I didn’t listen to this particular video, just saw the headline and understood in what direction it will go. Regardless, I wanted to say to anyone who might be reading this, one of the best advices I picked from Mr Mel’s videos is “do not take it personally”. I cannot emphasize how important this is, it’s the key to navigating through. Pure gold! Once u r able to dettach from any word or action coming from your TF, things get very simple. Though it’s hard to reach that state, but certainly not impossible. Thanks again, Mr Mel!
@@anicca8957 I used to listen to all of his videos years ago and noticed a lot of repetitive things, which is why I started selecting topics based on his headlines and given descriptions. The comment was placed here to praise him in general, not to criticize him, so you can put your negative energy elsewhere instead of being a total POS towards someone you don't know. Very timely to respond after two years, too, congrats. F you very much.
Mel, I know you can not read this comment but maybe it reaches you at some level. I love you so much. I enjoy youre videos and it really helps. (and it triggers my ass off) thank you.
Thank you for sharing! I didn't know anything about twin flames and 'awakenings' when my own journey started. It transformed me so much that I thought I was ill. It was very scary. It felt comforting to read others have been dealing with this too. Being female doesn't mean it's not confusing, even if you are intuitive. I'm not a spiritual person; I don't meditate, never believed in soul mates, chakras or enlightenment. The past couple of months have been a continuous (but beautiful) WTF experience. I 'm curious to find out what lies ahead!
I'm so glad I came across this video in my suggestions. I feel at peace now. I have been journaling what I've been through which has really helped too. This is exactly what I'm experiencing right now. Obviously a few things are only specific to my experience but everything else is quite similar. You're right it is overwhelming, especially when you don't know what the hell is happening. I sometimes lose sleep over the depth of the connection and it has been like that for some time (2 1/2 years). Thought I was going crazy for a while but now I see the big picture and I am able to process it in a healthier way. It's difficult talking to people about it because mostly they just think it's silly or have no idea what you're talking about ("is that like a soulmate thing."). So I don't anymore I just accept it and see it as something to learn from. We haven't actually met in the physical and were communicating via social media. This has been way beyond anything I've ever experienced even with an ex whom really hurt me. I am exercising rigorously daily, eating clean (as best as I can), no alcohol for almost 2 years. I have developed telepathic and other abilities I never knew I was capable of. Although I feel like I've lost my TF by freaking her the hell out, I'm sensing it won't be a permanent thing. If we don't come into union I feel like the whole experience is about the awakening processes more than anything. I'm honestly getting to the point where I'm okay with that, not sure how it would've worked anyway. We live on the other side of the world to each other (Australia, Canada). Sure I'd like it if we did but I now know that the journey is not about getting what you want. The very best I can hope for is a platonic friendship in the future. I have no hard feelings towards her, even though it stung at first when she cut off communication. I probably would've done the same in her situation, as I was very vocal about what I was experiencing to her but felt lost in what to do about it. In hindsight it was a very valuable lesson to learn to put myself first. I feel like it's for the best at the moment for us to focus on ourselves and I'm feeling very positive about the direction my life is heading. If the universe wills us together than that's not for me to decide. We both needed to grow. The point of writing this was to assure people that you are worthy of love, respect and all the other good things in life. You may feel pathetic at times, I know I did and sometimes still do but I wouldn't have changed it for the world :) Also from my experience that's part of the ascencion process. It doesn't define your life it's a LESSON. Thank you for your guidance. God Bless.
The main problem with being an empath is people who can drain your energy. It can happen just because someone is low on energy, but the big problem is people who are always low on energy(e.g. alcoholics). These low-energy people have discovered how to drain your energy(sometimes just being close to you works), and it doesn't matter to them how that affects you, so you have to learn how to protect your energy. This energy draining can get to the point where it's life-threatening.
Good video!! My father was a first wave, is of your age group, but hasn't fared as well as yourself, Mel. He didn't trust his intuition, became a life long alcoholic, with some really nasty behaviors ... today he can't figure out why he did these things ... very intelligent man. Largely men, and their 'kingly kingdoms' have pulled me down from great spiritual heights and being able to function optimally as a mother. My woman friends have pulled me through, as well as my kids, ... a great blessing. My TF is actually always been intuitive, but consider that these abilities can be used for very self-centered behaviors: rampant self-cherishing/absorption, etc. He has now more fully awakened, but i feel that he previously did see me as his everything 'mistress', that i would always be there for him ... etc. The clairvoyant levels are v. high -- i have told him i am definitely his friend, and send him loving energy, but i i am not interested in being part of a 'harem' ... I'm trying to find moments of time to interject my loving presence in his life -- where he would see/hear a different future for himself, I have some doubts about the 'fairytale' (obviously), but it's still possible. I hold it in a bubble of "aspirations" ... but i no longer 'expect' it, because this would be practically foolish. I don't talk to anyone about this ... they only think I am nuts. Truth is, the community at large, do not understand the concept of 'we are all one' ... because they want to see themselves simply from the egoic consciousness, and so want to maintain status quo.
Thank you for this information. I absolutely agree. We truly need to have compassion for our partner and what they are going through. My partner not only has been dealing with increased sensitivity, but his life fell apart and he's going through the process of rebuilding himself and his kingdom from the ground up. He's really doing a beautiful job with putting everything back together.
This is incredible! Thank you for this message. I have recently been emphatically picking up on similar information from the other halfs perspective as well. Not only do I have a possible new understanding of how his side of things might look, you also described exactly what happened to me as well upon the explosion of this connection. I'm glad we're finally beginning to understand this is evolution, new understanding and experiences of love and relationship. Such a trip. Thanks for being here💜💜
If you are an empath, you are a healer. You just have to figure out how to do it, and it can vary from person to person. There are some situations you shouldn't try to heal.
Wowza! This makes complete sense! Thank you sir!!! I have such great compassion for the DM during this awakening process. I remember when I started to realize I was an empath and how overwhelming it felt. That probably pales in comparison to what these beautiful men are feeling. Thank you so much for this incredibly enlightening perspective. You’re truly a gift to us on this journey.
When my awakening started UA-cam was the place I came to understand this process and coming across this video and channel, speaking with intellect and sharing your mind is helping so many people. Thank you for your time
I love you and your authenticity!!! you make me giggle when you state a fact and then say it’s fact. I love the truth and I love speaking the truth and I am so happy I have found you on here. You are a rare gem. I’ve been watching your videos for the past week. I just love the perspective you give it is real and I resonate! Much ❤️
I love this guy! I'm a fellow Canuck from Southern Alberta so hello to you Mel. Your channel is awesome because there is no b.s. I appreciate Mel's University. :)
Good video presentation, Mel. Thank you for taking the time to explain the 'awakening' from the male point of view. Learning to understand things from another person's point of view, or learning to have compassion for others, should also be considered "part of the evolutionary process." In fact, I consider it part of growing up and becoming an adult. Women are naturally more inclined than men to discuss how and what they feel, generally speaking, in my opinion. I think that's changing, but I think women tend to be more communicative by nature. Men sometimes need to be left alone to think, feel and process things. The ability to 'see' what's coming, to 'know' what someone else may be feeling before he/ she does, or to sense where something is headed or what's on the horizon can be a blessing, but it can also be a burden. Certain gifts must be handled very carefully - with tact, patience, awareness and a sense of timing. That has been my experience. Thank you again for giving your time and thoughts to this topic.
