A Day in the life of a Lonely PhD Student living alone in America

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  • Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
  • A Day in the life of a Lonely PhD Student living alone in America
    hey guys!! today's video is all about The Dark Side of Doing a PhD | Cry With | I'm not sure I can do this anymore!
    send love please hahaha,
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  • @artisticromance
    @artisticromance 6 місяців тому +101

    Phone vlogs are totally perfect, if they suit you! But please don't add any pressure to yourself. We'll always stand with you, Vee.

    • @MrBjorn6
      @MrBjorn6 6 місяців тому +2

      With 2024 technology phone vlogs are fine 😊

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +5

      Awww bestie!!! Thank you 😭 I guess sometimes I overthink this part so thank you for the reassurance 💛💛

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      @@MrBjorn6you have a point here lool 👏🏾💛

  • @veronicabrownevans1365
    @veronicabrownevans1365 6 місяців тому +26

    Vee, you are such a light of positivity and inspiration! Your videos helped me tremendously while I was completing my Master's degree and struggling a lot. Thank you so much! Now you hang in there! Academia is hard no matter what level. The joys, the wins, the tears, and the doubts - it's all part of it. And just envision yourself on graduation day! It’ll all be worth it! 🎉

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      This is super sweet of you!! Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. I honestly appreciate you taking the time out to leave this comment!! It makes me so happy knowing that my videos are helping others! 🎉💛

  • @majapapaya7525
    @majapapaya7525 6 місяців тому +10

    THE ESSAY CRISIS VIDEOS HAVE BROUGHT ME HERE GIRL THAAAAANK YOU I LOVE YOU YOU KEEP ME ALIVE WHILE I WRITE MY MASTER THESIS IN 7 DAYS FML WHY DID I MIX UP THE DEADLINES LOL WISH ME LUCK

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +2

      Heyyy hey welcome to the club 😂. It’s chaotic over here but we never give up. You’ve got this I’m rooting for you!! I hope all goes well for you. Good luck 🥳💛

  • @lakshiboolaky7762
    @lakshiboolaky7762 6 місяців тому +17

    You can do this girl ❤. You are already Dr Vee.

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +3

      Awww I will actually cry! I still cannot get over it. It still doesn’t feel real 😂

    • @lakshiboolaky7762
      @lakshiboolaky7762 6 місяців тому

      @@drveekativhu you deserve it. God bless you ❤️

  • @cathyrum1990
    @cathyrum1990 6 місяців тому +10

    loving your hair and fresh face.The past vlogs I could tell that you were exhausted!!You can do this Vee.Proud of all your achievements💐

    • @FaizelMoosa-og3yl
      @FaizelMoosa-og3yl 6 місяців тому +1

      Wig?????

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank youuuu!! And I was really going through it but I 100% feel better now!! 🥳💛

  • @emanasifkhan1310
    @emanasifkhan1310 6 місяців тому +3

    I've been watching you since your essay crisis days & you motivate me A LOT! My A levels is almost at an end now & you've been my inspo for being the "smart" girl of the class lol. Thanks a lot! We love you and we appreciate you. You've come this far & I know Allah will make you achieve all your goals in a way that is better than what you can even imagine InshaAllah

  • @earthandbeing
    @earthandbeing 6 місяців тому +5

    😌ah... you get to see other people in the building from the laundry room, student vibes✔️

  • @DeiB154
    @DeiB154 6 місяців тому +3

    Yes Vee, phone vlogs are completely fine. You can do this girl!!! You will find your rhythm and finish! ❤

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      Heyyy bestie!! Thank you for the green light 😭👏🏾💛

  • @robhillary8728
    @robhillary8728 6 місяців тому +4

    A PhD can be so difficult. When I did mine, a supervisor passed on some helpful words.
    In her view, yes, you become a doctor in philosophy. Not because philosophy is to do with knowledge. But in the other meaning of being philosophical, to push through disappointment or difficulties.
    Always goes without saying, but taking a proper break for a couple of days annoyingly fixes things

