After we clear all our trauma and limiting beliefs, what is left behind? Unconditional love of self, wisdom, abundance, and compassion and goodwill for others.
Aloha Melanie, yes, I want to live as my true self! I’m ready to do whatever it takes to heal n get free. So tired of self-sabotage. I commit to follow thru cause there’s really nothing else to do. Thank you so much for the NARP program! Love to you! Meetaji
You are absolutely right as always beautiful! Learning to face the trauma head on instead of running from it and distracting ourselves and lying to ourselves is the only way to thrive. Many people don't understand including myself at one point that all that manifest in our life is a direct reflection of our inner state of being that we are unaware of because we haven't done the inner work and some just don't want to go inside themselves. Just want to say how much I love you Melanie and you are truly an angel in awakening the consciousness of humanity so we can all thrive together. Peace and blessings. Doing the inner work is a daily priority to become our highest selves 🙏
First off MTE, congrats on all of the recent success in your life! You are truly deserving of it. In response to your question in the video, my answer is absolutely yes I want to live in the most true self of mine. Your videos and blog have been helping me immensely in doing so.
Thank you Michael for your kind words and I am delighted you want to live a true self life - awesome!! So pleased my resources are helping you. If you would like to take the next step please consider joining me in a free healing workshop to help you further www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar xoxox
Heyyy heyyy!! Congratulations love ❤❤❤ And yes I'm absolutely prepared to live as my true Self Mel, this is the turning point, the Universe is on my side even when I can't feel it.
I have always thought that I am meant for great things,,,,not on a global scale like Kylie Minoque, but more quietly, in servitude of the individual soul. Once I heal my current wound reopening I will continue on this path, Thanks Mel xx
Yes, I want this! I want to be radiant joy, happiness, and wholesomeness! I acknowledge that I have put my Self through the "School of Hard Knocks" (narcissistic abuse, isolation, loneliness, etc), in order to reach the Light. I, now, want the direct route to my Truth. I want my Self. I deserve my Truth and Light.
2 years ago I found this beautiful method that Mel teaches. I ended up a year later having a beautiful Awakening., I was before on the path listening to my body, it was showing itself through meditation (a bit) and my art previous. Going inside and back and learning how to heal was paramount.! I am now in such a true real place. I now am myself. I have beautiful people in my life NOW but a few from the past I love but from far away💜 no blame for anything because some came to teach me. 💜 I am a strong loving warrior woman because of everything I have experienced..🦉
Just when I think there are parts of me no one can understand, so deep and idiosyncratic traumas, you say things along and I feel a little bit less weird.
I totally want to transform and find my inner light and true self, true love! Not trying to change other people is huge thing to let go after being raised by a narcissist. 💜 I do want to get to the other side.
To be honest, I haven't been my authentic self in years. This is a great video. I am currently struggling to get past trauma bonding and I need to heal. Day after day I feel better, yet something triggers my emotions so subtly, it feels like the abuser is still here. I want to get past this.
Hi Leslie, I so hear you - it can be so difficult to get past this when the trauma is still wedged inside us. That is why the Thriver Way to heal helps so much because it allows us to live free of the trauma and heal. I'd love you to check out how - www.melanietoniaevans.com/frecourse xoxoxo
Hi Melanie thanks and congratulations to your work,the new book. It's some months now since I come across you and also the NARP program you send me, you know what....My life has taken another course, the best course I was longing and begging for centuries. I feel like anew book,new lights everywhere I go......God bless you Melanie, love of love to you too, bye bye
I want true self, I've seen it, and come so far... but I continue to get to points on my journey and I slip back, get down on myself and get drawn back to victim modes in my mind. I know I need to commit to this once and for all, my Narp module file is full with module 1 shifts, jam packed full. I've come so far but am in the throws of doubt and confusion... Again, then I beat on me, and I'm sick of beating on me... So sick of beating on Richard xx
Hi Richard, I'm happy to help. This is something almost all of us in this community wrestle with. Recovery is a process and as we go we become more and more aware of ourselves and what makes us tick. I can help you to understand what is contributing to this issue and help you overcome it. Here is a resource that can help: blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-change-your-behaviour/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-10-most-impactful-ways-to-start-self-partnering-right-now/ and blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-to-rebuild-your-self-worth-after-narcissistic-abuse/ You are not alone my friend. Hang in there, the answers are coming. Love and blessings xoxox
Thank you for your speedy reply Melanie. So many triggers recently and I know I've been ignoring them. I have read the resource links and am going to be with these emotions, I know I need to be with them. Thank you always for your patience, light and support that you give so freely. I'll hear you tomorrow in module 🙏 lots of love to melanie tonia. Xx Richard
Absolutely yes. But how can I move forward after the traumatic abandonment my Sociopath mom and my Narc father put me through 15 years ago, knowing I will not get back those precious 15 years which I lost feeling victimized and helpless? I've lost the best years of my life, it's always at the back of my mind, how can I cope?
