I need to get this off my chest...
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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Not trying to complain. I can handle it, my feelings will be ok 🙂 I just hate how hypocritical/judgemental some people are (!!!) and felt like a rant was in order.
Rant away, dear, its cathartic. This sort of "damned-if-you-do-damned-if-you-don't" crap has been going on for soooo long, and won't be stopping anytime soon. People haven't learned to walk in other's shoes, so they can't even begin to understand or care. They don't matter. Have a rant. Get it off your chest. Hubby lets me rant and has learned that I'm not necessarily asking for a solution - just needing to vent my feelings of frustration. I feel stronger for it simply because the person who means the most to me has actively heard me. Occasionally, he won't agree with me - but he still understands me from where I'm coming from. When you are totally healed and freely choosing and eating your food without a care for "how-am-I-going-to-eat-this", you won't look back nor give that person a second thought. You've come so far, the journey has been worth it; if you need a rant - let her rip - I'm here for you.
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Folks, my son wanted too long to have his double jaw surgery. His molars were ground down significantly. John, obviously has never really known anyone who has needed one. I could tell your jaw was misaligned. I say: " Elephant" skin. People are going to talk which you can't control. You can let it "roll off." Hateful remarks are because those people hate themselves and picking on others is a sick way of making them feel better for a millisecond.
It is scary how unable some people are to empathize and not judge others, and in the end it is really something that is wrong with them and not the person who they are picking on. What these people want, more than anything, is to upset their victim, (in whatever way they determine is the best manipulative way) ) they do this to feel in control. They are controlling you via emotions and that psychologically makes them feel powerful. Just think how messed up they must be to feel better about themselves by trying to make someone else feel bad. That’s straight up nuts. You have helped me so much, I will forever support you. It is 100% your choices, your life, your body.
It shouldn’t matter what your reason is for getting surgery. It’s your body. That guy needs to worry about why he needs an answer to someone else’s decisions in life.
A huge piece of advice an older female friend gave me when I was your age: move towards the positive people and away from the the negative. Public forum is always going to have strange, unhelpful comments. I can see how your bite closes now. Everyone needs to vent. Take care. Sending love.
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Well said!
Absolutely!!!
I work in the dental field, in fact I have spent my career in the dental surgery field (sorry) I am completely aware of the complications that can arise from not correcting your bite! This was a totally necessary procedure I’m glad you went ahead and did it! It’s not unusual to have swelling a few weeks later. You are doing great! People who are secure in there on skin do not worry about criticizing others!
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I appreciate you being so open and sharing the experience wIth us. Rant away girl, we support you 100%! ❤️
Ditto!!
Thank you 🥺
Even if you did get it for only cosmetic reasons, people don't understand how it feels to have a misaligned jaw and not look the way you know your body should. It's not about being perfectly beautiful and being vain. The mental exhaustion and toll it takes on your mental health to be self conscious all the time SUCKS. Speaking from experience. I really hope you get all the results you desire out of this long journey 💕
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I have worked for a comprehensive/cosmetic dentist for 38 years. I understand why you had the surgery. Don't worry about what others think about you. Stay strong. Don't let insecure people make you feel insecure about yourself.
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Hey Kat.
Forget about the negative comments.
You did the right thing for yourself.
You look amazing.
Thank you Steven ❤️
As someone who has dealt with the same issue my entire life, I want to thank you so much for your vulnerability and being the resilient one who can share about this. I have the same issue when eating and I can’t even talk about it without crying. It affects your everyday life in ways that no one who doesn’t deal with this will ever understand. You’re helping people so much, thank you
I never told anyone about my difficulties eating OR my insecurities about my profile until I had committed to the surgery and got my braces on. I was so embarassed 😥 I hope you are able to find some relief and a solution for your situation ❤️ It's not easy.
