I Have 8 Kids! | Blended Families on Real Talk with Tamima
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
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We talk about unique family set ups. Do you think blended families work?
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Tamima ask that Therapist what shall happen if the blended family father rapes the other woman's daughter and what happens when the two step children sleep among themselves and get kids or the second wife sleeps with step son and sire a kid. You are a great therapist I can, but help listeners understand the complex nature of this. Its live and common. Solve that dicey affair
THE TWO GUYS ,THEIR MATURITY IS JUST ON ANOTHER LEVEL
Indeed Nelie but they need counselling to mitigate on future regarding these innocent and vulnerable children. The journey they are yet to cover is a lot. Talking from experience. We are on fb by same name. Look us up and learn more
My step sons 33, 32,28 yrs old..I am 36yrs and my son 14yrs..we are very good friends and happy family..it works
Very important discussions in today's society because this is where we are!
keep it locked here
I am in a relationship and soon getting married to a single dad of two sons who are 21yrs and 13yrs old from different mothers. I have two daughters aged 11yrs and 3yrs old from different dads. We are planing to have a kid next year. Ours will be a super blended one.
All the best
@@gloriousmelody8207 thank you.
Wishing you well, Blessings to you
All the best girl
All the best sweetheart
Dominic and Kevin, you are a men enough, May Good LORD bless you, may you never lack something to feed those angels. You have a big heart,,,,,achana na these men wa hit and run yet mtoy ni mmoja. I salute you . Lots of love for you all.
ilove your show
it is so good keep on doing it my name Jacqueline and iam from st .Kitts
This was a good show. Ms. Tamima's interviewing skills are getting sharper every single day that passes - as she soldiers on in this business. I cannot wait to be a part of her audience when i come back home. Good job, Ms. Tamima. And BTW, Jackie and Aggie are wonderful guests. #Impressed.
Yes Tamima can you bring the divorced Mothers what i see here is currently happy accepted women by a society (which is a good thing)
Lisa Muturi yes
What they didn't mention here was that Agnes was a divorce mother of two when she met Charles.
Juliet a mom of four, but lost faith in marriage... I wish to bring my kids up alone than to go through hell again... I wish all those would like to remarried the best..... I like the show n it's programmes
Iam from Namibia isn't Kenyans but really i like your program infact i have learned plenty from you and i feel so proud to having you on my you tube as a follower, another words well done guys 👌
Emily Emily we have so much love for everyone....... visit our beautiful land
Yes, I have too thank you so much .my god bless you always😊
Emily Emily true
Me too like this so show a lot.more love from Zimbabwe
Well done Tamima ... this is amazing. Am in a blended family setup and I resonate quite well ...
Blending is a good thing as long as it's done all-inclusive. First priority is to consider the children's plight not your welfare(love, happiness and sex). Before you marry or get married with kids from previous relationship your kid's must be your priority because they are young, naive and vulnerable. A vulnerable kid is safe with the parent(single or both). A step parent cannot fill the void left that easy and with that in mind, you must act father and mother to your kids till they finally get assimilated to the conjoined arrangement. Please that in mind.
Finally i have hope of getting married am a single mum of 1⃣ i lost hope of getting married ❤️ this has encouraged me much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Samantha, I'm a single mom too of 1... But you know what, I pray every day for my future hubby though I don't know him yet but I believe in God. There's so much hope
i am a single father of one Kid. Loved this video
Samantha things happen. You are not a lone. God already defined each one of us destination. Just talk to Him, He is faithful to those who trust Him for provision
I have hope too
Am also a mum of 1
I am from a blended family but Alas! I was way too old when my step dad came into our life and I never called him dad at any time...It was such a struggle but I respected it and acknowledged that is was a dad .MAY HE RIP.
Mum Agnes,,,,,you are the best mum I can say.
Wao this is kind of men we need in our society iam happy to here this coz I've a son n iam a single mum but sometimes i fear but i blv there is good men outside there!
Sure en believe you will have one
@@mikie1862 Amen
Marryann God has a purpose for you. You can always get one loving husband but make sure your child's interests come first. I teach alot on FB- Relations coach. If you are in fb, like the page and be reading. Also Mshauri wamaisha too. Join and be learning. My website is in progress by the same name. Soon you can join and learn more then. If you have specific questions there is a whatsup line to engage and ask key questions
Tamima you got a great counselor.
