Yeah this vid is super accurate! Although I really wanna stress you do not have to come out. Coming out doesn’t make you “a better therian” or “more of a therian” or “more experienced” and coming out as a therian is super scary and leaves you quite vulnerable. So yeah don’t come out unless you’re absolutely sure. It’s not something you need to do!
I am also scared to tell my parents like I want to tell them the stuff that's happening to me doesn't seem weird or like I'm going insane on the other hand I'm scared of what they would do if I tell him
I TOLD MINE!!!!!!! MY MUM WAS REALLY CALM ABOUT IT, I WAS SUPER SCARED OFF HOW SHE WOULD REACT!!! But it went super smooth!! A week ago she ordered some gear for me and she is super chill about it!!! THANK U FOR THE TIPS IT REALLY HELPED❤❤❤
i told my parents im a therian and they didnt understand me, since im young, me wearing gear is silly and cute to them but they told me they support me no matter what
Omg im stealing your parents 😭 my mom would kick me out/abandon me, prob beat me up and yell at me to "quit the trend" take away my phone. She says that all yherians are (r slur ) and they all should get ###### by a ###. Nothing could work. Im gpnna listen to subliminals to try and make them more tame
If you have strict parents and/or you fear they'll get really mad if you tell them, I came up with a way! (I have parents that are supportive of it, so dw abt me, I came up w/ this when I was helping an online friend with coming out as one to their strict parents.) *---* 1.♤ Get confident enough and then say you have a question. Ask them if they know about therianthropy. 2.♡ If they ask what it is/don't know what it is, explain it ACCURATELY and the community behind it, and that they are USUALLY just kids having fun and being themselves! 3.◇ If they ask why, then you can just say you've heard about it recently and you just want them to know or something. 4.♧ You can ask if they support it. If they do, you can come out about being one freely. However, if they dont, play along and don't say that you aren't one/don't support to avoid them lashing out and/or freaking out. 5.☆ If they ask after step 4 instead of after step 2 or 1, then you do step 3 here. *---* *And remember, follow the tips in the vid to make it easier! Hope this helps! ^^*
@@VidaMendez hmm maybe google or some other search engine if they allow it Say u were just searching up things out of curiosity and came across it or like say u heard someone talk about them and they explained it to u if possible
When I came out I gave my mom a note right as I was leaving for school. She texted me later and said she supported me, I was so anxious I actually cried at school, but she is supportive :)
thanks for this! i personally won’t tell my parents bc of my mom’s harsh “please don’t be those people who think they’re an animal” or “yk ur human right?” statements and i would literally become disowned bc of personal experience but good luck to those who will use this!
My dad said those EXACT words to me when I was practicing quads outside once, I was like “uh.. Yeah.. Duh..! People actually think..that..?” I'm not sure if I'm a therian tho 😅 I just wanted to do quads cus it looked fun. I took one of those online quizzes but I know they aren't always true. Idk how I'm gonna find out, do you have any tips..?
@moonlight19696 DW, me too 😢 I want to confess to my parents too because I want to tell them everything too, I'm just.. Super scared too. So I try to keep it secret.
my parents have always told me since I was like 7 that they would always support me no matter my sexuality and identity/gender!! Made me feel more comfortable when I came out
Same but I’m still scared to tell my mom cuz I don’t wanna tell my stepdad and like my mom said the same thing to me but I don’t anticipate a tail soooooo badddddd any tips?
What helped me is my older sibling is trans and my mom supports them a lot and I came out as a therian in may and she supports she actually bought me masks and I made a yarn tail she helped braid the yarn and I show her my quads and gear and she supports a lot
My mom and dad both know that I am a Therian. They don’t mind at all except my mom just thinks that it’s people wearing costumes and that’s all it is to it. I tried to explain to her that it’s not just that but she doesn’t listen. I still love both of them.❤
My parents know already, and they support. They said you can tell us anything, and it won't make us love you less. This almost made me cry. It made me really happy. 😢
I told my mom abt it!! She accepts who I am and listened with an open mind! I’m so happy abt it then I told my bestie she also does and said she doesn’t understand all the way but would love to learn more!! So happy with the ppl in my life accepting me for who I truly am❤
Ur so lucky! I know my mom supports me no matter, or atleast she says so. I feel comfortable with my mom but telling her such a big thing scares me. Any tips? Also my friends do not support therians so its rlly hard for me to be myself around them😭
Also im not really good at explaining stuff because i would literally break down in tears - im also finnish so it would be VERY hard to explain it in my language😭 And i dont really know what to do now -😀
@@St4r._.Dr4g0nz I completely understand that. My best tip would be they don’t have to understand to accept you :) my mom doesn’t completely understand what an alter human is yet but still is very nice abt it! For ur friends I would suggest that maybe you show some signs but don’t go out of ur comfort zone. I hope you surround your self with ppl that can accept you for you! Hoping the best for you and never forget to just be urself! I’m sorry if that’s not very helpful tho😅😅
I really don’t want too tell my parents… Here is why: So my mom was scrolling through instagram and she came across a therian video and said “omg (my name) I hope you will never be this it’s disgusting!” So now I do quads in my upstairs playroom where my parents never go… I hope you understand me❤
I wanted to show my mom something like that, just to see how she'd react. Guess what she said? "Those rats are just idiots. Never be like them, their disgusting." I can't wait to move out and be free
Same with me! She was once scrolling through UA-cam, and she came across a therian video, and said “You must be better, don’t ever be as disgusting and stupid as this.” I wanted to tell her therians are actually smart and cool (except from the shifts) but I didn’t. Now I just do quads and mask making while she’s downstairs, and I’m in my room! Edit: oh yeah , and my mum told me yesterday when she was smaller, she pretended to be a cat. I love my parents and all, but sometimes they are just… so annoying!
