Madmans Musings: Bullying and how to deal with bullies!

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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @ducky6623
    @ducky6623 4 роки тому +83

    For anyone looking to get thick skin, if you're in high school or whatever I recommend going into wrestling, or jiu jutsu or something like that, it really does build your mental toughness

    • @hathlete4ever916
      @hathlete4ever916 4 роки тому +7

      Being on the high school wrestling team for 4 years most definitely changed my life for the good, great, and best of my life and has had the most positive of impacts on my life since along with everything else I do.

    • @tractsfn2458
      @tractsfn2458 2 роки тому

      And your physical toughness as well

    • @jerryreed1359
      @jerryreed1359 2 роки тому

      Ive done wrestling since 3rd grade and have worked out since 4th didnt start going hard on the weights till 7th grade im a beast not to be cocky i do track as well

    • @jerryreed1359
      @jerryreed1359 2 роки тому

      i am in 9th grade now

  • @ericpichardo7389
    @ericpichardo7389 4 роки тому +32

    Madman, I'm proud that you're bringing this topic up. I was the only Latin greaser in a school where most kids liked hip hop or pop, and the fact that I was a good student made me the target of bullies, to jocks or thugs pushing me around or messing up my hair because it made them laugh. BUT it only made me proud to be an old soul and a greaser. It also made me take MMA. I'm still in the Rockabilly scene as well as a certified Mixed Martial Artist. Keep rockin' Mad Man #krypticart

  • @andrewhunt9789
    @andrewhunt9789 4 роки тому +3

    Hey Madman, been watching you for about a year, and everyday, I always find myself coming to your content. As a content creator, you are a very good one cat, and I mean it. You've come a long ways and I love to see that you have matured in the quality of your content and your overall attitude of dishing out these types of videos to help with our own good. And not only that, but they are always POSITIVE, which is something we need right now in this world. Keep on truckin, and screw the haters man. Lots of love, from SoCal -Andrew

  • @opticalraven1935
    @opticalraven1935 2 роки тому

    People have as much power as you allow them. Once you realize that sticks, stones, and words can't harm you, you're unstoppable and have true power.

  • @caleb1rshelton
    @caleb1rshelton 3 роки тому +1

    incredible wisdom, madman. I had to learn all these things through experience in middle school, but that balance you referenced is key.

  • @trevorkapousis9871
    @trevorkapousis9871 4 роки тому +1

    YESSSS

  • @Peter-yk2hh
    @Peter-yk2hh 5 місяців тому

    When bullied strike back eventuellt If u kose you won

  • @cadenherner1235
    @cadenherner1235 4 роки тому +2

    Wassup madman🤟🤟

  • @torobravo6147
    @torobravo6147 4 роки тому

    208 likes and 1 dislike!

  • @enriquegarza3127
    @enriquegarza3127 4 роки тому +22

    Be smart, be tough, don't start anything but be willing to finish it.

  • @thewanderer15
    @thewanderer15 4 роки тому +36

    Simple answer: Out smart em or Knock em senseless. Either way knock em down a peg, but most importantly. As Johnny Cash taught us in the song "I won't back down". You gotta stand your ground and don't back down.

  • @detectivepenquin9491
    @detectivepenquin9491 4 роки тому +40

    That picture of Macaulay Culkin in the thumb nail is a good representation of everyones face when Madman uploads a video, the face of excitement

  • @MobileDecay
    @MobileDecay 3 роки тому +13

    I used to get bullied. Until I fought back. I was totally confused when the bully was crying with a busted lip because I didn't think I could fight. Don't be afraid to hit back. They're gonna hit you either way. People pick on people they think won't fight back. When you fight back the bullying stops.

    • @AceSpadeMotivation
      @AceSpadeMotivation 7 місяців тому

      I did that once and lost the two fights I got in, but the first time the other guy cheated and got loads of his friends to gang up on me and he chickened out. The second time I hit him but he hit me in the head so I got hit harder and it sucked.

