Story Time // WHY QUESTION THEIR BACKGROUND? Foster + Adoptive Parent Support-Chris
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2023
- Welcome to STORY TIME episode 1 of my Foster and Adoptive Paret support series. Here I share my transracial adoption real-life experiences and situations I have encountered while fostering and adopting. We can learn from others' stories and I feel this is the best way to truly understand what it's like to be an adoptive parent of other ethnicities. #christygior #adoptiveparentsupport #storytimeadoptiveparent
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I applaud the kids who told their parents. It's comforting to know the twins have advocates in their class.
I'm a black teacher and I would NEVER put a child on the spot like that. She should have NEVER let her personal bias or opinion enter into a situation where you publicly embarrass a child. I'm so sorry the twins had to go through that. Being transparent here, I admit, I had a different opinion about interracial adoptions but watching your family completely changed my opinion. I LOVE how you LOVE on your black children AND make it your mission to nurture and expose them to their culture. Thank you for helping me grow. That said, even when I do have an opinion about a topic I would NEVER bring that into my classroom. I always make a conscious effort to teach facts, not opinions and to teach with empathy and compassion.
So well said ❤
You are their REAL parent! You're taking care of them, raising them in a loving environment, and teaching them to love themselves! Real parent!
I’m a Black Teacher, and ignorance has No Race, this actually made me cry around the 5:38. I can’t believe you went through this, she was just being Evil. Hug those babies for all of us
I have had 5 teachers who truly touched my heart, 3 of them were black. I'm hispanic, just like there is racism in every race/culture there is also kindness. I still remember their names, faces and words and these 3 black individuals changed my life for the better. I'm 30 now and I swear to you I will always be grateful for them and I am sure there are kids who feel and will feel the same way about you even if they are a different skin tone ❤
I’m black and I could NEVER 😢 that teacher knew what she was doing. That’s just pure evil, keep being a GREAT MOMMY ❤
It is unbelievable that in 2023 we are still dealing with this stupidity.
That teacher is disgusting she should be ashamed of herself 🤦🏽♀️
As a retired teacher, these type of assignments of wanting to know a child’s background inappropriate in this day and age with so many diverse families. I’m sorry about what your twins experienced. Continue to love on them.
I don’t know that they are automatically inappropriate, so long as the teacher explains that students can do their biological family, adoptive family, foster family, step family or multiple of the above. Or if they really don’t want to do any of that offer an alternative project. Not the same but in a psych class we did projects about fictional characters’s neurodivergence. So maybe they could do it on a fictional character and their family.
I agree with you. It can do more harm with kids bringing up how both parents are in jail or complications with one parent or another. I’ve had it in my own class when kids are star student and share their poster. The kids will bring it up themselves sometimes about their family but I never do bc it’s not my business.
I agree
I agree. There's also a lot of Black people that don't know their origin.
The fact that the other kids picked up on the ignorance and was so bothered by it that they told their parents speaks volumes. That teacher is a B and don’t need to be in a classroom. She knew exactly what she was doing and I’ll bet my last dollar she knew they were adopted from the very beginning and if she didn’t, she should have known when Ace said Italy and Philippines. A 6th grade teacher that can’t put 2 and 2 together smh😡😡 don’t even get me started on what she said to Avaya 🤦🏽♀️ you have a beautiful family surrounded by so much love and that’s all that matters.
EXACTLY!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯
She knew they were adopted. She had her own agenda.
Very much so!
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I agree just like many other teachers in other schools have their own agenda. As they say there's nothing new under the sun.
Agreed. She wanted to embarrass them or make them seem like liars ..I wonder what was the issue
The teacher definitely needs some cultural sensitivity training 🤬
Please let me know this idiot's name she needs to talk too!
The other kids who spoke up and called out the teacher’s behaviour are a credit to their parents and then the parents didn’t just pass it off. That’s the kind of community/ society we need
This had me boiling! Skin folk ain't always kin folk. I love that other kids and parents supported your kids and spoke to the principal without hesitation. When will people learn anyone can be from anywhere, that was a perfect opportunity for the teacher to explain that instead, she chose ignorance. BTW love your channel you guys are great.
I’m black and let me tell you black people can be prejudice too. I hate you kids went through that ignorance. You’re family is beautiful and I can tell y’all love your kids and that’s all that matters.
So true.
