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  • @ashtonette
    @ashtonette 9 місяців тому +1727

    Yeah this vid is super accurate! Although I really wanna stress you do not have to come out. Coming out doesn’t make you “a better therian” or “more of a therian” or “more experienced” and coming out as a therian is super scary and leaves you quite vulnerable. So yeah don’t come out unless you’re absolutely sure. It’s not something you need to do!

    • @Ash_On_Pawss
      @Ash_On_Pawss 9 місяців тому +25

      As a therian that has a mom that knows she's a therian , yes tell them only if you want !

    • @CarmellowRandomStuff
      @CarmellowRandomStuff 9 місяців тому +9

      For me I think I might have to my dad is mean to me then usual when he saw me doing quads

    • @the_crazy_Therian
      @the_crazy_Therian 9 місяців тому +2

      I don't have PowerPoint

    • @Tree_Fox
      @Tree_Fox 9 місяців тому

      @@the_crazy_Therianmaybe use google slides? PowerPoint is just a suggestion, you can use other methods like a poster.

    • @Darkness_consums_all
      @Darkness_consums_all 9 місяців тому +1

      I am also scared to tell my parents like I want to tell them the stuff that's happening to me doesn't seem weird or like I'm going insane on the other hand I'm scared of what they would do if I tell him

  • @SoulboneZ868
    @SoulboneZ868 5 місяців тому +453

    I TOLD MINE!!!!!!! MY MUM WAS REALLY CALM ABOUT IT, I WAS SUPER SCARED OFF HOW SHE WOULD REACT!!! But it went super smooth!! A week ago she ordered some gear for me and she is super chill about it!!! THANK U FOR THE TIPS IT REALLY HELPED❤❤❤

  • @nannopudding
    @nannopudding 7 місяців тому +111

    i told my parents im a therian and they didnt understand me, since im young, me wearing gear is silly and cute to them but they told me they support me no matter what

    • @nannopudding
      @nannopudding 4 місяці тому +2

      @STAWBERRY-DRAGONS_LOVE9080 Im sorry if they dont support you, but i do! ^ ^

    • @M0th-OnP4wzz
      @M0th-OnP4wzz 3 місяці тому

      Omg im stealing your parents 😭 my mom would kick me out/abandon me, prob beat me up and yell at me to "quit the trend" take away my phone. She says that all yherians are (r slur ) and they all should get ###### by a ###. Nothing could work. Im gpnna listen to subliminals to try and make them more tame

    • @Paws_on_the_run
      @Paws_on_the_run 18 днів тому

      Same

    • @Demonslayerisslayyyy
      @Demonslayerisslayyyy 6 днів тому

      Oh lucky my mama doesn’t like it

    • @Demonslayerisslayyyy
      @Demonslayerisslayyyy 6 днів тому

      Ima talk to her again tho

  • @guineapig67890
    @guineapig67890 4 місяці тому +54

    If you have strict parents and/or you fear they'll get really mad if you tell them, I came up with a way!
    (I have parents that are supportive of it, so dw abt me, I came up w/ this when I was helping an online friend with coming out as one to their strict parents.)
    *---*
    1.♤ Get confident enough and then say you have a question. Ask them if they know about therianthropy.
    2.♡ If they ask what it is/don't know what it is, explain it ACCURATELY and the community behind it, and that they are USUALLY just kids having fun and being themselves!
    3.◇ If they ask why, then you can just say you've heard about it recently and you just want them to know or something.
    4.♧ You can ask if they support it. If they do, you can come out about being one freely. However, if they dont, play along and don't say that you aren't one/don't support to avoid them lashing out and/or freaking out.
    5.☆ If they ask after step 4 instead of after step 2 or 1, then you do step 3 here.
    *---*
    *And remember, follow the tips in the vid to make it easier! Hope this helps! ^^*

    • @Cool.Aunt.Lilith
      @Cool.Aunt.Lilith Місяць тому +3

      My mum thinks it's a cult 😭💀

    • @guineapig67890
      @guineapig67890 Місяць тому +1

      @@Cool.Aunt.Lilith WHAT- 😭

    • @VidaMendez
      @VidaMendez Місяць тому +1

      yah but for me they r going to ask where i got that from, and they dont know i have yt

    • @guineapig67890
      @guineapig67890 Місяць тому +1

      @@VidaMendez hmm
      maybe google or some other search engine if they allow it
      Say u were just searching up things out of curiosity and came across it or like say u heard someone talk about them and they explained it to u if possible

    • @Blueberryvr.0803
      @Blueberryvr.0803 29 днів тому +2

      Yall how do you put a comment in your clipboard?

  • @Mars_Pawss
    @Mars_Pawss 3 місяці тому +6

    When I came out I gave my mom a note right as I was leaving for school. She texted me later and said she supported me, I was so anxious I actually cried at school, but she is supportive :)

  • @forgotten.paws.
    @forgotten.paws. 9 місяців тому +236

    thanks for this! i personally won’t tell my parents bc of my mom’s harsh “please don’t be those people who think they’re an animal” or “yk ur human right?” statements and i would literally become disowned bc of personal experience but good luck to those who will use this!

