The INFJ mirror (Thoughts on being a chameleon) - ALDEN WHITE

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  • Опубліковано 30 січ 2025

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  • @boaboat1007
    @boaboat1007 3 роки тому +13

    I had an INFJ boyfriend, we were together till last year and because of the covid, he don't know when he's going to see me again and that's hurt him. He get so depressed and finally broken up with me. As an ENTP, I think he is a bit overly sensitive in a way but I also understand why so I let him be. About the topic that you're talking about I think INFJ personality is amazing, I don't want him to change anything so the best way I can do is let him be in his own world and hoping one day he will realize that I am still here.
    I don't wanna give up on this deep amazing connections with him, but I'm not sure about how he feels right now.
    maaan I am so impatient by ENTP nature but for INFJ I don't why I can do this.

    • @updaet6870
      @updaet6870 Рік тому

      I hope you have gone forward - An INFJ

  • @SchizoidVision
    @SchizoidVision 2 роки тому +2

    You have a gift for communicating, and your self understanding runs deep.

  • @andreak4739
    @andreak4739 2 роки тому +1

    As an infj who with age has developed sense of self, my feelings, who I am, my boundaries etc I can rely to mirroring I'm during my early Years, I didn’t do it consciously but bc no control over my empathety tbh, so i was constantly tuning into other ppl energy to empathize with their energy and to maintain harmony. I think early on i was too afraid to shake things out and break this sense of harmony. But Now at my 38 years old, I am still empathetic, but I have I way more defined idea of who I am, my boundaries, my feelings my values and what it works and benefit me ( or not ) without losing touch infj ppls skills.
    So look a lot as a extroverted, empathetic intj lol

  • @bluelunarmonkeytarot8533
    @bluelunarmonkeytarot8533 3 роки тому +3

    just found your vids. awesome how in touch you are with this personality/perspective. i think im in this shift right now of valuing myself more instead of seeking approval. said it in your most previous vid. just thanks for sharing and being you man!

  • @ellieee1215
    @ellieee1215 2 роки тому +1

    feels like coming home 🥺

  • @lindan.9487
    @lindan.9487 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for making your video ! Please keep it up ! I’m an INFJ ✨💕

  • @bigquinn5597
    @bigquinn5597 3 роки тому +2

    Hey man seen this video watched and subscribed,keep up good work

  • @redroselace9545
    @redroselace9545 3 роки тому +2

    Background music??? Love it so calming

  • @jensmueller-p1r
    @jensmueller-p1r Рік тому

    lol, the first thing I did when I got my flipping concept was looking for criminals. Well, look at crime and the human soul and know that no one understands it and well, if you overdo it with the mirroring it gets really tight for you.

  • @ellieee1215
    @ellieee1215 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this 😭

  • @refulgensq478
    @refulgensq478 3 роки тому

    Well Done YOUNG Man! Bless

  • @lid.1165
    @lid.1165 2 роки тому

    That's just so deep... thanks

  • @nicalejano2566
    @nicalejano2566 3 роки тому

    Love your content!

  • @GatheringBitByBit
    @GatheringBitByBit 3 роки тому

    Well said. 😊

  • @therestlessanxiouschild
    @therestlessanxiouschild 3 роки тому

    This is so true 🥺

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 3 роки тому +1

    5 closest? You assume I have 5 close friends to begin with, I only have 3, mom dad n my best friend alisha

  • @Starzfishzs
    @Starzfishzs 3 роки тому +1

    YASSSS!!!

  • @dottie_mayfield
    @dottie_mayfield 3 роки тому

    Ugggggg not the meatloaf hahaha

  • @fredericoquelhas7030
    @fredericoquelhas7030 3 роки тому +1

    Ty

  • @ellieee1215
    @ellieee1215 2 роки тому

    I'm 😭

  • @missheartbreaker1213
    @missheartbreaker1213 3 роки тому

    I can relateee and im an ENFJ

  • @Lisaaaaaaq
    @Lisaaaaaaq 2 роки тому

  • @ishowedyouthat2575
    @ishowedyouthat2575 3 роки тому

    Huge