She’s amazing and wise
Thanks for watching! Don't miss the next episode!
I fell in love with the counsellor..she is so good...and pure sweet with handling issues professionally...the other guest is so cool mum who seems to know how to handle her issues...she is a super mom...my worry is why women at this century will not tell their guys they have kids..but will blind them...till they explode it the last minute.I wud prefer pple to accept themselves and to speak the truth so that men will have a chance to weigh his options.Anyway all the best to all of these blended family.💝👏🌷💖it is a beautiful show..thax Tamima.❤.
I have two kids a gal en a boy I got married but it didn't work coz of life threatening. My family, my friends tells me tht I'm out dated with a load of kids I will never get a man to marry I'd rather go back to my ex hubby na ni vumilie. This show has made me have a positive vision in life. Thanks Tamina for this.
Your family and friends are wromg5my dear. Returning back to an abusive relationship is a no go zone. God has a good plan for you. Refuse to be validated by society and to do that which your heart desires.
Join our fb pg Relations coach or mshauri wamaisha and be learning more. It's never too late. Our website is in formation stage
One of the greatest TV shows in Kenya. keep the real talks alive Tamima!
I wonder how it's not known worldwide,,,,This is our Oprah show....better even
Yes..mary abongo we are humbled. Keep it Switch Tv
We're following in Zimbabwe
Dont try this at home it might backfire it needs alot of practice and preparedness especcially with female kids above 20
Very true
For me it's an unfair setup to everyone involved
I love these two ladies, very mature!
I really love this show so educative keep it up Tamima much love ❤👏👏👏👏👏
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This man Kenvin is one in a million 👏🏽
I enjoy seeing this Soo educative and hope giving ..Tamima kudos
Tamima i love your show all the way from SA
I’m a product of a polygamist family who happens to have had a diverse blended family and I’ve enjoyed the latter best . I can’t ask for anything else. Very proud of my many grandkids from all the kids who have very loving relationship. Their wives & husbands are always informed before they join the family. Good luck y’all
As a widow n mother of 6kids am hoping to get married again one of these days
Its possible dear. Put your trust in God and seek His grace and guidance. All is well.
Lets cont waiting un to da Lord we r da same shoe
Mum jackie u are talking to me am a widow and a mum of two,, but I have lost hope,, of getting married once more,, but with this my hopes are once more high
Am a widow of 2kids but I loss hope
Don't lose hope of getting married. Have faith and trust in God. It's not over till it's over, says the Lord. Join our fb pg Relations coach or mshauri wamaisha and learn more, get encouraged and share together. You will realise you aren't alone. We also have what's group to join and share. Website is in formation stage.
Could you do a show with those children (adults today) who went through Step-parent Atrocities? Asante
Men's like Dominic and Kevin are rare to be found. .Congratulations👏👏 You are one in a million God bless your family's
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I love this show,I have watched four episodes so far,it speaks of real issues affecting the Kenyan people.Amazing show.Keep up the good work Tamima
ln my opinion my kids came first ...
ladies for God sake stop hiding your kids be bond enough the earlier the better ...kaa hakutaki kiumane at the word go.
It's really encouraging ... how you guys are bringing people of all sectors of life no discrimination which is amazing. 😘😘😘
Hello Young, thank you for the feedback. . Keep watching Switch, You'll Love It!
That's the key thing: "No Discrimination" as far as life is concerned we're all children of God. I personally wouldn't mind raising and educating anyones children within my means. It comes down to resources and capacity, as well as the values one is born and raised with. Ultimately it is our responsibility as a community to ensure the growth, development and emotional wellbeing our children and youth, to create a better future society. That is also how blessings keep coming to you, your family and the future generations of your legacy.
Chris Kirika Kierieni u sound like my mum and dad ❤️
Such a powerful discussion.
Sure, thanks for watching!
This show is so amazing...educative and encouraging.