Thank you for doing this video...this is what happened to me back in November 2018...ALL AT ONCE! I can't begin to describe how hard it was to figure out what happened to me, but Mel hit it on the head...I'm still sorting it out 4 months later! I'm really starting to work on me now away from my former spouse...I still have a long way to go...thank you very much for the insight Mel, it really helps. I think one day soon I get a reading from you to get a more personal perspective.
I had it all at the same time; kundalini, heart, 3rd eye... and more intuitive but I admit I was highly intuitive to begin with. Thank you! Very informative ❤️
Mel's University on UA-cam!! Really cool!! Thank you Mel, for all the useful information in your talk, today. Want to say a special thank you, for the wonderful personal channeled reading, you did for me. It helped me open my eyes to a few issues I was stubbornly refusing to address. I am more open now, to exploring and accepting, the hidden gifts of the universe, for my highest and greatest good in synch with the divine's will!
Once again you’ve hit the nail on the head! Awesome video. The purpose of a twin flame relationship is Spiritual Growth. Not the 3D perfect life & companionship illusion...so boring. I don’t even remember who I used to be, think,feel..thank goodness lol 😂
I became an empath first. Because I was susceptible to other people's states, I had to have some protection against that. I started with stones, and ended up inventing something that gave me energy at tall times. After this, and after I accepted being alone(I'm 67) for the rest of my life-at least romantically, I met a karmic soulmate who was a psychopath(no, they don't treat you any differently than a non-soulmate. Mine did like me, though, and didn't like her other partners.). After I learned my lesson(what I would accept and not accept), she was no longer my soulmate, although I'm still hers. I then met a soulmate, my twin flame, and another soulmate. I stopped even asking myself(through my heart chakra) if someone was a soulmate. I can't get together with my twin flame(huge age gap, among other things), but she insists I not get involved with anyone else(she is correct.). I'm in the process of finding out about what this means for me and for her. We both do better when we think of each other.
Great video Mel thank you .. I needed to understand what my twin is going through .. the empathetic abilities scared me a lot because I never had any thing like it before.. I literally felt emptiness when I contacted with a narcissism person in my family.. I now understand why I did so .. I prefer isolating myself just to feel safe ..
Thank you, Mel. Yours is always a fresh perspective, an eye-opener, and I appreciate this video quite a bit. I believe it’s my favorite of yours so far.
My goodness, some of your information on this video I used to reflect about. The concept of love - one's own concept of love - really hit me as this has been a constant reflection/contemplation of mine. I can recognise many things you are saying as having happened to me - and I'm a female. I had to edit this Mel because I need to share and I know you read them. Your experience of your first marriage is very similar to mine. I left everything behind because i wanted to experience the real thing - real authenticity - in everything especially my relationship.... and guess what? I did!! BUT your comment about wanting a 'partner' not a 'wife' made me realise that I (and my partner) have slipped into wife and husband mode recently - it's a big puller this 'traditional' programming. And I also now just remembered what you had said in another video 'you can't know what you want unless you know what you don't want' - and I'm sure that by experiencing this I am getting very clear on what I don't want. You have made my brain work Mel, with this video.
34:55 The terms “divine masculine” and “divine feminine”, anymore, are merely euphemisms for “spiritually awakened man” and “spiritually awakened woman”. If only I had a dollar every time I heard “blah blah blah divine masculine - oh, but when i say divine masculine I’m not talking about gender, I’m talking about energy...” and they go RIGHT BACK to talking about masculine GENDER. [Related note: I’ve seen and heard a lot of spiritual women refer to themselves as tomboys and self-proclaiming to have very strong masculine energy, yet I’ve NEVER ONCE heard them refer to themselves as the divine masculine. What are the odds?!] And also this, “divine masculine” is basically used as a euphemism for “the lesser/newly awakened counterpart”. There’s this circular reasoning at play [some would call it “no loose ends”! ha!] that, “Well, women are generally more spiritually aware than men [this much is true], therefore, for a given pair of counterparts, the more-spiritually awakened one is the divine feminine counterpart. How do we know this? Well, because the feminine is more awake than the masculine!” And also, “Masculine energy is more material, and feminine energy is more spiritual.” That’s steamin’ pile of spiritual bullshit that’s been created and propagated by women in the spiritual community, I’ll tell you what. Riddle me this: if spirit (divinity) is opposite matter, then how can divine masculine energy be anything other than spiritual?? Nevermind the various masculine (men) avatars/archetypes/saints from VARIOUS religions and spiritual lineages who play very strong “pro-spirit, anti-matter” [pun lol] roles, and the likewise the various feminine (women) avatars/achetypes/saints who play very strong “Earthly nurturance” roles as part of their spiritual mission. Fact is: of the divine (spiritual) energy there is masculine and feminine, and of the material (corporeal) manifestation/representation OF the spiritual energy [because spirit begets matter, not vice versa] there is also masculine and feminine. And of men and women alike in this material realm, there is a mixture/balance of masculine and feminine spiritual energy AND masculine and feminine material energy. But point being: “masculine” is not equivocal to matter, nor is “feminine” equivocal to spirit. The thing is, or at least it seems to me, that many (and perhaps “most”) women in the spiritual community do not recognize what true divine masculinity as expressed through the human form even is! In regards to myself and other heterosexual men I know who are quite spiritual evolved, our temperaments are not necessarily much different at all than “non spiritual men”, but there is a subtle underlying spiritual compassion in the way we live our lives that set us apart [i.e. make us holy; set apart] in the way we interact with others and the way we interact with ourselves. But it’s not the type of “spiritual masculinity” that women are usually looking for (or necessarily even know how to accept).
Thank you so much Mel for this insight. It is a great confirmation of what I have been intuiting as I recently connected with a man at a distance. We seem to be on the same page but he has had much trauma in his life. He is an awakened soul and expresses this through his art. You explanation is a great help in navigating this new state for me. I can see it has great potential for the expansion of my spiritual gifts. I loved the way you pointed out about drawing out empathy. This is bang on for me . Both of us have had our trust tested in other situations so my sense is to be gentle with both myself and this man. Oh and it is wonderful to hear that I don’t have to have any expectations about the husband and wife thing. I have had a sense that the male female dynamic has to change and as you have spoken this is best done in the freedom of what we have been captive to. I like the University bit. Great wisdom . Thank you so much.
I recently had this experience overstanding my understanding of the twin flame journey. I'm now in the understanding of allowing him to go through his process and assist him if he comes to me. I liking be single after a 10 year relationship. I even told my counterparts I don't have to be with him in the 3d. Empress/Emperor=DM/DF depending upon the dimensional understanding/overstanding. Namaste 🙏
Thank you Mel.Love the University of Mel..I appreciate your videos Mel, your wisdom and honesty.I was an old soul as a child, what's changed?, nothing, I am just a much older, old soul. Am I still learning?, everyday..I don't always like being an Empath,,but it is what it is.I try to be open to change,but its not always easy.I am sensitive yes, but havent been a big cryer, for years,just ask my kids, yet being in this relationship for almost two years,has opened me back up,with crying tears, tears of sadness tears of joy.This has been uncomfortable for me,but threw this evolution, I realize, I must embrace it.I hear what you are saying about the man.And I am getting slowly..Thanks Mel, you are a gem..
