evangore you are wrong ...his murderer was sent to do so because John...a major crowd influencer was talking all this peace n love when the powers that be were looking to start a new war. He was pinned as loose nut when in reality his family was in bed with the Bush family....look it up. They could easily pin a deranged killer label on him and he go down for it just like Lee Harvey Oswald....bigger players were behind it all
I've asked my mom a few times why she married my dad, and the answer was never, "I was in love with him, he's a great man, etc." It's always, "He was established, had a job, etc."
Yep women looking for establishment. The Hell with us guys getting started in life. I had to start from scratch. Nothing to offer why would they want me. Piss on bunch of bitches. Most of them ended up with a peace of crap anyways that turned me down, totally let down. Women have to many options now days. Sometimes American Women expecting too much. Congratulations to the next man they can have that whore hoppers left overs.
I married my husband at 25 when we had nothing. I married him for him. Fast forward 13 years and hes become successful and has dropped me and our life flat.
The Red Pill cures the attachment to vagina which men have been programed to need. .... It seems nature found an advantage in making us fully capable of producing the next generation with a dopamine drug incentive, a full ten years before it gave us the maturity to know just how bad a deal it is.
"Women marry a lifestyle, not the man " This is profound. I never thought of it that way but it explains so much. It explains why women leave at the first sign of trouble too.
That because the man pursues the holes not the woman. What a bunch of blamers. Pathetic and toxic. Look within for responsibility and you won’t need to place toxic blame upon others to justify your sad life.
@@fml5910 Old post but yhou described myh entire life. #1 downfall is having sympathy and helping others so they never did without like I have. Now that crippled broken down poverty stricken man. ALone.....since I was a teen. EVery day every holiday. Almost relieved Drs found a lung mass so I know Ill die with a roof over my head.
You were sold the lie that women are like men, and now that you're figuring out their real nature you're quitting? Women are delicious but you must accept them as they are, fuck them and not treat them as equals, if you do those things you'll never be disappointed, you can trust fully in the fact that she'll do what any other woman does and you'll never be surprised again. A woman wants to be lead by a man deep down inside, any man who has considerable experience with women will tell you this, everything they fantasize about sexually is domination in one form or another, she was CREATED to be SUBMISSIVE and this innate characteristic is still part of her. If she's cocky drop her, if she's rebelling against her femininity or somehow doesn't want to acknowledge her own nature and be at peace with it then leave and never look back, BUT if you find a girl who IS in touch with her nature, and who wants you to push her against the wall and grab her tits, who wants you to take her face and put your dick in it, THEN you stay, THEN you have a woman who has not rebelled and a woman who submits to you. She will teach you how she needs to be treated, she will give you hints, she will ask you if you'd run in a fight, she'll argue with you to see you stand up against her and make her wet, woman is constantly telling you what she wants, she's just not straightforward about it, but its up to us to get to know them intimately, to catch the cues and thereby become more manly, because how the fuck are you going to figure out what it is to be a man without woman? Without white there is no black and visa versa, we are defined by opposites.
The biggest challenge is to have no reaction when your wife wants to fight. To continue speaking calm and intelligently no matter how much she tries to rattle you. This is also true when another man tries to start shit with you. To act loke you're oblivious to their anger. Being able to do this is a huge victory.
Very true my father always said to me never argue with a woman by shouting and hurling abuse if you start doing that then you've already lost the argument.
@@Megalocade I dont listen when that stuff starts .Go for a drive, gym massage parlor something. Got better things to do than listen to an adult 7 yr old complain her life isnt like Cosmo magazine
Woman marrying a lifestyle makes sense from a biological standpoint. I want my girl to have perfect curves and a beautiful face, which also makes sense from a biological standpoint.
The average woman can’t marry a lifestyle anymore though. She has to work which is something she doesn’t want to do and isn’t built to do. The problem is: modern life requires her to work while men (who have had to do this all along). The solution: go back to the old way of life (which will happen, just not in our lifetime).
@@unusedname197 hello.....men cant be bought in this modern days, no? "the averege woman" like you called her, is a bit of discriminination. is this what you look for? you are born without a name and you are looking for someones else lifestyle? you deserve to work, but not as you wish, you have to work hard.... if you want something, get it form your own money, bitch
@@cr4yv3n Agree. IT takes 2 incomes just to get by today. And asking your woman to share bills causes too many problems. Ill let the younger guys deal with that stuff
My wife will try to start some stupid drama . I tell her once to stop. She doesn’t ? I put on the ear phones and go into my own world. When doesn’t start drama but talks to me as an adult I pay attention to her. I don’t reward bad behavior but when she’s good she gets a Scooby snack.
I don't understand arguing with someone you are in harmony and partnership with. I like to **seek understanding** and get down to the root cause of what is bothering someone -- and talk about it. But "defense" and "anger" isn't part of this. I can't stand arguing -- because people are trying to "win". And I don't understand "winning" against someone I'm in harmony with. Furthermore, when someone is trying to "win" they are not truly listening to the other person.
I've been scrolling for sooooo long hoping that I wouldn't lose hope in humanity tonight lol thank you. I can't believe at this man's age he still doesn't understand his own ego, it bothers me because young men are taking his advice and it's going to be so damaging to everyone.
@@lebronjames4444 he will...because nothing good comes out of anger. Anger means stupidity, a lapse of reason usually in response to pain. Someone hurts you, you get angry and strike back. Men have the power to calm a female, so stop trying to fuck the harpies.
This is why you marry a woman who has just as much going for her as you do, if not more. My wife is smarter than me and has just as much going for her. I know that if shit ever hit the fan, then she would have just as much to lose if not more. Stop falling in love and marrying women because of looks solely. Get you a women that’s smart, ambitious, and striving to be great in life.
Ambition is a double edged sword, btw. Not going to take that chance. I'd settle with someone who is smart, hardworking, very supportive and nurturing. I'll bring the ambition to the table as I am going to be the leader of the my own family.
This is facts. Unfortunately there are men who are intimidated by an ambitious women or a women that’s entrepreneurial per say so they settle for one that’s looking for a handout. Well of course she’ll leave you when she can get herself out of your tyrant clutch. You’re better off being with a women that has the traits to go out there and get it when need be.
Im going to make a point here. I have had Gf's who never cared for my money and ones that did. Im still over all of it! I left my job to pursue what I love doing, with no consequence and no one to answer too and no one to support. No hate to woman, i do enjoy friendships with you but majority of poor men in marriages are half the men they used to be, all beaten down and depressed trapped by laws which are designed to ruin them. No thanks.
Marriage today brings only misery and despair. There's no way women with all the freedom they have and all the incentives to divorce u will create a stable family. They use their freedom in the wrong way to do harm not to create. What they do is such a setback to our western world the consequences will be immense
Both men and women are looking for three basic things. Only one of which differs. Men look for looks, personality, and youth Women look for looks, personality, and resources/security
Krillin imo that's not personality, it's more a default requirement. Personality imo is what comes after the basic requirements are met. But I can see why someone would say that's personality and why it's very important.
@@DudeImWayBetter I would say, though, women care more about personality than do men. Men just want women to not be bitches. Women, on the other hand, want men to be confident, caring, affectionate (but not needy) and the list goes on.
Women marry a lifestyle, not the man. I agree for some women. I know some of them. But deeply inside they are not happy, I can testify of that. On the opposite side, here I am, always put forth "the man" and still single because most men, unfortunately, put forth physical beauty standards instead of inner beauty. Welcome to the sad reality of the dating scene.
Minute 9:37 ever since I was 33 years old I've been trying to figure out what women perceive love to be, im 42 , its 12/9/2018 , I'm still trying to come up with a few words to describe it. Because now as I'm older I've realize females don't feel love like a man does.
