This video really sums up where I am currently in my waking state consciousness. Truly, meditation was been thee most beneficial and self loving thing I’ve done for myself. And when I met my twin flame, and I could see myself through his eyes, and I saw myself as someone who is pretty fucking special. That experience gave me the opportunity to access core wounds in myself through meditation that I didn’t know where there, because I truly want to encompass that potential he showed me on me. Meditation also allowed me a safe space for the ancestral icky stickies to be cleared in a way that wasn’t traumatic to my system. As it flows through the heart center, I can recognize the energy for what it is and detach from it. All the while I hold trust in every atom of my being that my counterpart has everything inside of himself to do what he needs to do for himself, his family and his bloodline. Something missing in those twin flame groups is the realization that your twin flame is a twin flame too! If you don’t think your twin can sort out his shit on his own, you’re missing a major piece of the puzzle. Honor your counterpart’s strengths and know he/she has what it fucking takes to create a new paradigm for this dying planet. Honor, respect, and be thankful for the process, that’s how I keep myself from getting lost in it.
T Murphy your comment totally resonates with me. My realization of why my twin flame has entered my life was very similar to what you described, namely that you saw yourself in his eyes. It’s good to hear that someone has figured what was the whole TF process all about with maturity and humility. As for me, I haven’t spoken to him in a very long time because I only need myself to grow and evolve. Also, you said that meditation allowed you a safe space for all the ancestral crap to be cleared in a way that wasn’t traumatic to your system; I’m intrigued. Right now, it feels like someone has pierced my heart chakra with a tree trunk, and it’s definitely related with all the nasty trauma I carry. Do you have any advice?
One of few only 😟 Most sell you fairy tale that: This is the One and you need wait balh blah!😝 Waste of time😝 After done so much healing, my TF feel like no one to me🤔
I too often find myself late to the party, having just discovered these videos 6 months after my experience. All the false stuff on UA-cam you wade through trying to understand what’s going on. Bless Mel’s “Soul Essence”. Most enlightening, thank you! Got to put on my big girl pants, not used to being alone. Loving myself is a big one, so much work still to do. With heartfelt gratitude I thank you again. 💜🌻
Hard to believe you are no longer here Listening after 3 years and still learning may God give Nicole the strength to carry on. My daughters name is Adriana Nicole
I’m so sorry you’re gone. You’re greatly missed and even though it’s been a while since I’ve visited your channel; I’ve received so much learning and wisdom. I was led here when I saw your beautiful wife sharing her experience on you transitioning. Thank you 🙏 for all your wisdom on twin-flame and soulmate unions. I will continue listening and learning because you were full of experience and wisdom and you led by example. Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
It's Jeffrey! I love the fact that you say, from someone that knows...... Karen and I are Twin Flames and have been together/married for 30 years, things are getting better each day as we become more awakened and execute our divine mission. I'm glad we found you!!!!! We are working to help others understand and to live their best lives.
I love it when you say that's not a relationship (in the context of manipulation of a twin flame speeding up the process of union). Thank you. So good. We miss you. But, I am so glad you followed your calling and recorded these videos
One has to innerstand that even if you are one soul, you are still individuals. The individual has to do the work; to confront the dark archetypes inside and outside. Self-love first....forget about the twin for a moment. When you can go through the process to raise your vibrations, to feel whole and balanced inside and out, then you feel that divine pure love. And so it is 💜🙏💫
Thank you, sir 🌻. What I've managed to take from this is that A. You should not take the hurt you were given personally, because it's a reflection on the giver not the receiver and B. Don't allow what they did to you to change who you are. Don't allow it to make you a nasty person. Continue to be a creative and love others and love yourself most of all.
I don’t have a TF but i apply your advice to all the soul connections that have triggered me .. surrendered and by far your the best here in this journey
I’ve been on this journey since 2019 and this is the best advice I have received in almost 4 yrs!! Thank you for sharing Mel and I’m so glad that I have discovered your channel ❤️
I’m just finding this page... I remember the phase of my journey where I would have been offended by his guidance or style. Not at this stage, he is speaking directly from the guides themselves
I just stayed to myself and walked on my journey by myself because a lot won’t understand I had to figure out everything myself I did a good job 👏 all you need is yourself and god or the universe what you call upon and you will be A ok 👍
i have watched so many of his videos years ago and been through many other things in life and took a break from the t.f. topic and now all of a sudden was talking about my twin flame with a friend and then mel popped into my mind, so here I am back feeling pulled to rewatching. I was told that I will be contacted by my t.f. next year, it's been a long time since we've spoken or seen each other. i guess now i am more in alignment to hear and receive and focus on more healing and leveling up, though i have no idea what my t.f knows or if he;s "awake", and i am thrilled about the idea of seeing/speaking to him again but i'm still gonna focus on my journey until that happens.
Oh my God, finally, FINALLY... Searching through youtube for actual useful information is so hard and Mel, you are doing the greatest job here. The only twinflame advice which I have found so far that does cover the actual dynamic without relationship advice and rose coloured stuff. I also love that you spread the word that it is totally valid and okay for twinflames to choose not to be together, and that union does not have to be a romantic relationship... I love my twinflame, but right now, I personally dont feel like wanting to be together with him, even though the bubble love phases can be so damn strong... I feel though that these bubble love phases are rather there to help me heal energetically and emotionally as in getting new upgrades in energy and inspiration while the button pushing stages are there to bring up the old stuff...