Hi Tim, I would love you to connect to my free resources to help you with this www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse because when you start to heal your inner traumas you will quickly move into acceptance and see that your best years are yet to come. This video may help you further - the deep message in this video is for you too - blog.melanietoniaevans.com/losing-your-best-years-to-narcissistic-abuse/ Love and blessings to you xoxox
Mel affirmed in me that I am an Empath, here to help the world out of its shackles through LOVE. And that is why so many of us star-seeds or empaths are preyed upon by Narcissists because in a way the Narcs are here to control our powers and make sure we never get to the place of self-love so we can complete our mission here on a QUANTUM LEVEL! No wonder it is so distracting having a narcissist boyfriend, parent etc...because they are literally closing in on us and making sure we do not succeed - tripping us up at every opportunity until we disconnect. My Narcissist Aunt wants us over for Thanksgiving this Oct. I promised myself I would go no-contact and stop seeing her, but I don't want to miss that holiday with my Dad...he is everything to me and I want to enjoy and be present during every holiday and moment with him. I know my Dad will want me there, but I don't want to see my Aunt.
Melanie has sometimes said that narcs are not there to make sure we don't succeed. They may try to do this. They are there to rip open our wounds so we see our wounds, acknowledge our pain, feel it, and heal it.
Hi dear Melanie! Amazing video, as always. Please: do narcissists make us feel totally drained, even sick after few hours of contact with them? I am a teacher. I give classes to a girl that seems to be a narcissist in my opinion. After only 6 classes given to her ( total of only 6 hours), I got totally energy drained. I even got SICK, where I am coughing and I my voice is disappearing, I cannot speak because I am coughing and my throat is dry. And I see MANY signs of narcissism ( control, manipulation, etc) in this student. Please, is it possible that SHE is the one draining my energy and making me sick? Maybe she is a vampire? Thank you
Yes Daniela if you are sensitive to energy around you that could be triggering your wounds and beliefs. This video may help you further as you are a primary care giver - as a teacher - blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/ Love and blessings to you xoxox
So if a narcissist triggers your wound by just ignoring you..Does it mean the wound inside you is giving the physical symptoms or the current trigger is the cause?
I feel like, joining fundamental Christianity at 13 after the huge trauma of losing my mum created a poverty, people pleaser quietly enraged person. They teach you to hollow out any deservedness out of your soul. I am destitute.
Hi Guillaume, I'm happy to help and I'm pleased to report there is much you can do to change the conditioning in your youth and from your experience in this religion. Here is something that can explain this further: www.melanietoniaevans.com/articles/reprogramming-beliefs.htm There is even more information about this through my free resources. You can sign up here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm Much love xoxox
God is THE Creat OR - not creat ion. And He is a PERSON with Personality and identity , not a just a ''force''.
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I will be glad when Melanie finds the truth in Jesus and the Bible. I can tell you New Age beliefs a one big dead end. Waste your life on new age thinking. Been there done that it destroyed me.
After we clear all our trauma and limiting beliefs, what is left behind? Unconditional love of self, wisdom, abundance, and compassion and goodwill for others.
Congratulations on your new book and your new home!
Aww thank you Ron xoxox
Aloha Melanie, yes, I want to live as my true self! I’m ready to do whatever it takes to heal n get free. So tired of self-sabotage. I commit to follow thru cause there’s really nothing else to do. Thank you so much for the NARP program! Love to you! Meetaji
Love right back to you too Meetaji, I am delighted you have the NARP program to help you sweetheart. Keep thriving! xoxox
Great video, Mel. Congratulations on your book, your new home and having such a fabulous life, you deserve it!! xxx
Thank you so much Frankie xoxox
Bring it on! Lovely flowers, by the way, distracted by the beautiful rose in the middle 😍
Yes
Absolutely
With no holds barred
I want true Self
And I am willing to do the work!