    • @M0NSTER-D0G
      @M0NSTER-D0G 9 місяців тому +9

      My dad said those EXACT words to me when I was practicing quads outside once, I was like “uh.. Yeah.. Duh..! People actually think..that..?” I'm not sure if I'm a therian tho 😅 I just wanted to do quads cus it looked fun. I took one of those online quizzes but I know they aren't always true. Idk how I'm gonna find out, do you have any tips..?

    • @M0NSTER-D0G
      @M0NSTER-D0G 9 місяців тому +4

      @moonlight19696 DW, me too 😢 I want to confess to my parents too because I want to tell them everything too, I'm just.. Super scared too. So I try to keep it secret.

    • @MysteriousUser1
      @MysteriousUser1 9 місяців тому +3

      I wouldn't be disowned, but I'd get the comments.

    • @lucyllewelyn6948
      @lucyllewelyn6948 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah... I can relate

    • @Estrella_FurYT
      @Estrella_FurYT 8 місяців тому +2

      I would too and she would throw all my gear away, I would be banned from a bunch of things

  • @J1nx_0n_p4wzZ
    @J1nx_0n_p4wzZ 9 місяців тому +333

    Thanks for this! hopefully this will help allot of people come out to their parents.

    • @SensDr4gons1
      @SensDr4gons1 9 місяців тому +6

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    • @J1nx_0n_p4wzZ
      @J1nx_0n_p4wzZ 9 місяців тому +4

      @@SensDr4gons1 :0 you have.

    • @Dino_soda
      @Dino_soda 7 місяців тому

      @@J1nx_0n_p4wzZomg your my comfort UA-camr 😭😭😭

  • @pearl_dti
    @pearl_dti 8 місяців тому +69

    my parents have always told me since I was like 7 that they would always support me no matter my sexuality and identity/gender!! Made me feel more comfortable when I came out

    • @ARTSY-PUPPETS
      @ARTSY-PUPPETS 6 місяців тому +2

      I wish I had a bond with my parents like that..

    • @FairyDustTwins
      @FairyDustTwins 6 місяців тому +2

      Same but I’m still scared to tell my mom cuz I don’t wanna tell my stepdad and like my mom said the same thing to me but I don’t anticipate a tail soooooo badddddd any tips?

    • @CalicoPlayzRBLX-xw5ro
      @CalicoPlayzRBLX-xw5ro 4 місяці тому

      Me too, my parents don’t exactly like LGBTQIA, but my mom always says she will support and love me no matter what!❤

    • @Kapp_On_Paws
      @Kapp_On_Paws 4 місяці тому

      What helped me is my older sibling is trans and my mom supports them a lot and I came out as a therian in may and she supports she actually bought me masks and I made a yarn tail she helped braid the yarn and I show her my quads and gear and she supports a lot

    • @sadie_draws8210
      @sadie_draws8210 4 місяці тому

      @@Kapp_On_Paws haha srry i went thru a phase where I thought I was a therian but I know I’m not now! Cool coming out story tho!

  • @scruffystrayx
    @scruffystrayx 4 місяці тому +4

    I just told my mom, and this video guided me through it - and she supports.
    Thank you so much, so much weight has been lifted from my shoulders. ❤❤

  • @RoseSzabo
    @RoseSzabo 4 місяці тому +36

    My mom and dad both know that I am a Therian. They don’t mind at all except my mom just thinks that it’s people wearing costumes and that’s all it is to it. I tried to explain to her that it’s not just that but she doesn’t listen. I still love both of them.❤

    • @averie52621
      @averie52621 3 місяці тому

      how is it not? you are a human. you are wearing a costume, idk to me she sounds like she kinda hit the bullseye

  • @_Im.Unavailable_
    @_Im.Unavailable_ 7 місяців тому +12

    My parents know already, and they support. They said you can tell us anything, and it won't make us love you less. This almost made me cry. It made me really happy. 😢

  • @LaniTheRat
    @LaniTheRat 9 місяців тому +21

    I told my mom abt it!! She accepts who I am and listened with an open mind! I’m so happy abt it then I told my bestie she also does and said she doesn’t understand all the way but would love to learn more!! So happy with the ppl in my life accepting me for who I truly am❤

    • @St4r._.Dr4g0nz
      @St4r._.Dr4g0nz 6 місяців тому +2

      Ur so lucky! I know my mom supports me no matter, or atleast she says so. I feel comfortable with my mom but telling her such a big thing scares me. Any tips?
      Also my friends do not support therians so its rlly hard for me to be myself around them😭

    • @St4r._.Dr4g0nz
      @St4r._.Dr4g0nz 6 місяців тому

      Also im not really good at explaining stuff because i would literally break down in tears - im also finnish so it would be VERY hard to explain it in my language😭
      And i dont really know what to do now -😀

    • @LaniTheRat
      @LaniTheRat 6 місяців тому

      @@St4r._.Dr4g0nz I completely understand that. My best tip would be they don’t have to understand to accept you :) my mom doesn’t completely understand what an alter human is yet but still is very nice abt it! For ur friends I would suggest that maybe you show some signs but don’t go out of ur comfort zone. I hope you surround your self with ppl that can accept you for you! Hoping the best for you and never forget to just be urself! I’m sorry if that’s not very helpful tho😅😅

