If people think that a TwinFlame connection is someone you miss from six months ago, or someone you had something with a year and a half ago, but your ready to move on from them now and just hold them as a distant memory they are very wrong. It won't go way, you won't just move on from it, and you can forget, replacing it with something else, and no matter what is said to you in any video, you will reconnect with that person, and it can be great, the best partnership ever, or the most stressful and hard situation ever ( within the romantic sphere ) which will make life difficult all round. If the difficult side of it happens, you will, and they will have to put it right, hence you will keep meeting, until it is. The point of the whole process, is that you both get it right in tandem, in an harmonious way, which means you both learning, and then you both teaching others, the way to engage in happiness. The whole thing is the most important part of your existence, it's why your here....
Mr22brian22 yes I totally agree with you. I think that what he is saying is logic but there are many ways for twin flames to heal and come together. If we were all to be so blunt about things nothing in the world would work. It takes faith. One grows does the work then the other reslises what they have lost and does the work
+Rebecca Hind Woods Rebecca yes he is a little blunt, but the only real problem with what he is saying is that there is no ending to his story. The whole point of you meeting your TwinFlame, is for an ending where you both are in balance, and this might take a few tries, before it happens, but it will happen. Your TwinFlame coming into your world is an indication that your nearing the end of your carnations in this plane, or reality, it's like you and them must tie up loose ends, personality flaws and emotional flaws, that you have carried with you for maybe a long time, maybe several lives even. The TwinFlame reminds you in a strange way that there is a finish line, in this reality, and there will be cause for celebration 🎉 but, just like a marathon, the last few miles will be the hardest, so even though the TwinFlame 🔥will make life nearly unbearable, and cause you lots and lots of problems, at times, there will be the deepest connection possible to have with another....
Unfortunately most 3rd d marriages are composed of a love addict(chaser) and love avoidant(runner). Wounded people trying to get their needs met through the other. Until we don’t heal our abandonment which most real twins come from trauma, we could never do our mission. I strongly recommend for twins who are healing specially chasers to look into the anxious insecure attachment style. They need validation that the person will return and unfortunately you have very sick individuals on UA-cam profiting from people’s distress. Just listen to Mel and start your healing process so you can do your mission. Do not hate the runner he comes from the same trauma as you do he only learned to cope differently. Secure attachment is the goal, we don’t need each other.
Sounds good, but I'm thinking twins dont exist anymore. I use to believe it but I have learned about a womans nature more. In general women will monkey branch. So i feel ots just us who get hurt wanting to believe that somehow we will be with that person again,, i find this to be mostly BS.. Plus we are all complete souls within ourselves..
@@vixenxiiiv Its when a women preceives someone else to be of higher value so they swing up to them. In other words they believe the grass is greener so to speak. More often than not a woman is gone before she leaves and already has a another lined up.
Twin flames are meant to be together so when they both seperate, if one person works on themselves then they will bring the other twin into alignment with you as twins mirror each other so when you say one reaches high vibration then attracts others of that vibration they aint your twin, as both twin flame journeys are for you both to grow, not one twin be be in high vibration and the other to continue at a low frequency cos you say the low frequency one doesnt grow etc
It's all about energy. It's opposites polarity so if you ascend and go within (looking inwards to your soul) focusing on self love and detaching from your TF, your opposite (masculine energy) will want to pull towards you.
The problem is everyone expects the other to follow suit right away, most often times, that is not the case and 3d unions are unlikely. Also, twin flames are very rare, not every soul has a twin because we're all at different levels
Mel was such a wealth of knowledge. He know his( stuff) as he would say ! Listen to him, digest it and keep coming back. I know he is watching all of us now. Trying to get his 2 cents in so we can evolve ! Blessings for everyone. Keep on believing!
I love your sober and realistic approach and way of no BS explanation... Without the hassle of tarot, the divine, God or any other crap that might make people believe otherwise... I see this exactly the same way you do, good Sir.... Keep it up and thank you for this enlightning experience
I feel no need to try to get perfect. And try to 'earn' my twin. If we don't come together, oh well! I ain't jumping through hoops. I've been working on myself since my awakening, and I will ascend with or without him. I know I deserve love!
In union with TF. Never been a runner/chaser dynamic. We have apart in the past in order to learn to be individuals. But we both hold unconditional love at our core for this union. We are both Awakened souls and get through our healing together. 🙏❤️
Listen to this man!!! He is speaking to you from his heart... to help you on your journey. i miss you Mel 💙blunt style or not.... you tell it as it is 💫
Thankyou Mel. Your point of view is deeply appreciated.growing up to take full responsibility of what m creating. Realising that the pain that m going through has nothing to do with the other person, but it has to do with co-dependency patterns in my ancestry. Remind myself again and again when days are hard. You have supported in this process.
Hands down the most thorough explanation I have ever come across. Wow. At basic we are atoms that split and are returning to balanced states for bonding. Everything we learned in chemistry in the 3D. This human body allowing the Infinite to experience the process. The pattern went exactly as stated. I was able to go through my dark night, and come out balanced. I had to GROW up. Yes. We were acting like teens. I had canceled a flight to see my DM last week after he told me it was over. I rescheduled the flight for this week on faith that reunion would occur because I went within to heal. I was watching a video on light codes last night, and had fully accepted we might never reunite. He called during the video to confirm I was coming, but most importantly coming with no shenanigans. I assured him I am coming authentically, with only love so we can fulfill our mission of helping to balance the Universe. Collapsed ego, with understanding of what we are. It's no coincidence that as Mercury and Venus retrograde near their end, TFs are returning to the bond after intense healing. We can find the Divine within and without. This is absolutely amazing time to be alive and assisting as catalysts for the consciousness. Thank you for your transmission. You're indeed a Sage.
Beautiful 💐💜. Thank you.🙏🏾 We need more beautiful sane people offering guidance like this. Do they exist, or are we just on our own? May Mel’s legacy be blessed.🕊️❤️☀️
Thank you for the no-BS approach, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Totally confirmed what was on my mind earlier today. I’m dealing with someone I believe to be my twin flame and I’ve personally had things come up that are opportunities for me to grow however I wasn’t sure WHY those things were being triggered to come out (thus the course I needed to take for growth was unclear to me.) The thought came to me that I was acting out the old, bad programming I was taught from previous relationships that were abusive even though this person has been very kind. I didn’t realize how spot on that way of describing it was. Hearing all this now is so empowering because I see that yes I have the ability to do something about this and no it’s not that I need something different from my twin or that things are going awry in some abstract, untouchable, mystical way. I’m not left hanging in confusion, I can take responsibility for my end of things and not just hyperfixate on the idea of “coming into union” as some ultimate goal. Thank you!
Yes spiritual maturity is what is needed. If the other half of the original tf set isn't, and wants no part of it for what ever reason (fear, karmic partner etc etc), another near twin experience will take the place of the estranged twin.
Refreshingly honest...just what I needed..I am growing...have probably outgrown him and only remember the good.I am evolving spiritually daily and harbour no resentment,just positive vibes. Ultimately ,one attracts what you put out there!
I still remember the session I had with you back in 2016. I can feel the heart palpitation during the session and continue for awhile after the session. I know it is not that I was so excited to talk to you that much 😁 I am in this scenario you mentioned in this video now and I am totally fine by myself. It gets to the point where I am fine being alone. I enjoy myself doing things I love and passionate about. Material have less meaning to me. Fake people don’t resonate with me any more. I pretty much speak my mind unless it will hurt someone, that I will just shut up instead of hurting them. My intuitive ability is heightening and I become so sensitive to my environment and people around me. It is a wonderful change and I am so thankful for the experience and this transformation. 🙏🏼☺️
Two things I don’t understand, one is of blaming my twin for this separation. The other is hating, & judging the twin. I have such unconditional love towards them, I tried hating so I could move on but just couldn’t. I’m understanding to work on myself for the changes to happen.
100% agree. I never hated my twin, even when I was rejected or it was hard. He did what he needed to do for his own life. I’ll always respect his choices even if they aren’t what I’d prefer.
I love your approach. I’m tired of the fluffies who try to teach this concept, it’s annoying. This is obviously not a completely logical concept but with a little intellect it can be made practical yet spiritual at the same time and you exhibit that. Thank you.