    • @FaizelMoosa-og3yl
      @FaizelMoosa-og3yl 6 місяців тому

      There ate PhD s and then there are PhD s

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing these wise words! I will definitely keep this the back of my mind when I am having my off days! 💛

  • @malsi840
    @malsi840 6 місяців тому

    “The law of attraction is nothing without the law of action” YES! TRUE WORDS SPOKEN ❤

  • @silvialogan9226
    @silvialogan9226 6 місяців тому +5

    Vee, phone vlogs are perfectly fine to me. Doing a PhD is difficult and a lot of work. Doing a PhD is equivalent to a full-time job. Shopping where I live in Canada is expensive. Sometimes I spend over $200 or even $300 on groceries. Even buying clothes and shoes are expensive and cost over $100. Buying one small hot chocolate at Starbucks costs over $6.00.

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Okay I think this is a sign for me to listen to you all .. I guess phone vlogs have the green light 🥳🎉. And honestly everything is super expensive these days! It’s crazy 😢. And you’re absolutely right doing a PhD is a full time job in itself!! 😭💛

  • @tlhokomeloduiker575
    @tlhokomeloduiker575 6 місяців тому +6

    Congratulations on becoming Dr Vee🎉❤

  • @Curiouscrazy
    @Curiouscrazy 6 місяців тому +1

    I CAN RELATE to the period coming, I'm so emotional that week!

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      It’s the worst lool. My emotions are always all over the place it’s crazy!!

  • @ndidiamakaakpunonu1232
    @ndidiamakaakpunonu1232 6 місяців тому

    Keep pushing gorgeous little sis, am currently in my final year PhD, Words alone cant explain the journey but I wish you so well.

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Awww thank you so much!! And I still have a long way to go but I will keep pushing 😅. Good luck with your studies!! You’re nearly there xx

  • @nostalgia545
    @nostalgia545 5 місяців тому

    Vee!!!! I’ve watched you for a few years now! I’m from California and I just moved to Pomona for my school too!! I hope to run into you!!

  • @TanakaMap
    @TanakaMap 6 місяців тому +1

    Lol I love how shocked she is at the prices like she didn’t buy the items herself 😂😂

  • @chikenleg9549
    @chikenleg9549 6 місяців тому

    honestly any vlogging style is ok by me! I loved the shopping snippet

  • @mechellekelsick1906
    @mechellekelsick1906 6 місяців тому +2

    Plant tips: Change the water, put some rocks, take the dead bamboo out, and water lightly. does need that much water

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Ooouuu!! Thank you for sharing this!! 💛

  • @fairy_stanning8226
    @fairy_stanning8226 6 місяців тому

    You got this, Vee! Self-love day is all we need before we go into grind session again. And phone vlog is totally fine. You are amazing regardless

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you!! And yesss the self care definitely was needed haha. Glad I did it and thank you for the love 💛💛

  • @FlorLinarez27
    @FlorLinarez27 6 місяців тому

    Phone blogs are more than fine! And please focus on feeling better and keep trying to balance. We will be here for you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nakesandou228
    @nakesandou228 6 місяців тому +3

    This is a sign that you will make it to the graduation date!!! ❤the Bamboo is a liar😅

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      I am here for this positive energy!!! Thank you bestie 💛💛💛

  • @Drganguli
    @Drganguli 6 місяців тому

    True loneliness arising out of the pursuit of independent research is a real problem for PhD students

  • @ericaashley_
    @ericaashley_ 5 місяців тому

    hi vee!! i know i'm kinda late but i love your videos, no matter the style or production value! we're all here to see you and support you no matter what 💗

  • @LearnwithMsC
    @LearnwithMsC 6 місяців тому

    Sending you love. Hang in there. You got this!

