Wife of 25 Years Suddenly Left to "Find Herself", Taking Half Our Savings to Travel the World...

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @Khaghaan
    @Khaghaan 8 місяців тому +450

    Story 1: What a strange woman, no idea how someone can ditch everyone just like that, but good on OP for moving on and not caring about her.

    • @Trinidad679
      @Trinidad679 8 місяців тому +35

      When she said she needs to go find herself she's cheating on you.

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 8 місяців тому +28

      @@Trinidad679 100%, you don't just disappear and leave your whole family behind just to simply travel.

    • @friendlyneighborhoodshinigami
      @friendlyneighborhoodshinigami 8 місяців тому +17

      She got dementia alright😂😂😂

    • @Trinidad679
      @Trinidad679 8 місяців тому +2

      @Khaghaan she was being selfish

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Trinidad679 I feel like there's more to it than selfishness.

  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 8 місяців тому +388

    She put her mother in a home and immediately spiraled because all she could think about was how people might treat her in the future. So she did the logical thing and burned as many bridges as possible to ensure that happens to her.

  • @jasminedavis3030
    @jasminedavis3030 8 місяців тому +74

    Story 1: The fact she really thought she could waltz back into their lives after what she did. She really thought her kids & ex would just take her back with open arms, after basically blocking them after running off with the money. The delulu was strong with her 😂

    • @chefcdsjeanne3294
      @chefcdsjeanne3294 8 місяців тому

      We need layze to pull a delulu song break XD
      (Layze is a youtuber, mb if you don’t get the joke :’)

  • @eaglewarrior7979
    @eaglewarrior7979 8 місяців тому +134

    The thing about cheaters is that if they accuse you of something it’s probably a self deflection.

    • @maseridesu
      @maseridesu 7 місяців тому +1

      We have a saying in the DR “El ladrón juzga por su condición” basically a thief will think you’re stealing only because they’re doing it.

  • @Khaghaan
    @Khaghaan 8 місяців тому +120

    Story 2: While they may have been things OP didn't do, I can't really blame him some people just notice things easier than the others and his wife had every opportunity to tell him about her worries and problems.
    All in all probably a good thing that OP moved on, he learned from his 'mistakes' and will hopefully find someone who actually knows how to communicate, love and to be loyal.

    • @m4x927
      @m4x927 8 місяців тому +9

      If she doesn't learn from her mistakes then she'll probably cheat on the new guy.

    • @aya9981
      @aya9981 8 місяців тому +13

      Thats part of the trust in a relationship, that she would open up to her partner on how to make her fulfilled (he is not a mind reader), but she turned to another man and vented while her bf has no clue she was even feeling that way, she is a HUGE red flag and I'm glad he is out of there

    • @Khaghaan
      @Khaghaan 8 місяців тому +10

      @@aya9981 Exactly, I never understand people like her, like is it that hard to open up?

    • @sephoraamisikiala9742
      @sephoraamisikiala9742 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Khaghaan exactly

    • @agentsnorlson7913
      @agentsnorlson7913 8 місяців тому +6

      Women on average have a higher score in a psychological measure called trait neuroticism - for every given stress, they tend to feel it more strongly than a man.
      It has its advantages (like getting problems solved early) but at the same time leads to situations like this were the guy legitimately thinking the situation isn't that bad while she's thinking it's terrible so why isn't he doing anything or noticing?
      Useful thing to know to reduce conflict before it begins.

  • @Čåřřọţŝțîčķğûŷ
    @Čåřřọţŝțîčķğûŷ 8 місяців тому +149

    How tf did she get away with that?

    • @DarkEinherjar
      @DarkEinherjar 8 місяців тому +81

      She didn't. The money she stole and the portions of the debts OP paid for her will be deduced from her what she gets in the divorce. And now the life she was expecting to go back to is completely gone.

  • @SkyEcho751
    @SkyEcho751 8 місяців тому +33

    Someone who willingly did incest is NOT a someone you should trust to analyze someone's quality. Like seriously, she cheated, didn't care about what you felt, and she'll dump the new guy in a few years. The fact she threatened to kill herself just to keep you from breaking up is not normal behavior.
    Reminds me of that wife who cheated, then when the husband found out and refused to buy any of her BS, she went stone cold and said "He was right about you". People like that are not sane.

