I swear this hit hard, I already constantly think "am I passing?" "My chest is way too noticeable" "what else can I possibly do to pass?" "What makes me look like a female?" Then the cherry on top is when people call me "sweetheart" or "young lady" "miss" "girl" just yesterday at work my co-worker called my name and the customer was like "oh I thought he was calling a guy!" Shit sucks.
Wether you are a female, male, non-binary, gender fluid and anything else, just know that even if I don't know you. Even if I haven't seen you. I already know that you are Beautiful, Handsome, and Gorgeous. You're perfect as long as you are you. Don't be someone else that isn't you. Don't be what others want you to be. Just be you. And you are perfect.
Yeah, my family doesn't agree with any of it. I'm Non-Binary and I still have trouble with people I know. Especially during this quarantine, I'm still called by my birth name and called "daughter" which makes me depressed. I've told my parents when I came out as pan that I just wanted support. My dad said he did but continues to tell me I'm wrong and my mom doesn't agree with pan. Gay, lesbian, and bi is all she agrees with. Sorry for the story 😅😂
I was the same way but my mum eventually found out she was very supportive maybe just ask her what she thinks of trans people? Just hint at it if u can I've got a discord if u wanna chat with me more on this topic :)
As a trans woman, I just wish I could undo everything causes by male puberty... I always feel like I'm seen as a big creepy effeminate unhealthy man who everyone wants nothing to do with, instead of that spunky tiny female I would have been seen as had I been on puberty blockers, these thoughts start as soon as I get out of bed usually
Jonna,over the last 3 years I've learned that one must have patience,if you do the work needed, perhaps weight loss, beauty regimen, psychology etc,then it will happen for you. After lifelong conflict I started transitioning in 2019, I have had much soul searching but 8 weeks ago I had GRS! I'm 63!! It will happen for you darlin x
today i was doubting myself all over again, "Maybe I don't experience dysphoria after all". This video made me realise that is NOT the case. Damn, i relate so much..
I loved this video, very accurate and well made. The only thing is that I don’t know if for me (at least) it is about “looking disgusting” but just not looking like myself
Out of all the dysphoria short films I've seen, this has been one of my favorites. The constant, non-stop, self conscious voices causing emotional havoc, all while, from the outside, everything appears normal and you're just taking a walk. Great work!
ive had to let go of being trans to stay with someone i love.... ive said before that i dont matter inside the relationship and now im starting to see it. truth be told she can love me without male parts but because of something bad in her past she cant love me with them... it hurts, but if she is happy, ill be smiling along side her.
Master.Black666 I'm sorry to say this but a relationship built on lies is a relationship set for failure. My ex (whom I'm still in love with) and i broke up because I'm trans. Amd even though it hurts it is better for us both. Ik it isnt the same but I believe that you shouldn't have to "give up" being who you are to keep her around. Best of luck in life though dear ~Noah
Fuck this hit me hard cuz I really be thinking like that and omgg the last part "I'm going to be ok" that hit close I got legit chills and now I'm crying
am i passing? am i walking like a man? my voice is to high. there looking at me my hair is to feminine my clothes arent male enough they can see my binder im misgendered and dead named all the time no wonder i have no friends im a freak my face is to feminine im worthless why wasnt i born in a male body female puberty is slowley progressing every day still not flat enough why cant reginize the reflection in the mirror ill never be a real man im a disapointment im a mistake i should die why do people call me slers? should i go in the male bathroom? theyll never actully acept me as there son,brother,grandson,nephew,a man ill always be there daughter,sister,granddaughter,neice,a woman my eyelashes are to long my lips are to big my room is to feminine is this for attention am i fakeing? will i regret this am i trans enough? ...
These thoughts all go through my head every single day. Yet I told my friends I was Enby bc I new that would be more comfortable for them. I’m in a “lesbian” relationship and I know she would leave if I told her I’m a boy.
John Weflen We could care less of what we are biologically. We are changing our appearance to ease our dysphoria. We can not see our chromosomes can we? No, we only see the outside of us, our chest, feminine hips, and we can hear our squeaky voices.
