How To Become Antifragile & Why Chaos is Good

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  • @Richardetex
    @Richardetex 6 років тому +55

    Life is a cruel teacher, gives you the test first then the lesson later

  • @domais68
    @domais68 7 років тому +68

    Life taught me about its unfairness by kicking the living shit out of me. I'm glad it did because, otherwise, I'd be lost and unable to cope with reality. As an almost 15 year entrepreneur, stress has tested me to points where I thought it would kill me. I've dealt with extreme insomnia, panic attacks and coped with the loss of loved ones along my way. I worked my ass off to not let that bullshit ruin my life. Thanks for your videos.

  • @SiimLand
    @SiimLand 7 років тому +86

    Antifragile one of my favourite books of all time. It's like being in life with open arms and accepting whatever may come to be whilst knowing that you won't perish but will actually get better.

    • @theChadRamroq
      @theChadRamroq 3 роки тому +2

      Stoicism also seems to come to mind

  • @morfreeus8157
    @morfreeus8157 7 років тому +77

    Bruce Lee says be like water! Fluid in your flow, but powerful when focused! Thanks brother from another mother!

    • @Last-Lap-Lando4
      @Last-Lap-Lando4 4 роки тому

      One of my favorite sayings. "Be like water" i tell that to my son a lot.

    • @gaiopompilio2721
      @gaiopompilio2721 3 роки тому

      It's practically what said Lao Tzu centuries ago. I suggest you to read Tao te Ching. It's foundation of Taoism, like Bible for Christian.

  • @alexanderrodriguez8420
    @alexanderrodriguez8420 7 років тому +137

    This guys like the father I always wanted 😂

  • @scottzvidzo5564
    @scottzvidzo5564 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks Rich I feel much better now I love when you talk about your own personal experiences like this , bless you man ..Peace

  • @ericmichealmercer6856
    @ericmichealmercer6856 7 років тому +17

    this was amazing. at this exact moment I am going through a horrific implosion of a relationship that was very serious and long term
    this video could not have happened at a better time. you have no idea where my mind WAS and now I can breathe again

  • @josuesencion6960
    @josuesencion6960 7 років тому +65

    In a nutshell, "Chaos is not a pit, chaos is a ladder"

    • @DavidMay2nd
      @DavidMay2nd 6 років тому +4

      Lord Pytr Baelish

    • @Bugumir
      @Bugumir 6 років тому +2

      Words to live by, sir.

  • @colinjones5209
    @colinjones5209 3 роки тому +2

    Awesome vid, faith and action is massive in eventual anti fragile, avoiding analysis paralysis and working with pain and suffering, to get stuff done, that eventually... often slower than you want, gets a new foundation going that’s superior.

  • @celesteadeanes4478
    @celesteadeanes4478 7 років тому +64

    "Whatever doesn't kill me makes me stronger"

    • @paintur68
      @paintur68 7 років тому +15

      Paralyzed from the neck down?

    • @stevegwizzle3560
      @stevegwizzle3560 7 років тому +2

      Celestea Deanes. lol well Im sure if theyre paralyzed from the head down they will hopefully become mentally and spiritually stronger. Gotta become stronger one way or another

    • @urwrstntmre
      @urwrstntmre 7 років тому

      SealTeamRick D99 - It does kill tho

    • @RamonRuizG
      @RamonRuizG 6 років тому

      Stephen Hawking? Michael J. Fox? The other Canadian that crossed Canada with no legs to raise awareness?

    • @Bugumir
      @Bugumir 6 років тому +1

      From my experience, things that don't kill us might make us stronger, but they also change one's perspective, priorities, goals and even mentality to the point that, sometimes, we become quite different from those around us. And that is a double-edged sword in terms of benefit.

  • @vaughane.560
    @vaughane.560 6 років тому +3

    Boy have I accumulated battle scars in just about every aspect of my life. They continue to accumulate to this day. But I’m still here so I guess I’ve learned this lesson. I needed to hear this.