    • @St4r._.Dr4g0nz
      @St4r._.Dr4g0nz 6 місяців тому

      @@LaniTheRat thankyou i will try soon

    • @bubbles.the.artist.crafts
      @bubbles.the.artist.crafts 2 місяці тому

      My mom will still love me but not support me identifying with therianthropy like it’s not something I can change

  • @Abby_hearts_dogs
    @Abby_hearts_dogs 9 місяців тому +121

    I really don’t want too tell my parents…
    Here is why: So my mom was scrolling through instagram and she came across a therian video and said “omg (my name) I hope you will never be this it’s disgusting!” So now I do quads in my upstairs playroom where my parents never go…
    I hope you understand me❤

    • @demmywemmy
      @demmywemmy 9 місяців тому +9

      It kinda annoys me how she says "never be this" so never choose to be it but at the same time she doesn't know much about therianthropy

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +4

      i just told my mom im a therian

    • @aneelamohammed80
      @aneelamohammed80 8 місяців тому +4

      I wanted to show my mom something like that, just to see how she'd react.
      Guess what she said?
      "Those rats are just idiots. Never be like them, their disgusting."
      I can't wait to move out and be free

    • @kj5250
      @kj5250 7 місяців тому

      @@aneelamohammed80that’s so sad damn. Wish pppl would open their thinking a little.

    • @M0THZ_W1NG
      @M0THZ_W1NG 7 місяців тому +6

      Same with me! She was once scrolling through UA-cam, and she came across a therian video, and said “You must be better, don’t ever be as disgusting and stupid as this.” I wanted to tell her therians are actually smart and cool (except from the shifts) but I didn’t. Now I just do quads and mask making while she’s downstairs, and I’m in my room!
      Edit: oh yeah , and my mum told me yesterday when she was smaller, she pretended to be a cat.
      I love my parents and all, but sometimes they are just… so annoying!

  • @2R4ND0MW3RDI0S
    @2R4ND0MW3RDI0S 3 місяці тому +3

    This is why your my comfort UA-camr even if I'm not a therian. You give off raident warm vibes, without even talking, We love you tab

  • @Lisa.IlikefnafOk.
    @Lisa.IlikefnafOk. 2 місяці тому +3

    If my child came out as a therian i would definitely
    Give them a room makeover,buy masks, special places in garden, i would make them choose new clothing for therians and everything❤❤
    ( i dont have kids but when ill be like 20+ ill prob have children

  • @Astrxiaa
    @Astrxiaa 8 місяців тому +44

    Thank you so much tab ! I'm a young therian and i'm pretty scared to tell my parents. I tell them that I like making masks and "playing" like an animal. Btw you're my comfort channel. Tysm for being here.

    • @lilycat4471
      @lilycat4471 4 місяці тому

      That what I do

    • @M1L4.S_MM2
      @M1L4.S_MM2 4 місяці тому +1

      Thats what i did! My mom was a little uncomfortable at first but now shes fine

    • @D0g_Fr0m_D3law4re
      @D0g_Fr0m_D3law4re 3 місяці тому +3

      That’s what I did too! My stepmom supports me, my mom became a quadrobist, and my dad thinks I’m demonic

    • @MuffleOnPawzz
      @MuffleOnPawzz 2 місяці тому +1

      Your mom became a quadrobist?? That's so cool ❤️​@@D0g_Fr0m_D3law4re

  • @Moon_Sleeper
    @Moon_Sleeper 9 місяців тому +165

    It’ll be super hard to tell my dad that I am one. I already told my mom and she loves it. My dad literally thinks that furrys walks on all four and eat out of a dog bowl. No idea on what he will think a therian is but he will probably not support it.
    Edit: y’all are so supportive and brave so I shall give you a tutorial on how to come out as a therian or whatever! ( supported family + unsupported family’s)
    Supported: you wanna tell em when they’re not busy or in a bad mood. Tell them to follow you to the couch to sit down. You will start to explain what a therian/what you are to your parents ( keep in mind that tell them in an advanced way and tell em why you think you are what you are). Then when they know about it ask em if they support them? ( support them not you ) if they say yes then you can tell em why you think and are one and if they accept you✨ that’s all for supportive family’s.
    Unsupportive family’s: as the same wait until they’re not busy and in a bad mood. Tell em to follow you to the couch to sit and talk. You want to explain to them what it is and if they support whatever it is. If they say “ are you one? “ then say “ No I just want to know if you support em or not”. And if they don’t care or just say “ I guess you can be one.” But if you have very strict parents then try not to do anything related to therians things like quads and vocals ( vocals and quads have nothing to do with being a therian). If you really wanna do it then go to a place that not many can see or hear you. PLEASE BE CAREFUL ALWAYS even with and without a supportive family. If your younger then PLEASE come out fully no hiding things ( if not personal things ).
    If you have questions then you’re most likely to get an answer!! Bye y’all BE SAFE✨✨✨

    • @claralovinglife123
      @claralovinglife123 9 місяців тому +4

      That's what my sis thinks 😭

    • @demmywemmy
      @demmywemmy 9 місяців тому +4

      ​@@claralovinglife123same and she knows im a therian 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @KaeleeP
      @KaeleeP 9 місяців тому +1

      So sry 😢

    • @Tworandomidiots45
      @Tworandomidiots45 9 місяців тому +1

      Same

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      bro same my father is not in the picture but my mom thinks furries eat out of dog bowls

  • @CalI.Me.L
    @CalI.Me.L 9 місяців тому +110

    Here's what I did to tell my parents I'm a therian!
    I was on a long walk to pick up something, and we decided not to go by car. I decided that was a good time to tell my mom, and I told her all the jist of a therian. Then I told her my personal experiences. Its just a matter of taking it slow and making sure they understand what a therian really is! It made me feel better knowing that if I act like my true self around her she won't judge, but ofc you don't have to.

