Don’t Say This When You Resign from Your Company

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  • @andylacivita
    @andylacivita  Рік тому +12

    🆓 FREE LETTER OF RESIGNATION TEMPLATE! bit.ly/LaCivitaResignationLetter

  • @vinnieriley7227
    @vinnieriley7227 10 місяців тому +215

    Screw class, go out in a blaze of glory.

    • @cuixinshi
      @cuixinshi 10 місяців тому +16

      THIS just say “ my last day is____”

    • @yolandas.6193
      @yolandas.6193 8 місяців тому +9

      I did yesterday.

    • @vinnieriley7227
      @vinnieriley7227 8 місяців тому +16

      @@yolandas.6193
      Good on you mate. You'll find something better soon enough. And that crappie old workplace will be a distant memory.

    • @Powerbear26
      @Powerbear26 6 місяців тому

      Glorious purpose

    • @Beautifullyflawed824
      @Beautifullyflawed824 Місяць тому

      As a nurse manager and nursing has become about politics I want to go nuts! In my resignation or step down letter but mm lol

  • @sayhoman
    @sayhoman 7 місяців тому +85

    As an attorney, there's an exception to this. If you are forced to resign due to discrimination, harassment, or due to some retaliation in response to your lawful whistleblowing activity, please be sure to leave a paper trail of why you're leaving and be sure to have a copy for yourself so that your attorney can use it as an evidence.

    • @respectfullytruthful
      @respectfullytruthful 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm going to consult my attorney about this. If my attorney agrees, I'm going to say I'm leaving due to a hostile workplace. That's how the attorney described the workplace in a warning letter. I changed my retirement plans by 2 years because* the managers are stressing me out. I'm not being quiet about anything. Thank you counselor.

    • @sayhoman
      @sayhoman 5 місяців тому +4

      @@respectfullytruthful now, be mindful that many people misunderstand what "hostile workplace" means. If your boss or coworkers are just *mean* to you, then that alone is not good enough for a lawsuit. However, if they ridicule, mock, harass you based on your race, gender, religion, gender, discrimination, etc, then it may become unlawful. Talk to your lawyer for legal advice.

    • @respectfullytruthful
      @respectfullytruthful 5 місяців тому

      @@sayhoman Thank you for the suggestions. I'm currently on FMLA . I fall under a protected class. My attorney is going to assist me with filing an EEOC complaint. I understand I can file myself, but I don't have the emotional bandwidth. I'm on a performance plan, but they never honored any of the accommodations. I'm running the clock down and working on an exit plan. I plan on using as much of the 12 weeks of FMLA, as medically possible. I wish I would have engaged an attorney sooner, but hindsight is 20/20.

    • @VaCisneros-oo8tz
      @VaCisneros-oo8tz 5 місяців тому +1

      What about when they owe you bonuses and I already know they are trying to get rid off me by launching other workers against me? I've been asking my bosses verbally about them bonuses and they always change the subject on me and tell me that later they'll speak to me about it and I've never sent them an email because someone else did this and she was fired on the spot.

  • @bastienethier9169
    @bastienethier9169 8 місяців тому +84

    They don’t give notice when they get rid of you why should you do it

  • @krystal1070
    @krystal1070 6 місяців тому +27

    Why should I give them time for me to leave, when they can fire me in one day

  • @mr.x8259
    @mr.x8259 4 місяці тому +19

    I quit my job without notice. I told my boss in my resignation letter that the training I received was inadequate, that they do everything ass-backwards, and it was stressing me out. My boss was practically begging me to stay, but I can’t do jobs that don’t have specific instructions.

    • @Scarlet-Enchantress
      @Scarlet-Enchantress 3 місяці тому +1

      I’m at that point personally
      Exact same thing is going on

  • @A_Birds_Nest
    @A_Birds_Nest 9 місяців тому +41

    Just walk away without saying aanything, it will make them think you'll come back one day until they find out they're wrong

  • @sniper9961
    @sniper9961 3 місяці тому +5

    Watching this after sending my letter is wild 😂

  • @Tdinh79
    @Tdinh79 7 місяців тому +16

    If you work for an integrity, ethical company, by all means give a 2 week notice. If you do not, that one should never feel compelled. My job would withhold my commission check with no qualms. I am leaving in 2 weeks and will be resigning the day my commission hits my account. I will say "thank you" to them, but I am going to be tight lipped in why I am leaving and where i am going.

