Scarlett Leithold | Her Sexuality, Brandy Melville, Truth Of Modeling
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- Опубліковано 18 жов 2024
- In this podcast we talk about Scarlett’s transition into dating women, Scarlett’s experience being the face of Brandy Melville,
our bad experiences in the modeling industry & navigating predatory behavior , changing our looks , the aimlessness of modeling, the realities of a model lifestyle & what happens to you as a person when you model.
& We delve into love,
Scarlett’s & I’s differences in how we navigate relationships & love. Scarlett lives her life through the lens of finding LOVE vs I do not & it’s seemingly the last thing on my list. & how we balance each other out in our friendship. & more in depth on our relationship with each other
(this was filmed prior to my month of being weed & alcohol free)
PART 1
you should really consider adding timestamps for the topics you get into since this is so long.
Frrrrr
agreed. love the convos but that would be helpful
we need your sister to have a mic of her own!! Love her questions and input to the pod ❤
being a model and being validated your whole life on your looks and it going hand in hand with not being motivated to join the "real world" is so real! Thank you for articulating this! Great episode. So relatable.
She's so introvert. Scarlett we're here to support you only! wish to you and Emily nothing but happiness ❤️
I rarely feel the need to comment on someone’s video but for some reason I found this episode really moving. I actually cried with you on the last 5 minutes and it felt great. It was very refreshing to see you be so vulnerable since I feel like you almost never show that side of you.
Loved this episode!
My favorite podcast so far. Scarlett is so beautiful it actually hurts.
awww so happy to finally see her on the pod!! super special episode 💗
love the honesty about modeling not requiring any thought / skill
I don't get why some people are complaining. IMO the quality is great, I like that it is not this big production with professional lighting and stuff, this feels more real... human. The convo is excellent as always.
Charlotte,
I absolutely love each and every one of your podcasts. This one especially made me giggle. I love the connection between you two. It warms my heart to know you care about someone so deeply. Both of you are extremely beautiful and wise. Keep going.
Love,
GG
I loved this.. I'm such a crier, I cried when Charlotte did lolol. I've been a fan, but something about this episode just made me love her. The vulnerability, realness, introspective conversation and laughs, it felt like I was having a conversation with two of my best friends. You go girlll
To the other comment, I think (coming from a bi curious person) that it’s normal to ask questions in the way she did and try to relate from a straight perspective or an any observer’s perspective, especially having been Scarlett’s friend for years. I liked this episode and appreciated the genuine conversation between two long term friends
both of your loves are so pure. I loved every minute of this episode
Okay but when Scarlett’s talking about the diary that asked you specific questions I think I had the same exact one deadass💀
The way you love your friends is so special! You really seem like a once in a lifetime friend ❤
Iconic leaving in the part of you guys smoking I love it
Every one of your podcast feels like such a warm experience, it’s so personal I love ur pod
Charlotte, you need to be more gentle on yourself. Your emotions are powerful and valid and they are YOURS. Don't let what other people might think to affect how you experience them. There is nothing wrong with you. The world needs more people like you! We don't need more perfection and poise, it's all fake. Your tears and messy emotions are real, that's brave and beautiful. Please don't judge yourself so harshly, you are a natural mother energy and not many people accept it. You are light ✨
Omg i’ve been waiting for this one!! Love both of you💗
Coming from someone who is ambitious I wish I knew how to just relax and be confident.
girl let scarlett talk
I am not fully done with the episode but I did not enjoy the bit where it felt like charlotte was pressuring Scarlett into braking her sobriety with alcohol. Did not like the vibe of that one bit.
girl they are friends and this is very normal for anyone who drinks with their friends often.
@@xxelegantday it’s sad that you think it’s normal lmao. poor tink tink.
exactly she was literally pressuring the girl, what a weirdo.
@@TCS938 nah but it is tho
@@xxelegantday no it’s not love. if you have a bad habit that you’re trying to break out of and you’re friend is encouraging you to stay in that negative cycle then that is not a good friend lol.…it’s definitely strange and should not be normalized.
Scarlett is doing just fine Charlotte. Being a model is definitely a lot of work. Maintaining your beauty, staying healthy, and looking your best is incredibly difficult. Most people are obese and ugly because it is hard work. Good models get paid well because they advertise clothes, swim wear, lingerie, accessories, ect and make people think they would look just as good in it. They are the example of beauty, and that is everything. Scarlett is at the peak of beauty in the world, and although an outside perspective might think her work isnt enough, it really is. She doesn’t need you acting like her mother. She is creative in her own way and is happy with her routine, keeping her in her prime to be the best at her job. Show some respect to the goddess. Sheesh.