@John Weflen, you're probably a Trump supporter. XD Oh my god this is too rich. I don't live in America and I think it's hilarious that his votes were fair. That there weren't any fake votes I mean. You have so much more reason to be judged than trans people. OMFG LMAO. THIS IS SO FUCKING HILARIOUS.😂😂😂
Dysphoria is different to this I feel. This sounds like a lack of confidence. I don't think I'm ugly. I think I look like a woman, and that's what I hate.
Watching this two months later - a lot of this is accurate in terms of the paranoia about passing, but I don’t feel this accurately represents the actual feelings of dysphoria, rather it represents the thought processes that can come along with dysphoria (e.g am I passing? Is not dysphoria itself, but a product of feeling the dysphoria)
This really gets me. I hate going out a lot now if I don’t have someone with me on days I dint wear my binder or I don’t have a lose shirt. I hate looking in the mirror cause my dysphoria just kills me. Everyday is a struggle, passing as non binary as really annoying I’m fine with being seen as male but the kids in my school know me as female cause they knew me before I came out to myself so they make fun of me for my name and anything else they can think of. My mom doesn’t support me, I have to hide my binder cause my step brother gave me his old one and so she doesn’t know. In my mind it’s still constant you look like a girl you’ll never pass you can’t change this. Cutting my hair helped but it’s still annoying. I’ve been told I’m not a valid trans cause I’m non binary. A trans female said that just cause you cut your hair and go by a diffrent name doesn’t mean your trans and non binary isn’t actually trans. Someone tried to argue with me that I in no way transition or alter my body. That’s why I’m not actually trans, because my dysphoria and self hatred not recognizing who is in the mirror when I look in it doesn’t matter I’m still not trans. It’s annoying.
You are valid, and those trans people that say that are just gatekeepers and are uneducated about trans people. According to their logic, every single closeted person or person who hasn't done anything medical isn't really trans. Which isn't true because everyone is at that point at some time in their lives. Even the World Health Organization acknowledged that non binary is a real gender, and intersex people are basically people born non binary at birth meaning that non binary people are valid. Fuck the people who say that to you.
I feel him bro. Like everyday I look at myself I just think I look disappointed at my body and I just look worthless. Now I’m 11 and I’m about to be 12 and I’m still having transgender problems. :(
Im sorry u felt that way and if u still feel that way. U are not a freak, you are worth it, and your'e denintly woth it. I am so glad youre here today :) and just know that i support you and many others do too :)
Jacob Clement I came out when I was 12 (now 13 lol) but they won’t do anything. I cut my hair (okay) but they refuse to call me by my preferred name. And I hate all the disrespect 🙄 I can’t even fulfill my dreams of being myself when I can’t even transition
Im_alexander Hi, so sorry to hear of your bad experiences. When I first came out my dad was not okay with it and I ended up living with my mum for a couple weeks. I think you were so brave to come out and still deal with all the hassle that comes after coming out. It’s a hard road to be on in this day and age but we will both get through it. Do you want my email? Maybe we could talk online and help each other. I think your first step is to go to your school and talk to them first or a school counsellor. Maybe talk to a friend as well. Hang in there. Just ask if you want my email ☺️
oof yeah i knew it would be but i wasn't prepared for just how triggering this was good thing its already the end of the day and I'm not going out anywhere 💀
I don't know which kind of binder the person in the video is wearing, but I can really recommend gc2b binders, they work the best for me, give me the flattest look so far and are also really comfortable to wear (:
i just wish i could have been born a girl and living in this small town i still have to go by graham and be called a boy mostly i hate it why do some people get a perfect life
What's your new name? How are you doing? Also, I get how you feel, just the opposite though. I'm FTM and funny enough my new name is Graham. I'm sorry if that sounded off. I hope everything is well!
@@graydesjardin1253 thank you my new name is grace so judging from your username we switched names :) i’m not doing amazing today i had to shower and i hate those because i try and go as long as possible without having to be naked but i had to today :( but i got a femenine haircut so that’s good but i feel very like lost and lonely
As a trans man I feel like I have to say it- this is NOT how gender dysphoria looks like. This film is gender dysphoria + huge insecurity + anxiety and I think if I go deeper I will find more. Yeah, gender dysphoria is different for anyone, but "no one is gonna hang out with me" Is not gender dysphoria for example. That's y u got my dislike.
