If You're Ready for a RADICAL AWAKENING, Watch This | Dr. Shefali on Impact Theory
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- Опубліковано 28 тра 2024
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When you think of cultural beliefs, how often have you found yourself questioning where these beliefs stem from? My guest today explores the notion of cultural lies that are at the root of our suffering as a society and as individuals. Clinical psychologist, Dr. Shefali shares some of her most profound insights from her latest book, A Radical Awakening. Witness her working through some ideas with me in real time around the culture being the villain versus owning your internal life and consciousness. Dive into some of the deeper ideas Dr Shefali presents starting with recognizing our destructive animal nature.
Order Dr. Shefali’s book, A Radical Awakening: www.aradicalawakening.com/
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Dr. Shefali
2:16 | Layers of Radical Awakening
3:29 | Our Animal Nature & Biological Wiring
8:06 | Our Destructive Nature to Justify
9:42 | Learn To Be Interconnected in Consciousness
13:50 | Chasing Dominance & Delusional Cravings
16:13 | Insecurities & Endless Consumerism
18:51 | Women Not Fitting The Beauty Standard
22:19 | Learning to Accept Yourself
25:32 | Dr. Shefali Explains the Toxic Patriarchy
33:20 | Women Buffering Against the Patriarchal System
36:36 | The Effects of Unconsciousness of Culture
39:57 | Who is Culture? What Toxicity Are You Buying?
41:35 | Navigating the Toxic Beliefs From Culture
44:05 | Dr. Shefali on Cultivating Your Own Voice
47:51 | Awakening to The Marriage Contract
52:07 | The Lie of Monogamy in Culture
53:28 | Our Insecurity That Drives Domination
54:51 | Realizing Self Worth and Self Acceptance
QUOTES:
“we are out of touch and out of sync with our bodies with how our biology influences us, and because of that, we misunderstand ourselves” [4:49]
“our minds have deluded us to believe we are so superior, that we have decimated everything around us now, so we'll be the only one standing and eventually we will corrupt ourselves, we are on that path of self destruction” [6:07]
“We've entered a great narcissism as a species, as a humanity, that we are just limitless. There's no stop button.” [11:32]
“It's a constant craving, constant insecurity. The fact that we can, doesn't mean we necessarily should.” [16:13]
“when we women succumb to cultural standards based on what culture imposes on us, and we defy our own natural bodies, and we go and mutate our own natural bodies to become that cultural standard, now, we are falling into the patriarchy, and actually genuflecting, actually serving the patriarchy by falling prey to it.” [20:06]
“We are constantly seeking to make everything fit this paradigm of beautiful. And actually that makes us more insecure.” [22:30]
“At the end of the day, self acceptance is your greatest sword. That is what is going to make you the most desirable to yourself and to others. Do not fall for standards of beauty.” [24:00]
“The fact that we have to fight it says that there's something to fight, and there's a system in place that we constantly have to buffer ourselves against “ [34:47]
“It is our inner that is represented on the outside on a global scale” [40:26]
“The scourge of humanity and mental illness is our deep void, our insecurity which is causing us to want to go to Mars and colonize it and go to every corner of the earth and dominate, similarly with our partners. Dominate their every part, every thought, every desire, it comes because we are not whole from within.” [53:40]
When was the last time you felt that you didn't hold yourself accountable? What were the repercussions of not taking ownership?
Man not taking ownership is like a time bomb. It builds up regret over time and it will explode into your face. At least for me. I wanted my dreams to be other people's dreams as well. I wanted my obsessions to be other people's obsessions for me to start going after them. I didn't owned my obsessions and dreams
Invite me to your show ,i would love to share my story with millions of people and your people ,it's my dream to come to your show and share my story. I 💕💕
Greetings with love from the Northern California Ranches
Love her.
Tom, this talk made me think about the book Ishmael when she spoke about us being animals. I hope you read that book if not I'd be happy to send you a copy. I'm grateful for this show I love it
Mental illnesses are influenced by nutrition, but their real cause is what she says : deep disconnection from our real self, which origins in trauma, as Gabor Maté explains so masterfully!