Juan Calderon I just turned 41 last Friday. I've been with my share of women and I see the same thing you stated. I don't even think that women know what love is these days. This Is why I'm mgtow now. I wish that some day I will find my baby but she has to be in shape, mentally stable, and financially sound. I don't care about her race because it's all pink in the middle. Lol!
olivionb mgtow... I wouldn't recommend it if you have self control. I have 4 potential girls in a given week. I would have more if I got back into practicing music and going to play at bars. I wouldn't go Mgtown though. Just go in and out and they start acting a little nuty put them on Ice. You must have more then one girl though. I've turn my love into a sharing program. Ill love a girl one day and ill love another one the next. I don't get caught up on one. Until I find a suitable girl and even then you should have one as a back up
Thats because women are actually perpetual Children, they dont know what they want, they are always complaining and never happy. Men are the fathers, we invent all kinds of things so both men and women live a safer and easier life, taking care of humans as a whole
olivionb I'm not saying its easy. But I try to stay in the game. Watch you're pockets and for STD's. Also watch out for holes in you're tires, broken windows, them stealing statues... Lol. Sometimes its better they don't know where you live. I have them in different cities
so true !! that was for a while on my mind, but now that you've said it and defined it, its a bit more clear. once a man can't afford a lifestyle she was in love with, she will not be happy with that man
The word “father” means storytelling; narrative. The word “mother” means material/physical world. Now when I put into perspective the title alone of your video it somewhat makes sense. Females want a certain narrative or lifestyle ( father) and Males want a physical body ( mother ) Interesting...
Ranin Zadviylet Anthony Robbins has numerous videos about relationships. Love is when men and women have things in common; passions are opposites. It’s that spark of passion that creates life. Women want safety but I think at certain times they want things that are new and risky
Holy shit. This is the first video I've seen, I don't know who you are or what you do, I'm not even sure what this video even is yet. But you spat enough father like wisdom my direction that I already feel like looking up to you. Good stuff.
"Women marry the lifestyle, not the man. Men marry a body." This is a fantastic quote. This may be an unpopular take on that, but I find many parallels in Christ and His Bride (aka 'the Body of Christ', aka the Church). Tbh, I've been finding massive parallels between female nature, the way that women behave with men, and the way that men in general behave with God. Men need God only when He can do something for them. Even when He died for them, personally, they say it's not enough and accuse Him of not loving them enough. We only "love" God because we want His life, we need life. And we want someone to be there to fix things and provide for us. But do we truly love God the way He loves us? No. We're not capable of that. I find many parallels of this in the way that women are unable to truly love men back the way that men love them. The Bible says that men are to love women as their own bodies, as Christ loves His own Body (the Bride, the Church). It says that men are the head, and women are the body, just as Christ is the head, and man is the body. It's a hierarchy, a set order of things. If you study female nature long enough, this all becomes clearer and clearer imo. Women are unable to love us as our true selves because they were made FROM us, they're not men deep down. They're incomplete. It's the same with us men and God. We are but a breath, fragile and unable to be God and thus not need him (unable to truly BE the man). Anyway, it's something to think about and I thought I'd share.
Mind blowing how much sense this makes. It's TRUE that man takes God for granted on this earth for sure. Man is the mightiest of beings , but when things hit the fan that's when he seeks God. Man is sometimes too logical, too rational, and doesnt remember his spiritual needs. He thinks all is on the earth and all can be explained, but that is far from true. Our physical minds can not ever begin to understand things of the spiritual realm. Man easily leads woman to a bed, but seldom do I see man lead her to salvation (God) . By men being the leaders, and God so desperately wishes they led well to find ultimately "him" ...man is failing miserably, and giving into sin. He is inadequate. This in no way releases woman of her debauchery. #ManYouHaveMeThinking
@@amazinggrace313 I agree, men who are having dealings with women should put God first. They'll be less inclined to wander into danger following after their own lust, and it shifts the focus away from needing or earning the woman and takes your own ego out of the equation. Ultimately it makes a man more desirable, but you redirect the woman's desire toward God and you are rewarded in your faith for doing so. Pursuing sex just lands you in the hypergamy cycle, and you ultimately come out worse than when you entered, potentially much more so. It's so much more rewarding to redirect them toward the Father, and this applies with men and women both. But especially women. When dealing with women, men should always be chaste, cordial, and firm. Doing this will weed out most women anyway, because most modern women want nothing to do with a Christian who has taken a vow of chastity. There's really no gain or manipulation angle for them in that.
I love this video, I feel like we're just having a calm discussion together, so relaxing, you're not spouting content to my face in short time like other videos
Your so right Goerge on that my mom use to say that women don't marry for love they do 4 money or comfort. As always u are on the one. With wisdom. The 🤔😉✌
Some women marry for love. Some marry for money. Us smart women marry for love AND money. Why drive on a half tank of gas? Just say no to "either or" mentality. It makes no logical sense. "hmmn. I can marry a successful person ORRRR I can fall in love" ??
@Victoria Johnsen are you an intuitive or sensor personality type of person ? Intuitives see the world primary through the abstract, the possibilities and sensors primary through the concrete , the data so basically the opposite. This would explain how we internalise concepts such as love, for the intuitive it would be anything that represents the ideals of love and for the sensor it would be the representation of love in a concrete way e.g. love through providing ( resources ). This is just a theory based on personality type mbti with what I've been reading in comments
@@jameshuffmar1765 Back in 2006-8ish I saw a survey or poll somewhere online. I don't remember how it was worded but The question was basically asking men and boys if they would marry a wealthy woman if they could. Something like 90% of the men who responded said YES THEY WOULD. And I remember how enraged I got by that. A career feminist might have looked at those results gleefully and thought "well that's encouraging. Maybe men aren't intimidated by strong successful women who earn more money than them. Thank goodness! Oh happy day! We are making a difference! " But my thought was something quite rude and outside my nature "you piece of sh*t mother eFers." I shut down. I sat on my floor traumatized and seething because I interpreted the results like "so, 90% of men who call me a gold digger behind my back in community gossip sessions WOULD MARRY A FINANCIALLY STRONG WEALTHY WOMAN IF THEY COULD! !?? you piece of sh*t mother eFers" I now and forevermore interpret the word "gold digger" as just a phrase of jealousy tossed by people who WOULD marry a real estate developer if they could but they can't meet one. And if they meet one, they can't seduce one. While I barely had to try. It fell into my lap as easily as me dropping a food crumb into my lap. It's a term of envy! . "gold digger Lisa" "jealous 90%!!" But to answer your question. I spent my first 5 years after immigrating to America living in the nasty part of Baltimore (my sponsors who took me in lived above their ghetto business). I've seen the kind of community poor men create. They create violent war torn communities full of police tape and bullet casings. They abandon their children en masse thus leaving 75% of kids in fatherless homes. They fight, brawl, stab, shoot, kill, rob, mug, cuss, flunk, join gangs and pace through life like an aimless apocalyptic zombie. The good poor men are too cowardly to stand up to the zombies that prey on the hood. "Snitches get stitches! I ain't seen or heard NUTTIN!" So why do we marry successful men? To get as far away from the zombies and the cowards as possible. I married a successful husband because I could! But the stress of raising my kids to be strong enough to take over his business successfully and not destroy the livelihood of his employees took quite a few years off my life! Marrying a business owner comes with an incredible responsibility society isn't even aware of. I had to raise his next business generation. That's an 8 days a week 25 hours a day job.
There’s this line in the movie Trading Places (1988) where Dan Akroyd is so thankful for how sweet and nice Jamie Lee Curtis is being to him. He sees it as though she has feelz for him. Her response: “I’m just protecting my investment Louie”. She sees this potential lifestyle if she can help him get back in his feet.
Ohhh how true this is... I grew up around spoiled, overindulged parents (and their friends), that always had the luxury of having their moneyed parents come up with the difference, or bail them out of jams completely... They learned little or nothing about being self sufficient and appreciated even less, always looking for something "new and different" all the time, and that included many a fling, up until things got old with them...Then it was time for something else! I broke away from all this BS at 18 and went out on my own, blazing my own trail... To this day, people who are lifestyle-oriented, and never satisfied with anyone, nor anything - tend to get very old with me - VERY FAST! I've never married, nor had any children as a result, and I want neither one now... Luxuries and lifestyles don't mean jack to me, because I've been there, and done that, and all I see most of the time with many is waste, waste, waste! I don't have much now, and I've always kept things kind of lean because to me, these "trappings of life" are just as the name implies, mostly excess garbage weighting you down, putting far too much stress upon the psyche, always worrying about losing it, and then not being accepted by anyone because one cannot "keep up"! How single-minded, hollow, and shallow can people be? Like a bunch of rats running around mindlessly in a maze - pathetic! I'm pretty much a loner from the gate, so I don't let any of that bother me, and I still have quite a few years left...Even if my situation should change for the better, unless someone comes into my life who likes me for whom I am, instead of just another "jack-ass enticed by a carrot dangling in front of them" (and that's the way I look at 90% of the populace, both men and women alike), everything I have - is for me!