Amen dealing with stuff too and the problem is with the black Mostly that keeping up the drama
Absolutely true. I’m so glad that others spoke out against it in the absence of the parents. Some people are so busy being mad that they forget to learn how to be empathetic, compassionate, and effective. This teacher probably shouldn’t be teaching anymore.
yes they can but i tried to say this on shaderoom and all the comments said b|cs cant be that cause the system not built like that
Not prejudice but racist
I'm so sorry that happened to your babies. Makes me so sad that someone who has no idea about their lives be so quick to assume and judge and to humiliate your son. You did a great job handling the situation with such class and grace. You're a great mother Christy. I have bi racial kids and I have learned a lot from you! Thank you for sharing.❤
Don't mess with Mama Christy's babies. She will let you know.
This teacher is a role model. Just a role model in whom not to be.
People are people no matter their race.
Christy, you’re an amazing mom!! Shoutout to those kids who told their parents and the wonderful parents who proactively contacted the school.
That is so cruel. It's so mean of a teacher. An adult would do something like that in front of other children
Shout out to those parents that called in about a kid that wasn’t even theirs! Talk about it takes a village! I love that!
This is heartbreaking. It made me emotional. I’m so sorry this happened
it’s also so strange to act as if there aren’t any black people in the philippines or italy like why question him at all?!
You are a GREAT Momma! You handled the situation with grace and class. That teacher knew exactly what she was doing and saying, and based on this not being the first time this has happened, administration needs to rectify the situation immediately! My sis always says to me "remember skin-folk don’t always make them kin-folk." I use to seek out Black coaches, educators for my children first and foremost...now I seek out the ones with the best characters who have my children's best interest at heart.
Ignorance knows no color. Period
Starting to learn this :/
My heart shattered while hearing your story. This is absolutely unacceptable by all means. Ignorance comes in the shape of the individual who is spewing the ignorance but knowing it's coming from an individual who is to teach and protect our children and took an oath to do so is disheartening. I just want to hug your beautiful family...We Love You Guys. Thank you for sharing something so personal ❤
This situation, for me, is more difficult because the teacher herself is a black woman :/
@ChristyGior8 she clearly has issues with white parents adopting black children. As a teacher, she should have no biases. She should just teach and help her students. Unfortunately teachers these days have agendas. Unfortunately your children became one of her agendas. She should be fired.
I wish he didn’t get embarrassed. He should’ve told her you asked what my parents background is, not mine. I wish I could’ve been a kid in that class.
Wow! Don’t allow that ONE BLACK INDIVIDUAL ruin your trust in ALL BLACK PEOPLE! I’m sorry this happened to you all! Hugs and kisses to the babies.❤❤❤
Agree 💜
Agree
This is such a sad story and I really feel for Ace and Avaya. So mature and vulnerable of Avaya to speak to the teacher to explain ahead of class that she is adopted, you must be so proud. And it is so upsetting to hear that in spite of her sound that, the teacher still went ahead and humiliated her like that in the way she did Ace. They did not deserve to have that painful experience and I feel so sad for them. That teacher was wrong. How disappointing.
Your babies are so blessed to have such loving parents❤️
And loving classmates and friends!
@@dchan4836 Yes. From the mouths of babes.
My husband is black and he absolutely hates the question “where are you from” “what is your culture?” People assume he knows and thinks he’s first generation from an island or the Caribbeans. Saying he is African American is never enough… he has no idea where his family came. I’m appalled this teacher thought this was appropriate, and she didn’t understand the repercussions of her question. You and your husband are doing a great job. I hope your kids are doing well ❤
It literally breaks my heart when adults rope innocent children into their warped way of thinking. You and your husband are their freaking parents. That teacher is so vile and hurtful. As a black woman I am mortified. May God continue to bless your beautiful family.
As a teacher she should’ve known that was unacceptable
This is heartbreaking. I still remember being that age and having a teacher humiliate me in front of the whole class so my heart goes out to Ace and Avaya. Although I didn't have the sensitivities associated with being adopted.
You've right it is an extremely tough, hard world and not everyone gets to stay with their birth parents for various reasons but isn't it a beautiful and wonderful thing that children find a happy and loving home with adoptive families?
I'm So Sorry The Beautiful Twins Had To Experience This 🫶🏾 You're Such A Great Mama I Love How You stand Up For Them ‼️‼️
I was very happy to hear that they have friends that are looking out for them to such a degree.