  • @judasxdisciple8506
    @judasxdisciple8506 4 роки тому +28

    Alright now where here for a treat

  • @mikewhicker9771
    @mikewhicker9771 4 роки тому +16

    I am a lover of books...so I was a natural target for low life bully types. Most of 'em were physical, I could outsmart 'em or just ignore 'em, they got bored eventually. I only ever had to throw a punch at one bully.. wasn't mine, it was a punk who thought it was fun to push a girl I was crazy about into a holly bush. I had watched way too much Marlon brando.
    The emotional/ mental bully I had to tolerate was this other punk, I had a hair trigger temper in my teens. How I kept my mates I don't know. This punk frequently pushed my buttons in maths and English, right under the teacher's noses to the point where I would snap, scream at the teachers and storm out. They were powerless, his mama had money, mine didn't, he could hide behind "behavioral issues!" Guy was a grade a asshole and my one regret is misdirecting
    my anger at the teachers.
    These days, someone tries to upset me, I just laugh it off, I got my greasing, I got my mates, my crew, I don't need them bringing me down!

    • @greasythegreaser1825
      @greasythegreaser1825 4 роки тому

      My man we all got story's and that was a good one and as a fellow book lover it's better to have more knowledge then less no matter what it is

  • @dyringatory1096
    @dyringatory1096 4 роки тому +10

    glad to see the bully cover art on the thumbnail lol

  • @OraSmokey
    @OraSmokey 4 роки тому +6

    I wanna make a Greaser club but non gang related just a squad of boys chilling , hanging with girls , driving fast cars , listening to music

    • @notbakt
      @notbakt 4 роки тому +4

      That would be some dope stuff man. I'm not into the stuff with carrying knives or other weapons, but it'd be so cool to have a group of friends who loves Rock'n'Roll and the "Greaser-style". Just hop in that old Chevrolet with the pals 'n gals rocking the streets out on a hot summer day, wearing those big black leather jackets and boots. Y'know what I mean? People nowadays are so fixated on others opinions on them when instead, they could just be out having a good time, ignoring norms and expectations of others. Sadly, there are barely any of those where I live.

  • @oc.greaser1462
    @oc.greaser1462 4 роки тому +11

    A man I recently got back into being a greaser and it's cool to see someone like you making videos for people who want to get into it. Congrats G keep up the good work

  • @captainmoist590
    @captainmoist590 4 роки тому +5

    This is 100x better than any bs anti bullying film ive been shown in school

  • @perhognehivaag6831
    @perhognehivaag6831 4 роки тому +6

    Nice video madman. I was bullyed for years at middleshcool in Norway. The bullys used the fact that i dressed other and was other than the rest and the fact that i dint have any friends against me. Both fyssical and mental. I had conversations with teacher and wath not but nothing helped, it just went on and on. Nothing changed before i started in highshool and found out who i am and started standig up for my selves, just as you said in the video. I think the fact that you need to stand up, and dont just take over you all the crap they are giving you, making you a victim is really important. And i learned that eventually. Thanks for spreadig this importan topic on the internet! It is realy important! Lets take down these bullies!
    -Per.

  • @lonkboi7936
    @lonkboi7936 2 роки тому +1

    So there was this one kid who bullied me and so one time I was tired of his crap so I snapped back “well at least I ain’t the damn bastard born out of wedlock” he stopped after that

  • @connormackay1045
    @connormackay1045 4 роки тому +7

    Madman I’m a small guy, real short and skinny not super strong, any tips on how to feel more confident as a beginner greaser? Or how to be a little more intimidating as a short guy? Sometimes it’s just tricky to feel tough and badass

    • @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394
      @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394 4 роки тому +2

      You could always sort out the skinny part and start lifting, although there isn't really any way that I know of how to get taller

