Men Can't Be Emotionally Invested - Comedian Mike Paramore Jr - Chocolate Sundaes Standup Comedy

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  • Comedian Mike Paramore Jr explains his theory on why men and women don’t understand one another.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 461

  • @Undenyablysuave
    @Undenyablysuave Рік тому +271

    “We never processed that shit” Facts!!! 😂😂😂

  • @miracleheard9108
    @miracleheard9108 Рік тому +355

    This was the most effective counseling session I've had in a while😅

    • @uzo9887
      @uzo9887 Рік тому +2

      🤣

    • @danawilliams601
      @danawilliams601 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 Рік тому +3

      Counseling by “professionals” does not work. They need to get paid, so solving your issues won’t solve their money problem.

    • @bdozier2000
      @bdozier2000 2 місяці тому +1

      Fr lol

  • @robinpurnell7704
    @robinpurnell7704 Рік тому +371

    He's low key dropping jewels

    • @1626stonr
      @1626stonr Рік тому +7

      because he's a comedian but it's a message in those jokes

    • @guikegriot
      @guikegriot Рік тому

      Lowkey

    • @Djturnt
      @Djturnt Рік тому +9

      High key

    • @getbreadsonny
      @getbreadsonny Рік тому +1

      Diamonds

    • @MasterMalrubius
      @MasterMalrubius Рік тому

      Great material, great delivery and a memorable voice and you’re golden!

  • @jashanestone
    @jashanestone Рік тому +303

    As soon as I read Men Cannot Be Emotionally Invested, I was like, oh boy here we go with another podcast.. But I am glad I was wrong. This was spot on but hilarious. 😂😂😂

    • @alexisa.4878
      @alexisa.4878 Рік тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @plwhite40
      @plwhite40 Рік тому +3

      I thought about Princella saying that men are incapable of love.

    • @IzThatit
      @IzThatit Рік тому +5

      Seems like some Red Pilled comedy to me. 🤷🏾

    • @YOPTV937
      @YOPTV937 Рік тому +12

      @@IzThatitRed koolaid comedy*

    • @osirisprior1065
      @osirisprior1065 Рік тому +6

      Patrice Oneal... Original bit

  • @Yeah_Whocares
    @Yeah_Whocares Рік тому +1038

    Its just... Is my guy drinking a 90s Kool-aid Burst?

  • @omartistry
    @omartistry Рік тому +214

    That lion king black panther shirt is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @KCJewelry803
    @KCJewelry803 Рік тому +37

    A to 7 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro ACED IT!!!

  • @LovingSoul61
    @LovingSoul61 Рік тому +90

    lol honestly as a woman, this is actually so helpful. Thank you for your service, Mike!

    • @Djturnt
      @Djturnt Рік тому +6

      He right too lol

  • @kalispencer2
    @kalispencer2 Рік тому +81

    ON GAWD, that wrong store line had me mad that it was true 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @victorfagan6919
      @victorfagan6919 Рік тому +2

      Bruh!! Facts

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 Рік тому +1

      You grab one item, throw it the fridge, and she’ll find out when’s she’s hungry and goes for it. 🤷‍♂️

  • @Krossd1
    @Krossd1 Рік тому +166

    This mans giving game and killing me with laughs at the same time!!

  • @korimoore1691
    @korimoore1691 Рік тому +52

    He just counseled a lot of relationships😊

  • @Ohonsifilms
    @Ohonsifilms Рік тому +93

    I can’t believe he spoke this much facts in such short time

  • @PhantaSee_
    @PhantaSee_ Рік тому +66

    had me in tears the whole time 😭

  • @anthonyfowler4957
    @anthonyfowler4957 Рік тому +36

    The mayo example is so true. Watched my dad bring dukes mayo and my mom proceeded to nag for idk how long. This was like 11 years ago. I don’t even look at the dukes mayo when I’m in the grocery store now…it scares me.

  • @jasonwhite6463
    @jasonwhite6463 Рік тому +104

    I hope women play this at their meetings and take notes. This man should be protected at all costs!!

    • @Mmmmegan0
      @Mmmmegan0 Рік тому

      Take notes on what? That y’all aren’t capable of shit and we should assume you’re all the same?

