rest in peace
That is nothing but pride, unforgiveness and hate.
Ego....sick....
In my entire career as an Attorney, I have never seen a piece of paper that protected an abused woman from a bullet or knife
Yet in the courtroom the victims are expected to have good lawyers to win the case against the abuser who WILL have a good lawyer since he will control the money, unlike the victim who will only have a court appointed 1st year lawyer. This is why the abuser wins with his attorneys. Do you take cases for abusers? bc if you do, you're part of the problem.
Omg so sad to hear that men are getting away with it
That's in their bloods ?
The children looked like 👍 their Mum
Aweee
Good 👍 job from the son 👏 👍
Stand up for your Mum and Sisters?
The son is such a great guy…so protective and loving towards his mother and sisters. The son could also have turned out to be like his dad but he chose not to and instead was a caring brother and son.
Reddy Kanta. Yes it's incredible that the son has turned out so caring, protective, a lovely man, so the opposite from his maniac father.
I think a lot of young middle eastern men including myself, worked hard to make sure we don't continue this cycle of violence towards people or our spouses, as it is a big problem in middle eastern culture abuse within the family, he has grown up in a place where we are taught to respect and value people and life and that our differences can be resolved.
Doesn't matter how good looking they r? I don't want anything to do with them?
@@arianayoung7537 Excuse me? Whose talking about looks? We are talking about the son’s protective and caring personality and not about how good looking they are. So what if you don’t care or don’t wanna know about them .The majority of the people in this world does care because we have empathy and kindness in our hearts for them.
@@fransmaroki I’m so glad that the younger generation of today are making a change when it comes to the protection and safety of women and children. Brother hats off to you.
We should always treat the women in our lives with love and respect. They are the ones that bear children ,nurture children .and care for the family. Without them there would be no existence in this world. A loving mom is the greatest gift to a child and family.
He felt like a victim. OMG I can't even imagine what the children felt when receiving that letter. Horrible.
horrible
Narcissist, clearly a malevolent narcissist
that CULTURAL acceptance must be DENOUNCED by EVERYONE
YES!!!! In all societies, regardless of which, there are some bad behaviors people complain about yet accept at the same time.
This killer's brother is just as sick as he is.
I bet
The sicko's probably going to take revenge on the rest of the family on behalf of his murderous brother in prison. Absolutely crazy!!
Saying his brother was provoked! The way they think about women....
Well, all those guys from ME countries are pretty MAGA, they just don't cal it that.
@@johnl9977There are plenty of evil guys just like this in our own country.
She is an absolute hero. She literally gave her life for her children's safety, my utmost respect to this beautiful woman. What a tragic loss of such a loving mother 💔❤️
She didn't "give" her life, with intent, she was avoidant, ambushed, her life taken from her. The kids were not at risk. You make no sense, it's so creepy how you say things that are untrue, in a need to get a positive reaction, I think? I wish folks like you would stick to facebook.
@@hensonlaura no! Don't push them sort to Facebook! Push them to TicT0k 😂 lefties
@@hensonlaura Understandable. She can't really protect them now
@@hensonlaura She's one of those libs of TikTok, lol
@@OscarRodriguez-fu6jv Yes, Libs of TikTok. 😂
I am so tired of abusers getting away with threatening with no repercussions. Threats on someone's life have Got to be taken seriously. Truly terrifying experience. Domestic violence has got to stop. Stop blaming the victim. There is zero excuse for hurting another life.
It’s more than him being an ‘abuser’, some cultures condone the killing of your wife if she dishonors you.
It’s horrible, but true.
no, start blaming the victim. women keep going back to their victimizer - or they never leave at all. It should not be up to taxpayers to deal with someone else's "love life" and that goes for STIs and LGBT issues, as well. And, why didn't others - both within and outside of the family - do or say something about this?!
In small towns, some people stopped doing business with a local pizza place because the man verbally degraded his wife and somewhat financially cheated his young wait staff out of their tips.
We each must play an active (brave) role in affecting change.
@@genkiferal7178 The abuse/victim relationship is like two pieces of the puzzle they fit together and a co-dependency is what holds the bond ; that is why early in the relationship when the red flags appear the victim will downgrade, excuse and forgive the violence. A predator abuser will NEVER be attracted or pursue a confident, emotionally and financially independent person equally the victim is a person with low self-esteem, lack of direction in life and is attracted for a person that will lead her , guide her and be her center. At this point of the race we call life we have seen these stories time and time again; there needs to be A SHIFT IN HOW THIS IS APPROACH. For instance, why partners in a domestic abuse situation DECIDE to have children and bring vulnerable beings into an environment of chaos, abuse and fear WHERE IS THE COMPASION? Thus, society has to determine how to deal with couples that are in a domestic violence relationship and are plan to have children because they are the COLLATERAL DAMAGE.