Thank you so very much for this! You are the real deal, telling it straightforward just like it is without sugarcoating it👍🏻 Much appreciated and please keep doing what you are doing😀💐
thank you, not for the connfirmation of the twin flame connection, but for the reassurance that this process ultimately draws back to the spiritual growth and development on an individual level, as much as my ego would desire to live happily ever after with my divine masculine, i understand the bigger picture, how its for the spiritual growth of the individual which affects positively the collective, if i was to continue waiting for him to wake up and get out of his religous beliefs, i dont want to even know how long id be waiting, but i see the bigger picture, i have to continue growing for the sake of my growth, and humanitys growth to what true love is, i do love him unconditionally, but at the same time i am commited to the bigger mission and picture as well, so therefore i sacrafice my own egoic desires for the maturity of humanity, as i am now choosing the process to let go, move on and move forward, and continue on my path to self realization, and i do thank him for this learning he has given me, so my thank you is for the peace that this video alone has given me, that i can continue to grow spiritually because i am ready right NOW in this Now moment, and yes i understand as now i am tuning in more and more inward and doing the inner work to uncover and rediscover the answers within myself, yet your words are exactly what i knew deep down....so thank you also for reassuring me and reminding me that i have all the answers i seek within me...i appreaciate your help regardless!
I met my twin flame few months ago. He lives on a different continent. I miss him all the time. the connection is so intense I didn't know wtf was happening to me. This shit is so hard 😣
The Bible has an excellent prescription for relationships. It states the fruits of the holy spirit are: love, peace, joy, gentleness, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control. Of these there are no laws against.
As far as karma, religion and various things, I think it's purely a matter of understanding these words in original intention, they've been messed with, so now people carelessly use these concepts to justify their own notions. That said, what you offer at the end of what it's all for is intriguing. Very. Thankyou for coming from a more solid understanding...!
The union can grow in separation. It is destined to grow in separation. Until the concept of separation dissolves. Love is strong as death and hard as hell.... All is well!
@@beamoflight7537 I take it that it can go either way. It depends on whether both the twins grew together to overcome their issues. If not, they separate, and each will be matched with someone of their own frequency.
@@janicesmoot9508 Exactly! It can still follow the twin flame path, but if you work on yourself, you'll find resonance in another universal match, eventually.
I found him and when I sat down beside him I blurted out (with confidence) that I saw that he had left many people behind without saying goodbye- many departures” he agreed and of course our energy was very complimentary etc - Now I had done quite a bit of work to the point that I was accepting very naturally my gifts. My gifts are for my journey and I use them as tools to increase my learning on my journey. My biggest lesson in this fast track relationship I am experiencing, was to let go and allow him to be free. I’m a quick study but I’ll admit that I was very confused about us at first. I wouldn’t put up with anything! I felt like he should literally do this one thing lol the one thing ( that no longer challenges me ) was that he would make plans with me then blow them off to go drink. I wasn’t viewing his drinking as a red flag no, what I did was I felt really upset that he couldn’t shoot me a msg that would say “ change of plans!” Blah blah blah lol as soon as I let myself evolve I now understand that even though it’s my first time hearing of twin flames , I no longer need to bother with silly things that maybe I learned from this world that truly needs help. I now realize that I need to simply keep working on myself and tell him “You’re Free” it’s amazing to have unlocked a new way of learning. Of course I knew I was evolving perse- but now I’m excitedly learning and I tend to find people like yourself that give very genuine answers. I repel the ideology of a lot of videos etc. I am super excited about my new journey or maybe it’s my true journey! My one month story of how we found ourselves as twin flames is beautiful and funny but my main concern right now is to find our way to helping others. Ty so very much for your video.
Indeed nobody can out talk you. I heard more than enough about this for the last 4 years but no one can explain this perfectly but simply the way you do . Thanks a lot.
Spot on Mel...100 percent...Thank you been on this path all my life I think !! I've attracted more than one "TF" ...you are spot on Appreciated this plain speak 💜💜
Hi! Just found this Chanel suggested by rich Lopp and let me say I really appreciate all this knowledge but I also really get a kick out of everytime you say “ I don’t give a rat’s ass” 😆... I’m totally in!!! 🙂
Ahhhhhhhh! 😂 I love him, and this. Bless him👌with great gratitude! 🕊️Respect to you, even now, in the spirit world 💜. Wow, I guess I've evolved, I feel it!-- (*13 years in my twin flame relationship*) --because I Really used to get irritated by him, his way with words, a tad harsh sometimes, didn't seem gentle enough for softy mushy sensitive romantic hopeful me; and, as he says, his blunt way of laying out Everything- calling us on our shit, lol 😅 quoted! There's so so much I/we, my guy and I have learned, experienced, wrangled over, let go of, released, and transformed, etc..!! 💞 WE are fluid in flow and going forward~ this is actually~ A Miracle! Feel good twinsies, feel miraculous, you are really really AMAZING! {Deep breaths} ~~ More than you realize. Shine on. 🌟💓🌺🥰💞🥰🌺💓🌟
I'm now open to another person coming into my life like another tf or soulmate. I have detached and feel balanced after a year of separation from my twin who is in a karmic arranged marriage, or was last time I heard 6 months ago. The separation happened when we both got new jobs within 1 week of each other. Luckily we never argued or bickered once. In my dreams now for the last few months since detaching, if I dream of my twin I don't see his face. This made me think that maybe I need to be open to another person coming in to my life. But in 3d I see his name everywhere and men that look exactly like him, which puzzles me because it keeps me thinking of him, especially if I try to move on and talk to single men ie join a dating site etc I am bombarded with these signs. The whole situation confuses me with knowing which direction to take in my life. For months now I keep dreaming of getting married and pregnant specifically to my tf but nothing happening in 3d, not even any communication. Any insight would be appreciated.
I have exactly the same so I stopped for now meeting men and dating just BEing with myself gives me peace of mind without going into a hermit fase haha
So the 'twin flame' experience is to accelerate the Self Realization process - and that other soul (the "twin") was simply the catalyst. It sounds like we won't actually be a vibrational match as we continue to grow (or not). Is that right?
New sub :) “No relationships, no society no humanity.” Yes! Balance the energies within first and release preconceived ideas of love etc to reach that pure love we all seek. Loving ourselves wholly. Ya can’t truly love another until u love yourself first. Had a spontaneous awakening last Sept and ended up on this tf path. Had an epiphany last night, that I’m the matrix twin. I’m 47 and now learning that I’m an Empath among other gifts that have apparently been dormant. This has been quite the “trip” but much needed in order to get my effin’ ass started on my purpose as a guide and healer. Thank u for spreading your knowledge on this! 🙏🏻 “I don’t give a rat’s ass” lol 😂
Thankyou Mel for the detailed explanation on this process of evolution. I am going through breakup and finding my growth in this phase, and in fact it's freeing at the least. This experience has given me lot of insights, understanding and growth and deep gratitude to myself, him and all those who supported in this process. Love to you. ♡☆♡
Thanks Mel! I have been listening to you for a few years...haven't tuned into much of anything lately but glad I caught this one. True you repeat a lot but we need it lol!!! Three years ago I heard you but only partly because my emotional body was tantruming!! Now this just makes good logical sense😄☮☯️🕉💖🌟
I really appreciate your work, and the time you’ve taken to share what you have experienced in the realm of higher vibrational relationships, it has been directly helpful to me. But so have other presenters on the subject. I have my own filters and intelligence, and can decide what resonates with my own situation. Every person who reads cards, is an intuitive, or believes in reincarnation is not having their head up their ass. Some are, I agree with you there, but broad statements can be alienating to both presenters, and to viewers. I do benefit from what you teach...but if you could just focus on your points, and not on what others are doing wrong it would help. All the best, and thank you for your contributions to the twin flame conversation. 🙏🏽💙😊.
Ah so you noticed what others are doing wrong also .For me just being who i am i call it like i see it . If you or someone else takes issue with that thats your problem Rasaji SiraMari.
Understand perfectly.I've been in one for 12 years and i learnt the most with this bloody person.I loved your reading put a smile on my face.Thank you very much.Namaste.
I couldn't stand to be around my ex, hear his name, see his face, ect. 16 yes, later, today, I feel as though I was in a fog. I believe by other events in my life, I experienced an awakening, being Native American, I received an utterly peaceful awakening and blessed with an eagle sightings.
Dear Mr Mel, I think that if it really does happen that one TF develops spiritually higher than the other and the gap is, thus, made bigger among the two, if the “higher vibrational” TF then attracts to him/her another person and chooses to be with that other person, he/she will automatically lower the vibration again. This will equalise the energy back again with his/her original TF and draw them back together somehow in contact, but without the immediate chance for a reunion, since not all lessons have been learned yet (especially having in mind the “higher TF” lost faith/got disappointed in the other and chose to yet again search for happiness with another). But, if the “higher” TF really understands the process, he/she will despite the obstacles stay in the “higher” vibration, which will slowly, but surely make the other TF catch up with the vibration, because the energies always inevitably equalise. Bottom line: first option will take ages, even decades, without the final outcome if it keeps repeating; second option is more smart and faster, generally speaking, since it means the ”higher TF” understands this is an individual journey and he/she does not need another person for completion. Does this make sense?
hello. can you video on creative abilities? on one of your recent videos about masculine and feminine you mentioned you were awakened around 37 and didnt develop your creative abilities until your 40s. thank you for everything you do
Mel, I just have a question: is it true at all times that one is spiritually more evolved than the other? Because in my experience what happened is that I was more spiritually evolved in certain aspects, and he was more spiritually evolved in others. So, none was more spiritually evolved than the other. We both were, just on different things.
