Q&A: ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS! MOM GUILT, BABY #2, AND MORE! | OLIVIA ZAPO

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  • @jessicawhatley8357
    @jessicawhatley8357 6 років тому +24

    Since I'm almost 18 weeks pregnant I've been binge watching your videos since I found you a week or so ago and I can't get enough! You're mom goals.

  • @spurstillidie123
    @spurstillidie123 5 років тому

    I recently found your channel & am OBSESSED. I’m currently 17 weeks pregnant w my first baby, a baby boy! And your videos have helped so much cause I am terrified! About the growing, breast feeding, postpartum care, all that fun stuff! And your videos have helped so much & your labor video had me CRYING for hours. Thank you for all the videos you’ve posted over the last year, and just know your honesty & advice is greatly appreciated ❤️❤️

  • @makethekutwithshelby
    @makethekutwithshelby 5 років тому

    I recently came across your videos a few weeks ago, I am 18 weeks along with baby #2 and I have found comfort in your videos even just feeling like I’m sitting down with a mama friend just simply talking, your relatable!

  • @jacquelineureta7699
    @jacquelineureta7699 6 років тому +8

    I so feel you on not realizing/knowing how hard the newborn stage is. Those first 3 months 🙀

  • @gloriahuh1232
    @gloriahuh1232 6 років тому

    New mom here with an infant. I started following you when I was pregnant and I love seeing all your tips and seeing a peek into your life. Thank you for sharing all your love!

  • @dawndanelle3488
    @dawndanelle3488 6 років тому +5

    I love that youve been doing so many videos Olivia! Love you! Heading over to Instagram to follow you! Merry Christmas to your beautiful family💙🎄

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      Yay thank you so much for watching!! ❤️ Merry Christmas!! 🎄 xoxo

  • @daniellemoore5240
    @daniellemoore5240 5 років тому

    My baby is 2 weeks old, I've been going through some PPD, your videos have really helped me, you have a sweet soul, thank you Olivia! 💜

  • @kianahwallace8280
    @kianahwallace8280 5 років тому

    been loving your videos 💜

  • @hollykovacs1343
    @hollykovacs1343 6 років тому +4

    Liv, you are so real and kind...I love watching your videos and seeing sweet little Christian. Merry Christmas! P.S. You would be so welcomed in Ontario, especially by me lol!

  • @jordanwatts6237
    @jordanwatts6237 6 років тому

    You are so sweet and down to earth!! My little one is 7 weeks old and this video really helped me feel like all the things I am going through are normal! Thank you! ❤️❤️

  • @caitlin6324
    @caitlin6324 6 років тому

    You look so calm, happy and you're so wise! Mom goals!

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      Aw thank you!! 💛 thanks for watching!

  • @raelynrepp3866
    @raelynrepp3866 6 років тому

    I LOVE your videos!! I’m due in May with my first and I watch your videos daily because they teach me so much. Thank you for doing all you do ❤️

  • @kimberlyann4547
    @kimberlyann4547 6 років тому

    Omg! This video was so helpful on so many levels! Thank you so much for all the mommy tips and advice. Your were right on so many things too and I’ve been feeling a lot of the same feelings!

  • @tifffanyrose
    @tifffanyrose 6 років тому +3

    yay! i love watching your videos!!💗

  • @seasonforassault
    @seasonforassault 6 років тому

    29 weeks pregnant and found your vids at the perfect time. Thank you for your content, it’s really appreciated. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas! 💚

  • @deadchannel772
    @deadchannel772 6 років тому

    My husband and I are currently planning on conceiving this year, and I’m enjoying learning from your videos!

  • @alexandraherrera3427
    @alexandraherrera3427 6 років тому

    Thank you for the Q&A! Your videos have been so helpful in preparing for mom life (I’m almost 41 weeks) and seeing Christian grow is amazing. You really put things in perspective. So, thank you! Happy holidays to your beautiful family! 🤗😘🎄

  • @rachelm8142
    @rachelm8142 6 років тому

    You look gorgeous!! It’s so clear how amazing of a mom you are with that smiley giggling boy on your lap! Love your videos 💕

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      That’s so sweet!! Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @monserratlindazuri4636
    @monserratlindazuri4636 6 років тому

    I love this video. I’m a new mom to a 5 month old and so much great advice and tips and just a good talk on this video. And of course Christian so adorableeeeeee

  • @cherisab4914
    @cherisab4914 6 років тому

    Your videos are my favorite! My son is 6 weeks old now and I LOVE all your mama advice!