  • @sephoraamisikiala9742
    @sephoraamisikiala9742 8 місяців тому +43

    Story 2 : i wonder how long the relationship will last lol I'm glad that OP moved on from her and hope he finds his true soulmate soon ❤

    • @notting2640
      @notting2640 8 місяців тому +1

      all it'll take is for the AP to pull out his 2-inch asian weiner and it'll probably be over at that moment 😂

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 8 місяців тому +23

    Well, I hope the trip was worth losing everyone who cared about her.

  • @_mickii8214
    @_mickii8214 8 місяців тому +15

    I hate how these women did the wrong things then came back and made it OP’s fault somehow

  • @stevenspence5447
    @stevenspence5447 8 місяців тому +37

    Story 2 reads like the AI just gave up on continuity. Hahaha.

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 8 місяців тому +5

      All these stories are AI generated, good to see some people actually realize it

    • @iamjustagirlintheworldd
      @iamjustagirlintheworldd 8 місяців тому +4

      We know but these are so fun😭💀​@@MrArielK

  • @Obironnkenobi
    @Obironnkenobi 3 місяці тому +3

    The worst part about story 1 is that she burned all those bridges and if she gets dimensia she won't remember the trip. She'll just remember all these people that are gone.

  • @Lorexbg
    @Lorexbg 8 місяців тому +10

    Story 1 : Feel like they are marriage wasn't going that good any way , but instead to talk it of and get proper divorce his wife decide to take the easy route and let her husband do all the work again . Still better divorce then most couples no real hate between them .

  • @max4377jk
    @max4377jk 7 місяців тому +3

    So, the wife went from having a support system,
    To losing everything and when the day comes she develops dementia?
    Who is gonna care for her?

  • @JenniferJohnson-l3r
    @JenniferJohnson-l3r 8 місяців тому +7

    Story 1- I am so glad OP filed for divorce from that selfish so called wife. I wish ALL HER HAPPINESS AT ONCE. She will end up broke in a van 🚐 trying to figure out if OP and her kids will want her back 😂😂😂and they better not take her back. Let her face the actions of her consequences.
    Story 2- OP will move on and live his best life and the EX will end up with a few untreatable STDs because she will cheats again. Plus if she told OP about her past and talk about voluntary incest on her part I would have run in the opposite direction as fast as I possibly could. Yuck 🤮 and tell all her feature partners and friends. Secret or not that's just nasty. It was voluntary that makes it NOT A SECRET

  • @TheLuc224
    @TheLuc224 8 місяців тому +18

    The new song is so good

  • @susioeandno1else
    @susioeandno1else 5 місяців тому +2

    Story 1- sad life... hope she figures out her life
    Story 2- honey, that's an emotional affair

    • @user-jn7od7ie2c
      @user-jn7od7ie2c 3 місяці тому

      Hope she ends up alone. She hurt a lot of people with her selfishness. Op deserves better: story 1

  • @coriweaver4343
    @coriweaver4343 6 місяців тому +2

    She’s not mentally unstable ops wife is just selfish! Not once did she ever thank op for what he did. For what he sacrificed. Instead she took the trip that they saved up for them both to go and live the young life. This isn’t about her mental health. This is about her being a selfish nobody

    • @zdr7420
      @zdr7420 4 місяці тому

      I mean, he did state that she thanked him in a caption for a picture posted to social media. But that also isn't in any way, shape, or form a viable method of giving thanks in such a situation. Especially considering that she likely didn't know, at minimum, the full extent of what he was going through back home

  • @jamfero
    @jamfero 8 місяців тому +8

    new music is kinda weird but might get used to it after a few more vids

  • @namedhuman5870
    @namedhuman5870 8 місяців тому +1

    Story 2. The excuse for cheating is a lack of time and attention.
    The real reason is that the ex is the type of person who steps out of a relationship rather than deal with any issues. The excuse is BS, the reason for cheating is the ex is too small a person to work on things. Excuses and reasons are not the same.

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 8 місяців тому

    Heard a similar story to this, except the guy’s wife was arrested in a foreign country for trafficking drugs. She had the audacity to beg him to get her out, but he refused. He was able to divorce her. When she got back, she had practically aged 20 years.

  • @cavaebi7890
    @cavaebi7890 8 місяців тому +2

    Sadly for reasons like this prenups are necessary

  • @jamiepetersen6153
    @jamiepetersen6153 8 місяців тому +2

    Story 2 I thought they were together for 13 years

  • @tgoodfella
    @tgoodfella 6 місяців тому

    A husband does it all right loyalty to wife's family and the appreciation he gets I'd she leaves with their money to travel and meet other men what a 304

  • @rukiakuchiki6187
    @rukiakuchiki6187 8 місяців тому +5

    Yikes poor op

  • @AntsSutton
    @AntsSutton 8 місяців тому +5

    Tbh I preferred the old song

  • @Estebam01
    @Estebam01 8 місяців тому +2

    Did you post that story yesturday ?