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 Рік тому +6

      If you ever thought that women would somehow change, I have a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you… 😂

    • @BellalisDope
      @BellalisDope Рік тому +3

      @@reesejohnson2788You shut your mouth and let us keep what hope we have left!
      😢

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 Рік тому

      @BellalisDope My bad, my wife keeps feeling me not to crush Ppl’s hopes. 😣

  • @mattb3672
    @mattb3672 Рік тому +222

    That last part is dead on . My girl is vegan so she sent me to the store to get bread thinking that was an easy task but I got the wrong bread 😔.
    She went on about it the entire day

    • @mikeparamorejr
      @mikeparamorejr Рік тому +8

      Lol!

    • @UnthinkableFairytales
      @UnthinkableFairytales Рік тому +36

      Ain't that the truth? Haha 😂😂😂 if I go shopping for myself.. 10 mins in and out..if she give a list of 5 items... I'm in there 1hr figuring shit out 😂😂

    • @therealnapstone
      @therealnapstone Рік тому +26

      🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️ she text me pictures now!

    • @mikemisty-cd2jp
      @mikemisty-cd2jp Рік тому +22

      First mistake dating a vegan

    • @babykapper
      @babykapper Рік тому +10

      Entire day 🤦‍♂️, we’re all dating the same person

  • @blacklion8133
    @blacklion8133 Рік тому +54

    The man is on stage with some Kool-Aid! That's an OG right there!

  • @CaptainKneegrowMan
    @CaptainKneegrowMan Рік тому +20

    Thought I clicked on a comedy set, but instead it was a sermon. This nigga is spitting😂

  • @tonycoleman21
    @tonycoleman21 Рік тому +75

    Aint nothin worse than ya girl send you to the store to pick something simple up and there are a bunch of options. Now you gotta take pictures of half the aisle like "which one of these you meant?" 😂😂

    • @beautyfulldrey
      @beautyfulldrey Рік тому +5

      Aye this is so true 😂, I’m going to appreciate it more now .

    • @theallseeingeye9388
      @theallseeingeye9388 Рік тому +3

      Imagine living in a country that has chinese economy rice. Thats a row of 40 to 50 dishes consisting of 5 types of chicken, 5 types of fish, five types of pork on and on.
      I dont put her in such stressfull situation where she has to take atleast 4 or 5 pictures from one end of the table to the other during peak lunch hour because I eat the same dishes when it comes to economy rice.

    • @Qdubb00
      @Qdubb00 Рік тому +1

      @@theallseeingeye9388good analogy

    • @vergespierre4271
      @vergespierre4271 Рік тому +1

      You ain't neva lied 😂😂😂

    • @michaelcar9268
      @michaelcar9268 Рік тому +1

      This is my life, but how did you know 😂

  • @IssTrip
    @IssTrip Рік тому +24

    “Turkey. Bed.”… Facts. I DO NOT care that you ran into Tiffany from high school and that she tried to act like she didn’t remember you.

  • @tocagamer4775
    @tocagamer4775 Рік тому +37

    The deficiency part got me like “bitch I already know am slow , you don’t gotta rub it in my damn face and whisper it in my ear when we in bed”

  • @Catseye189
    @Catseye189 Рік тому +22

    That's why all those sport shows have the rewind and slow motion, so they can figure it out!

  • @DaLushz1
    @DaLushz1 Рік тому +76

    He is so underrated ❤❤❤

    • @deebrown4877
      @deebrown4877 Рік тому +1

      YES INDEED!!😂😂👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @Itsant33
      @Itsant33 Рік тому

      Well he does deserve some more recognition for sure but he's had two specials already

    • @deborahward1351
      @deborahward1351 Рік тому

      He should be..... he's trash.

  • @Kat_Dadi
    @Kat_Dadi Рік тому +12

    He is not kidding, spot on!!!

  • @dontlet2840
    @dontlet2840 Рік тому +5

    What do I have to do is the realest shyt I heard in a while!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @JayFromTwo5
    @JayFromTwo5 Рік тому +26

    This is funny as Fuck and ALL FACTS!

  • @evilisinm-sc8rg
    @evilisinm-sc8rg Рік тому +12

    " You brought home 37 different mayo just for her to say, you went to the wrong damn store" 😂😂😂

  • @RayRay-yt5pe
    @RayRay-yt5pe Рік тому +14

    I swear to God, this man is on point 😂😂of

  • @Don-hh4ff
    @Don-hh4ff Рік тому +21

    How she felt along the way is facts like fammmmmmm

    • @Djturnt
      @Djturnt Рік тому +2

      I start off listening too but the stories be so damn long my ears just turn off

  • @mevans4408
    @mevans4408 Рік тому +4

    Is that the simba drawing rafiki drew , with a black panther fill in ?! I NEED IT.