My TF & I have bn in union a few times and I'm so very grateful for those times... I got to hug him yesterday and I felt recharged and enlightened! I no neither of us are ready so I surrender fully to the Universe and Divine timing!!! Thanks Mel for the beautiful guidance ❤️🕉️!!!!!
Agree completely and wholly with this video about healing yourself. It's painful going through the triggers and past and present trauma etc but once it's comes to the surface and you heal them, you are finally at peace and happy inside.
Not taking anything seriously is really hard to do. But at some point we will realize that that’s the only way to live. Not just in the Twin Flames connection but the whole life in general. The emotional residue from taking other people’s reactions too seriously is very overwhelming and unproductive. But some people have a very high tolerance for emotional distress so they hold on to it for so long. Because they used to it. Suffering is their comfort zone. I’m pretty sure the more evolved we are, the more responsibility we carry. We just can’t have too much emotional attachment to any situation. Life just don’t wait for anyone. I’ve made this mistake so very often. It takes years of pushing buttons cycles. And I think I’m getting better at this, where I don’t really have much button left to be pushed anymore. But I still have that, and I cannot lie it still gets to me sometimes. But i think every time that happens we all need to give ourselves time to take a step back to observe our own feelings rather than over analyzing the other person. And as we embody the Twin Flames energy we are becoming the more intense and powerful version of ourselves. So we also need to be very careful how to control and to hold back a little and learn to navigate our energy to the right direction. Otherwise it would backfires and bring more conflicts which give us the opposite effect of what we’re trying to accomplish which is Harmony. We all have our own Narcissistic side, but there are people out there who are truly Narcissists. They don’t have empathy whatsoever. Even though we burst our emotions towards them until we have nothing left, they won’t feel anything. I know how people react to my energy, but a Narcissist won’t be effected to it. I think this is why some people say most Twin Flames connection are narcissistic. Because we are forced to exercise our empathic ability to the people who don’t understand that at all. Not to stay with them or let alone heal them, but to reach and to be our highest potential as an empathetic human being. But that’s just my opinion from my own personal experience. And for a disclaimer my Twin Flames are not narcissistic, they are amazing😂 I’m talking about the true Narcissist that the psychologist have problems with these days. They do exist and they’re very hard to work with.
I’m about a year and a half into my kundalini awakening. I feel my masculine starting his process. Trying to give him space even though my birthday is in 2 days. I can do this. Love you Mel. You are here in spirit
There is always, but lately more so, stream of loving energy coming out from you Mel. It is absolutely not possible to not feel that. And the technical part of everything you are sharing is so valuable and precious. Thank you for your work 🌌🥀⛲☀️🌈
I love your energy Mel! Its not overwhelming for me. - everything makes sense from you!! Your videos have REALLY helped me navigate and understand the “twin-flame” energy after it has awaken in me. And you are right about multiple “twin-flame” connection with multiple people. 😉 I am starting to think the “twin-flame” connection and energy is used by higherself/oversoul as a “tool” to cleanse the energetic body of two connected, exchange positive aspects and information with one another, and evolve the two’s consciousness - not necessarily as a match-making tool for romantic relationships! You mentioned this in one of your videos. The “multiple” twinflame connection is meant to template multiple people and thus templating the whole collective and therefore evolving human consciousness for all. This tool aka “the twin-flame connection/energy” is not necessarily meant to be used, “exclusively,” to establish a romantic relationship, but it can lead to romance. For romantic relationships to work, 3d reality really does have to come into play in the equation!
I’ve been avoiding this video because I was full of it. You said something I needed to hear. Nobody is perfect, not even me, I was holding onto anger about how he acted out. How everything was perfect and out of the blue BAM he’s off to the man cave as you said 😊. I was taking it personally and thanks to you I won’t take things personally anymore, well I’ll try my best not to. I can get a bit stubborn and literally have to stop myself from focusing on him, but I still go on with my life, healing and balancing my chakras, loving myself and accepting love from my family and friends. BTW I have much respect for anyone who doesn’t sugar coat shit, and tells it like it is. My adopted father has passed on, and I needed to hear some advice from the Masculine point of view. Thank you so much. Love and Light to you and your Special Lady 💚 Pickles 😂😂😂😂
THIS IS the most inspiring, authentic "Twin Flame" message and insight I have heard in 4 and a half years on this Journey! Merci with Gratitude Mel🤗. It is ALWAYS about the Twin Within and Self Love FIRST. I have learned this the hard way by the way. Loving YOURSELF is not SELFISH...its necessary and this is the only way to Heal Mama Gaia...one HUman BEing at a time Men and Wombyn side by side fully engaging in themselves as Sovereign Souls.🙏🤲🌹💃🏻🕺☯️😇💖💫🔥🐾Thank you.
I only follow you and one other male TF coach on UA-cam. I like the straightforward male perspective. You guys cut right through all the fluff and I appreciate it.