What a sorry excuse for a living being.
And no, he is not a man, just someone that should never have been born.
PS: The statements by the police are beyond pathetic; if someone threatens to kill you, take it serious, or will it only be taken seriously after you are dead as with Zara.
SO SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS! LOVE & BLESSING TO YOU ALL!!!
I hope that it's a true life sentence and that he NEVER gets out of prison.
In Australia, life sentence is 25 yrs in prison
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So sad 😞 in America we hear in Australia that you are not allowed guns? Is that true? God Bless you from Texas USA 🇺🇸
NOPE, IT'S NOT THE SAME AS MURDER SENTENCE.
Knowing the UK...
@@ellenadams7354 we are allowed them with a licence but we can't use them for self protection. We also have strict rules on the types we can have.
What a gutless, pathetic excuse for a man. Abusing his wife is one thing but his children is beyond disgusting. That judge that changed the order should be reprimanded, what an idiodic thing to do
What do you mean abusing his wife is one thing as though it's okay?
No abusing your wife is as bad as abusing your children,wife isn't your punching bag,she's the mother of the children,besides that..... no man ever stops at just abusing his wife,this always extends to children too especially daughters
@@DaughterofMother1 No, I'm not gonna sit back and let this narrative be pushed, someone hurting their spouse it horrible but someone hurting a child that's terrible people who put children and grown women on the same pedestal makes me mad, and the fact you said " especially daughters" like be foreal, most sons get beat and neglected by there's dad because " there men and there knowlong 5 so they should be able to take it" while they treat there daughter like little pretty flowers, especially in Hispanic house holds and black house holds white house holds and even Asian, now being sexual asulted yes that happens for more often to daughters but being physically abused , in my opinion both are very terrible and I feel bad for both parts however to put women on a child's level and to say especially daughters when referring to physical abuse as if it doesn't to happen to boys more is disgusting just , children or kids.
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That hypothetical woman was once a child...a girl, a human being; just like her brother is, was, will. Wtf?
I guess you can't understand what you said from any views or low life morals.
Your argument breaks coherence laws even in therms or real logic or semantics. You're a walking fallacy.
@@ChristDynastyI agree. Men who abuse their spouses are absolutely abusing their children too, regardless of what sex they are. It may not be physical,but no one can say they were happy in a home watching a parent being abused even if the other one never lays a hand on them. It's emotional terrorism, and the main reason I waited six years to get married. We've been together a decade, and he's never once laid a hand on me. I have a happy home for the most part, and that's after it took me almost four years to leave my abuser. I now own a gun(several) if he ever feels like revenge for me leaving is a dish best served cold, and a cast iron skillet 😂. Don't mean to make light of it, but it's how I deal, and my abuser will never lay a hand on me or my daughter ever again.
"My mom was unconscious and my dad was still kicking her."
He hated his wife. If you don't love your spouse *walk away.* If your spouse abuses you *they don't love you.* Don't stay with someone who doesn't love you. Please...
He abused his children, too. It‘s all about control, not love. Some people just enjoy to have power over someone… the only reason for them to marry: to act out the controlling maniac!!
I am job
that's easier said than done.
@@buberrycrunch oh, I know first hand it isn't easy. I had to change my name and move 1500 miles away. I had to leave everything behind. But I didn't want to be murdered, and he was promising me that.
@@miapdx503 may Allah/God protect you. Ameen🤲🏻
His brother said it should be manslaughter, does he even know the difference between manslaughter and murder? It is obvious this was a premeditated calculated act, the whole reason he brought the knife. He was simmering and waiting for the chance to kill her and that's exactly what he did. I understand wanting to defend your family, but she was also your family, the mother of your nephew and niece's. His brother is almost as cowardly as the father. I hate to think how he treats his wife and kids. That behavior is usually a learned thing. Makes me sick to think about. I hope this monster never sees the light of day. Thankfully he didn't have access to a gun, no telling how many lives he would have taken that day with his blind rage.
I'll be your Stumbleine:
The brother is just as cowardly as the father
He stabbed his wife 8 times in a room of 300 people including his children and the police put his hands in paper bags for forensic evidence? 🤦♀️
Any and all evidence the police can collect from the crime scene is important. Witnesses make mistakes, don't always recollect correctly what they saw, etc. So it's important for police to collect any and ALL evidence, since juries can be odd, biased, or make huge mistakes.
