I secretly used Contraceptives because my Husband was against their use - RealTalk with Tamima

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  5 років тому +9

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    • @beverlynebivin282
      @beverlynebivin282 5 років тому

      Will subscribe now 😍 ua show
      Wish to attend one day..

    • @xoxomacx2539
      @xoxomacx2539 5 років тому +1

      Switch TV we want to subscribe to tamima not stitch Tv.

  • @wanjikunganga277
    @wanjikunganga277 5 років тому +47

    In your early 20s, ladies let’s utilize this time to invest in your future...am 23 years young and marriage / boyfriend is not an option at the moment...anyway it is what it is...

    • @josphine291
      @josphine291 5 років тому +4

      you can still invest while having boyfriends/rship. The problem is people make the marriage or the perfect partner the ultimate goal, which shouldn`t. I don`t put all my energy on a rship. If at all, maybe 20% only. both me and my partner understand that we have separate lives to live and we respect that. So we get to focus on our lives while we explore our sexual desires and you know, learn all about dating, preferences etc. Because I believe this is the time to do this as well.

    • @emmahowokochronicles5764
      @emmahowokochronicles5764 5 років тому +4

      @@josphine291 So you are exploring your sexual desires with a man you have no intention being married to as you have said, what exactly will you be doing with your husband when you get married? Am just curious?

    • @waceranjoki3442
      @waceranjoki3442 5 років тому +1

      True dea 29 here and I never use those things

    • @rosenganga7601
      @rosenganga7601 5 років тому +3

      @Emma owoko good question,, how many times do we have to tell young pple that sex is for the married?

    • @emmahowokochronicles5764
      @emmahowokochronicles5764 5 років тому +2

      @@rosenganga7601 sometimes experience teaches best, but i wouldn't want any young woman going through the things myself and many other women have gone through in the name of sex.

  • @NellyMacharia
    @NellyMacharia 5 років тому +7

    Hey Tamima I like the way you conduct this show. It is a 100% Kenyan like the way you allow the guests to express themselves in a language that they are comfortable with it makes it very easy for viewers to understand because the guest is not struggling to talk. I wish other TV hosts would learn from you.

  • @mercycriss2284
    @mercycriss2284 4 роки тому +5

    hehehe if yu are not Ready to be mum achana na mnyaduano 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

  • @ndungujoy5777
    @ndungujoy5777 5 років тому +2

    This is the realest talk show that I know about I wish that parents could not only tel their kids to abstain but also teach them about contraceptives

  • @janek9730
    @janek9730 5 років тому +4

    Wow what a show ,we have learned alot ,thanks Tamima for the show .

  • @ruthallu8152
    @ruthallu8152 5 років тому +5

    My mom never had the contraceptive talk with me, I'm married with one kid and she still was shy when I was talking with her about it. Our parents should just stop with this tradition thing!!!!!!!

  • @livingstoneAdika
    @livingstoneAdika 5 років тому +13

    What a show it is tamima .this thing of contraceptive is a good idea and a lesson to be learnt a lot by us teens .why contraceptive instead of ABSTAINING. Big up tamima best lesson

  • @kadzo6614
    @kadzo6614 5 років тому +15

    Ati Angela is 22? How..she looks 28. No pun intended.

    • @jennydoureen5642
      @jennydoureen5642 5 років тому +3

      I thought she is 33 😂😂😂

    • @jennydoureen5642
      @jennydoureen5642 5 років тому +1

      I think ni juu ya kutumia hizo contraceptives when she is soooo young so akazeeka haraka😂😂😂.
      She sounds soo much into sex,she fears pregnancy than HIV unfortunately.

    • @annejane1311
      @annejane1311 5 років тому +1

      34yrs not 22😂😂😂😂

    • @chepngenoviola5468
      @chepngenoviola5468 4 роки тому +2

      Me I thought she is one of the mothers invited to talk abt contraceptives anakaa 32

    • @genovevashitsama3831
      @genovevashitsama3831 4 роки тому

      Khadija,,Angela looks 33, some ladys normally do Amendments with their age......my take.

  • @esthernjeri7328
    @esthernjeri7328 5 років тому +4

    Very educative topic #Tamima thanks alot but Ladies try end not use those ma p2,ati munaogopa kuza kuliko kushika ukimwi #peposhindwe...