If my child came out as a therian i would definitely Give them a room makeover,buy masks, special places in garden, i would make them choose new clothing for therians and everything❤❤ ( i dont have kids but when ill be like 20+ ill prob have children
Thank you so much tab ! I'm a young therian and i'm pretty scared to tell my parents. I tell them that I like making masks and "playing" like an animal. Btw you're my comfort channel. Tysm for being here.
It’ll be super hard to tell my dad that I am one. I already told my mom and she loves it. My dad literally thinks that furrys walks on all four and eat out of a dog bowl. No idea on what he will think a therian is but he will probably not support it. Edit: y’all are so supportive and brave so I shall give you a tutorial on how to come out as a therian or whatever! ( supported family + unsupported family’s) Supported: you wanna tell em when they’re not busy or in a bad mood. Tell them to follow you to the couch to sit down. You will start to explain what a therian/what you are to your parents ( keep in mind that tell them in an advanced way and tell em why you think you are what you are). Then when they know about it ask em if they support them? ( support them not you ) if they say yes then you can tell em why you think and are one and if they accept you✨ that’s all for supportive family’s. Unsupportive family’s: as the same wait until they’re not busy and in a bad mood. Tell em to follow you to the couch to sit and talk. You want to explain to them what it is and if they support whatever it is. If they say “ are you one? “ then say “ No I just want to know if you support em or not”. And if they don’t care or just say “ I guess you can be one.” But if you have very strict parents then try not to do anything related to therians things like quads and vocals ( vocals and quads have nothing to do with being a therian). If you really wanna do it then go to a place that not many can see or hear you. PLEASE BE CAREFUL ALWAYS even with and without a supportive family. If your younger then PLEASE come out fully no hiding things ( if not personal things ). If you have questions then you’re most likely to get an answer!! Bye y’all BE SAFE✨✨✨
Here's what I did to tell my parents I'm a therian! I was on a long walk to pick up something, and we decided not to go by car. I decided that was a good time to tell my mom, and I told her all the jist of a therian. Then I told her my personal experiences. Its just a matter of taking it slow and making sure they understand what a therian really is! It made me feel better knowing that if I act like my true self around her she won't judge, but ofc you don't have to.
I haven't done this yet, but I would say just own it. If people call you a furry, so be it. Make a statement, but make sure you aren't harmed! kids can be cruel.@@tandluca
So i was wondering, how did u rlly start the converstation? Im finnish and for me its rlly hard to explain it in my language D: I think my mom would be like "oh thats cool" but would rlly understand it, or just laugh at my face. 🙂
I’m so so so scared to tell my parents I’m a quadrobits. I feel like they wouldn’t care that I wear silly animal masks or bark like an animal but running on all fours is where they would cross the line.
I have very understanding parents (well maybe just my dad) but if I told only one they would tell the other and once I tried telling my mom starting with “ do you know what Therians are?” And she was like “ I need to know what your looking at” and @they are mentally ill” so I can’t tell anyone but maybe when I’m older ❤❤❤ thank you so much
Parents knowing about accounts it so important. Especially if you find yourself in a scary situation. Hopefully, they won't stalk your accounts, but if they know about it, they'll be able to help you navigate if you've found yourself in a scary situation. That's so important!!! Thank you for saying that!! I found myself in SO MANY scary situations with really bad people when I was younger online because my parents didn't want me online/didn't know I was online. I didn't tell them about it because I was more scared of getting in trouble than I was of what was happening to me. When I eventually told them they were super open to me talking about what happened. They were upset I broke the rules, but they were more concerned that I had been hurt. As an adult now I seriously hope that younger people online will be more careful with how they interact with others online and are more open to talking with their parents/guardians when things get scary.
Naw bro I CAN handle myself- know how to freaking tell someone to F off politely and un politely if I need to and I know some people are just stupid, etcétera.
I'm readinh through all the comments, and all the suppotive thimgs families did knowning I wouldn't ever tell my mom anything willingly. And my dad is the same case. So happy for you all that have supportive parents. Stay safe, guys!
Also how to tell your parents about quads (personal experience with strict parents) Say something like “ima try to do a hunting fox jump” and jump. Do that a couple of times then say “I think running will make it easier” and boom you introduced running and jumping. I recommend doing this late at night when everyone is tired. I did this and my dad calls it *pouncing* and I think it’s just hilarious. Now every night I do quads and jumps and when my dad gets home he watched me and cheers me on. I also recommend saying the benefits of quads like how it helps flexibility and strength. If you have really really strict parents maybe don’t say it’s called quads bc they might see it kinda relates to therians and that stuff. They may think know what those are and get mad at you! I hope that helped a little :) 🫶
That’s what I do, lol. But another tip is… if you’re going out for a walk/hike with your parents, and see a steep grassy hill, climb up and down on it using quads, then they’ll just think you’re climbing up that way because it’s too steep
thanks so much tab! this helped my friend, i’m a therian myself and attempted telling my parents but i usually get harmed by doing so, thank you for making this and helping younger therians!! all therians respect this.
my parents don’t support, and it’s making me depressed bc i wanna do quads and make masks, but all my friends don’t support. it makes me sad, like i can’t express myself.
