Dear Future Wifey S2, E206: Second Time (Titia & JWayne Owens)
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- The divorce rate for second marriages in the United States is over 60%. Yet, many second-timers optimistically retake the vows of happily ever after. There’s a great deal of wisdom and experience for those open enough for recommitment and today’s guests, Titia and JWayne Owens, share their marriage journey of this “Second Time Around.”
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I love Titia’s personality, she is a fire ball. 😂 I love the way her husband allows her to be her authentic self. ❤️
Isn't she awesome?!
@@jennthornton399 yes, she's great.
Hey Monica! I totally agree
I read this before I watched the video so half way thru I have to say YAAASSS they touch my heart ❤️ how he let her be herself and cover her even in conversation and add to the value of what she means that is everything he respects and loves her so much 🥰😍🙌🏾
I knew it when he was trying to introduce her. I would have given her the mic😂Bless your husband's heart. I know there are guys out there who love and accept our crazy.
The way her husband covers his wife in conversation and adds value to her conversation shows how much he respects and loves her ❤️🥰🙌🏾🤞🏾🍾
Exactly, it's hard not to respect a man who respects you, a respectable man. He leaves you NO choice but to respect him. Which is all good. 💯💯💯
Mr. Whitfield your podcasts gon have us all in extraordinary marriages. I'm learning so much 🙌❤
This was so nice! The 2nd time around is scary, so it is good to see a Christian couple that is successful at it! It gives me hope!
From the first moment she interrupted Laterras, I loved her.
Lol. Yep, that's my homie! She always does that. It's our running joke.
Hey Ebony!!! I love you right back!!!!
JWayne was doing drivebys, bringing gifts, bringing everything but that gas money! Lol😀 But seriously, when a man wants you he will be persistent. Very nice conversation!❤
The sad thing about it is that he didn't even know the breakup was because of the gas money.
❤️💜
At the start of this episode I didn’t really care for Titia’s personality. BUT I grew to like her by the end. I also began realize to we have some similar tendencies. I too struggle with a take over spirit (Korah). She has wisdom and insight that is great. I wish her all the best with her book. I will definitely read it!
My eyes were also opened to the fact my future spouse my not be exactly at the level of spiritual maturity I feel is perfect for me. But God knows best. I won’t accept a non believer, but need to be open minded to God’s works (folks) in progress. I am not where God wants me either. I am also on my journey to be who God created me to be. This is a great episode. Great to see a man come to realize he wanted this woman, and ultimately the gain the ultimate prize of a deeper and fulfilling relationship with God.
God bless you both.
Hi April. At the beginning, I didn’t like me either....HA!!!! Seriously thank you for sharing your truth. It blesses me to know you could see my heart.
Hi my friend. Glad to see you on this UA-cam website.
Can I tell you how this touch my soul, I’m at the same place in my relationship and God sent me this confirmation… oh I love God
Me too. I was truly triggered only to see myself.
Yes I immediately rejected her personality in that beginning clip. But I know it was because I saw things in her I'm working on correcting in myself. Titia is the type of woman you can't help but love because she is genuinely herself at all times. That I do love and is also a thing I'm working on in myself. To not water me down
I always enjoy watching and reading through the comments. However, this time was different. At the end when you stated how you “believe this will be the last Christmas without each other” and you looked into the camera, I felt that and it made me cry. I know God led me to this channel so that he could speak to me through you. These episodes are a breath of fresh air and I look forward to the day I am able to meet a man who’s led by God just as you are. She’s out there and you’re both going to pour love into each others lives in front of the world. Please don’t stop doing these episodes when you find her. I think we all want to see the blessing God has for you☺️. Thank you so much for sharing this part of yourself with us all. Blessings and love😇🥰🙏
Deal
Wowwwww as a future Wifey, Titia’s words including her husband AND this whole video ( this channel) blessed me so much. A wise man and woman prepares for covenant marriage and not just the wedding, this is needed!! Let’s all stay prepared for what God is bringing!! Yet Another Great One!!!
I actually needed to here her explain how she gracefully broke up without breaking him. I needed that example. Amen
"Who can out NOT love the other person."