  • @Othmanmessaoud
    @Othmanmessaoud 11 місяців тому +38

    I messed up and told them where I was going. Hopefully they don't call my new job and start spewing lies to ruin my chance

    • @fiscalgirl
      @fiscalgirl 10 місяців тому +16

      That's illegal and you could sue them if they didn't ruin your chance with the new job

    • @Ry-le1cu
      @Ry-le1cu 8 місяців тому +2

      Poor performance they could say but lying is against federal law

    • @perezmartin4235
      @perezmartin4235 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Ry-le1cu if they do not have a written statement of your performance, you can do a corporate investigation on them.

  • @4SomethingMore444
    @4SomethingMore444 9 місяців тому +36

    You just changed my mind. I had my monologue ready haha

  • @jaylazar
    @jaylazar 11 місяців тому +14

    I’m already too late. I told them because of low compensation.

    • @DS-mo7vu
      @DS-mo7vu 11 місяців тому +6

      I personally think it's ok to verbally say why

    • @digitalalchemistamy
      @digitalalchemistamy 5 місяців тому

      They'll know how to make things better for the person who takes over after you. ​@@DS-mo7vu

  • @Black.Sabbath
    @Black.Sabbath 9 місяців тому +22

    I'm resigning by text

  • @thegteam4349
    @thegteam4349 3 місяці тому +1

    I resigned after 28 years with the same agency after I didn't receive a promotion, I felt I deserved, and I was furious. But I was classy, thanked them and was gracious on my exit interview. Good thing, as I was absolutely miserable in the new position I had accepted. After 18 months, I am returning to my old employer, and I couldn't be happier. I learned a hard lesson that I had a great thing, and I didn't realize it, but I do now. Had I expressed how I was feeling, I would never be able to go back. So grateful I chose to be adult about things when I left.

  • @Nain617
    @Nain617 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you so much .!!

  • @jenalynstv4768
    @jenalynstv4768 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @eddietowers5595
    @eddietowers5595 11 місяців тому +35

    This is something I did. I was at a new job after leaving one for 21 years, and this new job I was with for nine months, in December I was told to take my vacation or else I could lose it. So, I carefully planned my vacation to not overstep other other peoples vacation And when I submitted it, my manager said that I couldn’t take those days off she told me she told me what I could takeoff and I that would mean I would have a day and a half off not a week a day and a half so then later that day she held, and I employee meeting discussed new stuff that was going to happen new changes then she closed it by saying please put in your vacation now because your bad planning is not my problem .
    After she finished, I told her I didn’t appreciate that because it seemed aimed towards me. She claimed that it wasn’t but that I should’ve planned ahead I usually don’t take vacations or if I do I am forced to take them because that’s just my work ethic. sometimes these things slip by me so I told her I couldn’t do that and then she tried to dress it up as me helping her by saying we’re gonna need your help because we have to go to Vermont to cut to expand on this business and we need you here to keep the work flowing and help us I said I didn’t appreciate what she did to me as far as negating my vacation and I didn’t like the hours and I guess she got upset and said well you have no other choice so then I told her oh but I do, I went to my computer And wrote a resignation letter stating that I am resigning my position effective immediately I sent it to her. She came running to my department and asked what’s this and I said I officially quit and walked off. That was the best thing I’ve ever done that company was the very worst company I’ve ever worked for , I have never had the experience that I had with that company and all of my working life. It wasn’t worth it. Thankfully I found a job meet immediately after that I really appreciate and they appreciate me.
    All you need to do is submit a resignation as Andy described. You don’t need your not required it’s not a law that you have to give your two weeks notice. If you don’t like the job line, something up and quit line another job up and quit the job you do not like just quit you don’t need to submit two weeks notice no Just submit your quitting by way of email because that in and of itself is just a fit as official bad jobs. Don’t deserve your two weeks notice two weeks notice is basically not burning your bridges. I set a flame my bridges to that company. want nothing to do with that company

    • @rockstarofredondo
      @rockstarofredondo 9 місяців тому +4

      Name and shame! I want to know what this crazy-sounding company is!😂

  • @johnredorn
    @johnredorn 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for this video

  • @cynditalks
    @cynditalks 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm doing this TOMORROW IM SO NERVOUS 😢😅

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 місяці тому +4

      You got this. Good luck!!!