    • @tandluca
      @tandluca 8 місяців тому +1

      Hii this is gonna be so helpful do you have any tips on how to ask to go public gearing at school??

    • @CalI.Me.L
      @CalI.Me.L 8 місяців тому +1

      I haven't done this yet, but I would say just own it. If people call you a furry, so be it. Make a statement, but make sure you aren't harmed! kids can be cruel.@@tandluca

    • @tandluca
      @tandluca 8 місяців тому

      @@CalI.Me.L Tysm!!

    • @St4r._.Dr4g0nz
      @St4r._.Dr4g0nz 6 місяців тому

      So i was wondering, how did u rlly start the converstation? Im finnish and for me its rlly hard to explain it in my language D:
      I think my mom would be like "oh thats cool" but would rlly understand it, or just laugh at my face. 🙂

    • @tandluca
      @tandluca 6 місяців тому

      @@St4r._.Dr4g0nz “I’d say hey (mom or dad) i need to have a conversation with you!! When you have time can we talk”
      Hope this helps!! :D

  • @nicole.8628
    @nicole.8628 3 місяці тому +1

    It worked! Thank you so much they aren't comfortable with it but they support!

  • @Kitten119
    @Kitten119 11 днів тому +1

    Ty’sm

  • @loionanddogs
    @loionanddogs 9 місяців тому +36

    I’m so so so scared to tell my parents I’m a quadrobits. I feel like they wouldn’t care that I wear silly animal masks or bark like an animal but running on all fours is where they would cross the line.

  • @Light_Switcher
    @Light_Switcher 9 місяців тому +22

    I have very understanding parents (well maybe just my dad) but if I told only one they would tell the other and once I tried telling my mom starting with “ do you know what Therians are?” And she was like “ I need to know what your looking at” and @they are mentally ill” so I can’t tell anyone but maybe when I’m older ❤❤❤ thank you so much

  • @DaZzZed_
    @DaZzZed_ 9 місяців тому +39

    Parents knowing about accounts it so important. Especially if you find yourself in a scary situation. Hopefully, they won't stalk your accounts, but if they know about it, they'll be able to help you navigate if you've found yourself in a scary situation. That's so important!!! Thank you for saying that!! I found myself in SO MANY scary situations with really bad people when I was younger online because my parents didn't want me online/didn't know I was online. I didn't tell them about it because I was more scared of getting in trouble than I was of what was happening to me. When I eventually told them they were super open to me talking about what happened. They were upset I broke the rules, but they were more concerned that I had been hurt. As an adult now I seriously hope that younger people online will be more careful with how they interact with others online and are more open to talking with their parents/guardians when things get scary.

    • @lbr_lbr
      @lbr_lbr 9 місяців тому

      yap

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +2

      i used to have a online stalker luckily i got rid of him he kept making different accounts so he could stalk me

    • @DaZzZed_
      @DaZzZed_ 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Ellasworldofedits I'm so sorry that's so scary, I'm glad you were able to get rid of them. Stay safe

    • @demmywemmy
      @demmywemmy 8 місяців тому

      bro your parents W

    • @Snowlily60
      @Snowlily60 6 місяців тому

      Naw bro I CAN handle myself- know how to freaking tell someone to F off politely and un politely if I need to and I know some people are just stupid, etcétera.

  • @ZofiaPlays
    @ZofiaPlays 4 місяці тому +5

    My parents would ALLWAYS support me they would never care what I would be they would love me no matter what❤

    • @eluraiii
      @eluraiii 2 місяці тому

      I’m so happy for you!! So are mine ❤❤

    • @ZofiaPlays
      @ZofiaPlays 2 місяці тому +1

      @@eluraiii slayy

  • @HappiHappiHappiii
    @HappiHappiHappiii 3 місяці тому +6

    I'm readinh through all the comments, and all the suppotive thimgs families did knowning I wouldn't ever tell my mom anything willingly. And my dad is the same case. So happy for you all that have supportive parents. Stay safe, guys!

  • @Iris_ishere
    @Iris_ishere 9 місяців тому +8

    Thank you this was so helpful! Can you make a video on how to find out if your a Therian? I have been trying to figure that out lately

  • @lifewbrooklyn_13
    @lifewbrooklyn_13 9 місяців тому +28

    Also how to tell your parents about quads (personal experience with strict parents)
    Say something like “ima try to do a hunting fox jump” and jump. Do that a couple of times then say “I think running will make it easier” and boom you introduced running and jumping. I recommend doing this late at night when everyone is tired. I did this and my dad calls it *pouncing* and I think it’s just hilarious. Now every night I do quads and jumps and when my dad gets home he watched me and cheers me on. I also recommend saying the benefits of quads like how it helps flexibility and strength. If you have really really strict parents maybe don’t say it’s called quads bc they might see it kinda relates to therians and that stuff. They may think know what those are and get mad at you! I hope that helped a little :) 🫶