  • @boblee7998
    @boblee7998 8 місяців тому +5

    Story 1. So she gets paid for abandoning her family. Noice

    • @BigWhite1996
      @BigWhite1996 7 місяців тому +1

      The way of the western world

  • @KilroyWasHere83
    @KilroyWasHere83 8 місяців тому +4

    Story 2: its hilarious when these cheating women try and project, calling the guys narcissists when that's exactly what the women are.

  • @KenW418
    @KenW418 8 місяців тому +1

    Is the youtube player cutting off half the video for anybody else? What is this crap?

  • @ZBarl
    @ZBarl 8 місяців тому

    Story 2: OP needs to learn self love and confidence ASAP. He blames himself??? Wtf man she's a devil wtf you blaming yourself for?

  • @gwenrichard7507
    @gwenrichard7507 8 місяців тому +5

    Story 2: OP is cringe and being cringe on the internet is a high crime.
    "Bad people don't think if they are or aren't a good person."
    The best revenge you can ever get is to improve yourself. You'll give yourself a complex if you continue to blame yourself.

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 8 місяців тому

      Story is AI generated

  • @ComeliaO7
    @ComeliaO7 4 місяці тому

    So story 2, we together for 13 years or three years?

  • @darkness5101
    @darkness5101 7 місяців тому

    Bro story 2 wife was doing it with her own family member?! Wtf

  • @The_voices_are_getting_louder_
    @The_voices_are_getting_louder_ 8 місяців тому

    Ai written ass stories, they aren't even trying to hide it, based on real-life events, but it's almost always similar to every other story, I can't wait until it's actually original once they run out of this type of content

  • @entityunknown3969
    @entityunknown3969 8 місяців тому

    good morning

  • @noblenone899
    @noblenone899 8 місяців тому

    the change in music isnt bad, but it kinda doesnt fit with these stories honestly

  • @DraxXThanos
    @DraxXThanos 8 місяців тому +3

    Repost!!!

  • @coolcat92601
    @coolcat92601 2 місяці тому

    Why do you only post half the story, the rest isn’t even on your account it cuts off when she returns and the division of assets

  • @edgarallanalejandro641
    @edgarallanalejandro641 6 місяців тому

    Incest and she was knowingly active in it you olredy know she's mess up way even let it go that long on the relationship

  • @Blue09577
    @Blue09577 8 місяців тому +3

    Personally don't get married or have kids before your 30s, freeze your eggs or sperms if needed. Just invest your whole 20s making your career and exploring that's the way to go and then after you feel satisfied with your single life then find yourself a partner who'll love you as much as you'll love them.

    • @MrArielK
      @MrArielK 8 місяців тому

      These stories are AI generated

    • @Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing
      @Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing 8 місяців тому +3

      Honestly yes. Five things all people should follow is:
      1: Dont get married before thirty.
      2: Always get a prenup. If you get the “you don’t trust me” talk they’re ignoring the fact they also get a prenup and they’ll take everything.
      3: Keep finances seperated.
      4: Freeze as many batches of sperm/eggs you can in a year (litterally try to donate once a week), so theres no “I used it all and it failed😔” then get a vasectomy/tubes tied then don’t say anything, this prevents baby trapping.
      5: Don’t have kids before 25.

    • @Blue09577
      @Blue09577 8 місяців тому

      @@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing true... I see all these kids getting pregnant at 16 and 17 hell even 20 is young to be a parent. And the over glorification of marrying young. One should always sort out their career first before getting married or having kids. And i totally agree with all your points too.

  • @caleclown8122
    @caleclown8122 8 місяців тому +3

    New song 😮
    Story 1: reposted video with an update ?
    Story 2: Op is so annoying

    • @Keenidy
      @Keenidy 8 місяців тому

      It has more updates

  • @zdr7420
    @zdr7420 4 місяці тому

    For story 1, as shitty as what she did was, I get the feeling that she was being truthful about sleeping around. It did seem more like she was trying to escape her steady mental decline and, given her age and family history, she was too scared to wait in case her mind state declined further. But regardless, that was really shitty of her to do. She should have talked about it with OP before acting on anything

  • @vedantdwivedi5213
    @vedantdwivedi5213 8 місяців тому +1

    FIRST