Gabor is awesome and ive just discovered Dr. Shefali. What a treat.
try explaining this modern woman.. they say its men.. they say its the patriachy ..ect.. i met so many woman who wanted a LTR but never opened up themsel but still crying and pointing to others.. you see that almost everywhere.
men on the otherhand dont wining about that.. they winning because they dont beeing accepted. they also try disconnected with drugs or alkh.. because the woman's/mothers around them wont open up to them and accept them for humans.
Yes! I hear lot of Gabor Mate in Shefali!
Dr. Shefali, “it’s not about one man, it’s about the patriarchal system.” Tom, “I don’t agree with that. My wife was subconsciously taught to be a housewife” …
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100% and he isn’t even aware of it
@@sambarryofficial yeaaah it was a cringe moment
Glad I'm not the only one that noticed and he was dismissive of her. I'm sure he thinks of himself as enlightened towards women. That is the problem. Most men are so entitled they are blind to the subtle misogyny.
Let me interrupt your expertise with my confidence-classic mansplaining
I really recommend her book... finished it yesterday it's really revealing you THE TRUTH. This woman is a force of nature... love her. Thank you Dr Shefali for reminding me what I already knew in my gut ❤❤❤
So she's suggesting you should dismantle your family unit to start a polyamorous relationship? Her discourse seems to be purely self-centered narcissism.
Dr. Shefali speaks so much wisdom. She is at a higher level of consciousness, because she has found love for herself, in the most healthy sense, and is speaking truth. It's hard to comprehend that level of knowledge and peace if you are not there.
I can see this beautiful soul is still in her journey, still solving inner conflicts and contradictions that come from life experiences, unique for all of us but so much alike.
She tells you what to do based on her experiences and maybe she is not even living all of what she says, don’t stress yourself on radically choosing a way or the other, remember to be a student not a follower. Listen to what serves you and decide/continue your own journey. Don’t get stuck in this, you do not need it, listen to your own inner voice, keep growing, keep searching.
And do not forget that as much as all these information serves us, and I truly appreciate it, some people make a lot of money out of this. And we might think they are so smart, they are awake, believe me they have their struggles and contradictions. Believe in you, go on your own journey, make your own conclusions, decide how you see life and if you see it differently know that it is ok.
Your comment is better than the actual conversation 🙏
I couldn’t agree more. We need to live life in our own terms and way.
100% ❤
Nice to see a woman on Impact Theory. Very scarce experience in general. That's not a critique to the program but just the reflection of the culture we are living in. You can agree or disagree with their viewpoints but it's good to have these topics being discussed. Great!!!
Have you watched Women Of Impact?
@@andresoropeza90 but that is all about relationships and finding out "what men want" -- very little on self growth and mastering your mind and body.
Andres already mentioned it , but Women of Impact is a whole Universe to itself.....and it’s a piece of the IMPACT THEORY world.
Yes there are fewer women on This channel, but it would be more unusual to find Men on the Women of Impact channel.
Be blessed 👍🏼💪🏼☺️
Leslie Simpkins....that’s just flat out incorrect.
@@lesliesimkin831 ummm women of impact is definitely NOT just about relationships and “finding what men want” That is definitely not what Lisa Bilyeu is about. They have amazing, inspiring women entrepreneurs interviewed by Lisa who is just as amazing as her husband
I'm in love with this woman! Finally someone that has eyes wide open and sees the world as it is! So humbling listening to her. And not to mention she is gorgeous!
Such an extraordinary and amazing woman. Love the message she is talking about, the female world should know about this woman💞
Agree with her 100%. Have travelled to many countries for 35 continuious years, there is no country I have seen where this massive issue does not exist. Tom love your channel...
Beautiful, insightful and incredibly wise words. If humanity thought and held beliefs like Dr Shifali, then the world would be such a beautiful, peaceful and far less toxic place. Great stuff!
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What a wise woman she is, Dr.Shefali! She is also explaining it perfectly and patiently for a male. Impressive!