I am not sure why I got married. He asked me lol and that's why. When I realized it wasn't going to be a marriage where I get to stay home, be a homemaker, and a perfect Catholic wife, I dropped my expectations of everything. Still married, and we hardly ever have a right. He discovered Mad Men and is all alpha now bossing me around LOL. I totally love it!👋👋
@@UnityFromDiversity ok so point out 10 that you've actually truly known in real life? Or is this conversation about what we've seen in UA-cam too? You MIGHT KNOW one phsyco feminist, I'd be surprised if you truly knew two.
@@UnityFromDiversity people really need to start acting rationally if they want to fix things instead of being uselessly PISSED OFF like this asshole. And your comment sound really cool, but I wanna see that graveyard.
@@UnityFromDiversity I'm almost positive you only think you know what communism by the corruption of an idea that was supposed to help people, and I pretty positive you think you know what feminism is by the corruption of an idea that was supposed to help people. Either way, what does foes feminism or communism have to do with all woman. I personally have nothing to do with either of these things, I thought he was talking about life and relationships. If you want to start another topic please click over on the next video so you cab keep your points straight.
@@UnityFromDiversity that's like saying all Germans should take one for the team because the holocaust happened, open your eyes man not everyone is bad here your not alone lol stop spreading hate
"Men want to replace the body and the sex". Hmmm - do you really believe this one fully, George? I agree with most of your points, but I think this one made me think a little bit. I am 51 and also divorced and for the past 5 years I have done the "replace the body and the sex" thing. But I have found that It's pretty hollow at the end of the day. Granted I am not complaining, but for me the "Unicorn" now is that physical attraction combined with the genuinely cool, good-hearted person you actually want to wake up with. I think the idea of this perfect companion is indeed a Unicorn, I don't buy into "one-itis" and therefore I find myself actually turning down physical opportunities and spending more time by myself these days, then dealing with the perpetual deli line of "lifestyle seekers" who are out there. My 2 cents.
@@blahadestiny1604 Yeah, could be my age - but honestly I have been pretty productive on that realm since my divorce. For me I am more drawn to intimacy rather than just a high numbers count - after a while they just blur together.
@@The333 I agree with this. I had a very beautiful girlfriend for about a year who met almost all of my physical wants, but at the end of the day she was just an airhead and I was miserable with her. Fast forward a year and I dated a significantly less attractive girl who made me very happy. We had great sex and she was a pleasure to spend time with. I'll never go back to chasing the physical. And for what it's worth, I'm only 26 and have no libido problems. It's simply a matter of quality of life.
I agree Tooch. In my case I married a very plain looking woman who had an amazing, easygoing personality that I clicked with. I dated way better looking women before her, but I never felt that amazing chemistry with them like I did my ex wife. Not every guy focuses on the body and sex for marriage. In fact in my personal experience, the hotter the woman, the more annoying and uninteresting they tend to be. The best sex I ever had was with a woman who was constantly stirring up drama. It was fucking exhausting. She wanted to marry be, but no fucking way was I going to make a mistake by thinking with my dick. The main thing I miss about my ex wife was the intimacy and close friendship. I got very ill and that sort of fucked up our marriage, but until then I was happy as could be with an average looking ( but very traditional and feminine ) chick who I shared tons of interests with.
Not what I was expecting, given the title, but an interesting collection of thoughts. My takeaway was certainly the message about reviewing your reward system. I think that's an exceptionally fresh perspective to consider. It makes me wish I'd had a stronger father figure growing up. As a 31 year old guy I can see my past more clinically now, and it's become obvious to me that my father wasn't there since I was five and my step dad was stable but approached the issue of actually raising me with trepidation. Anyway, point is, I'm thankful for this video and others like it that help to fill in the gaps with such vital information.
Love this message of work with what you have or maximize it. It's never stressed enough. Never considered the negative reward system. You're really teaching how to truly rewire. Kudos to you!
This was so good. 2019- I will not argue with women. I love it. This is the first video of yours that I've seen. I've been kicking around a return to the gym as well...
The ad that followed your video was for the "Fisher-Wallace Stimulator". I'm not kidding. Slow, hypnotic music played while a woman sat down comfortably in a chair, then very calmly and carefully dipped electrode pads into water, slipped them under a headband over each side of her head just behind the eyes, connected a wire to a little box in her hand, started shocking her own head, and smiled. "Releases Serotonin" , it said. Now women can electrocute themselves into happiness! Or, at least, pay to try it. Anything but living in ways that authentically generate self-esteem. That's too much work. I suppose this is a remedy for all the brain sizzling SSRI's they have been taking. In the US, one in four women is on some sort of pyscho-active drug. One in four! Un-fucking real. Enjoyed your video!
Before i dumped my girlfriend i told her from now on she pays for everything and do all the arrengment and driving and I provide myself to her. Her reply was " why would I agree with someone who hates me" . lol
@@derpderpson8803 it wasn't really a fight. After a while I realized she was nothing but a gold digger so I turn the table around that's when she didn't like the idea of her paying for things and chauffeuring around
Fair enough sorry. I really wish there were more people on here that aren't so fueled on anger. I don't like the way the world is more than anyone else but we need to work together to fix it instead of dividing ourselves they're all just falling into that trap. Don't you get it black vs white christian vs Muslim democratic vs Republican fundamentalist right vs the left men vs women. Start looking for the polarity that all these conflicts start the truth is always between the lines. Everything is only half truth.
It’s taken me 3 yrs to accept the red pill....but finally I have seen the light. Let me tell u it wasn’t easy....the truth isn’t what we want to hear, but it’s something we HAVE to Hear and listen to. Even if 99% of others will attempt to disprove the truth or claim your selfish blah blah blah. And u look at their lives and they suck...terrible, always complaining and unhappy. I’m very happy we’re I’m at. I just found your channel and love your content. Thank You
I have been overlooked for being the women men say don't exist. While I watch them date and pursue the ones they now say are so horrible. They used all the energy and means on these women. And they are bitter and say "all women are.....) But like attracts like and if you got shallow women it's because you were shallow going by looks alone seeking to please the ego only.
very well put Lanita,,, it is also true of women and applies to both sexes...like does attract like..if you want a deep ,honest,balanced,loving partner, one must first Be such a person to attract such a person..
Please please make more videos about your insight and women and friends and how they are our content creators. I feel blessed that I saw your video on my feed today. I come from a different culture and country. But yet I feel so relatable and relevant your giving. Make more videos like these .
If you ask a girl to marry you and she says yes because of the lifestyle she will have, you asked the wrong girl: if you ask a girl to marry you because of her image/body, you have no right to be marrying someone until you grow up a bit more.
My GF and i have been together for 24yrs ..we never wanted to be married..we are together by choice, day to day and not bound by a ring or promises or paper....nothing will Keep 2 people together but the love you have from moment to moment...there are Always tough times, struggle, trials and hurdles in ANY relationship and those who think they need to just find the "right" person so they wont have to deal with that shit are kidding themselves and living in a fantasy world...Any serious relationship will have its hard times,its a guarentee ..Going thru the fire, with another, will strengthen ur bond,deepen ur love and appreciation of each other...people who run from one relationship to another the moment things get hard completely miss the point of it, which is to develop and deepen the understanding of urself, for relationship is a mirror ....From that understanding, Love grows
So true. I was texting a girl and I was flirting so I told her to continue to be the queen that she is - beauty. She told me to continue being so knowledgeable and intelligent. She values intellect and money.
I used to dislike these videos cause I thought they were slow but then I realized its really for men who are Present and on their mission and now I appreciate these videos differently
I'm a woman watching this, haha, I'm not the norm but I don't go with guys that can provide for me or are rich. I just look for people that work ashard on themselves as I do (sometimes hard work doesn't translate into riches)
Just got this video suggested. Never heard of the channel before. 9 seconds in and what I’ve heard so far is ”Stirring my coffee with chop-sticks, using the vortex method. The only true way to optimize the taste of your coffee” This alone made hit the Subscribe-button.