  • @mmmanal_
    @mmmanal_ 6 місяців тому

    you're doing absolutely great !! your videos are such an inspiration and motivation for all of us studying currently. your vids helped me back then with finishing my bachelor thesis on time ❤ so thank you for that ❤
    Also please please look out for your health and do not let the stress consume you. i am currently doing my masters program and i stressed myself so much out that i developed a peripheral facial palsy. luckily i won't have any long lasting symptoms but it could have gone much worse.
    so listen to your body ! and as much as we perceive breaks as "wasting time" they are soooo important in the long run.
    you need to rest and you deserve to rest ❤
    pls take care of yourself and before you know it you'll have your PhD 🎉
    P.S. : Sorry for my English i am not a native speaker 😅

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      Hey bestie, thank you for leaving me this lovely comment! I love how you all are looking out for me. I totally agree with what you’re saying, self care needs to be a priority always!!
      I am sorry to hear about your personal experience. Happy to hear that your situation won’t be long term!
      Your English is perfect!! I understood everything that you highlighted ☺️🥳💛

  • @secilianndumeni9036
    @secilianndumeni9036 6 місяців тому

    I don’t mind what you vlog with please😅will listen to you all day everyday 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @kimberlyosse
    @kimberlyosse 6 місяців тому

    Bby girl is back ❤thats my Vee

  • @lacelessparasite
    @lacelessparasite 6 місяців тому

    Challenging you today whilst writing my masters essay, really didn’t want too but I thought what would Vee do? So I powered through it. 💪🏻🥰

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      I love this mindset shift!! And omg.. love that WWVD motivational moment!! 🥳

  • @BeautyModisa98
    @BeautyModisa98 6 місяців тому

    I'm happy for you😭
    You go girl❤️

  • @ntuthukontshiza
    @ntuthukontshiza 6 місяців тому

    Congratulations on becoming Dr Vee💕

  • @MrBjorn6
    @MrBjorn6 6 місяців тому +2

    I recommend you follow MD/PHD and Me. She's at Stanford and has overcome many obstacles.

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for the suggestion 🎉

  • @anneadvocates
    @anneadvocates 6 місяців тому

    Omg Vee you look more and more like your Mum!! 💛

  • @mariellyalvarez
    @mariellyalvarez 6 місяців тому

    Vee, it doesn't matter what you use (phone or camera). We want to see you!! ❤

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      So sweet!! Thank you 💛💛

  • @sofiapelosanimais
    @sofiapelosanimais 6 місяців тому

    The phone vlogs are just fine!! It's totally ok ❤ 😊

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for the reassurance 🥳

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      🥳💛🥳💛🥳💛

  • @admiralkamp_clashmini
    @admiralkamp_clashmini 6 місяців тому +2

    Think you may have forgotten to put a thumbnail Vee 😅 - amazing video nonetheless

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      Oppsss technical error 😂

  • @myriamtouil3347
    @myriamtouil3347 6 місяців тому +1

    Totaly fine with phone vlog ❤❤ we love you Vee

  • @jayjayeffron9249
    @jayjayeffron9249 6 місяців тому +4

    Just a general reminder to you, my sister: God has not left you and when things around us seem to be going in opposition to our desired outcomes, It's just even more reason for us to draw closer to him and to pick up the word of God and allow it to remind us that the sufferings of this present time are not to be compared to the glory which shall be revealed in us (Romans 8:18). Our hope is not in life on this earth or in our accomplishments on this earth because we can take none of them with us. Our hope is spending eternity with the king of glory and being at his side as he gives us the life that we were intended to have from the very beginning before sin ever entered this world. Lean on God, if he can make the mountains to stand firm through generations, how much more can he get you through a PhD program with the utterance of his word ? Don't forget that my sister, may God bless you and keep you may his face shine upon you and may he give you peace. Amen.

    • @Daughter0fTh3King
      @Daughter0fTh3King 6 місяців тому +1

      AMEN !! Rest in him, give him your worry and anxieties. ❤

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +2

      Wow what a powerful message!! Thank you!! I really appreciate you taking the time out to leave this thoughtful message. With God by my side anything is possible and I will lean into him!! He knows the plan that he has for me Jeremiah 29:11 🥳 so I have a lot of faith to keep going on this journey that I am on 💛

  • @profrx
    @profrx 6 місяців тому +1

    All the best Vee.