Awesome Sarah!! Your True Self is waiting to connect you
You are absolutely right as always beautiful! Learning to face the trauma head on instead of running from it and distracting ourselves and lying to ourselves is the only way to thrive. Many people don't understand including myself at one point that all that manifest in our life is a direct reflection of our inner state of being that we are unaware of because we haven't done the inner work and some just don't want to go inside themselves. Just want to say how much I love you Melanie and you are truly an angel in awakening the consciousness of humanity so we can all thrive together. Peace and blessings. Doing the inner work is a daily priority to become our highest selves 🙏
I'm so happy to help sweetheart. Love and blessings xoxox
First off MTE, congrats on all of the recent success in your life! You are truly deserving of it. In response to your question in the video, my answer is absolutely yes I want to live in the most true self of mine. Your videos and blog have been helping me immensely in doing so.
Thank you Michael for your kind words and I am delighted you want to live a true self life - awesome!! So pleased my resources are helping you. If you would like to take the next step please consider joining me in a free healing workshop to help you further
www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar xoxox
Heyyy heyyy!! Congratulations love ❤❤❤
And yes I'm absolutely prepared to live as my true Self Mel, this is the turning point, the Universe is on my side even when I can't feel it.
Awesome Bushra xoxox and thank you hun
You are words of an angel, as always, thx Mel
My pleasure Owondr xoxox
I have always thought that I am meant for great things,,,,not on a global scale like Kylie Minoque, but more quietly, in servitude of the individual soul. Once I heal my current wound reopening I will continue on this path, Thanks Mel xx
My pleasure Colleen xoxox
Yes, I want this! I want to be radiant joy, happiness, and wholesomeness! I acknowledge that I have put my Self through the "School of Hard Knocks" (narcissistic abuse, isolation, loneliness, etc), in order to reach the Light. I, now, want the direct route to my Truth. I want my Self. I deserve my Truth and Light.
2 years ago I found this beautiful method that Mel teaches. I ended up a year later having a beautiful Awakening., I was before on the path listening to my body, it was showing itself through meditation (a bit) and my art previous. Going inside and back and learning how to heal was paramount.! I am now in such a true real place. I now am myself. I have beautiful people in my life NOW but a few from the past I love but from far away💜 no blame for anything because some came to teach me. 💜 I am a strong loving warrior woman because of everything I have experienced..🦉
Learning more of what I need everyday meeting my needs more and more.
Just when I think there are parts of me no one can understand, so deep and idiosyncratic traumas, you say things along and I feel a little bit less weird.
Absolutely YES!! And congratulations on the book! ✨🎉🎊
Thank you Katherine xoxox
I say YES! Enough of the pain, suffering, lack, unfulfillment, the walking wounded :( I deserve all of LIFE and LOVE.
Narp… I am most grateful and thankful for my new life as a THRIVER .. so dedicated to my new life
Thanks as usual.
My pleasure Edward xoxo
@@MelanieToniaEvans usually your cat makes cameo? lol such a deep message congrats on new home. Glad you escaped earthquake zone safely.
This is just what I needed to hear
I totally want to transform and find my inner light and true self, true love! Not trying to change other people is huge thing to let go after being raised by a narcissist. 💜 I do want to get to the other side.
To be honest, I haven't been my authentic self in years. This is a great video. I am currently struggling to get past trauma bonding and I need to heal. Day after day I feel better, yet something triggers my emotions so subtly, it feels like the abuser is still here. I want to get past this.
Hi Leslie, I so hear you - it can be so difficult to get past this when the trauma is still wedged inside us. That is why the Thriver Way to heal helps so much because it allows us to live free of the trauma and heal. I'd love you to check out how - www.melanietoniaevans.com/frecourse xoxoxo
You are beautiful! Congrats 🌹
Thanks for this!
My pleasure Kathryn xoxox
Thank you so much Melanie, I just had a major shift today. ❤️
You are very welcome. I'm so glad this helps. Much love sweetheart xoxox
I want my true self. I do.
Yes im willing to be my true self and reclaim my gifts
I have been listening to you since it seems day one. Thank you for helping me understand me.
You are very welcome RWTW, I'm so glad to help. Love and blessings xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans you bring peace to this world
Hi Melanie thanks and congratulations to your work,the new book. It's some months now since I come across you and also the NARP program you send me, you know what....My life has taken another course, the best course I was longing and begging for centuries. I feel like anew book,new lights everywhere I go......God bless you Melanie, love of love to you too, bye bye
I feel like a new born....
I'm so happy for you Alice. How wonderful! I wish you much success sweetheart. Love and many blessings xoxox
Congratulations on your new book.
Thank you for helping me understand
Congratulations on your book, that's great 😀!
Thank you Leslie so much! xoxox
THANK YOU !