This is really referring to people who are not really capable of love. And yes, those not capable of love will marry for other reasons. Not everyone's wired for love, though not many will accept if they are not.
Exactly! This guy is right but he’s right about a lot of women. But not all. I ain’t fuckin stupid. I know what he’s saying is dead ass true and good things to be aware of. The world is this fuckin ugly. Just not all of it.
I love the way you think. People never understood me when I was in great shape in my early 20’s and I told them I didn’t go party to pick up girls with my muscular body. They were even more confused when I told them alcohol was basically poison. (Not against it, just not my thing).
Work on yourself. Go to the gym. Work on your career. Try different girls. Foreign women are a lot better than Americans, my Russian girlfriend is almost to good to be true.
My mother always told me , women will love you for who you are. I am now 36 , and 1.5 years ago I found the red pill. Once I found the truth, I came to a cross roads, what attracted me in the first place for women is them liking me for who I am but since that’s impossible what do I do now? Still in lingo, still a bit angry but I’d like to get out of the anger and accept it and be positive. This I find Challenging.
This is why you find a poor girl who has been a poor girl her entire life, never bring her to the United States or don't let her have American friends. You will live a happy life! Alot of men have low quality American women. They think their looks is enough everytime. My wife is Croatian and the first thing I said to her was that I was broke. She looked at me and said "so".
"You've never heard me talk fast before." You said this immediately after talking about UA-camrs. Thank you very much for speaking in a calm and respectful manner. I am tired of this million-words-a-minute no-attention-span style all over UA-cam.
Normally i'm a pretty cynical skeptical person, and think that most people are full of shit. But for some reason, after only 30 seconds of listening to this guy, I find him to be very charismatic and genuine, like what he has to say is authentic and comes from a quality person (he is also very handsome for his age no homo). I'm subbed, and I believe this guy has a lot to tell me about the true nature of women and life in general, lets see if my initial observation is correct.
This is why Im so glad I married my wife which we have been together since we met at 15 years old. When women are that young they arent thinking about finding a man that is well off, all they care about is the person. We got married at 23 and have been married for 18 years. I love her as much, if not more, than from the beginning and she says the same. Im broke as hell too!
you're lucky guy...yup, i agree with you. One of my friend has a girlfriend of score 10 and she is a stable woman, they are together since 15. The single women you meet above 21 age are always toxic and freak of a nature and sad part is I'm in love with one of those...
If you marry a woman who doesn't offer herself to you without resistance, unconditionally, will die for you if you ask her too, and be any way that pleases you just for the joy of being in your presence, then you have acquired a Depreciating Asset. If you find one that does meet this strict criteria, then she may be a keeper. Just remember that YOU ARE THE PRIZE. and it's the woman who has everything to gain. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS.
I don't know why this video was in my recommendation...But, I was curious and listened for a bit. As a woman, I have to thank you for teaching men to take themselves out of the game and go their own way. It's a tough world, and unless you are predator, you're a prey. As the nature intended, all successful predators adapt and actually enjoy the challenging game. The weaker ones get eaten. Complaining is futile, facts are facts. So, to all mgtow men, the sooner you take yourself out of the game the less likely you'll be an unintended collateral damage. Kisses and enjoy the view from your trenches.
When I was single , I went to singles dances, and there were mostly average looking women there, but then I was invited to an officer's club dance and I was shocked at how many beautiful women were there, and it hit me, these girls are smart , they want to meet the smart , rich military guys, they want that life.
As a woman over 50, I'm so happy I remained single. The men I meet now are broke financially (from failed marriages) and talk about their erection issues big time. Thank goodness..I'm financially stable and heading towards retirement.
Great video, should be mandatory for all high school seniors! Also, what’s your opinion on school teachers? I always thought it would be a good career choice to be a positive influence on the youth but in today’s society I think that it might be too idealistic.
“Honesty might not get you a lot of friends but it’ll certainly get you the right ones” -J. Lennon
@evangore beat me to it 😂
evangore you are wrong ...his murderer was sent to do so because John...a major crowd influencer was talking all this peace n love when the powers that be were looking to start a new war. He was pinned as loose nut when in reality his family was in bed with the Bush family....look it up. They could easily pin a deranged killer label on him and he go down for it just like Lee Harvey Oswald....bigger players were behind it all
So true, we always hurt the ones we love, hence the saying "Love hurts"...
@@johnnypastrana6727 -Yoko Ono broke up the Beatles. Stfu.
I've asked my mom a few times why she married my dad, and the answer was never, "I was in love with him, he's a great man, etc." It's always, "He was established, had a job, etc."
Matt Thats your mother...not all women
@@Lake31 experience is a funny thing mate. I've not seen much love between marriages. If you have, yay. Great.
I cannot relate.
Yep women looking for establishment. The Hell with us guys getting started in life. I had to start from scratch. Nothing to offer why would they want me. Piss on bunch of bitches. Most of them ended up with a peace of crap anyways that turned me down, totally let down. Women have to many options now days. Sometimes American Women expecting too much. Congratulations to the next man they can have that whore hoppers left overs.
I married my husband at 25 when we had nothing. I married him for him. Fast forward 13 years and hes become successful and has dropped me and our life flat.
😊😊
“Eccentric when you’re rich and weird when you’re poor”. Brilliant
Not brilliant. Trite. It's an adage that's at least 80 years old.
@WeeItsNookies ...and it is also flirting if he is wealthy!
The Red Pill cures the attachment to vagina which men have been programed to need. .... It seems nature found an advantage in making us fully capable of producing the next generation with a dopamine drug incentive, a full ten years before it gave us the maturity to know just how bad a deal it is.
@hermanshermitman ,,,, And he would be behind bars. ...... THE END
The difference between crazy and eccentric is 1 million bucks.
"Women marry a lifestyle, not the man
" This is profound. I never thought of it that way but it explains so much. It explains why women leave at the first sign of trouble too.
Yep, a need to leave is paramountto.... resources are leaving soon also 😎🤔
That because the man pursues the holes not the woman.
What a bunch of blamers. Pathetic and toxic. Look within for responsibility and you won’t need to place toxic blame upon others to justify your sad life.
@@Bijinstraightstudio sorry to disappoint u but women are complete crap these days. They are godless and soulless.
@@Bijinstraightstudio Toxic lol youre the one who is spewing sour grapes. Mirror much?
" We don't get the things we deserve in life only what we can negotiate"
Corey Wayne!!!! My nigga!!!
lalo rc The biggest lesson I have learnt in my 57 yrs
Ma mann
I seriously don't belive we deserve anything in life , we basically have to earn it
@@fml5910 Old post but yhou described myh entire life.
#1 downfall is having sympathy and helping others so they never did without like I have. Now that crippled broken down poverty stricken man. ALone.....since I was a teen. EVery day every holiday. Almost relieved Drs found a lung mass so I know Ill die with a roof over my head.
Sadly, I don't want a woman who marries a lifestyle, so I guess I'll sail on. Ain't even mad.
Broad brush strokes
Jay Alan Ungart women who don’t marry for lifestyle end with dead beat fathers simple.
Jay Alan Ungart keep on dreaming or marry an ugly female
Jay Alan Ungart u want to continue as man to become obsolete, feminine and equal to women.
You were sold the lie that women are like men, and now that you're figuring out their real nature you're quitting? Women are delicious but you must accept them as they are, fuck them and not treat them as equals, if you do those things you'll never be disappointed, you can trust fully in the fact that she'll do what any other woman does and you'll never be surprised again.
A woman wants to be lead by a man deep down inside, any man who has considerable experience with women will tell you this, everything they fantasize about sexually is domination in one form or another, she was CREATED to be SUBMISSIVE and this innate characteristic is still part of her.
If she's cocky drop her, if she's rebelling against her femininity or somehow doesn't want to acknowledge her own nature and be at peace with it then leave and never look back, BUT if you find a girl who IS in touch with her nature, and who wants you to push her against the wall and grab her tits, who wants you to take her face and put your dick in it, THEN you stay, THEN you have a woman who has not rebelled and a woman who submits to you.