No, I’m not gonna be ok. I don’t get what I need and my life sucks. I’ll never get what I need and I have to worry about how am I going to pay for all that I need. Sorry, I’ll stop and go. It’s for the best and I’ll never pass. I’ll never be a real guy and I don’t matter. I’m sorry!!🐺🌈😭
Don’t give up! Just keep fighting for what you want and you will get all the money and you will become the guy you want, it might seem hard but if other people can do it, you can too. I believe in you!
@@kingoftheclouds8688 There is nothing wrong with you. The world needs you here. There are many other people here but there isn't anyone that's like you. If you go, people are gonna miss how unique you are. You're a special guy because you have your own unique personality. You are worth a lot. It might not think you are, but I know you are. You're gonna be able to afford to look how you want if you keep fighting and you keep staying alive. You're gonna be happy with your body at some point and you need to continue fighting for that. I'm proud of you for even being alive right now and I'm proud of you for how strong you are. Please stay alive because there is hope and life is gonna be okay, even if you don't believe it. If you for some reason don't believe what I say, then you should stay alive because if not, then your tombstone is gonna have your deadname on it. If you're gonna die, die when you are known as a strong man. You shouldn't do it, but this reason to stay alive might be more reasonable than what I said above.
I promise you will become the guy you want to be you will have what you need one day and you are worth it I know it's not much because all of these are just words but I've gone through what you are going through and as much as I thought I wasn't worth it I kept fighting and now I'm on T and I feel much happier that is what will happen to you and everyone else going through a hard time I know it might not feel like it but I promise things do get better and no matter who says otherwise things will be better and you'll be happier and feel better than ever before so all you have to do is keep going and when that day comes where it does get batter you'll realize it was all worth it in the end just like how everyone on planet earth is worth it at the end of the day we are all people going through things and struggling with problems everyday but it does get better your dysphoria won't last forever mine didn't bother will yours everyone is important and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
*_we_** will be okay*
I really hope so..
Eh, probably not
@@user-ct6rk9zq6h i mean you’re not wrong
@@user-ct6rk9zq6h we are all gonna die lol
@@racheldevito that's fine with me
I swear this hit hard, I already constantly think "am I passing?" "My chest is way too noticeable" "what else can I possibly do to pass?" "What makes me look like a female?" Then the cherry on top is when people call me "sweetheart" or "young lady" "miss" "girl" just yesterday at work my co-worker called my name and the customer was like "oh I thought he was calling a guy!" Shit sucks.
Drew Miller same
Same 😭😭😭
Same
Wether you are a female, male, non-binary, gender fluid and anything else, just know that even if I don't know you. Even if I haven't seen you. I already know that you are Beautiful, Handsome, and Gorgeous. You're perfect as long as you are you. Don't be someone else that isn't you. Don't be what others want you to be. Just be you. And you are perfect.
This explains me 100 percent... I have gender dysphoria and I really want to transition, but I don't know what my mom would think
same honestly, I don't know how to tell her
Yeah, my family doesn't agree with any of it. I'm Non-Binary and I still have trouble with people I know. Especially during this quarantine, I'm still called by my birth name and called "daughter" which makes me depressed. I've told my parents when I came out as pan that I just wanted support. My dad said he did but continues to tell me I'm wrong and my mom doesn't agree with pan. Gay, lesbian, and bi is all she agrees with. Sorry for the story 😅😂
I am a trans guy
I was the same way but my mum eventually found out she was very supportive maybe just ask her what she thinks of trans people? Just hint at it if u can I've got a discord if u wanna chat with me more on this topic :)
As a trans woman, I just wish I could undo everything causes by male puberty... I always feel like I'm seen as a big creepy effeminate unhealthy man who everyone wants nothing to do with, instead of that spunky tiny female I would have been seen as had I been on puberty blockers, these thoughts start as soon as I get out of bed usually
Jonna,over the last 3 years I've learned that one must have patience,if you do the work needed, perhaps weight loss, beauty regimen, psychology etc,then it will happen for you. After lifelong conflict I started transitioning in 2019, I have had much soul searching but 8 weeks ago I had GRS! I'm 63!! It will happen for you darlin x
Dysphoria at the disco
suspish fishy
No i can not help but to hear an exchanging of words
“ *am I passing?* “
To all the trans and questioning people out there
*You will be okay*
And you are valid
And I love you
Awwwww🥺
I needed that rn
It hits too close to home. It makes it hard to breathe. Really accurate.
today i was doubting myself all over again, "Maybe I don't experience dysphoria after all". This video made me realise that is NOT the case. Damn, i relate so much..