Kait, you are a beautiful and sweet honest woman! Some people are just toxic! I’m sure this comment is bothering you more because you still aren’t feeling 100% yourself yet. Stay true to yourself and you will rise above the negativity!❤️
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Im sorry Kait!! I totally get it. I'm about to have my 3rd jaw surgery and if people knew how hard the process was, they would understand that this surgery is almost never done for cosmetic issues. If you think about it the mouth is such a central part of everything we do, from talking to eating and food in particular is such an integral part of what makes us human. A lot of comfort is taken in eating and when you can't do that, it is very difficult. Also in the US insurance would not cover the surgery if it was for cosmetic results and it is almost always covered. It's not a cheap surgery either. I know my estimate is around 80K People who have normal bites would also never understand how difficult it is to eat and how much we have compensated which in turn has an effect on health. I just realized the other day I never even chew my food because my teeth only touch in one tiny spot. Stay your positive beautiful self and don't worry about the ones that really have no idea what your going through. Sending hugs from the US :)
Third?!!! Did you relapse? Oh man you are so strong 🙏 Thank you for your encouraging words and all the best with your upcoming surgery!
@@MoreKait Thanks so much!! Unfortunately, I had the surgery 1st done when I was 15 years old. It immediately relapsed and I had a second done when I was 16 and that immediately relapsed too. That was over 30 years ago and surgeons have learned a lot and it really is not done on someone so young anymore. I've been putting the revision off because it is such a difficult surgery. Thank YOU for your support and watching your journey has given me hope that this 3rd surgery for me will work as well as your surgery worked for you. xoxo
Exactly what I wanted to say. Nothing wrong with getting a cosmetic surgery. I would love to have a nose job some day (the sooner the better 😅), but I simply can't do this at the moment. But more to the point, people that always suspect others of telling lies, actually too often do that themselves. It sounds like a cliche, but it's the truth, I promise.
Thank you Irina! ❤️
Maybe you can recommend this John guy for jaw surgery, to have his jaws stitched together permanently 😉
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No need to justify yourself 😊
There’s nothing wrong with having a surgical procedure to make your life easier. Most surgeries will have a cosmetic effect. It’s just a sign of a great surgeon.
You looked great before and you still do! 💜
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You look great Kait! The surgery will be worth it for sure. I had lower jaw surgery in my 20s, and my bite was completely messed up prior to the surgery. You’re a beautiful, intelligent young woman and you did what is best for you and your health. Wishing a speedy recovery!
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Hi kait hopefully you don't think that was me. Don't dwell on negative people they have to exist to balance the equation hot cold day night positive negative. look what you have accomplished this year very nice =) On january 2020 i had open heart surgery to replace an aortic valve. I recovered quickly but has taken almost two years to feel like myself it takes time. I leave you with this quote, Patience attacts happiness it brings near that is far.
Thank you John! I did not think the comment was from you 🤗 don't worry! Appreciate your advice and kind words ❤️
Don’t worry, Kait. You don’t have to explain yourself to these crazies. Do what’s best for you and rock on!
Some things do need to be said though so I’m glad you’re standing up against online bullying/harassment. I hope your message reaches who it needs to so this kind of behaviour can stop!
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Kait. It’s looking great already.
Thank you girl! ❤️
I think you are an amazing person!!! You've been through so much. Sending you lots of love !!!!
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I’m sorry one idiot had to make you feel this way. I always felt this series, re:your surgery was great, and like you’ve hoped, helpful for people who may have to do the same thing! Take care, on this side of the camera you’re definitely healing great ❤️
Thank you! It's just momentary frustration when I read comments like this. Takes a lot of willpower to not just react 😅
People can be so ignorant. Thank you so much for sharing. Most people just aren't going to get it. I have a severe open bite, my teeth don't show when I talk or smile and like you certain foods are difficult to eat, I'm constantly biting the inside of my jaws and certain words are difficult for me to say. I'm turning 40 next month and I'm just starting my journey. Even my family is questioning why I'm doing it. It really affects your quality of life and how you see yourself. Until people go through it, they have no idea. When I was younger it didn't bother me, but as I age it is and I'm doing it for me!
I appreciate you sharing your journey, you are looking amazing. It makes me excited for my procedure...finally to feel and look normal!💜💜💜
I found your channel after being (tentatively) approved for DJS myself. I’ve had all 4 of my lower premolars root canaled because of excessive wear from a deep bite. I was telling someone and she goes “whyyyy? Your jaw already looks fine” 🤦♀️ it can be frustrating to hear
Kait, I just wanted to thank you for sharing your journey with us. My son is in his early thirties and is preparing for this surgery now and I have been really concerned about it. Your videos have been so helpful and encouraging. I just can't thank you enough.
