1. Establish a culture of devotion 2. Communicate expectations clearly 3. System of handling conflict 4. System of handling finances 5. Learn to listen 6. Share (Openness & transparency) 7. Put your legal work in paper 8. Establish a good relationship with your in-laws. 9. Plans, goals & vision 10. Talk about family planning (& how you'd raise your children) 11. Establish traditions (Don't judge the health of the marriage by the consistency of the traditions tho') 11 years & counting...(with JESUS tho'😅)
I am zero married, no man yet but I'm getting married next year 2025 and before February next year , I'm meeting my destined partner, a man after God's heart that will love me as Christ loves the church
I've been married for 23 years, and I just shared this video with my daughter, who got married in July! Thank you for sharing these truths. New couples will find them helpful.
It's zero years, I am waiting on the Lord and prophetically getting married before August 2025. Thank you so much for the powerful insight. I pray God helps us all implement wisdom in our marriages.
It's exactly 3 months of my marriage today. I believe my steps were ordered here because I've been intentionally asking the Holy Ghost to show me how to build my home. God bless you, Ma! Thanks for sharing! I've gained new insights.
Its my first year in marriage and i got pregnant 2months after marriage we didn't even have the time to talk about family planning.Look forward to the video for couples about to have their first child.Thanks for this video.❤
So much wisdom in this words of wisdom from PL My marriage will be 20 years this December It's like a magic boom we are here and God is helping us Personally I am not enduring marriage but enjoying to the fullest christian home is good Marriage is sweet honestly
So much wisdom is packed in this! I’m still a university student with marriage not in the radar yet but i know I’ll definitely rewatch this when the time is right For now, I’ll hold unto point 2 because I think that’s also important in close non-romantic relationships Thank you so much PL!❤
This is so profound. Implementation seems to always be the probelm. If both spouse have access to this information it becomes easy to hold each other accountable
I am not yet married but I'm sure my marriage is going to be a replica of heaven on Earth. Pls PL your 10 years anniversary video should be with your husband so he can say his own experience in 10 years too. Thank you.
My parents established traditions for Christmas, birthdays, school resumptions, life milestones generally and new year and I look forward to them so much. I love love traditions
I'm in my first year of Marriage☺️, Please can you do a topic related to Pastor's wives especially one who's a starter of the ministry🙏🏻 Thank you for being a blessing ma
I'm so happy to have listened to this. We're about 9 months old in marriage. 😊 There are a few of the things listed we have started before now, which has really helped us. However, there are most of which we really should start as well. 😊 Thanks PL, really looking forward to the video on expectant parents. 🥰
Zero year of marriage. Still praying and believing in God for that man in whose rib I was created from. I pray it happens this year. With God all things are possible
Thank you so much, PL. Everything shared is practical and I look forward to discussing with my boyfriend and implementing these in our context. SUBSCRIBED!
Wow... This is my first year of marriage. In fact, we just started the journey. Thank you so much, Ma. I will listen to this over and over again. God bless you Ma
This is so beautiful. I'm listening right here with my spouse on our honey moon. Somehow we've been doing some of these It's our 1st year in marriage. Thank you.
This is my first year and I thank you for the lessons and points you’ve shared. My wife and I are going to endeavor to do the ones we’ve not started doing already.🙏🤝
4 years and a few months and I thank God some of the things you mentioned we have discussed before we said yes I do. Thank you so much ma'am,I shared this video in my group for married womens.
The Holy Spirit has always been directing me here to learn for the future. I’m not married yet but I have no doubt that with all these lessons I have been learning here my marriage will work and it will be heaven on earth. Thank you for being a blessing, ma’am.
1. Establish a culture of devotion
2. Communicate expectations clearly
3. System of handling conflict
4. System of handling finances
5. Learn to listen
6. Share (Openness & transparency)
7. Put your legal work in paper
8. Establish a good relationship with your in-laws.
9. Plans, goals & vision
10. Talk about family planning (& how you'd raise your children)
11. Establish traditions (Don't judge the health of the marriage by the consistency of the traditions tho')
11 years & counting...(with JESUS tho'😅)
Thank you 😊
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you! When I realized the video doesn't have time stamps, I just hoped someone broke it down in the comments! 😅
Thank you 😊
Thank you PL. I'm in my 1+years and this is enlightening. I needed this and I will definitely put these points into practice.
God bless you ma
Marriage is not a place for secrets.
In our second year! Thank you so much, PL
0 years and currently single but hoping to get married next year
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
I am not married yet. God bless you PL
100k soonn!!!
It's my first year... 1 month in 😊
This video was made just for you Rachel!! Have a happy married life!
Congratulations 🎉
Same here, 1 month yesterday
I wish you a happy married life
I am zero married, no man yet but I'm getting married next year 2025 and before February next year , I'm meeting my destined partner, a man after God's heart that will love me as Christ loves the church
Amen
Amen ….. it will happen in Jesus name ❤
We await your testimony in Jesus name.