I loved this video, very accurate and well made. The only thing is that I don’t know if for me (at least) it is about “looking disgusting” but just not looking like myself
Out of all the dysphoria short films I've seen, this has been one of my favorites.
The constant, non-stop, self conscious voices causing emotional havoc, all while, from the outside, everything appears normal and you're just taking a walk.
Great work!
For people who don't know what dysphoria feels like..... You literally hear some of this stuff in your head and well, it feels horrible.
Hit me in the feels, man.
(He's handsome, ahh)
Noah just like my comment???
I just fanboyed a little bit...is that normal?
WOAH.
JasperALLEN__ MaTtHais awh thank you! that means a lot actually haha! i never expected anyone to fan person over me
Well you reached me on a spiritual level. Thanks man.
all of these thing are in my head 24/7 i feel like my girlfriend hates me because of it...
Master.Black666 i feel that dude
Master.Black666 I feel like i bother my friends (if they even consider me that) with my insecurities and dysphoria so I feel that man
ive had to let go of being trans to stay with someone i love.... ive said before that i dont matter inside the relationship and now im starting to see it. truth be told she can love me without male parts but because of something bad in her past she cant love me with them... it hurts, but if she is happy, ill be smiling along side her.
Master.Black666 I'm sorry to say this but a relationship built on lies is a relationship set for failure. My ex (whom I'm still in love with) and i broke up because I'm trans. Amd even though it hurts it is better for us both. Ik it isnt the same but I believe that you shouldn't have to "give up" being who you are to keep her around. Best of luck in life though dear
~Noah
This hits me hard because I am nonbinary I haven't came out and I cant own a binder
My advice is to get a few (2-3) sports bras and wear them at once, but only if it is safe for you to wear them.
Liar Liam also wear lots of sweat shirts 😊
I've been struggling with gender dysphoria and my family doesn't support me...I often force myself to be demote feminine and it's terrible...
Tatum Mae move to a friends that is sometimes recommended
I am also struggling with it, my parents aren’t supporting, but I don’t know that to do
i’m a trans kid who lives in franklin n every time i walk by the theatre i think of this video and it gives me hope tbh
Dysphoria has not been easy lately. And I sent this to my friends so they had a better understanding, and this has really helped
Fuck this hit me hard cuz I really be thinking like that and omgg the last part "I'm going to be ok" that hit close I got legit chills and now I'm crying
am i passing?
am i walking like a man?
my voice is to high.
there looking at me
my hair is to feminine
my clothes arent male enough
they can see my binder
im misgendered and dead named all the time
no wonder i have no friends im a freak
my face is to feminine
im worthless
why wasnt i born in a male body
female puberty is slowley progressing every day
still not flat enough
why cant reginize the reflection in the mirror
ill never be a real man
im a disapointment
im a mistake
i should die
why do people call me slers?
should i go in the male bathroom?
theyll never actully acept me as there son,brother,grandson,nephew,a man
ill always be there daughter,sister,granddaughter,neice,a woman
my eyelashes are to long
my lips are to big
my room is to feminine
is this for attention
am i fakeing?
will i regret this
am i trans enough?
...
Wow. My whole life in a few mere words 😲😲
This is me every day
great now im crying one second while I go hug my cat
These thoughts all go through my head every single day.
Yet I told my friends I was Enby bc I new that would be more comfortable for them. I’m in a “lesbian” relationship and I know she would leave if I told her I’m a boy.
Tell me, are you reading my mind?
Your skin isn't paper...dont cut it
Your size, your body, isn't a book... dont judge it
Your life isn't a movie...dont end it.
cut da chest
@John Weflen we arent changing our geender we are changing our body
John Weflen We could care less of what we are biologically. We are changing our appearance to ease our dysphoria. We can not see our chromosomes can we? No, we only see the outside of us, our chest, feminine hips, and we can hear our squeaky voices.
@@nvrbck, no.
Don't just cut it.
Put it in a bag, hit it with a bat fling it into space and then send it into another dimension.
@John Weflen, you're probably a Trump supporter.
XD
Oh my god this is too rich.