She will teach you how she needs to be treated, she will give you hints, she will ask you if you'd run in a fight, she'll argue with you to see you stand up against her and make her wet, woman is constantly telling you what she wants, she's just not straightforward about it, but its up to us to get to know them intimately, to catch the cues and thereby become more manly, because how the fuck are you going to figure out what it is to be a man without woman?
Without white there is no black and visa versa, we are defined by opposites.
The biggest challenge is to have no reaction when your wife wants to fight. To continue speaking calm and intelligently no matter how much she tries to rattle you. This is also true when another man tries to start shit with you. To act loke you're oblivious to their anger. Being able to do this is a huge victory.
Very true my father always said to me never argue with a woman by shouting and hurling abuse if you start doing that then you've already lost the argument.
@@Megalocade I dont listen when that stuff starts .Go for a drive, gym massage parlor something.
Got better things to do than listen to an adult 7 yr old complain her life isnt like Cosmo magazine
Why should you have to tolerate an angry, provocative person ? Why do you need that in your life ? What possible benefit is it to you or your growth ?
Woman marrying a lifestyle makes sense from a biological standpoint. I want my girl to have perfect curves and a beautiful face, which also makes sense from a biological standpoint.
The average woman can’t marry a lifestyle anymore though. She has to work which is something she doesn’t want to do and isn’t built to do. The problem is: modern life requires her to work while men (who have had to do this all along). The solution: go back to the old way of life (which will happen, just not in our lifetime).
@@unusedname197 hello.....men cant be bought in this modern days, no? "the averege woman" like you called her, is a bit of discriminination. is this what you look for? you are born without a name and you are looking for someones else lifestyle? you deserve to work, but not as you wish, you have to work hard.... if you want something, get it form your own money, bitch
@@unusedname197 not gonna happen. Many reasons why. But chief amongst them: more workers = less wages that corporations have to pay
@@cr4yv3ndespite that, there will be a reset.
@@cr4yv3n Agree. IT takes 2 incomes just to get by today. And asking your woman to share bills causes too many problems. Ill let the younger guys deal with that stuff
My wife will try to start some stupid drama . I tell her once to stop. She doesn’t ? I put on the ear phones and go into my own world. When doesn’t start drama but talks to me as an adult I pay attention to her. I don’t reward bad behavior but when she’s good she gets a Scooby snack.
Why you marry your mother??😂
kafilarosa why you such a sicko?
kafilarosa he has to overcome his momma
I've been there and done that....................I hope she gets better. I feel sorry for you!
Robert Gray it gets better when you maintain the frame. It makes her feel secure and reduces her pathological behavior.
I don't understand arguing with someone you are in harmony and partnership with. I like to **seek understanding** and get down to the root cause of what is bothering someone -- and talk about it. But "defense" and "anger" isn't part of this. I can't stand arguing -- because people are trying to "win". And I don't understand "winning" against someone I'm in harmony with. Furthermore, when someone is trying to "win" they are not truly listening to the other person.
Nailed it
lol good luck haha
I agree i hate arguing all out arguing if we are in harmony and love each other we do what it takes to problem solve in a healthy way
I've been scrolling for sooooo long hoping that I wouldn't lose hope in humanity tonight lol thank you.
I can't believe at this man's age he still doesn't understand his own ego, it bothers me because young men are taking his advice and it's going to be so damaging to everyone.
@@lebronjames4444 he will...because nothing good comes out of anger. Anger means stupidity, a lapse of reason usually in response to pain. Someone hurts you, you get angry and strike back. Men have the power to calm a female, so stop trying to fuck the harpies.
"Women marry a lifestyle, not the man" Finally the good way to put it
In my case I'm the strongest link,me the woman.
I am not a man BUT I enjoyed your speech because I agree with what you have said. Thank you
This is why you marry a woman who has just as much going for her as you do, if not more. My wife is smarter than me and has just as much going for her. I know that if shit ever hit the fan, then she would have just as much to lose if not more. Stop falling in love and marrying women because of looks solely. Get you a women that’s smart, ambitious, and striving to be great in life.
Good attitude.
Ambition is a double edged sword, btw. Not going to take that chance. I'd settle with someone who is smart, hardworking, very supportive and nurturing. I'll bring the ambition to the table as I am going to be the leader of the my own family.
This is facts. Unfortunately there are men who are intimidated by an ambitious women or a women that’s entrepreneurial per say so they settle for one that’s looking for a handout. Well of course she’ll leave you when she can get herself out of your tyrant clutch. You’re better off being with a women that has the traits to go out there and get it when need be.
bangmeister2012 never lower your target
Tony Valentine Thank you! You understand.
I never sip my coffee, but when I do I.. sip.. my coffee
Women marry a man hoping to change him .
A man marry a woman hoping she will never change .
Im going to make a point here. I have had Gf's who never cared for my money and ones that did. Im still over all of it! I left my job to pursue what I love doing, with no consequence and no one to answer too and no one to support.
No hate to woman, i do enjoy friendships with you but majority of poor men in marriages are half the men they used to be, all beaten down and depressed trapped by laws which are designed to ruin them. No thanks.
Marriage today brings only misery and despair. There's no way women with all the freedom they have and all the incentives to divorce u will create a stable family. They use their freedom in the wrong way to do harm not to create. What they do is such a setback to our western world the consequences will be immense
Both men and women are looking for three basic things. Only one of which differs.
Men look for looks, personality, and youth
Women look for looks, personality, and resources/security
No wonder Krillin gets the hot chick
Scratch personality from those lists.
@@DudeImWayBetter You like women who are conceited, childish, and bitchy?
Krillin imo that's not personality, it's more a default requirement. Personality imo is what comes after the basic requirements are met. But I can see why someone would say that's personality and why it's very important.
@@DudeImWayBetter I would say, though, women care more about personality than do men. Men just want women to not be bitches. Women, on the other hand, want men to be confident, caring, affectionate (but not needy) and the list goes on.
Women marry a lifestyle, not the man. I agree for some women. I know some of them. But deeply inside they are not happy, I can testify of that. On the opposite side, here I am, always put forth "the man" and still single because most men, unfortunately, put forth physical beauty standards instead of inner beauty. Welcome to the sad reality of the dating scene.
Minute 9:37 ever since I was 33 years old I've been trying to figure out what women perceive love to be, im 42 , its 12/9/2018 , I'm still trying to come up with a few words to describe it. Because now as I'm older I've realize females don't feel love like a man does.
Juan Calderon I just turned 41 last Friday. I've been with my share of women and I see the same thing you stated. I don't even think that women know what love is these days. This Is why I'm mgtow now. I wish that some day I will find my baby but she has to be in shape, mentally stable, and financially sound. I don't care about her race because it's all pink in the middle. Lol!
olivionb mgtow... I wouldn't recommend it if you have self control. I have 4 potential girls in a given week. I would have more if I got back into practicing music and going to play at bars. I wouldn't go Mgtown though. Just go in and out and they start acting a little nuty put them on Ice. You must have more then one girl though. I've turn my love into a sharing program. Ill love a girl one day and ill love another one the next. I don't get caught up on one. Until I find a suitable girl and even then you should have one as a back up
@@juancalderon8652 I agree.
Thats because women are actually perpetual Children, they dont know what they want, they are always complaining and never happy.
Men are the fathers, we invent all kinds of things so both men and women live a safer and easier life, taking care of humans as a whole
olivionb I'm not saying its easy. But I try to stay in the game. Watch you're pockets and for STD's. Also watch out for holes in you're tires, broken windows, them stealing statues... Lol. Sometimes its better they don't know where you live. I have them in different cities
so true !!
that was for a while on my mind, but now that you've said it and defined it, its a bit more clear.
once a man can't afford a lifestyle she was in love with, she will not be happy with that man
I don't care why women marry, smart men don't get married, at least not in the eyes of the State.
The word “father” means storytelling; narrative. The word “mother” means material/physical world. Now when I put into perspective the title alone of your video it somewhat makes sense. Females want a certain narrative or lifestyle ( father) and Males want a physical body ( mother ) Interesting...
Ranin Zadviylet Anthony Robbins has numerous videos about relationships. Love is when men and women have things in common; passions are opposites. It’s that spark of passion that creates life. Women want safety but I think at certain times they want things that are new and risky
I didnt even watch the video yet but the title hit me harder than snoop dogg smoking a blunt
" I almost had to socialize last night" 😂😂😂
If you promise her the world you will get her. even if you lie.
hahahaha man don't do women like dat bro they fragile lol
Yup you can lie , she will hold you to it. And then she will say that you lied to her .