This is great Topic Tamima especially in our African culture this is great talk and touches many lives God above all be blessed.
yesterday was the first time i came across your show and already i have been encouraged by the debates that your show encourages.However my one issue is that as a woman whose mother tongue is not your own, i find it hard to understand. I notice that your guest aswell as yourself speak in english, isnt it possible for you all to speak in english thorughout the shows or apply subtitle so as to be acessible to a wider group?. This would be super nice. thanks
philly13900 my worry aswell
Domy u did a good thing, kuodokea wazazi my marriage eliisha juu ya hiyo
That maturity, 👏👏👏
Kuki Magana had 5 parents. 5- ... she says it was tricky... mum 1 says no ice-cream... mum 2 ice cream is okay... mum 3 different opinion... well, tricky. this talk is real. Good stuff
Complex culture .I am 54 years and I was born before my mum got married. Nimepitia mateso from my step Dad and his family. They even put The hatred to my sister who follows me till today..I ended up looking for my biological father when I was 50. .God loved me and opened ways for me. I never died that the good thing. As I have said I looked for where I came from and I have loving half brothers and sister. I wish I live in Kenya I would have to your talk especially highlight the hatred of a sibling for calling her father my father .
Thank God HE OPENED A WAY FOR YOU NA KWA HII DUNIA UPITIA MENGI
Wow, sad but finally you are here happy and blessed. Parents are good but sometimes what they do with innocent children can be hurting and inhuman. It's well, thank God
I love this,I got courage to go ahead!
Wow, keep going dear!
Violet don't
Mungu atangulie
Go a head but in every junction or round about, put your children a head of your happiness and matters of love
some 3 yrs ago, I was confused by this thing of ' i can find my daughter a father and be happy" .. then I ended up getting another kid with a worse man. in a worse relationship. at 21 yrs. I have come to leave with my mistake, but it's not funny/easy to now find a new relationship with 2 kids from two different fathers.. I'm 25 now, I haven't been in any other relationship again to date. for 3 yrs now
Trust in God.
But first know your worth and that of your babies..make a firm foundation and later think of settlement
Tamina is a great host.
I now have Hope's,my daughters will get a dad🤣🤣
Yes why not? Speak to God and see things unravel. Join us on relations coach in fb and learn more
Mama girls tutapata dear
Lemm hope pia mm nitapata
Wao am so impressed ,,,,, I love u Tamina..... Keep keeping the show alive it real touches our lives
Honestly I now want to get a husi,had lost hope but I now know there is someone out there who will love me the way I am
Indeed Martha. God has one special one for you. Join the conversation in fb by same name and learn more. Its well
nice one my ex husband started problem when i got sec pregnancy and he ddnt want another baby so we separated and i broke my heart i struggle with my kids God is my strength. congrats Domi we need more like yu .kids are blessings from God always .it's good kuambia mtu u kweli wa mambo if someone I'll love yu or no I'll always say it kama baya baya I came to know there are good men so I have hope now
Wish the other women would speak. I only hear the current wives speaking. The other women are out there wounded.
Not all! I am in the situation of the "other woman" my son loves his step mom. When he visits them I am relaxed because I know he has another mom who loves him. Healing always comes if one is willing. Relationships are fluid it didn't work between us so why should I not allow my son's father to be in a relationship where he flourishes? Heh heh! It's life my dear! It's not always bad.
But sometimes its just the "other woman" who didn't want the man. So we don't need to be wounded if we agreed to let him go.
Its not all scenarios where the step mom is a mpango wa kando. No
Yes, they are so many. Join relations coach or mshauri wamaisha fb and learn. We also have whatsup group for sharing and learning together as a family of broken souls. Welcome
@@balancedviewpoint7418 kindly give me the watsap number
Alice wangari +254 773019400 please
Dominic u are a man n a half with a stand God bless you
Who is here watching, so waoh💪💪💪🙏
i listen to such and i get some hope lol. So, my future husband is out there mmmh. Real men still exist.
I'm single and I can confess I love single moms and won't hesitate to settle down with one,I just can't wait.
@@lawrenceochieng7206 we need positive people like you in our country. We single parents are seen as outcasts. They just have no idea the journey one has been through.
@@RoselyneMburu I hear you dear,I really do,why do the kids have to suffer for what they know absolutely nothing about,,and the society should stop being too judgemental to single parents,
Roselyne there's always hope, how old is your kid if you don't mind please?
@@lawrenceochieng7206 sure there is. he is two
the mature lady speaker in bluish attire is very sober...i like her. She has wisdom.
Kumbe there's hope...