What profound words. I felt those words!
LAUGHTER 😊
Wasn't that deep?
What a blessing... I know how she feels. I thank God for my pain because I know HE's going to used me to help our sisters.
I’ve been waiting all day... I can’t wait until me and my husband are on this platform!!!!
My deepest prayer is that you enjoy your journey with Jesus and self. And let God mold you and shape you into who He created you to be. And know that God can do great things in and through you in Jesus name if you let Him. Amen and Amen. God says to get out of His way, and in turn you will get out of your own way. Let Him fix it in Jesus name. Surrender and release control to Him in Jesus name. Amen. Glory be to God. He got you. He have never failed you, and He never will fail you. Rest in Him and trust Him. Let Him show you His purpose and intentions towards you.
I receive this for myself also!
She is me and I am her😂😂😂
I love it! There's nothing like having someone that will allow you to be you❤
Hey new friend.
@@titiaowens6661 Heeyyy girl! Thank you for your transparency ❤
Amen to that!
This was a pretty good episode and pretty much all them are worth watching twice. The steps he had to go to to get her back. That was something. This will help me in my journey
Laterras, your podcast is so awesome! I watch other relationship podcasts and they don't hit the same. I realized the difference, this one is anointed! Your podcast is bearing fruit that is healing and life giving. Thank you for the work that you do.
I love it...Healing is so important! So you don’t continue hurting others!
Right it is very important to heal prior to getting involved in any type of relationship.
@@ladennayoung2939 EXTREMELY TRUE‼️
I love how transparent they both are. He's not hiding that he chased her for a season and a reason and she gives God the credit for her humbleness. Titias' self examination statement was such an eye opener.
Nothing like being able to be yourself in truth. Awesome show
I love the way this couple engage.
Thank you soooooo much!!!!!
I watched this AGAIN! When she said 'I'm a LOT and he loves me thru my growth, he's patient, he has a mentor, #wedotherapy' laaawd , I felt that 😓🙌🏾 God continue to bless & use them!
Your Dear Wifey letter was powerful and detailed. Yes, I too pray that this is my last Season without my future house holder. Where ever he is I send my love and ask God to give him peace of mind.
Yesss! I ❤ this!!!
"You won't get the best of her, you'll get what's left of her" my God!!!
My new phrase “You’re limiting me” 😂😂😂😂
Yeeeeeeeeesssss
Right. Lol
“I don’t wanna lose her because I love her.” I have been cracking up watching this episode in the airport. Then I heard this line. *SIGH* I can see it in JWayne when he talks about Titia. This is my absolute most favorite episode. 💜
Oh my gosh! I really enjoyed listening to this couple. I appreciate JWayne sharing that he had to examine himself and decide to grow when Titia stopped seeing him. I appreciated Titia for her heartfelt humility in taking responsibility for the ways that she tore down her first marriage. They covered so many good points. They were so great that their sharing had you preaching. 😀 The love letter had some wonderful things in it that, personally, touched my heart. I pray that God rewards your faith that this will be the last Christmas you spend alone. Amen.
Beautiful couple.
Keep us in your prayers. We appreciate the support.
@@titiaowens6661 I will absolutely do so.
i love this 💖 Im fighting so hard to not be these things...the rebellion..the pride..the lack of submission, other than that I am very goofy and the homie type. Men are always in my face, and I have been running for the hills ..especially away from marriage...to the point thinking of marriage makes me harden and nauseous. And God has tirelessly but patiently and gently pursued me to become a wife and I agreed to the idea finally, but I still find it so difficult to release and truly be vulnerable. He has been having me watch these videos and it has been helping in the softening of my heart.
Keep looking to Him now and after you become a wife
“The Process & The Wait”...I love the way she used her time in fasting to listen to God.
YES, I agree about your statement about telling the truth in a kind manner. I picked up a quote that I definitely agree with, you may as well. Here it is:
“Honesty without compassion is brutality!”.
I can’t remember the author‼️ It’s definitely ON POINT‼️ Great show, as usual! Keep them coming, I’ll be there‼️ Stay Safe‼️
that quote is fire!! love it, thanks for sharing
@@karene3493 Hi Karen😀👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽‼️ Thanks 🤗 so much, it’s one of my favorite quotes! I thought that it was 🔥 fire 🔥 too, especially when I first heard it. People always say “I was just telling the truth” but, they don’t seem to think about how it comes out! They seem to focus on being “blunt” or say “well it’s the truth!”. I hope that more people will think about how they say something as oppose to just focusing on what there’re saying and the fact that it’s truthful. It reminds me of another quote “You can catch more flies with honey than vinegar”!
I’ll be honest, near the end of my marriage, that I actually didn’t know was coming, I was soooo tired of editing and sugar coating what I felt, or wanted. I wasn’t trying to be mean, but I just wanted to be honest, without attacking his person. It was really difficult.
Never heard of her before but I LOVE HER. The first minute of her looking at the camera and stating her credentials on the sneak tip...I was like, "YES honey you better do it!!!!" 😂🤣😂🤣 She is me and I am her. I can't wait to listen to this WHOLE hour and some change video. Also, LOVE the fact she has a homeless shelter. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👊🏽👊🏽
Right!!
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This episode was both informative and hilarious. I can relate a lot to Titia. I’m a single mother of two young adult males. I’ve never been married and in past relationships have felt I always had to do things on my own because that was just what I was use to. I’ve been single for the past six years and have taken the time to heal the wounds of my past so that I can learn how to be a “ purpose partner” to the man God has for me.Keep these episodes coming Laterras,They are truly blessing my soul.
I totally agree! It’s been 5.5 yrs on my own now, and have felt ready, but...I don’t want to hurt someone else. I want a ‘Purpose Partner’ for where God’s leading me, but I need to grow, so I can be that for someone else. This has been a great revelation for me!!!
Wow!!!!!
This was so good. It blessed me so much! My 2nd time around will be my last time too. #Standards #HeNeedsToComeCorrect #Shared
Thank you for sharing being blessed.
"God connects dots." I love how strategic God is!
"He loves me anyway"...wow, that's so powerful. This has been one of my favorite couples on this podcast. I just loved how they went through hard life lessons but they actually learned from them and now they are giving back. I can definitely see her preaching and sharing her testimony on larger platforms. It takes humility to openly share your wrongs. I admire this woman. I love how God turned both of there situations around. Thank you for always producing great Mr. Laterras.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Such beautiful support. Thank you!!!!!
I love it ... PUT GAS IN THE CAR OR AT LEAST OFFER!
I get that, too, but on this side of things .....seems like what I used to do that's unfair--expect him to read her mind of what she needs & desires. Tough to not expect, though! smh. Us women. 😆😔 Thank YOU, LORD, for YOUR PATIENCE & equipping the men who Search after YOU! COMFORT them esp as this culture is going! STRENGTHEN them for YOUR PURPOSES!...... And assist us to Learn how to Submit BIBLICALLY 1st to YOU & also to whom is our Head by YOUR BLESSING & LEAD. May we both Submit to YOU for YOUR GLORY to be known thruout the Earth. In YEHSHUAH/JESUS'S most precious NAME & until & past The End.
-Azariah/SuburbaKnight
PS 20:1, 6-8; IS 43; IS 38:15-20; DAN 3:16-18; JOHN 14:11-21; NAH1:7
I so agreed with her too, it's the principal not the money.
@@mishacampbell7336 There is a difference in what you are saying, and what she was speaking of though.
This episode blessed me so much. I was married for 18 years and have been divorced for 7 years. Now I’m ready to remarry, but I had to reflect on my mistakes in my previous marraige. Titia I’m looking forward to reading the book… thank you for allowing God to use you both… this show is really amazing.
Laterras, I Absolutely Love How you said “Learning your Mate is a Continued Education Program”❤️ This podcast has Allowed me to be Intentional even in Dating!!! “Thank you” just Isn’t Enough!🥰
Amen girl I feel you on not ignoring red flags. And not wasting time and history repeating itself.
I loved this transparency with this couple! Lord knows the 2nd time around will be better than the 1st time. I thank you God in advance!
This episode for me was by far the very best of information and truth !!! Being a 57-year-old young woman in a committed and loving relationship, finally after so many mistakes, a failed marriage, disappointments of SELF, Dramas, and abuse, not to mention the fact that I considered myself a Totally healed woman... This Queen spoke pure Royal Wisdom that has REQUIRED me to absolutely DEMAND more!!!! Beautiful Blessings Beautiful Ones.
When I exposed myself and wrote a book about my childhood, I healed from a lot that I had suppressed and didn't know it... When I released it, it was surprising how many people could relate...I feel her pain!
This has been one of my favorite conversations so far! I laughed, cried and learned a lot. I'm looking forward to reading Titia's book.
Glad you enjoy it!
It’s good to know where your personal weaknesses are, in efforts to work towards the healing process. This is good! ❤️❤️❤️
Wow, wow, wow!!!
This episode just blew me out of the water. It was POWERFULLY TRANSPARENT. I learnt so much. Thank you.
I latched on to the statement, "there is no exit, but death"
She reminds me of Debbie Allen 😀
I thought that I was going to have to send out the search party to find this episode, as I usually watch them, as I unwind on a Wednesday evening after work. I was relieved when I saw it this morning. Thank you 😊
Lol. I was so busy. Took me forever to edit it.
Hey Paula!!!! Thank you for your support!!!!
@@titiaowens6661you are welcome 😊
Waiting is hard. Finally! Someone went through what I'm going through. Been sitting here questioning my salvation 😂.
Praying for your waiting process. It’s worth it.
The Prayers on her voicemail tho.🤩
Girl....he put the Lord on me!
This video helped me so much. I realized that I don’t have a village of men to protect me and it hurts (only child with no father or uncles present). All I have is God’s guidance and directions in this season. I feel like I’ve been single all my life, even in my previous marriage. These podcasts create so much vulnerability for me and allow God to work on me even the more.
And baby, He is more than enough! I have two brothers and was raised with my dysfunctional father. All are still around, but I’ve felt alone as well regardless even in my previous marriage. I too have three sons who I am raising alone as a single mother but I know in my heart, God got me. He has you and I and if we desire marriage again, He has it all worked out. Heal, live and enjoy the journey.
Bless you sis
OMG, Your letters bring me to happy tears sir....thanks for sharing and creating a soft place for so many of us on UA-cam to see truth /honesty with love and compassionate healing in progress...AWESOME‼️
Awesome couples interview !!! 💗💙♥️💜
Titia is my alta ego✨ from beginning to end. This relationship podcast was really a great tool for learning about attitude and knowing when to speak. Speaking to us women. Learning about real submission. Submission from a godly perspective. IJS
Hey Maria!!!! Thank you for the support!!!!
I honestly feel God did not allow me to see this video when it first came out cause I needed to hear it at this very moment . 🙌🏼🙌🏼👑👑❤️❤️
Amen, I believe that will be the last Christmas we spend without each other 🙌
I receive that for myself too🙌🏽
@@divinelychosen5554 Me too💃🏽‼️
Me 3, Jesus❣️ I really want my daughters to see a Godly marriage. They are now in their 20’s, and they think they know what’s best for them. Jesus, prepare me too!!!🙏
Being signed up to be a scholar of your partner, being committed to sign up for continuous education. I love it! This speaks to being a person committed to continuous improvement in ALL areas.
Listening to her gave me hope because I can definitely relate to what she went through during her 1st marriage. I no longer feel alone knowing that someone else verbally expressed what they've went through as well
This was such a blessing. And I can totally relate to her in so many ways. Thank God for the Process and Restoration. This is confirmation for me that God is Redeemer of Time!🙌🏽 Lastly, Laterras you had me cracking up!🤣
The struggle WAS real. 😂
That is it " you want to ask the question but you don't want the reaction if it goes the other way" . This is true women can handle the truth, it may be hard at times but it's better to express your thoughts then allowing it to be exposed later. Somethings like she said you don't have to say for personal growth. Great story, this was amazing!
Ms. Titia reminds me so much of me. Being single for a while and being a handful. When JWayne said he knew she was the one from the moment he saw her, I melted because it keeps me believing in my future husband will know when he sees me. I may not see him but he will definitely know he is my husband
Thank God for Chyna!!!! I’m crying!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 oh my! I love them!