    • @cynditalks
      @cynditalks 2 місяці тому +2

      I did it..!!! 🤣👍😆😋

    • @iks9120
      @iks9120 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@cynditalksI am going to resign today! It is really stressful. I see you are still alive after it, so probably I will be too:)

    • @cynditalks
      @cynditalks 2 місяці тому +2

      @iks9120 hope it went well.. 🙏

  • @Millesimal_Ed
    @Millesimal_Ed 4 місяці тому +1

    GREAT ADVICE!!! I got kicked out and had a month off after resigning from a big corporate and not telling them those things, particularly where I'm going 😂😂😂

  • @rikadew
    @rikadew 7 місяців тому +6

    I did this and the executive over my department is still tryna harass my coworkers to find out why I'm leaving since she can't accept I was unhappy on her team. I havent told anyone who my new employer is just in case

    • @James-ws9ze
      @James-ws9ze Місяць тому

      What did you tell people you were going when they asked?

  • @mohamedelyaouti2051
    @mohamedelyaouti2051 4 місяці тому +1

    I'll do what I want

  • @Pukekura35
    @Pukekura35 2 місяці тому +3

    Disagree! Let the company management know why! I have every intention of telling them how much of a bully the director is!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 місяці тому +3

      It is certainly okay to do that if you were bullied!!

  • @jumbroni6014
    @jumbroni6014 7 місяців тому +4

    I will do NO SUCH THING!!!! I AM A LEGEND AT WORK. I WILL LEAVE THE DAY I DECIDE TO LEAVE AND THEY WILL ACCEPT THAT!!!! I DONT G.A.F. WHAT THE UNWRITTEN RULES ARE!!!!! we are bowing down and they are laughing at us. All for a lousey dollar. Im not that.. You can be if thats how you want to remember yourself. I live MY WAY!

    • @jumbroni6014
      @jumbroni6014 7 місяців тому +6

      Buddy they don't think about us for 1 second after we leave. They don't care. The amount of thought you're telling people to expell, is worthless. The moment you walk out of that company, they stop thinking about you. We are not that important

  • @Ara198826
    @Ara198826 Рік тому +18

    I know it is not wise and probably get flagged for this but I'm planning to drop a bomb as my resignation letter with zero notice period. at first the company made me work before getting my contract ready for 2 weeks promising they will pay me which the never did, if I give 2-4 week notice I will not get a dime for them . I got so abused so disrespected so exploited by my manager , the top management are not aware so will drop a huge essay pipe bomb with evidence and walk out like I never entered ...

  • @shpazhist
    @shpazhist 4 місяці тому +1

    What happens if you say where are you going?

  • @juicysmith38235
    @juicysmith38235 10 місяців тому +16

    What if you give your 2 week notice b/c you found a new job, but at the end of the 2 weeks the new job says they can't have you start for another yr due to their own internal issues? Now I have NO job 😭

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  10 місяців тому +14

      Add it to the lessons learned pile. Make sure to truly evaluate the employer you’re interviewing with!

    • @rockstarofredondo
      @rockstarofredondo 9 місяців тому +6

      Meh, jobs are everywhere and they’re a dime a dozen. You’ll find something.

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 8 місяців тому +3

      @@rockstarofredondoyeah but if you got no money left, and it takes longer than two weeks, you’ll be homeless

    • @rockstarofredondo
      @rockstarofredondo 6 місяців тому

      @@vminhope3040 I won’t. I started saving, getting out of debt and investing instead of blowing money like others were, so I did not have to face that. People need to protect themselves and become financially stable so things like that don’t happen.