Zaphod Beeblebrox I agree . A couple of years ago before I came to the realization what the journey is about I contacted her . She had her assistant call me However I swear it sounded just like her. When I asked what the modules consisted of she said she couldn’t tell me that I would have to wait for the classes. Oh and before she could speak to me she wanted to know if I had a way to pay And if so was I willing to Pay whatever It took to help me heal . And I couldn’t believe how she wanted to know what would be my form of payment prior to the free consult . She needed to Know this information before we talked So yes you are 💯
I needed to hear this Mel. I've been struggling so very much, but you hit the nail on the head. I work very hard on my ascension with meditation and channelling for at least 3-4 hours a day, but I sometimes feel so much pain from his lack of communication and lack of acknowledgement, that I now realise I have not been acknowledging myself. I have a great deal of fear, so I avoid my own pain by focusing on my twin, even though I know it's counter productive. I love you with all my heart Mel, I know you can feel it XO 😘😘😘
Thank you so much for leaving these videos up ❤..this is the magic, the confirmation and clarification that those on this journey will know as gold from your unconditional loving connection. Blessed 🙌 😇
A real eye-opener. Plain and simple words. I wasn't watching a video from Mel for quite some time. But this one happened to catch my eye. Thank you so much! Hope you're good on the other side ;-) The ones you've reached with your Videos surely miss you! ♡
Gee Mel, thanks for this wonderful, no-nonsense, informative video. I'm going into year 7 and I wish I'd realised all of this at least four years ago. I think I'm ready to use your visualisation now, but I needed my butt kicked by a few of those points. I'm 68 and started this journey after a 36 year marriage to a soulmate...my DM is 59...also married 36 years, divorced for 8 but has hung onto that ex. We haven't been in communication for the last two months but we both needed that isolation, because I had a huge shift happen for me. I was saying exactly that today...so many of the readers tell you what to do, but they're not doing it and have no idea where they're going either. Thanks for sharing.
there are many women in chats who talked about how badly they have been treated. My twin is the kindest soul I’ve ever met. Are these men their DM? Met mine in 2001. 15 years separated. I’m so happy to start seeing men explaining TF. Thank you. It’s very enlightening. 🙏🏻
Thank you so much..this was right on time. He was close by and I did not know it but I felt my energy completely shift. I also felt extremely emotional that night, and I was not thinking of anything that would cause me to cry like that. I am grateful for your video, makes alot of sense.
Thank you so much Mel - you make it simple to understand & your words today resonated so much with me. I realised that loving myself is the greatest gift of all - no attachment no wishing just knowing - it’s an amazing feeling when you “get it” penny drop moment 🙏
Mel I appreciate you so much. I am taking notes because I’m going to be honest I am a little stubborn and been lacking my ability of self-love. When you brought up process of visualization, my symbol is a emerald diamond. I did this method before (it was still as me and my tf were in separation) I spent literally a minute appreciating my self love touching my heart and got a message the next day from my tf so thank you
Thank you so very much Mel. I’ve just started doing the imaginative energetic time together with my Twin flame (Guided by his higher self). It is an incredible experience.
God gives you the gift of pure love or your bubble. It breaks down because of the unhealed parts of you. This gift is then longed for to return to that higher state. So, you pay attention -why it collapsed and have to do the work to get it back. You are re-remembering who at what you are at your core, pure love. It was free but you were not ready to receive it, so now it has to be earned for it to return.
Thank you for sharing this information with us and me for sure. And I have to agree with you. We are both Warriors and we both have more Alpha energizes within us so we can be awesome mirrors and I am believing that I have to make it top priority for me to be able to be with me and her I have to make sure that we are both in the same way of thinking that we have to be, do, or other pressure to do more than desire for our families, friends and guest. To share with them the joy and happiness and blissfulness of our union is a blessing for us both and many times the energies that come up others who are in this field will feel the same thing
I got you from another loop my God yours there's no words I miss I'm 50 and I miss guidance I've learned so much in the last five years after 50 years I am the guidance thank you
Be careful not to linger off into codependency...some people think they are in TF union but it’s just an experience of codependency which these Facebook groups and others feed on....your journey is for you.
Thanks Mel for the video, I loved it. I stopped taking anything personal about 2 years ago with everyone. It feels so amazing and free. Whom ever your dealing with will react or respond in one way or another, and it has absolutely nothing to do with me. This is how they are to everyone they encounter so why should I take it personal at all, it's just how they are based on their level of consciousness.
Awesome video U r too good Yes this whole journey is about us. Our self realization and working on ourselves till the end. It's our evolution. Superb superb video Lots of love and good wishes 💕
But its like you said before not many people are in a twinflame relation but think they are because many people wants to be' special or labeled.Speak your truth Mel .I am 48 and my twinflame is 27 and i found him in Egypt.My lifepath leaded me to there again and with a great purpose aswel.Greatings from Belgium my name is Nancy 🙏👸
I appreciate the clarity and perspective you share on this dynamic. I am starting to absorb the technical energetic properties behind the purpose of these emotional challenging relationships withIN and without on a higher level. THANK YOU. 🔥🙏⚘❣🌈🔥
Hi Mel, bravo, it’s refreshing and resonating to hear truth and facts, there is much dilution circulating about the TF journey. I’ve recently come to what you’re sharing about. I am thankful for the content and and the clear uncongested delivery of it. So wonderful. I’m enjoying soaking up the wisdom and nuggets. You rock🤗 Namaste 🙏 🔥🔥
Love this. I can’t and don’t even want to heal my twin flame. I know that that is his job. I’m willing to hold space for him if he needs but that is it.