Yeah I’ve started talking to my mom and saying, “ Hey mom? Did you know that some people walk around like an animal?” She told me said: “Oh, yeah it’s called bear walking. It’s actually really good for your body and can help you exercise” Lol. I also said: “Hey, Momma? I’ve seen videos where people make cardboard animal masks. Do you think I could make some for us? I’ll get a fox one, I love foxes, and I’ll make you guys any animals you want!”
I told mine yesterday, and they support and accept me for who I am if it went well for me. I just know it will for all my fellow therians out there! But just like Soda said, you don't have to tell them if you're not comfortable! ❤
I just walked out of my room with a tail on and now they know I’m a therian 😂😂😂 Edit: I’m sry for some of u guys that aren’t supported. I thought my parents supported me for a bit but then they js started making fun of me so I’m js pretending that I’m not 😭
Thank you so much I did not know to tell my parents now I can do this, so it’s a lot less scary for me and I am a younger Therian🐾🐾🪶🪶🍂🍃🍂+ I have a UA-cam account
I want to tell my mum but shes always in a bad mood and its really sad 😥 my mum knows i make masks and do quads and i dont think shes to bothered but i dont think im going to tell her about being a therian yet .
My parents are both serious and workaholic kinda ppl if yk what I mean… telling them that I’m a therian is like asking me to get 100% in all my classes 😭 When asking/telling my parents stuff I just get anxious and stuff so I think- I’m not ready yet but when I am I will definitely use these tips!
i have hispanic parents so its def gonna be hard so im for sure not gonna tell them, sadly. I usually do quads when Im home alone and the second I hear anything, a car, a door, anything. I instantly take off my mask and my tail and quickly hide them, I also want to start social media but am terrified if friend and family irl find my account😭
I have came out to my parents and tbh i dont think they support it and they think its "weird" but they still try to show enthusiasm when i mention quads and respect my beliefs
my boyfriend and me didn't use to support therians but I introduced him to your channel, and we've begun to understand more. he's said openly to me that he's a furry, and he said he would be a bit shocked and not know how to react but he'd never break up with me for being a therian. I'm not quite sure what I am but I just love my connection with nature and I feel like I wanna just run through the rivers on all fours.
This is very off topic but, imagine they made a therian mask like the camera glasses?and there is a camera in the eyes so you don’t have to hold your phone in your mouth?!! That would be soo coolllll!!!!😊
this is the most responsible short form video on therionpathy i have seen. no matter how innocent the content if you are under age please reconsider posting online.
Lil story on how my parents found out naturally without confrontation I started making masks (of my theriotypes) and my parents thought it was a little weird but overall they eye cool with it After a while I made my UA-cam channel and stated practicing quads they never found out about this Quite recently they caught me sneaking out to do quads, they didn’t stop me but just watched from a distance, over since then they haven’t said anything and it’s been 2 months. I don’t think they really care 😂
When my mom found out I'm a therian, she was really upset and didn't understand. And she's talked about it to me so many times, and every time we talk about it, I run into my room. She just doesn't understand who I wanna be, a and I don't have ANY gear. I just wish she could understand me and start to accept my true self
Don’t really want to tell anyone at least right now, so I’ve explained Therianthropy to my parents and just told them I think quadrobics looks fun and the masks look fun to make. My dad is currently helping me make a cardboard mask!
I don't think I'll ever be able to tell my family. Most of my family are conservative Christians, and my dad would just think it's wrong and lecture me about it 24/7. It's not that I don't feel safe. I just don't feel like dealing with the hassle and the crap they'll give me when I tell them. I'm just vibing with my therianthropy and the community. I do love this video, tho. It's good to be honest with your family when you can be ❤
@@appropriate-channelname3049 1. Cringe is subjective. 2. I live in America the land of the free. I am free to have my own beliefs. You don't see me, a Christian, going up to Muslims and tell them how wrong their religion is (and all the Christians who do do that are wrong for doing so). If you don't believe in such things that is fine. You're entitled to that belief. But that means I am entitled to my beliefs as well. Unless you have actually evidence against it I will believe in therianthropy and continue being "cringe"
@lhsunshinegarden4415 Belive what you want. i ask you to try and develop some self awarness and introspect a bit before you go down the cringest rabithole in your life.
Here’s what I recommend Ask your parents “do you know what a Therian is” If their answer is yes, say “well I am one, and I really hope you support me” If they say no explain to them what it is then say “and I am one and I really hope you support me” You can also do it on text for less awkwardness
My parents never supported me they threw all my gear away and now I don’t have gear but I’m still a therian I do quads secretly at school now I just wish I could reborn and have new parents that support me I hope they understand one day..😢
My parents are getting ready for a wedding they're strict ill probably get grounded, you might think I'm going crazy, I'm not lying 😢it hurts because I might not ever tell them and people out there are running through the woods around they're homes so happy and free, I can't even stay home for one hour alone and I'm in my teens
my mom randomly said one day without me telling her anything: " as long as u don't use a litter box." so im unsure if i should tell my mom abt quads.. even tho i want to :(
I told my parents last week and I was shaking a lot and I felt like screaming. My parents said they know your a human and I said yes and they said they don’t fully feel comfortable but they said they still support me and maybe I should get a book about it to learn more
tab, I love your videos but I could never do this until I’m older.. I’m only 10-13 so my parents would just laugh or not take it seriously. Last time I told them something, they treated me differently. This is very helpful, but not for present me :)
I regret telling my mom, now i cant do quads, she ripped all my masks and threw away my yarntails, she made me stop hanging out with my therian/furry friends and made me leave our groupchat, i dont blame you i just Hope i can blow up some day so i can make a living out of yt and move out soon. Altho my dad is chill
My mom and dad support me and when I told them my dad said to me “as long as your happy and as long as you talk to no boys I’m ok with it” (my dad’s overprotective) but when I told my mom she didn’t know what is was so I told her and she said she’ll get me stuff to help make a mask and yeah I love my parents❤
I told my mom and she said she always knew, I'm asked her how amd she said she could felt like i was more than just human then she described all of my theriotypes without me telling her what they are. She also recently awakened as pkantkin and fairykin ❤❤❤
Thank you I love you as a UA-camr❤❤❤ Because I was going to buy a mask and my mom acted like I was like some kind of weird rat which made me really sad😢
i told my mom (more like she found out) and at first she was sorta okay with it but then she did research and told me that even by the therian wiki im not a therian (i told her im a spiritual one and not one on a physical level and she told me that yeah im not a therian and the only reason i feel a connection to animals is because im autistic. but i still like connecting to my theriotypes.) the therian wiki also says spiritual therians are just as valid as physical ones..) then she told me most therians and furries are schizophrenic and its a disorder (which, the disorder she was referring to was lycanthropy which is believing you are literally an animal and not a human). she doesnt like me making masks or dragon puppets anymore and doesnt like the things im into. she once argued that therians use litterboxes 😭 i dont argue back bc at this point ive just learned to hide everything about me and who i really am from her.