Bless those ignorant and hateful people with wisdom and joy. They must be so exhausted being so worked up by sitting there judging other people who are making their first steps improving their quality of life.
Do what you think is right, Kait, and never look back. This is your life. Thank you for sharing so much about your journey, it definitely has helped many people in many ways. Keep going! Sending love and light!
Nice to see your doing well. Focus on healing. Some people are obviously perfect and think its their responsibility to point out everybody else thats not. I will never understand these people as I am not perfect either. Glad your back. 🙏
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Hi, Kait - so good to see you healing so nicely! Give it time. I love the last comments in your video. Improving your quality of life for yourself - that is something that only you can define. You know what you've struggled with and the impact that it's had on you. It's too easy for others, especially on the internet, to think they know all about everything. You keep it real and keep putting yourself out there to help others - that's a level of trust few others are willing to do. Keep doing you!!
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Kait, just keep smiling!!! Your jaw realignment looks great! Stay away from negative people. Just let it slide off your back! You've. Got. This!!!
My child also had a lower jaw growing faster than the upper jaw. I definitely can see you waited a fair amount of time to get this fixed. Some people just are not educated about the serious issues around the importance of dental issues. Don't feel bad about getting this surgery no matter what the reason was. You deserve to feel good about yourself! Hey i am 49 and got braces. I am sure some people would say why???? But my crowded teeth were impacting my sinuses and hearing as well. So i did it for me regardless of my age. I deserve to treat myself right!
Good on you for deciding to get braces at 49! Still got a lot of years left, and they will be better spent if you can breath and hear properly 🥰
Block annoying people and don’t let them mess with your head.
I'm so glad you are doing better!
You are correct!!.... You do NOT need to defend yourself.
I highly doubt anyone wants to go through jaw surgery for cosmetic reasons. There are so many risks, there are nerves, blood vessels, etc. and a HIGH possibility of permanent damage. (I.e. your pre op treatment/surgical consent forms.)
Unless someone lives through jaw problems, especially from a very young age, the other person will NEVER understand.
I've heard a quote "I can explain it to you, but you won't understand!. (or something like that, lol).
Do not allow the negative get to you.
You are amazingly open without the need and that's appreciated.
A BLOCK is always the best thing to do.👍🏼
You do not have to justify yourself! I have a problem with my jaw that causes me pain and also prevents me from being able to tear foods with my front teeth. It’s very frustrating. I think you are very brave to have gone through all the different procedures and now this surgery. Although your face is a little puffy, it’s not very noticeable. Hopefully you will continue to heal quickly and get the feeling back in your face soon. It will be so worth it 💛
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I can totally understand your frustration. So we are all with you on the "It's your choice". I also totally understand why you wanted to do it. It's not as if you didn't think it all over and take your time to get it done. As I have mentioned before. My daughter who is 18 is now considering the exact same surgery. As she has had problems all her young adult life. She also spoke to specialist at 12. So we follow you. As your story in close to our hearts 💕 . You are 100% right in having your say.
Thanks for showing your humanity. You're being authentic. You have the right to your feelings and, clearly, have the right to express anything you choose to as this is YOUR CHANNEL. You're lovely; before, during and, I'm quite sure, after. Much love and respect
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Bless your sweet heart💜 I know it’s hard to ignore negative thoughts- they are small minded -
Keep your head up and keep focused on you & your journey- we love you
You are an inspiring coach. You have always shared your vulnerable moments and your personal story so candidly. People really respect and learn the most from that. Watching a strong person handle difficult situations with honesty and grace is invaluable coaching in itself. As slow as this process must seem to you now, the speed of your recovery to me is remarkable.
You were beautiful then and now..and you are a beautiful person. People have too much time on their hands if they need to share their negative opinions about others.
Your eyes really stand out more now!! You will be so happy you did this now, and not wait. Sounds like its really going to help in your day to day life!!
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Your doing great. You are super sweet. I’ve seen other UA-camrs just block ppl for negative comments. They don’t put up with anyone. Love your carnivore videos
Thanks for sharing! Your channel is amazing. I agree that people should be more polite and considerate. You do an amazing job and help so many people! Thank You Kait!