I don't live in America and I think it's hilarious that his votes were fair.
That there weren't any fake votes I mean.
You have so much more reason to be judged than trans people.
OMFG LMAO.
THIS IS SO FUCKING HILARIOUS.😂😂😂
I don't know why but it sends a chill down my spine whenever you said, "I look disgusting" like ugh this is so sad Ily 😫👌
My dysphoria just slapped me in the face
*DYSPHORIA TIMES 100*
im sitting here wearing 3 sports bras so...
@@riverahlquist6571 same . I am a trans guy but God gave me a curvy body . Why?😭😭
Dysphoria is different to this I feel. This sounds like a lack of confidence. I don't think I'm ugly. I think I look like a woman, and that's what I hate.
Watching this two months later - a lot of this is accurate in terms of the paranoia about passing, but I don’t feel this accurately represents the actual feelings of dysphoria, rather it represents the thought processes that can come along with dysphoria (e.g am I passing? Is not dysphoria itself, but a product of feeling the dysphoria)
This is exactly what it’s like in my head it’s every day I just wanna it to stop I wish I could just leave
My thoughts every damn day 😢
I don't really know if I am transgender, WHY can I relate so much?!
Cuz u r probably trans
This really gets me. I hate going out a lot now if I don’t have someone with me on days I dint wear my binder or I don’t have a lose shirt. I hate looking in the mirror cause my dysphoria just kills me. Everyday is a struggle, passing as non binary as really annoying I’m fine with being seen as male but the kids in my school know me as female cause they knew me before I came out to myself so they make fun of me for my name and anything else they can think of. My mom doesn’t support me, I have to hide my binder cause my step brother gave me his old one and so she doesn’t know. In my mind it’s still constant you look like a girl you’ll never pass you can’t change this. Cutting my hair helped but it’s still annoying. I’ve been told I’m not a valid trans cause I’m non binary. A trans female said that just cause you cut your hair and go by a diffrent name doesn’t mean your trans and non binary isn’t actually trans. Someone tried to argue with me that I in no way transition or alter my body. That’s why I’m not actually trans, because my dysphoria and self hatred not recognizing who is in the mirror when I look in it doesn’t matter I’m still not trans. It’s annoying.
it will be okay, skrew those people. You are valid
Milo Thank you, that means a lot. ☺️
You are valid, and those trans people that say that are just gatekeepers and are uneducated about trans people. According to their logic, every single closeted person or person who hasn't done anything medical isn't really trans. Which isn't true because everyone is at that point at some time in their lives. Even the World Health Organization acknowledged that non binary is a real gender, and intersex people are basically people born non binary at birth meaning that non binary people are valid. Fuck the people who say that to you.
Everyday in the bathtub, I stare at my feminine body and cry. I always wish for a male body, but my wishes never come true.
Same I just look at myself and think this isn’t me
I understand
I feel him bro. Like everyday I look at myself I just think I look disappointed at my body and I just look worthless. Now I’m 11 and I’m about to be 12 and I’m still having transgender problems. :(
I’m going to cry.. I love this so much
Everyone reading this is valid amazing handsome or beautiful and I love y’all
God this is..... terrifyingly accurate. I have legitimate chills.
This is absolutely amazing. It hits a little to close to home though.
my emotions ouch.. but honestly this is really accurate and really well put together.
You pass really well.
Literally me every day
**forced laughter**
Respect transgender people never give up
This how I felt the whole day today
Im sorry u felt that way and if u still feel that way. U are not a freak, you are worth it, and your'e denintly woth it. I am so glad youre here today :) and just know that i support you and many others do too :)
@@workworkangelica thank you so much
I can’t believe I haven’t seen this yet! Andy and Morris you both did amazing! Love you both and thank you for being in my life
I remember watching this when I was 11. Now I’m 15
oh my gosh that truly means the world to me. always live your truth
Theres way to less "Am I passing"
Not. Joking.
This is me.
I hate this. I can't wear my binder too long due to health issues. I feel so wrong. I feel fake
That's why when I grow up I am gonna get breast removal surgery
@@avastars3393
You mean a mastectomy?
My thoughts everyday
wierd potato me almost all the time
Same
*puts mouth on microphone* “I’m gunna be okay.”
Kawaii Seal lmaoooo
WTF.... why always negative!!!! Where is the joy in being yourself!!! I’m trans and proud! And I experience joy!