@@BedlingtonGroomerno, of course evidence needs to be reserved, but using PAPER bags????, paper is absorbent. Not convinced PAPER bags would help the forensics afterwards.
That is messed-up. The law should be held accountable. His brother is just as sick as he is.
As a child survivor of Domestic abuse of a mother who did not walk away, I want everyone to know that staying with an angry, abusive, intimidating, violent husband is NEVER the BEST for the children. I’m so sick of this hero shit narrative around women who cannot leave an abusive relationship where innocent bloody children are scarred for life from their inability to walk away from a deadshit. I’m 60 years old and the stain this has left in the life of myself and 5 other humans, who were innocent and unable to get away, is always there and has poisoned our lives.
If you cannot walk away from a dangerous man then get your kids away. Give them to a loving, healthy and safe family until you can get your head right.
It takes more courage to walk away then to stay. I’m the hero who picked up my children, pregnant with the third and fled a foreign country with them with one suitcase to get them away from an angry psycho control freak.
I’m so happy that u didn’t repeat the cycle. I unfortunately have had similar experiences in my past so please don’t think I’m defending ur mother but u did mention u were 60 so I imagine u were raised in the 1960s women had a lot less options back then unfortunately…..I’m so sorry u still carry that weight but maybe it’s time to let it go and forgive ur mother for urself. If u can’t do that then please maybe u can see that she didn’t know it would harm u all so much or else I’m sure she would have left. I hope u find peace with this.
As a child & an adult who's still suffering as a result of the domestic violence between them which has made its way to me in a profound negative way in adulthood, I know too well what you mean. Feared abused, neglected & oppressed mothers raise children worse than them in every which way possible unfortunately. By staying not only they put themselves in jeopardy but more so the very children they claim to love, care & protect with their lives 😔 its got nothing to do with religion, gender, culture, age etc but the mindset, personal ideologies & choices parents make when they are raising their children coupled with genetics.
@@myjourneytotruth absolutely agree. There is a psychological mental health disorder in these women who logically can see and know the danger but can’t leave.
Agree with you that in the 60s there were not many options available to married women who wanted a separation. Additionally, the general public did not know as much about domestic violence as they know now-neither did people talk about it.
You are 100% correct, but where your mums circumstances the same as yours? Like did she speak the language in the country she was in? Was she educated enough to get up and leave? These are all factors that force women to unfortunately stay and carry on enduring abuse. I used to moan about other things about my mum, but now that I'm older I think, with some things, she just didn't know any better. She wasn't educated she was forced to do house work as a kid, she got married off at 20 and sent to UK where she didn't speak the language and the list goes on. So I get you might be angry because of what you went through, but mum's are only human too.
The system fails way too many people. My heart goes out to her family.
They dad was heartless and cold As if she was his property and she disrespected him by leaving like she was supposed to continue to be a victim This is heartbreaking
My heart goes out to these children having to see all the abuse and to have their mother taken from them.
9:49 He was satisfied with himself because his plan worked. I am so incredibly proud of this women's children and the strength they have shown. The brothers are probably everything Zia hoped her son would never be and she succeeded in that.
So many times we hear the police ignored warnings or social services.About time this was taken seriously.
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The breakdown here is that the Australian system didn’t understand Iranian/ Afghan culture. If they had, the threats on this woman would have been taken more seriously.
The Australian system doesn't understand their own culture and people, let alone anyone else's. The system is there purely to make money. Nothing to do with protecting the innocent sadly.
Very true.
Thank you!! Finally someone recognizes that. I had a friend in a similar predicament years back when she lived in Saudi Arabia. It was bad, she was terrified. She was able to get away from her husband with her children, but had to move to a different continent to feel ‘somewhat safe.’ I feel so bad Zahra didn’t have that opportunity.
You don't need to understand a culture to take deadthreats seriously. A threat is a threat.
That's NOT Iranian culture. The victim was Iranian and her husband was AFGHAN. So it's absolutely not part of "Iranian culture".
Oh please , the police knew this was a treat to his wife and possibly her children l. They failed this women and her children. This cop turns my stomach. I feel so bad for the children and family.
Treat!?
Women !?
He should never be released from jail
Let him rot there.
SIP So sad
RIP 🙏
so, she married the man, and it was his foreign culture that was a large part of the problem, but the host country's taxpayers and police must accept that burden?? If that doesn't make people bitter about immigration, what will?