    • @hartz828
      @hartz828 2 роки тому

      @furvine the real tommy is 6"2 or something

  • @veganvintagegeek935
    @veganvintagegeek935 4 роки тому +2

    I was being slowly bullied at work for not wearing a face rag. And no one else outside of work has bugged me about not wearing a face rag, I wear a face shield. When my job was closed to the public wearing my face sheild was no big deal. Once my job opened for the public, the work guidelines said a face cloth needs to be worn if you can't be within 6 ft of someone, I have a costumer service job.
    And I have allergies, the face rag bothers me, my throat gets raw, nose runs, and my voice goes horse.
    And I brought this to the manager's attention and she insisted I wear the face rag, even though I also pointed out it says in the work guidelines the face covering has to cover ones nose and mouth, my face shield does all that.
    And so I knew the only way to fight this and not make myself ill. I went and got a doctors note, I emailed it to the manager and the disabilities officer. And I knew if I only gave the manager my doctors note she'd totally trash it.
    And now thanks to my quick thinking, I no longer need to wear the face rag all day long. And I still wear the face shield the most.
    And I also took my bandana cut it in half so the face rag is not as thick.😄
    And I did my research on the rona and there is a still a 99.2% chance of getting it. Besides I should be freaking out since my younger sister died from the flu in March, and I'm not since I totally did my research.

  • @gentlemanbastardsinc.3167
    @gentlemanbastardsinc.3167 4 роки тому +2

    Could you do a video on Greaser facial hair styles?

  • @marcmazzella5575
    @marcmazzella5575 4 роки тому +4

    Don’t forget the internet bullies bro. Stay positive as always. You’re so greasy you glide when you walk lol.

  • @sterlingarcher1637
    @sterlingarcher1637 4 роки тому +3

    Every time I see you upload it makes my day just a lil bit better. You’re one cool cat, I hope to see more.

  • @twistedkatgaming3445
    @twistedkatgaming3445 4 роки тому +4

    First on this awesome video!

  • @grandswordsman92andswords59
    @grandswordsman92andswords59 3 роки тому

    Hey, to all, i belive we should kickstart greasrt culture once again in todays society, rebals against the bullcrap, start groups again, get together, live the days again, agree with me, comment and like, my friends.

  • @TheHandywayne
    @TheHandywayne Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, some very wonderful information on bullying.

  • @jamesluther3506
    @jamesluther3506 Рік тому

    Hey Madman, it’s 2023, how about some more videos?😊

  • @alans.wendelschafer6588
    @alans.wendelschafer6588 2 роки тому

    I know this is going to be a bit off topic.
    But does anyone else think the kid from the Bully video game looks a lot like Bobby Hill?

  • @TommijeanHagwood-nj2bx
    @TommijeanHagwood-nj2bx 10 днів тому

    This taught me so much thank you Madman❤

  • @boilingluigi1824
    @boilingluigi1824 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, subscribed.

  • @shadow_hillsgrandma8224
    @shadow_hillsgrandma8224 Рік тому

    I hope you continue to work with kids. You've got the knack!

  • @Skumbanan16
    @Skumbanan16 4 роки тому +1

    Wait bully thumbnail wow cool

  • @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394
    @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394 4 роки тому +38

    All truth about bullies aside, the game "bully" is pretty good (the one in the thumbnail) and has greasers in it, though they are mostly stereotypes (like most characters in the game)

    • @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394
      @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394 4 роки тому +4

      @@SlickJohnny yeah he was originally meant to be one of the bullies, one of his lines was "after I'm done with you Russel is gonna sit on you" which they changed to "after I'm done with you I'm gonna sit on you" just a random fact I remembered about Hal

    • @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394
      @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394 4 роки тому

      @@SlickJohnny really? I guess I'm corrected then

    • @meepmeep7308
      @meepmeep7308 4 роки тому +5

      Yeah, even though I was kinda always drawn to cars and mechanics, the greasers in Bully were the kickstarter to my starting out in being a greaser!

    • @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394
      @tetsumeaoepaidowha8394 4 роки тому

      @@meepmeep7308 same man

    • @claudespeed4730
      @claudespeed4730 2 роки тому

      @@SlickJohnny Mine is Johnny vincent "I wonder what's lola doing right now."

  • @ducky6623
    @ducky6623 4 роки тому +1

    Hey madman, my buddy just got dumped by his now ex girlfriend, and he's awful distraught by it, it would be cool if you uploaded a video on how to get over a breakup.

  • @princesssara2123
    @princesssara2123 4 роки тому +1

    What is your thought about the greasers in the game bully? Were they accurate depiction of your high school greasers?

  • @Dade_Hausler.
    @Dade_Hausler. 4 роки тому +1

    Well sir, my parents just say to stand up to bullies, don't start that fight, but I better get it finished. Stand up for friends or those who are right, be the better person even though I am not the most motivational.