AMEN
I am in year zero😂 but I'm super glad I have this knowledge while I'm single. Thank you so much ma, this blessed me👏💯💯💯
I've been married for 23 years, and I just shared this video with my daughter, who got married in July!
Thank you for sharing these truths. New couples will find them helpful.
@@ezebuneayoyemi2166 thanks for watching ma’am
Getting Married in November ❤🎉 and this is really timely and helpful for myself and my fiance
Thank you ma.
One month and 3 days in! Precious gems! Thank you, Pastor Laju!
❤🎉🎉🎉
I am not married yet.. But with all this resources from PL..My marriage will be safe and sound...
Amen ooh
Amen!! Amen to this prayer
AMEN!
Amen
Listening to her has changed a lot in my mind
I love how you express yourself. It is so engaging and i feel like i am sitting next to you on a couch.
Awww! Thank you so much
I'm not married yet, but one of the things to do in year 1 is to binge watch PL marriage series again with woman
It's zero years, I am waiting on the Lord and prophetically getting married before August 2025. Thank you so much for the powerful insight. I pray God helps us all implement wisdom in our marriages.
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Amen
Amen 🙌. So shall it be unto me too
It will happen in Jesus name ❤…… Amen
The foundation is a key. Year 12😊
I'm in my 2nd week of marriage😊
Thanks for the tips pastor.
It's exactly 3 months of my marriage today.
I believe my steps were ordered here because I've been intentionally asking the Holy Ghost to show me how to build my home.
God bless you, Ma!
Thanks for sharing!
I've gained new insights.
Congratulations
Its my first year in marriage and i got pregnant 2months after marriage we didn't even have the time to talk about family planning.Look forward to the video for couples about to have their first child.Thanks for this video.❤
So much wisdom in this words of wisdom from PL
My marriage will be 20 years this December
It's like a magic boom we are here and God is helping us
Personally I am not enduring marriage but enjoying to the fullest christian home is good
Marriage is sweet honestly
Thank you for sharing, it is good to know that it can be sweet and enjoyable...
Congratulations... Glorious Anniversary
I'm in my first year. I don't feel like we are getting off on a good start..... But I'm glad gor this information. Will look to apply it.
Thank you PL...I was really blessed and instructed by this video, shared the video with my partner immediately😄
I am getting married by December🎉🎉
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🎈
Congratulations, Precious 🎊 ❤🌟
Congratulations
Yes. Yes. We want you to do the video- lessons learnt in your 10 years of marriage 😂❤
Challenge accepted!
It's my 0 year of marriage😊. But this is very insightful 😍. Thank you so much Mastey😅. I love you PL❤
It's my 0th year. I'm still a very young lady of 21 years and I believe that at the right time, God will make it happen
So much wisdom is packed in this!
I’m still a university student with marriage not in the radar yet but i know I’ll definitely rewatch this when the time is right
For now, I’ll hold unto point 2 because I think that’s also important in close non-romantic relationships
Thank you so much PL!❤
A must watch
Very instructive and interesting video.
Sharing is very important that’s my take home
Thank you PL
Im not married yet, but i really love watching your videos. They are always packed with so much wisdom. I'm actually 21❤
Thank PL. am in my first year of marriage and this is very handful. Thank you ma
This is so profound. Implementation seems to always be the probelm. If both spouse have access to this information it becomes easy to hold each other accountable
It’s my first year of marriage. It’s been 6 months in😊. Thank you PL. This is so insightful.❤️
I'm definitely saving this video for that first year as I'm geng zero year of marriage 😂😂 abi zero say sef 😂😂
I am not yet married but I'm sure my marriage is going to be a replica of heaven on Earth. Pls PL your 10 years anniversary video should be with your husband so he can say his own experience in 10 years too. Thank you.
I am part of the first 20K. Subscribed on all my 3 accounts! I am in my 0 year! Still a single-pringle
Thank you PL, halfway to my first year in marriage. Looking forward to the video in couples expecting a child
My parents established traditions for Christmas, birthdays, school resumptions, life milestones generally and new year and I look forward to them so much. I love love traditions
I’m in my 1st year and few days into year two 😊
Thank you so much ma for this
Thank you so much for your help and solid words ma❤
It's my first year... We will be 1 year next month🎉
Thank you for sharing all these profound truths PL!❤
This is very instructive. Thank you, PL, for always dishing out value.
Sometimes I wonder how people handle transitioning from Single to Married.
I’m in my zero year of marriage and trusting God for marriage in 2025 by April 2025
Amen
I'm in my first year of Marriage☺️, Please can you do a topic related to Pastor's wives especially one who's a starter of the ministry🙏🏻
Thank you for being a blessing ma
Hello, she's actually done a video on that.
Please check out the videos on her channel, it's about 4 months ago ❤
I'm so happy to have listened to this.
We're about 9 months old in marriage. 😊
There are a few of the things listed we have started before now, which has really helped us.
However, there are most of which we really should start as well. 😊
Thanks PL, really looking forward to the video on expectant parents. 🥰
It’s my first year of marriage PL. it’s been 5months🎊🎉. Thank you PL, this is super helpful!❤️
Zero year of marriage. Still praying and believing in God for that man in whose rib I was created from. I pray it happens this year. With God all things are possible
Currently not married, trusting and believing God for a spouse. I find this very interesting and enlightening. Thank you ma
Thank you so much, PL. Everything shared is practical and I look forward to discussing with my boyfriend and implementing these in our context. SUBSCRIBED!
It's my first year of marraige.
Yaaay I can’t wait for the video on your 10 years anniversary
These are very helpful. Many marriages have failed because of lack of knowledge of these things. May God bless you and uphold your marriage.
My first month😊
Wow...
This is my first year of marriage. In fact, we just started the journey.
Thank you so much, Ma. I will listen to this over and over again. God bless you Ma
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Zero years ,😅,waiting on God 🙇🙇
Watching on My 2nd day of marriage
Congratulations 🎉
This is a solid resource to keep at your finger tips
@@SarahAzekwoh I sure will
Congratulations
Getting married in November and I'm glad I'm watching this. Sharing with my fiance 😊
You have a captivating voice and your demure is alluring. Beautiful suggestions, thanks for sharing. I am in my 9th month of marriage.
I am in a zero year of marriage but in a committed relationship
Not yet married, but I will definitely watch this again ❤
I'm getting married in October so i rushed here immediately i got the notification
I'm getting married in October too🤗
This is so beautiful. I'm listening right here with my spouse on our honey moon. Somehow we've been doing some of these It's our 1st year in marriage. Thank you.
About to get married next month. Thank you Pastor Laju
This is my first year and I thank you for the lessons and points you’ve shared. My wife and I are going to endeavor to do the ones we’ve not started doing already.🙏🤝
I'm about to get married, thank you ma'am for this knowledge 🎉❤
I'm really blessed
Powerful am blessed
Zero year and hoping for next year 2025
Thank you ma,i and my husband will be getting married in 2025 and we sure would put this in to pratice
4 years and a few months and I thank God some of the things you mentioned we have discussed before we said yes I do. Thank you so much ma'am,I shared this video in my group for married womens.
Year 0 but guess what?
The Lord will do it 🔥✨🤩♥️
A year in by October…. Sighs in the holyghost 😢
It's my first year and I'm still in my first month also.. Thank you for this video all the tips are awesome
Getting married next year
We already have started establishing some of those
Thank you😊
It's my First year, 5months in❤ We practice some of this things already and I am glad we will be including the rest 🎉 Thank you PL😊
Still in the waiting season.... These are great insights.
God bless you.
For the 10 year anniversary video please do it with Pastor Emmanuel
Thank you PL. It’s my zero year.😁Waiting on the Lord for my marriage miracle
Is there a particular age to get married according to the Bible?... Or let me say wats the minimum age to get married?
I got married this year March P.L, and the message is timely. Love you mama
This is a very timely message.
1 month 2weeks married 😊
It’s my zero year oo😂
But trusting God😊😌🙏🏽
Thank you so much ma for this. I have subscribed o😂
I can't be late again
Thank you so much ma for this…..I’ll be 5 months in matrimony tomorrow by God’s grace
I love the wisdom of the Spirit of God in you pastor laju ❤❤❤
It's my 2nd year and a lot going on already 😢
You will be okay,
Sending you hugs, light and love.
Indeed, marriage is one of the best gifts God gave to mankind when you intentionally make it work (With the Holy Spirit of course)❤😅😅😅
Its my zero year,,,but desires to be married by this time-November next year 🙏🙏🙏
Not yet married (zero year)... But this is powerful. Thanks Mama❤.
Two weeks into marriage... This is timely. Thank you Ma
Thank you ma. Definitely saving this for later
Of course I'm leaning something and this is my first year.
76.7k Subscribers at the time of seeing this video❤
I'm not married yet but beyond grateful for the tips
Currently in my second year of marriage
1 month married 😅😅
The Holy Spirit has always been directing me here to learn for the future.
I’m not married yet but I have no doubt that with all these lessons I have been learning here my marriage will work and it will be heaven on earth.
Thank you for being a blessing, ma’am.
Thank you so much for this ❤❤ in my waiting era ❤
Hahahaha not the beginning intro😂😂 I subscribed asap
This is so rich. Thank you PL❤
Please we need 10 in 10 😊😊
I am one month and few weeks married. I have really learnt from you ma
2nd year of marriage here. Thank you for sharing, ma'am.
I'm in zero year but am learning and gathering the right knowledge for my marriage
God bless you PL❤️