  • @Ywonova
    @Ywonova Рік тому +13

    Og Actully told me this in my mid 20s... didn't understand till my late 30s... changed my life once I figured it out...

  • @FaithInFRSH
    @FaithInFRSH Рік тому +20

    i'ma call her and have the facetime camera ON the mayo like pick one lmao

  • @eddrickmcqueen
    @eddrickmcqueen Рік тому +18

    That shirt is FIRE bruh

    • @fpcooper95
      @fpcooper95 Рік тому +2

      Came here for that comment!!!

  • @joshuabrown3465
    @joshuabrown3465 Рік тому +15

    Never heard of u, but uve gained a new fan my man...😂😂😂 Shyt was funny and big facts!!!

  • @agnesstokes1078
    @agnesstokes1078 Рік тому +15

    He was good😂😂😂😂

  • @ColeB4Diamond
    @ColeB4Diamond Рік тому +7

    resonated so deep within

  • @Ava44322
    @Ava44322 Рік тому +9

    I mean this whole heartedly, thank you for your services sir!

  • @hesayshesayhowboutmesay
    @hesayshesayhowboutmesay Рік тому +22

    I swear I believe him😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Chococat_Ariana
    @Chococat_Ariana Рік тому +2

    Bruh ~ is his shirt a combo of Simba and the Black Panther?! That's so rad!!!! 🙂👍👍

  • @jamesonboxingfan4274
    @jamesonboxingfan4274 Рік тому +5

    This joke helped me bridge the gap between my mind and another mind of a woman in my life. It brought understanding, which in turn allowed for a peaceful resolution in a situation, whilst making us both laugh in the process. Bravo Mr. Paramore!

  • @markusstanley8903
    @markusstanley8903 Рік тому +7

    I got up, i got hungry. Made me a sandwich. TURKEY! 😂😂

  • @BoodaSDavis
    @BoodaSDavis Рік тому +13

    This mf is preaching the gospel!!! 😂🔥🔥🔥🔥 brilliant set king!!

  • @justlikedavid
    @justlikedavid Місяць тому +1

    This was beautifully written.😂

  • @deebrown4877
    @deebrown4877 Рік тому +20

    Mike is a beast!! Absolutely love his comedy!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😊🤣

  • @ShadowMonkey71
    @ShadowMonkey71 Рік тому +45

    Men thinking they have to do something is a societal trait. Men's value comes from what they provide, what they can do, what they accomplish. Empathy is rarely something that was encouraged to the past generation of boys and then they raise the next generation with the same stigmas. Slowly, progress can be made but it takes effort and willingness to try. See "It's not about the nail".

    • @gumballwaterson1957
      @gumballwaterson1957 Рік тому

      I mean men doing shit is something every single culture on the planet does so it's not just "societal", it's human. Don't really have to teach it either. Boys do shit cause they like to do shit. Men just train boys to do less/more destructive shit. Shit's gonna get done regardless. Empathy just means you can understand what someone else is feeling, doesn't mean responding the same way. When men empathize enough, they do shit

    • @northside4767
      @northside4767 Рік тому

      Society is somewhat involved, but it’s also evolutionary. Men have had to do shit since the dawn of time.

    • @oaktree1626
      @oaktree1626 Місяць тому

      False.

  • @TheMaslead
    @TheMaslead Рік тому +4

    This is my favorite set mike good job

  • @emmanueloppong9778
    @emmanueloppong9778 Рік тому +31

    I’m getting Patrice O’neal vibes. RIP to one of the best ever

    • @biggredd7308
      @biggredd7308 Рік тому +3

      We need more to tell the real facts and funny with it

  • @omarkane5123
    @omarkane5123 Рік тому +8

    Great set, hilarious and accurate😂😂

  • @victorfagan6919
    @victorfagan6919 Рік тому +8

    I felt this in my soul 😂😂

  • @Tricey.89
    @Tricey.89 Рік тому +4

    This was sooo good 😅😅😅

  • @TheRealMusic4Life
    @TheRealMusic4Life Рік тому +9

    It's the truth though. And we CAN process - we're just not interested in processing a bunch of foolishness because it wastes time. It's like he said - "WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO?" That's the long and the short of it. Most men - if we don't have anything to do with the information - throw it out, so we can get to the time in the day where we don't have to worried about what we have to do. Because we have to DO stuff all day every day, not only for ourselves, but for everybody around us - even strangers and neighbors and stuff that we don't even know or like.