Ty. Great info. I think you might speak less highly of narcissists if you experienced one. But your point about don't worry be happy hits home nonetheless.
Hi there Mal. This is the first I have seen or heard of you. You’ve just come into my field of view. Everything you said in this vid is exactly right and how I see many things surrounding this journey. I had not heard of this visualisation technique and I thank you for sharing this. I appreciate you and your thoughts and I look forward to seeing more videos of you.
No triggers - transcended to different levels after years and years of button pushing! So grateful! It’s fab Connection & have no expectations outside of yourself. Easier said than done. But hey ho - it’s the point of the journey to journey through 💝💜🔥🔥
Over the last couple of years I've been connected with a man who I share an etheric bond with. (I've had a a couple etheric partners before him.) I rarely see him. We text occasionally. I just accept that we are not meant to come together in the physical realm any time soon and accept the etheric union as it is what it is. I know I need to trust the process but it does agitate me to think at 43 this is as good as it's gonna get. I do hate not being able to manifest a physical relationship in 3D. Sometimes I think my manifesting skills are broken but I know it all comes down to patience and trust. 2 things I sometimes suck at. Thanks for this video Mel. I needed this friendly reminder. ❤
Some twin flames are not meant to be together in the physical. But there should have been something you have attained from knowing each other and exchanging energy but only you know what that could be.
This etheric bond is much more meaningful and understood on my end. I do think we have a good chance to come together in the end but then sometimes I just want to say forget it... but then Mel does a video that is like an intuitive slap telling me to just keep going. Lol. But ughhhhhh... I just tell the universe, fine, you win this round... I'll endure the process a little longer and not give up yet... even though I'm so close to wanting to give up...
That is the truth I know. The walking of this TF path at my age is hard only because of my lack of love for myself but is also easier thanks to this life experience. He learned from life. No school much just survival life. That is what he began to teach me. Life is to love yourself fully. Who you truly are. Am I getting it ? Don’t know but will follow your teaching advice because I heard Truth itself in your words.
I miss you Mel 💙, anyone watching these videos... listen to this man!!!! He speaks from his heart and is helping YOU on your journey.
Just came across it. Mel was a gift to humanity
Wtf is happening in 2024 this video was posted 4 years ago and all of us in 2024 are going through it.
Same ? 🙏
Exactly 😢
@@chriscordsen2643 we are ready for it only now. 🙏🌷🧚♂️💚 Mel is doing his work from up there and all around!😁❤
It is valid when you see it.
I’ve definitely noticed a change within myself lately. It’s all ramping up
This video really sums up where I am currently in my waking state consciousness. Truly, meditation was been thee most beneficial and self loving thing I’ve done for myself. And when I met my twin flame, and I could see myself through his eyes, and I saw myself as someone who is pretty fucking special. That experience gave me the opportunity to access core wounds in myself through meditation that I didn’t know where there, because I truly want to encompass that potential he showed me on me. Meditation also allowed me a safe space for the ancestral icky stickies to be cleared in a way that wasn’t traumatic to my system. As it flows through the heart center, I can recognize the energy for what it is and detach from it. All the while I hold trust in every atom of my being that my counterpart has everything inside of himself to do what he needs to do for himself, his family and his bloodline. Something missing in those twin flame groups is the realization that your twin flame is a twin flame too! If you don’t think your twin can sort out his shit on his own, you’re missing a major piece of the puzzle. Honor your counterpart’s strengths and know he/she has what it fucking takes to create a new paradigm for this dying planet. Honor, respect, and be thankful for the process, that’s how I keep myself from getting lost in it.
T Murphy your comment totally resonates with me. My realization of why my twin flame has entered my life was very similar to what you described, namely that you saw yourself in his eyes. It’s good to hear that someone has figured what was the whole TF process all about with maturity and humility. As for me, I haven’t spoken to him in a very long time because I only need myself to grow and evolve. Also, you said that meditation allowed you a safe space for all the ancestral crap to be cleared in a way that wasn’t traumatic to your system; I’m intrigued. Right now, it feels like someone has pierced my heart chakra with a tree trunk, and it’s definitely related with all the nasty trauma I carry. Do you have any advice?
Mel's actually a big sweet heart. He knows what he's talking about
One of few only 😟 Most sell you fairy tale that: This is the One and you need wait balh blah!😝 Waste of time😝 After done so much healing, my TF feel like no one to me🤔
We will miss you 🥰
Absolutely, we'll miss him so much...But we have all that material, videos and it's precious for the twin flames. Thank you Mel, rest in peace 🖤
Yes he was a huge softie
R.I.P. Mel Brand. Your teachings are a blessing to humanity. Thank you for everything. xxx
Is he no more???
I think he is in peace n living a very blessed life. May God bless him and us all
He is more now.