It's about Dysphoria, idk about you but most people with dysphoria dont like it and it's a negative thing
This is so important. Love this.
I'm too small to fit in any guy clothes...
DumbOtaku 101 have you tried shopping in the kids / boys section? a lot of trans guys do!
@@puritymilk thanks I'll do that :D
Same😥
Just diagnosed with gender dysphoria today... Hopefully I can start my transition soon 😬
Victoria Patrick Just a question how old are you? I was 10 when I came out almost 14 now. So now 4 years, on puberty blockers (started last year)
Jacob Clement I came out when I was 12 (now 13 lol) but they won’t do anything. I cut my hair (okay) but they refuse to call me by my preferred name. And I hate all the disrespect 🙄 I can’t even fulfill my dreams of being myself when I can’t even transition
Im_alexander Hi, so sorry to hear of your bad experiences. When I first came out my dad was not okay with it and I ended up living with my mum for a couple weeks. I think you were so brave to come out and still deal with all the hassle that comes after coming out. It’s a hard road to be on in this day and age but we will both get through it. Do you want my email? Maybe we could talk online and help each other. I think your first step is to go to your school and talk to them first or a school counsellor. Maybe talk to a friend as well. Hang in there. Just ask if you want my email ☺️
Jacob Clement Awww your so sweet 🥰 I’ll definitely consider it. Thank you
Im_alexander no problem ☺️
This one hit hard. Love to you my brothers and sisters! 🌈🏳️⚧️⚧
I'm gonna tell my mom I'm trans today
What did she say?? Xx
I aslo wanna know what happend
i hope everything went well :)
What did she say??
I hope it went well! 😊
Dude trust me,you pass,and you look very handsome
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apparenty
I
have
dysphoria
Bitch.Im.Wheezing this isn’t meant to show what gender dysphoria is by definition. just how trans people view themselves because of it.
you should learn the difference between dysmorphia and dysphoria before saying such thing, dysphoria acts differently in everyone
oof yeah i knew it would be but i wasn't prepared for just how triggering this was good thing its already the end of the day and I'm not going out anywhere 💀
YO I FLIPPED THE F*** OUT WHEN I SAW THE THEATRE IM A TRANS GUY WHO LIVES IN FRANKLIN TOO
i don’t have bad dysphoria as ftm since I’m trans femme but this is super relatable
...huh?
trans femme is mtf ofc u wont have ftm dysphoria if ur... not ftm
That's exactly how my thoughts are.
Even tho dressing like the gender you feel you are even tho people don’t like it at least you feel like ur self
What binder do you use? I'm constantly in a state of worry, wondering if my chest looks flat enough.
I don't know which kind of binder the person in the video is wearing, but I can really recommend gc2b binders, they work the best for me, give me the flattest look so far and are also really comfortable to wear (:
Kelsi 101 sorry i just saw this. gc2b!!
I feel the same way.
Living the same life bro
Me. That's me everyday of my life.
I completely understand this I’m worthless I look like a guy not a girl and I hate it
You are not worthless ❤️
Thanks😊
Your a very beautiful woman i promise you!❤❤❤ you are an amazing person im a boy just as much as you are a girl
Mistly awww
Thorns of Dark poison you aren’t worthless
Also, everyone is matter, so therefore you matter
i just wish i could have been born a girl and living in this small town i still have to go by graham and be called a boy mostly i hate it why do some people get a perfect life
What's your new name? How are you doing? Also, I get how you feel, just the opposite though. I'm FTM and funny enough my new name is Graham. I'm sorry if that sounded off. I hope everything is well!
@@graydesjardin1253 thank you my new name is grace so judging from your username we switched names :) i’m not doing amazing today i had to shower and i hate those because i try and go as long as possible without having to be naked but i had to today :( but i got a femenine haircut so that’s good but i feel very like lost and lonely
@@grahamblethen7228 Aw I'm sorry. We did switch names haha! I love that! I'm glad you were able to get a feminine haircut!
I àm a ftm and I am telling you that I am here to support you 🥰🥰
Hey, Grace I just want to make you feel okay so just hold on, and when you can, maybe travel away from there. Find something you like doing.
This is what my voices say
This was a really great film,with great editing and acting, but what was the 'am I passing?' Do I just not get that because I'm not trans?