I found out the main defense against being an empath is to add energy at all times to your body. I invented something that does that. It doesn't completely work(i.e. in all situations, but does diminish the bad side effects from being an empath), so I use affirmations, casting out demons, and the Holy Grail Vortex also, but the overall lose of energy is much less if you constantly have high energy.
I understand this, and my twin is starting the process, and has been open to having me back in the picture as our relationship creates itself. But the issue is, he is self medicating from recent heartache, and numbing himself from this process.
Binge watching like crazy to graduate from the University. I'm learning a lot and ALWAYS focusing on my heart center. I've been thinking about it like asking my heart to help me and guide me. Also, second night this week that you showed up in a dream. Hahah. I was at your house and told you my tf situation and you just gave me a blank look. Made me realize to just let it go. It's obviously a bore. Too funny. My sister was there too and she was painting something.
I’m female but this describes my awakening. My heart chakra opened wide for 3 months anxiety 24/7 thought I was having a heart attack. Then discover I’m an Empath everyone said what’s wrong with you your not the same. I separated from everyone, went hermit mode of learning and healing. I was in my Divine masculine when I awoke and for the past 2 years working on balancing my feminine
Hi Mel, this was really useful but I would like you to explain how you protect yourself from the impact which other people’s energies are causing on you . You mentioned briefly that you learnt a way to mentally block those energies which u don’t want in your energy field . Please clarify ... thank you for your guidance and support xx
Chandan, I invented something that constantly gives me energy. That alone diminishes many of the bad effects of being an empath. So, what you can learn from that is to do things to increase your energy. I don't think, without my invention, it will be totally effective(i.e. you might have to do some protection things-stones, etc.), but my invention does point out the main problem(i.e. energy draining) of being an empath.
Can you do a video on creating dream state consciousness. You said in another video it took you years to develop yours, can you talk about what you did to expand it. Maybe a couple practices or things to try out
Hi could I ask your opinion? I'm a male and for years I've felt my twins energy like crazy! I discovered all the info gradually on my own so nobody's lead me to the idea. Yet I have never met her. I feel empathic and had a kunalini rising expierience. Not sure exactly what I'm asking as I know to trust the process but at the same time I just want to meet her even for a moment. Thanks
By abusing the connection with their big "so I am now this huge deal like a super hero and GET TO manipulate this other person to test their character" ...congratulations to these guys who then create situations with the force of their energy ....let's cut to the chase here ....and those situations become a living puppet show of the woman's life often destroying that woman's life and sometimes breaking them mentally and spiritually to the point some have taken their own lives ....many lives ....HOW many
The things that Mel says that happen when you are in a twin flame connection…I already have them. The empathy, sensitivity, picking the stuff from other people and so on…
Great Talk as usual University of Mel 🤗 Maybe add tutorial how to change concept of relationship as this can be tricky for many as we all come form difficult family templet which shows in our Twin Flame connection 🤗
Thank you for this. I'm not sure about mine because he always seemed like a guy with intuition and empathy before we activated. You should write your life story. I would read it!
Very on point. Thank you, the info you share is valuable. Just to add, it is not as easy for us women either, I had a heart awakening and kundalini almost simultaneously, handling 3 kids, a BPD drinking husband and realizing who my twin was. Talk about trying to ground these energies and remain sane. I consider myself a success, cause 2 yrs later I am divorced, have time and energy for myself and my kids, and after my twin revealed to me he is into swinger clubs and threesomes and thought I was sent to him by heaven to be his ultimate wife for this lifestyle, I am also turned off from him at least for the time being.But it took some balls for me to come to this point of balance, every day counted.
@@gailjohnston9253 or to put it differently, they both have core narcisstic childhood wounds caused probably by their moms and now it should be some other boy's mom's job to fix it. Thank you but no thank you. Although the experience as such is valuable and if they have balls both of them could profit spiritually from these life lessons. If they have balls, of course,lol.
Thank you for the video. Honestly, I'm a female and it completely resonated with me! I was married before, gosh since I was 20 and umm I was thinking the same thing, like what's the point if this is going to be my life?? After that started to awaken and so much happened and it continues to. It's a process and damn I gotta say it's been one heck of a ride! I'm in the process of defining my version of love.
A concept of love, sex and relationships that is your own. It's borrowed from someone else, so many outside influences. You're hitting the nail on its head here. Halfway in this talk, and this hits home so hard. I've always felt off about all the fucking lists people make but are borrowed from someone else. And I'm guilty as well. Male here. I've only slightly started to develop empathic abilities as of recently (during the year changes), though for me it seems to develop gradually. Though I've always been veeeeery intuitive, imho perhaps even moreso than a lot of women. Though I can't say for sure I've met my TF, I think I might have, but she's in denial of any kind of connection. It's been all quite confusing for me so far.
Mel, thank you as always for your knowledge. Do I wait for my "other" to come back to me, or do I try to reach out to him? I am trying to be patient, but it has been so hard. We have been in physical separation for so long, it feels like an eternity.... he just disappeared. I feel him, I know he is close. I definitely want a partner.... I know the sky is the limit for us... its difficult to stay calm when I know we could accomplish so much together!
Great video. I call divine what escapes from my rational understanding. It’s not about believing in a God or something. Even if people believe in something divine or god I wouldn’t say it’s bullshit.
Does my twin flame feel or experience something significant when he thinks about me or is around me, even though he knows nothing about the twin flame connection, that is different and apart from the way he feels about anyone else?
That wondering is a huge part of it. It can drive you crazy. The answer is yes, but you/they may not be consciously aware of it yet. If I can jump you ahead a few hundred steps, you have access to all those shared experiences (time doesn’t exist) as you develop the ability (more like forget the limitations) to tap into that connection consciously. Not all twins are conscious of it. Yet, when you get to a higher level of consciousness, you can look back and even compare notes to see it lines up...we are often not aware though until we get to that level of awareness. Then it’s a fun game of blowing your mind and everything else open. Love to you. Focus on your own growth and you’ll get there faster.
Is this why he keeps panicking over very particular things? Things that I feel are the reasons how we actually connect? These things must be extremely overwhelming to him. He panics about them and then I get upset because I feel he is rejecting me and our very connection. He panics and I run away sad. This cycle continues every time we are in a good place and the passion gets so intense.
Wouldn't it be great if we knew all this info. at the start pf our journeys, before we got everything wrong! Plus understanding about allowing...which is a different thing than we are used to in previous relationships.
Learn discernment - does it match your day? Have you ANY reason at all to feel like that? Do you want to feel that way? Ask yourself the question to sort it out. then you will discern the Where it came from.
Watch the ego and god complex that’s that’s KEY I cannot stress that enough I should not see a gleam in your eye when telling people what you can do that’s when it bites you
Thanks Mel and Mel University of YT. 😄. This talk was truly informative and resonated. Can you discuss further please your comment about Alzheimer’s etc being caused by habits, food etc. i want to get insights as to what habits need changing in order to promote optimal health. Thank you 🙏🏻!