I too often find myself late to the party, having just discovered these videos 6 months after my experience. All the false stuff on UA-cam you wade through trying to understand what’s going on. Bless Mel’s “Soul Essence”. Most enlightening, thank you! Got to put on my big girl pants, not used to being alone. Loving myself is a big one, so much work still to do. With heartfelt gratitude I thank you again. 💜🌻
Hard to believe you are no longer here Listening after 3 years and still learning may God give Nicole the strength to carry on. My daughters name is Adriana Nicole
I’m so sorry you’re gone. You’re greatly missed and even though it’s been a while since I’ve visited your channel; I’ve received so much learning and wisdom. I was led here when I saw your beautiful wife sharing her experience on you transitioning. Thank you 🙏 for all your wisdom on twin-flame and soulmate unions. I will continue listening and learning because you were full of experience and wisdom and you led by example. Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️
It's Jeffrey! I love the fact that you say, from someone that knows...... Karen and I are Twin Flames and have been together/married for 30 years, things are getting better each day as we become more awakened and execute our divine mission. I'm glad we found you!!!!! We are working to help others understand and to live their best lives.
Mel was the real deal...miss you, but know you are channeling still to all of us.
So sorry. I didn’t know you passed on. But my guides lead you to me. I will watch. ❤ I hope you are finding all the love and peace where you are.
I love it when you say that's not a relationship (in the context of manipulation of a twin flame speeding up the process of union). Thank you. So good. We miss you. But, I am so glad you followed your calling and recorded these videos
Mel 🥰you popped in my feed this Easter morning 🐇👼🏼
One has to innerstand that even if you are one soul, you are still individuals.
The individual has to do the work; to confront the dark archetypes inside and outside.
Self-love first....forget about the twin for a moment.
When you can go through the process to raise your vibrations, to feel whole and balanced inside and out, then you feel that divine pure love. And so it is 💜🙏💫
Wow! I hope your TF continues your work. Thanks for this. It came to me through divine. ❤
Aww this makes me sad.. I only just found your channel but see from comments that you’ve passed away 😔💔🙏🏻
Thank you, sir 🌻. What I've managed to take from this is that A. You should not take the hurt you were given personally, because it's a reflection on the giver not the receiver and B. Don't allow what they did to you to change who you are. Don't allow it to make you a nasty person. Continue to be a creative and love others and love yourself most of all.
I don’t have a TF but i apply your advice to all the soul connections that have triggered me .. surrendered and by far your the best here in this journey
Agrreed
I’ve been on this journey since 2019 and this is the best advice I have received in almost 4 yrs!! Thank you for sharing Mel and I’m so glad that I have discovered your channel ❤️
I’m just finding this page... I remember the phase of my journey where I would have been offended by his guidance or style. Not at this stage, he is speaking directly from the guides themselves
I just stayed to myself and walked on my journey by myself because a lot won’t understand I had to figure out everything myself I did a good job 👏 all you need is yourself and god or the universe what you call upon and you will be A ok 👍
This is by far the best video on tf. Rest in peace Mel. You've been such a precious gift for all of us 🙏🌹
wow.. You called it Mel.. I didn't even have a "man cave" when I meet my twin. Do now.
-Keep your path strong.
i have watched so many of his videos years ago and been through many other things in life and took a break from the t.f. topic and now all of a sudden was talking about my twin flame with a friend and then mel popped into my mind, so here I am back feeling pulled to rewatching. I was told that I will be contacted by my t.f. next year, it's been a long time since we've spoken or seen each other. i guess now i am more in alignment to hear and receive and focus on more healing and leveling up, though i have no idea what my t.f knows or if he;s "awake", and i am thrilled about the idea of seeing/speaking to him again but i'm still gonna focus on my journey until that happens.
This is one of your best videos ever Mel!!! Thank you so much!!!
Thank you Mel . You have lighted our lives with true experience of TF and knowledge that is rarely available. Gratitude.
Rest in peace Mel .
Oh my God, finally, FINALLY... Searching through youtube for actual useful information is so hard and Mel, you are doing the greatest job here. The only twinflame advice which I have found so far that does cover the actual dynamic without relationship advice and rose coloured stuff. I also love that you spread the word that it is totally valid and okay for twinflames to choose not to be together, and that union does not have to be a romantic relationship... I love my twinflame, but right now, I personally dont feel like wanting to be together with him, even though the bubble love phases can be so damn strong... I feel though that these bubble love phases are rather there to help me heal energetically and emotionally as in getting new upgrades in energy and inspiration while the button pushing stages are there to bring up the old stuff...
Don't rush to them you're already there. Live your life. When you hear them ,,, send love and wish them well.
Fly high Mel … your teachings will continue helping many including myself .. xx
My TF & I have bn in union a few times and I'm so very grateful for those times...
I got to hug him yesterday and I felt recharged and enlightened!
I no neither of us are ready so I surrender fully to the Universe and Divine timing!!!
Thanks Mel for the beautiful guidance ❤️🕉️!!!!!
This man right here. Is awesome. Following for sure. RIP but I need this energy.
He passed away ?
Listening to this video just released so much resistance within myself... I truly appreciate the time you took to make this... thank you ❤
Agree completely and wholly with this video about healing yourself. It's painful going through the triggers and past and present trauma etc but once it's comes to the surface and you heal them, you are finally at peace and happy inside.
Yes that is soul true!!! I am Soo free considering the inner work done this year. Your message is 100% spot on. 😍😍😊
This was incredible! I actually feel excited to be on this journey again! Thank you so much! Xx❤
Not taking anything seriously is really hard to do. But at some point we will realize that that’s the only way to live.