  • @klskristen
    @klskristen 6 років тому

    I’d love to see a video on how you pamper yourself and maintain your “me time”!!

  • @kenzk5172
    @kenzk5172 6 років тому +1

    Going to be a first time mom in July, still feel like i am freaking out and there is so much more i want to know. But your videos help so much!!!

  • @jacklyneshallufypacheco7710
    @jacklyneshallufypacheco7710 6 років тому

    Loved seeing my questions in the video! Thanks for answering everything ❤️

  • @marlenepiedra6514
    @marlenepiedra6514 5 років тому

    I'd love a hair treatment vide!! Also I love you makeup❤

  • @lesyeuxpetillants6538
    @lesyeuxpetillants6538 6 років тому

    New suscriber! I like your mom videos! Pregnant with first baby starting the 3rd trimester:)

  • @christianaaddobea580
    @christianaaddobea580 4 роки тому

    Wow 🤩 that heart melting

  • @AlyssaLovejoy
    @AlyssaLovejoy 6 років тому +4

    Love your vids! I’m due in April and I’m trying to learn as much as I can 😆

    • @leeni219
      @leeni219 6 років тому

      Alyssa Lovejoy I’m also due in April! ❤️

    • @MszCharney
      @MszCharney 6 років тому

      Same 😂❤

  • @charmedmama9439
    @charmedmama9439 6 років тому +8

    Lol people ask “when are you having another baby?” Before you give birth! Or maybe that is just me lol. Side note, my son and daughter are 4.5 years apart and they are obsessed with each other and I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant and the girls will be 3.5 years apart which is kind of nice because my daughter is now In preschool so I’ll have the couple hours a day to focus on just the baby.

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому +1

      That is so nice!! I love hearing about the age differences in others’ children - so helpful as we think about expanding our family! Congratulations on baby number 3! 😍❤️

  • @hford101
    @hford101 6 років тому

    You're amazing! Videos help me and baby boy so much! Merry christmas 💗

  • @brittneyruschhaupt1489
    @brittneyruschhaupt1489 5 років тому

    Can you please do a video on your stroller? I am newly pregnant and trying to figure out about strollers and have found your videos so helpful throughout my pregnancy! Thank you and keep up the great work! Love your channel!

  • @hannahchristy2666
    @hannahchristy2666 6 років тому

    I got pregnant when my first son was the same age as Christian, they are now 18months and 4 months so let me just say you are SMART for waiting longer!

  • @Mrs.JamieLambert
    @Mrs.JamieLambert 5 років тому

    Your baby boy is sooo cute!

  • @MissEllaReads
    @MissEllaReads 6 років тому

    You look amazing Olivia! Love your make up!

  • @Foodandlifelately
    @Foodandlifelately 6 років тому

    Look up to you so much! My son (only child so far) is about a month behind Christian. I had super awful postpartum anxiety so I really relate. 💕💕💕💕

  • @nayraFOO
    @nayraFOO 6 років тому

    You’re such a great mom 😍

  • @beatrizm420
    @beatrizm420 6 років тому

    Please film the postpartum hair loss video and the mommy self care/pampering video!! My baby is four months and it has been difficult getting some pampering time in.

  • @leahbarkley8626
    @leahbarkley8626 6 років тому

    My kids are 4 years apart and it's AMAAAAAZING. It made the newborn phase SOO easy. Big brother helped with the baby and was also old enough to entertain himself and needed very little from me while I was recovering. Also, to comment on your breastfeeding..I'm still breastfeeding my baby and she's 14 months. It's the best! And I don't believe there is any way to wean or stop..i kinda think it's up to each baby lol but once you do stop it seems they instantly are older and you no longer have a baby!!!