A tip if you dont want to talk tò them: Send them a note about it, i tried this and it went super smoothky and a lot less nervous then real interaction, gl!
Yeah this vid is super accurate! Although I really wanna stress you do not have to come out. Coming out doesn’t make you “a better therian” or “more of a therian” or “more experienced” and coming out as a therian is super scary and leaves you quite vulnerable. So yeah don’t come out unless you’re absolutely sure. It’s not something you need to do!
As a therian that has a mom that knows she's a therian , yes tell them only if you want !
For me I think I might have to my dad is mean to me then usual when he saw me doing quads
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@@the_crazy_Therianmaybe use google slides? PowerPoint is just a suggestion, you can use other methods like a poster.
I am also scared to tell my parents like I want to tell them the stuff that's happening to me doesn't seem weird or like I'm going insane on the other hand I'm scared of what they would do if I tell him
I TOLD MINE!!!!!!! MY MUM WAS REALLY CALM ABOUT IT, I WAS SUPER SCARED OFF HOW SHE WOULD REACT!!! But it went super smooth!! A week ago she ordered some gear for me and she is super chill about it!!! THANK U FOR THE TIPS IT REALLY HELPED❤❤❤
I’m glad she supports u :3
Wow, you're so lucky, seriously.
omg i love that stay safe!
Both my parents support it, there’s no reason anyone shouldn’t❤
I wish my mum did❤❤your very luky❤
i told my parents im a therian and they didnt understand me, since im young, me wearing gear is silly and cute to them but they told me they support me no matter what
@STAWBERRY-DRAGONS_LOVE9080 Im sorry if they dont support you, but i do! ^ ^
Omg im stealing your parents 😭 my mom would kick me out/abandon me, prob beat me up and yell at me to "quit the trend" take away my phone. She says that all yherians are (r slur ) and they all should get ###### by a ###. Nothing could work. Im gpnna listen to subliminals to try and make them more tame
Same
Oh lucky my mama doesn’t like it
Ima talk to her again tho
If you have strict parents and/or you fear they'll get really mad if you tell them, I came up with a way!
(I have parents that are supportive of it, so dw abt me, I came up w/ this when I was helping an online friend with coming out as one to their strict parents.)
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1.♤ Get confident enough and then say you have a question. Ask them if they know about therianthropy.
2.♡ If they ask what it is/don't know what it is, explain it ACCURATELY and the community behind it, and that they are USUALLY just kids having fun and being themselves!
3.◇ If they ask why, then you can just say you've heard about it recently and you just want them to know or something.
4.♧ You can ask if they support it. If they do, you can come out about being one freely. However, if they dont, play along and don't say that you aren't one/don't support to avoid them lashing out and/or freaking out.
5.☆ If they ask after step 4 instead of after step 2 or 1, then you do step 3 here.
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*And remember, follow the tips in the vid to make it easier! Hope this helps! ^^*
My mum thinks it's a cult 😭💀
@@Cool.Aunt.Lilith WHAT- 😭
yah but for me they r going to ask where i got that from, and they dont know i have yt
@@VidaMendez hmm
maybe google or some other search engine if they allow it
Say u were just searching up things out of curiosity and came across it or like say u heard someone talk about them and they explained it to u if possible
Yall how do you put a comment in your clipboard?
When I came out I gave my mom a note right as I was leaving for school. She texted me later and said she supported me, I was so anxious I actually cried at school, but she is supportive :)
thanks for this! i personally won’t tell my parents bc of my mom’s harsh “please don’t be those people who think they’re an animal” or “yk ur human right?” statements and i would literally become disowned bc of personal experience but good luck to those who will use this!
My dad said those EXACT words to me when I was practicing quads outside once, I was like “uh.. Yeah.. Duh..! People actually think..that..?” I'm not sure if I'm a therian tho 😅 I just wanted to do quads cus it looked fun. I took one of those online quizzes but I know they aren't always true. Idk how I'm gonna find out, do you have any tips..?
@moonlight19696 DW, me too 😢 I want to confess to my parents too because I want to tell them everything too, I'm just.. Super scared too. So I try to keep it secret.
I wouldn't be disowned, but I'd get the comments.
Yeah... I can relate
I would too and she would throw all my gear away, I would be banned from a bunch of things
Thanks for this! hopefully this will help allot of people come out to their parents.