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You did the right thing by blocking the john guy. People do this all over the internet just to upset. You do not have to justify anything you do. Just keep up all your great keto videos and information. Take care. 😊
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I see those very few comments sometimes too and they're an insidious attack on your character, accusing you of being dishonest. That's why I find it so annoying. It's like okay, don't believe me then, no obligation! Anyway, most here can see you are a genuine person. ❤
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No matter what you do...you are a terrific person! You gotta do what you think is best for you, and that's what's best, period. You do not need to explain anything to anyone. Ever. Big hugs.
Oh, Kait...! You get my admiration for working in the social media space. Takes a thick skin to do successfully.
I suspect there is a bit of a backlash against cosmetic surgery because of how prevalent it is these days. Given so many high profile people outright lie about it makes it so much more distasteful to some. You come across as an open, honest, self accepting, beautiful soul and it might upset a few to think you might be like these high profile folk. There is a moral judgement associated with cosmetic surgery is what I am driving at.
I can imagine how frustrating the swelling would be. Your entire bone, muscle and tendon structure has to find its new settling point. I tend to think frustration is a sure sign you are healing well.
I hope your holiday period is filled with great weather, lovely company and even better food. X
Thank you so much for your on-going support Kate ❤️ Always appreciate your comments and insight. Happy holidays to you, too!
People get criticized no matter what you do! I am currently 3 wks post op and watching your videos have soothed me in a way that i feel like i am not alone! I hope you feel better knowing that your videos have also been supporting a ton of us who went/going thru jaw surgeries!
We are in this together! 🥰 I didn't realise how common this surgery was until I started talking about and hearing everyone's comments. If I knew more about it when I was younger I probably would have gotten it sooner. But oh well! I am glad you have found my videos comforting ❤️
I just found this channel of yours. I'm a sub of your main channel and LOVE all of your content. You help SO MANY people and you're so positive and happy. I know it's hard to let go of something negative that someone said. I know this video is old but I just wanted to maybe suggest something. Where I work I'm like the work Dad lol. When my co workers come up to me with a problem they had with a customer I have to remind them that at that certain moment that person is not thinking about you so don't let them rent any space in your head. You are amazing and I'm so happy I found your videos!!
Thank you for your kind words! ♥️
I did wonder why you were doing this and now I feel bad. You are already cuter than you were before, if that's possible, and you aren't done healing yet. So glad you moved ahead to get this fixed. So much of a long life ahead of you to enjoy your new you!
You're inspired so many people that have this problem. He will never understand even if he could, but he won't and never because he is so hateful. God bless you. I will have underbite surgery next month, and your video is helping and making me feel more confident to go through this major surgery.
I’m so sorry you even felt that you needed to make a video like this. You are such a blessing to so many. Thank you for everything!!🙏❤️
I'm ok don't worry! 🥰 I thought it was a good opportunity to reflect on something others might be going through - judgement for wanting (or needing!) surgery.
Hey Kait! So sorry that you're having to endure this unnecessary negative criticism. There's always going to be haters but you should do your best not to let it get to you. You're an amazing person and we appreciate all of the awesome content you provide for us. I had to have brain surgery in 2019 and I'm still recovering from it to this day. Some days are harder than others but I'm staying as positive as possible to remain inspired to get back to my old (active) self. You shouldn't have to justify the decisions that you've made for yourself, especially if they are health related with the goal of improving your life circumstances. Hang in there and ignore the toxic haters. Hopefully things get better on your end cuz we love you girl 🥰
Wow brain surgery! You are so strong to have overcome that 🙏 Thank you for your kind words. Your comments always make my day!
@@MoreKait awww ☺️ you're so sweet! And just so you know; watching your videos always brightens up my day. THANK YOU for the kind reply to my comment 😊 💜
I'm sorry you're going through this. It will get better, trust me. I had all four impacted molars pulled at one time with I was 16. I was miserable with giant puffed out chipmunk cheeks.
You are strong, you will get passed this.
And you might want to just avoid the comments section for a while.
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This is honestly so relatable!
Hi Kait! My husband and I just love you and all your wonderful posts and videos! You are beautiful inside and out, and this guy John is one unhappy camper and just decided to pick on you to make himself feel better. You were so brave to have this major surgery and I know you will feel better soon and be able to eat food with ease now! We love you Kait!!