  • @cucktimmber2411
    @cucktimmber2411 4 роки тому +1

    You should make a reddit

  • @puffyninjagaming4207
    @puffyninjagaming4207 4 роки тому +1

    Hey mad man you should do some workout videos for getting tougher

  • @zainbinno967
    @zainbinno967 4 роки тому +1

    That’s a nice goodfellas poster in the background. Quick question btw, do u think I’m funny?

  • @spidervenom5106
    @spidervenom5106 2 роки тому

    I could have used this back in high school.

  • @xrsuperduper7660
    @xrsuperduper7660 3 роки тому

    Madman for world president!

  • @brodyberry6253
    @brodyberry6253 Рік тому

    Man this was pure gold.

  • @elijahsimpson6878
    @elijahsimpson6878 4 роки тому +1

    Hey madman I'm new to the greaser community I understand life happens but u have kinda dissapeared. I've watched quite a bit of ur videos as of late and they really help me in my journey. I wish u were active during this time I'm sure alot of people need madman.... I need madman (no homo). Just saying cat hope all things are well and if u can could u pls come back.

  • @rock_n_roll_joker9392
    @rock_n_roll_joker9392 4 роки тому +2

    A good answer that always worked in my day was. "Keep giving me attention and you're gonna make me the most popular kid in school. Why dont I return the favour" then start naming their weaknesses. If they're short I.e. Ask them to "grow up the 1st years are gonna overtake you soon." That kind of thing. Use wit.

  • @convoyjack3310
    @convoyjack3310 2 роки тому

    how to combat it throw a desk or something at them

  • @MrRobotGuyHD
    @MrRobotGuyHD 3 роки тому +2

    I actually got more into the whole greaser style because of Rockstar’s: Bully

  • @GhostRider-hy9zt
    @GhostRider-hy9zt 4 роки тому +1

    I ain’t a greaser anymore but I just remembered your channel and still checking it out. Keep up the good work.

  • @baileymorgan4482
    @baileymorgan4482 4 роки тому +1

    Hey mad man I've been subscribe to your channel for a year and I was wondering can I be a greaser wall being in ROTC and it stands for reserve officer training corps for my high school and I have been wanting to be a greaser for a long time but I don't know if it would work and it's for the military so if anyone can tell me if it's all good thx and thx you mad man

    • @Emoboy381
      @Emoboy381 4 роки тому

      Back in the day alot of Military personnel were Rockers, Bikers, Hot Rodders, and Rock n Rollers. so I guess yeah. Just do you

  • @jimmyxvm6344
    @jimmyxvm6344 4 роки тому +1

    End them bulleys

  • @gradymcnace5317
    @gradymcnace5317 3 роки тому +1

    I'm a greaser going into the freshman year and older people can be tough can you give me tips to prepare

    • @raccoonjuice1913
      @raccoonjuice1913 3 роки тому

      Grady McNace
      Follow my channel i can cover that as well. I. Trying to help revive the YT greaser community. Along with Outlaw and some others

    • @gradymcnace5317
      @gradymcnace5317 3 роки тому

      Thanks man

  • @huignn8476
    @huignn8476 2 роки тому

    I agree with this video

  • @dohvahkene4473
    @dohvahkene4473 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Madman, I got a question for you. What is the best way to train your hair to grow? I know it's off topic to the video, but I'm just curious. Anyways, I love watching these videos. Have a good one.

    • @Joe.888
      @Joe.888 4 роки тому

      Keep brushing it into what shape your wanting , maybe try brush it back while its slightly damp and put a beanie or something on to keep it in place.

  • @johnpope3025
    @johnpope3025 4 роки тому +1

    Does a biker jacket have to be genuine leather for a greaser?

  • @slowestofbros8090
    @slowestofbros8090 3 роки тому +1

    “Let them know it! Let them see it!” That is the message I needed! Thank you Madman!

  • @powerband5235
    @powerband5235 2 роки тому

    Be cool dont be a fool

  • @ShivaShakti4488
    @ShivaShakti4488 4 роки тому +1

    You make great points, well put.