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@@SensDr4gons1 :0 you have.
@@J1nx_0n_p4wzZomg your my comfort UA-camr 😭😭😭
my parents have always told me since I was like 7 that they would always support me no matter my sexuality and identity/gender!! Made me feel more comfortable when I came out
I wish I had a bond with my parents like that..
Same but I’m still scared to tell my mom cuz I don’t wanna tell my stepdad and like my mom said the same thing to me but I don’t anticipate a tail soooooo badddddd any tips?
Me too, my parents don’t exactly like LGBTQIA, but my mom always says she will support and love me no matter what!❤
What helped me is my older sibling is trans and my mom supports them a lot and I came out as a therian in may and she supports she actually bought me masks and I made a yarn tail she helped braid the yarn and I show her my quads and gear and she supports a lot
@@Kapp_On_Paws haha srry i went thru a phase where I thought I was a therian but I know I’m not now! Cool coming out story tho!
I just told my mom, and this video guided me through it - and she supports.
Thank you so much, so much weight has been lifted from my shoulders. ❤❤
My mom and dad both know that I am a Therian. They don’t mind at all except my mom just thinks that it’s people wearing costumes and that’s all it is to it. I tried to explain to her that it’s not just that but she doesn’t listen. I still love both of them.❤
how is it not? you are a human. you are wearing a costume, idk to me she sounds like she kinda hit the bullseye
My parents know already, and they support. They said you can tell us anything, and it won't make us love you less. This almost made me cry. It made me really happy. 😢
my mom says that all the time, I am gonna tell her later!
I told my mom abt it!! She accepts who I am and listened with an open mind! I’m so happy abt it then I told my bestie she also does and said she doesn’t understand all the way but would love to learn more!! So happy with the ppl in my life accepting me for who I truly am❤
Ur so lucky! I know my mom supports me no matter, or atleast she says so. I feel comfortable with my mom but telling her such a big thing scares me. Any tips?
Also my friends do not support therians so its rlly hard for me to be myself around them😭
Also im not really good at explaining stuff because i would literally break down in tears - im also finnish so it would be VERY hard to explain it in my language😭
And i dont really know what to do now -😀
@@St4r._.Dr4g0nz I completely understand that. My best tip would be they don’t have to understand to accept you :) my mom doesn’t completely understand what an alter human is yet but still is very nice abt it! For ur friends I would suggest that maybe you show some signs but don’t go out of ur comfort zone. I hope you surround your self with ppl that can accept you for you! Hoping the best for you and never forget to just be urself! I’m sorry if that’s not very helpful tho😅😅
@@LaniTheRat thankyou i will try soon
My mom will still love me but not support me identifying with therianthropy like it’s not something I can change
I really don’t want too tell my parents…
Here is why: So my mom was scrolling through instagram and she came across a therian video and said “omg (my name) I hope you will never be this it’s disgusting!” So now I do quads in my upstairs playroom where my parents never go…
I hope you understand me❤
It kinda annoys me how she says "never be this" so never choose to be it but at the same time she doesn't know much about therianthropy
i just told my mom im a therian
I wanted to show my mom something like that, just to see how she'd react.
Guess what she said?
"Those rats are just idiots. Never be like them, their disgusting."
I can't wait to move out and be free
@@aneelamohammed80that’s so sad damn. Wish pppl would open their thinking a little.
Same with me! She was once scrolling through UA-cam, and she came across a therian video, and said “You must be better, don’t ever be as disgusting and stupid as this.” I wanted to tell her therians are actually smart and cool (except from the shifts) but I didn’t. Now I just do quads and mask making while she’s downstairs, and I’m in my room!
Edit: oh yeah , and my mum told me yesterday when she was smaller, she pretended to be a cat.
I love my parents and all, but sometimes they are just… so annoying!
This is why your my comfort UA-camr even if I'm not a therian. You give off raident warm vibes, without even talking, We love you tab
If my child came out as a therian i would definitely
Give them a room makeover,buy masks, special places in garden, i would make them choose new clothing for therians and everything❤❤
( i dont have kids but when ill be like 20+ ill prob have children
Thank you so much tab ! I'm a young therian and i'm pretty scared to tell my parents. I tell them that I like making masks and "playing" like an animal. Btw you're my comfort channel. Tysm for being here.
That what I do
Thats what i did! My mom was a little uncomfortable at first but now shes fine
That’s what I did too! My stepmom supports me, my mom became a quadrobist, and my dad thinks I’m demonic
Your mom became a quadrobist?? That's so cool ❤️@@D0g_Fr0m_D3law4re
It’ll be super hard to tell my dad that I am one. I already told my mom and she loves it. My dad literally thinks that furrys walks on all four and eat out of a dog bowl. No idea on what he will think a therian is but he will probably not support it.
Edit: y’all are so supportive and brave so I shall give you a tutorial on how to come out as a therian or whatever! ( supported family + unsupported family’s)
Supported: you wanna tell em when they’re not busy or in a bad mood. Tell them to follow you to the couch to sit down. You will start to explain what a therian/what you are to your parents ( keep in mind that tell them in an advanced way and tell em why you think you are what you are). Then when they know about it ask em if they support them? ( support them not you ) if they say yes then you can tell em why you think and are one and if they accept you✨ that’s all for supportive family’s.