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul Рік тому +1

      Honey, this is how I live!!! That's why I work in tech and get PAID. My female friends are on point and thus, most are single. Men can SAY they don't like women like he's describing, but that's who they date! I guess doers don't like doers. I just haven't found the right house husband yet. 😂

  • @yblackie1987
    @yblackie1987 Рік тому +4

    This is one of the funniest ones to date hahahaha !

  • @Twinkle_Toezzz
    @Twinkle_Toezzz Місяць тому

    This was almost spiritual 😂. You helped a lot of ppl just now

  • @antoinejohnson8024
    @antoinejohnson8024 Рік тому +3

    Dis nigga preaching 😂I forgot this was comedy show for a sec

  • @deb1920
    @deb1920 Рік тому +12

    I had to teach my boyfriend, if I put the brand name, get the brand name. If I just put the item, get whatever. He got me the off-brand Emergen-C because his mom was a pharmacy tech and he grew up knowing the off-brand is the same. Cool story bro. But, get ME what I asked for. Lol.

    • @cereallover19
      @cereallover19 Рік тому +2

      Cool story bro 😂😂

    • @datboybobby
      @datboybobby Рік тому +4

      My ex tried that shit with me and I told her to get it herself, I grew up poor as fuck pinching pennies I ain't paying for shit that I can get cheaper.

    • @deb1920
      @deb1920 Рік тому +3

      @@datboybobby My boyfriend LIKES doing things for me and uses MY card to get things for ME. So, I can request whatever I want. I'm not poor, sir. 🙄🙄🙄

    • @nottelling4548
      @nottelling4548 Рік тому

      Way to sound ungrateful

    • @deb1920
      @deb1920 Рік тому +2

      @@nottelling4548 I don't have to be grateful for someone getting me what their mom would have gotten and not what I asked for. You teach people how to treat you. You don't have to settle even if someone is doing something nice.

  • @raynaudier8622
    @raynaudier8622 Рік тому +3

    *YUP*. Even female relatives - sisters, aunts, mother - do this. They've said out loud, "Stop trying to fix this!", and I'm thinkin', "Then what the fuck are you telling me for?"

  • @jessicaevans2564
    @jessicaevans2564 Рік тому +2

    How is he so right and yet doing it in such a kind, loving way?

  • @tonettagriffin5988
    @tonettagriffin5988 Рік тому +2

    Why do I have a Tiffany…I haven’t laid hands because, I wanna keep my security clearance and I don’t look good in prison lol

  • @fx_jaguar8743
    @fx_jaguar8743 Рік тому +52

    If men spent time in our feelings yall wouldn't have a place to lay yall heads.

    • @ChocolateSundaes
      @ChocolateSundaes  Рік тому +2

      💯💯💯

    • @slimchick2689
      @slimchick2689 Рік тому

      You made a good point 😅😂😅😂😅😂

    • @tarotpoptart
      @tarotpoptart Рік тому +3

      As a woman, I agree with you. YES. That is one of the most correct statements ever made. 😂🤣😂🤣💯💯💯

    • @reesejohnson2788
      @reesejohnson2788 Рік тому +3

      Just come lay down on this pavement, and let’s talk about what happened today. 😂

  • @MrEliD1990
    @MrEliD1990 Рік тому +7

    damnnn this was spot on...I swear this is me with my wife every day lol I just nod and say yup..un huh...what you want me to do about it? that's it lol

  • @CitizenXVII
    @CitizenXVII Рік тому +3

    GREAT BREAKDOWN BROTHA!!

  • @deionsworld1035
    @deionsworld1035 Рік тому +1

    This was comedy gold
    😂

  • @m0dNaR4lyfe
    @m0dNaR4lyfe Рік тому +1

    So facts!!!...💙 Been a fan ..forever💯

  • @arasb3258
    @arasb3258 10 місяців тому

    Brilliant, and well explained. Good stuff!

  • @anthonyharrison7728
    @anthonyharrison7728 Рік тому +13

    This was good...My guy killed it.