I really enjoyed this podcast! Thank you girlies
Aw I wish to have friends like you two, just the way you guys treat each other
I hope one day I find a best friend like Charlotte 💝
Damn, I love Charlottes honesty...
Is there a part 2? This was my favourite episode so far 🥹
There is now ✅
CHARLOTTE I LOVE THAT U CRY OVER YOUR FRIENDS😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Didn't like the beginning of this that much, when you kept telling her to drink and stuff when she said she didn't want to & she came off to not really want to talk yet about her sexuality/relationship, as well as the "fluid" comment on "gay phases". But you have your right to your viewpoints and to express those opinions. Personally just enjoyed the other episodes a bit better. :)
Scarlett gives Pisces energy for sure. You are very Taurus
I agree and charlotte has a lot of Virgo placements her crying and being embarrassed over worrying abt her friends is so Virgo
is scarlett a pisces? google says gemini but idk
I love both of your minds! 🧠❤😊 just subbed - so so cool to see people my age on a totally different path ! So much Insight from this. You are both beautiful inside and out. ❤️
Loved that you guys discussed topics that people don’t talk about! ❤
1:15:00 this is so true !! I understand very well what charlotte says and I’m facing this issue right now as a 17y/o student in France who has to chose her what she will do of her life, I’m completely lost and I have no idea what I want to do.. problem is I have to make a decision in 3 weeks.
So yeah I relate. When u never had do focus and make big decisions you don’t know how to do it
Your friendship is so beautiful to me as someone who has a really hard time making close female friendships i want a friendship like yours so bad
I love the self accountability talk
Charlotte i love your sensitivity❤️
Charlotte you don’t need help you need to cry and let in emotion!!!!
Sorry to say this but literally 80% of this podcast IS Charlotte going solo
I love this podcast so much!
Ohhhhh myyyyy goood scarlet has a voice!!!! Thank you 🙏 charlotte
came to comment that i relate to the early on mast*rbation exploration, and i knew it was something to be hidden but idk if my parents ever saw. definitley did it watching cartoons alone and loving the feeling but intense shame around it - probs because a catholic raising.
also !! i agree charlotte i always feel kind of "turned on" but i think thats just how humans relate to their genitals? i would surpress the feeling a lot, and only after doing shrooms would i realize its not a bad feeling. like everytime i take shrooms my body gets so connected to my "feminine parts" (can yt censor comments??) but it feels nice and not shameful. like it's a blessing to have a body with such an amazing function. but when i'm sober i can kinda feel like i try to ignore it at times especially around like weird guys or something, because sometimes i feel like they can sense when someone is tuned into their sensuality (or some are just creeps and maybe always feel that same turned on feeling but havent ever felt shamed or like they needed to hide it).
also i am sorry to hear of the creepy modeling experiences you both have gone through.. that's not cool at all and i hope the industry can hire more female photographers or non creeps. this was a beautifully insightful episode. i always listen while thrifting and it feels like im hanging with my girls even tho i've been in solitude a lot lately. thank you for all that you do!
I relate so much! I literally was so ashamed about it and also knew what i was doing couldnt be „normal“. But I was so relieved to find out that others relate as well and used to do it as a child.
I loved this episode, i loved what you shared at the end, you're both so cool bye
I hope theres a part two
charlotte the part where u can't stop crying while saying 'i need help' omfg
Yo i gota say it I love u and all u respresent, I can relate in crazy ways but I NEEEEED YOU TO STOP WITH THE HALF ASSED EFFORT. Talking to my self to and anyone else that can relate. Ik u said u hate the contract bc ads but you have full control to make the video aspect better, continue to share your journey and if it’s gna be a long one pleeeease add the timestamps bc no one got time to sit and watch one sitting…take your platform seriously, you’re influence is astronomical and I am sure you will feel more proud of your work if you tried to act like you cared about it more idk I love the vulnerability that comes with it but I also am just shocked you had Eileen on and I don’t wana compare but it’s so damn hard when her quality is better but her convos never hit the way yours do. I know you can do it charlotte I can see you having your own talk show on TV talking with other greats frfr . Just want to see you genuinely happy doing something you love. All love my apologies
Yeahhhh cause she has the potential to be great but it's so half-assed. She says she prepares nothing going into her pods, which is good in some ways maybe, but it leaves the convo so dry at points and then she's talking for most of it.