Aw thank you Pamela! So happy you and your husband love my posts and videos 🥰
Sorry. People are garbage. There are just bad people that won't change. You are so helpful. You actually take the time to interact with us too. It means a lot. I appreciate it. Feel better. Be kind to yourself. Sometimes healing takes time. 💕
Growing up i had an open bite n had trouble eating noodles as well. I would have to use my tongue n press it up against my teeth to cut it. I was doing this before i found out what an open bite is.
You will never satisfy everyone. Fuxk ‘em You did the right thing for yourself Kait 😌 Greetings from Cali
You are an extremely talented young woman. You don't owe ANYONE any explanations for your personal health decisions. You just had major surgery. You are not feeling your best, so of course these nasty comments can affect you more. Surround yourself with the love that you deserve. I am so glad you blocked him. He had no right to talk to you this way. Bravo to you!! This too shall pass. I hope getting this off your chest was helpful. Continued best wishes for your recovery. 🙏
Kait they’re are many abusive people out there that just want to hurt people! WE LOVE YOU! You’re a huge inspiration to ALL of us! You’re beautiful inside and out! Exactly YOUR choice! That person is just miserable and projecting on you! Possibly an ex with fake account but chances are just a miserable person who needs prayer!
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I'm sorry this person and whoever else have treated you so unfairly as to even begin to assume that they know anything about you or your life.
I love your UA-cam channels. You are always so kind and sweet and informative. I love the knowledge you share with everyone and appreciate all of your hard work that you share for free with the public.
You are beautiful inside and out and I never doubted your truth or sincerity for one moment. Anyone who sees you as anything less or other than who you are is just a bully behind a keyboard trying to stir up trouble.
I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability and am a huge HCK fan!! Love ya!! 💙
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Kait, it really doesn't matter whether cosmetic or not. It's your body! As someone who also does their nails, makeup, likes to dress nicely, gets stylish haircuts etc., I'm not ever gonna defend myself for wanting to look good. You are under no obligation to be transparent to a bunch of strangers, but appreciate how open you have been with your life 😊
Thank you Nisha! That was something else I meant to mention - where do we draw the line that decide what cosmetic procedures are "ok"? Like you said makeup, nails, hair even skincare this can all be for cosmetic reasons.
@@MoreKait right? People want wrinkle creams and spend money on expensive skincare to prevent fine lines etc. but then people get called out for getting Botox? Doesn’t make sense!
Thank you for this video. Im 29 and I have had an overbite that makes me unhappy with my profile mostly and then there’s the wearing down of my teeth because of it. I mainly want this for ‘aesthetic’ purpose and it makes me feel worries to go through this huge process and financial expense. Your video has assured me it’s okay if it’s for cosmetic! What we do is our business 😊❤
I’m 54 now. I’ve known I needed jaw surgery for the longest time. I had braces when I was in my 20 and was told I needed the surgery. I had a bad experience with my surgeon and I decided I was not going back to him. I finished the process with my braces but it didn’t fix the problem. Life happened and now I’m back in braces and going to have my surgery by summer. I can’t wait. Thank you for your videos. Don’t pay attention to anyone. Do what makes you happy. Glad you got it off your chest. Don’t stress over it. They’re not worth it. If they see you upset…they win.
Your courage and authenticity is admirable! ❤
Let people who are negative or possibly come from pain....go. Know your truth, live you, enjoy your new spaghetti slurping. People who cannot shake being “critical” and “negative” get some assistance/therapy...you can learn to see things in your daily life...from a less critical/negative self. You only have one life...might as well go through it with a positive grace-filled disposition. It feels good to say nice things to others. You are Beautiful!
You are a very good person, you help a LIT of people, and selflessly. There will always be haters in this life, best thing is to just brush them off, and just know that you don’t need to lower yourself to their level or let them affect you in any way. Judge not, least you be judged…they cannot judge you, if you don’t judge them, just ignore and move on…
You already know, you don’t need to justify anything to anyone, you were beautiful before and beautiful after, but the person you are, is unchanged, what’s inside, is beautiful as well.