Each set is unique as to there development and point of beginning ,i have seen many similar to you .Keep in mind here when i,m giving information i,m giving it in general terms .
A lot of those babies are coming into the Earth plane this Lion's Gate 2019 through the Sirian Gate and then Sphinx into the new earth grid. *UPDATE: I helped anchor 1 or 2 of them and my higher self all at once. Go Team!
You are so right about humanity not being 'smart', in the true sense, no matter how technologically advanced we become. In fact, it seems to be an inverse relationship. Never is this more true in this crazy year of 2020.
No never it's happening in my soul the love though we have partnered due to huge age difference it's mutual and the love is intact but still strong in my mind like we never parted that's the pain I bear along with immense love
I get what you mean , There is one ultimate, and everyone else is like little pieces of the you and them (the ultimate) This brings in the realisation of and holding unconditional love for the twin and all others existing in this life , We are all one spirit 🌺
Who says the soul doesn't split into multiple bodies (more than two) incarnating at the same time? It's just a belief system that says there are only two on the earth simultaneously.
You make the most sense so far. Maybe me and my "twin" has griwn enough together to realize what we needed to realize (after 8 months). And she isn't "the one". But we both benefitted hugely ftom meeting eachother.
Thank you sir, RIP, darn honest and on point, twin flame is real, I’m going with it this time, I ran 3 times...... I’m invested in this all the way. I’m the empath Pisces ♓️, he’s Aquarius ♒️, we are going forward together to work on this
@@EarthAirFireWaterSpirit I feel for you.... the pain we experienced was something we never felt before. Love and light to you both.....I just wanted to add - we are both in our 50's, unlikely we will be having a child - I'm way past it
@@EarthAirFireWaterSpirit I’d love to hear how your travelling with your journey, it’s quarter to 6 am where I am in the world, just texting my TF, we are both single (me separated from husband). We’re going with this journey, we’ve both decided to not have expectations. Trust me it’s easier, just got with the flow and have no demands on each other. The journey for both will be a lot easier. Love and light my friend
Well, our separation didn’t happen that way having arguments. We separate with love, because of the conflict not between us but of the conflicts between events and elements in each other situations. Pretty painful I have to swallow the reality, the treason he had to choose for himself and his people. He decided to sacrifice us. We both understand each other but the reality is difficult to swallow. I’m trying to heal, again and again. To continue, alone physically. This is what the universe wanted me to go through, again and again. Don’t know why. One lesson, only one lesson would have been enough, I learnt from that, but again, same thing happens, same loneliness, same pattern. I’m completely alone, I feel left aside from happiness and cursed. I have no choice but to continue the best I can, with all the pain inside my chest and brain, all the memories of the magical times that have to end, because in my case it always had to. I wish you better scenarios to all the twin flames 🔥 here, I wish you the best.
TY TY Yes, we did start getting on each other nerves. It triggered our inner childhood wounds. It propelled me to grow & heal as we separated. Yes, I finally balanced my inner masculine & feminine within myself. My tastes in people have changed. Now, I'm manifesting someone on my current vibrational frequency. That has also done their inner work. #Self Worth #Self Care #Self Love
..lt's so true .. exactly what I am thinking right now. These days I m finding myself so much balanced bcoz of the inner work. I like my own company. Feel complete and happy. And even if someone has to come in my life...then that person should be equally evolved and spiritually awaken. And if my TF is not there then also it's ok, bcoz I have learned so much in this journey that perhaps I am happy with this transformation. Grateful to God. Loved this video and your comment 👍👍
I can’t help feeling extremely pissed at Universe having put my twinflame and me meet each other. It has only been painful and devastating and has almost ruined my marriage. I am happy I will never see him again and that all this b..s... is over! I am so pissed at Universe putting us people through such a pain. I swear by God, I will never ever again fall in love with somebody. If it happens, I will turn my back and go away. I am so hurt and done with it! I used to be the chaser; now, I am the runner!
I doubt I’ll ever hear from him again. He started the whole thing, wanted me first, got me hooked, led me on and then discarded me. We never even got together. But he did ask me if I wanted a relationship and told me he really cared about me. He then showed how much he cared by smirking while he watched my heart break out at coffee, where I was about to say I was ready to move forward with him and he said he was seeing someone. Soul left my body. That was nearly 7 months ago and I said my goodbyes on text, wished him well and removed all access to me. To this day, no apology, no goodbye, just nothing. Still waiting to see how he “cares”. It’s like he wanted me but then wanted me to initiate everything and I can’t step outside of myself to chase. I already felt like a psycho around him. The mixed messages were confusing and when he tried to play it cool, he just came off as rude. Why pretend to care when I was clearly a worthless piece of trash to him the entire time. This time last year I looked over at him and thought to myself, I’m gonna marry that guy. I was so into him. All I wanted was him. He’s Jewish, so I thought Jews date to marry. But are non Jewish women just there to be led on and psychologically toyed with? I know I’ll stay stuck on this with no answers. Sometimes I think about reaching out, but that looks so desperate. He doesn’t want me so I have to get over it.
So if we keep getting new twin flames than that means there is no ONE twinflame which means you juat have soul connections, that you are complete within yourself. So there really is no reunion with THE ONE..
I hope you get to read this, your video was on point and made me laugh at times. I would love a 1on1 chat whenever you have the time. Cause you speak alot of truth And I think you can help me with that "feather" of yours. And also cause I never had the chance to meet my grandfathers.
I think all this is accurate, and im in the middle of this right now....my own feeling is we both had/have blocks but each Is different...she has a husband and child, and I have an inability to be with her if she insists on having sex with someone else just because she claims she is too scared to leave and likes the lifestyle that comes with the husband etc....everyone has their own rules, even people who say they don't have rules, that is still a rule they have...so that is my rule in any situation: if you want to fuck someone else, then fine, go to it, but don't involve me in it....because I quit my relationship and cleared the space....I expect loyalty and integrity and trust...and if any of those is missing then how can there be a union? So I moved on and I hope you are right Mel about meeting someone else, because that would be great...meanwhile I continue to iron out my own faults and try to find more humility in life by travelling around and being inspired by those who are more advanced than myself..thanks for the vid
All those romantic songs that say, "I would die for him!" Well die already. Don't just sing the songs. Do it. Die for him. And live. And when the grave clothes fall away, look who is still with you, more with you than ever. Plus some. This is my story.
Jonah Bell I would like to know the answer, too. I just know, if there is ever another twinflame coming into my life, I will tell him too f... off. It has been an extremely painful and disappointing journey! It has almost ruined my career and marriage! Not worth it!
I'm pretty sure I went through this strange phenomenon about 8-9 years ago. It was frustrating, completely derailed my life. Probably the 2nd worst thing that's happened to me. Then, right after this happened I had to revisit past repressed childhood memories. I 'remembered' how I was raped repeatedly and then instructed to tell my little friends at daycare about our (an older family member) little secret. And when the adults discovered me I was told to to say 'this is what me and my daddy like to do'. The point of this is to cause the mom to take the boy and flee the father. This is detailed in 'The Willie Lynch Letters: the making of a slave'. They lay out how women raise men to be dependent because of their subconscious nature. Did this happen to anybody else here? I have no desire to join this cult, and I only know this because I figured their game out on my own. Hoping someone somewhere sees this and could help provide insight.
Everyone has something to contribute to relationship and no one, no one has all the answers or has it sewed up regarding twin flames or soul mates, no one. Each has a piece of the puzzle. The heart is a great mystery and each must find their own truth of the matter as we connect more deeply within. Let all of life unfold the heart, quiet the mind,(which too much of this thing feeds a spin to) and know you are loved beyond measure. No harshness needed.
So just drop all the patterns below the soul level ;). Dropping all of these templates now. Haven’t been together physically Jan 1 & haven’t spoken since Feb 17th.
this girl (my flame) is completely oblivious... i don’t think she knows what a twin flame is..we finally met after 4 years of me waiting for our paths to cross... we’ve been exchanging DMs on instagram since late 2017 (she didn’t know who i was back then) ... but now that we met ... she ignored my message (left on seen) . im still receiving synchronicities daily so it means im all good . i think i just gotta trust this was meant to happen (some kind of block/barrier) . meeting her again is so inevitable.