@@xxelegantday i Love the random talk but it would be a lot better if she at least had a notebook with some questions or info to keep her on track!! Not only does it get DRYY but repetitive circling back to the same old talk when they get off track. It’s cute but it needs some work it just doesn’t seem like she’s into it!! You can truly tell when someone loves the work they do…
charlotte's dress is everythiing!!
42:29 I think it’s faith Schroder. She talked about it on her UA-cam
Thank you for sharing. I wonder if your feelings would come out differently through a recently clearer mind?🙏
Loved this
was so hard to get through the start of this just like 20 minutes of absolutely nothing but dodging questions without answers? people have to listen to these podcasts you know right hahaha had to turn it off
i've been following charlotte since 2018 now, i just want to say; ive never seen a face like hers. Stunning.
Charlotte where did you get your dress from? It’s so cute
“Girls go through bi phases but scarlet might actually be gay “ i’m sorry but this is so biphobic, bisexuality is a sexuality and it’s a thing on it’s own, and it’s not a phase you go through because you are a hippie girl from a big city. “She might actually be gay” implies that being bi is not one “type” of gay, as if it’s not an actual sexuality like is just someone chossing or confused
bro its not that deep
i think it is, i’m not the only bisexual person who felt offended by what she said. You can’t tell us what to feel offended by or not about people commenting on our sexuality. She didn’t commit the worst crime in the world she said something insensitive and ignorant and we are just pointing out so maybe she’ll be more careful next time. And that’s okay.
Just looking to be offended.
Red hair Scarlett was wow
So Cool I've hoped for this👍
was the photographer Terry Richardson ?
😮
I follow Scarlett on insta and saw her and Emily together on some pics and I’ve always thought and still think they are adorable
Like I don’t even know them but the way Emily looked at her on that pic it was so strong and alchemy wow
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@@nursenozkanca3223evet
this is the funniest podcast ever
Please get Blake Slatkin on here lol (sorry I keep asking, just would be a cool interview)
where is your necklace from it’s so cute
love this
Is good be sorber is the best happen to me saludes girls from COsta Rica Pura vida !!
I loved the show , the one thing is I think you all would sound much more eloquent if you sopped saying " Like "
omgg daisy calloway
Exactly what I thought and they have a lot of similarities
Lol this first 5 min 😂😂
Yeah, I don’t like the work hard and hustle culture
Is this the original brandy Melville model
idc im pretending this is lily and daisy
YASSSSSS
Daisy Calloway
Even tho you hate it its still pretty cool
❤❤❤❤
girls
Wait I wonder why I can’t stay awake on tequila…
hiiii
This is so upsetting as a queer person. You're obviously making her uncomfortable and putting her on the defensive by saying ignorant things like "most people have a bi phase" and "I had a feeling you were gay" - this is exactly how NOT to talk to a newly out person. and why do you keep framing her relationship in terms of whether you could see yourself with a woman? she's not asking you to question your sexuality in order to relate to her -- just let her speak and listen to her!
This is a little bit of a stretch. She was shy to go on this podcast. I was simply talking to help ease the convo. Also sexuality is on a spectrum as we all know, a lot of girls (yes including myself ) will experiment. Nothing wrong with that. Also many queer people have mentioned they’re family “always knowing” helped their coming out process. So not everyone feels the same or is some sinister attack. She’s my best friend, we’re just talking freely about life. She loved the podcast
dont kno the context maybe charlotte has bad intentions or she’s doing a very common and human thing of trying to relate one’s experience to urself. let ppl have agency. if she didnt want the pod to go up it wouldnt have gotten up
@@xenonautili5437 so people can drink drive enlist in the army be sexworkers but cant talk until theyre 26. got it.
not everyone desires to be ‘classy’ over honest but u do u :*
you claim people are not mature enough to make their own decisions at 25, opting yourself out of any reasonable conversation.
go seek validation and control over others somewhere else.
@@goodevilbycharlottedalessi7249 Your reply about "many queer people" is vague and not factual. If you're interested in how the queer community views the term "phase" and people saying they "always knew you were gay", there are resources available online at PFLAG and familyequality (UA-cam doesn't let me post links). I'm not saying your friend specifically felt this way, but it's important to consider the thousands of people viewing this. Casual comments, even well-intentioned, have the power to cause harm to marginalized groups.
So, D is ??