    • @TocaSunshinez
      @TocaSunshinez 9 місяців тому +2

      That’s what I do, lol. But another tip is… if you’re going out for a walk/hike with your parents, and see a steep grassy hill, climb up and down on it using quads, then they’ll just think you’re climbing up that way because it’s too steep

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +2

      im scared to tell my mom im a therian but either way she doesnt care about quads

    • @demmywemmy
      @demmywemmy 8 місяців тому +1

      it gave me so much happiness when you said your dad cheers you on when you do quads

    • @kj5250
      @kj5250 7 місяців тому

      Your smart🐾

    • @Lifesucksalotdoesntit
      @Lifesucksalotdoesntit 4 місяці тому +1

      I wanna fully tell them do

  • @venussavior
    @venussavior 9 місяців тому +8

    thanks so much tab! this helped my friend, i’m a therian myself and attempted telling my parents but i usually get harmed by doing so, thank you for making this and helping younger therians!! all therians respect this.

    • @Jae.thegae
      @Jae.thegae 9 місяців тому +1

      I hope you’re safe and well!

    • @venussavior
      @venussavior 9 місяців тому +2

      @@Jae.thegae thank you! i’m actually doing a lot better now :)

  • @Froggertz
    @Froggertz 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @saved.by.christ.24748
    @saved.by.christ.24748 5 місяців тому +6

    my parents don’t support, and it’s making me depressed bc i wanna do quads and make masks, but all my friends don’t support. it makes me sad, like i can’t express myself.

  • @razzle_01
    @razzle_01 5 місяців тому +7

    Ty so much!! I feel much better about this. You boost my confidence so much!!

  • @Snowlily60
    @Snowlily60 8 місяців тому +114

    Yeah I’ve started talking to my mom and saying, “ Hey mom? Did you know that some people walk around like an animal?” She told me said: “Oh, yeah it’s called bear walking. It’s actually really good for your body and can help you exercise” Lol.
    I also said: “Hey, Momma? I’ve seen videos where people make cardboard animal masks. Do you think I could make some for us? I’ll get a fox one, I love foxes, and I’ll make you guys any animals you want!”

    • @Jumaju
      @Jumaju 7 місяців тому +8

      Oh that's such a great conversation! And a really cool response of your mom!
      I like your mom 😊
      I wish I had the courage to do this!

    • @galaxycats1730
      @galaxycats1730 7 місяців тому +6

      This is brilliant. Thank you. Lol 😭😭

    • @Syst3m_Gl1tchy
      @Syst3m_Gl1tchy 6 місяців тому +2

      Thats so wholesome 🥲

    • @CLOVER_GAMES
      @CLOVER_GAMES 5 місяців тому +2

      I did the same thing!

    • @JUPITER.AND.NEPTUNE
      @JUPITER.AND.NEPTUNE 4 місяці тому +1

      Ima do the same thing! I once showed my mom my mask and she loved it! So ima just tell her quads is a sport

  • @Kvromi_xdl
    @Kvromi_xdl 9 місяців тому +7

    I told mine yesterday, and they support and accept me for who I am if it went well for me. I just know it will for all my fellow therians out there! But just like Soda said, you don't have to tell them if you're not comfortable! ❤

  • @Meandfriends-s2q
    @Meandfriends-s2q Місяць тому +1

    Ty ^^

  • @ChxrlieSpring
    @ChxrlieSpring 5 місяців тому +6

    This was the most helpful thing I’ve seen in the past 3 months

  • @Therianswoat
    @Therianswoat 9 місяців тому +453

    I just walked out of my room with a tail on and now they know I’m a therian 😂😂😂
    Edit: I’m sry for some of u guys that aren’t supported. I thought my parents supported me for a bit but then they js started making fun of me so I’m js pretending that I’m not 😭

    • @cheeseycat1525
      @cheeseycat1525 9 місяців тому +49

      I wish my mother would support me, I know she won’t so that’s why I can’t tell her ):

    • @Sigma_dude-g2t
      @Sigma_dude-g2t 9 місяців тому +29

      @@cheeseycat1525same 😭 my parents define them as “mentally ill”

    • @cheeseycat1525
      @cheeseycat1525 9 місяців тому +12

      @_AstroOnPaws_ my brother and his friends once locked me in the dogs kennel and pointed nerf guns at me (they hurt okay 😭)

    • @MUFEBZ
      @MUFEBZ 9 місяців тому +8

      I did this to my mother but she still just thinks I’m “making tails for fun” 😭😭 nooooooo

    • @JessieAndBridee428
      @JessieAndBridee428 9 місяців тому

      ⁠@@Sigma_dude-g2tMENTALLY ILL…

  • @c0y0te_on_paws
    @c0y0te_on_paws 9 місяців тому +5

    tysm! I’m considering coming out soon and this really helped. love ya tab! /p

  • @Xxpompom-e9r
    @Xxpompom-e9r Місяць тому

    I told my brother ! he was so sweet about it! best little brother

  • @TheFurryAzure
    @TheFurryAzure 4 місяці тому +1

    If I hadn’t told my parents already, this would have been a huge help! Thank you!