My man, he claims to be a very old soul. He says he has died many times and been reborn. He has said he was some type of munk, been in the civil war, Vietnam War, remembers being born into this current world,, that he can remember the womb and being delivered. He hears, and sees spirits, can see a person’s Aurora. He said he was abducted by aliens, and claims he once was an angel. He said he remembers battling evil. He says he knows he will reincarnate again, because he has been sent to be a fighter. He has also told me he knows we have had past lives together. I also, know intuitively that we are connected. He has been through so much in this life time physically and emotionally,, I believe he is blocking his heart. We are struggling, I want so badly to help him. I have realized I have to help me first. He is so on the surface level in our relationship. I’m starting to think, he will never open his heart completely. He is blocking me. We are struggling. I am starting to give up. Maybe, it would be better for both of us. But, the thought of separation in the physical makes me physically feel weak, and emotionally broken. I know that sounds like codependency. Thankyou for your video!
This is very helpful! Thank you, Mel! I have noticed several other men seeming to be going through this process also. With regards to my TF, he and I do not communicate other that energetically at the moment. How do you suggest I transmit this message to him? Telepathically via the heart center?
I have a question for you. First some background information about us. My twinflame and I worked on the same job for at least three years together. I'm still at my job for 18 years now, however, he left after 3 1/2 years of being employed there. We met on the job in 2015 and a connection took place but I didn't realize we were twins until early 2018. I knew nothing of the twinflame thing before this. After all the chasing and running or push/pull situations, the reunions, etc., he finally quit/ran a few weeks ago. I always knew somehow intuitively that one of us had to leave this job because of the intensity of the connection. I have to say we had a few blissful moments there and I wouldn't trade them in for all the pain I've experienced. It was worth it. The problem we have is that we're both married to other people and neither of us is happy. Our marriages are abusive to say the least. He doesn't realize that I'm aware of the abuse he's suffering. His friend disclosed this information to me. He lies and say he's pretty much happy but I knew better. His actions towards me told me all I needed to know. My question is, Do you think he ran from the connection because he had a spiritual awakening or a revelation about who we really were/are to each other? I saw him from a short distance the day before he abruptly quit and we stared intensely at each other for a quite a few minutes. He look as though he had an epiphany and look at me in sheer awe as if he'd seen an angelic being. All this happened with others all around us and it seemed as if we were the only two there. Seemingly he was thinking, "there she is; the love of my life." No kidding. I asked him what was wrong. He slowly shook his head in the negative without verbalizing it as if he couldn't believe I loved him. I went to my office and thought about the chain of events and what he could've been thinking. Please give me your expert opinion on what you think may have happened. Sorry for the long story. THANKS!
Great information Mel! I have recently started opening up and telling my DM about how I was divinely guided to him. I told him about signs and syncronisities. He even asked for examples wanting to understand what I was saying. My question is how do I being up the empathic stuff he is experiencing? Like you said they may not even realize it or understand it. So do I just say do you feel things you never felt before? How do you start that conversation? Thank you and looking forward to your next video!
I have been on this journey for a year now and have been working my butt off to do the work I am supposed to....and I continue. I finally met my counterpart last October. We ended up coming together in December and our relationship progressed about every 2-3 weeks...we are now in separation because the shadow work got super intense and there was also other dynamics that still needed played out. Some karmic situations and so on, I had a beautiful epiphany yesterday on my end and it just makes me love this journey even more. I continuously keep learning different things about myself and its as of hes speaking to me I'm a higher realm to help me understand. Now my question to you is we are finally communicating again and I am not putting pressure on him to begin again I just want him to always know I love him I am not going anywhere I trust him and I forgive him as well as myself for anything that happened but I dont even feel like I'm the same person. Does he see that I am a different person or feel that? How do we know what it is that we can do to help support and ease the process for them? He is getting hit pretty hard and it hurts my heart to watch it and know its happening. I feel him when he comes around and my heart feels like its going to implode. I want to help him through this. I believe that I am doing exceptionally well on my end because I am building myself and stronger than ive ever been and havemt allowed this seperation to be a bad thing but the growth we both needed and had he stayed it would have been worse so I'm grateful to it. Sorry for the book I just didnt know how much specifics I needed to add haha. So yeah, thank you for your video! Your perspective is very much needed :)
My tf and I reconnected a year ago and all the systems came online...empathy, heart, kundalini....it was ok until he became overwhelmed by anxiety and felt he was losing his grip on reality. He started taking medication which numbed him, as he felt he couldn't function for more than a few hours without an anxiety attack...and our connection suffered and became strained until he stopped communicating a few months ago (other than very brief and sporadic responses). Any suggestions how to help? I think he thinks his changes are my fault, that I am bad for him or some such. He is, concurrent to this awakening, dealing with the breakdown of a terrible marriage and worry about kids. I want to help and offer info as I know he is flying blind, but don't know if it hinders the connection even more. Is his process my business? I don't know.
Mel, my partner is brilliant and has went through these awakenings (I believe) he knows what love looks like to him making him a very difficult person to understand, at times. So once he recognizes his empathic responses, which I’m thinking he may already have....will he embrace or reevaluate his original concept of love again? Basically, what comes after recognizing these empathic happenings?
Hi Mel, thank you for your work for the community. Short question. How can I help him if we are in sporadic communication? (Besides the obvious which is working on myself, healing.) Friendly and caring communication both ways, but still. We live 700km apart, so little chance bumping in to eachother. He is in a ”karmic” relationship since 1.5yr back, so I want to respect that not bursting in on him. Thank you 🙏🏻
I didn’t listen to this particular video, just saw the headline and understood in what direction it will go. Regardless, I wanted to say to anyone who might be reading this, one of the best advices I picked from Mr Mel’s videos is “do not take it personally”. I cannot emphasize how important this is, it’s the key to navigating through. Pure gold! Once u r able to dettach from any word or action coming from your TF, things get very simple. Though it’s hard to reach that state, but certainly not impossible. Thanks again, Mr Mel!
@@anicca8957 I used to listen to all of his videos years ago and noticed a lot of repetitive things, which is why I started selecting topics based on his headlines and given descriptions. The comment was placed here to praise him in general, not to criticize him, so you can put your negative energy elsewhere instead of being a total POS towards someone you don't know. Very timely to respond after two years, too, congrats. F you very much.
today was the first day I could finally understand the complexity of what the DM is experiencing and I have a lot of empathy for him.
Mel, I know you can not read this comment but maybe it reaches you at some level. I love you so much. I enjoy youre videos and it really helps. (and it triggers my ass off) thank you.
Thank you for sharing! I didn't know anything about twin flames and 'awakenings' when my own journey started. It transformed me so much that I thought I was ill. It was very scary. It felt comforting to read others have been dealing with this too. Being female doesn't mean it's not confusing, even if you are intuitive. I'm not a spiritual person; I don't meditate, never believed in soul mates, chakras or enlightenment. The past couple of months have been a continuous (but beautiful) WTF experience. I 'm curious to find out what lies ahead!
I'm so glad I came across this video in my suggestions. I feel at peace now. I have been journaling what I've been through which has really helped too.
This is exactly what I'm experiencing right now. Obviously a few things are only specific to my experience but everything else is quite similar. You're right it is overwhelming, especially when you don't know what the hell is happening. I sometimes lose sleep over the depth of the connection and it has been like that for some time (2 1/2 years). Thought I was going crazy for a while but now I see the big picture and I am able to process it in a healthier way. It's difficult talking to people about it because mostly they just think it's silly or have no idea what you're talking about ("is that like a soulmate thing.").