I support you, and I know I’m not alone, and there’s nothing wrong with venting, or putting personal opinions out there, if someone didn’t like it, they aren’t forced to agree, or to keep watching! You are such a sweet and kind person, YOU ROCK🥳🥳🥳
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Hi Kait - I have just come your channel whilst trying to gain as much information before the start of my jaw surgery process. Thank you so much out of all the internet content I have read your has been the more real, informative and honest. Like talking to a friend.
I am 51 and have put this off or near 4 decades for may reasons until know I am at a point I can not any longer. Although as you say, it shouldn't matter I know your reasons why. I barely have any molars remaining, I am in constant pain, my front teeth are so thin for incorrect contact with lower teeth that tine bits break away every day. I am constantly at the dentist trying to rescue/restore what teeth I have remaining.
Sometimes my husband and I have to sleep apart as you say, I sleep with my mouth open, that's it's natural position because of this condition, which causes me to breathe so heavy or snore that is disturbs his sleep too. At 2am in the morning this sometimes causes resentment, I do get that though. There is nothing worse than being woken up by listening that horrendous noise from me and therefore not able to get back to sleep. He's tried every earplug on the market even the $400 Bose ones, Also as you say, my own quality of sleep is hugely effected.
As far as appearance wise, yes my teeth are so ugly (well the ones that is have left). As I have a underbite and also my jaws are misaligned i.e. the bottom hangs more the right obviously my bite is far from normal and therefore teeth make contact incorrectly so eventually they need to be treated, Countless root canals because of breakage, sometime on the same tooth, to a point where a have said **ck it, just extract it, I am fighting a loosing battle.
Now that I am at this age you start to loose the elasticity in your face so the underbite is so more noticeable than before, plus my jaw also hangs to one side more. I am so glad you had your surgery before you got to my stage as added into this journey at some point I will have to has a few restored more $$$$$$. We have just come back from a family holiday, I am hardly on any pics, if I am I am not smiling. I look such a miserable cow.
My son recalled the other day that when he saw the stand in supply school dentist she was obviously not very said she said to me, what happen to you, you look like you were shot in the face! I was so shocked at how blunt she was, so rude, but so true. I thought my son was going to lunch her, bless him.
Anyway, I have finally had my lightbulb moment and had recently had the first orthodontic appointment. Wow, so many process and information to take in. So many consults with various people first. I might start a flow chart so I can remember all the steps. My lovely orthodontist basically said on 5-10 years you will not one tooth remaining. So that p**ck is just an ignorant, highly unintelligent, obnoxious idiot that does not deserve any more thoughts on him. I know it was 9 moths ago since your clip about him, so he will be long gone, but I thing I would add my say too.
I cried at the orthodontist appointment. Cried, a middle aged woman crying like that. I don't know why, I have known for decades I need this treatment and what is involved, I supposed just hearing it out loud set me off. I nearly used all his tissues up.🤣. I said is it worth is at my age. He said you obviously look after yourself, you look younger than you are and you will have no teeth left. I jokingly said about, I have them all pulled and get returned for my glass of water on my night stand. He even said that was not an option.😫 and I was joking.
Before I get the initial braces fitted first I have to see a peridontist first (never heard of one before, had to google it) as there have to be some restoration work at the end, a couple more molars to help me chew better and something done to the front teeth as they are so brittle as worn away. The orthodontist needs to confer with then so she know how to position the brace for future works by the periodontist, appoint next month. I also need to dee the surgeon before as I may need to have the upper jaw expander plate thing too before the braces. Can't see him until late January next year, which is a pain (literally) as I am on a role I need to get this moving before I may back down again. I am on a. cancellation list, so 🤞.
Please can I ask you Kait, although quite clearly not originally from Australia I heard you say you are now here (I am originally from UK. Which Health fund did you find gave the most financial gain. My estimation at present is $70k all up. Some funds may be better that others so any help/comment on that would be so appreciated. I now there will be a 12 month waiting period. I would need the brace for 12 months anyway before surgery.
I have waffled on a bit, sorry, I think just writing it all down helps me process it. Might not need that flow chart after all.
Thanks again for uploads Kait. Hope you are happy, finally pain free and relieved that it is all over. x
As the saying goes. If you can't say something nice. Don't say anything at all. I hope you recover and heal from your surgery soon. 👼👼👼 Don't let others Define you. They have to live with how they are.