  • @bloodfarmer
    @bloodfarmer 4 роки тому +1

    How'd you feel when you had to kill the greasers in mafia 2 lol

  • @anthonyaverill1581
    @anthonyaverill1581 4 роки тому +1

    Great video madman

  • @Felipe-pl8rv
    @Felipe-pl8rv 4 роки тому +1

    Welcome back madman, i say from Brazil: "Hello pal"

  • @rosiedoo5775
    @rosiedoo5775 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Madman!glad you back !!!!

  • @idkidk6520
    @idkidk6520 4 роки тому +1

    I had deja vu when he talked about the types of fear. I feel like I've heard this somewhere

  • @Trigga0910
    @Trigga0910 4 роки тому +1

    Honestly great advice

  • @joshtaylor1993
    @joshtaylor1993 4 роки тому

    Advice for cats who just left school,?

  • @1234dhowell
    @1234dhowell 4 роки тому +4

    Hey madman how do you claim greaser turf

  • @albertobello8717
    @albertobello8717 4 роки тому +1

    Gorgeous as always 😍

  • @slingshotwarrrior8105
    @slingshotwarrrior8105 3 роки тому

    I was physically bullied in school, but there were times I got even got them scared of me so I understand also most emotional bullies I've encountered are women but that depends on the individual woman.

  • @raymondloya175
    @raymondloya175 4 роки тому

    Rocky perfect analogies
    Treat these guys like like baloons pop em hard thell go away.
    dont take no shizz!
    Stand up for yourself if there riding you clown them back if it comes to fisticuffs win or lose dont give up give them a hell of a fight.
    Even if the guys is whipping you
    Get back up! And fight back hard as you can like madman said it works
    You use violence to stop violence
    This will do two things
    1. You will earn there respect no matter what thell say this guy stood up for him self. Hes. Ok
    2.other people will say the dont mess with this guy hes crazy .

  • @cooper5588
    @cooper5588 4 роки тому +1

    Make more vids madman great job . Greaser from Kansas

    • @jasonparsons7653
      @jasonparsons7653 4 роки тому +1

      I'm sure he will he said on Instagram that he's been in and out of the hospital with heart problems the last few months. Even had to quit drinking and smoking. So once he's all good he'll probably be back.

  • @duoslinger4325
    @duoslinger4325 4 роки тому

    One of the best things to do is to properly outfox them. Make them look stupid. Make fun of them. When someone wants to start a fight, you look cool when you fight. You can't look cool when humiliated, as that's the point. It's wonderful. In short, use the head on your shoulders. Don't full on insult them... that won't work. Agree with them. If you agree, they can't continue, as they would deny themselves. The best insults look like compliments.

  • @finnstokes4443
    @finnstokes4443 4 роки тому

    Idk what to do I’m twelve and I want to start to become a greaser like slowly very slowly and my go to clothes are white shirt blue tight jeans chuck Taylor’s converse and a denim jacket but I live in the UK so it’s a bit different

  • @theraggarman152
    @theraggarman152 3 роки тому

    MadMan! im doing old school karate, this "bully" came up to me and showed murder drawings of me and tryed to kick me, too bad that i have a good karate teachert. I put his face in the dirt

  • @deanfacca1405
    @deanfacca1405 4 роки тому

    The way I beat the kid that made fun of me was going to the principal and saying “hey man if you don’t do something about this kid he’s gonna get hurt” The principal called his dad and his dad said “yeah I know he has a mouth. I got a one day suspension for threatening him though. The reason why I did though was because I kicked his ass the year before lol.

  • @aaroneller175
    @aaroneller175 4 роки тому

    Hey madman your videos have helped me fi d my place in the world i was bullied all my life until about the 8th&9th grade and then I found your channel and found a group where I felt I belonged... anyways your videos bosted my confidence and pushed me to take up boxing and I pushed myself to be the fuckin best I could and I finally put a stop to the bullying, I'm sure you can figure out how 😂 but anyways thank you so much madman

  • @ethanlexa1725
    @ethanlexa1725 3 роки тому

    Man, I've never had an issue with bullying, people are scared of me for being a "grease ball, knife toten hood" but this was a beautiful and very helpful video and I will be sharing it with many people who have problems. Keep it up Madman, we're appreciating everything you're bringing to the table.