Not just in the Twin Flames connection but the whole life in general.
The emotional residue from taking other people’s reactions too seriously is very overwhelming and unproductive. But some people have a very high tolerance for emotional distress so they hold on to it for so long. Because they used to it. Suffering is their comfort zone.
I’m pretty sure the more evolved we are, the more responsibility we carry. We just can’t have too much emotional attachment to any situation. Life just don’t wait for anyone.
I’ve made this mistake so very often. It takes years of pushing buttons cycles. And I think I’m getting better at this, where I don’t really have much button left to be pushed anymore. But I still have that, and I cannot lie it still gets to me sometimes.
But i think every time that happens we all need to give ourselves time to take a step back to observe our own feelings rather than over analyzing the other person.
And as we embody the Twin Flames energy we are becoming the more intense and powerful version of ourselves.
So we also need to be very careful how to control and to hold back a little and learn to navigate our energy to the right direction. Otherwise it would backfires and bring more conflicts which give us the opposite effect of what we’re trying to accomplish which is Harmony.
We all have our own Narcissistic side, but there are people out there who are truly Narcissists. They don’t have empathy whatsoever. Even though we burst our emotions towards them until we have nothing left, they won’t feel anything.
I know how people react to my energy, but a Narcissist won’t be effected to it.
I think this is why some people say most Twin Flames connection are narcissistic. Because we are forced to exercise our empathic ability to the people who don’t understand that at all.
Not to stay with them or let alone heal them, but to reach and to be our highest potential as an empathetic human being.
But that’s just my opinion from my own personal experience.
And for a disclaimer my Twin Flames are not narcissistic, they are amazing😂
I’m talking about the true Narcissist that the psychologist have problems with these days. They do exist and they’re very hard to work with.
Thank you Mel . For following us from the other side I know you see how much your wisdom has helped so many. I’m glad you can see it.
I’m about a year and a half into my kundalini awakening. I feel my masculine starting his process. Trying to give him space even though my birthday is in 2 days. I can do this. Love you Mel. You are here in spirit
There is always, but lately more so, stream of loving energy coming out from you Mel. It is absolutely not possible to not feel that. And the technical part of everything you are sharing is so valuable and precious. Thank you for your work 🌌🥀⛲☀️🌈
OVERWHELMING.. Which is good, finally non-romantic and truly spiritual info.
RIP Mel 🙏 Thanks
I wish I had known all this six years ago. I love your so called long videos. Thank you Mel, wherever you are now. Be blessed
I love your energy Mel! Its not overwhelming for me. - everything makes sense from you!!
Your videos have REALLY helped me navigate and understand the “twin-flame” energy after it has awaken in me. And you are right about multiple “twin-flame” connection with multiple people. 😉
I am starting to think the “twin-flame” connection and energy is used by higherself/oversoul as a “tool” to cleanse the energetic body of two connected, exchange positive aspects and information with one another, and evolve the two’s consciousness - not necessarily as a match-making tool for romantic relationships! You mentioned this in one of your videos. The “multiple” twinflame connection is meant to template multiple people and thus templating the whole collective and therefore evolving human consciousness for all.
This tool aka “the twin-flame connection/energy” is not necessarily meant to be used, “exclusively,” to establish a romantic relationship, but it can lead to romance. For romantic relationships to work, 3d reality really does have to come into play in the equation!
I’ve been avoiding this video because I was full of it. You said something I needed to hear. Nobody is perfect, not even me, I was holding onto anger about how he acted out. How everything was perfect and out of the blue BAM he’s off to the man cave as you said 😊. I was taking it personally and thanks to you I won’t take things personally anymore, well I’ll try my best not to. I can get a bit stubborn and literally have to stop myself from focusing on him, but I still go on with my life, healing and balancing my chakras, loving myself and accepting love from my family and friends.
BTW I have much respect for anyone who doesn’t sugar coat shit, and tells it like it is. My adopted father has passed on, and I needed to hear some advice from the Masculine point of view. Thank you so much. Love and Light to you and your Special Lady 💚
Pickles 😂😂😂😂
THIS IS the most inspiring, authentic "Twin Flame" message and insight I have heard in 4 and a half years on this Journey! Merci with Gratitude Mel🤗. It is ALWAYS about the Twin Within and Self Love FIRST. I have learned this the hard way by the way. Loving YOURSELF is not SELFISH...its necessary and this is the only way to Heal Mama Gaia...one HUman BEing at a time Men and Wombyn side by side fully engaging in themselves as Sovereign Souls.🙏🤲🌹💃🏻🕺☯️😇💖💫🔥🐾Thank you.
I only follow you and one other male TF coach on UA-cam. I like the straightforward male perspective. You guys cut right through all the fluff and I appreciate it.
Stephanie,check out Elle Hari (be whit your twin flame) she speaks the profound divine truth, her teaching is life changing.