Nextgen Audio hello 👋🏼. we’re still not talking. she ended with her karmic 2 months ago. just some guy she was giving attention vía messages cause she’s too afraid and confused to get out of her comfort zone and admit our strong connection and get vulnerable with me .... can’t blame her... according to many tarot readings, she’s never had this connection ever in her life...the last message i sent her was march 8th on instagram. just a small reply to one of her stories and she completely ignored it haaha. she’s been lately acting on twitter as if she doesn’t have feelings for me . she’s been hiding her spotify online status since march 2019 and listens to my playlists 🤣🤣. i follow her in there and she “stopped appearing online” right after lol. im always curious about what’s she’s feeling and thinking about us , hence why i look for tarot readings on twin flames here on youtube. and every tarot reading basically says she will soon let go of her ego and pride and take a leap of faith by sending me a small message. i don’t care she had a karmic relationship, it was the best for her growth. it was part of the process. also most tarot readings have been saying lately that she (DM) is figuring out we are meant to be. we are connected regardless . she’s probably been trying to forget about me and just simply can’t stop the feelings... she’s just too afraid to get vulnerable and get rejected by me. she’s also feeling regret and sadness for ignoring me for his karmic...she got used to me always doing the talking lol. she’s always given me crumbs lol. what a cutie 🤣🤣🤣. still getting synchronicities like craaazy. lot’s of 111 and 222 , 444 all day long. it seems like soon she will be expressing her feelings to me... it’s been a hell of a ride . slowly the tables have been turning... she’s getting into chaser mode hahahah now that’s more like it 😆😆😆
@@padilla23 One thing to remember.. You agreed to these karmic connections when you first seperated. They are learning experiences. Lessons need to be learned to grow. I'm going through a similar experience with my Twin who blocked me out of the blue on Whatsapp last week. She won't tell me why in person.. She's not awake to this dynamic yet. She is in a long term karmic but she has told a friend who told me she is having intense feelings she can't explain. Divine timing will reveal all.
motleydude73 how do u know she’s in a long term karmic?? according to multiple tarot readings (twin flames and Leo) she’s gonna finally look for me this month maybe, as in send me a text . explaining her bullshit. she’s scared i might reject her.
Still a lot of comments here that relate to our belief systems about what a TF is and should be (for example, you will always need and want your first TF). These sorts of beliefs are what Mel is asking us to let go of. My TF was always too "busy" for me. I thought if I worked hard and bent over backwards to make a connection happen, it would. (After all, who could permanently turn away from a TF experience, right?) (yet another belief system...) Lately I've been wondering why anyone would WANT another TF connection. I don't have any desire to have someone like the last one come my way-- I don't want any more painful lessons about how inadequate I feel. Its good to know that if you do the work (and I've still got work to do) its possible to heal and have someone nicer show up!
I’d be very happy to hear that, too. Also, if the union is orchestrated by Higher-self, how much of the free will during the process is involved? Is there any of it at all or we have just an illusion of free will all of the time? Very curious to hear this!
Perla Astorga, He already has, just pay closer attention to his videos. Maybe the Cleansing of the Etheric Body video will answer some of the things you are looking for.
Just wanted to correct myself and add that there is also a video he made called Empaths-Purging of Emotional and Mental Bodies. Check that one out, too.
Sunday 29:10:17 8:32am EVOLUTION What was and is, it hasn't changed Nor circumstances rearranged I was lost then, I am lost now To someone else's choices bow I'm still outside and looking in The glass has cleared, the inside dim Excluded from what is a part, of what's important to his heart. The other whom I love I've lost What all this holding on has cost There's nothing in this life I see That gives me pleasure, sets me free Each day, feel less like I belong Each day, lose more of this life's song I know I came to free his soul I know I came to make him whole The patience that I learnt, run out A million thoughts in my mind shout Five years past, what time I've lost The loving him, look what it's cost. I'm tired and I'm giving up It's been too long and never stops Please Jesus, lift me in your arms Please hold me in your love and calm There is no-one who understands No-one who knows just who I am This place, it's never been my home I've never felt so all alone I know it's your time, it's not mine I know I always get a sign I know you told me, please hold on I'm always falling, no more strong I know you said I give him wings When he's with me, feel his heart sings No longer can I fight his past Not know does his fear always last? It's all I have, this pen and pad It's all I have, I am so sad These streaming tears I want them gone You promised me a happy song. The indescribable hurt and pain The longing of my soul, insane Please God, please hear me, make this stop No strength to gather that sweet crop What will you do now, I am lost The tasks and tests my courage cost So will you leave me here to lie? Or let my soul leave on a sigh? For You, for him, I've nothing left The loneliness, feel so bereft Today you need to answer me Or cut the ties and set me free. "You give up when it's almost time You give up after all the signs What I design, what is at stake It's not for you, this choice to make His gift, I told you this I need And only you can grow that seed. He has the power, it's his fate You have to lead him through that gate" I cannot God, I can't go on What I've endured, I'm no more strong He doesn't want what I can give This is not how, he wants to live "It's not what he wants, it's my decree I promise you that soon he'll see This part, you have to do alone Where you are going, will be shown My angels are the birds you see A promise soon you'll both be free The eagles flying to the sun A promise that you'll soon be one. The darkness that's attacking you My angels, they will see you through I know you're lonely, you feel lost Soon you will find there is no cost. The ocean, where you feel at home It's where to you all things are shown The birds you watch, and long to be Be patient , soon you'll both be free Your souls will soar right to the sun, but from my tasks you cannot run It's here on earth that I need you Fulfil your promises, what you both do So calm your mind, release your soul Soon you will see your perfect role I'll not forsake you, you're my child You cannot run, nor can you hide"
If people think that a TwinFlame connection is someone you miss from six months ago, or someone you had something with a year and a half ago, but your ready to move on from them now and just hold them as a distant memory they are very wrong.
It won't go way, you won't just move on from it, and you can forget, replacing it with something else, and no matter what is said to you in any video, you will reconnect with that person, and it can be great, the best partnership ever, or the most stressful and hard situation ever ( within the romantic sphere ) which will make life difficult all round. If the difficult side of it happens, you will, and they will have to put it right, hence you will keep meeting, until it is. The point of the whole process, is that you both get it right in tandem, in an harmonious way, which means you both learning, and then you both teaching others, the way to engage in happiness. The whole thing is the most important part of your existence, it's why your here....
Mr22brian22 yes I totally agree with you. I think that what he is saying is logic but there are many ways for twin flames to heal and come together. If we were all to be so blunt about things nothing in the world would work. It takes faith. One grows does the work then the other reslises what they have lost and does the work
+Rebecca Hind Woods Rebecca yes he is a little blunt, but the only real problem with what he is saying is that there is no ending to his story. The whole point of you meeting your TwinFlame, is for an ending where you both are in balance, and this might take a few tries, before it happens, but it will happen. Your TwinFlame coming into your world is an indication that your nearing the end of your carnations in this plane, or reality, it's like you and them must tie up loose ends, personality flaws and emotional flaws, that you have carried with you for maybe a long time, maybe several lives even. The TwinFlame reminds you in a strange way that there is a finish line, in this reality, and there will be cause for celebration 🎉 but, just like a marathon, the last few miles will be the hardest, so even though the TwinFlame 🔥will make life nearly unbearable, and cause you lots and lots of problems, at times, there will be the deepest connection possible to have with another....
+(null) And the better that connection gets the closer you are to the finish line, if you understand....
Mr22brian22
Accept what it is
Accept what it isn't
Hi what do you mean ? By what you say Realladi 228
my first time watching, so sad to read he’s no longer present in this realm because this is golden ❤
Unfortunately most 3rd d marriages are composed of a love addict(chaser) and love avoidant(runner). Wounded people trying to get their needs met through the other. Until we don’t heal our abandonment which most real twins come from trauma, we could never do our mission. I strongly recommend for twins who are healing specially chasers to look into the anxious insecure attachment style. They need validation that the person will return and unfortunately you have very sick individuals on UA-cam profiting from people’s distress. Just listen to Mel and start your healing process so you can do your mission. Do not hate the runner he comes from the same trauma as you do he only learned to cope differently. Secure attachment is the goal, we don’t need each other.
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Good job on this explanation
Sounds good, but I'm thinking twins dont exist anymore. I use to believe it but I have learned about a womans nature more. In general women will monkey branch. So i feel ots just us who get hurt wanting to believe that somehow we will be with that person again,, i find this to be mostly BS.. Plus we are all complete souls within ourselves..
@@beamoflight7537 what is monkey branching ?
@@vixenxiiiv Its when a women preceives someone else to be of higher value so they swing up to them. In other words they believe the grass is greener so to speak. More often than not a woman is gone before she leaves and already has a another lined up.