And when you cant deliver, she'll leave you
"... at the molecular level." Hahaha. Subscribed.
Is it weird i see this guy as a wise grandfather? I didnt know mine very well so its nice lol
Holy shit. This is the first video I've seen, I don't know who you are or what you do, I'm not even sure what this video even is yet. But you spat enough father like wisdom my direction that I already feel like looking up to you. Good stuff.
"Women marry the lifestyle, not the man. Men marry a body." This is a fantastic quote. This may be an unpopular take on that, but I find many parallels in Christ and His Bride (aka 'the Body of Christ', aka the Church).
Tbh, I've been finding massive parallels between female nature, the way that women behave with men, and the way that men in general behave with God. Men need God only when He can do something for them. Even when He died for them, personally, they say it's not enough and accuse Him of not loving them enough.
We only "love" God because we want His life, we need life. And we want someone to be there to fix things and provide for us. But do we truly love God the way He loves us? No. We're not capable of that. I find many parallels of this in the way that women are unable to truly love men back the way that men love them.
The Bible says that men are to love women as their own bodies, as Christ loves His own Body (the Bride, the Church). It says that men are the head, and women are the body, just as Christ is the head, and man is the body. It's a hierarchy, a set order of things. If you study female nature long enough, this all becomes clearer and clearer imo.
Women are unable to love us as our true selves because they were made FROM us, they're not men deep down. They're incomplete. It's the same with us men and God. We are but a breath, fragile and unable to be God and thus not need him (unable to truly BE the man).
Anyway, it's something to think about and I thought I'd share.
Zusk85 👍👍👍👍
Zusk85 great understanding there.. the more u think about it the more it makes sence,
🖒Interesting analysis... 🤔.
Mind blowing how much sense this makes. It's TRUE that man takes God for granted on this earth for sure. Man is the mightiest of beings , but when things hit the fan that's when he seeks God. Man is sometimes too logical, too rational, and doesnt remember his spiritual needs. He thinks all is on the earth and all can be explained, but that is far from true. Our physical minds can not ever begin to understand things of the spiritual realm. Man easily leads woman to a bed, but seldom do I see man lead her to salvation (God) . By men being the leaders, and God so desperately wishes they led well to find ultimately "him" ...man is failing miserably, and giving into sin. He is inadequate. This in no way releases woman of her debauchery. #ManYouHaveMeThinking
@@amazinggrace313 I agree, men who are having dealings with women should put God first. They'll be less inclined to wander into danger following after their own lust, and it shifts the focus away from needing or earning the woman and takes your own ego out of the equation.
Ultimately it makes a man more desirable, but you redirect the woman's desire toward God and you are rewarded in your faith for doing so. Pursuing sex just lands you in the hypergamy cycle, and you ultimately come out worse than when you entered, potentially much more so. It's so much more rewarding to redirect them toward the Father, and this applies with men and women both. But especially women.
When dealing with women, men should always be chaste, cordial, and firm. Doing this will weed out most women anyway, because most modern women want nothing to do with a Christian who has taken a vow of chastity. There's really no gain or manipulation angle for them in that.
I love this video, I feel like we're just having a calm discussion together, so relaxing, you're not spouting content to my face in short time like other videos
Your so right Goerge on that my mom use to say that women don't marry for love they do 4 money or comfort. As always u are on the one. With wisdom. The 🤔😉✌
Some women marry for love. Some marry for money.
Us smart women marry for love AND money.
Why drive on a half tank of gas? Just say no to "either or" mentality.
It makes no logical sense.
"hmmn. I can marry a successful person ORRRR I can fall in love"
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@Victoria Johnsen there's your comfort. He makes you happy and I wish more women would think longterm like this
@Victoria Johnsen are you an intuitive or sensor personality type of person ? Intuitives see the world primary through the abstract, the possibilities and sensors primary through the concrete , the data so basically the opposite.
This would explain how we internalise concepts such as love, for the intuitive it would be anything that represents the ideals of love and for the sensor it would be the representation of love in a concrete way e.g. love through providing ( resources ).
This is just a theory based on personality type mbti with what I've been reading in comments
@@lisar3777 define 'successful person'. Men fall in love with women regardless of their bank accounts, why can't women be like that?
@@jameshuffmar1765
Back in 2006-8ish I saw a survey or poll somewhere online. I don't remember how it was worded but The question was basically asking men and boys if they would marry a wealthy woman if they could.
Something like 90% of the men who responded said YES THEY WOULD.
And I remember how enraged I got by that.
A career feminist might have looked at those results gleefully and thought "well that's encouraging. Maybe men aren't intimidated by strong successful women who earn more money than them. Thank goodness! Oh happy day! We are making a difference! "
But my thought was something quite rude and outside my nature "you piece of sh*t mother eFers."
I shut down. I sat on my floor traumatized and seething because I interpreted the results like
"so, 90% of men who call me a gold digger behind my back in community gossip sessions WOULD MARRY A FINANCIALLY STRONG WEALTHY WOMAN IF THEY COULD! !?? you piece of sh*t mother eFers"
I now and forevermore interpret the word "gold digger" as just a phrase of jealousy tossed by people who WOULD marry a real estate developer if they could but they can't meet one. And if they meet one, they can't seduce one. While I barely had to try. It fell into my lap as easily as me dropping a food crumb into my lap. It's a term of envy!
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"gold digger Lisa"
"jealous 90%!!"
But to answer your question.
I spent my first 5 years after immigrating to America living in the nasty part of Baltimore (my sponsors who took me in lived above their ghetto business).
I've seen the kind of community poor men create. They create violent war torn communities full of police tape and bullet casings. They abandon their children en masse thus leaving 75% of kids in fatherless homes.
They fight, brawl, stab, shoot, kill, rob, mug, cuss, flunk, join gangs and pace through life like an aimless apocalyptic zombie. The good poor men are too cowardly to stand up to the zombies that prey on the hood. "Snitches get stitches! I ain't seen or heard NUTTIN!"
So why do we marry successful men? To get as far away from the zombies and the cowards as possible.
I married a successful husband because I could!
But the stress of raising my kids to be strong enough to take over his business successfully and not destroy the livelihood of his employees took quite a few years off my life!
Marrying a business owner comes with an incredible responsibility society isn't even aware of. I had to raise his next business generation.
That's an 8 days a week 25 hours a day job.
There’s this line in the movie Trading Places (1988) where Dan Akroyd is so thankful for how sweet and nice Jamie Lee Curtis is being to him. He sees it as though she has feelz for him. Her response: “I’m just protecting my investment Louie”. She sees this potential lifestyle if she can help him get back in his feet.
Ohhh how true this is... I grew up around spoiled, overindulged parents (and their friends), that always had the luxury of having their moneyed parents come up with the difference, or bail them out of jams completely... They learned little or nothing about being self sufficient and appreciated even less, always looking for something "new and different" all the time, and that included many a fling, up until things got old with them...Then it was time for something else! I broke away from all this BS at 18 and went out on my own, blazing my own trail... To this day, people who are lifestyle-oriented, and never satisfied with anyone, nor anything - tend to get very old with me - VERY FAST! I've never married, nor had any children as a result, and I want neither one now... Luxuries and lifestyles don't mean jack to me, because I've been there, and done that, and all I see most of the time with many is waste, waste, waste! I don't have much now, and I've always kept things kind of lean because to me, these "trappings of life" are just as the name implies, mostly excess garbage weighting you down, putting far too much stress upon the psyche, always worrying about losing it, and then not being accepted by anyone because one cannot "keep up"! How single-minded, hollow, and shallow can people be? Like a bunch of rats running around mindlessly in a maze - pathetic! I'm pretty much a loner from the gate, so I don't let any of that bother me, and I still have quite a few years left...Even if my situation should change for the better, unless someone comes into my life who likes me for whom I am, instead of just another "jack-ass enticed by a carrot dangling in front of them" (and that's the way I look at 90% of the populace, both men and women alike), everything I have - is for me!