So I don't anymore I just accept it and see it as something to learn from. We haven't actually met in the physical and were communicating via social media. This has been way beyond anything I've ever experienced even with an ex whom really hurt me. I am exercising rigorously daily, eating clean (as best as I can), no alcohol for almost 2 years. I have developed telepathic and other abilities I never knew I was capable of.
Although I feel like I've lost my TF by freaking her the hell out, I'm sensing it won't be a permanent thing. If we don't come into union I feel like the whole experience is about the awakening processes more than anything. I'm honestly getting to the point where I'm okay with that, not sure how it would've worked anyway. We live on the other side of the world to each other (Australia, Canada). Sure I'd like it if we did but I now know that the journey is not about getting what you want. The very best I can hope for is a platonic friendship in the future. I have no hard feelings towards her, even though it stung at first when she cut off communication. I probably would've done the same in her situation, as I was very vocal about what I was experiencing to her but felt lost in what to do about it. In hindsight it was a very valuable lesson to learn to put myself first.
I feel like it's for the best at the moment for us to focus on ourselves and I'm feeling very positive about the direction my life is heading. If the universe wills us together than that's not for me to decide. We both needed to grow.
The point of writing this was to assure people that you are worthy of love, respect and all the other good things in life. You may feel pathetic at times, I know I did and sometimes still do but I wouldn't have changed it for the world :)
Also from my experience that's part of the ascencion process.
It doesn't define your life it's a LESSON.
Thank you for your guidance. God Bless.
thank you i needed to read this today more than ever. perfect how the timings are always there, how all that pain was a blessing in disguise
Thank you for sharing your story and insight. It is very balanced and wise. Most appreciated.
The main problem with being an empath is people who can drain your energy. It can happen just because someone is low on energy, but the big problem is people who are always low on energy(e.g. alcoholics). These low-energy people have discovered how to drain your energy(sometimes just being close to you works), and it doesn't matter to them how that affects you, so you have to learn how to protect your energy. This energy draining can get to the point where it's life-threatening.
Good video!! My father was a first wave, is of your age group, but hasn't fared as well as yourself, Mel. He didn't trust his intuition, became a life long alcoholic, with some really nasty behaviors ... today he can't figure out why he did these things ... very intelligent man. Largely men, and their 'kingly kingdoms' have pulled me down from great spiritual heights and being able to function optimally as a mother. My woman friends have pulled me through, as well as my kids, ... a great blessing. My TF is actually always been intuitive, but consider that these abilities can be used for very self-centered behaviors: rampant self-cherishing/absorption, etc. He has now more fully awakened, but i feel that he previously did see me as his everything 'mistress', that i would always be there for him ... etc. The clairvoyant levels are v. high -- i have told him i am definitely his friend, and send him loving energy, but i i am not interested in being part of a 'harem' ... I'm trying to find moments of time to interject my loving presence in his life -- where he would see/hear a different future for himself, I have some doubts about the 'fairytale' (obviously), but it's still possible. I hold it in a bubble of "aspirations" ... but i no longer 'expect' it, because this would be practically foolish. I don't talk to anyone about this ... they only think I am nuts. Truth is, the community at large, do not understand the concept of 'we are all one' ... because they want to see themselves simply from the egoic consciousness, and so want to maintain status quo.
Wow!
Love how Mel doesn't hold back with what he says. I always laugh one way or another lol appreciate the pure, unfiltered honesty
Thank you for this information. I absolutely agree. We truly need to have compassion for our partner and what they are going through. My partner not only has been dealing with increased sensitivity, but his life fell apart and he's going through the process of rebuilding himself and his kingdom from the ground up. He's really doing a beautiful job with putting everything back together.
This is incredible! Thank you for this message. I have recently been emphatically picking up on similar information from the other halfs perspective as well. Not only do I have a possible new understanding of how his side of things might look, you also described exactly what happened to me as well upon the explosion of this connection. I'm glad we're finally beginning to understand this is evolution, new understanding and experiences of love and relationship. Such a trip. Thanks for being here💜💜
If you are an empath, you are a healer. You just have to figure out how to do it, and it can vary from person to person. There are some situations you shouldn't try to heal.
Wowza! This makes complete sense! Thank you sir!!! I have such great compassion for the DM during this awakening process. I remember when I started to realize I was an empath and how overwhelming it felt. That probably pales in comparison to what these beautiful men are feeling. Thank you so much for this incredibly enlightening perspective. You’re truly a gift to us on this journey.
When my awakening started UA-cam was the place I came to understand this process and coming across this video and channel, speaking with intellect and sharing your mind is helping so many people. Thank you for your time
I love you and your authenticity!!! you make me giggle when you state a fact and then say it’s fact. I love the truth and I love speaking the truth and I am so happy I have found you on here. You are a rare gem. I’ve been watching your videos for the past week. I just love the perspective you give it is real and I resonate! Much ❤️
See the movie "Agnes of God" please someone help me.
See the movie "Agnes of God" please someone help me.
Flowers.Beautiful flowers. Thank you.
I love this guy! I'm a fellow Canuck from Southern Alberta so hello to you Mel. Your channel is awesome because there is no b.s. I appreciate Mel's University. :)
Good video presentation, Mel. Thank you for taking the time to explain the 'awakening' from the male point of view. Learning to understand things from another person's point of view, or learning to have compassion for others, should also be considered "part of the evolutionary process." In fact, I consider it part of growing up and becoming an adult. Women are naturally more inclined than men to discuss how and what they feel, generally speaking, in my opinion. I think that's changing, but I think women tend to be more communicative by nature. Men sometimes need to be left alone to think, feel and process things. The ability to 'see' what's coming, to 'know' what someone else may be feeling before he/ she does, or to sense where something is headed or what's on the horizon can be a blessing, but it can also be a burden. Certain gifts must be handled very carefully - with tact, patience, awareness and a sense of timing. That has been my experience. Thank you again for giving your time and thoughts to this topic.
Thank you for doing this video...this is what happened to me back in November 2018...ALL AT ONCE! I can't begin to describe how hard it was to figure out what happened to me, but Mel hit it on the head...I'm still sorting it out 4 months later! I'm really starting to work on me now away from my former spouse...I still have a long way to go...thank you very much for the insight Mel, it really helps. I think one day soon I get a reading from you to get a more personal perspective.
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I had it all at the same time; kundalini, heart, 3rd eye... and more intuitive but I admit I was highly intuitive to begin with. Thank you! Very informative ❤️
Mel's University on UA-cam!! Really cool!! Thank you Mel, for all the useful information in your talk, today. Want to say a special thank you, for the wonderful personal channeled reading, you did for me. It helped me open my eyes to a few issues I was stubbornly refusing to address. I am more open now, to exploring and accepting, the hidden gifts of the universe, for my highest and greatest good in synch with the divine's will!