Twin flames are meant to be together so when they both seperate, if one person works on themselves then they will bring the other twin into alignment with you as twins mirror each other so when you say one reaches high vibration then attracts others of that vibration they aint your twin, as both twin flame journeys are for you both to grow, not one twin be be in high vibration and the other to continue at a low frequency cos you say the low frequency one doesnt grow etc
I agree 100%
It's all about energy. It's opposites polarity so if you ascend and go within (looking inwards to your soul) focusing on self love and detaching from your TF, your opposite (masculine energy) will want to pull towards you.
The problem is everyone expects the other to follow suit right away, most often times, that is not the case and 3d unions are unlikely.
Also, twin flames are very rare, not every soul has a twin because we're all at different levels
Mel was such a wealth of knowledge.
He know his( stuff) as he would say !
Listen to him, digest it and keep coming back.
I know he is watching all of us now.
Trying to get his 2 cents in so we can evolve !
Blessings for everyone.
Keep on believing!
I love your sober and realistic approach and way of no BS explanation... Without the hassle of tarot, the divine, God or any other crap that might make people believe otherwise... I see this exactly the same way you do, good Sir.... Keep it up and thank you for this enlightning experience
I feel no need to try to get perfect. And try to 'earn' my twin. If we don't come together, oh well! I ain't jumping through hoops. I've been working on myself since my awakening, and I will ascend with or without him. I know I deserve love!
Thank you so much....you were the best Twinflame Teacher..... I will call you the father of Twinflames. Be blessed in Heaven.
In union with TF. Never been a runner/chaser dynamic. We have apart in the past in order to learn to be individuals. But we both hold unconditional love at our core for this union. We are both Awakened souls and get through our healing together. 🙏❤️
Listen to this man!!! He is speaking to you from his heart... to help you on your journey. i miss you Mel 💙blunt style or not.... you tell it as it is 💫
Thankyou Mel. Your point of view is deeply appreciated.growing up to take full responsibility of what m creating. Realising that the pain that m going through has nothing to do with the other person, but it has to do with co-dependency patterns in my ancestry. Remind myself again and again when days are hard. You have supported in this process.
Hands down the most thorough explanation I have ever come across. Wow. At basic we are atoms that split and are returning to balanced states for bonding. Everything we learned in chemistry in the 3D. This human body allowing the Infinite to experience the process. The pattern went exactly as stated. I was able to go through my dark night, and come out balanced. I had to GROW up. Yes. We were acting like teens. I had canceled a flight to see my DM last week after he told me it was over. I rescheduled the flight for this week on faith that reunion would occur because I went within to heal. I was watching a video on light codes last night, and had fully accepted we might never reunite. He called during the video to confirm I was coming, but most importantly coming with no shenanigans. I assured him I am coming authentically, with only love so we can fulfill our mission of helping to balance the Universe. Collapsed ego, with understanding of what we are.
It's no coincidence that as Mercury and Venus retrograde near their end, TFs are returning to the bond after intense healing. We can find the Divine within and without. This is absolutely amazing time to be alive and assisting as catalysts for the consciousness. Thank you for your transmission. You're indeed a Sage.
Your a smart person and I can see you have put a lot of work into yourself. Thanks for this information you have shared with us.
Beautiful 💐💜. Thank you.🙏🏾 We need more beautiful sane people offering guidance like this. Do they exist, or are we just on our own? May Mel’s legacy be blessed.🕊️❤️☀️
On the twinflame journey now about 12 years, I loved listening to Mel then, I’m here again 😊❤
Thank you for the no-BS approach, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Totally confirmed what was on my mind earlier today. I’m dealing with someone I believe to be my twin flame and I’ve personally had things come up that are opportunities for me to grow however I wasn’t sure WHY those things were being triggered to come out (thus the course I needed to take for growth was unclear to me.) The thought came to me that I was acting out the old, bad programming I was taught from previous relationships that were abusive even though this person has been very kind. I didn’t realize how spot on that way of describing it was. Hearing all this now is so empowering because I see that yes I have the ability to do something about this and no it’s not that I need something different from my twin or that things are going awry in some abstract, untouchable, mystical way. I’m not left hanging in confusion, I can take responsibility for my end of things and not just hyperfixate on the idea of “coming into union” as some ultimate goal. Thank you!
You’re the only TF individual In UA-cam that I Trust to listen on this TF journey. Thanks Mr.Mel 🙏😊
Likewise
New world allstar keeps it real too
Yes spiritual maturity is what is needed. If the other half of the original tf set isn't, and wants no part of it for what ever reason (fear, karmic partner etc etc), another near twin experience will take the place of the estranged twin.
Refreshingly honest...just what I needed..I am growing...have probably outgrown him and only remember the good.I am evolving spiritually daily and harbour no resentment,just positive vibes. Ultimately ,one attracts what you put out there!
I still remember the session I had with you back in 2016. I can feel the heart palpitation during the session and continue for awhile after the session. I know it is not that I was so excited to talk to you that much 😁 I am in this scenario you mentioned in this video now and I am totally fine by myself. It gets to the point where I am fine being alone. I enjoy myself doing things I love and passionate about. Material have less meaning to me. Fake people don’t resonate with me any more. I pretty much speak my mind unless it will hurt someone, that I will just shut up instead of hurting them. My intuitive ability is heightening and I become so sensitive to my environment and people around me. It is a wonderful change and I am so thankful for the experience and this transformation. 🙏🏼☺️
The twin flame experience is really a great great to receive Natcha.
I'v listened to you since 1am it is now 4am and i c'ant sleep. Thank you so much for waking me up. Hello from France❤
THE TEA-POT AND CARD LADIES BOY THIS WAS MAN WAS A HOOT
😂He certainly gave it us straight!
Thank you Mel. After more than 3 years of listening to you, I have a stronger innerstanding of this journey. No regrets. I am loving this ride
Shalom Sister!
Two things I don’t understand, one is of blaming my twin for this separation. The other is hating, & judging the twin. I have such unconditional love towards them, I tried hating so I could move on but just couldn’t. I’m understanding to work on myself for the changes to happen.
They are changing as well 💜
100% agree. I never hated my twin, even when I was rejected or it was hard. He did what he needed to do for his own life. I’ll always respect his choices even if they aren’t what I’d prefer.
I love your approach. I’m tired of the fluffies who try to teach this concept, it’s annoying. This is obviously not a completely logical concept but with a little intellect it can be made practical yet spiritual at the same time and you exhibit that. Thank you.
Precisely!
Thank you so very much for this! You are the real deal, telling it straightforward just like it is without sugarcoating it👍🏻 Much appreciated and please keep doing what you are doing😀💐
By far the BEST TF UA-cam channel. Thank-you⭐️
Thank you for everything, your presence is precious! You enrich life with sacred values!
thank you, not for the connfirmation of the twin flame connection, but for the reassurance that this process ultimately draws back to the spiritual growth and development on an individual level, as much as my ego would desire to live happily ever after with my divine masculine, i understand the bigger picture, how its for the spiritual growth of the individual which affects positively the collective, if i was to continue waiting for him to wake up and get out of his religous beliefs, i dont want to even know how long id be waiting, but i see the bigger picture, i have to continue growing for the sake of my growth, and humanitys growth to what true love is, i do love him unconditionally, but at the same time i am commited to the bigger mission and picture as well, so therefore i sacrafice my own egoic desires for the maturity of humanity, as i am now choosing the process to let go, move on and move forward, and continue on my path to self realization, and i do thank him for this learning he has given me, so my thank you is for the peace that this video alone has given me, that i can continue to grow spiritually because i am ready right NOW in this Now moment, and yes i understand as now i am tuning in more and more inward and doing the inner work to uncover and rediscover the answers within myself, yet your words are exactly what i knew deep down....so thank you also for reassuring me and reminding me that i have all the answers i seek within me...i appreaciate your help regardless!
I just found and subscribed to this channel. Very informative. The cursing is on point. Thanks for the info!
Best channel evee pm twinflames information, 4 years algo, I didnt quite understand You, now I do
I met my twin flame few months ago. He lives on a different continent. I miss him all the time. the connection is so intense I didn't know wtf was happening to me. This shit is so hard 😣
dzchk this is not some kind of fu*ck happening or shit that is so hard to take
Ozgur Senturk no need to be vulgar. The connection is way too intense for some people to handle. Sounds like you have no idea what this video is about
The Bible has an excellent prescription for relationships. It states the fruits of the holy spirit are: love, peace, joy, gentleness, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control. Of these there are no laws against.
As far as karma, religion and various things, I think it's purely a matter of understanding these words in original intention, they've been messed with, so now people carelessly use these concepts to justify their own notions. That said, what you offer at the end of what it's all for is intriguing. Very. Thankyou for coming from a more solid understanding...!