    • @jaimecaroleledford79
      @jaimecaroleledford79 6 місяців тому +2

      Praying for you In Jesus name 🙏🏼 call 211 for resources, there is help with bills and food. Trust God🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @tfunkthemagnifico1383
    @tfunkthemagnifico1383 3 місяці тому +2

    Ohh if it’s a warehouse / factory job just quit on their ass …. I worked at a horrendous horribly ran place I asked how much vacation time I had left I found out clocked out never came back … those type of jobs don’t give a shit about you

  • @avantiiresha6687
    @avantiiresha6687 8 місяців тому +2

    What if they ask if you got a new job and where are you going to ..and if I don’t want tell them .. I usually apply in a niche set of employers and they all are in same platforms (they can reach out to each other if they want to even if they don’t know them). How do I politely refuse their question that where I am going to ?

  • @kirkburton859
    @kirkburton859 5 місяців тому +1

    Right

  • @eddie4691
    @eddie4691 2 місяці тому +2

    Damn i feel so bad and guilty. I got a better offer but in my current job everyone was so nice and always helped me…how to overcome the guilt…?

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 місяці тому +5

      Eddie. Remember, you need to take care of yourself. Go out with class and you don’t need to feel guilty.

    • @eddie4691
      @eddie4691 2 місяці тому +2

      @@andylacivita thank you so much! You are right i need to choose the best for myself, its just hard to tell it when people are so nice to you at work…

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 місяці тому +2

      @@eddie4691 Eddie, that make me happy to hear that you like the people you worked with. It's the problem everyone wishes for. Remember, you can certainly stay in touch with them!

  • @icywindow458
    @icywindow458 25 днів тому +1

    I just wrote I quit

  • @ghostcardsandcollectables
    @ghostcardsandcollectables 5 місяців тому +2

    I did yhe template when i handed my notice for my boss i did tell him where i was going as i knew it would piss him off as he'd still have to see me everyday and there was nothing he could do about it. I only did that because he was an absolute twat.

  • @doggosuchwow1593
    @doggosuchwow1593 9 місяців тому +16

    Customary time.
    Wheres the customary time when they fire you though?
    Double standards in the work place are ridiculous. A future employer contacting a past employer when you've been at the last job for over a year is ridiculous! These double standards are BS and eveyone knows it.

  • @jonathanhowson6420
    @jonathanhowson6420 3 місяці тому

    I started a job a year ago after the last firm I worked for when under. I loved my last job but the new firm is making me Ill. Saying that I have had people ask me to work with them and clients asking me to move over to their firm. I have only been at this firm just over a year and I don’t want to damaged my CV. WhenI started the entire previous team had either left or were working their notice. A shortly after starting I had a hospital pass of a project which I could see going wrong in advance and I was forced into doing it and it caused me to burn out and nearly go to the dr to get signed off sick. When do I leave this job?

  • @raniyuna2930
    @raniyuna2930 9 місяців тому

    No feedback what they did wrong is necessary. It's not explanation self. It's showing them why you left and what wasn't working on their side. But it depends how you write it.

  • @Faithandseekerofchrist
    @Faithandseekerofchrist 5 місяців тому

    Well what if you have to quit because you can no longer do the job physically like you were able to do because you injured yourself when you weren't on the job? I am on medical leave right now and I was set to come back to work in February but I'm still in a bad shape. I told my boss that when I get better I can do everything else except for climbing ladders and he said that if I can't climb ladders then it doesn't want me to work until I am 100% better. Even though I have gotten a little bit better, I am still not able to climb ladders. So I came to the conclusion that it would just be better for me to quit because I can't really do the job anyway and I need to put my mental and physical health first. I want to tell the truth but at the same time I don't want to burn Bridges. My stepdad says that he thinks that my job is trying to get rid of me or has already gotten rid of me because I can't climb ladders and had to miss a long time of work even though I handed them a doctor's note saying that I was injured and that I couldn't go back until February but I don't think I am nowhere near ready to go back. So the best thing for me is to just quit and either just hope that I can come back in the future when I truly am better or find a less physical job.

  • @ted2136
    @ted2136 6 місяців тому +1

    What if your bosses biss comes and has a chat with you on why ur leaving?