Unsupportive family’s: as the same wait until they’re not busy and in a bad mood. Tell em to follow you to the couch to sit and talk. You want to explain to them what it is and if they support whatever it is. If they say “ are you one? “ then say “ No I just want to know if you support em or not”. And if they don’t care or just say “ I guess you can be one.” But if you have very strict parents then try not to do anything related to therians things like quads and vocals ( vocals and quads have nothing to do with being a therian). If you really wanna do it then go to a place that not many can see or hear you. PLEASE BE CAREFUL ALWAYS even with and without a supportive family. If your younger then PLEASE come out fully no hiding things ( if not personal things ).
If you have questions then you’re most likely to get an answer!! Bye y’all BE SAFE✨✨✨
That's what my sis thinks 😭
@@claralovinglife123same and she knows im a therian 😭😭😭😭😭😭
So sry 😢
Same
bro same my father is not in the picture but my mom thinks furries eat out of dog bowls
Here's what I did to tell my parents I'm a therian!
I was on a long walk to pick up something, and we decided not to go by car. I decided that was a good time to tell my mom, and I told her all the jist of a therian. Then I told her my personal experiences. Its just a matter of taking it slow and making sure they understand what a therian really is! It made me feel better knowing that if I act like my true self around her she won't judge, but ofc you don't have to.
Hii this is gonna be so helpful do you have any tips on how to ask to go public gearing at school??
I haven't done this yet, but I would say just own it. If people call you a furry, so be it. Make a statement, but make sure you aren't harmed! kids can be cruel.@@tandluca
@@CalI.Me.L Tysm!!
So i was wondering, how did u rlly start the converstation? Im finnish and for me its rlly hard to explain it in my language D:
I think my mom would be like "oh thats cool" but would rlly understand it, or just laugh at my face. 🙂
@@St4r._.Dr4g0nz “I’d say hey (mom or dad) i need to have a conversation with you!! When you have time can we talk”
Hope this helps!! :D
It worked! Thank you so much they aren't comfortable with it but they support!
Ty’sm
I’m so so so scared to tell my parents I’m a quadrobits. I feel like they wouldn’t care that I wear silly animal masks or bark like an animal but running on all fours is where they would cross the line.
Understandable.
Same.........
I understand me too…
I have very understanding parents (well maybe just my dad) but if I told only one they would tell the other and once I tried telling my mom starting with “ do you know what Therians are?” And she was like “ I need to know what your looking at” and @they are mentally ill” so I can’t tell anyone but maybe when I’m older ❤❤❤ thank you so much
Parents knowing about accounts it so important. Especially if you find yourself in a scary situation. Hopefully, they won't stalk your accounts, but if they know about it, they'll be able to help you navigate if you've found yourself in a scary situation. That's so important!!! Thank you for saying that!! I found myself in SO MANY scary situations with really bad people when I was younger online because my parents didn't want me online/didn't know I was online. I didn't tell them about it because I was more scared of getting in trouble than I was of what was happening to me. When I eventually told them they were super open to me talking about what happened. They were upset I broke the rules, but they were more concerned that I had been hurt. As an adult now I seriously hope that younger people online will be more careful with how they interact with others online and are more open to talking with their parents/guardians when things get scary.
yap
i used to have a online stalker luckily i got rid of him he kept making different accounts so he could stalk me
@@Ellasworldofedits I'm so sorry that's so scary, I'm glad you were able to get rid of them. Stay safe
bro your parents W
Naw bro I CAN handle myself- know how to freaking tell someone to F off politely and un politely if I need to and I know some people are just stupid, etcétera.
My parents would ALLWAYS support me they would never care what I would be they would love me no matter what❤
I’m so happy for you!! So are mine ❤❤
@@eluraiii slayy
I'm readinh through all the comments, and all the suppotive thimgs families did knowning I wouldn't ever tell my mom anything willingly. And my dad is the same case. So happy for you all that have supportive parents. Stay safe, guys!
Thank you this was so helpful! Can you make a video on how to find out if your a Therian? I have been trying to figure that out lately
Also how to tell your parents about quads (personal experience with strict parents)
Say something like “ima try to do a hunting fox jump” and jump. Do that a couple of times then say “I think running will make it easier” and boom you introduced running and jumping. I recommend doing this late at night when everyone is tired. I did this and my dad calls it *pouncing* and I think it’s just hilarious. Now every night I do quads and jumps and when my dad gets home he watched me and cheers me on. I also recommend saying the benefits of quads like how it helps flexibility and strength. If you have really really strict parents maybe don’t say it’s called quads bc they might see it kinda relates to therians and that stuff. They may think know what those are and get mad at you! I hope that helped a little :) 🫶
That’s what I do, lol. But another tip is… if you’re going out for a walk/hike with your parents, and see a steep grassy hill, climb up and down on it using quads, then they’ll just think you’re climbing up that way because it’s too steep
im scared to tell my mom im a therian but either way she doesnt care about quads
it gave me so much happiness when you said your dad cheers you on when you do quads
Your smart🐾
I wanna fully tell them do
thanks so much tab! this helped my friend, i’m a therian myself and attempted telling my parents but i usually get harmed by doing so, thank you for making this and helping younger therians!! all therians respect this.
I hope you’re safe and well!
@@Jae.thegae thank you! i’m actually doing a lot better now :)
Thank you ❤
my parents don’t support, and it’s making me depressed bc i wanna do quads and make masks, but all my friends don’t support. it makes me sad, like i can’t express myself.
Well I support 😊❤
Ty so much!! I feel much better about this. You boost my confidence so much!!
Yeah I’ve started talking to my mom and saying, “ Hey mom? Did you know that some people walk around like an animal?” She told me said: “Oh, yeah it’s called bear walking. It’s actually really good for your body and can help you exercise” Lol.