I love your kindness, graciousness and empathy for each guest you show. That's a true gift that i hope to continue to improve and cultivate, tom.
I’m violently disturbed about the fact that this episode could have attracted million viewers instead of 108 thousand considering how uplifting and liberating the content is. Thanks Dr Shefali for your wisdom
Tom, what a gift you gave us through this great conversation with Dr. Shefali!!!! Thanks🙏
To say that there are no systemic barriers to freedom for ALL is telling of the advantage that one had because of it.
Privilege is invisible to those that have it
What an amazing women! I am so fascinated by her and this conversation, I cant wait to read her book. As a muslim women this conversation was so eye opening and unique i couldn't help with completely agree with her.
I love you Dr. Shefali! A mom of four, out of a very toxic marriage, you have literally saved my life! Forever grateful 🙏❤
Dr. Shefali has an amazing way of explaining and her book is very helpful. Love her mind and her ability to spread the change that so needed!
She is Shefali 😊
GD, this talk just blew my mind. Fascinating interview Tom. Dr Shefali is an incredibly brilliant human being. 🙏🏼
I'd love to see a conversation between Dr. Shafali and Dr. Peterson. Great interview.
Yes, that would be fascinating
Yes! That would be great.
Me too
Jordan P would dismantle all of her fragile points
The glaring hole in this entire thesis about the "oppressive" nature of existing culture, systems and/or patriarchy is the absence of an honest explanation of why restrictions may exist for certain types of behaviour.
Codes, moral codes agreed upon by the greater society in order for a society to coexist in order to build civilization.
These codes are created from the observation of behaviours deemed to be destructive or constructive to a society. It is where laws come from.
For instance, monogamy is largely accepted as a beneficial attribute in a marriage. Why? Because if it is absent one is likely to subject oneself to a feeling of betrayal, exposure to potential disease and a rather flimsy sense of cohesion with something very important and beneficial to society....
Family.
Our societies are far from perfect, however, there are distinct reasons why particular bits of knowledge are passed down from parent to child.
Lessons learned.
Marriage was created to secure financial future for kids and women (when she is not able to work ex she has a newborn). Now, we have alimony and DNA test, whereas before that, how would you prove who's child is it..
In addition violent act towards women are progresslive banish by culture and laws (created by society - humanking - man and women). Our biology is something that have to be control by culture - example unwanted sexual acts. Therefore I 100% agree with your comment.
It does not make sense that you take examples as monogamy or talk about a codex that exists for the entire world. It does not. The only tune that all societies play is subjugation in one form or another of women.
Yes there is a huge and willfully blind hole in her thesis. She abstracts out an evil or alien drive in our culture and then denies that it can be based on biological forces. As if the “good” biological function would push us more towards equality. Taking to its extreme, man in its most basic or uncivilized form would move towards (not away) from equality- I can’t imagine this to be the case in primitive cultures. Simply put, she posits the bad part of our culture as alien to humanity and patriarchal and the good part of our culture as biological and more egalitarian. I would posit all parts of our culture good and bad are based on our biology as the human animal.
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Hey Tom. Great talk. I would love to see a discussion with Dr. Warren Farrel, who wrote about The Boy Crisis in which he adresses the problems for men throughout our industrial revolution. Yes, women have been subjected to all kinds of unjustified patriarchal restraints, but men have (and are) suffering from having to be self sacrificial and being disposable human beings.
Feminists won't talk about that
I’m a feminist and I want to talk about that… men are victims of this society too.
Awesome interview. Glad you brought her back to the show. Everything she speaks about resonates within me and I love the dynamic Tom brings to the conversation.
*Most people sit around and wait for inspiration, just some rare people get up and get to work.*
*I may not know you personally, but I believe in you that you will succeed!* 🙏
I love when she said, “just because we can, doesn’t mean we should”
i cant believe I've just experienced the Title literally 44:08 enlightened me. I'm Unclogged!🤯
Dr Shefali does not follow what people think, she should say. Dr Shefali deconstructs with honesty, authenticity. THis is why she is needed in our world... thank you Dr Shefali thank you
Dear Tom,
I would like to thank you and your team very much for the meaningful content. Your work ethic is a great way to show us that sky is the limit
Dr Shefali is my latest and most exciting mentor yet. Excited to hear this. 🙌🏾
IMO all any of us can do is love and have empathy for one another. As the doctor said we are culture on a micro and macro level. How we interact with others is exponential. Good or bad.
