The Key to Confidence, Self-Esteem and Happiness

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • How we see ourselves shapes how we see the world. Often, how we see ourselves is based on how other people see us. But no one knows what goes on inside our head besides us. Everyone else is merely projecting themselves onto us. So when we see ourselves through the lens of others, we are really seeing a distorted version of the other person, with all their insecurities, fears, and weaknesses.
    When we spend some time getting to know ourselves, when we practice living in the present moment, we become able to get out of our head. We become able to recognize negative and hurtful thoughts. We become able to allow those thoughts to come and go, and we are able to choose not to listen to them, not follow them, not believe them, not act on them, and we can consciously and with intention create new thoughts, positive thoughts, and thoughts that help us build the life we want.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 54

  • @searchingpeace2375
    @searchingpeace2375 2 роки тому +7

    Last October I was on my way home from visiting my son in the hospital after he was involved in a serious motorcycle accident. He nearly lost his leg, but thank God, an incredible vascular surgeon reconstructed his vein that saved his leg. His calf muscle looked like a shark had taken a bite out it, all the way to the bone. My thought was, as amazing and intelligent and incredible that surgeon is, with years of studying medicine, my son’s body is way way more intelligent! And he’s a 19 year old kid who doesn’t know a thing about medicine? This thought kinda blew me away…just like in the video when you said mankind can not come close to making a bird. This “greater intelligence” or whatever label you put on it is beyond belief. “It” is Us.

  • @marionbooth8103
    @marionbooth8103 2 роки тому +8

    This coming from a former Ad man is brave. You have first hand knowlege of how the world can influence us, both negative and positive. Thank you for sharing your insight, your knowledge, your inner light.

  • @av26
    @av26 Рік тому +3

    So true: educational system needs a big makeover

    • @matiascamposg
      @matiascamposg 5 місяців тому

      I think many people know that but don't do anything to change that.

  • @dupeit007
    @dupeit007 2 роки тому +13

    Loving oneself is a very tough job, accepting that we are talented and exceptional beings is so difficult in our society, our world. But with peace we get to see this and accept it. I have literally changed my perspective and life by doing this

  • @Colleen858
    @Colleen858 Рік тому +2

    I certainly can relate to this. Little Me survived because of my strength ❤❤

  • @rebeccarocha8339
    @rebeccarocha8339 Рік тому +3

    Thank you so much for all your videos...they have helped me so much. I'm so grateful to have stumbled upon these videos. I have been through some tough treatments for cancer for the past 3 years and lately and I was struggling with my very busy mind and very negative thoughts until I heard you and all you said resonated with me. Just wanted you to know I appreciate you .

  • @jackiefindlay1264
    @jackiefindlay1264 2 роки тому +10

    This is profoundly beautiful! Words cannot express my gratitude for these pearls of wisdom. 🙏🧡

  • @sandipmajumder120
    @sandipmajumder120 2 роки тому +3

    Love from India Sir Trying to know myself more and more 😊😌❤️

  • @jen3800
    @jen3800 2 роки тому +3

    your channel should be on everyone's wake up listening

  • @andycook8163
    @andycook8163 2 роки тому +10

    This is a perfect synopsis of how our culture, and most cultures, condition us to live by comparisons (duality). Thank you so very much. I think we should forgive ourselves "for we know not what we do". Now is the task of un-learning and revising our concepts of life in "service" and not in competition. You're ways of expression and your patient Delivery is such a blessing. Thank you. Love you. Namaste my friend

  • @timbaker266
    @timbaker266 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks the world needs this

  • @mrntlng320
    @mrntlng320 Рік тому +2

    Wonderful!

  • @n.d.g.naturaldiamondgoddes59
    @n.d.g.naturaldiamondgoddes59 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for a clear speach about the core destructive patterns humans are inprinted with since early innour journey...Why do some stay immune to inferiority feelings? Humans sjould be taught to appreciate variety and praise good focus and discipline in school in another constructive creative ways that enhances the best in humans.. perfection exist. We become perfection each moment.. lackful mindset and complex of inferiority is so obvious now with social.medias and celebrities , artists that no matter how much money and fame or health show lackful mindset by masking their genuine selves with tons of makeup, distorting bodies, facial features that sends a signal that is ilusive and distortet and people emulate those patterns...but we are humans that choosecwhat to believe in...today some have awoken and others run away from the truth and prefer the ways that are followed by the masses...nothing is wrong only perceptions and ilusions...we choose what we want to read, listen to, and how to be...The truth is that the path of choosing another way than the masses or accepted mainstrean attitudes, actions and known ways to react and do things..well it is a lonely road..I am choosing freedom to be comfortable as myself and that is fabulous...I only expect the best everything to appear...detach from mainstrwan is scary and resetting life is through the mind..