  • @owinojoab3495
    @owinojoab3495 5 років тому +5

    Good work Tamima

  • @denitto19
    @denitto19 5 років тому +1

    Truth b told abstinence is100 % sure. But for the married hapo the couple should decide on which contraceptives to use.

  • @annnduta1051
    @annnduta1051 5 років тому +4

    very informative.. shout out to Dr Fredrick he was my gyna last year when i was pregnant

    • @carokanana8381
      @carokanana8381 3 роки тому

      Please give me the number of Dr Frederick

  • @annenjenga4344
    @annenjenga4344 5 років тому +2

    Great topic Tamima! it is the hope of every parent that their child will abstain from having sex, but ukweli wa mambo ni it does not happen that way for the teens; Therefore, lets not bury our heads in the sand.... the common theme I heard from the young people was they did not get this information from their parents/it was never discussed. Education is power!! and it empowers anybody to make an informed decision...
    I went to a Catholic school and I'm Catholic and we were given education in the school on sexual matters and what to do if unfortunately you are pregnant....I thank the school and the speakers for the valid information which made me make informed decisions throughout the rest of my life. Lets be Proactive Versus Reactive...

  • @madamqueen3573
    @madamqueen3573 5 років тому +11

    Where is sex education in kenya. It should be mandatory teaching . So sad watching these young people not knowing importance of contraceptives. Its not only for family planning but other women health issues. Also stress importance on having pap smear if you are sexually active to prevent cervical cancer.

  • @vesharanyla1838
    @vesharanyla1838 5 років тому +3

    I love your show Tamima! watching from Canada ON

  • @justgracious3196
    @justgracious3196 5 років тому +5

    Tamima of all the contraceptives people talk about I never find anyone who talks about The Patch.

  • @terrykarey3553
    @terrykarey3553 5 років тому +3

    Very Educative story

  • @suewakuria6166
    @suewakuria6166 5 років тому +17

    Nowadays watu wanaogopa mimba kuliko HIV &AIDS 😂😂😂

  • @sabinaviolet805
    @sabinaviolet805 5 років тому +6

    Fear God

  • @alirazaali2448
    @alirazaali2448 5 років тому +3

    Good work Tamina God bless u mm nishatumia contraceptive but be specific I use inplant for 5 year I didn't see any compression I thank God

  • @babradomenic7564
    @babradomenic7564 5 років тому +2

    Very important show and topic Tamima, you are the best...

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 5 років тому +1

    Here in S.Korea,you cant access emergency pill over the counter,u have to have a doctor's prescription first, then buy the pill at the chemist

  • @rebeccamaina5865
    @rebeccamaina5865 5 років тому +2

    what i have never understood is why we women have to carry this burden of contraceptives.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 5 років тому

      You don't have to, sex is for 2 people. It's up to you to decide

  • @bettyadhiambo7883
    @bettyadhiambo7883 5 років тому +6

    Very informative and eye opener. Keep up with the good work because we i am learning a lot by watching your shows .

  • @bettykelitu5826
    @bettykelitu5826 5 років тому +17

    Waaah did that lady say she is in praise and worship and a leader in church youth group?? Young lady fornication is sin!

    • @aalyssee4425
      @aalyssee4425 5 років тому +2

      Judge not.

    • @emmahowokochronicles5764
      @emmahowokochronicles5764 5 років тому +5

      @Fnorkavash Fonrka Did you forget the part that God created it for marriage relationship ONLY

    • @emmahowokochronicles5764
      @emmahowokochronicles5764 5 років тому +13

      @@aalyssee4425 When the truth is spoken in love its not judgment, when God says something is Sin, it's sin, no matter how popular fornication is. The same Word will judge us all in the end.

    • @gladysnzilani3784
      @gladysnzilani3784 5 років тому +3

      @@emmahowokochronicles5764 Well put.