  • @AC3R0TS
    @AC3R0TS 9 місяців тому +51

    Thank you so much I did not know to tell my parents now I can do this, so it’s a lot less scary for me and I am a younger Therian🐾🐾🪶🪶🍂🍃🍂+ I have a UA-cam account

    • @10therin
      @10therin 9 місяців тому +4

      Just subd! 😊😊

    • @AC3R0TS
      @AC3R0TS 9 місяців тому +3

      @@10therin awww thank you

  • @r0tting_b0nez.
    @r0tting_b0nez. 9 місяців тому +63

    Thanks you so much tab. I was nervous about how to explain therianthropy to them and why i wear gear or do quads. This helps a lot

  • @Yuki_likesbiscuits
    @Yuki_likesbiscuits 9 місяців тому +14

    I want to tell my mum but shes always in a bad mood and its really sad 😥 my mum knows i make masks and do quads and i dont think shes to bothered but i dont think im going to tell her about being a therian yet .

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      same

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      my mom thought being a furry was abt marrying random people and eating out of dog bowls

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      im gonna try to see how she feels about therians then if shes ok with them ima tell her i am one

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      btw what trpe of therian are you im a fennec fox

    • @Yuki_likesbiscuits
      @Yuki_likesbiscuits 9 місяців тому +1

      @JenayaKing I'm a artic fox,Norwegian forst cat ( not sure which yet) and a wolf

  • @ykronni
    @ykronni 2 місяці тому +1

    My parents are both serious and workaholic kinda ppl if yk what I mean… telling them that I’m a therian is like asking me to get 100% in all my classes 😭
    When asking/telling my parents stuff I just get anxious and stuff so I think- I’m not ready yet but when I am I will definitely use these tips!

  • @yu_jin_1
    @yu_jin_1 2 місяці тому +2

    i have hispanic parents so its def gonna be hard so im for sure not gonna tell them, sadly. I usually do quads when Im home alone and the second I hear anything, a car, a door, anything. I instantly take off my mask and my tail and quickly hide them, I also want to start social media but am terrified if friend and family irl find my account😭

  • @we-make-stray-kids-stay
    @we-make-stray-kids-stay 9 місяців тому +23

    I have came out to my parents and tbh i dont think they support it and they think its "weird" but they still try to show enthusiasm when i mention quads and respect my beliefs

  • @lyss1.x0
    @lyss1.x0 9 місяців тому +6

    my boyfriend and me didn't use to support therians but I introduced him to your channel, and we've begun to understand more. he's said openly to me that he's a furry, and he said he would be a bit shocked and not know how to react but he'd never break up with me for being a therian. I'm not quite sure what I am but I just love my connection with nature and I feel like I wanna just run through the rivers on all fours.

  • @Xenvaas
    @Xenvaas 9 місяців тому +15

    This is very off topic but, imagine they made a therian mask like the camera glasses?and there is a camera in the eyes so you don’t have to hold your phone in your mouth?!! That would be soo coolllll!!!!😊

    • @50datab
      @50datab  9 місяців тому +7

      my mom actually got me a head phone harness for christmas XD i haven't got a chance to use it yet -- but this would be so cool !!

    • @Xenvaas
      @Xenvaas 9 місяців тому +5

      @@50datab thank you! Also thank you the actual video helped me tell my parents my identity and what I’m going through as a therian.!❤️

  • @theresahardy6774
    @theresahardy6774 4 місяці тому +1

    IM A THERIAN MOM AND DAD AND YOU CAN'T STOP ME 😊

  • @orlamacrae7609
    @orlamacrae7609 4 місяці тому

    Ty sooo much with ur help 😊

  • @rp338
    @rp338 6 місяців тому +5

    this is the most responsible short form video on therionpathy i have seen. no matter how innocent the content if you are under age please reconsider posting online.

  • @Treebreeze
    @Treebreeze 9 місяців тому +7

    Lil story on how my parents found out naturally without confrontation
    I started making masks (of my theriotypes) and my parents thought it was a little weird but overall they eye cool with it
    After a while I made my UA-cam channel and stated practicing quads they never found out about this
    Quite recently they caught me sneaking out to do quads, they didn’t stop me but just watched from a distance, over since then they haven’t said anything and it’s been 2 months. I don’t think they really care 😂

  • @raeinthebox
    @raeinthebox 9 місяців тому +11

    thank you so much tab you have helped me through so much

  • @mattschaffer9661
    @mattschaffer9661 Місяць тому +1

    When my mom found out I'm a therian, she was really upset and didn't understand. And she's talked about it to me so many times, and every time we talk about it, I run into my room. She just doesn't understand who I wanna be, a
    and I don't have ANY gear. I just wish she could understand me and start to accept my true self

  • @SillyyJinx
    @SillyyJinx 3 місяці тому

    Your room is a vibe :3

  • @silly_froggie138
    @silly_froggie138 9 місяців тому +7

    Don’t really want to tell anyone at least right now, so I’ve explained Therianthropy to my parents and just told them I think quadrobics looks fun and the masks look fun to make. My dad is currently helping me make a cardboard mask!

    • @glassilent
      @glassilent 9 місяців тому

      oo thats so cool:D I told my parents that I like to do quadrobics and wear masks for now and they dont mind me doing it at home

    • @silly_froggie138
      @silly_froggie138 9 місяців тому

      @@glassilent cool!