  • @GreylinGissel
    @GreylinGissel 6 років тому

    You miss the link for Ebates 😉, I loved the video! Thank you 😁 hi from Houston from a Venezuelan

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      Ahh I knew I was missing something!! Thanks for the reminder! It’s in there now 🤗💞

  • @orhidejaskale6452
    @orhidejaskale6452 6 років тому

    He is adorable!!

  • @alexandreasaunders9300
    @alexandreasaunders9300 6 років тому

    Postpartum during the holidays isn’t as great as it seems because it’s hard to work out and eat healthy with all of the holiday snacks and such!

  • @nievesgarcia3003
    @nievesgarcia3003 6 років тому

    Dogs ,baby more babies full hand! 😂 Merry christmas Guys! Baby so cute.

  • @makethekutwithshelby
    @makethekutwithshelby 5 років тому

    The saving a percentage put your paychecks is an awesome idea but also not realistic for some people I know for us we need every dollar to pay our bills every month

  • @c.m.8590
    @c.m.8590 6 років тому

    I loved your yolo shpeal. I think a lot of us women have issues with anxiety and trying to plan too much.

  • @amirahmuhammad5813
    @amirahmuhammad5813 6 років тому

    Thanks for answering my bra question your video on it was very helpful 😆

  • @jamiedavis9113
    @jamiedavis9113 6 років тому

    ❤️ your videos!! I have been watching since I was pregnant. My son Archer is 3 and a half months old and YESSS 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 the postpartum/newborn phase IS hard lol. People on UA-cam do notttt talk about that enough I don't feel like. Also, took you long to lose the baby weight?! He's 7 month old and you look gorgeous, girl!

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      Thank you so much!! 😭🤗 that 4 months felt like forever! Lol

  • @MsJo155
    @MsJo155 6 років тому

    Love your videos. I have a 5 and a half month old and the mom guilt is real 😫

  • @Sam-fc2ir
    @Sam-fc2ir 6 років тому

    Hey there just started watching your videos! I'm also from Ohio originally but since deciding to have a baby going to move back this coming year shortly before trying for baby. :) Love your headboard, and you and baby are both adorable!
    What made you move all the way to CA?

  • @amw804
    @amw804 Рік тому

    And now you have 4! 😂❤

  • @JAZ1630
    @JAZ1630 6 років тому

    Where is your sweater from? And your lipstick? You always look so gorgeous by the way. I’m 28 weeks and love all your content.

  • @savannahkizzia4904
    @savannahkizzia4904 6 років тому +3

    What eyeshadow are you wearing? So pretty 💕

    • @jessicawatson142
      @jessicawatson142 6 років тому

      Eye shadow and sweater!? Love your whole look!

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      Thank you!! Eyeshadow is a palette from Boxycharm and sweater is Nordstrom!

  • @holly1324
    @holly1324 6 років тому

    Where is your sweater from? 😍 I love it!

  • @serenap2154
    @serenap2154 6 років тому

    I agree with your “mom guilt” that’s mine too!

  • @fmm269
    @fmm269 6 років тому +15

    What is your full time job?

  • @AlyssaJaneVolta
    @AlyssaJaneVolta 6 років тому

    I am 6 months PP and still have 35 pounds to lose! I can’t believe how hard it has been to lose the weight! I have postpartum anxiety and postpartum OCD and it has been a struggle! I really had a hard time with him as a newborn. I agree with you that it got better at 4 months! That’s when I really started loving being a mom. Christian is so cute and you’re a great mama. Love your videos!

  • @derrikamayers4534
    @derrikamayers4534 5 років тому

    Please do daily vlogs and mommy tags please do challenges you should have 4 kids 2 girls and 2 boys to make it even

  • @lindsayfoster4759
    @lindsayfoster4759 4 роки тому

    Omg you’re from cleveland!? I live here. What high school did you go to!?

  • @britneyjeter3455
    @britneyjeter3455 6 років тому

    I live in Columbus ♥️🥰

  • @MsManoodle
    @MsManoodle 5 років тому +1

    Watching this and you’re already on baby #2 😭

  • @alauracollis6520
    @alauracollis6520 5 років тому

    Quick question, why are all the comments disabled on most of her other videos??

  • @kayleevoigts3572
    @kayleevoigts3572 5 років тому

    Is there such a thing as anti-partum depression or pre-partum depression?

