I totally understand. some men are narcisists, my ex too. he was ugly in & out. He can't tolerate my beauty in & out. 4 times tried to kill me, guardian,social workers police even court not take any action whatso ever. I am applying for Restraining order. I get child maintainance for some time & spousal maintainance too for some time . My family situation makes me to become a psychotherapist. You r so strong. children stuck in the middle so sad.
I find it is much harder for people trying to get one where there has only been emotional and financial abuse. It seems only physical assaults makes them take you seriously
No man should agree to sign a non mile station order. Go to court and challenge it and defend yourself if you know you are innocent as the NMO itself would serve as a means for the female narcicist abuser to abuse you mentally by proxy of the state.
That's your take. Clearly this lady is NOT a narcissist and you clearly have NO idea how much she has endured to make a comment like this which might be further triggering for her. That said...yes the story can go both ways.
Just to add though...if you have/are enduring narcissistic abuse from a woman then the evidence one would hope will show in your favour. Surely the truth and probability should shine through?
@@TheKezmeister2011 my wife is doing this to me as we speak and I have NEVER EVER TOUCHED her or exploited her for sex. I took this Pat craven dominator or friend illustration to write up all I have been and asking for her input/criticism/thoughts on what I wrote according to this illustration. For all I know, she’s ripped it and not wanting to read it cos she thinks I’m the dominator no excuses and not an ounce of empathy after she illegally changed the locks to our family house and refuses me access to the property or my children. I have been diagnosed cptsd and for the past week I’ve been admitted into mental health care at a treatment clinic. She refuses to show any empathy or consider my past sexual abuse trauma. But hey, if she claims it then the man is definitely at fault as far as society and the law sees it. Some men just want to love their wives and children but get told men have to shut up and accept her words. The courts will never recognise my cptsd and she will use it to her advantage
Trust me, I can see the reason women stay in abusive relationships. The easy part is leaving. The hell starts after wen you go through family courts. They enable the abuser
Never even think of reporting him to the 👮🏻for something stupid like that, unless you have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder and not the cause and inspiration of the social media creativity. Seriously DO NOT GET THE SYSTEM INVOLVED it can only make things far far far worse. Social media ❌ A crime ✔️
The problem is that some women lie. Some Women unfortunately abuse the sysytem to gain child custody and finacial settlements. These laws need changing.
@@thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 Yep. Totally. If there is money to be made out of false allegations without consequence then the laws will never change. Women are abusing the sysytem and encouraged to.
The police do not prosecute false rape allegations except when they are high profile. It’s absolutely nuts. A woman can literally write a statement saying “I made it up” and she will not be arrested…
Actually the model is verified from 100s of women. The violence does not always occurr. Sometimes you get silent treatment/stonewalling/returning home late/sleeping (ie. Emotional Neglect). Violence is the punctuation mark on all the abuse and as said that doesn't always occurr but I'm sure you can relate to some of the model? There are lots out there that vary slightly. I get what u r saying and relate. I really do - if it helps you can refer instead to the power and control wheel.
I am so happy I discovered your channel. Thank you for educating and sharing your precious views ❤
I totally understand. some men are narcisists, my ex too. he was ugly in & out. He can't tolerate my beauty in & out. 4 times tried to kill me, guardian,social workers police even court not take any action whatso ever. I am applying for Restraining order. I get child maintainance for some time & spousal maintainance too for some time . My family situation makes me to become a psychotherapist. You r so strong. children stuck in the middle so sad.
I find it is much harder for people trying to get one where there has only been emotional and financial abuse. It seems only physical assaults makes them take you seriously
Thank you x
You and your videos are amazing... thank you..
I’m in exactly the same position. Please help
No man should agree to sign a non mile station order. Go to court and challenge it and defend yourself if you know you are innocent as the NMO itself would serve as a means for the female narcicist abuser to abuse you mentally by proxy of the state.
That's your take. Clearly this lady is NOT a narcissist and you clearly have NO idea how much she has endured to make a comment like this which might be further triggering for her. That said...yes the story can go both ways.
Just to add though...if you have/are enduring narcissistic abuse from a woman then the evidence one would hope will show in your favour. Surely the truth and probability should shine through?
@@TheKezmeister2011 my wife is doing this to me as we speak and I have NEVER EVER TOUCHED her or exploited her for sex. I took this Pat craven dominator or friend illustration to write up all I have been and asking for her input/criticism/thoughts on what I wrote according to this illustration. For all I know, she’s ripped it and not wanting to read it cos she thinks I’m the dominator no excuses and not an ounce of empathy after she illegally changed the locks to our family house and refuses me access to the property or my children. I have been diagnosed cptsd and for the past week I’ve been admitted into mental health care at a treatment clinic. She refuses to show any empathy or consider my past sexual abuse trauma. But hey, if she claims it then the man is definitely at fault as far as society and the law sees it. Some men just want to love their wives and children but get told men have to shut up and accept her words. The courts will never recognise my cptsd and she will use it to her advantage
You don’t sign the non molestation order the judge makes the decision to impose the non molestation orders and you cannot appeal about it.
Hi can you make us a video about how you became a solicitor even after all of the abuse, it would give people hope :) - You're Brave, Thank you!
this applies to all types of relationships not just spouse, this is very insightful thank you.
this is great, thankyou
Trust me, I can see the reason women stay in abusive relationships. The easy part is leaving. The hell starts after wen you go through family courts. They enable the abuser
Does the non molestation order also apply to emotional only abuse? How would one prove such abuse?
Emotional abuse ❌🤦🏻
Yes it does if you have any text messages you can add them to your bundle for evidence
No proof needed, it’s just a tick box to free stuff from the state and point scoring for court….
Can you help me. My ex has breached non mol bu writing online about me. Will he be charge If I report the breach
Never even think of reporting him to the 👮🏻for something stupid like that, unless you have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder and not the cause and inspiration of the social media creativity.
Seriously DO NOT GET THE SYSTEM INVOLVED it can only make things far far far worse.
Social media ❌
A crime ✔️
The problem is that some women lie. Some Women unfortunately abuse the sysytem to gain child custody and finacial settlements. These laws need changing.
Just like false rape claims, abuse of non molestation orders go against those that have a genuine reason to implement them.
Hyper sensitive but protecting no one, only making the system money.
@@thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 Yep. Totally. If there is money to be made out of false allegations without consequence then the laws will never change. Women are abusing the sysytem and encouraged to.
The police do not prosecute false rape allegations except when they are high profile. It’s absolutely nuts. A woman can literally write a statement saying “I made it up” and she will not be arrested…
May I please contact you private!! You story is so similar to mine, I have a date for the 4th final hearing here in England xxxx
NPD Survivor survivordiaries.uk@gmail.com xx
Just because you draw diagrams and keep saying it doesn’t make it true sweety
What do you mean by that? Comes across condescending to say the least...
How do I contact you?
legal minded friends Karen Cole survivordiaries.uk@gmail.com
No inclusion of covert malignant narcissism means your model sucks🤷🏻
Actually the model is verified from 100s of women. The violence does not always occurr. Sometimes you get silent treatment/stonewalling/returning home late/sleeping (ie. Emotional Neglect). Violence is the punctuation mark on all the abuse and as said that doesn't always occurr but I'm sure you can relate to some of the model? There are lots out there that vary slightly. I get what u r saying and relate. I really do - if it helps you can refer instead to the power and control wheel.
I was married to one of those. She tried to destroy me.
Not very true . Sorry but y r have an issue with coercive behaviour