I also said: “Hey, Momma? I’ve seen videos where people make cardboard animal masks. Do you think I could make some for us? I’ll get a fox one, I love foxes, and I’ll make you guys any animals you want!”
Oh that's such a great conversation! And a really cool response of your mom!
I like your mom 😊
I wish I had the courage to do this!
This is brilliant. Thank you. Lol 😭😭
Thats so wholesome 🥲
I did the same thing!
Ima do the same thing! I once showed my mom my mask and she loved it! So ima just tell her quads is a sport
I told mine yesterday, and they support and accept me for who I am if it went well for me. I just know it will for all my fellow therians out there! But just like Soda said, you don't have to tell them if you're not comfortable! ❤
Ty ^^
This was the most helpful thing I’ve seen in the past 3 months
I just walked out of my room with a tail on and now they know I’m a therian 😂😂😂
Edit: I’m sry for some of u guys that aren’t supported. I thought my parents supported me for a bit but then they js started making fun of me so I’m js pretending that I’m not 😭
I wish my mother would support me, I know she won’t so that’s why I can’t tell her ):
@@cheeseycat1525same 😭 my parents define them as “mentally ill”
@_AstroOnPaws_ my brother and his friends once locked me in the dogs kennel and pointed nerf guns at me (they hurt okay 😭)
I did this to my mother but she still just thinks I’m “making tails for fun” 😭😭 nooooooo
@@Sigma_dude-g2tMENTALLY ILL…
tysm! I’m considering coming out soon and this really helped. love ya tab! /p
I told my brother ! he was so sweet about it! best little brother
If I hadn’t told my parents already, this would have been a huge help! Thank you!
Thank you so much I did not know to tell my parents now I can do this, so it’s a lot less scary for me and I am a younger Therian🐾🐾🪶🪶🍂🍃🍂+ I have a UA-cam account
Just subd! 😊😊
@@10therin awww thank you
Thanks you so much tab. I was nervous about how to explain therianthropy to them and why i wear gear or do quads. This helps a lot
I want to tell my mum but shes always in a bad mood and its really sad 😥 my mum knows i make masks and do quads and i dont think shes to bothered but i dont think im going to tell her about being a therian yet .
same
my mom thought being a furry was abt marrying random people and eating out of dog bowls
im gonna try to see how she feels about therians then if shes ok with them ima tell her i am one
btw what trpe of therian are you im a fennec fox
@JenayaKing I'm a artic fox,Norwegian forst cat ( not sure which yet) and a wolf
My parents are both serious and workaholic kinda ppl if yk what I mean… telling them that I’m a therian is like asking me to get 100% in all my classes 😭
When asking/telling my parents stuff I just get anxious and stuff so I think- I’m not ready yet but when I am I will definitely use these tips!
i have hispanic parents so its def gonna be hard so im for sure not gonna tell them, sadly. I usually do quads when Im home alone and the second I hear anything, a car, a door, anything. I instantly take off my mask and my tail and quickly hide them, I also want to start social media but am terrified if friend and family irl find my account😭
I have came out to my parents and tbh i dont think they support it and they think its "weird" but they still try to show enthusiasm when i mention quads and respect my beliefs
my boyfriend and me didn't use to support therians but I introduced him to your channel, and we've begun to understand more. he's said openly to me that he's a furry, and he said he would be a bit shocked and not know how to react but he'd never break up with me for being a therian. I'm not quite sure what I am but I just love my connection with nature and I feel like I wanna just run through the rivers on all fours.
This is very off topic but, imagine they made a therian mask like the camera glasses?and there is a camera in the eyes so you don’t have to hold your phone in your mouth?!! That would be soo coolllll!!!!😊
my mom actually got me a head phone harness for christmas XD i haven't got a chance to use it yet -- but this would be so cool !!
@@50datab thank you! Also thank you the actual video helped me tell my parents my identity and what I’m going through as a therian.!❤️
IM A THERIAN MOM AND DAD AND YOU CAN'T STOP ME 😊
Ty sooo much with ur help 😊
this is the most responsible short form video on therionpathy i have seen. no matter how innocent the content if you are under age please reconsider posting online.
Lil story on how my parents found out naturally without confrontation
I started making masks (of my theriotypes) and my parents thought it was a little weird but overall they eye cool with it
After a while I made my UA-cam channel and stated practicing quads they never found out about this
Quite recently they caught me sneaking out to do quads, they didn’t stop me but just watched from a distance, over since then they haven’t said anything and it’s been 2 months. I don’t think they really care 😂
thank you so much tab you have helped me through so much
When my mom found out I'm a therian, she was really upset and didn't understand. And she's talked about it to me so many times, and every time we talk about it, I run into my room. She just doesn't understand who I wanna be, a
and I don't have ANY gear. I just wish she could understand me and start to accept my true self
Your room is a vibe :3
Don’t really want to tell anyone at least right now, so I’ve explained Therianthropy to my parents and just told them I think quadrobics looks fun and the masks look fun to make. My dad is currently helping me make a cardboard mask!
oo thats so cool:D I told my parents that I like to do quadrobics and wear masks for now and they dont mind me doing it at home
@@glassilent cool!