Yes there is always hope
Yes, call upon God and see magic. Join us in relations coach in fb and learn more
Am mary with a blended family its not easy but am happy
Am learning day by day in this channel ,,,am really challenged in some point bt by experts I feel will keep going ,keep up tamima these is helping many esp me
My dad have been married to different women for the last like 14years and he doesn't care about us but the wives r always right and we r wrong.the current one we do not know her but my dad really fears her things have to be done her way.she has a daughter who just joined university and she is being given everything she asks for.while dad have totally forgotten about us in fact as for now we do not have a place to call home.am really sad and stressed by my dad. but we r just getting by me being the first born I have to be a pillar to my siblings
Hugs drng it will be well
Gods will never fail you may he bless you and your siblings
May God see you through
Your siblings shall have a favor from God, don't worry
Be strong. Good times will come❤
Wah this is encouraging I never thought there are good men 😭😭😭
Am a single mum of 4 was once married and I had a relationship whereby the guy didn't know I've got kids but when I thought of telling Him abt the kids i decided to break up with him bcz of how he reacted after seeing a post on my Facebook account of my 3rd child so I hope one day I'll be able to find a good man who will accept me and my sweet Angels
Yes its possible as long as you don't go looking desperately. God shall provide one. Seek His wisdom and shall be well. Connect with me on Relations coach and mshauri wamaisha fb and be learning more. We have whatsup number to mingle and bond too. It's never too late till God says so. Welcome
I got points to move on thanks for this
Thanks for watching, you'll love it!
Me too
Me tew
I love jacky u have talked sence
my handsome son Calls me mummy,while my children Call my hubby daddy nice topic.l.love this show it really educates.
Men like Dominic and Kevin are rare to find, may God bless you all
Indeed millicent maybe you join us on relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
I love you both mummy Aggy and Jacky
some woman divided my family apart, she made my daughter be taken away from me and that i could not communicate with my girl who was only 5yrs at the time, i pray to God that one day she my be here to watch and know how blended family goes as she has never had a blended family growing up but wants to spoil it for others...my little girl's life has never been the same again and for this reason av always said a mothers tears will never go in vain
Involve elders or go to court. Don't give up on your child so easily. Fight with everything you've got. Waanike kwa facebook if ypu habe to.
All is well madam. That was cruel indeed. Take heart. You may join us on relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
Powerful n educative topic, am a product of blended family my moved in with 3kids ain't easy
Indeed it's not easy but doable. You may join us on relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
I hv bn in a blended family for 8yrs,met my now X with 2kids,n we together had 1.i was so close to the kids,coz i met them too young btwn 3-8yrs.i decided to cut the ties wd them after separating wd the dad coz of their mum.she used to insult and call me names for no reason.they call me text me to go back hme,that i was a gdmum ,bt i hv no bznes wd them whatsoever.i dd my best to love,care n bring them up,only God knows how much i sacrificed for them.So wen they call me i feel the pain that their dad caused me,.This talk has revived me.think i can love again..God bless me with the man of my dream🙏🏾
Yes you can get a man, why not. If God has not finished with you, no human being can say its impossible. Keep loving those kids because they are innocent. When God favours you with one, he will love your kid back so well to make up to the love you showered another woman's kid. Life can give you a second chance but remember to tread with caution and all the time remember to put your kids welfare before any man. Join us on relations coach and or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
I have a boyfriend that I love so much..He is a single father to a baby girl..I already feel so much connected to the child in a way I cant explain...I am happy real talk for channel like this
That's good. Single father meaning the mother's kid is alive or dead? Until you are sure, do not invest your love beyond 50% before you know the truth about the mother. Join us on relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
How do women leave kids with their Dad. MINE i say CAN NOT be raised by another woman as long as i am alive.
My dear don't say so😢 mine are being raised by another woman n I'm not allowed to talk with them n this woman made the man to take home my daughter the first born since I got married with her. I travelled but I really say the day I will lad to the kenyan soil hee they know it will be worse for them i.e. "the couple"
Correct. A live or dead!
It depends on circumstances, legal, death or traditions. Different situations happen uniquely. Maybe yours is special case but if the court rules in his favour then you have no option.
Join us on fb relations coach and learn more. You can ask questions there we respond
Thanks for gd advice Really show group
Nice topic @ Tamima really encouraged now I can get a nice guy ad b married
Yes you can. Dial God's number and the rest is history. Connect with us on relations or mshauri wamaisha fb to learn more
Good program. Thank you
Well done 👍 Tamima
And Jacky keya
Nice show,thanks guys
I really love the conversations..