Once again you’ve hit the nail on the head! Awesome video. The purpose of a twin flame relationship is Spiritual Growth. Not the 3D perfect life & companionship illusion...so boring. I don’t even remember who I used to be, think,feel..thank goodness lol 😂
I became an empath first. Because I was susceptible to other people's states, I had to have some protection against that. I started with stones, and ended up inventing something that gave me energy at tall times. After this, and after I accepted being alone(I'm 67) for the rest of my life-at least romantically, I met a karmic soulmate who was a psychopath(no, they don't treat you any differently than a non-soulmate. Mine did like me, though, and didn't like her other partners.). After I learned my lesson(what I would accept and not accept), she was no longer my soulmate, although I'm still hers. I then met a soulmate, my twin flame, and another soulmate. I stopped even asking myself(through my heart chakra) if someone was a soulmate. I can't get together with my twin flame(huge age gap, among other things), but she insists I not get involved with anyone else(she is correct.). I'm in the process of finding out about what this means for me and for her. We both do better when we think of each other.
Great video Mel thank you .. I needed to understand what my twin is going through .. the empathetic abilities scared me a lot because I never had any thing like it before.. I literally felt emptiness when I contacted with a narcissism person in my family.. I now understand why I did so .. I prefer isolating myself just to feel safe ..
Thank you, Mel. Yours is always a fresh perspective, an eye-opener, and I appreciate this video quite a bit. I believe it’s my favorite of yours so far.
My goodness, some of your information on this video I used to reflect about. The concept of love - one's own concept of love - really hit me as this has been a constant reflection/contemplation of mine. I can recognise many things you are saying as having happened to me - and I'm a female. I had to edit this Mel because I need to share and I know you read them. Your experience of your first marriage is very similar to mine. I left everything behind because i wanted to experience the real thing - real authenticity - in everything especially my relationship.... and guess what? I did!! BUT your comment about wanting a 'partner' not a 'wife' made me realise that I (and my partner) have slipped into wife and husband mode recently - it's a big puller this 'traditional' programming. And I also now just remembered what you had said in another video 'you can't know what you want unless you know what you don't want' - and I'm sure that by experiencing this I am getting very clear on what I don't want. You have made my brain work Mel, with this video.
34:55 The terms “divine masculine” and “divine feminine”, anymore, are merely euphemisms for “spiritually awakened man” and “spiritually awakened woman”. If only I had a dollar every time I heard “blah blah blah divine masculine - oh, but when i say divine masculine I’m not talking about gender, I’m talking about energy...” and they go RIGHT BACK to talking about masculine GENDER. [Related note: I’ve seen and heard a lot of spiritual women refer to themselves as tomboys and self-proclaiming to have very strong masculine energy, yet I’ve NEVER ONCE heard them refer to themselves as the divine masculine. What are the odds?!]
And also this, “divine masculine” is basically used as a euphemism for “the lesser/newly awakened counterpart”. There’s this circular reasoning at play [some would call it “no loose ends”! ha!] that, “Well, women are generally more spiritually aware than men [this much is true], therefore, for a given pair of counterparts, the more-spiritually awakened one is the divine feminine counterpart. How do we know this? Well, because the feminine is more awake than the masculine!”
And also, “Masculine energy is more material, and feminine energy is more spiritual.” That’s steamin’ pile of spiritual bullshit that’s been created and propagated by women in the spiritual community, I’ll tell you what. Riddle me this: if spirit (divinity) is opposite matter, then how can divine masculine energy be anything other than spiritual?? Nevermind the various masculine (men) avatars/archetypes/saints from VARIOUS religions and spiritual lineages who play very strong “pro-spirit, anti-matter” [pun lol] roles, and the likewise the various feminine (women) avatars/achetypes/saints who play very strong “Earthly nurturance” roles as part of their spiritual mission. Fact is: of the divine (spiritual) energy there is masculine and feminine, and of the material (corporeal) manifestation/representation OF the spiritual energy [because spirit begets matter, not vice versa] there is also masculine and feminine. And of men and women alike in this material realm, there is a mixture/balance of masculine and feminine spiritual energy AND masculine and feminine material energy. But point being: “masculine” is not equivocal to matter, nor is “feminine” equivocal to spirit.
The thing is, or at least it seems to me, that many (and perhaps “most”) women in the spiritual community do not recognize what true divine masculinity as expressed through the human form even is! In regards to myself and other heterosexual men I know who are quite spiritual evolved, our temperaments are not necessarily much different at all than “non spiritual men”, but there is a subtle underlying spiritual compassion in the way we live our lives that set us apart [i.e. make us holy; set apart] in the way we interact with others and the way we interact with ourselves. But it’s not the type of “spiritual masculinity” that women are usually looking for (or necessarily even know how to accept).
Thank you so much Mel for this insight. It is a great confirmation of what I have been intuiting as I recently connected with a man at a distance. We seem to be on the same page but he has had much trauma in his life. He is an awakened soul and expresses this through his art. You explanation is a great help in navigating this new state for me. I can see it has great potential for the expansion of my spiritual gifts. I loved the way you pointed out about drawing out empathy. This is bang on for me . Both of us have had our trust tested in other situations so my sense is to be gentle with both myself and this man. Oh and it is wonderful to hear that I don’t have to have any expectations about the husband and wife thing. I have had a sense that the male female dynamic has to change and as you have spoken this is best done in the freedom of what we have been captive to. I like the University bit. Great wisdom . Thank you so much.
“A concept of love that was my own”. Wow.
I recently had this experience overstanding my understanding of the twin flame journey. I'm now in the understanding of allowing him to go through his process and assist him if he comes to me. I liking be single after a 10 year relationship. I even told my counterparts I don't have to be with him in the 3d. Empress/Emperor=DM/DF depending upon the dimensional understanding/overstanding.
Namaste 🙏
Thanks Mel again for your honesty ! I love it!!!
Amazing gem this video!!
Thank you Mel.Love the University of Mel..I appreciate your videos Mel, your wisdom and honesty.I was an old soul as a child, what's changed?, nothing, I am just a much older, old soul. Am I still learning?, everyday..I don't always like being an Empath,,but it is what it is.I try to be open to change,but its not always easy.I am sensitive yes, but havent been a big cryer, for years,just ask my kids, yet being in this relationship for almost two years,has opened me back up,with crying tears, tears of sadness tears of joy.This has been uncomfortable for me,but threw this evolution, I realize, I must embrace it.I hear what you are saying about the man.And I am getting slowly..Thanks Mel, you are a gem..
I found out the main defense against being an empath is to add energy at all times to your body. I invented something that does that. It doesn't completely work(i.e. in all situations, but does diminish the bad side effects from being an empath), so I use affirmations, casting out demons, and the Holy Grail Vortex also, but the overall lose of energy is much less if you constantly have high energy.
You are so awesome Mel. So glad your here helping all of us!! :)
I understand this, and my twin is starting the process, and has been open to having me back in the picture as our relationship creates itself. But the issue is, he is self medicating from recent heartache, and numbing himself from this process.
Binge watching like crazy to graduate from the University. I'm learning a lot and ALWAYS focusing on my heart center. I've been thinking about it like asking my heart to help me and guide me. Also, second night this week that you showed up in a dream. Hahah. I was at your house and told you my tf situation and you just gave me a blank look. Made me realize to just let it go. It's obviously a bore. Too funny. My sister was there too and she was painting something.