  • @bigjayindallas5890
    @bigjayindallas5890 Рік тому +1

    This was a great set…reminds me of Ryan Davis

  • @ChicagoEBK
    @ChicagoEBK Рік тому

    😂😂😂 literal truth😂😂😂

  • @rhyno9798
    @rhyno9798 Рік тому +1

    Gooit fuggin comedy maaan 😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @indigorager
    @indigorager Рік тому +4

    Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus that's the book

  • @LadyJanae1
    @LadyJanae1 Рік тому +3

    LOLOLOL.
    My name is Tiffany. 😂

  • @ssears8187
    @ssears8187 Рік тому

    Glad to see him again!

  • @beverleyreid563
    @beverleyreid563 9 місяців тому

    I don't know how many times I've watched this.

  • @plansandpens8844
    @plansandpens8844 Рік тому +1

    I love it! Accurate AF

  • @scentertainment10
    @scentertainment10 Рік тому +1

    Man that was impressive. The realistic points were spot on with the comedic performance.

  • @hindenburg2006
    @hindenburg2006 Рік тому

    LOVE Mike!!!😂

  • @jamesanthony6733
    @jamesanthony6733 Рік тому

    🔥🔥🔥 truthful !

  • @cereallover19
    @cereallover19 Рік тому +1

    100% accurate 😂👏🏾

  • @richardwhite7626
    @richardwhite7626 Рік тому

    A masterclass in funny and life 😂😂😂

  • @keonnewilliams9511
    @keonnewilliams9511 Рік тому

    Real talk.😆😆😆🌎👍🏿🎧🎥

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 Рік тому +4

    Mike Paramore is hilarious.

  • @wildinjun7686
    @wildinjun7686 Рік тому +6

    A to 7😂😂😂

  • @kamareaton
    @kamareaton Рік тому +1

    This should be part of the curriculum 😂

  • @JWnFlorida
    @JWnFlorida Рік тому

    Brilliant set.. 😂😂😂

  • @pilucciluccinassi8504
    @pilucciluccinassi8504 Рік тому +3

    Psychology 101😂😂😂

  • @kg2960
    @kg2960 Рік тому

    "Ostriches Unite!" Man Man out!😊

  • @idrist5538
    @idrist5538 Рік тому +9

    I’m s only funny cause it’s true! Tiffany would be gone gone😂

  • @rockee254
    @rockee254 Рік тому +20

    She never gives me the important part of the topic😂
    I be getting to much information in between to process bruh I swear

    • @Djturnt
      @Djturnt Рік тому +1

      I start forgetting fr when the story be too long mid sentence 😂😂

    • @rockee254
      @rockee254 Рік тому +1

      @@Djturnt RIIGHTT!! LMFAO🤣

    • @Djturnt
      @Djturnt Рік тому +1

      @@rockee254 🤣🤣

  • @URNOTADJ
    @URNOTADJ Рік тому +3

    Hilarious!

  • @ramonsabio8398
    @ramonsabio8398 Рік тому +1

    All Facts!!!!!!!

  • @K4R3N
    @K4R3N Рік тому

    Mike's the BEST

  • @dezperado618c8
    @dezperado618c8 Рік тому

    Truer words have never been spoken!

  • @Dre0924
    @Dre0924 Рік тому

    "I'on even know two of these people" 😅

  • @mrparks212
    @mrparks212 Рік тому +5

    Mans was spittin'

  • @AlonzoDesmond-sn6lb
    @AlonzoDesmond-sn6lb Рік тому

    He was really good 🔥🔥

  • @MsTaLaiah
    @MsTaLaiah Рік тому

    That man said turkey➡️bed 😂😂 I swear I’ve been pissed bc why do I have to remind you of what we agreed on? Or at least don’t say we never talked about it cuz that’s not true. But really I’m trying to understand fellas. Trust me, I’m not aiming to be aggravated. I guess it just requires a lot of trust cuz some guys pretend to not know or to forget meanwhile they’re manipulating you constantly.

  • @netty06
    @netty06 Рік тому

    Why is this sooooo accurate 😫😫

  • @rahcruz7199
    @rahcruz7199 Рік тому

    5:10 is straight Factz 😂

  • @ljholmes100
    @ljholmes100 Рік тому

    PREACH😂😂😂

  • @mrgonzalez947
    @mrgonzalez947 Рік тому +1

    GIVE THIS GUY A TROPHY

  • @toneyjoseph4065
    @toneyjoseph4065 Рік тому +2

    You can't give a man emotions because we be trying to figure out what we gotta do😂😂😂😂