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 5 років тому +5

      Religious hypocrisy is real...let me stay in my duvet Pentecostal

  • @annwangari4579
    @annwangari4579 4 роки тому

    I really really love your show tamima and your dress code very smart in deed and finally you are a great host and tell those young girls to abstain

  • @silviamuruki3173
    @silviamuruki3173 5 років тому +3

    I really love the show

  • @michaelmboizi5012
    @michaelmboizi5012 5 років тому +4

    Eeeeee Angie en other gals, plz turn to abstaining till d right tym of marriage comes lyk am doing now, me I twice took pills but I nearly died, I couldn't lift my head up d nxt morning en my bf rushed me to a clinic I felt bad abt d whole situation en since since am abstaining

    • @emmahowokochronicles5764
      @emmahowokochronicles5764 5 років тому +1

      Your labour is not in vain girl, sex is worth the wait, don't let the hype fool you.

  • @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041
    @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041 3 роки тому

    Napenda watoto wakiwa staircase.That way .I can bring them up together and go back to my business like nothing ever happened.But we are different.

  • @annemumbi3724
    @annemumbi3724 5 років тому +1

    I would like to advice the youth to abstain until marriage. Those who are scared of getting pregnant am sorry to tell you you can get both a baby and an STD,s

  • @eldahwangeshi5271
    @eldahwangeshi5271 4 роки тому

    Tamima.... the show is awesome.....although am so worried because i used an emergency pill...and it's now 6 months... haven't recieved ma monthly periods.....need your help.....

  • @wacoiwacoi8512
    @wacoiwacoi8512 5 років тому +3

    My view,
    This burden of contraceptives on women would end when women involve the men.Sex aint air and we can live without it, so abstain for you who are not married,
    two Use natural contraceptive method (NFP)and enjoy good health and teamwork aproach to contraceptives,Iknow i will hear ooh kenyan men cant agree blah blah blah,Truth is men are more receptive of NFP than women ,its a misconception though coz its the best with a 99percent accuracy on pregnancy prevention.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 5 років тому +1

      Yeah I have used it for 7 years

    • @wacoiwacoi8512
      @wacoiwacoi8512 5 років тому +1

      @@mweusimrembo890congrats the headache of did i take or not take a pill,expiry dates on Injections not our worry.

  • @euniceevans7780
    @euniceevans7780 5 років тому +4

    Hii topic ni tricky sana, but informative, p2 nmetumia and it's saitanii, I was bleeding na kuhema, headache, add weight wacha tu, sex is not my thing now, I decided to close my legs, can't hold the side effect at 24

  • @mweusimrembo890
    @mweusimrembo890 5 років тому +2

    Poor young kiddos, for you natural may not work because your periods are not regular but pull out works..... artificial Mimi sijui bcoz I have never used any in my seven year marriage.

  • @iryniryn5250
    @iryniryn5250 5 років тому +1

    I love your shows Tamima and your dress code, who dresses you Tamima? Mind sharing? Where do you buy your clothes? Really nice outfits.

  • @jennydoureen5642
    @jennydoureen5642 5 років тому +1

    I am not judging but Angela's parents advice her on whaaaaaaaattt???I am sure she 18 19 20 21 then.
    Woi parents lets get serious what we tell our daughters.
    Alafu hawa watoto what do they know about sex and contraceptives seriously???

  • @wanjanation5553
    @wanjanation5553 5 років тому +1

    I really love real talk

  • @davidodhiambo4958
    @davidodhiambo4958 5 років тому +1

    I like this thanks Tamina

    • @marytemmis306
      @marytemmis306 5 років тому +1

      When you use contraceptive and you are not married is very risk sana cox automatically you will know you have a governor so you can sleep with anyone and you don't care coz obvious you have a governor, for me I can't advocate for it if you are single but for married one go on

  • @gorettimbugua4794
    @gorettimbugua4794 4 роки тому

    Teenagers should have their own facilities ,without mixing with the others, as it's done in same countrys

  • @aliceanyango770
    @aliceanyango770 4 роки тому

    I like ur dress code Tamima, ur very beautiful

  • @fridahkathambi9478
    @fridahkathambi9478 5 років тому +3

    Wat de interesting stry tamima i lyk it

  • @faithombeva7801
    @faithombeva7801 5 років тому +1

    At tamima what about the myth of contraceptive time doubling?I used the 3month injection but it took 6 month for me to get pregnant,and now am using the implant of 5 yrs,my question is will it also double to 5more yes to b pregnant?