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  6 місяців тому +3

      It’s best to be discreet but as I mentioned to you previously I’d simply use your best judgment.

  • @od2437
    @od2437 Рік тому +2

    Is this talking about with any coworkers or just HR

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Рік тому +12

      It’s best not to mention to HR. I leave the coworkers to you but you know how people gossip!!

  • @bellowcloudlion1656
    @bellowcloudlion1656 9 місяців тому +1

    but you can at least say you are leaving for better pay, right?

  • @ricardodelacrvz1400
    @ricardodelacrvz1400 5 місяців тому

    If it was a good company with good leaders but they couldn't maybe pay more because of insufficient funds I would disclose with them with no problems but if its a company being runned by narcissists who treat you like a dog and try to flex on you, I would just quit and leave in silence.

  • @licksnkicks1166
    @licksnkicks1166 3 місяці тому

    I am explaining myself for the cheap ass company I have worked for for 14 years because I have gone above and beyond and even worked for free during each lockdown. This letter that I am constructing will include all my documentation of this nasty toxic job.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 місяці тому +1

      Sorry to hear you’ve had a rough go. I’m sure your next job will be better!

  • @Victoria71936
    @Victoria71936 10 місяців тому

    What do I do if my manager is on leave delivering a baby :,) do I shoot him a text? I don’t want to ruin his day!
    Tho he sorta already knows im unhappy and looking around.
    Do i meet with the replacement manager?

  • @trotsky1780
    @trotsky1780 Рік тому +13

    Question! I’m at a company where I am very unsatisfied. I’m getting ready to leave so this video came at the perfect time. I know it’s customary to give a two weeks notice but I also know they wouldn’t give me the same courtesy if the situation was reversed. Should I give two weeks or a different timeframe? Love your videos (:

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Рік тому +12

      Do whatever you think is best!!

    • @nadiyaqt4219
      @nadiyaqt4219 11 місяців тому +3

      To ease your mind, there’s no requirement to it is courteous. If you don’t plan to work there or need a reference quit and keep moving. I would still write a formal letter of email and have it state your last day is that day as you’re leaving. Set your out of office auto apply state the same details as your letter. You don’t owe them, it is at will agreement. They are no longer serving you. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ItsMrstoyouboo
      @ItsMrstoyouboo 10 місяців тому +1

      When I left my last job Eleven years ago I didn't put in one... because no matter what I wasn't ever coming back.

  • @Rando223
    @Rando223 3 місяці тому

    Sent a formal email I quit in 2 weeks. I will tell un-employment agency the truth that a coworker tried to punch me and employer didnt quickly protect me

  • @janicemars2952
    @janicemars2952 9 місяців тому +1

    What if they ask though?

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  9 місяців тому +6

      I’d still avoid giving them a lot of info.

    • @janicemars2952
      @janicemars2952 9 місяців тому

      Thank you! @@andylacivita

  • @geraldrau9950
    @geraldrau9950 9 місяців тому

    You don't have to give them any notice if you don't want to, you can if you want to, but you don't have to because you're employer. Don't give you a 2 weeks' notice when you fire as it does it, so you don't have to give him deadly or her deadly or then deadly, are it Dilly whatever they want to be recognized? As you know, it's used to conduct, say I know people like quit. They don't even tell you they just stop showing up for work. So you eat a figure they have passed away, are they quick?😊😊😊😊😮

  • @James-ws9ze
    @James-ws9ze Місяць тому +1

    What do you say when your boss asks where you're going to work next?

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Місяць тому +4

      You can either tell the boss nothing or say you’d prefer to share after you’re settled.

  • @L_Qu
    @L_Qu 6 місяців тому +1

    I disagree, make it loud, make it public.

  • @ChaunLeeTV
    @ChaunLeeTV 5 місяців тому +1

    FK THIS JOB…IM OUT!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @markbaker758
    @markbaker758 6 місяців тому

    F-orget that! Just more rules to keep the company in power - just like "never discuss your salary." BS.

  • @qiuxiangpan3619
    @qiuxiangpan3619 Рік тому +4

    First!