My pleasure Richard. Bless xoxox
I want true self, I've seen it, and come so far... but I continue to get to points on my journey and I slip back, get down on myself and get drawn back to victim modes in my mind. I know I need to commit to this once and for all, my Narp module file is full with module 1 shifts, jam packed full. I've come so far but am in the throws of doubt and confusion... Again, then I beat on me, and I'm sick of beating on me... So sick of beating on Richard xx
Hi Richard,
I'm happy to help. This is something almost all of us in this community wrestle with. Recovery is a process and as we go we become more and more aware of ourselves and what makes us tick. I can help you to understand what is contributing to this issue and help you overcome it. Here is a resource that can help: blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-change-your-behaviour/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-10-most-impactful-ways-to-start-self-partnering-right-now/ and blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-ways-to-rebuild-your-self-worth-after-narcissistic-abuse/ You are not alone my friend. Hang in there, the answers are coming. Love and blessings xoxox
Thank you for your speedy reply Melanie. So many triggers recently and I know I've been ignoring them. I have read the resource links and am going to be with these emotions, I know I need to be with them. Thank you always for your patience, light and support that you give so freely. I'll hear you tomorrow in module 🙏 lots of love to melanie tonia. Xx
Richard
I love this episode.
Mwah Megan I am so pleased you do! xoxox
Absolutely yes. But how can I move forward after the traumatic abandonment my Sociopath mom and my Narc father put me through 15 years ago, knowing I will not get back those precious 15 years which I lost feeling victimized and helpless? I've lost the best years of my life, it's always at the back of my mind, how can I cope?
Hi Tim, I would love you to connect to my free resources to help you with this www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse because when you start to heal your inner traumas you will quickly move into acceptance and see that your best years are yet to come. This video may help you further - the deep message in this video is for you too - blog.melanietoniaevans.com/losing-your-best-years-to-narcissistic-abuse/ Love and blessings to you xoxox
I just adore you !
Mel affirmed in me that I am an Empath, here to help the world out of its shackles through LOVE. And that is why so many of us star-seeds or empaths are preyed upon by Narcissists because in a way the Narcs are here to control our powers and make sure we never get to the place of self-love so we can complete our mission here on a QUANTUM LEVEL! No wonder it is so distracting having a narcissist boyfriend, parent etc...because they are literally closing in on us and making sure we do not succeed - tripping us up at every opportunity until we disconnect.
My Narcissist Aunt wants us over for Thanksgiving this Oct. I promised myself I would go no-contact and stop seeing her, but I don't want to miss that holiday with my Dad...he is everything to me and I want to enjoy and be present during every holiday and moment with him. I know my Dad will want me there, but I don't want to see my Aunt.
Little Witch i love my dad too.
Melanie has sometimes said that narcs are not there to make sure we don't succeed. They may try to do this. They are there to rip open our wounds so we see our wounds, acknowledge our pain, feel it, and heal it.
I want to walk threw the fire and get to my true higher self im in a delusion tight now and its not always a satisfying place :(
Hi dear Melanie! Amazing video, as always. Please: do narcissists make us feel totally drained, even sick after few hours of contact with them? I am a teacher. I give classes to a girl that seems to be a narcissist in my opinion. After only 6 classes given to her ( total of only 6 hours), I got totally energy drained. I even got SICK, where I am coughing and I my voice is disappearing, I cannot speak because I am coughing and my throat is dry. And I see MANY signs of narcissism ( control, manipulation, etc) in this student. Please, is it possible that SHE is the one draining my energy and making me sick? Maybe she is a vampire? Thank you
Yes Daniela if you are sensitive to energy around you that could be triggering your wounds and beliefs. This video may help you further as you are a primary care giver - as a teacher - blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-to-do-if-your-child-has-narcissistic-tendencies/ Love and blessings to you xoxox
So if a narcissist triggers your wound by just ignoring you..Does it mean the wound inside you is giving the physical symptoms or the current trigger is the cause?
I feel like, joining fundamental Christianity at 13 after the huge trauma of losing my mum created a poverty, people pleaser quietly enraged person. They teach you to hollow out any deservedness out of your soul. I am destitute.
But that's all I know to do. How can I rewire my brain? It's to deep for me.
Hi Guillaume,
I'm happy to help and I'm pleased to report there is much you can do to change the conditioning in your youth and from your experience in this religion. Here is something that can explain this further: www.melanietoniaevans.com/articles/reprogramming-beliefs.htm There is even more information about this through my free resources. You can sign up here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm Much love xoxox
God is THE Creat OR - not creat ion. And He is a PERSON with Personality and identity , not a just a ''force''.
I will be glad when Melanie finds the truth in Jesus and the Bible. I can tell you New Age beliefs a one big dead end. Waste your life on new age thinking. Been there done that it destroyed me.