Hi , if you think that's true then that is the truth for you . Thanks
Zaphod Beeblebrox I agree . A couple of years ago before I came to the realization what the journey is about I contacted her . She had her assistant call me However I swear it sounded just like her. When I asked what the modules consisted of she said she couldn’t tell me that I would have to wait for the classes. Oh and before she could speak to me she wanted to know if I had a way to pay
And if so was I willing to
Pay whatever It took to help me heal . And I couldn’t believe how she wanted to know what would be my form of payment prior to the free consult . She needed to
Know this information before we talked So yes you are 💯
I needed to hear this Mel. I've been struggling so very much, but you hit the nail on the head. I work very hard on my ascension with meditation and channelling for at least 3-4 hours a day, but I sometimes feel so much pain from his lack of communication and lack of acknowledgement,
that I now realise I have not been acknowledging myself. I have a great deal of fear, so I avoid my own pain by focusing on my twin, even though I know it's counter productive.
I love you with all my heart Mel, I know you can feel it XO 😘😘😘
Thank you so much for leaving these videos up ❤..this is the magic, the confirmation and clarification that those on this journey will know as gold from your unconditional loving connection. Blessed 🙌 😇
I can't love this enough. Thank you, Mel. Had some big self-insights watching this.
Miss u Mel..l have such a wonderful twin flame..divine relationship..l am sure u are overlooking us..and guiding..bless u
A real eye-opener. Plain and simple words. I wasn't watching a video from Mel for quite some time. But this one happened to catch my eye. Thank you so much! Hope you're good on the other side ;-) The ones you've reached with your Videos surely miss you! ♡
Gee Mel, thanks for this wonderful, no-nonsense, informative video. I'm going into year 7 and I wish I'd realised all of this at least four years ago. I think I'm ready to use your visualisation now, but I needed my butt kicked by a few of those points. I'm 68 and started this journey after a 36 year marriage to a soulmate...my DM is 59...also married 36 years, divorced for 8 but has hung onto that ex. We haven't been in communication for the last two months but we both needed that isolation, because I had a huge shift happen for me. I was saying exactly that today...so many of the readers tell you what to do, but they're not doing it and have no idea where they're going either. Thanks for sharing.
there are many women in chats who talked about how badly they have been treated. My twin is the kindest soul I’ve ever met. Are these men their DM? Met mine in 2001. 15 years separated. I’m so happy to start seeing men explaining TF. Thank you. It’s very enlightening. 🙏🏻
Thankkkk youuuuuuu. You validated so clearly everything I feel intuitively but hearing it from someone helps so much.
Best Video of ALL Ever on this subject even if not TF!
Thank you so much..this was right on time. He was close by and I did not know it but I felt my energy completely shift. I also felt extremely emotional that night, and I was not thinking of anything that would cause me to cry like that. I am grateful for your video, makes alot of sense.
You are such a source of light. Thank you for continuing in creating content :)!
Best, best, best video I´ve ever seen about twin flame! So refreshing to see someone speaking the truth! Thank you!
Thank you so much Mel - you make it simple to understand & your words today resonated so much with me. I realised that loving myself is the greatest gift of all - no attachment no wishing just knowing - it’s an amazing feeling when you “get it” penny drop moment 🙏
Your right all the time Mel! You tell it like it is with honest and truthful guidance! Thank you for the free content.🙏🏻😊💕
Mel I appreciate you so much. I am taking notes because I’m going to be honest I am a little stubborn and been lacking my ability of self-love. When you brought up process of visualization, my symbol is a emerald diamond. I did this method before (it was still as me and my tf were in separation) I spent literally a minute appreciating my self love touching my heart and got a message the next day from my tf so thank you
Thank you so very much Mel. I’ve just started doing the imaginative energetic time together with my Twin flame (Guided by his higher self). It is an incredible experience.
"Reasonably close will do" haha that was brilliant! Thank you Mel! I look forward to meeting you in the next world!
God gives you the gift of pure love or your bubble. It breaks down because of the unhealed parts of you. This gift is then longed for to return to that higher state. So, you pay attention -why it collapsed and have to do the work to get it back. You are re-remembering who at what you are at your core, pure love. It was free but you were not ready to receive it, so now it has to be earned for it to return.
Wow! This video is awesome! The button pushing between me and my twin flame was so frustrating now I understand and know what to do! Thank you! 🙏🤍💫
Question that I think is my twin flame said “if I stop talking to this person then I will no longer need you” I think they knew that we were tf
This is the first time I’ve ever seen this and it is so so powerful and helpful. Powerful being speaking nothing but truth!!
I come first, it took me years to realize it. Amen!🙏
Spiritual puberty ! So to the point . Thank you Mel ❤
What a term😅…Spiritual Puberty😂
Wow…you ARE different… this was my first video of yours, I feel light as a feather compared to the beginning.
Thank you 🙏 eternally
Thank you for sharing this information with us and me for sure. And I have to agree with you. We are both Warriors and we both have more Alpha energizes within us so we can be awesome mirrors and I am believing that I have to make it top priority for me to be able to be with me and her I have to make sure that we are both in the same way of thinking that we have to be, do, or other pressure to do more than desire for our families, friends and guest. To share with them the joy and happiness and blissfulness of our union is a blessing for us both and many times the energies that come up others who are in this field will feel the same thing
Twins share the same soul also each has their own spirit and never losses their individual identity.
I got you from another loop my God yours there's no words I miss I'm 50 and I miss guidance I've learned so much in the last five years after 50 years I am the guidance thank you
You are wonderful! Yes Loving ourselves is so important! When we love ourselves this energy radiates to everyone around you!