Your human. It sucks that one or two people can bring you down. Your being open about your health. You've done everything right and your gorgeous inside and out.👍
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Yes... absolutely! who cares if it was cosmetic or not... you don't need to explain anything to anyone period....ever... You look great regardless if you had the operation or not... and it sounds like the problem with eating spaghetti alone was a good enough reason to go ahead with this... You do You Kait. Some people really have nothing better to do with their lives... Pity them..
Keep the great content coming.
Kait - I have learned so much from your excellent channel. The bonehead comment from John must be disregarded. Trolls deserve zero real estate in your head.
Best wishes for your continued healing from your Jaw surgery.
Don't let him get to you you are alright he has the problem keep doing what you're doing.
This reminds me of the saying "damned if you do and damned if you don't" ...people will judge you regardless of what you say and do. I can only imagine how hard it would be not to focus on that one negative comment that you get. It probably stands out like a sore thumb. Just know that you are appreciated for all the good work you do with helping people improve their health. You don't have to justify your jaw surgery. Anyone who has something negative to say is just a hater. I pray for more peace and blessings your way.❤🙏🏾
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You did what you had to do in order to have better quality of life, and any cosmetic benefits were just an added bonus. I had a similar experience with a surgery I had to have a few years ago. John is either jealous, has a miserable life, or is a narcissist. Or maybe all three. 😉 I understand your frustration and feeling the need to defend yourself with the amount of internet trolls out there. We all need to have a good rant ever now and then! I'm glad you shared your feelings.
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I'm sorry 😞 you got that crappy comment. I'm happy you are healing from this jaw surgery. It seems very difficult and involved. I had a friend in school who went through this, and it was tough!
You are a super young woman, very informative, helpful, and hard working! 👏 (Try not to give the unhelpful/unkind comments too much space) You are kicking butt!! 🥰👍
Thank you Clare! ❤️
It is ok to get it off your chest. You look great and I am glad you are healing.
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People have no clue. I feel like I need loose skin removal. The cosmetic part would be awesome, but the truth is the skin has caused complications with balance, infections and back pain. So I would certainly consider it a corrective surgery for my health. I think there is more of a "cosmetic" aesthetic thing for what I need than what you did. I have watched your channel for a long time and you have mentioned several times over the years the issues with your jaw. Praying for your continued recovery. Wishing you all the best and forget these haters.
Hi Kait. I think you’re brave to put yourself out there every day. I joined an online history Facebook group once and got ripped apart by total strangers just for making one post. I get that you don’t want to let this bother you. Sometimes people can just get under our skins no matter how logically we can think about the matter. I’m sure you’re just venting. I don’t think I can say any (advice ) that hasn’t already been said. I hope your swelling goes down soon. I’m gonna keep watching your channels and learning from you. You rock Kait. Just keep being you. Love and hugs from Arkansas.
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There’s always one! It’s easy to say ‘just ignore them’ and it’s not that easy. Good for you calling it out and sharing it.
Nobody cares what John thinks . Keep up the grate work and hope you heal fast 👍🏻
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Hi Kait!
Most of the men who follow you have always found you physically attractive. Your openness about your elective surgery only increased your attractiveness by displaying what I call your “internal” beauty - your logical thought process and your concern for the well-being of others.
None of us have gone through what you’ve endured for these many years. All of us should be empowered to change our lives as we see fit. I’m proud of your decision making and your willingness to go through with a life-changing operation.
I look forward to the day when all of this is behind you and your followers and we can all get on with a healthier life with much needed advice from HCK!
Much love and respect……
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It sucks that negative people can be so soul sucking, your awesome!!!!
Kait your doing amazing job don't worry bout John and haters I and many people are thankful for your video's that are amazing keep up the great work
Internet is full of people who want to vent. They post nasty comments under the videos of people fighting serious health conditions (e.g. cancer patient who was describing his condition). I regularly block them on chat forums. I try not to give my focus and attention to them.
(Harry here) You know kait, all of us UA-camrs have this type of person adding their rude 2 cents in. I get what you mean by not letting this type of person bother you, but sometimes they hit all the right buttons that cause us all to step out of the norm and speak out. Don't sweat it, sometimes I think they feed off of our discontent for their comments...!