What an evil man. That poor woman and her children.
For 30 years I was married to a man of this culture and sometime I realised the whole culture is a narcissistic culture.
The mothers of these men contribute to bringing up mentally sick boys and men by treating them like little gods. They give them a god-complex by not pointing out their responsibilities in life.
I find the police officer ridiculous.
In these cultures men have all the rights and women none. But he lived in Australia so he could have become civilised some time.
This guy delighted in causing pain & harm to his family.
I remember when this happened. It’s shameful how she was let down by the whole system.
Restraining orders are fairly useless. I live in Ohio and helped a group of strong fighting women present a bill so that any person with a restraining order against them has to wear a tracking device/ like a gps monitor/ankle bracelet that they have to pay for, so that if they violate it by coming close to contact, the authorities are notified, and they are found and arrested. This was in honor of a woman who was murdered by her ex husband and her daughter nearly got away. He also murdered their horse. These MONSTERS must be held accountable BEFORE they murder any more women. My heart goes out to this family. May your next lifetime be much kinder. May your hearts heal. Bless you.
His ego was bruised so he took revenge. Poor excuse for a male in my opinion. Our so called laws when it comes to protecting women from domestic violence needs to desperately change. Why should Zahra have to go into hiding in order to feel safe? How many warnings does it take in order for action to be taken? Clearly death! My heart goes out to the children
In your opinion? There's no opinion about it.
This is such a horrific tragedy that NEVER should have happened!!!😡…the horror pain and suffering this beautiful woman and her children were forced to endured is absolutely heartbreaking!!!😢…my prayers and condolences to her family and her children!!!!🙏🙏🙏😔…SHAME on ALL that ignored SO MANY bright red flags and complaints!!!🤬🤬🤬
And yet police will consider misgendering someone abuse and act on that! The world has gone crazy! My late mother was the victim of domestic violence for most of her married life and though police would attend the home, nothing was ever done. This devastated my family and we have all suffered life-long effects of the trauma for more than 50 years.
His brother is just as despicable
I feel so sad for the children and their mother. This kind of thing should not happen in Australia.
So heartbreaking.
Some judges need to step down as they clearly show that they are so incompetent and cannot do there job and continue to put women and children in harms way. They just don’t care.
TRUE 💯 NOT ANYWHERE
It shouldn't happen anywhere. But the controlling and bullying of women goes on all over the world, even in the name of religion and culture. Obscene.
The Australian police need to understand "Honour Killing". You can not just dismiss the situation stating "He might have threatened to kill her or not".
This family has been terribly let down by outdated systems, their mother was cruelly murdered by the husband and the ridiculous laws in Australia.
The only thing that the Australian police understand is dishing out fines and arresting people. Anything above that is ignored. Rule 1 in Australia: You never call a police officer to help you if you are a victim of domestic violence. They flat out cannot and will not help you.
Police are not to be blamed. Immigration process is to be blamed. Asking police to deal with immigrant abusers is like paying human doctors to treat animals...dangerous most of the time.
@@hannahnpmungamuri8516 what about abuse from another Australian? Do your police help victims then?
Their is no honor in killing..it's an excuse for the men to beat the s@%t out their partner, if she don't comply... After all they are from that sh#&tty part of the world. They are the unwelcomed ones.
@@hannahnpmungamuri8516 like what now
What a terrible man for this murdered woman.
Just DISGUSTING! Some traditions need to just STOP! His honor?? But beating & abuse - that is not honorable, that's a COWARD, NOT A MAN!
The son has me in tears.
I am an Iranian mother, have children your age, I am heartbroken for you all, so sorry for your loss. She is a proud soul in heaven watching over you all. Take great care of each other.
The emotions that go across her son's face, and in his eyes, when asked what his mom was like...
watching her son tell this story is truly heartbreaking. His pain is all over his face.
Not suspecting an Afghan of going trhough with his deaththreats after he has said that she disgraced him shows the Australian police and court system know nothing about Afghan "culture". It also bafles me that only women can disgrace or shame the honour, but not men. I wonder who invented that rule..
Your mum was a beautiful woman who was so brave in order to protect her children. I’m so sorry for your loss and I pray she rests in eternal peace 😢
So many of us like her. Some still survive simply because the abuser is too cowardly to do what he did in public view. RIP to all who passed. Stay strong and vigilant you who survived
To anyone here watching this and knowing they are in an abusive relationship please find your local resources and use them.
There are domestic violence services like shelter, counseling, childcare, clothing and more.