“am i passing?” is like the questions (ftm) “do i look like a male?” “do people see me as a male?”
“am i passing” just means “am i passing as a male? do i look like a boy? am i perceived as a boy?”
Everything will be okay 👌🏼 🖤
Thank you...
As a trans man I feel like I have to say it- this is NOT how gender dysphoria looks like. This film is gender dysphoria + huge insecurity + anxiety and I think if I go deeper I will find more. Yeah, gender dysphoria is different for anyone, but "no one is gonna hang out with me" Is not gender dysphoria for example. That's y u got my dislike.
That’s exactly what I was thinking.
I agreeeeeee
Are you trying to gatekeep gender dysphoria? Really?
@@tarab9081 I think the film was pretty accurate for me
I think the description kind of addresses that, this is more ab how dysphoria might effect ur day to day life
I relate
IM GAY!!!!!! Your username XD
No, I’m not gonna be ok. I don’t get what I need and my life sucks. I’ll never get what I need and I have to worry about how am I going to pay for all that I need. Sorry, I’ll stop and go. It’s for the best and I’ll never pass. I’ll never be a real guy and I don’t matter. I’m sorry!!🐺🌈😭
Don’t give up! Just keep fighting for what you want and you will get all the money and you will become the guy you want, it might seem hard but if other people can do it, you can too. I believe in you!
tildecph Why would you believe in me? I’m nothing. I’m sorry 😭 What’s wrong with me?
@@kingoftheclouds8688 u r not nothing, you are you. you are worthy
@@kingoftheclouds8688 There is nothing wrong with you. The world needs you here. There are many other people here but there isn't anyone that's like you. If you go, people are gonna miss how unique you are. You're a special guy because you have your own unique personality. You are worth a lot. It might not think you are, but I know you are. You're gonna be able to afford to look how you want if you keep fighting and you keep staying alive. You're gonna be happy with your body at some point and you need to continue fighting for that. I'm proud of you for even being alive right now and I'm proud of you for how strong you are. Please stay alive because there is hope and life is gonna be okay, even if you don't believe it.
If you for some reason don't believe what I say, then you should stay alive because if not, then your tombstone is gonna have your deadname on it. If you're gonna die, die when you are known as a strong man. You shouldn't do it, but this reason to stay alive might be more reasonable than what I said above.
I promise you will become the guy you want to be you will have what you need one day and you are worth it I know it's not much because all of these are just words but I've gone through what you are going through and as much as I thought I wasn't worth it I kept fighting and now I'm on T and I feel much happier that is what will happen to you and everyone else going through a hard time I know it might not feel like it but I promise things do get better and no matter who says otherwise things will be better and you'll be happier and feel better than ever before so all you have to do is keep going and when that day comes where it does get batter you'll realize it was all worth it in the end just like how everyone on planet earth is worth it at the end of the day we are all people going through things and struggling with problems everyday but it does get better your dysphoria won't last forever mine didn't bother will yours everyone is important and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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I needed this. 💕
Dysphoria and depression are different
yes and?
and I suffer from both :")
Woah creative and accurate
My thoughts everyday.
😔
my emotions! 💔😪
Same 😔
Me on a daily basis
i am going thru transtion and i wanna record everything and want some ideas
any one here can tell me any shooting ideas?
Just be who you are, no matter what people tell you
Thanks for sharing!
I love this 😟😤😌
I did not quite understand the end of the video.
Canal Hashiga having a support system helps (the most) for a trans person.
Omg every morning- hhh
Damn
Uhm am i color blind? Why cant i see the video with colors except the light in the scene 2:15
It’s in
Black and
White
No mate, that’s just how the video is
ME
Why do you keep repeating words
Polarbear XD to show emphasis on the words
Polarbear XD that’s how it is in your head
it repeats and repeats over and over like a broken record and gets you to believe it
Effect and emphasis
thats how it is.
That's what it's like in your head. These certain bad thoughts get stuck in your head and they keep repeating over and over.
maybe dont repeat am i passing why do i evven try watever it got annoying
those thoughts are annoxing too - that's the point
The Person those thoughts repeat in your head are more annoying.
The Person Do you have gender dysphoria? Because if u did then you would know that these are the feelings of a person who suffers from it.