Just a Country boy passing through ,sharing a little here and there Blue Sky
The union can grow in separation. It is destined to grow in separation. Until the concept of separation dissolves. Love is strong as death and hard as hell.... All is well!
So of the twins separate, does that mean it's done for good or are you destined to be with that one?
@@beamoflight7537 I take it that it can go either way. It depends on whether both the twins grew together to overcome their issues. If not, they separate, and each will be matched with someone of their own frequency.
@@janicesmoot9508 Exactly! It can still follow the twin flame path, but if you work on yourself, you'll find resonance in another universal match, eventually.
R.I.P Mel thank you, for your amazing work.🙏🏼 Thinking about you Nicole & yours at this sad time.🙏🏼😇🙏🏼🔥
I found him and when I sat down beside him I blurted out (with confidence) that I saw that he had left many people behind without saying goodbye- many departures” he agreed and of course our energy was very complimentary etc -
Now I had done quite a bit of work to the point that I was accepting very naturally my gifts. My gifts are for my journey and I use them as tools to increase my learning on my journey. My biggest lesson in this fast track relationship I am experiencing, was to let go and allow him to be free. I’m a quick study but I’ll admit that I was very confused about us at first. I wouldn’t put up with anything! I felt like he should literally do this one thing lol the one thing ( that no longer challenges me ) was that he would make plans with me then blow them off to go drink. I wasn’t viewing his drinking as a red flag no, what I did was I felt really upset that he couldn’t shoot me a msg that would say “ change of plans!” Blah blah blah lol as soon as I let myself evolve I now understand that even though it’s my first time hearing of twin flames , I no longer need to bother with silly things that maybe I learned from this world that truly needs help. I now realize that I need to simply keep working on myself and tell him “You’re Free” it’s amazing to have unlocked a new way of learning. Of course I knew I was evolving perse- but now I’m excitedly learning and I tend to find people like yourself that give very genuine answers. I repel the ideology of a lot of videos etc. I am super excited about my new journey or maybe it’s my true journey! My one month story of how we found ourselves as twin flames is beautiful and funny but my main concern right now is to find our way to helping others. Ty so very much for your video.
And yes your blunt style is requested- if you have time to guide or teach that is welcome in my journey.
Indeed nobody can out talk you. I heard more than enough about this for the last 4 years but no one can explain this perfectly but simply the way you do . Thanks a lot.
Spot on Mel...100 percent...Thank you been on this path all my life I think !! I've attracted more than one "TF" ...you are spot on Appreciated this plain speak 💜💜
Hi! Just found this Chanel suggested by rich Lopp and let me say I really appreciate all this knowledge but I also really get a kick out of everytime you say “ I don’t give a rat’s ass” 😆... I’m totally in!!! 🙂
Hey I always enjoy your videos very straight forward please keep them coming very much appreciated.
Ahhhhhhhh! 😂 I love him, and this. Bless him👌with great gratitude! 🕊️Respect to you, even now, in the spirit world 💜.
Wow, I guess I've evolved, I feel it!-- (*13 years in my twin flame relationship*)
--because I Really used to get irritated by him, his way with words, a tad harsh sometimes, didn't seem gentle enough for softy mushy sensitive romantic hopeful me; and, as he says, his blunt way of laying out Everything- calling us on our shit, lol 😅 quoted! There's so so much I/we, my guy and I have learned, experienced, wrangled over, let go of, released, and transformed, etc..!!
💞 WE are fluid in flow and going forward~ this is actually~ A Miracle!
Feel good twinsies, feel miraculous, you are really really AMAZING! {Deep breaths} ~~
More than you realize. Shine on.
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Thank you Mel ! I'm always waiting for your new video. God bless :)
I feel that u are a real softie as in you are extremely kind and truly compassionate Mel ☀️👌🏽🌼
This is so good. Finally something that gives me a really solid understanding of what this is all about!
I'm now open to another person coming into my life like another tf or soulmate. I have detached and feel balanced after a year of separation from my twin who is in a karmic arranged marriage, or was last time I heard 6 months ago. The separation happened when we both got new jobs within 1 week of each other. Luckily we never argued or bickered once. In my dreams now for the last few months since detaching, if I dream of my twin I don't see his face. This made me think that maybe I need to be open to another person coming in to my life. But in 3d I see his name everywhere and men that look exactly like him, which puzzles me because it keeps me thinking of him, especially if I try to move on and talk to single men ie join a dating site etc I am bombarded with these signs. The whole situation confuses me with knowing which direction to take in my life. For months now I keep dreaming of getting married and pregnant specifically to my tf but nothing happening in 3d, not even any communication. Any insight would be appreciated.
It is possible you may be dreaming of union with yourself first .
goldraytwinflames thanks
I have exactly the same so I stopped for now meeting men and dating just BEing with myself gives me peace of mind without going into a hermit fase haha
How long after yall split did he get married?
Wait so how many twinflames do we have ?
So the 'twin flame' experience is to accelerate the Self Realization process - and that other soul (the "twin") was simply the catalyst. It sounds like we won't actually be a vibrational match as we continue to grow (or not). Is that right?
The non physical is the physical you are looking for x
I really don’t know what would I do or how my journey would be without you .. may ALLAH bless you 💗💗💗
Are you Muslim as me?
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Ameen
Wooow thank you, it makes so much sense 💛 I am sure you have been dancing with Angels ⭐ big hugs ⭐
Just re visiting...... YOU ARE THE BEST MEL., wow your work is so incredible.. Iam really grateful i came across your videos. 💕💫💢💥🦋
New sub :) “No relationships, no society no humanity.” Yes! Balance the energies within first and release preconceived ideas of love etc to reach that pure love we all seek. Loving ourselves wholly. Ya can’t truly love another until u love yourself first. Had a spontaneous awakening last Sept and ended up on this tf path. Had an epiphany last night, that I’m the matrix twin. I’m 47 and now learning that I’m an Empath among other gifts that have apparently been dormant. This has been quite the “trip” but much needed in order to get my effin’ ass started on my purpose as a guide and healer. Thank u for spreading your knowledge on this! 🙏🏻 “I don’t give a rat’s ass” lol 😂
Thankyou for subbing and welcome aboard
Thankyou Mel for the detailed explanation on this process of evolution. I am going through breakup and finding my growth in this phase, and in fact it's freeing at the least. This experience has given me lot of insights, understanding and growth and deep gratitude to myself, him and all those who supported in this process. Love to you. ♡☆♡
And I am a true twin flame I was divinely shown when I didn't even know about twin flame
Thanks Mel! I have been listening to you for a few years...haven't tuned into much of anything lately but glad I caught this one. True you repeat a lot but we need it lol!!! Three years ago I heard you but only partly because my emotional body was tantruming!! Now this just makes good logical sense😄☮☯️🕉💖🌟
I really appreciate your work, and the time you’ve taken to share what you have experienced in the realm of higher vibrational relationships, it has been directly helpful to me. But so have other presenters on the subject. I have my own filters and intelligence, and can decide what resonates with my own situation.
Every person who reads cards, is an intuitive, or believes in reincarnation is not having their head up their ass. Some are, I agree with you there, but broad statements can be alienating to both presenters, and to viewers.
I do benefit from what you teach...but if you could just focus on your points, and not on what others are doing wrong it would help. All the best, and thank you for your contributions to the twin flame conversation. 🙏🏽💙😊.
Ah so you noticed what others are doing wrong also .For me just being who i am i call it like i see it . If you or someone else takes issue with that thats your problem Rasaji SiraMari.
Thank you, twin Flames are truly rare 👌😘
The trouble is that some people may mistaken it with mere infatuation....
Understand perfectly.I've been in one for 12 years and i learnt the most with this bloody person.I loved your reading put a smile on my face.Thank you very much.Namaste.
I couldn't stand to be around my ex, hear his name, see his face, ect. 16 yes, later, today, I feel as though I was in a fog. I believe by other events in my life, I experienced an awakening, being Native American, I received an utterly peaceful awakening and blessed with an eagle sightings.
Dear Mr Mel, I think that if it really does happen that one TF develops spiritually higher than the other and the gap is, thus, made bigger among the two, if the “higher vibrational” TF then attracts to him/her another person and chooses to be with that other person, he/she will automatically lower the vibration again. This will equalise the energy back again with his/her original TF and draw them back together somehow in contact, but without the immediate chance for a reunion, since not all lessons have been learned yet (especially having in mind the “higher TF” lost faith/got disappointed in the other and chose to yet again search for happiness with another). But, if the “higher” TF really understands the process, he/she will despite the obstacles stay in the “higher” vibration, which will slowly, but surely make the other TF catch up with the vibration, because the energies always inevitably equalise. Bottom line: first option will take ages, even decades, without the final outcome if it keeps repeating; second option is more smart and faster, generally speaking, since it means the ”higher TF” understands this is an individual journey and he/she does not need another person for completion. Does this make sense?