I’m so glad he had Dr. Shafali on this show love her books and how she explains the teachings !
I don’t think that tom was expecting his own reaction to a lot of these points and maybe it was a huge eye-opener if he’s self-aware about the patriarchy and how real it is in todays day.
Just because he didn’t grow up with that experience doesn’t mean it’s not real.
Much love and awesome interview !
Powerful! Feel that conscious is expressing itself in all areas of life, and these fields are all so new for us to navigate that these collective thoughts and experiences shared by humans at the cusp of consciousness who found their voice is the way we will create the light that guides us towards a greater awakening. So thank you for your voices. Much love 💙🌴🌊
Thank you Tom and Shefali 🙏 I am grateful ❤✌😁
I 💯 % agree with Dr Shefali! I’ve felt this way and had questioned myself till now, when I heard all about it, makes more sense and now i can see my confusion in life up till this point. Thank you for this great episode! 💕 sharing this with everyone ✅
Dr. Shefali‘s work is extraordinarily gifted. Amazing and insightful interview❤️
Dr. Shafali was on 🔥 and made very validated points the whole way through. I really enjoyed this podcast, thanks for this Tom, blessings and light to you both 💕🙏
I'm a 69 year old girl and I've connected completely with Dr. Shefali. My humble thanks to her mind and books
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I absolutely love her. Such a sage. So wise! His ego is being exposed in this.
I used to work in partisan politics and I can assure you culture is not unconscious. There is very real money, real time, energy and there are very real people working hard to create cultural movements - sometimes via co-opting or creating a celebrity, sometimes via all eyes on one big story or crime or tragedy of the moments, or via a new trend - to plant and spread specific ideas that they believe will lead to a specific response, and there always has been this type of work going on to varying degrees of success.
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Thankyou Tom for being so open minded and sharp some great conversations
Woow, so impactful! I absolutely love this interview! Highly enterteining and a lot of wisdom in here! Thanks!
Love getting out of the banal day to day thinking we / I was/were programmed with! Thank you Tom!
So many men in the comments not wanting to agree with the guest, which is not surprising. Calling her crazy and trying to argue back, displaying exactly what she is trying to explain. Take a good hard look at yourself, self reflect on why you feel the way you do, why you are the way you are. Until you really do that, you won't understand how we have been brainwashed since birth and you'll never understand who you are.
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I'm so happy and proud to see this answer coming from a man
Love this woman and everything she stands for! flipping amazing!!!
I love Ms Shefali’s content and her calm and beautiful persona
Being self aware is so important. Notice what you are noticing and then you can change it if needed. Great interview!! Just loving it. ❤️💪
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What an amazing interview!! Loved it.
I lost a little respect for Tom. Not only is he clueless about implications of patriarchy he is so adamant and attached to his perspective, that he failed to learn from her. The fact you feel encouraged to continue to echo your reasoning over hers shows you live in the very patriarchy culture she is talking about. Your meant to interview your guest, get their insights; not keep arguing it. Thank you Doc for being so graceful and intelligent 🙏🏽
Yeah this was the first time I’ve seen Tom be so resistant to what someone on his show was saying. It was icky to watch. He’s already got his set views on this subject and so was resistant to learning; really at odds with seeing how open he is in other interviews when he’s there with the mindset of ‘I’ve got something to learn’.
Just a learning for both. She talks about the facts. Tom was asking what was in his mind. We take what we want to take away. Good to expose to different views. Amazing interview 👏👏👏
She's full of crap. Good for Tom for standing up against it.
@@spk2008 enlighten us all....what specifically was, as you put it , crap....your wisdom should be publicly demonstrated. and please, show us your understanding of this by giving examples more than just a broad statement like, "all of it"....come on now, it's your chance to prove how smart YOU are. 😮
@PaulRediscovered She seems to be promoting marxian ideas that have been thoroughly debunked, like the idea of awakening to some kind of "true" consciousness while being vague and speaking in meaningless platitudes.
Thanks for this post.
Good thoughts and reflections ...
What an amazing woman. Thank you for speaking so clearly. And I say to Tom you can know what you don’t know until your mind is opened to a new level
I am fascinated by Dr. Shefali ‘s talk and can’t wait to read her books. Thanks for this interview!
I think the explanation of patriarchy could use some simplification, as I really appreciate Tom’s legit confusion on what is “patriarchy.” I think it’s easiest to point out that patriarchy is simply a rule of law that was established solely by men & ergo by a viewpoint that is void of a feminine perspective.
When women were granted “full citizenship” i.e. full personhood, it’s not like the rule of law was rewritten with a representation of the feminine perspective.
Absolutely amazing
This is dope. Also love seeing people not agreeing but staying grown up about it. Great video, Tom! #anotherone
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Love this conversation!!!
I'm 17 minutes in, I agree with everything she say about human nature. How destructive we can be, our primal nature controlling our psychology and our behaviors and how we should pursue awareness and improving our consciousness. .. but lol idk about using Mars as an example for "just because we can doesn't mean we should". We are finite beings and as far as we know, this is the only place in the entire universe where consciousness exists. We need to preserve and expand that as far as we can. It's not a need for dominance , but rather a need for understanding. Also self preservation like she said, but just preservation of humanity in general.
Great interview, I agree with another comment that it would have been nicer to hear more from Dr Shefali than Tom but it is also good to see him question something he doesn't agree/understand. With that to and fro, I believe that maybe its his ego popping up and disagreeing that its 'man' that has created patriarchy and has oppressed women and girls and has created this systemic problem. However Dr Shefali did specify that its not any one man's fault just as racism isn't any one white person's fault, but a cultural issue that has resulted because men happened to be at the top of the food chain at beginning of modern civilization because they're bigger/stronger/better.
Perhaps this topic is more feminine inclined for him for all its meant to be for anyone who wants to awaken themselves? Jay Shetty's interview with Dr Shefali explains the man's and woman's role in shaping the culture more in depth how it may have been man that started it but actually its women that now continue to do it themselves, food for thought for sure.
His "not understanding" the patriarchy is laziness--he is choosing NOT to explore it
Your guys are all amazing for what you do
Thank you Dr. Shefali on articulating the power of the patriarchy.
For real with the mansplaining moment... GREAT thoughts from Dr Shefali though and she handled it tactfully.
“Indigenous wisdom will bring us back home.”
When colonization came through, it ruined our food systems… and so many things. I’d like to see more indigenous peoples on the show talking about reclaiming ✊🏾 culture, values… etc
Awesome Interview👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
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my god this is whole another level of talks . this is very hard if you want to spread in humans right now , but i will 1st change myself in this and then try to make change in the world.
This opened up some interesting and uncomfortable perspectives- and I’m thankful for that! It’s good to feel the wheels turning in our brains.
🤘😜 Thanks for the conversation you two! It gives us a lot to think about. Time to so some self-homework! *scribbles away in a sketchbook*
Enjoyed the video very much, novel yet sensible information.
Despised the timing of the sponsored ad.
Amazing Interview! Also, imho, this is not only relevant for women as I am male and my (divorced) mother tried to raise me to be a "good girl" / "good boy" too (maybe because it was all she knew, so I cannot really blame, it's the system). Anyway, that led to the same results: me letting others push me around, abuse me mentally and not protecting my boundaries.
Always trying to please others (especially mother's emotional needs), in return becoming so disconnected with my own nature & true self and already having suicidal thoughts at the age of 12.
So, without wanting to take any weight from what Dr. Shefali says about the system influencing girls/women, to me it seems like a general problem in society, influencing everyone, no matter which gender you have (possibly influencing females more directly and males more indirectly, e.g. through upbringing by a mother who fell for the system).
Need to say though that a lot of people use these external factors, that certainly can vary from one to another in different countries over the world, as excuses (exactly what Dr. Shefali says herself you shouldn't rely on; external factors to fulfill your needs. In this case the need to have someone/something external to blame instead of looking within). So, when she talks about patriarchy, it feels like she is telling to exactly look for what she previously says not to do..and that is victimizing yourself, feels kinda contradictive.
We are not responsible for our upbringing, but for what we do with what we have, so where is the practicality in blaming external factors on the road of taking care of your true self?!
People, we need to stand up for ourselves, our own values & opinions and protect our boundaries!
How else could we possibly get along with each other?
Always trying to please and in the back of our mind constantly thinking about what we will get in return (e.g. emotional needs being met, being loved, etc.)?
Playing an act of kindness constantly with the secret hope of our needs being fulfilled (although, through that act, we'd never say what we really think and stand for, therefore not even communicating our needs/wants/boundaries so people wouldn't even know them)?
Feeling the need to be angry at others, because they don't fulfill our needs although we "give our everything" to them?
Having a kind of balance scale in our mind where we put our actions on one side, their actions on the other side and want to create balance? Isn't that kind of trying to manipulate others to do what you want them to and especially self-manipulative too (through the delusion that the scale needs to be balanced)?
Shouldn't we want others to have their freedom (not expecting them to meet our needs) and want to have our freedom ourselves?
So, we'd respect ourselves, just help others and be kind if we truly can and want to, by own choice & voluntarily and therefore never feel the need to expect anything in return, which leads to us being able to truly appreciate and be grateful if someone acts with kindness towards us (as it's all free choice) and this, in turn, potentially leading to improved relationships in general.
Again, just my opinion, this topic concerns every human being who was raised/conditioned to be "good", always giving and trying to please others without taking ownership of and care for their own true self, needs, goals & boundaries. Maybe it really feels worse for females (I am not in that skin), but I personally, wouldn't even differentiate that much on this topic.
Still, awesome Interview, Dr. Shefali rocks!!
@Tom Bilyeu, in case you read this: Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the content you put out! To me, it is immeasurably valuable and I'd bet to a sh!t ton of other people too ❤ Really appreciate the effort you put in, you're amazing man!
EDIT: Don't want to tell anyone what to do, that "People, we need to[...]" part is more of a self-preach 😂
There’s something about this that feels contradictory…
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Consciousness awareness 10:06.
The human mind has great potential for creativity and destruction 10:41.
At the end of the day, self-acceptance is your greatest sword. That's what's going to make you the most desirable to yourself and others 24:07.
Now more than ever do we need this man and his videos. Thank you sir and and you guests.
Thank you Dr Shefali!
Unfortunately, ageism is real. I remember never thinking I would have to worry about it, but at 57, I feel the difference in how I am treated in the workplace, and if I decide to pursue any other professional opportunities, I am concerned I would not stand a chance against a 20-something fresh-faced competitor. I am actively researching cosmetic surgery right now. I feel I have no choice if I am to survive in the workspace. This is very interesting. I agree and feel the culture is twisted not just regarding how a woman looks, but everything mentioned, including accepting cruelty to animals, cruelty to each other, and really odd values that make us insatiable consumers.
There should be more companies that honor wisdom and experience over the impulsive energy of a 20 year old.
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Best show ever!!
I really enjoyed listening to this interview with Dr Shefali ! Whilst I don’t agree that people are animals as a believer in God, Dr Shefali shared so many great insights which were further explored in helpful ways through her responses to Tim Bilyeu’s questions. I agree that there is systemic toxic patriarchy within society, & sadly men in leadership have misused their roles to oppress women & even more sadly many in women themselves have supported this oppression in various ways. I’m looking forward to listening to Dr Shefali’s book on ‘A Radical Awakening’ on Audible, to learn more from her insights & thoughts as the book definitely has a lot to offer even if I won’t agree with all of the views within it.
Self-love is self-worth. When you love yourself you find your authentic nature. Then for the first time in your life, you will be comfortable in your skin, knowing that you are perfect in the way you are at your core.
It is amazing 😍😍😍 I love it soooo much. How weird it is to see it from outside the beauty paradigm...!
Just bought the audiobook💪🏼
I am a fan of your UA-cam Channel Tom
We women live, experience life exactly the same way Dr.Shefali talks about Tom
It's more about our own invisible, mental conditioning which we women ourselves are unaware of - for a very long time - until we grow a little older
or when our children grow up and somehow our daughters too need to continue the same way as we did - once they enter family life
Even if they are professionals on their own with economical independence
The difference between men & women in life begins right when we women become mothers to young babies - who need 24/7 care for a really long time
My very religious upbringing fits into this theory absolutely. And I've seen it with so many religious women, not as much secular women.
Bravo!
Yees, yess and yess! I am also on a journey of finding my own voice, one year down lifetime to go. Thank you 💙
I love this woman 🙏🏽
AWESOME!!! you don't know what you don't know..... she is sooo correct.
I know a woman who was born in the 1920s. As we were watching a female CEO, she declared, "Oh, what does a woman know about business."
Nobel winner Jennifer Douda was told by her high school guidance counselor that women do not do science.
We are all mad here. We call these cultural implants the patriarchy, from the latin pater meaning father, but it is one bar of the prison of culture.
Amazing dr.shefali..
Dr Shefali is simply captivating
Dr. Shefali is amazing and I loved this show. However, I would have liked to hear more from Dr. Shefali and less mansplaining from Tom.
Yes!
What you refer to mans planning from Tom it's called ego to be more precise.
Exactly. Most men think that they have come so far with misogyny but there is so much subtle sexism and mansplaining is one facet. Also, just being left out of conversation and if you jump in with legitimate knowledge a lot of men will let you know they don't really want your input. I could blather on but women know what I'm talking about.
Lack of community is the true cause of mental illness, this comes from ( me) a Food and Health Educator, meaning the food we eat contributes to mental illness but lack of true connection ( community,) is the biggest issue we are facing. If you go even deeper its our traumas in the past that keep us from coming together, mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Humility leads us to find our truth, a collective truth. We can only change consciousness in a better way by finding our authentic nature. Most of us are living unconsciously. The only way to grow is to change our consciousness.
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Hey this is a nice talk and all, I learned some new things and recognized a few topix that I already embody. Well to keep this short, no that'll take too long, I'll summer eyes.
I was in the army and I do believe it helped me be a better man. I learned how to mop floors and clean bathrooms to say the least. Your left side cargo pocket is for trash until you can get to a proper receptacle to dispose of it. The Army didn't teach me how to do laundry, Learnt that just like my peers but we all had our own way ironing & starching our GD-BDU's. I'll finish with saying not to look at a situation as a problem yet as a potential resolution opportunity. Now stand up straight and go take on the day.
I am all for people becoming less sheepish and I am well aware of the need to stand for real change that takes us back to a natural life. That is why I live off grid. However there are MEAN, GREEDY, POWERFUL, and POLITICAL PEOPLE behind all of this. That is what many people are not conscious of. Therein lies the problem being trapped between power and the overwhelming population of the unconscious human.
Exceptional conversation
Yes, im 48 and am sitting in a couch thinking where hv i lost myself. Wht hv i done to myself. I need many more awakening to shed all those garbages i hv gathered all along these yrs. Im done and exhausted, not in anywhere near waking up. I rather want to sleep forever. Oh!! This is too much. It dsnt make any difference if im not there on this earth. It is true there are plenty around me like me, down and dusted expecting an end to it.. Im concerned..
I want Dr. Shefali and Michael Singer to have a talk together.
Interesting interview, well done !
Dr. Shefali: you are enough
Tom: be legendary
Lol this made me giggle!!
Dang she is hitting with a whole bunch of wise quotes here "self acceptance is your greatest sword" and "beauty for utility vs a standard of beauty"
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