  • @madelinekyle926
    @madelinekyle926 6 років тому

    How would you recommend preparing for postpartum depression now that you've been through it?

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому +1

      Just brace yourself for a little rollercoaster of emotions and prep yourself to know that if you feel things swinging to a dark place it’s a chemical reaction and life isn’t as bad as it may feel! Get outside, get fresh air, and keep yourself busy! Know you’ll get through it and it’s all temporary ❤️ the more support you can surround yourself with the easier it will be to tackle!

  • @cassiekay4155
    @cassiekay4155 6 років тому

    I'm nervous to breastfeed my second child (due on June) because I had such a hard time with my first one and unfortunately had to stop and just switch to formula. This was so important to me because she was a preemie (5 weeks early). Sleeping only 2 hours at a time because I had to nurse, then pump after that. What is your advice for moms who struggle with breastfeeding?

  • @musicaesamor1
    @musicaesamor1 6 років тому +1

    Can you elaborate as to why you don’t want him to be an only child? My husband and I are considering the pros and cons of keeping our daughter as an only child. Thank you!

    • @AA-dq5vh
      @AA-dq5vh 6 років тому +1

      Amber Nicole . . .I don't have a big family so Christmas, Easter, Halloween was lonely. I remember when I got older and went places with my parents I would just sit at a table full of adults. I wish I had a sibling to talk to and hang out with. I have two kids because I knew what it was like and it's nice to see them have eachother. Yes they fight and argue but what sibling doesn't. At the end of the day they love eachother and I know if something ever happens to me and dad they have one another to lean on

    • @jaclyncarr3598
      @jaclyncarr3598 6 років тому +2

      We are only planning on having 1 child because of a few reasons. 1. They are expensive and we want to be able to provide everything that we can for our family without having to stress over money. If our jobs change in the future then we would probably consider it. 2. My husband was a only child and didnt have a problem with it because family was around that had other kids.

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому +4

      Personally, I was always a little lonely as a kid growing up and always wanted a sibling! I think it’s different for everyone but I spent every birthday wishing for a sibling as I blew out candles and I always wanted someone to play with but spent a lot of time playing alone. My parents were good about letting me spend a lot of time with friends but I see the relationships that my husband has with his siblings (he has 7!) now as an adult and I want that for Christian since I’ll never know what it feels like to have a sibling like that. Since it was always just my mom, my dad, and me, i dream of having big family get togethers once my kids are grown with their own families too. It’s totally just our personal preference!

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      A A exactly how I feel too!!

    • @musicaesamor1
      @musicaesamor1 6 років тому

      A A All very good points! I appreciate the perspective.

  • @renir8735
    @renir8735 6 років тому

    Where did you get your sweater?

  • @brendawagoner759
    @brendawagoner759 5 років тому

    😘😘😘😘😘

  • @jazminehernandez6142
    @jazminehernandez6142 6 років тому

    I can't find that same Capital app😥

    • @oliviazapo
      @oliviazapo  6 років тому

      It’s with a Q! Here’s a link for it: get.qapital.com/G2IVqhjvPS

  • @kristikinasz1186
    @kristikinasz1186 6 років тому

    Just to encourage you a bit, breastfeeding after your baby starts eating meals and filling up with real food is SO much easier. When my daughter was 12 months we were only nursing before naps and bedtime.

  • @caitlin6324
    @caitlin6324 6 років тому

    Omg I want a girl too but feel so badly admitting it lol. I get you girl.

  • @MPresley
    @MPresley 6 років тому

    Ayyy I’m from & live in Ontario! 😂 Ahah

  • @ErikaDeOcampo
    @ErikaDeOcampo 6 років тому

    Girl you do UA-cam AND a full time job 😮 howwwww ?? I can’t keep up with my channel and my six month baby girl 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @derrikamayers4534
    @derrikamayers4534 5 років тому

    Can you please do mommy tags and challenges you a wonderful mom keep it up you need 2 boys and 2 girls hope you have a girl

  • @ryanfrieson3354
    @ryanfrieson3354 6 років тому

    Four months to lose the baby weight, Olivia? That is not awhile! But you look great anyway!