Sounds like your hoping in your situation this may be the case .From my experience i have not seen this happen as you describe .
There's a first time for everything. :)
Exactly.
Exactly.
Thank you for all your wisdom. Rest in Peace good sir. 🙏
Did he pass away😮? I just found his videos!!
hello. can you video on creative abilities? on one of your recent videos about masculine and feminine you mentioned you were awakened around 37 and didnt develop your creative abilities until your 40s. thank you for everything you do
Mel, I just have a question: is it true at all times that one is spiritually more evolved than the other? Because in my experience what happened is that I was more spiritually evolved in certain aspects, and he was more spiritually evolved in others. So, none was more spiritually evolved than the other. We both were, just on different things.
Each set is unique as to there development and point of beginning ,i have seen many similar to you .Keep in mind here when i,m giving information i,m giving it in general terms .
You are amazing Mel.... Totally on point!!
This was amazing and I really appreciate the real message
A lot of those babies are coming into the Earth plane this Lion's Gate 2019 through the Sirian Gate and then Sphinx into the new earth grid. *UPDATE: I helped anchor 1 or 2 of them and my higher self all at once. Go Team!
You are so right about humanity not being 'smart', in the true sense, no matter how technologically advanced we become. In fact, it seems to be an inverse relationship. Never is this more true in this crazy year of 2020.
No never it's happening in my soul the love though we have partnered due to huge age difference it's mutual and the love is intact but still strong in my mind like we never parted that's the pain I bear along with immense love
Twin flame is another incarnation of your soul. You aren't meeting more than one twin flame in one lifetime 🤦🏻♀️
I get what you mean , There is one ultimate, and everyone else is like little pieces of the you and them (the ultimate) This brings in the realisation of and holding unconditional love for the twin and all others existing in this life , We are all one spirit 🌺
Yes i have met met second twinflame but its diffrent soul
I miss mine sooo bad
Who says the soul doesn't split into multiple bodies (more than two) incarnating at the same time? It's just a belief system that says there are only two on the earth simultaneously.
@@liebe_.it’s called twin flames for a reason. We have multiple soulmates, not twin flames.
You make the most sense so far. Maybe me and my "twin" has griwn enough together to realize what we needed to realize (after 8 months). And she isn't "the one". But we both benefitted hugely ftom meeting eachother.
Thank you! This was good! 🙏🏻✨
You have nailed it 💯
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you sir, RIP, darn honest and on point, twin flame is real, I’m going with it this time, I ran 3 times...... I’m invested in this all the way. I’m the empath Pisces ♓️, he’s Aquarius ♒️, we are going forward together to work on this
That’s promising. I just felt mine and my tf’s energies pull back today and I feel so much pain.
@@EarthAirFireWaterSpirit I feel for you.... the pain we experienced was something we never felt before. Love and light to you both.....I just wanted to add - we are both in our 50's, unlikely we will be having a child - I'm way past it
@@keiheaherakiwi1611 we are in our 50’s too. No kids in the future for sure lol thank you , love and light to you too my friend ♥️
@@EarthAirFireWaterSpirit I’d love to hear how your travelling with your journey, it’s quarter to 6 am where I am in the world, just texting my TF, we are both single (me separated from husband). We’re going with this journey, we’ve both decided to not have expectations. Trust me it’s easier, just got with the flow and have no demands on each other. The journey for both will be a lot easier. Love and light my friend
What a beautiful explanation. Thank you sweetheart.
Thankyou
You are hilarious, I love your straight forwardness, thank you 🌿
Well, our separation didn’t happen that way having arguments. We separate with love, because of the conflict not between us but of the conflicts between events and elements in each other situations. Pretty painful I have to swallow the reality, the treason he had to choose for himself and his people. He decided to sacrifice us. We both understand each other but the reality is difficult to swallow. I’m trying to heal, again and again. To continue, alone physically. This is what the universe wanted me to go through, again and again. Don’t know why. One lesson, only one lesson would have been enough, I learnt from that, but again, same thing happens, same loneliness, same pattern. I’m completely alone, I feel left aside from happiness and cursed. I have no choice but to continue the best I can, with all the pain inside my chest and brain, all the memories of the magical times that have to end, because in my case it always had to. I wish you better scenarios to all the twin flames 🔥 here, I wish you the best.
I'm in shit like you
TY TY
Yes, we did start getting on each other nerves. It triggered our inner childhood wounds.
It propelled me to grow & heal as we separated.
Yes, I finally balanced my inner masculine & feminine within myself.
My tastes in people have changed.
Now, I'm manifesting someone on my current vibrational frequency. That has also done their inner work.
#Self Worth
#Self Care
#Self Love
..lt's so true .. exactly what I am thinking right now. These days I m finding myself so much balanced bcoz of the inner work. I like my own company. Feel complete and happy. And even if someone has to come in my life...then that person should be equally evolved and spiritually awaken. And if my TF is not there then also it's ok, bcoz I have learned so much in this journey that perhaps I am happy with this transformation. Grateful to God.
Loved this video and your comment 👍👍
Bold needed words. Thank you my brother.
Twin Flame?
Twin Pain?
Lame Flame?
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I love you Mel❤❤ . Rest In Peace🙏🏻🙏🏻😘
I can’t help feeling extremely pissed at Universe having put my twinflame and me meet each other. It has only been painful and devastating and has almost ruined my marriage. I am happy I will never see him again and that all this b..s... is over! I am so pissed at Universe putting us people through such a pain. I swear by God, I will never ever again fall in love with somebody. If it happens, I will turn my back and go away. I am so hurt and done with it! I used to be the chaser; now, I am the runner!
what you attract, you get. I attracted him 25 years ago, and now he's chasing me... and IT FREAKING HURTS to destroy my ego...
Dont give up!!
I doubt I’ll ever hear from him again. He started the whole thing, wanted me first, got me hooked, led me on and then discarded me. We never even got together. But he did ask me if I wanted a relationship and told me he really cared about me. He then showed how much he cared by smirking while he watched my heart break out at coffee, where I was about to say I was ready to move forward with him and he said he was seeing someone. Soul left my body. That was nearly 7 months ago and I said my goodbyes on text, wished him well and removed all access to me. To this day, no apology, no goodbye, just nothing. Still waiting to see how he “cares”. It’s like he wanted me but then wanted me to initiate everything and I can’t step outside of myself to chase. I already felt like a psycho around him. The mixed messages were confusing and when he tried to play it cool, he just came off as rude. Why pretend to care when I was clearly a worthless piece of trash to him the entire time. This time last year I looked over at him and thought to myself, I’m gonna marry that guy. I was so into him. All I wanted was him. He’s Jewish, so I thought Jews date to marry. But are non Jewish women just there to be led on and psychologically toyed with? I know I’ll stay stuck on this with no answers. Sometimes I think about reaching out, but that looks so desperate. He doesn’t want me so I have to get over it.
i feel for you i totally get this 🤗 just work on you and hopefully it may come to something sometime but don't waste too much time if u can.
Love love love you Mel!!!! 😍😍😍😍
So if we keep getting new twin flames than that means there is no ONE twinflame which means you juat have soul connections, that you are complete within yourself. So there really is no reunion with THE ONE..
You are the one, you are the one soul split!!
Saying that nobody can outtalk you isn’t really a strong argument... besides that, thank you for your insights.
Its really great though I do not have to perfect .Reasonable close will do B
I hope you get to read this, your video was on point and made me laugh at times. I would love a 1on1 chat whenever you have the time. Cause you speak alot of truth And I think you can help me with that "feather" of yours. And also cause I never had the chance to meet my grandfathers.
Thank you! What if one refuses change then will they not come back to each other in Union?
I think all this is accurate, and im in the middle of this right now....my own feeling is we both had/have blocks but each Is different...she has a husband and child, and I have an inability to be with her if she insists on having sex with someone else just because she claims she is too scared to leave and likes the lifestyle that comes with the husband etc....everyone has their own rules, even people who say they don't have rules, that is still a rule they have...so that is my rule in any situation: if you want to fuck someone else, then fine, go to it, but don't involve me in it....because I quit my relationship and cleared the space....I expect loyalty and integrity and trust...and if any of those is missing then how can there be a union? So I moved on and I hope you are right Mel about meeting someone else, because that would be great...meanwhile I continue to iron out my own faults and try to find more humility in life by travelling around and being inspired by those who are more advanced than myself..thanks for the vid
All those romantic songs that say, "I would die for him!" Well die already. Don't just sing the songs. Do it. Die for him. And live. And when the grave clothes fall away, look who is still with you, more with you than ever. Plus some. This is my story.