Idk you, I just found your channel, and I wanted to say thank you, I really needed to see this. You earned my subscription faster than anyone else
I am not sure why I got married. He asked me lol and that's why. When I realized it wasn't going to be a marriage where I get to stay home, be a homemaker, and a perfect Catholic wife, I dropped my expectations of everything. Still married, and we hardly ever have a right. He discovered Mad Men and is all alpha now bossing me around LOL. I totally love it!👋👋
@Peter Sterling No. I love watching him turn into the alpha I knew he was for like...ever lol
You are a cool and good wife 🙂👍
You do know the alpha wolf theory is untrue, and is not applicable to humans, right?
@@NSLBC I prefer having my man be the leader though or at least have input into decisions I make that affect us both
I understand.
Man, you're brilliant. Your videos are like a session of self-knowledge.
It’s true, life is not fair.
The pursuit of egalitarianism is evil and miserable.
Yeah when you pay back everything you've stolen then we'll call it even asshole
@@UnityFromDiversity ok so point out 10 that you've actually truly known in real life? Or is this conversation about what we've seen in UA-cam too? You MIGHT KNOW one phsyco feminist, I'd be surprised if you truly knew two.
@@UnityFromDiversity people really need to start acting rationally if they want to fix things instead of being uselessly PISSED OFF like this asshole. And your comment sound really cool, but I wanna see that graveyard.
@@UnityFromDiversity I'm almost positive you only think you know what communism by the corruption of an idea that was supposed to help people, and I pretty positive you think you know what feminism is by the corruption of an idea that was supposed to help people. Either way, what does foes feminism or communism have to do with all woman. I personally have nothing to do with either of these things, I thought he was talking about life and relationships. If you want to start another topic please click over on the next video so you cab keep your points straight.
@@UnityFromDiversity that's like saying all Germans should take one for the team because the holocaust happened, open your eyes man not everyone is bad here your not alone lol stop spreading hate
15 minutes in and already subbed. This is the most valuable influx of information I’ve ever received from a UA-cam Channel.
100% true and love is not what you WER told
"Work with what you have..."
Because what you have, is enough. The only consideration is what to do with whatever you have.
George Bruno is..."the most interesting man in the world!" Thanks for the inspiration. Cheers
Ive been browsing through your videos. This one caught my eye. The title is painfully true.
"Men want to replace the body and the sex". Hmmm - do you really believe this one fully, George? I agree with most of your points, but I think this one made me think a little bit. I am 51 and also divorced and for the past 5 years I have done the "replace the body and the sex" thing. But I have found that It's pretty hollow at the end of the day. Granted I am not complaining, but for me the "Unicorn" now is that physical attraction combined with the genuinely cool, good-hearted person you actually want to wake up with. I think the idea of this perfect companion is indeed a Unicorn, I don't buy into "one-itis" and therefore I find myself actually turning down physical opportunities and spending more time by myself these days, then dealing with the perpetual deli line of "lifestyle seekers" who are out there. My 2 cents.
You might just have libido issues
@@blahadestiny1604 Yeah, could be my age - but honestly I have been pretty productive on that realm since my divorce. For me I am more drawn to intimacy rather than just a high numbers count - after a while they just blur together.
@@The333 I agree with this. I had a very beautiful girlfriend for about a year who met almost all of my physical wants, but at the end of the day she was just an airhead and I was miserable with her. Fast forward a year and I dated a significantly less attractive girl who made me very happy. We had great sex and she was a pleasure to spend time with. I'll never go back to chasing the physical. And for what it's worth, I'm only 26 and have no libido problems. It's simply a matter of quality of life.
I agree Tooch. In my case I married a very plain looking woman who had an amazing, easygoing personality that I clicked with. I dated way better looking women before her, but I never felt that amazing chemistry with them like I did my ex wife. Not every guy focuses on the body and sex for marriage. In fact in my personal experience, the hotter the woman, the more annoying and uninteresting they tend to be. The best sex I ever had was with a woman who was constantly stirring up drama. It was fucking exhausting. She wanted to marry be, but no fucking way was I going to make a mistake by thinking with my dick. The main thing I miss about my ex wife was the intimacy and close friendship. I got very ill and that sort of fucked up our marriage, but until then I was happy as could be with an average looking ( but very traditional and feminine ) chick who I shared tons of interests with.
I think the point is women mostly just bring the body and sex as they often have little money! Not saying the hottest chick, but a willing partner!
Not what I was expecting, given the title, but an interesting collection of thoughts. My takeaway was certainly the message about reviewing your reward system. I think that's an exceptionally fresh perspective to consider.
It makes me wish I'd had a stronger father figure growing up. As a 31 year old guy I can see my past more clinically now, and it's become obvious to me that my father wasn't there since I was five and my step dad was stable but approached the issue of actually raising me with trepidation.
Anyway, point is, I'm thankful for this video and others like it that help to fill in the gaps with such vital information.
When you love 50 people you have 50 problems; when you love no one you have cero problems. Buddha.
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Absolutely floored by this vid.
Ive been unplugged since the late 2000’s and the first third of this video blew me away with how it was presented.
Love this message of work with what you have or maximize it. It's never stressed enough. Never considered the negative reward system. You're really teaching how to truly rewire. Kudos to you!
This was so good. 2019- I will not argue with women. I love it. This is the first video of yours that I've seen. I've been kicking around a return to the gym as well...
The ad that followed your video was for the "Fisher-Wallace Stimulator". I'm not kidding. Slow, hypnotic music played while a woman sat down comfortably in a chair, then very calmly and carefully dipped electrode pads into water, slipped them under a headband over each side of her head just behind the eyes, connected a wire to a little box in her hand, started shocking her own head, and smiled. "Releases Serotonin" , it said.
Now women can electrocute themselves into happiness! Or, at least, pay to try it. Anything but living in ways that authentically generate self-esteem. That's too much work. I suppose this is a remedy for all the brain sizzling SSRI's they have been taking. In the US, one in four women is on some sort of pyscho-active drug. One in four!
Un-fucking real.
Enjoyed your video!
Before i dumped my girlfriend i told her from now on she pays for everything and do all the arrengment and driving and I provide myself to her. Her reply was " why would I agree with someone who hates me" . lol
Well...Why did you say that? Kinda sounds like you guys were in this thing called a fight lol
@@derpderpson8803 it wasn't really a fight. After a while I realized she was nothing but a gold digger so I turn the table around that's when she didn't like the idea of her paying for things and chauffeuring around
Fair enough sorry. I really wish there were more people on here that aren't so fueled on anger. I don't like the way the world is more than anyone else but we need to work together to fix it instead of dividing ourselves they're all just falling into that trap. Don't you get it black vs white christian vs Muslim democratic vs Republican fundamentalist right vs the left men vs women. Start looking for the polarity that all these conflicts start the truth is always between the lines. Everything is only half truth.
@@derpderpson8803 thank you and Peace!✌
@Sonia Peters ua-cam.com/video/y2DJa3a2FoQ/v-deo.html
It’s taken me 3 yrs to accept the red pill....but finally I have seen the light. Let me tell u it wasn’t easy....the truth isn’t what we want to hear, but it’s something we HAVE to Hear and listen to. Even if 99% of others will attempt to disprove the truth or claim your selfish blah blah blah. And u look at their lives and they suck...terrible, always complaining and unhappy.
I’m very happy we’re I’m at. I just found your channel and love your content. Thank You
I have been overlooked for being the women men say don't exist. While I watch them date and pursue the ones they now say are so horrible. They used all the energy and means on these women. And they are bitter and say "all women are.....) But like attracts like and if you got shallow women it's because you were shallow going by looks alone seeking to please the ego only.
very well put Lanita,,, it is also true of women and applies to both sexes...like does attract like..if you want a deep ,honest,balanced,loving partner, one must first Be such a person to attract such a person..
Please please make more videos about your insight and women and friends and how they are our content creators. I feel blessed that I saw your video on my feed today. I come from a different culture and country. But yet I feel so relatable and relevant your giving. Make more videos like these .
If you ask a girl to marry you and she says yes because of the lifestyle she will have, you asked the wrong girl: if you ask a girl to marry you because of her image/body, you have no right to be marrying someone until you grow up a bit more.
You're such a savage, I appreciate your views and stories.