  • @kgdskb
    @kgdskb 6 місяців тому +12

    5:11 I don't mind, Vee~ 😊🌸

    • @kiekie3558
      @kiekie3558 6 місяців тому

      Love u Vee🫶❤❤

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank youuu 🎉🎉

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому +1

      @@kiekie3558awww love you too!!

    • @kgdskb
      @kgdskb 6 місяців тому

      @@drveekativhu ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lorin358
    @lorin358 6 місяців тому

    Yeah it’s where you shopped … 😮 that is crazy expensive 😩 you deserve it though ❤

  • @leonaxlily
    @leonaxlily 6 місяців тому +1

    Sending love from London 💓

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you!! Sending you love back from Cali 🥳💛

  • @starryxblue
    @starryxblue 6 місяців тому +1

    Girl use your phone! I would watch you in any quality but your phone vlogs look great.

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Awwww thank you!!! 😭💛💛💛

  • @elizamad5846
    @elizamad5846 6 місяців тому

    Love the phone vlogs

  • @ibukunojediran5911
    @ibukunojediran5911 6 місяців тому

    You got this 🎉.. ❤❤❤

  • @V1olentG
    @V1olentG 6 місяців тому +4

    I'm sooo proud of youuu🩷🩷🩷
    You are my source of inspiration I really aspire to be you girl 😾

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you so much!! 💛💛💛💛

  • @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001
    @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001 6 місяців тому +2

    Please take the Bamboo from water and get some soil for it instead. You can do itttt😍

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for the tip!! And for rooting for me 🤭💛

  • @nanfukadiana7922
    @nanfukadiana7922 6 місяців тому

    Anything concerning Dr Vee am all in , if it’s the videos with ur phone 😜😀😀😀do your thing , get us that content

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      You have all approved and I shall listen 🤣😂. Thank you bestie 💛💛💛

  • @CatchingFeelingz
    @CatchingFeelingz 6 місяців тому +1

    If u like acai bowls, ubatuba is great!! I think they also offer student discounts!

  • @_talkwithsandiswa_
    @_talkwithsandiswa_ 6 місяців тому

    Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy love it!

  • @citychicdoc1596
    @citychicdoc1596 6 місяців тому +1

    Hang in there!

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      I’m gunna keep going!! 🎉🎉

  • @cletiansambo5032
    @cletiansambo5032 6 місяців тому +1

    We don't mind the phone vlogs😊 Dr Vee

  • @_talkwithsandiswa_
    @_talkwithsandiswa_ 6 місяців тому

    hope to run into you one of these days - Zim girlies in Cali

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Zim girls to the world and back!! 🥳💛💛

  • @lizasquartz2634
    @lizasquartz2634 6 місяців тому

    GIRL GIVE US PHONE VLOGS. LOVE YOU.

  • @NdahambelelaHaifene
    @NdahambelelaHaifene 6 місяців тому +2

    DR VEE 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @kgdskb
    @kgdskb 6 місяців тому +2

    11:38 let's gooooooooo Vee 😊😊

  • @ohtoricp3272
    @ohtoricp3272 6 місяців тому +1

    Hello, Vee!

  • @koteto111
    @koteto111 6 місяців тому

    please vlog!

  • @kgdskb
    @kgdskb 6 місяців тому +1

    VEE!!!!! WOOHOOOO~ 🎉❤

  • @MrBjorn6
    @MrBjorn6 6 місяців тому +1

    California is expensive Vee not the USA!!!

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Honestly!! It’s costing me!! I cannot believe my eyes hahah 😂🤣

  • @sebastianmoyano5223
    @sebastianmoyano5223 6 місяців тому

    👋👋👋👋👋

  • @nkanyezitshabalala5256
    @nkanyezitshabalala5256 6 місяців тому +1

    First on here!!!

  • @ntobsiey09
    @ntobsiey09 6 місяців тому

    Please do phone vlogs🥹♥️

    • @drveekativhu
      @drveekativhu  6 місяців тому

      Coming right up 🥳💛💛