  • @lhsunshinegarden4415
    @lhsunshinegarden4415 9 місяців тому +11

    I don't think I'll ever be able to tell my family. Most of my family are conservative Christians, and my dad would just think it's wrong and lecture me about it 24/7. It's not that I don't feel safe. I just don't feel like dealing with the hassle and the crap they'll give me when I tell them. I'm just vibing with my therianthropy and the community. I do love this video, tho. It's good to be honest with your family when you can be ❤

    • @CIPHER_THE_THERIAN
      @CIPHER_THE_THERIAN 9 місяців тому +2

      SAME-😭

    • @appropriate-channelname3049
      @appropriate-channelname3049 9 місяців тому +1

      listen to your parents. Your not a therian nobody is. they are trying to save you from being cringe

    • @lhsunshinegarden4415
      @lhsunshinegarden4415 9 місяців тому +2

      @@appropriate-channelname3049 1. Cringe is subjective. 2. I live in America the land of the free. I am free to have my own beliefs. You don't see me, a Christian, going up to Muslims and tell them how wrong their religion is (and all the Christians who do do that are wrong for doing so). If you don't believe in such things that is fine. You're entitled to that belief. But that means I am entitled to my beliefs as well. Unless you have actually evidence against it I will believe in therianthropy and continue being "cringe"

    • @appropriate-channelname3049
      @appropriate-channelname3049 9 місяців тому

      @lhsunshinegarden4415 Belive what you want. i ask you to try and develop some self awarness and introspect a bit before you go down the cringest rabithole in your life.

    • @Ellasworldofedits
      @Ellasworldofedits 9 місяців тому +1

      i told my mom today she thought furries marry random people and eat out of dog bowls i was scared to tell her im a therian but i told her anyway

  • @hehehehehe122
    @hehehehehe122 9 місяців тому +5

    Here’s what I recommend
    Ask your parents “do you know what a Therian is”
    If their answer is yes, say “well I am one, and I really hope you support me”
    If they say no explain to them what it is then say “and I am one and I really hope you support me”
    You can also do it on text for less awkwardness

  • @Gusyourlocaltherian
    @Gusyourlocaltherian 29 днів тому

    I'm a young therian and this helped me explain to my parent tysm

  • @Lovely_OllieMm2
    @Lovely_OllieMm2 2 місяці тому +2

    My parents never supported me they threw all my gear away and now I don’t have gear but I’m still a therian I do quads secretly at school now I just wish I could reborn and have new parents that support me I hope they understand one day..😢

  • @Sunswirl_slays
    @Sunswirl_slays 5 місяців тому +11

    My parents think I can just not be a therian so I don’t act like one but when there not there I go zoomeis

    • @that_g00fyg00berr
      @that_g00fyg00berr 4 місяці тому +1

      I would give a detailed explanation and say "if you support me, that's okay but it's who I am and I can't change that

    • @HaileyTeeter
      @HaileyTeeter 4 місяці тому +1

      My parents are getting ready for a wedding they're strict ill probably get grounded, you might think I'm going crazy, I'm not lying 😢it hurts because I might not ever tell them and people out there are running through the woods around they're homes so happy and free, I can't even stay home for one hour alone and I'm in my teens

    • @MaisieDavey-o6f
      @MaisieDavey-o6f 4 місяці тому +1

      Same

    • @Sunswirl_slays
      @Sunswirl_slays 3 місяці тому +1

      @@HaileyTeeterI’m sorry to hear that but when there not there go roomies it’s fun ❤

  • @Speckled._Mothwings
    @Speckled._Mothwings Місяць тому +3

    my mom randomly said one day without me telling her anything: " as long as u don't use a litter box."
    so im unsure if i should tell my mom abt quads.. even tho i want to :(

  • @luna_gaming_Wc
    @luna_gaming_Wc 9 місяців тому +11

    I told my mum and dad this way and my dad said awww cool. Then he got me 5 masks😮❤❤❤ I love my parents who agrees?
    👇

  • @mettejensen2573
    @mettejensen2573 Місяць тому

    You are so kind soda😊

  • @gamingcatgirl
    @gamingcatgirl 4 місяці тому +1

    I told my parents last week and I was shaking a lot and I felt like screaming. My parents said they know your a human and I said yes and they said they don’t fully feel comfortable but they said they still support me and maybe I should get a book about it to learn more

  • @logansdystopia
    @logansdystopia 9 місяців тому +5

    tab, I love your videos but I could never do this until I’m older.. I’m only 10-13 so my parents would just laugh or not take it seriously. Last time I told them something, they treated me differently. This is very helpful, but not for present me :)

  • @abbysaddictiontoroblox
    @abbysaddictiontoroblox 9 місяців тому +4

    I’m super scared to them so thank you so much! ❤

  • @Reyhana510
    @Reyhana510 9 місяців тому +5

    My mom doesn’t care about my mask I just need her to know I do quads

  • @Percy-r32-33wq
    @Percy-r32-33wq 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the advice

  • @definitely_not_here_
    @definitely_not_here_ 4 місяці тому

    awesome video

  • @sunlightherian
    @sunlightherian 9 місяців тому +10

    thanks for this video! (my mom doesn’t like everything I do, that’s because I wouldn’t tell her