Oh no no no. She was beyond outta line! First, you did an AMAZING job handling this situation! I would also recommend contacting the superintendent. I work for a school and this would NEVER happen without consequence so hopefully they don't just give her a light warning. She obviously needs culture & climate/equity training. This human needs to be ashamed that she felt it was HER place to point out that you're children are black...like WTH? I'm so sorry they were treated like that!!
The fact that this is even allowed to be an assignment shocks me!
Where I‘m from (northern germany) these type of assignments are prohibited since one girl accidentally found out she was adopted in a biology class
They still do it in kindergarten. My cousin had this problem, his half German/ half black and he didn’t know how to identify himself, since if he say he’s black his choosing the mum, white chooses his dad. The kindergarten kind like always force him to identify as a black.
I'm an Indian man and I am going to adopted 4 sons from Russia , imagine all the situation about it in USA or in my country Venezuela.
Hearing about the other children’s parents reaction to the situation shows how much we’ve grown as a society. I had a very similar situation happen to my son 18 years ago and didn’t find out for a week because he was only 7 and didn’t know how to process it. Needless to say we took the same action with the school but it would have been nice to know his friends and their parents cared enough to say something too. ❤
Hmm…. I am a little floored. All I can say is thank you for sharing this with everyone. This also serves as a reminder to teach our kids to speak up when they know something is wrong. This is a great example to share with them.
So true. Just b/v a coach, teacher or other adult authority figure is the same race as your adopted children doesn't mean they'll automatically be nice or understanding. People of all colors, black, white, etc. show who they truly are through their character. It's nice when people can treat everyone the same & "see past" any color.
I’m just happy we live in a world where kids are smart enough to feel applauded and explain the situation to their parents and their parents being supportive and knowing that this is wrong and complain to the school leaders
Christy, I am so sorry that this happened to your babies!! It infuriates me that adults could be so mean! They handled it perfectly- telling their parents! This woman has caused the administration much grief. I am a former school counselor. Trust me! I know! Problematic teachers will never be fired but sometimes be forced to resign. Then they’ll move to the next school.😶
Hi! Long time supporter here. Just wanted to say that I’m so sorry that has happened to your children. As a black educator I would never allow that behavior from anyone in my classroom, teacher or student. Bullying of any form is wrong. I get your frustration, (1000%) however, this can be a learning experience for you as well. Saying you are no longer going to request black teachers/coaches/mentors etc can seem a bit counter productive considering you still do have black children that you are raising. To each their own but if we as a society let isolated incidents hinder our willingness to learn then we’d be nowhere. Again, I totally get your frustration (your story had me in tears). Sadly, we live in a world where not everyone is accepting and we shouldn’t assume that based off of race there would be an instant connection. It goes for every race.
It’s not counter productive when this incident and the others she encountered prove that their own kind( black) can be just as damaging to them mentally as any other race of people. Sadly they are better off where they are loved and that doesn’t include all black people. This will teach her children that regardless of the person has their skin color or not doesn’t guarantee that they will be an asset to them.
@@l.c7240black people are essential in every black child’s life, and she should not let this one person change her opinion on having black people in her children’s lives
I feel that the worse part is her saying i hope you meet your real parents. Imagine having a nervous breakdown right there because 'the real parents ' SA'd them or even tried to unalive them! Like seriously.
We intuitively pick up/ sense more if we are f**king less judgemental.
She tried to be funny. She knew they were adopted. Kudos to you Chrissy for standing behind your kids
This made me tear up. I'm so sorry your babies had to deal with such ignorance. I just hope it doesn't leave a permanent scar, but makes them stronger and proud to have parents who love them and friends/classmates with parents who take up for them.
Don’t be surprised. I’ve been watching you for years, and what I like about you, you don’t tokenize your adopted children for views like a lot of these channels.
Ignorance is bliss, no matter the color. You and Ed are GREAT parents and the two of you LOVE each one of the children. I was so happy and surprised, when you took it upon yourself to learn how to care for the girls hair. Props to Ed, for learning to cut Ace's hair. You have made all the kids your top priority. They have been exposed to many opportunities and experiences in their lives. You guys keep doing what you do. As long as the kids are happy....forget all the sideline haters.
That sad I’m sorry he experienced that some people just like to be nosy that all that teacher had no right to say his business out loud
Nope nope nope. Soooo sorry this happened. HORRIBLE. The assumptions, insensitivity and overall malicious energy is absolutely out of bounds. If she's been in incidents like this before she needs to be evaluated and re trained on how to work with children, or let go of. The fact that Avaya has more common sense than the teacher at her young age says enough! So sorry to hear about this Ace and Avaya, you guys did not deserve that treatment. I love that other parents called in to report the issue, even though they didn't know you personally. 🙏🏾💙🫶🏾 Sending you guys so much love!