I love this video, this has hit soooo much that I have needed to hear!! Thanks! You are great! I love your demeanor, a lot like my man 😁
I’m female but this describes my awakening. My heart chakra opened wide for 3 months anxiety 24/7 thought I was having a heart attack. Then discover I’m an Empath everyone said what’s wrong with you your not the same. I separated from everyone, went hermit mode of learning and healing. I was in my Divine masculine when I awoke and for the past 2 years working on balancing my feminine
Hi Mel, this was really useful but I would like you to explain how you protect yourself from the impact which other people’s energies are causing on you . You mentioned briefly that you learnt a way to mentally block those energies which u don’t want in your energy field . Please clarify ... thank you for your guidance and support xx
Chandan, I invented something that constantly gives me energy. That alone diminishes many of the bad effects of being an empath. So, what you can learn from that is to do things to increase your energy. I don't think, without my invention, it will be totally effective(i.e. you might have to do some protection things-stones, etc.), but my invention does point out the main problem(i.e. energy draining) of being an empath.
Wow, Mel great story about the contractor and you not recognizing it wasn't coming from you at all.
Can you do a video on creating dream state consciousness. You said in another video it took you years to develop yours, can you talk about what you did to expand it. Maybe a couple practices or things to try out
Omg... i'm very thankful for this video !
Now i know what it feels for him... not easy at all . Thanks , Mel !
Thank you so much, this was really helpful insights into the male perspective.
Thank you Mel - you make so much sense. I am truly grateful for your videos.
Miss mel love we can still watch his videos ♥️
smacked by a 2x4... story of my life! that’s how we learn, only way to grow. thanks for paving the way and all that you do!
Hi could I ask your opinion? I'm a male and for years I've felt my twins energy like crazy! I discovered all the info gradually on my own so nobody's lead me to the idea. Yet I have never met her. I feel empathic and had a kunalini rising expierience. Not sure exactly what I'm asking as I know to trust the process but at the same time I just want to meet her even for a moment.
Thanks
By abusing the connection with their big "so I am now this huge deal like a super hero and GET TO manipulate this other person to test their character" ...congratulations to these guys who then create situations with the force of their energy ....let's cut to the chase here ....and those situations become a living puppet show of the woman's life often destroying that woman's life and sometimes breaking them mentally and spiritually to the point some have taken their own lives ....many lives ....HOW many
Mel I am enrolled in your university. I love it. thank you.
It's great to be a student of Mel's University UA-cam Channel...evolution waits for no one... Mel- :)
Thanks Mel, you've given me new concepts to consider...most grateful, n I like your no be way!
Helpful a lot! This is a point! Thank you
The things that Mel says that happen when you are in a twin flame connection…I already have them. The empathy, sensitivity, picking the stuff from other people and so on…
Great Talk as usual University of Mel 🤗
Maybe add tutorial how to change concept of relationship as this can be tricky for many as we all come form difficult family templet which shows in our Twin Flame connection 🤗
YES! a tutorial on how love, relationships and sexuality changes as we evolve.
thank you. i would love to hear more about the kingdom. who gives up a kingdom for love? especially one that took a lifetime to build.
King Edward VIII abdicated his throne for love. He gave up his kingdom to marry Wallace Simpson; his true love.
Mel's University Yes do this please, do a movie. I still think love is hard as we all need so many needs.
Thank you for this. I'm not sure about mine because he always seemed like a guy with intuition and empathy before we activated.
You should write your life story. I would read it!
I’m so glad I found you. You’ve helped me so much
Good for you mel at 75! Keep the spirit alive!
Thank you...so much makes sense now. I had a feeling it was something like this but now I know.
Very on point. Thank you, the info you share is valuable. Just to add, it is not as easy for us women either, I had a heart awakening and kundalini almost simultaneously, handling 3 kids, a BPD drinking husband and realizing who my twin was. Talk about trying to ground these energies and remain sane. I consider myself a success, cause 2 yrs later I am divorced, have time and energy for myself and my kids, and after my twin revealed to me he is into swinger clubs and threesomes and thought I was sent to him by heaven to be his ultimate wife for this lifestyle, I am also turned off from him at least for the time being.But it took some balls for me to come to this point of balance, every day counted.
Damn stupid men.
@@gailjohnston9253 or to put it differently, they both have core narcisstic childhood wounds caused probably by their moms and now it should be some other boy's mom's job to fix it. Thank you but no thank you. Although the experience as such is valuable and if they have balls both of them could profit spiritually from these life lessons. If they have balls, of course,lol.
Thank you for the video. Honestly, I'm a female and it completely resonated with me! I was married before, gosh since I was 20 and umm I was thinking the same thing, like what's the point if this is going to be my life?? After that started to awaken and so much happened and it continues to. It's a process and damn I gotta say it's been one heck of a ride! I'm in the process of defining my version of love.
A concept of love, sex and relationships that is your own. It's borrowed from someone else, so many outside influences. You're hitting the nail on its head here. Halfway in this talk, and this hits home so hard. I've always felt off about all the fucking lists people make but are borrowed from someone else.
And I'm guilty as well.
Male here. I've only slightly started to develop empathic abilities as of recently (during the year changes), though for me it seems to develop gradually. Though I've always been veeeeery intuitive, imho perhaps even moreso than a lot of women.
Though I can't say for sure I've met my TF, I think I might have, but she's in denial of any kind of connection. It's been all quite confusing for me so far.
Don't worry about the denial, I was in deep denial of my connection and it eventually showed up in ways I could no longer ignore
Mel, thank you as always for your knowledge. Do I wait for my "other" to come back to me, or do I try to reach out to him? I am trying to be patient, but it has been so hard. We have been in physical separation for so long, it feels like an eternity.... he just disappeared. I feel him, I know he is close.
I definitely want a partner.... I know the sky is the limit for us... its difficult to stay calm when I know we could accomplish so much together!
great vid. thanks mellypoo!!
Would you be able to do a video on the different “waves” of twins?
Hes done one! 'Enter the three waves'
Thank you! 😇
Just posted an update on the waves of twins in separation 🙊😍🙏instagram.com/p/BuM__yLAKAN/
Thank you for this Ray - its quite enlightening to hear about the males perspective.
Mel, not Ray.
My bad, i meant Mel! @@gailjohnston9253
Great video. I call divine what escapes from my rational understanding. It’s not about believing in a God or something. Even if people believe in something divine or god I wouldn’t say it’s bullshit.
Thank you for keeping me grounded . Some days I feel a bit lost . Xx thanks Mel
I don’t dive into people’s energy unless they ask !!!
Can we get a shorter vid though w the straight answer...
Does my twin flame feel or experience something significant when he thinks about me or is around me, even though he knows nothing about the twin flame connection, that is different and apart from the way he feels about anyone else?
I have always wondered the same thing.It is like you read my mind.I wonder?
I wonder the same
That wondering is a huge part of it. It can drive you crazy. The answer is yes, but you/they may not be consciously aware of it yet.
If I can jump you ahead a few hundred steps, you have access to all those shared experiences (time doesn’t exist) as you develop the ability (more like forget the limitations) to tap into that connection consciously. Not all twins are conscious of it. Yet, when you get to a higher level of consciousness, you can look back and even compare notes to see it lines up...we are often not aware though until we get to that level of awareness. Then it’s a fun game of blowing your mind and everything else open.
Love to you. Focus on your own growth and you’ll get there faster.
Thank you so much for your wisdom
This is why I am a loner...empath
Is this why he keeps panicking over very particular things? Things that I feel are the reasons how we actually connect? These things must be extremely overwhelming to him. He panics about them and then I get upset because I feel he is rejecting me and our very connection. He panics and I run away sad. This cycle continues every time we are in a good place and the passion gets so intense.