  • @rebeccawagner6189
    @rebeccawagner6189 6 місяців тому +5

    One time I thought I was home alone but my parents came home and said Oh you're a therian and I'm like yeah 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Leafy_The_Dragon
    @Leafy_The_Dragon 3 місяці тому +3

    I regret telling my mom, now i cant do quads, she ripped all my masks and threw away my yarntails, she made me stop hanging out with my therian/furry friends and made me leave our groupchat, i dont blame you i just Hope i can blow up some day so i can make a living out of yt and move out soon. Altho my dad is chill

  • @Starwolf10
    @Starwolf10 4 місяці тому +1

    I just told my dad out of the blue at the beginning of 4th grade and he totally supports me

  • @Theblackcat-f2g
    @Theblackcat-f2g 3 місяці тому

    It worked thank you so much ❤😊

  • @Spoospu
    @Spoospu 9 місяців тому +20

    People who likes bread 🍞🍞
    👇🍞🍞

  • @Bella-lr6ww
    @Bella-lr6ww 21 день тому

    Thanks you for the tips

  • @Drawibf
    @Drawibf 4 місяці тому +1

    My dad would appreciate I’m a therian, he really likes the masks I make, and he loves the outdoors and he would love for me to run around + stuff 🐾🐱

  • @WillowPargman-xy9st
    @WillowPargman-xy9st 5 місяців тому

    Thank you to much! This will help!😁

  • @Zoe_cosplays
    @Zoe_cosplays 2 місяці тому +1

    My mom and dad support me and when I told them my dad said to me “as long as your happy and as long as you talk to no boys I’m ok with it” (my dad’s overprotective) but when I told my mom she didn’t know what is was so I told her and she said she’ll get me stuff to help make a mask and yeah I love my parents❤

  • @HarperPittman-so9yh
    @HarperPittman-so9yh 5 місяців тому

    I will definitely use this advice

  • @Discodog_on_pawzz
    @Discodog_on_pawzz 4 місяці тому +1

    I told my mom and she said she always knew, I'm asked her how amd she said she could felt like i was more than just human then she described all of my theriotypes without me telling her what they are. She also recently awakened as pkantkin and fairykin ❤❤❤

  • @AndrinePettersen
    @AndrinePettersen 5 місяців тому

    Aw Thats so kind😊

  • @carolynlittle324
    @carolynlittle324 13 днів тому +1

    Thank you I love you as a UA-camr❤❤❤
    Because I was going to buy a mask and my mom acted like I was like some kind of weird rat which made me really sad😢

  • @WebbedPaw
    @WebbedPaw 17 днів тому

    This is so helpful

  • @Vaggie_A24666
    @Vaggie_A24666 23 дні тому

    Thank you this really helped

  • @NeatherianTherianwolf
    @NeatherianTherianwolf 5 місяців тому

    Thanks ❤😇🙂

  • @Vanilla_Bunni
    @Vanilla_Bunni 4 місяці тому +1

    I watch this video and this helped I’m so happy (they support me)thank you for making this vid

  • @ninacarpanzano4631
    @ninacarpanzano4631 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much is gonna help me❤😊

  • @Thenumber1starinthegalaxy
    @Thenumber1starinthegalaxy Місяць тому

    Ty so much ily tab♡

  • @Pintshi
    @Pintshi 2 місяці тому +1

    Thx i subscriber

  • @Hazel._.wcue0.0
    @Hazel._.wcue0.0 2 місяці тому

    Ty!

  • @Sk7llys88
    @Sk7llys88 3 місяці тому

    OK SHE SAID IT WAS A FUN SIDE OF ME AND WAS SO SUPPORTIVE!!!!! TY FOR THISS

  • @kolakitten
    @kolakitten Місяць тому +1

    i told my mom (more like she found out) and at first she was sorta okay with it but then she did research and told me that even by the therian wiki im not a therian (i told her im a spiritual one and not one on a physical level and she told me that yeah im not a therian and the only reason i feel a connection to animals is because im autistic. but i still like connecting to my theriotypes.) the therian wiki also says spiritual therians are just as valid as physical ones..) then she told me most therians and furries are schizophrenic and its a disorder (which, the disorder she was referring to was lycanthropy which is believing you are literally an animal and not a human). she doesnt like me making masks or dragon puppets anymore and doesnt like the things im into. she once argued that therians use litterboxes 😭 i dont argue back bc at this point ive just learned to hide everything about me and who i really am from her.

  • @Luvliidakota
    @Luvliidakota 4 місяці тому

    My mom was very kind a supportive of this❤

  • @EMarshall-jo9yf
    @EMarshall-jo9yf 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much I just found out that they support me

  • @Artxmisdragon
    @Artxmisdragon 4 місяці тому

    A tip if you dont want to talk tò them: Send them a note about it, i tried this and it went super smoothky and a lot less nervous then real interaction, gl!

  • @therian_ART1ST
    @therian_ART1ST 3 місяці тому

    Thanks i needed this❤❤

  • @Cadencehendon
    @Cadencehendon 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much this helps me a lot

  • @JoyceHansen-hu1bi
    @JoyceHansen-hu1bi 2 місяці тому

    Tysm it helped❤😊

  • @CAROL_ON_PAWS
    @CAROL_ON_PAWS Місяць тому

    Ty so much.. ❤