    • @wacoiwacoi8512
      @wacoiwacoi8512 5 років тому +3

      Young lady ,Your fertility is not a disease to keep under medication all your young life,I wish you can take your health more seriously and explore Natural family planning,has no side effects yet most effective,also brings your (husband )to the forefront and you are able to do tis together,yor relationship improves(communication)You guys have to talk .Basically as a woman you are only fertile for about a max of 6 days,why would you take medicine for that???

    • @marianerima9404
      @marianerima9404 5 років тому +1

      Tamima is a talk show host. Plz talk to a medical practitioner. They will guide you. Every woman's body is different.

  • @favouredblessed2631
    @favouredblessed2631 5 років тому +1

    Condoms all the way your not only protecting yourself from pregnancy but also diseases

  • @janetluseno5855
    @janetluseno5855 5 років тому

    Nice show!! 👍👍👍 Thumbs up Tamima

  • @wilma1866
    @wilma1866 4 роки тому

    Not My “periodS”. Period.

  • @tremophat8244
    @tremophat8244 5 років тому +4

    I will adverice of u are still a young girl and u avent give birth don't use the contraception I wld adverice use after birth

  • @fl8734
    @fl8734 5 років тому

    Good talk

  • @vesharanyla1838
    @vesharanyla1838 5 років тому +1

    I love your show Tamima! watching from Canada ON

    • @josphine291
      @josphine291 5 років тому

      are you in Toronto?

    • @vesharanyla1838
      @vesharanyla1838 5 років тому

      @@josphine291 no I live in Hamilton a city 40min away from Toronto

    • @josphine291
      @josphine291 5 років тому +1

      @@vesharanyla1838 Oh nice. Are you kenyan? We can connect. I live in downtown Toronto.

    • @vesharanyla1838
      @vesharanyla1838 5 років тому +1

      @@josphine291 no I'm not kenyan. I'm Sudanese

  • @cathythuo8606
    @cathythuo8606 5 років тому +1

    Tamima you are awesome at your job! I think others should take a leaf from you. Watching from the UAE and addicted!

  • @emmamburu3559
    @emmamburu3559 5 років тому

    Encouraged

  • @niitekakaabbas6141
    @niitekakaabbas6141 5 років тому +1

    Does the use of these contraceptives cause low libido, ( wetness) yaani ile joto ya kujamiana kwa mwanamke hupotea?

    • @jackielynn7686
      @jackielynn7686 5 років тому +1

      Ndio to some women depending on the type

    • @niitekakaabbas6141
      @niitekakaabbas6141 5 років тому

      @@jackielynn7686 how now? Am try to understand but tell me nikama gani?

    • @aggieaggie8444
      @aggieaggie8444 5 років тому +1

      Injection kills morale

    • @alicemutuku8606
      @alicemutuku8606 4 роки тому

      @@jackielynn7686 pills pia but it varies na mtu

  • @sportsactuary8574
    @sportsactuary8574 5 років тому +1

    If y'all keep speaking Swahili or other regional tongues how do you expect other members of the African diaspora to enjoy?

    • @sportsactuary8574
      @sportsactuary8574 5 років тому

      @@mweusimrembo890 People that make youtube videos usually want adsense.

    • @sportsactuary8574
      @sportsactuary8574 5 років тому

      @@mweusimrembo890 In other words, F you non Swahili speakers. Hey, it's your name on the adsense check.

  • @marymwaniki6429
    @marymwaniki6429 5 років тому

    Pastor wako anaona???

  • @nenekarain539
    @nenekarain539 5 років тому

    BE AWARE YOUTH most of the said contraceptive have lend to the real today where unfertility is Soo spread in Africa.. Abstinence please

  • @imeldakins
    @imeldakins 5 років тому

    I took p2 after 3days and instillngot pregnant

    • @winniemoraa4204
      @winniemoraa4204 5 років тому

      imelda kins should be taken within a period of (72hrs),3 days not after...

  • @raelk66
    @raelk66 5 років тому

    Skip nayo

  • @mariaadhiambo4738
    @mariaadhiambo4738 4 роки тому

    ^ω^