My blood pressure has went through the roof. I hope you had a discussion with this pos!😡
I did to her boss
Wow, that was hurtful just listening to...and you guys actually had to go through that. You handled the situation very well❤😊
I’m sorry that happened to your kids but I also love how you are advocating for your children. Some teachers today really don’t know what to say.
Just a few weeks ago my son’s teacher who’s black told my kid he was acting like a street kid. I cannot wait to have a conference with her because I really want to know what that means. I also like how you teach your children to stand up for themselves in a respectful way. I do the same because at the end of the day they are human beings. Thank you for sharing.❤
This story is making me emotional. I can’t believe this happened to your kids especially coming from a teacher
Wow kudos to the two kids who told their parents and their parents acted and told the vice principal! I’m so sorry Ace was embarrassed, and that teacher should be ashamed of herself. I agree with another commenter that these assignments are beyond inappropriate, if they must be assigned they should be personal assignments and not ones that require students to be put on the spot. Luckily Ace and Avaya have wonderful parents who are always in their corner.❤
As a black woman, our black community has to do better. We know better and been through enough to not act and even think the way we do. I am not a mother but I am sorry that had happened to your babies. You are an amazing mother and they are blessed to have you❤
Your babies are so lucky to have you!
This is truly heartbreaking to hear ! That's so upsetting that the teacher even spoke to your children like that just wrong and she should've been talked to by the principal... I'm praying for your children 🙏🏽
That’s ridiculous! You should not be “used to this stuff”! She should be shame of herself! I work at an international school with all types of students and languages! I am so ANGRY at this teacher! My parents were foster parents and I have two adoptive brothers. We are a black and white t family like yours. We were not raised with color! We were raised with LOVE! I’m multicultural; that’s CRAZY! She needs to be and do better! Thanks for being a GREAT mom and advocating for ALL of your children! Keep your head up! There are many people who have your back and do not think like that! ❤❤
I totally agree and understand. I want to add that all black people are not the same. I think going out of you’re way to surround them by other black people is still important. Don’t stop asking for black teachers after one teacher was terrible.
Well said
Yeah that is odd how after only one bad experience she says this, like she didn’t want to put her kids around blk people in the first place
Unfortunately that's the world we live in..I applaud you Christy you are so great with your kiddos...never give up or give in ....stay strong and firm with you beliefs...we support you all the way...your fostering blogs is an incentive to those who want to foster❤❤❤
When a child knows it's wrong, you know it's wrong!!!! I'm so sorry that happened to yall. When you mentioned the kids knew something was wrong I knew I had to comment. Shout out to them kids!!!
This situation made me cry. Please protect your children. Don’t let anyone injure your children.
You're amazing, and so are your kids. The hate in this world is terrible. I'm glad you handled that the way you did! She needs to be fired immediately.
Wow, some people are just wicked.
You know what, I am so proud of the way you raised your children and how you cared for your family.
You’re a role model for the adoption community!
Thank you ❤
You and your husband are doing an excellent job
It doesn’t even matter what anybody from anymore
Christie keep doing what you’re doing. Your family is lovely because you are lovely.
Hi Christy,
I had to comment about your video and this situation. What the middle school teacher said to your twins was very unacceptable! That teacher obviously didn’t think our consider your children’s feelings. Speaking as a Caucasian teacher myself and a foster mom of an African American little girl, I would feel the same as you and your husband if a teacher said the same to her. I am so sorry that your family still experiences this. Thank you for this video and for giving advice for me on how to handle this when it happens, because I’m sure it will, to my foster daughter. We as parents and foster parents need to stand up for our babies. I love your channel and your beautiful family!
Carrie ❤
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I hate your babies went through this and the ignorance in this world. I’m so happy they recognized it for what it was, and stayed respectful and told their parents. It sad to say it may not be the last time. I love how you handled it and as well as them, which is a testament to their parents. ❤❤❤Which this world was a better place for all our children.
Lord Jesus🤦🏽♀️ some ppl just don't need to be in the positions they are in...how could she be so senselessly careless to do that while he's in front of the class😡 you handled it well momma👏🏼 hopefully she learns from this
"People's character is different no matter what they look like." As a Black parent, of my biological Black children, I learned this lesson the hard way too. Some people just have issues and there is no loyalty anymore. We have been taught to compete, or people have their jealousies, or opinions. All we can do is what you did. Build them up and teach them to look within themselves.