Shelters are usually houses that are safe houses that people don't know the location of. So you have to reach out to a local domestic violence organization to get into a shelter.
Sometimes you will be bussed to a different city.
Please remember everything you have pretty much can be replaced. Don't take make up, clothes etc etc. Take a journal of you have it, a phone if you can, your personal art but none of that is as important as you getting out.
It doesn't matter how old you are, what you look like or who you are, you deserve peace and do not need to stay in this toxic place.
This person will not change and they do not deserve any more chances. Get out and get out now.
Take your children and go to a domestic violence place. They will call the police, get you to a medical professional, help you with shelter, show you how to fill out legal papers.
Yes it's scary, you'll feel all alone. But that's what makes you brave, you have the courage to do this.
Don't think about the immediate life changes as much as start envisioning your peaceful radiant future after this whole mess gets fixed.
No one can make you do this. You have to do this for yourself. Now go. You are your strongest advocate for you and your children.
May you be blessed.
You must not be Australian bc there are no such resources here like that. There are only services PRETENDING to give this help, but they do not actually help you.
@@joanne3049 where are you in Australia?
Let me see what I can do.
Its disgusting that police are saying for them it was not serious enough to act to protect her. Also at the end they state the law can't protect you if someone is hell bent to kill. A decent system should apprehend people that are likely to commit such crimes even when they only wisper a threat. Isn't too late to act after the fact which is always the case. How many women need to butchered for the law to learn?
My heart and prayers go out to this family.
My mother was there when it happened she was friends with Zahra same with my father it must have been horrible
This is heartbreaking. This guy committed vindictive premeditated murder after his wife took HER power back...and the children ended up suffering the most.
Abuses his family... Gets angry that the family wants nothing to do with him👀
Ugh
The Audacity to not take responsibility. That's stupidity at its finest.
My heart aches for those kids,the son absolutely loved his mother and I feel his tears💔
The Afganie brother calling fur Manslaughter was despicable. Learn about a potential spouses culture before making a commitment. So sad ,too many of these abusers bring thier evil mindset with them Yi adopted country.
I am so sorry for this beautiful family. I cried for what had happened and felt your mother's presence, she loves you all. May God's love be with you all also, until you all see your beautiful mother again.
Another example of the system failing women who flee abusive relationships. The way he sat in the chair after murdering the mother of his children is disturbing. Writing to his children and placing blame for her own murder is classic narcissistic behavior. May she rest in eternal peace.
The system is absolutely fucked!
Agreed. The system is there only to make ppl fight with each other so the courts will be full and ppl will be broke from paying lawyer's fees. No money to be made from protecting victims. That's why the law will never change.
So sorry for the children. They are living in a world without the comfort of a mother's loving smile 😃 my prayers 🙏
Aussie law is terribly bizarre...
His a monster he should have get a life sentence
This is a horrific story that should have never happened ,the system failed her. She did everything right, sought out help and support but she still lost her life. I am grateful that she has strong children and her son isn't going to be a man who is abusive like his father. The son is there for his sisters and will be a fathet roll for them. He is young but has a very strong, loving caring personality.
My heart goes out to this family for their pain and suffering from the father and loss of their loving mother. ❤
Every time a mother is killed society breaks down more and more.. God bless her soul and her children 🙏
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How dare this sorry excuse for a human being dare say that he is the victim??!! I really hope that his fellow prisoners show him what a victim really is!
That is so sad. Feel for her children. They lost the mother they loved and the troubled unstable violent Father is hopefully jailed for life. Such good loving Children. How devestating for them. God bless them
I don't know if family members ever watch these shows on YT and read comments, but to Zahra's children, your mom was beautiful inside and out. I hope you have felt her comforting love come over you at times since your terrible loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. 🙏❤🙏
May she rest in peace and may her murderer spent the rest of his life in jail remembering what a horrible act he did I hope he never gets out prayers and condolences to the family
OMG, why is it the system can't see when someone's life is in danger after everything the police and courts are told. The judge and officers should have charges brought up against them for not doing anything to help this woman and her children. He was a lawyer so that's probably why they didn't believe her. These poor kids lost their mom, but at least their free of their tyrant of a dad. I hope these kids can try and lead as normal as a life as possible. He should have gotten the death penalty
You can see the heartbreak in her sons eyes. Sad.
He looks devastated and haunted by it all
It's mostly the son who sympathises.
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I can imagine his brother whispering this action to him. He should be in jail too.
There should ve immediate action and revision in filing restraining orders