Contessah you know all too well my crazery....
This was amazing. It didn’t want it to end. 🙌 very informative.
I love what she said about accountability for the man dating you. Think that would keep a lot of us out of trouble. Somebody needs to vet the guy
Vetting is a MUST!!!! 😘
Idk why I was lead back to this episode but just hearing them share how God strategically worked on them individually, just to come back again. And their marriage is like iron sharpening iron… as their hearts are open to change and grow for their marriage. I love it.
I'm not married, but I'm learning so much. I thank God for stumbling upon this podcast
I can not wait to read her book. I LOVE her posture on her first marriage. Not one time did she place the blame on her ex husband but yet she admitted her own faults. This book is going to bless soooo many women!! Hopefully this will allow us to take a look at ourselves.
Between the play and this episode, it was comedy night for me. I appreciate the wisdom shared from both perspectives. "Where do we go from here because there's no exit but death;" this mindset shift is powerful. I love the individual and collective redemption stories highlighted here. Also love the emphasis on stewarding your partner well.
I have been watching your Podcasts but have never commented but this particular Podcast really blessed me as I saw myself in Titia and I have learned a lot from her story. God bless you in all you do and keep up the good work 👏🏾👏🏾
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Listening to this podcast is just setting my mindset up for my king. I love that she said the man knows what he want and allow him to Chase you. As well as she fasted for 30 days in prayer. That's inspiring me of a women that's a single mother of two about to turn 40 in 4 days. Thank you for this 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Why was I crying 😢... I cannot believe this is the best thing on UA-cam and I love every episode
This episode was truly a blessing . All episodes have been a blessing.
When she said they were trying to Out not love each other. I felt that in my spirit. Im currently experiencing that and I just wanna do better. I can not wait for this book.
That was such a powerful statement
I so love this episode! They are so real and open with in this conversation. I'm divorced and this is a great conversation to understand what to do before I remarry. We need leader to cover us and a awesome circle around us to look out for you while you court intentionally.
I love their story it help me to see my mistakes in my marriage 41yrs 61/2 separated. I'm not divorce because God told me not to. To be patience & don't give up. I wanted to file several times but each time there was a word from Holy Spirit. We divorce because of the hardness of our hearts. I live your pod cast it helps me to go as a wife even though right now I'm living a single life. Praise God for your ministry
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Everytime he reads those letters, I literally turn into a cry baby. Lol
My favorite part of the podcast.
Lol. Thank you so much. Definitely my favorite part.
K J me too
Me too!!! 😭
oh my Goodness, Mrs. Titia the world needs your book. there are so many people going through the same thing.....when you said you went through "who can out not love the other person the most" in your first marriage!!! I am in tears, why do we do this to each other. I can see a movie out of this just like Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man! People need to see what they are doing wrong and run from it, maybe marriages can be saved, this book is going to be a formula for active change in relationships
Ok....THIS episode, THIS couple and, Laterras, YOU acting out the scenes of their storyline/interactions truly blessed my soul!! 😂😂 You have had plenty of entertaining guests but so far Titia & JWayne have been my favorite. Thank you for this because it confirms that God has a plan for me as well. I'm looking forward to healing, growing and serving Jesus alongside my future purpose partner, for the rest of our lives! Praise God 🙏
I am on vacation and this is the third podcast I have watched; this was so good… Thank you 🙏🏾
I just listened to you read your letter to your future wife. So touching.! I will be happy when GOD presents your wife to you at the appointed time. You both will be blessed beyond measured. What you’re doing is such a blessing. So get ready to be blessed in return!!! I Love you my brother.
Love that quote, "The only way out of a marriage is departing of death". I completely love that quote because it comes from a place of willingness to fight. You're with your partner and focused on how to survive every test God will send your way. You won't give up easily. The both of you will fight consistently and fairly. Love this podcast and your letters to your future wife are the best gift to give her on her wedding day.
This is my favorite couple! So funny 🤣 and real. Gas money on Period! The Dear Future Wifey podcast ❤️❤️❤️ makes me smile and cry every time.