Continue to #BeYou, #CoachKait...everything else will take of themselves. 💪👩
Don't listen to that dork, you are a great person! stay positive
Ppl are jerks. Usually it’s something about them that they are really speaking to. Hope you get to feeling better soon, HCK
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Hugs! Hugs for the kid that couldn't eat simple things, hugs for the adult that doesn't need to explain to us (but does anyway), hugs for the adult going through this surgery, and recovery. Thank you for all your videos. (Hugs to all those that get bullied, too. Hopefully, they too have a way to get support.)
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I love your posts and promise to be super nice until you're fully healed up.
Haha and when I am healed you won't be?! 😂
This is an imperfect world. You are being tested. Rise above it. You clearly have what it takes to do so.
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Sharing your life with others is beyond brave! Having jaw surgery is even more brave. Keep being yourself, its very nice being so real and caring. Some people are very critical and mean spirited but if theirs people saying mean and critical things, then their the ones that are insecure and unhappy. Keep being you!
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You are brave - strong, you are helping people and making a positive impact on the lives of total strangers- keep up that great energy ! Your supporters appreciate all you do. I sincerely mean that. ❤️
It’s easy to say’ just don’t worry about it’ but that often makes you think of it more. Glad you were able to get that off your chest and that you’re feeling better.
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When you look well above the norm, you're going to find jealous people.
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Love your other channel and this one just popped up on my feed! You do you girl! I get mostly kind comments too but I know what you mean with that one that just irritates the crap out of you. Some people are just unhappy with themselves and they feel the need to spread that misery. You're beautiful before and after, whatever makes you comfortable, whether that's cosmetic or functional, is what you should do
Ayyy, please don't ever listen to negative people. And do NOT feel like you have to defend yourself. Why spend any precious energy on rude, ill mannered fools! It took 73 years for me to learn this and, I'm happy to say, I no longer give a fig what anyone thinks about anything I do or don't do. And what a relief that is! Also, I was in the dental field for over 20 years, and I can tell you that you absolutely did the right thing. It's not a cosmetic issue, but a functional health-related one.
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Hey Kait, good on you sticking up for your self. Honestly some people make negative comments just to bully not because it’s what they even think.
Keep your chin up girrl. I love your channel. You’ve inspired me and educated me so much. You look beautiful. As a follower I never read the negative comments anyway.
Press on sweetie 😉
Glad you got that out. I hope you feel better.
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Dear Kait, the best thing that you can do it's ignore those comments. Don't give him more reasons to keep going with his comments. Keep doing what you doing to get well soon.
My niece had double jaw surgery in her mid 20's for basically similar reasons as you. She's doing much better now , it took about a year for her swelling to go completely away.
Listening to you talking about eating spaghetti and sushi made me realize how easy it is to be me lol, I slurp my spaghetti without a care and the sushi would have been a single bite!
Some people can't help but make negative comments weather in real life or on the internet, you've always been open and honest in your videos, why anyone would feel the need to make a stupid comment like that is beyond me. All the best and merry Christmas!
Kaitlyn, don’t give him anymore head space! You don’t have to defend yourself! They are just jealous. You can’t make everyone happy, which is not your job. You are a beautiful, smart, and caring young lady❤️❤️
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Who cares if it’s cosmetic or not. It’s your body and you have the right to choose what you do with it. It’s sad that people are so insecure that they feel the need to put down others. Don’t focus on those negative comments. You are doing great things and have a lot of people that love you. Focus on all the positive comments you receive. 💗
Well done for the rant. You're lovely as you are. Don't let anyone get you down. Just be you. Best wishes from the UK. :-)
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What I've learned about the human race is that Hurt People, Hurt People. They are basically miserable and they are trying to make you miserable.
Sometimes the negative comments are hard to ignore, but I have come to discover the best revenge is to live well and to not give the toxic/negative person any credit.
I love your videos and value your time and effort, thank you : )
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U look amazing and are very brave i want to get this surgery too for cosmetic reasons iv long jaws and tired of ignorant people commenting on them and saying i look like a horse its been going on since i was a child and made me so insecure and self concious hoping to finally get something done about it