I don't think I'll ever be able to tell my family. Most of my family are conservative Christians, and my dad would just think it's wrong and lecture me about it 24/7. It's not that I don't feel safe. I just don't feel like dealing with the hassle and the crap they'll give me when I tell them. I'm just vibing with my therianthropy and the community. I do love this video, tho. It's good to be honest with your family when you can be ❤
SAME-😭
listen to your parents. Your not a therian nobody is. they are trying to save you from being cringe
@@appropriate-channelname3049 1. Cringe is subjective. 2. I live in America the land of the free. I am free to have my own beliefs. You don't see me, a Christian, going up to Muslims and tell them how wrong their religion is (and all the Christians who do do that are wrong for doing so). If you don't believe in such things that is fine. You're entitled to that belief. But that means I am entitled to my beliefs as well. Unless you have actually evidence against it I will believe in therianthropy and continue being "cringe"
@lhsunshinegarden4415 Belive what you want. i ask you to try and develop some self awarness and introspect a bit before you go down the cringest rabithole in your life.
i told my mom today she thought furries marry random people and eat out of dog bowls i was scared to tell her im a therian but i told her anyway
Here’s what I recommend
Ask your parents “do you know what a Therian is”
If their answer is yes, say “well I am one, and I really hope you support me”
If they say no explain to them what it is then say “and I am one and I really hope you support me”
You can also do it on text for less awkwardness
I'm a young therian and this helped me explain to my parent tysm
My parents never supported me they threw all my gear away and now I don’t have gear but I’m still a therian I do quads secretly at school now I just wish I could reborn and have new parents that support me I hope they understand one day..😢
My parents think I can just not be a therian so I don’t act like one but when there not there I go zoomeis
I would give a detailed explanation and say "if you support me, that's okay but it's who I am and I can't change that
My parents are getting ready for a wedding they're strict ill probably get grounded, you might think I'm going crazy, I'm not lying 😢it hurts because I might not ever tell them and people out there are running through the woods around they're homes so happy and free, I can't even stay home for one hour alone and I'm in my teens
Same
@@HaileyTeeterI’m sorry to hear that but when there not there go roomies it’s fun ❤
my mom randomly said one day without me telling her anything: " as long as u don't use a litter box."
so im unsure if i should tell my mom abt quads.. even tho i want to :(
I told my mum and dad this way and my dad said awww cool. Then he got me 5 masks😮❤❤❤ I love my parents who agrees?
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You are so kind soda😊
I told my parents last week and I was shaking a lot and I felt like screaming. My parents said they know your a human and I said yes and they said they don’t fully feel comfortable but they said they still support me and maybe I should get a book about it to learn more
tab, I love your videos but I could never do this until I’m older.. I’m only 10-13 so my parents would just laugh or not take it seriously. Last time I told them something, they treated me differently. This is very helpful, but not for present me :)
I’m super scared to them so thank you so much! ❤
My mom doesn’t care about my mask I just need her to know I do quads
Thanks for the advice
awesome video
thanks for this video! (my mom doesn’t like everything I do, that’s because I wouldn’t tell her
One time I thought I was home alone but my parents came home and said Oh you're a therian and I'm like yeah 🤣🤣🤣
I regret telling my mom, now i cant do quads, she ripped all my masks and threw away my yarntails, she made me stop hanging out with my therian/furry friends and made me leave our groupchat, i dont blame you i just Hope i can blow up some day so i can make a living out of yt and move out soon. Altho my dad is chill
I hope your okay
I just told my dad out of the blue at the beginning of 4th grade and he totally supports me
It worked thank you so much ❤😊
People who likes bread 🍞🍞
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Thanks you for the tips
My dad would appreciate I’m a therian, he really likes the masks I make, and he loves the outdoors and he would love for me to run around + stuff 🐾🐱
Thank you to much! This will help!😁
My mom and dad support me and when I told them my dad said to me “as long as your happy and as long as you talk to no boys I’m ok with it” (my dad’s overprotective) but when I told my mom she didn’t know what is was so I told her and she said she’ll get me stuff to help make a mask and yeah I love my parents❤
I will definitely use this advice
I told my mom and she said she always knew, I'm asked her how amd she said she could felt like i was more than just human then she described all of my theriotypes without me telling her what they are. She also recently awakened as pkantkin and fairykin ❤❤❤
Aw Thats so kind😊
Thank you I love you as a UA-camr❤❤❤
Because I was going to buy a mask and my mom acted like I was like some kind of weird rat which made me really sad😢
This is so helpful
Thank you this really helped
Thanks ❤😇🙂
I watch this video and this helped I’m so happy (they support me)thank you for making this vid
Thank you so much is gonna help me❤😊
Ty so much ily tab♡
Thx i subscriber
Ty!
OK SHE SAID IT WAS A FUN SIDE OF ME AND WAS SO SUPPORTIVE!!!!! TY FOR THISS
i told my mom (more like she found out) and at first she was sorta okay with it but then she did research and told me that even by the therian wiki im not a therian (i told her im a spiritual one and not one on a physical level and she told me that yeah im not a therian and the only reason i feel a connection to animals is because im autistic. but i still like connecting to my theriotypes.) the therian wiki also says spiritual therians are just as valid as physical ones..) then she told me most therians and furries are schizophrenic and its a disorder (which, the disorder she was referring to was lycanthropy which is believing you are literally an animal and not a human). she doesnt like me making masks or dragon puppets anymore and doesnt like the things im into. she once argued that therians use litterboxes 😭 i dont argue back bc at this point ive just learned to hide everything about me and who i really am from her.
My mom was very kind a supportive of this❤
Thank you so much I just found out that they support me
A tip if you dont want to talk tò them: Send them a note about it, i tried this and it went super smoothky and a lot less nervous then real interaction, gl!
Thanks i needed this❤❤
Thank you so much this helps me a lot
Tysm it helped❤😊
Ty so much.. ❤