I thank you for your support.
Although I have not been married, I can relate to Titia. I am using muy singleness to learn about myself and grow closer to God and hear from him. I also love the letter that you penned to your future wife. I really enjoy each episode of this podcast.
Please share the video. I appreciate your support.
I'm thankful for this episode, it has given me hope and insight. God bless this couple.
Listen Man LAUGHTER is truly good for the soul. I have no time to feel down or sad about being single when I can pick up the word of God which is full of ENCOURAGEMENT and listen to podcasts like this. This couple had me in stitches. My teary eye moment was when he left PRAYERS on her Voicemail. This hit hard because this is number 2 (a man who can pray for me) on my list after he must be saved. My favorite part is signing up for the love lifetime course where you purposely commit to learn them in their love languages forever. Keep up the excellent work. Sn I would like to know what is the name of the Oceans worship song you mentioned please?
It's ua-cam.com/video/OP-00EwLdiU/v-deo.html
@@DearFutureWifey thanks 💙 the beautiful words.
Titia is soo real! I love how she learned from her first marriage and came 100% herself in the second. I understand her and can actually relate to her way of thinking on some things. This was another great podcast 💪🏾
I am happy that Pastor Tony Evans spoke out to say the truth in love to say, she is not ready as you are not ready
Yes yes yes, I feel if a pastor or minister sees that a couple is not ready, whether it is one or the other, both are not ready.
Dressing up and taking the vows is one thing, but it is after the wedding that is important,
Plus JWayne said it best all males needs a mentor, especially wise godly counsel who will correct, teach, and help guide in truth and love, for God is the core and foundation in ones living
It also goes for the females, wise godly counsel
3 minutes in and I love her already 😂💕🙌🏽
I see so much of myself in this woman. I need this book.
As a woman who has never been married or experienced lots of drama in the dating world, I take these podcasts and information to heart. IF I ever were to marry, it'll only be once and it's not to fail.
This relationship was special made! I’ve never seen two people fit together soo well ❤️
Cant wait to read her book. I love transformation stories because they're victory stories. Transformation through God's gift of repentance and humility. Salvation stories are so powerful and impactful!
What I love about them is their commitment in patiently waiting as they change for the better of their marriage🤗🤗🤗🌹🌹🌹💕💙
I was laughing all the way through this episode. Soooo LIT!!! When a queen gets their King...he helps her become her best version and he also wants to be his best version for himself and them together. Learnt so much from this episode. Thank you all
This was a beautiful episode. Great, natural conversational flow with lots of gems dropped throughout by the couple. I enjoyed Laterras’ sense of humor as well.
The Lord said, take him seriously.
NOW you done brought tears to my eyes 😢🤗
I can so relate to so many things that was said by Titia! However, one thing that was said that really stood out to me was, “if I do this again I’m not coming out.” This has been a thought of mine for a long time!! Wow!!😱💯
This was such a Blessing to Me... Thank you all for sharing your Truth
Okay, now it's morning and I am. watching the final part of the show. The lateral is definitely greater. I love both of their Transparency-its definitely helping many. God's continual Blessings over the two of you. 💖
Love them! Yes get the UA-cam channel. Thanks for sharing your story and to the ‘Dear Future Wifey’ cast thanks once again for another worthwhile segment.
I love this couple 😍 thank you for sharing. The process and the lessons is what I needed to hear.
"The Power in the Second Time Around!" Whewww! Powerful! Laterras you are hilarious with the Hooping!!! Hoop Doc! Anyhoo, you ALMOST made me want to come out of hiatus to start recording again, to unpack the nuggets in this and other episodes! I love this couple! She is hilarious! I had some great laughs in this one!
So very Blessed by this episode.
I’m sitting here in my singleness anticipating and dreading the Christmas holidays.
Thank you for reminding me that I am covered by my Heavenly Father up and continuing to the time that I am covered by my future husband.
Now I’m going to listen again to ‘Oceans’
Blessings to you and your family Laterras!!
There were a lot of nuggets I learned from this one as well. I loves their truth.
There's nothing like a man willing to pursue!!!