Oh wahw Mel..this was so good...thank you
❤👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thank you! What is the best way to give information, for those of us who are not really in communication at this moment?
Yes! All of this!👌👍👏🔥♾💯❗ Thank you, Mel!
Mel’s University...Love it 🥰😆
I'M ALMA THE LOVER OF 2 MALE TWIN FLAME WE HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL SEXUAL LIFE TOGETHER I'M BLESSED
Wouldn't it be great if we knew all this info. at the start pf our journeys, before we got everything wrong! Plus understanding about allowing...which is a different thing than we are used to in previous relationships.
I have just tuned in and am so glad you are posting a video.
I looked yesterday for something recent from you.
Thanks for no bullshit.
How do you know if you are picking up on others mental health or if it's your own?
Learn discernment - does it match your day? Have you ANY reason at all to feel like that? Do you want to feel that way? Ask yourself the question to sort it out. then you will discern the Where it came from.
We don't listen! Bang on. That's twin flames. That is us!
Watch the ego and god complex that’s that’s KEY I cannot stress that enough I should not see a gleam in your eye when telling people what you can do that’s when it bites you
Thanks Mel and Mel University of YT. 😄. This talk was truly informative and resonated. Can you discuss further please your comment about Alzheimer’s etc being caused by habits, food etc. i want to get insights as to what habits need changing in order to promote optimal health. Thank you 🙏🏻!
Thank you Mel...
My man, he claims to be a very old soul. He says he has died many times and been reborn. He has said he was some type of munk, been in the civil war, Vietnam War, remembers being born into this current world,, that he can remember the womb and being delivered. He hears, and sees spirits, can see a person’s Aurora. He said he was abducted by aliens, and claims he once was an angel. He said he remembers battling evil. He says he knows he will reincarnate again, because he has been sent to be a fighter. He has also told me he knows we have had past lives together. I also, know intuitively that we are connected. He has been through so much in this life time physically and emotionally,, I believe he is blocking his heart. We are struggling, I want so badly to help him. I have realized I have to help me first. He is so on the surface level in our relationship. I’m starting to think, he will never open his heart completely. He is blocking me. We are struggling.
I am starting to give up. Maybe, it would be better for both of us. But, the thought of separation in the physical makes me physically feel weak, and emotionally broken. I know that sounds like codependency.
Thankyou for your video!
Thank you!!!!!
This is very helpful! Thank you, Mel! I have noticed several other men seeming to be going through this process also.
With regards to my TF, he and I do not communicate other that energetically at the moment. How do you suggest I transmit this message to him? Telepathically via the heart center?
Thank you Mel 🌹
I have a question for you. First some background information about us. My twinflame and I worked on the same job for at least three years together. I'm still at my job for 18 years now, however, he left after 3 1/2 years of being employed there. We met on the job in 2015 and a connection took place but I didn't realize we were twins until early 2018. I knew nothing of the twinflame thing before this. After all the chasing and running or push/pull situations, the reunions, etc., he finally quit/ran a few weeks ago. I always knew somehow intuitively that one of us had to leave this job because of the intensity of the connection. I have to say we had a few blissful moments there and I wouldn't trade them in for all the pain I've experienced. It was worth it. The problem we have is that we're both married to other people and neither of us is happy. Our marriages are abusive to say the least. He doesn't realize that I'm aware of the abuse he's suffering. His friend disclosed this information to me. He lies and say he's pretty much happy but I knew better. His actions towards me told me all I needed to know. My question is, Do you think he ran from the connection because he had a spiritual awakening or a revelation about who we really were/are to each other? I saw him from a short distance the day before he abruptly quit and we stared intensely at each other for a quite a few minutes. He look as though he had an epiphany and look at me in sheer awe as if he'd seen an angelic being. All this happened with others all around us and it seemed as if we were the only two there. Seemingly he was thinking, "there she is; the love of my life." No kidding. I asked him what was wrong. He slowly shook his head in the negative without verbalizing it as if he couldn't believe I loved him. I went to my office and thought about the chain of events and what he could've been thinking. Please give me your expert opinion on what you think may have happened. Sorry for the long story. THANKS!
Great information Mel! I have recently started opening up and telling my DM about how I was divinely guided to him. I told him about signs and syncronisities. He even asked for examples wanting to understand what I was saying. My question is how do I being up the empathic stuff he is experiencing? Like you said they may not even realize it or understand it. So do I just say do you feel things you never felt before? How do you start that conversation? Thank you and looking forward to your next video!
This is good stuff Mel.
Thank you so much, great info! 💚
"Like #112" again 😃 Thanks for another very insightful vid, Mel
I have been on this journey for a year now and have been working my butt off to do the work I am supposed to....and I continue. I finally met my counterpart last October. We ended up coming together in December and our relationship progressed about every 2-3 weeks...we are now in separation because the shadow work got super intense and there was also other dynamics that still needed played out. Some karmic situations and so on, I had a beautiful epiphany yesterday on my end and it just makes me love this journey even more. I continuously keep learning different things about myself and its as of hes speaking to me I'm a higher realm to help me understand. Now my question to you is we are finally communicating again and I am not putting pressure on him to begin again I just want him to always know I love him I am not going anywhere I trust him and I forgive him as well as myself for anything that happened but I dont even feel like I'm the same person. Does he see that I am a different person or feel that? How do we know what it is that we can do to help support and ease the process for them? He is getting hit pretty hard and it hurts my heart to watch it and know its happening. I feel him when he comes around and my heart feels like its going to implode. I want to help him through this. I believe that I am doing exceptionally well on my end because I am building myself and stronger than ive ever been and havemt allowed this seperation to be a bad thing but the growth we both needed and had he stayed it would have been worse so I'm grateful to it. Sorry for the book I just didnt know how much specifics I needed to add haha. So yeah, thank you for your video! Your perspective is very much needed :)
My tf and I reconnected a year ago and all the systems came online...empathy, heart, kundalini....it was ok until he became overwhelmed by anxiety and felt he was losing his grip on reality. He started taking medication which numbed him, as he felt he couldn't function for more than a few hours without an anxiety attack...and our connection suffered and became strained until he stopped communicating a few months ago (other than very brief and sporadic responses). Any suggestions how to help? I think he thinks his changes are my fault, that I am bad for him or some such. He is, concurrent to this awakening, dealing with the breakdown of a terrible marriage and worry about kids. I want to help and offer info as I know he is flying blind, but don't know if it hinders the connection even more. Is his process my business? I don't know.
Great video! Thanks Mel.
Mel, my partner is brilliant and has went through these awakenings (I believe) he knows what love looks like to him making him a very difficult person to understand, at times. So once he recognizes his empathic responses, which I’m thinking he may already have....will he embrace or reevaluate his original concept of love again? Basically, what comes after recognizing these empathic happenings?
Legend thanks
Hi Mel, thank you for your work for the community. Short question. How can I help him if we are in sporadic communication? (Besides the obvious which is working on myself, healing.) Friendly and caring communication both ways, but still. We live 700km apart, so little chance bumping in to eachother. He is in a ”karmic” relationship since 1.5yr back, so I want to respect that not bursting in on him. Thank you 🙏🏻