Dammit now I want coffee
Eleven 11 I'm going to get some
Paul Nicholson good man :)
11:36
Same buddyeh
@@conormcgregor2547 ABC. Coffee is for closers!
My GF and i have been together for 24yrs ..we never wanted to be married..we are together by choice, day to day and not bound by a ring or promises or paper....nothing will Keep 2 people together but the love you have from moment to moment...there are Always tough times, struggle, trials and hurdles in ANY relationship and those who think they need to just find the "right" person so they wont have to deal with that shit are kidding themselves and living in a fantasy world...Any serious relationship will have its hard times,its a guarentee ..Going thru the fire, with another, will strengthen ur bond,deepen ur love and appreciation of each other...people who run from one relationship to another the moment things get hard completely miss the point of it, which is to develop and deepen the understanding of urself, for relationship is a mirror ....From that understanding, Love grows
Right off the bat I can tell this man knows something.
@LazicStefan i'm not a woman - i'm a 63 yr old male who is immortal but when i go to heaven i will be this girl - the queen of heaven
Katie Spade ook then
@@Johnbender Sounds like I'm crazy. I know. But those are the facts.
Katie Spade oh fuck yeah
@@katiespade8625 that is the best fucking comment ever.
thank you. I cant believe I've just found you. You are amazing more people/men need to find you.
1.Not looking for another child not looking for another codependent Aka. (Women )
2. Never pay top dollar for used merchandise.
So true. I was texting a girl and I was flirting so I told her to continue to be the queen that she is - beauty. She told me to continue being so knowledgeable and intelligent. She values intellect and money.
Sometimes men marry a lifestyle, because the woman might have more than the man.I'm not rich but I've been the one with the home and responsible.
Very rare
I used to dislike these videos cause I thought they were slow but then I realized its really for men who are Present and on their mission and now I appreciate these videos differently
I'm a woman watching this, haha, I'm not the norm but I don't go with guys that can provide for me or are rich. I just look for people that work ashard on themselves as I do (sometimes hard work doesn't translate into riches)
Just got this video suggested. Never heard of the channel before. 9 seconds in and what I’ve heard so far is ”Stirring my coffee with chop-sticks, using the vortex method. The only true way to optimize the taste of your coffee”
This alone made hit the Subscribe-button.
Same with me. As soon as I heard the that, i clicked on "subscribe". :-)
This is really referring to people who are not really capable of love. And yes, those not capable of love will marry for other reasons. Not everyone's wired for love, though not many will accept
if they are not.
exactly ,i think this this content is made for superficial bitter people.
Exactly! This guy is right but he’s right about a lot of women. But not all. I ain’t fuckin stupid. I know what he’s saying is dead ass true and good things to be aware of. The world is this fuckin ugly. Just not all of it.
This dude is the real deal his knowledge is priceless!
A man speaking out what we all think 😁
I love the way you think. People never understood me when I was in great shape in my early 20’s and I told them I didn’t go party to pick up girls with my muscular body. They were even more confused when I told them alcohol was basically poison. (Not against it, just not my thing).
I am kind of stuck in red pill rage, how do I get out of this?.
Go run until you can’t run anymore then shower and read a book.
Take the law into your own hads
@@bindi123pepper123 Jesus
You don't, never
Work on yourself. Go to the gym. Work on your career. Try different girls. Foreign women are a lot better than Americans, my Russian girlfriend is almost to good to be true.
My mother always told me , women will love you for who you are.
I am now 36 , and 1.5 years ago I found the red pill.
Once I found the truth, I came to a cross roads, what attracted me in the first place for women is them liking me for who I am but since that’s impossible what do I do now?
Still in lingo, still a bit angry but I’d like to get out of the anger and accept it and be positive. This I find Challenging.
This is why you find a poor girl who has been a poor girl her entire life, never bring her to the United States or don't let her have American friends. You will live a happy life! Alot of men have low quality American women. They think their looks is enough everytime. My wife is Croatian and the first thing I said to her was that I was broke. She looked at me and said "so".
We need more men and women like your wife in this world.
@@dragonfishing it's very sad lol
@Young Victor she is white from Croatia 🇭🇷 beautiful cultured women from there
@@Lexmorningstarnz we do for sure. It's hard to find in the U.S.
wow, you are lucky man. me living in southeast asia, if i said i'm broke, i will have no chance at all, haha
"You've never heard me talk fast before."
You said this immediately after talking about UA-camrs. Thank you very much for speaking in a calm and respectful manner. I am tired of this million-words-a-minute no-attention-span style all over UA-cam.
Normally i'm a pretty cynical skeptical person, and think that most people are full of shit. But for some reason, after only 30 seconds of listening to this guy, I find him to be very charismatic and genuine, like what he has to say is authentic and comes from a quality person (he is also very handsome for his age no homo). I'm subbed, and I believe this guy has a lot to tell me about the true nature of women and life in general, lets see if my initial observation is correct.
You only have control of yourself. You attract who are you are. So be the person you want to attract!
best beard on youtube!
Yeah him, Entrepreneurs in Cars, & Minority mindset have some pretty nice beards
So clean!
and voice
Women will always stick around as long as there getting what they need and want. When the money runs out, there on to the next ATM ( man )
Most, not all.
This is why Im so glad I married my wife which we have been together since we met at 15 years old. When women are that young they arent thinking about finding a man that is well off, all they care about is the person. We got married at 23 and have been married for 18 years. I love her as much, if not more, than from the beginning and she says the same. Im broke as hell too!
you're lucky guy...yup, i agree with you. One of my friend has a girlfriend of score 10 and she is a stable woman, they are together since 15. The single women you meet above 21 age are always toxic and freak of a nature and sad part is I'm in love with one of those...
I must say I felt very free to shut up and listened.
Good words and wisdom tips.
God bless you.
Dude your voice is so satisfying
If you marry a woman who doesn't offer herself to you without resistance, unconditionally, will die for you if you ask her too, and be any way that pleases you just for the joy of being in your presence, then you have acquired a Depreciating Asset. If you find one that does meet this strict criteria, then she may be a keeper. Just remember that YOU ARE THE PRIZE. and it's the woman who has everything to gain. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS.
I knew it. The world is awesome! Reality was a lie. Thank God! Im free.
I don't know why this video was in my recommendation...But, I was curious and listened for a bit. As a woman, I have to thank you for teaching men to take themselves out of the game and go their own way. It's a tough world, and unless you are predator, you're a prey. As the nature intended, all successful predators adapt and actually enjoy the challenging game. The weaker ones get eaten. Complaining is futile, facts are facts. So, to all mgtow men, the sooner you take yourself out of the game the less likely you'll be an unintended collateral damage. Kisses and enjoy the view from your trenches.
Dang!! Well said Kasey.
That beard is so satisfying.
@George Bruno Sir, I hope you thank god for giving you such a beautiful voice.
Isn't this the guy who did the Mexican Beer commercials Worlds Most Interesting Man.
This is what he does on his day off.
Couldn't be way... better looking HA!
When I was single , I went to singles dances, and there were mostly average looking women there, but then I was invited to an officer's club dance and I was shocked at how many beautiful women were there, and it hit me, these girls are smart , they want to meet the smart , rich military guys, they want that life.
Bingo
Another good morning to you Mr Bruno.
This is powerful, George. As in,”What lifestyle am I projecting to my next girlfriend?”
Man caves were a lot cooler when they were Dens.
When my ex left me she said exactly this: “our lifestyles don’t align”. What she really meant was…I want and deserve a lifestyle, not a boyfriend.
As a woman over 50, I'm so happy I remained single. The men I meet now are broke financially (from failed marriages) and talk about their erection issues big time. Thank goodness..I'm financially stable and heading towards retirement.
thank you for imparting your wisdom to a young man out in the world, much appreciated
Great video, should be mandatory for all high school seniors! Also, what’s your opinion on school teachers? I always thought it would be a good career choice to be a positive influence on the youth but in today’s society I think that it might be too idealistic.
We need more male teachers. Waaaaay too much feminism injected in education. Not good
Thanks for this, Focusing on rewards that impact positively and bring growth
Ethiopian coffee is my favourite cawfeeee
I am Kenyan but I prefer the Ethiopian one. Its the best to me too
What’s crazy is my mom even told me don’t get married lol
The title is the truth