I have one child who is already grown-up. I never brought him up my mum did. Im so scared of brought up some1's child.
Don't be scared instead ask God for direction. Maybe there was a reason you allowed your mom to take your role then but each case scenarios are unique. Join us relations coach or mshauri wamaisha fb and learn more
😂😂 I had to come here it's crazy to raise kids who are not yours and the mother of the kids hate you with a passion and poison her kids against you am here to say some a few good step mother's go through alot and for me am at a point of watch and say nothing for peace. May God help and bless the step mother's who are hated and fought for marrying the kids dad baby mothers who are full of hate and bile mungu awaone tena awashangazeee
QUIET ENCOURAGING , WE HAVE NOW HOPES AS SINGLE MUMS TO THREE KIDS
Awe Emelda God bless you Agnes kudos God bless your family
wooòooòw if Sheila had 4and got Dommy then us still we can get good lesson I have a pen and a book
i don't even care that abbas gullet is the major stakeholder of switch tv...switch tv is progressive...tamima u r on to something great!maintain.
Indeed, ownership doesn't matter, the contents the tv presents are awesome. Join us on relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb and learn more
Auntie Aggie my mentor😍😍👌
Yaama... in arabic means ewemama
Sahiha
Well!you are on your own in this blended family movement.i refuse in Jesus name!😪.
Amen😃
😂🙆
What does that mean? Nobody predicts this, so it was not their 1st plan. Are you refusing future love and happiness in Jesus name?
I'm a mum of two kids and my fiancee has one son we r planning on settling down soon it's my prayer all goes well
Make sure your children's welfare come first and your happiness plus love second. Such an arrangement is tricky if not handled well with caution. Never sacrifice your kids welfare at the altar of your love life. You will end up messing self and the innocent kids.
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Ur fiancee ako na mtoto??mama mtoto ako wapi?is she alive? If she is one day she will come back to destroy ur marriage
What a good talk.
Amazing show ❤
I love this topic plus these women are very eloquent in their speech.
Coming from a multi - blended family the only question I have is: the women who become second wives to men who are already married and not divorced yet, are they not scared of their eternal destination coz that to me sounds like they're playing the roles of mistresses only in the form of being known and not hidden by the men involved?
I know no one is perfect, but if any one who has this answer, I'll really appreciate.
Thank you!
Anlisa, any woman who joins a man with kids that already know their mother or the mother has not officially been divorced/detached from that home is doing it at her peril. It's hard to draw a clear line as much as it's hard to feel secure and contented. You are absolutely right on that.
But in today's relationships many ladies wouldn't care about that, that's why most of them end up beaten shy 2,3 -5 times till they give up to fate. I endeavour to mentor many in challenging relationships. Maybe you can join and be learning. You are also free to ask as many questions as you can fb mshauri wamaisha or relations coach. Welcome
Very powerful show I like it
I am a single mum of two and I hope to get married to a man with children. All children will be equal and once you set that example as a couple and agree on parenting methods it works. However, it takes time to build the family and all parties including children’s feelings and opinions must be heard. Children are part of that family so decisions should be made with them not for them.
However being abroad it is difficult to find and build a blended Kenyan family.
Why get married to a man with kids preference dear?just tell God to give you a good man. God's choices and purpose on us is divine and absolute. We can't choose for ourselves. You will be surprised to end up to a man that has never married before. Leave it to God to choose for you. But never appear desperate for any man showing interest on you and secondly always remember, your kids welfare comes a head of your love and happiness chase. It can never be any other way. Children are innocent and very vulnerable. They rely on the loving parent to protect them. Maybe you join relations coach or mshauri wamaisha in fb you learn and be contributing by asking questions
Good show Tamima!!
Love this
I have both a stepmom and stepdad
Well said ladies
I love this show
sheila ako na mwanaume soo unique to find in Kenya
Thumb up Angie
Wanawake tujifunze kusema ukweli bona mtu afiche watoi kwanza alafu saa zile chali ashafall nawewe ndo unamwambie😂😂😂😂😂😂 noma aki
So much educating
Great show Tamima...👍👍👍
The woman with 8 kids looks like she is 21 years
Her's are 3 + 5 gots his husband with