You handled the situation better than i would've. I would've been having a little "chat" with her in the parking lot after school. Glad it's being handled. ❤
Thank you for this. I have an adopted mixed race son the same age as Ace. I’ve shown him a few of your videos. This is great content. So helpful.
Im so gald, thanks for being here
Thank you for educating everyone and advocating for your kids as you always have! Im so happy with ALL of the children knowong that something was clearly wrong and SPOKE UP and im about to cry. Bless them all!!!! 🙏🏽
First off bless you for becoming a mama to these kids! I went no contact with my abusers when I turned 23. My mother-in-law and father-in-law took me on as their daughter and women and men in our community have as well. I think they know I’m an orphan. It is very hard for me to carry children and I’ve had people even ask I bet your mom is excited to be a grandma or have another grandchild. I point blank say I have a mom, but she’s my abuser and she is not allowed in my children’s life and they say oh that’s so sad for them that they don’t get to experience their grandchildren.
Thanks for the story time. I am glad that your children are no longer in that teacher's class. I think at the very least that teacher needsto have displinary action taken against her.
I would be sooooo mad 😡 there’s is no reason for her to even question them. Asking about one’s ethnic background is already personal enough.
The nerve!! The teacher knew what she was doing.. smh. I hope she was put in her place.
Gosh I’m angry 😡 did she think she could get away with that? She needs some educating herself!
So sorry your children and their classmates had to have that experience. I hope they're okay.
I haven't even finished listening to the entire story and I'm already HEATED!!!!! Christy, you are an amazing mother to those babies and they are truly blessed to have you and your husband as their parents.
Great job, Christy on how you handle that situation ❤❤❤
Wow! Keep loving on your kids Christy! You are amazing! I’m glad that other kids in the class said something to their parents! This should have never happened! Take care❤
You’re so blessed to have the best kids! You’ve raised them to be so honorable and loving! Love your family!!
Heartbreaking. That teacher had no right to say those things. HIGHLY inappropriate. These types of things keep happening all around public schools unfortunately. Just because they have the same skin, doesnt mean they automatically care about your children sadly. This is why i am fortunate to have gone to a private school with so much diversity and teachers who care. Not sure that a private school is a fit for you, but that environment might be better for your kids in the long run.
Not an internet auntie ready to go war. You are the best mom ❤
Christy I deeply appreciate the way you love on all your children and support and honor their differences. You are a phenomenal mom❤!
You’re such a loving mama! Your 6 kiddos are blessed to have such attentive parents who communicate openly. ✨
So saddened to hear that! Bravo to you Christy, for being an outstanding, loving , and protective mother!
I have been watching you videos for some years now and I loved how you handled that situation ❤ also letting your children know that you will protect them ❤
I just love you and the way you care for you kids and family. You are a great mother! 💯
this is heartbreaking, I am so sorry your beautiful kids had to experience something like this. You are an amazing mama, and they are so lucky to have you and your husband. ❤️ we all support you 100% and hope you are all doing well.
I admire how you handled this situation.
You have such a lovely family, your kiddos seem so sweet, no child/family should go through this. The teacher should know better than that, what a shame. Sending love 💕
Wow the children are getting so big it is so adorable and awesome ❤❤🎉
Wow. Love how you stand up for your kiddos and love them fiercely! You're a fantastic Mom, Christy!
Im sooo sorry your beautiful babies went through that. Please keep stay positive and keeping doing a wonderful raising your children .🙏🙌🙌
Thanks for sharing! Ugh my heart hurt for Ace as you talked about it. But luckily the twins have each other and a whole amazing, supportive family to hold them up and learn from.
I’m sorry this happened 😩 this unfortunately happens all the time. I’m biracial (half black & white) and I’m lighter than my kids and I even get this. I got it growing up people telling me I’m not black and now my kids are getting it too..
How dare this teacher!!!! 😮😢
She needs to be removed and given sensitivity training…
Really admire you and your children!! Ignore the negativity and move on! You are amazing!!
I have two cousins that are adopted. Erin always tells people yes am adopted, but am loved more than most I was chosen from the heart. What is crazy is Erin is adopted from outside of the family and looks so much like her adopted dad its so crazy. Garret is adopted within the family and looks nothing like anyone. Just shows its not all about blood. YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY!