How to Heal From Abandonment Trauma

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  • @traceyomalley3797
    @traceyomalley3797 11 місяців тому +3

    Forgiveness is the way forward thankyou Todd you always have grwat messages..blessings Namaste 🙏🏻 💚

  • @oldogshudnobetter498
    @oldogshudnobetter498 11 місяців тому +16

    Once again, you hit so close to home. Your wisdom shines light on all willing to listen.

  • @paulbolton2322
    @paulbolton2322 11 місяців тому +8

    All betrayal trauma institutional, family, or friends is a cut to one's very soul.
    To forgive & recover & still help others with meaning makes sense. & I plan to make it happen 👍

  • @julietfenner7286
    @julietfenner7286 11 місяців тому +7

    The more and more I understood my parents lives in all their detail and pain, I understood why they were the way they were. It took me years to let go of my feelings of abandonment. I am so much happier as I understand the flawed human description of humans.
    I have experienced many close people's deaths and have found the differences that each death brings. As I continue to grow with compassion I find that the relationship I have had with a deceased close person continues to change and grow within me. So even in death there is learning to be had in the living.
    Thank you Todd for your power of communication and the love you show in sharing your truth.
    When one begins to grow there is no turning back. I am so pleased I pained enough to find a better way of understanding life and death which I am hurdling towards.🎉

    • @Janet-xw7du
      @Janet-xw7du 11 місяців тому

      Wow Juliet!! Your response to Todd’s video is as powerful as his video. Thank you!!❤‍🩹💖

  • @goodlife5D
    @goodlife5D 11 місяців тому +5

    I love the way you say "we"🎉😢

  • @jaygreen5041
    @jaygreen5041 5 місяців тому +4

    Just love listrning to any of your UA-cam podcasts. At 74 yrs am very content, certainly lived life to the fullest. At 35 yrs a girlfriend left copy of the Tao on the kitchen table whilst cleaning her apt and I made tea. I casually browsed it and have never looked back. Today so grateful to have that understanding when listening to you. Thank you❤

  • @natureisallpowerful
    @natureisallpowerful 11 місяців тому +4

    Forgiveness is the key.

  • @annekathleen4498
    @annekathleen4498 11 місяців тому +5

    I was abandoned by my father when I was six. He dumped me with his neighbours and I lived next door to him for 2 1/2 years until he moved half a mile away.

  • @susanwood829
    @susanwood829 11 місяців тому +7

    Thank you Todd Like an answer to prayer or even some kind of divine synchronicity - your video came up when I most needed it and imagine for countless others too. Your words are beautiful and a great comfort x

  • @derrickmcwaid8217
    @derrickmcwaid8217 10 місяців тому +2

    I really enjoyed this video. This was my situation a year ago after my separation. You can find strength in yourself. Even if it seems dark. The light will shine again. ❤ Thanks Todd.

  • @melissatoni8633
    @melissatoni8633 11 місяців тому +4

    “There is an infinite wellspring of strength within each and every one of us.” ❤
    Beautifully said, and as a personal practice, I find it important to always stay connected and tapped into this strength.

  • @flyingrhinofilms
    @flyingrhinofilms 11 місяців тому +4

    This struck so many chords....lovely 🙏

  • @noracoyle4988
    @noracoyle4988 Місяць тому +1

    Im a catholic christian and after much suffering in life the suffering mainly of deep lonliness i turned to the scriptures, finding that Jesus is with me at all times was a great sourse of consolation, reading psalm 139 highlights how special and loved we ALL truely are.

  • @melissatoni8633
    @melissatoni8633 11 місяців тому +4

    This is beautiful work. Your genuine heart and wisdom always shines through.
    End of life realizations always help me out with this kind of big stuff, with both letting go AND pulling those meaningful people in. I wonder if anyone else has these. Tonight, I had one about my boyfriend-a mental vision of him old saying how he always knew I loved him even though I put him on the back burner. That end of life realization helped me balance back what’s most important, opening my heart a bit more toward him and the present moment.
    Great points with:
    1) The importance and serious care of abusive-tie let-goes
    2) The importance and LOVE in allowing yourself and others the time to recharge/self-care
    3) Understanding and opening within, to let go of fear, and in fact welcome (rather than resist) these natural flows

  • @evieraine7135
    @evieraine7135 9 місяців тому +2

    This spoke to me in ways I can not speak .I fell into a big dark whole over Xmas in complete despair in humanity . The selfishness and the self centeredness i was witnessing . Bout I reflected on my own states over the years. Now after years on the spiritual path I know i need to deepen my compassion even more. May every being have peace love and happiness including myself . I have been so abandoned in life but I can still love and forgive. Thank you from my heart for this video that i am watching on my retreat with my dog from the world

  • @marypaulosky2214
    @marypaulosky2214 11 місяців тому +2

    So beautiful and timely. We warriors of love continue to evolve toward our mission of healing the world. Todd - your voice calms and centers me. You're one of my favorite teachers.

  • @Celticnik
    @Celticnik 16 днів тому

    You express yourself with so much eloquence and compassion. I'm so glad I bumped into you today, kind stranger. I look forward to your upcoming words of wisdom. Peace.

  • @Mamabear7388
    @Mamabear7388 Місяць тому

    You are speaking to me , on behalf of me and I hear and see things differently now.

  • @sidoughty428
    @sidoughty428 11 місяців тому +1

    Much Love to you also. And Peace Love and thanks for your kind words and encouragement.

  • @noracoyle4988
    @noracoyle4988 Місяць тому

    I suffered a nervous breakdown i 2005, hospitalized, the works...all my family abandoned me i ws left blowing in the wind. It was a frightening time, it took me a long time to get well as i had no spouse or close friends either.
    I was shocked to core as to what my family did but i fid forgive them and life goes on.

  • @bobreemsnyder5540
    @bobreemsnyder5540 11 місяців тому +2

    Amen ! Thanks

  • @jia-yuyang5721
    @jia-yuyang5721 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for the message❤️ Really needed to hear those, especially today🙏🏼

  • @janhvibreath
    @janhvibreath 11 місяців тому +2

    Needed this

  • @SeattleGirlMakesGood
    @SeattleGirlMakesGood 10 місяців тому

    Breaking these cycles by beginning the honest healing within ourselves. I especially love this talk. It's more like prayer, a mantra.
    It's a wonderful idea for this New Year. Thank-you ❤

  • @lisalarson8889
    @lisalarson8889 9 місяців тому +1

    That was so beautiful . I love starting my day listening to a video of yours. This really spoke to me and i’m Grateful I came upon it . Thank~you for sharing your enlightenment 🌅

  • @lyncorrin
    @lyncorrin 11 місяців тому +1

    beautiful and so much needed love your work, thank you, thankyou, thankyou ❤❤❤

  • @Janet-xw7du
    @Janet-xw7du 11 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful!! Your words so benefited me today. I so resonated with EVERYTHING you said. Thank you

  • @lisettemarie6717
    @lisettemarie6717 5 місяців тому

    I really am happy &grateful that I have found you. So grateful... my first comment ever... couldn't find the location bf . So glad that I did bc you deserve to be reminded of how much your words can transform people. Thank you! ❤

  • @bonnieclark8069
    @bonnieclark8069 21 день тому

    Synchronicity....You are riding a wave, for me you hit Home.

  • @LinziBowman-j5m
    @LinziBowman-j5m 7 місяців тому

    So glad I found you on you tube Todd you have been a gt comfort to me ,as my partner bwants to end our relationship and its breaking my heart
    Sometimes I feel strong but mostly not
    Anyway I fly out next week so that will be the last time I see him I will keep watching and listening and try and move on
    Thank you Todd everything you say makes sense ❤

  • @katrinawilson935
    @katrinawilson935 11 місяців тому +1

    Really needed to hear this today. Thank you❤

  • @mariaapisa1993
    @mariaapisa1993 11 місяців тому +2

    When we loose someone and is still alive - is like a Death...maybe , even worse because is done by choice.

  • @katiepougher734
    @katiepougher734 11 місяців тому

    Another inspiring video showing understanding of abandonment from all angles..thank.u

  • @shelleybeckett1319
    @shelleybeckett1319 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this.

  • @Aquachick65
    @Aquachick65 11 місяців тому

    A timely message. Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @paulasalladay2722
    @paulasalladay2722 11 місяців тому

    What I needed at this time. Thanks for all your insights.

  • @sabinamock4799
    @sabinamock4799 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for your wisest words.

  • @LindaHelder
    @LindaHelder 6 місяців тому

    Much love to you too ❤

  • @lauraflint18
    @lauraflint18 5 місяців тому

    Thank you.

  • @maggilove4931
    @maggilove4931 3 місяці тому

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @BATgirl57
    @BATgirl57 11 місяців тому

    I loved this video so much! Where is this beautiful place? Thank you Todd🙏 Much love to you❤️

  • @faridabedrabbo1544
    @faridabedrabbo1544 11 місяців тому +2

    Hello from Perú

  • @tarawilliams2484
    @tarawilliams2484 10 місяців тому

    Truth

  • @noellefinn8255
    @noellefinn8255 11 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @JoSpring
    @JoSpring 11 місяців тому +3

    Have I told you I love you lately?

  • @jitskewadman5825
    @jitskewadman5825 9 місяців тому

  • @Sage555n
    @Sage555n 11 місяців тому +2

    The message was excellent today. However; I find that the rolling photographs uploaded here of an eastern country where you probably visited and lived albeit temporarily, is a huge distraction because you live in New York!
    WHY you choose NOT to showcase your true home environment is still a mystery. You would benefit by showing your REAL-TRUE home environment instead of images from your past. Please consider it.

    • @ettecram
      @ettecram 11 місяців тому

      What is wrong and distracting by seeing beautiful views? Would the site of a mass of buildings, traffic, people etc etc be more conducive to absorbing Todd s wisdom? Peace to you ❤

  • @khelloufikamillia
    @khelloufikamillia 8 днів тому

    who is talking

  • @ElisPalmer
    @ElisPalmer 8 місяців тому

    🌟🩵🌟

  • @Sage555n
    @Sage555n 11 місяців тому +3

    Todd, would you consider revealing your own personal life experiences related to abandonment trauma instead of speaking in generalities about it? Everything is a 'teachable moment' and YOUR personal life experince story... would be a benefit
    to those that need to hear it.
    General philosophic principles have their place, but not like the REAL story!

  • @KikiGmz
    @KikiGmz 6 місяців тому +1

    Jesus is King 👑 17:13

  • @sharon-py7os
    @sharon-py7os 2 місяці тому

  • @khelloufikamillia
    @khelloufikamillia 8 днів тому

    who is talking

  • @khelloufikamillia
    @khelloufikamillia 8 днів тому

    who is talking