  • @thevikingwanderer2675
    @thevikingwanderer2675 4 роки тому

    Im currently getting bullied at the workplace. I seem to never avoid bullies. I want a lucky strike now.

  • @squidzoid1416
    @squidzoid1416 4 роки тому

    Who would dislike this video, it’s probably the best turn madman has made for this channel

  • @elainaherrod270
    @elainaherrod270 4 роки тому

    Thanks for this. I could not agree more with all of what you said. Especially the part about food.

  • @Humble420ful
    @Humble420ful 4 роки тому

    Good to see you again madman I always look forward to chillin the fuck out to your vids 👌😎

  • @Joe.888
    @Joe.888 4 роки тому

    Got to know that you are giving this message to alot of younger guys and girls that probably think they are alot tougher than they are, if they start acting like Billy big bollocks and getting into fights etc they should really learn how to look after themselves and know they can.
    Obviously stick up for yourselves and be who you are but maybe avoid nobheads in the first place.

  • @hathlete4ever916
    @hathlete4ever916 4 роки тому

    Greetings Madman!!! I have bee, following this channel and you on Instagram for a hot minute and love everything I see. Now, you kind of sort of touched bases with this, but when you get a chance, can you do a video on narcissism?

  • @yourlocalgreaser460
    @yourlocalgreaser460 4 роки тому

    Hey madman I just started greasing but my fam is giving me the hardest time about it, my friends all dig it but my parents get mad evertime a wear a freaking leather jacket, they say that they're trying to save me socially but I think it's a load'a BS, anywho thx for the content

  • @nodraer_.nahtan169
    @nodraer_.nahtan169 4 роки тому

    There's a difference between being bullied and being robbed lmao dont try to fight something trying to rob you, you might get stabbed

  • @rebelrouzer3799
    @rebelrouzer3799 4 роки тому

    Lol or you can be like the main character in Bullie and just kick everyone's ass

  • @matthewgarnes8090
    @matthewgarnes8090 4 роки тому

    In glad to see your doing good man. I've missed greasing and wanted to watch your channel again and im not disappointed. Also, what do you think of the undercut (like bradd pitt in fury) as a greaser style? Thanks man

  • @sheinshawty
    @sheinshawty 4 роки тому

    Nice video man, i juat want to ask do you have any fight stories and if you do would you make a video talking about your fights?

  • @colescott8979
    @colescott8979 4 роки тому

    Can I wear black cowboy boots instead of engineering boots

  • @coldstar5352
    @coldstar5352 3 роки тому

    i just randomly found this video-- i dont even have a bully but this is the most random inspiring video ive seen on yt in a long time. ha thumbs up.

  • @philippdaubner9965
    @philippdaubner9965 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Sir for this valuable lesson!

  • @JBLUE97
    @JBLUE97 3 роки тому

    Bullies are the types to kick a dog then turn around and call animal control when it bites them💯

  • @dukerivers5229
    @dukerivers5229 4 роки тому

    Thanks, I needed this. Btw I love your videos, keep up the good work! ✌❤

  • @frosty_febreze3319
    @frosty_febreze3319 4 роки тому

    Hey madman I just want to thank you for bringing back the channel

  • @c9rolina24
    @c9rolina24 4 роки тому

    I use to get bullied then I started protecting people from em dope video

  • @DOUBLEA1
    @DOUBLEA1 4 роки тому

    MADMAN IS LIKE JOHNNY FROM COBRA KAI!

  • @flipbookproductions1407
    @flipbookproductions1407 4 роки тому

    Hey maddman love the video and I feel it is a very useful topic to cover do you think you could also cover controversy within different social classes and amongst other greasers

  • @InvisibleTrev
    @InvisibleTrev 4 роки тому

    Thanks for the advice my friend

  • @capivara2372
    @capivara2372 4 роки тому

    Hey madman, i see the greasers in 50's its very sexist, this is keeping it?

  • @idkidk6520
    @idkidk6520 4 роки тому

    I learned if you deal with it the first time it happens and you punch em right in the face they won't ever do it again