Hi Mel,
Once two people have separated, there can be no reconnection? Or any chance of union?
Jonah Bell I would like to know the answer, too. I just know, if there is ever another twinflame coming into my life, I will tell him too f... off. It has been an extremely painful and disappointing journey! It has almost ruined my career and marriage! Not worth it!
I'm pretty sure I went through this strange phenomenon about 8-9 years ago. It was frustrating, completely derailed my life. Probably the 2nd worst thing that's happened to me. Then, right after this happened I had to revisit past repressed childhood memories. I 'remembered' how I was raped repeatedly and then instructed to tell my little friends at daycare about our (an older family member) little secret. And when the adults discovered me I was told to to say 'this is what me and my daddy like to do'. The point of this is to cause the mom to take the boy and flee the father. This is detailed in 'The Willie Lynch Letters: the making of a slave'. They lay out how women raise men to be dependent because of their subconscious nature. Did this happen to anybody else here? I have no desire to join this cult, and I only know this because I figured their game out on my own. Hoping someone somewhere sees this and could help provide insight.
How 😭 sad
You hit the nail....!!!!
Lions fight all the time!!! Still stay together!!!!
Everyone has something to contribute to relationship and no one, no one has all the answers or has it sewed up regarding twin flames or soul mates, no one. Each has a piece of the puzzle. The heart is a great mystery and each must find their own truth of the matter as we connect more deeply within. Let all of life unfold the heart, quiet the mind,(which too much of this thing feeds a spin to) and know you are loved beyond measure. No harshness needed.
So just drop all the patterns below the soul level ;). Dropping all of these templates now. Haven’t been together physically Jan 1 & haven’t spoken since Feb 17th.
this girl (my flame) is completely oblivious... i don’t think she knows what a twin flame is..we finally met after 4 years of me waiting for our paths to cross... we’ve been exchanging DMs on instagram since late 2017 (she didn’t know who i was back then) ... but now that we met ... she ignored my message (left on seen) . im still receiving synchronicities daily so it means im all good . i think i just gotta trust this was meant to happen (some kind of block/barrier) . meeting her again is so inevitable.
Eduardo Padilla what’s the update?
Nextgen Audio hello 👋🏼. we’re still not talking. she ended with her karmic 2 months ago. just some guy she was giving attention vía messages cause she’s too afraid and confused to get out of her comfort zone and admit our strong connection and get vulnerable with me .... can’t blame her... according to many tarot readings, she’s never had this connection ever in her life...the last message i sent her was march 8th on instagram. just a small reply to one of her stories and she completely ignored it haaha. she’s been lately acting on twitter as if she doesn’t have feelings for me . she’s been hiding her spotify online status since march 2019 and listens to my playlists 🤣🤣. i follow her in there and she “stopped appearing online” right after lol. im always curious about what’s she’s feeling and thinking about us , hence why i look for tarot readings on twin flames here on youtube. and every tarot reading basically says she will soon let go of her ego and pride and take a leap of faith by sending me a small message. i don’t care she had a karmic relationship, it was the best for her growth. it was part of the process. also most tarot readings have been saying lately that she (DM) is figuring out we are meant to be. we are connected regardless . she’s probably been trying to forget about me and just simply can’t stop the feelings... she’s just too afraid to get vulnerable and get rejected by me. she’s also feeling regret and sadness for ignoring me for his karmic...she got used to me always doing the talking lol. she’s always given me crumbs lol. what a cutie 🤣🤣🤣. still getting synchronicities like craaazy. lot’s of 111 and 222 , 444 all day long. it seems like soon she will be expressing her feelings to me... it’s been a hell of a ride . slowly the tables have been turning... she’s getting into chaser mode hahahah now that’s more like it 😆😆😆
@@padilla23 One thing to remember.. You agreed to these karmic connections when you first seperated. They are learning experiences. Lessons need to be learned to grow. I'm going through a similar experience with my Twin who blocked me out of the blue on Whatsapp last week. She won't tell me why in person.. She's not awake to this dynamic yet. She is in a long term karmic but she has told a friend who told me she is having intense feelings she can't explain. Divine timing will reveal all.
motleydude73 how do u know she’s in a long term karmic?? according to multiple tarot readings (twin flames and Leo) she’s gonna finally look for me this month maybe, as in send me a text . explaining her bullshit. she’s scared i might reject her.
motleydude73 i don’t know what i would do now if she were in a relationship ... date other people? knowing i wanna spend my whole life with her? lol
Still a lot of comments here that relate to our belief systems about what a TF is and should be (for example, you will always need and want your first TF). These sorts of beliefs are what Mel is asking us to let go of. My TF was always too "busy" for me. I thought if I worked hard and bent over backwards to make a connection happen, it would. (After all, who could permanently turn away from a TF experience, right?) (yet another belief system...) Lately I've been wondering why anyone would WANT another TF connection. I don't have any desire to have someone like the last one come my way-- I don't want any more painful lessons about how inadequate I feel. Its good to know that if you do the work (and I've still got work to do) its possible to heal and have someone nicer show up!
Mel, would you share some thoughts around free will?
Jeff KUNS I PUT IT ON THE LIST AS I READ YOUR COMMENT.
I’d be very happy to hear that, too. Also, if the union is orchestrated by Higher-self, how much of the free will during the process is involved? Is there any of it at all or we have just an illusion of free will all of the time? Very curious to hear this!
Can you do a video on "purging."
Perla Astorga, He already has, just pay closer attention to his videos. Maybe the Cleansing of the Etheric Body video will answer some of the things you are looking for.
Just wanted to correct myself and add that there is also a video he made called Empaths-Purging of Emotional and Mental Bodies. Check that one out, too.
Sunday 29:10:17
8:32am
EVOLUTION
What was and is, it hasn't changed
Nor circumstances rearranged
I was lost then, I am lost now
To someone else's choices bow
I'm still outside and looking in
The glass has cleared, the inside dim
Excluded from what is a part, of what's
important to his heart.
The other whom I love I've lost
What all this holding on has cost
There's nothing in this life I see
That gives me pleasure, sets me free
Each day, feel less like I belong
Each day, lose more of this life's song
I know I came to free his soul
I know I came to make him whole
The patience that I learnt, run out
A million thoughts in my mind shout
Five years past, what time I've lost
The loving him, look what it's cost.
I'm tired and I'm giving up
It's been too long and never stops
Please Jesus, lift me in your arms
Please hold me in your love and calm
There is no-one who understands
No-one who knows just who I am
This place, it's never been my home
I've never felt so all alone
I know it's your time, it's not mine
I know I always get a sign
I know you told me, please hold on
I'm always falling, no more strong
I know you said I give him wings
When he's with me, feel his heart sings
No longer can I fight his past
Not know does his fear always last?
It's all I have, this pen and pad
It's all I have, I am so sad
These streaming tears I want them gone
You promised me a happy song.
The indescribable hurt and pain
The longing of my soul, insane
Please God, please hear me, make this stop
No strength to gather that sweet crop
What will you do now, I am lost
The tasks and tests my courage cost
So will you leave me here to lie?
Or let my soul leave on a sigh?
For You, for him, I've nothing left
The loneliness, feel so bereft
Today you need to answer me
Or cut the ties and set me free.
"You give up when it's almost time
You give up after all the signs
What I design, what is at stake
It's not for you, this choice to make
His gift, I told you this I need
And only you can grow that seed.
He has the power, it's his fate
You have to lead him through that gate"
I cannot God, I can't go on
What I've endured, I'm no more strong
He doesn't want what I can give
This is not how, he wants to live
"It's not what he wants, it's my decree
I promise you that soon he'll see
This part, you have to do alone
Where you are going, will be shown
My angels are the birds you see
A promise soon you'll both be free
The eagles flying to the sun
A promise that you'll soon be one.
The darkness that's attacking you
My angels, they will see you through
I know you're lonely, you feel lost
Soon you will find there is no cost.
The ocean, where you feel at home
It's where to you all things are shown
The birds you watch, and long to be
Be patient , soon you'll both be free
Your souls will soar right to the sun,
but from my tasks you cannot run
It's here on earth that I need you
Fulfil your promises, what you both do
So calm your mind, release your soul
Soon you will see your perfect role
I'll not forsake you, you're my child
You cannot run, nor can you hide"
Pat OD Wow this poem is truly a blessing and confirmation to hold on to Gods divine plan. Thanks for sharing your special gift 🙏🏽❤️🦋🌻😇
kimberly gray 🙏🤗😘
you are taking it to a next level , great
For Sure