  • @esmeraldadebrito851
    @esmeraldadebrito851 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you for presence,thank you for your teachings 🙏

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 роки тому +6

    It's so important that we take care of our own needs without sacrificing our well-being to satisfy and please others. When you can, take breaks if need to, meditate, take a walk and be kind to yourself for the practice of self-care. Do whatever makes you feel that inner peace and calmness that's needed for your mental health and overall well-being.
    💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @T1D_Fitness.Health
    @T1D_Fitness.Health Рік тому +1

    "We are the mystery of life"

  • @Michaelaaj
    @Michaelaaj Рік тому +1

    Amazing Thanks Todd

  • @danielnezis1041
    @danielnezis1041 Рік тому +2

    Such an amazing message. Thank you for these videos. Especially what you say about Steve Jobs, that if you believe in something so much, then everyone around you will start believing it. It so true and I was thinking about it as I was walking back from work today. And I have noticed with myself that when I really believe something, I can make others to believe in it too.

  • @mirovinac3968
    @mirovinac3968 Рік тому +1

    Perfect in imperfect.

  • @mikey_atman
    @mikey_atman 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks I needed that. Calm voices of reason or rare in current days it seems. Your words are like a raft on a rough sea. 🌊

  • @AN-ym7it
    @AN-ym7it Рік тому

    You are incredible Todd... ❤...I can't stop listening to your channel...
    Am lucky that I got access to it at the right moment in my life while I was Struggling through intense emotional turmoil ...u have made my life much better.. 🙏.Thank you so much and
    Hats off to your insights.. They are extremely powerful and transformative... ☺
    ...love and peace to all 🙌

  • @Shellyracca789
    @Shellyracca789 Рік тому

    Thank u Todd. This is my favorite one so far. Especially the grading part in school which really affected me like u said. I'm am learning so much from your videos, looking forward to the movie. ❤

  • @trissgridley554
    @trissgridley554 Рік тому +1

    Such beauty and truth in this. Love the work you are doing. So glad I came across this channel. 😊

  • @suemichael4220
    @suemichael4220 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks!

  • @robertamirtha4242
    @robertamirtha4242 Рік тому +1

    Wonderful.

  • @kintoor4292
    @kintoor4292 2 роки тому +5

    Too good 👊

  • @suemichael4220
    @suemichael4220 2 роки тому +5

    Much needed. Thank you! 💜🕉

  • @casey4314
    @casey4314 2 роки тому +3

    Fantastic!

  • @marklayman8452
    @marklayman8452 Рік тому

    Thank You Todd❤

  • @daynawillbanks7985
    @daynawillbanks7985 Рік тому +2

  • @jpobrien5418
    @jpobrien5418 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this🙏

  • @electricsnut
    @electricsnut 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing work as always, much love and thank you for the reminders of why the path is so important 🙏

  • @adikeys
    @adikeys 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you❤🙏

  • @cafedelmar8130
    @cafedelmar8130 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video 💜🙏

  • @jps8678
    @jps8678 2 роки тому +3

    Yes!! I leave inferioity energy alone and don't take it to myself. I focus inner self and love and light. I get this in my head that I am infinite perfection.

  • @Camspam100
    @Camspam100 2 роки тому +2

    Namaste 🙏

  • @Gaurav.P0
    @Gaurav.P0 2 роки тому +3

    Beautiful video 😍

  • @kevinkemble3718
    @kevinkemble3718 Рік тому

    Todd you are one of the pillars in my life. As others your ceiling is my ground floor.
    You are a “launch pad leader” as my friend Lyle Wells describes in his latest book who I spent time with in recent months.
    You are helping others to drop the shield of “insecurities, …. to listen to others who ride other people up” as you say here. “We all need each other.”
    I’ve been around for 6+ decades…. My wife and I have witnessed the “range of pain,” some unimaginable to “wear the same clothes twice.”
    I’ve learned pain is there, however suffering is an option of the past to have a funeral for.
    Ty Todd!

  • @guillermiro2079
    @guillermiro2079 2 роки тому +4

    🙏

  • @tiffanymartelli
    @tiffanymartelli Рік тому +1

    💜

  • @heavyt749
    @heavyt749 2 роки тому +2

    We will succeed like a budgie with no teeth

  • @londoncalling7895
    @londoncalling7895 2 роки тому +2

    💓💓💓

  • @hayleyferguson5284
    @hayleyferguson5284 2 роки тому +3

    This is one reason we choose to homeschool 😉

  • @aimose08
    @aimose08 2 роки тому +2

    🥰

  • @sandya2023
    @sandya2023 2 роки тому +1

    Can you record more meditations?

    • @ToddPerelmuter
      @ToddPerelmuter  2 роки тому +1

      Coming soon... Thanks for the suggestion.

  • @suemichael4220
    @suemichael4220 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks!

    • @ToddPerelmuter
      @ToddPerelmuter  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your generosity, Sue 💗

  • @440SPN
    @440SPN Рік тому +1

    💖

  • @sadie4587
    @sadie4587 2 роки тому +4

    ❤️

  • @dimiseta8110
    @dimiseta8110 11 місяців тому