Best teacher ever miss you great one ..
He seriously is the best teacher ever. 💓
Be careful not to linger off into codependency...some people think they are in TF union but it’s just an experience of codependency which these Facebook groups and others feed on....your journey is for you.
You are missed! Thank you for all you taught us !
Thanks Mel for the video, I loved it. I stopped taking anything personal about 2 years ago with everyone. It feels so amazing and free. Whom ever your dealing with will react or respond in one way or another, and it has absolutely nothing to do with me. This is how they are to everyone they encounter so why should I take it personal at all, it's just how they are based on their level of consciousness.
Awesome video
U r too good
Yes this whole journey is about us. Our self realization and working on ourselves till the end. It's our evolution.
Superb superb video
Lots of love and good wishes 💕
Awww I get it! Thank you for explaining this to me ☺️
Mel, You are such a súper Star, every time i hear your Wisdom It makes so Much sense 💓
But its like you said before not many people are in a twinflame relation but think they are because many people wants to be' special or labeled.Speak your truth Mel .I am 48 and my twinflame is 27 and i found him in Egypt.My lifepath leaded me to there again and with a great purpose aswel.Greatings from Belgium my name is Nancy 🙏👸
I appreciate the clarity and perspective you share on this dynamic. I am starting to absorb the technical energetic properties behind the purpose of these emotional challenging relationships withIN and without on a higher level. THANK YOU. 🔥🙏⚘❣🌈🔥
Hi Mel, bravo, it’s refreshing and resonating to hear truth and facts, there is much dilution circulating about the TF journey. I’ve recently come to what you’re sharing about. I am thankful for the content and and the clear uncongested delivery of it. So wonderful. I’m enjoying soaking up the wisdom and nuggets. You rock🤗 Namaste 🙏 🔥🔥
Love this. I can’t and don’t even want to heal my twin flame. I know that that is his job. I’m willing to hold space for him if he needs but that is it.
Every thing I needed to hear right now! Thank you with much love!!
Bahahaaaaa!! Love it. The fb bitching and complaining part! I do not enter those groups at all anymore bc of that!
I absolutely enjoyed watching this video, thank you bunches Sr Teach! =) 😁
Ty. Great info. I think you might speak less highly of narcissists if you experienced one. But your point about don't worry be happy hits home nonetheless.
Thank you so much for clarity Mel. This video was excellent, and very timely 💛🕯
Hi there Mal. This is the first I have seen or heard of you. You’ve just come into my field of view. Everything you said in this vid is exactly right and how I see many things surrounding this journey. I had not heard of this visualisation technique and I thank you for sharing this. I appreciate you and your thoughts and I look forward to seeing more videos of you.
I am going to start listening to this guy, so many people out their giving information that keeps you stuck.
That is some beautiful strong fatherly acknowledgement motherly whoever it pertains to believe it that's right
Thank you 🙏!
You are the best!😉
You have helped a lot!
I agree 100%.
It was wonderful. It was divine- I felt I knew him already & he said he had been searching his whole life for me. No warning. We both got scared.
No triggers - transcended to different levels after years and years of button pushing! So grateful! It’s fab Connection & have no expectations outside of yourself. Easier said than done. But hey ho - it’s the point of the journey to journey through 💝💜🔥🔥
If you want to heal your Twin Flame relationship heal yourself first people 🤗
Absolutely
‘Narcissist’ is a bunch of pickles😂🤣
Thank You Mel! Good navigational skills by gum🥰
Why did I find this AND ABRAHAM Hicks At the same time - where he mentions Co Creation? This is divine - thank you universe.
Thanks so much for your wonderful video! Great messages, sending blessings 🙏
Over the last couple of years I've been connected with a man who I share an etheric bond with. (I've had a a couple etheric partners before him.) I rarely see him. We text occasionally. I just accept that we are not meant to come together in the physical realm any time soon and accept the etheric union as it is what it is. I know I need to trust the process but it does agitate me to think at 43 this is as good as it's gonna get. I do hate not being able to manifest a physical relationship in 3D. Sometimes I think my manifesting skills are broken but I know it all comes down to patience and trust. 2 things I sometimes suck at. Thanks for this video Mel. I needed this friendly reminder. ❤
I can totally relate. I'm 55, he's 59. In my time it's about time, but it's not up to me
Some twin flames are not meant to be together in the physical. But there should have been something you have attained from knowing each other and exchanging energy but only you know what that could be.
This etheric bond is much more meaningful and understood on my end. I do think we have a good chance to come together in the end but then sometimes I just want to say forget it... but then Mel does a video that is like an intuitive slap telling me to just keep going. Lol. But ughhhhhh... I just tell the universe, fine, you win this round... I'll endure the process a little longer and not give up yet... even though I'm so close to wanting to give up...
That is the truth I know. The walking of this TF path at my age is hard only because of my lack of love for myself but is also easier thanks to this life experience. He learned from life. No school much just survival life. That is what he began to teach me. Life is to love yourself fully. Who you truly are. Am I getting it ? Don’t know but will follow your teaching advice because I heard Truth itself in your words.
Love this post! Thank you💕
You are the funniest pickle I know! Thanks for your humor!