  • @billwright7547
    @billwright7547 7 років тому +5

    My new favorite youtuber. Long time Elliot Hulse fan, this is a smooth transition. Background exhaust is very fitting and sounds excellent. Thanks

  • @MichaelLynMusic
    @MichaelLynMusic 6 років тому

    Your honesty really sells this channel {in my humble opinion} it's much appreciated

  • @TechnicalDifficulties
    @TechnicalDifficulties 4 роки тому +2

    Your voice blending in with the spacey background of the car riding on the highway is an aesthetic

  • @SoCalNative75
    @SoCalNative75 7 років тому +1

    Yes Richard life is all about tests and survival. Our experiences are for a purpose. What we choose to discern from those experiences is key. So glad that I had a suggestion to view one of your videos a month or so back, subbed immediately. Great channel sir.

  • @Paul-lb1uw
    @Paul-lb1uw 5 років тому +1

    It’s a fine line in being “anti fragile “ & heading for a nervous breakdown... be careful out there my brothers and don’t suck it up in silence.

  • @slomocalzone
    @slomocalzone 6 років тому +4

    The trick is not to drown out stress with alcohol. A lot of divorced guys fall into that trap. It’s tough.

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 7 років тому +1

    Love your whole style and the way u explain things. So relatable and down to earth. You're so transparent. You're a very unselfish person also because u share and teach to help us become better people. That is rare. You're so sweet and kind.

  • @jpsk357
    @jpsk357 7 років тому +1

    I've watched several of your videos now and I appreciate the consistent high quality of your content. I always come away with learning something new or feeling validated in what I'm going through. I'm amazed you don't have more views on your videos yet. The views will come in time. Thank you for continuing to upload 👍

  • @elements1985
    @elements1985 4 роки тому +1

    Great book - Taleb is brilliant mind.

  • @David-xf2uh
    @David-xf2uh 5 років тому +1

    Seems like whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Hmmmm where did I hear that before? Good message bro.

  • @kistina0101
    @kistina0101 8 років тому +4

    Thank you for sharing! what you shared reminded me of this verse: "for indeed, with hardship (will be) ease" - surah inshirah

    • @kistina0101
      @kistina0101 8 років тому +2

      and this as well:
      [He] who created death and life to test you [as to] which of you is best in deed - and He is the Exalted in Might, the Forgiving (al-mulk)

  • @anthonythewildwindowcleane531
    @anthonythewildwindowcleane531 7 років тому +14

    I liked hearing you get them ponys going

  • @townbythetown
    @townbythetown 2 роки тому

    Good to focus on the positive examples of stress making people stronger, but there are also a lot folks who have been permanently ruined from it. I think both examples are good to keep in mind

  • @reikohata1449
    @reikohata1449 7 років тому +11

    Thank you for a great video. Lately my life has been full of TESTS but I will NOT give up :)

  • @Bugumir
    @Bugumir 6 років тому

    For a guy with a strict moral code and blind belief in justice, fairness and honor, letting go of "It's not fair!" was a hard task. But it freed me. Now I see the truth. Now I see that we need the challenges that make us cry out that phrase because overcoming those challenges is what ultimately shapes us into the men we need to become.

  • @JackSteele01
    @JackSteele01 7 років тому +1

    Thanks for the vid man. Just went through a damn stressful day today. Just the thoughts i needed

  • @gordo6682
    @gordo6682 6 років тому +1

    Bravo! You are a good man! Just discovered theres other people with similar ideas through your vids. thx for taking your time to do this. T.

  • @Swindonisforlovers
    @Swindonisforlovers 7 років тому

    Excellent video, really helpful. It’s important to remember that we come out the other side stronger

  • @raa729
    @raa729 4 роки тому

    Mr. Talebs books are great, difficult but great. Antifragile is the best one, imo. Great vid.

  • @ahmedassiri6180
    @ahmedassiri6180 7 років тому +2

    dude, keep up the good work! amazing vids and talks, thank you so much.

  • @araysfan8243
    @araysfan8243 4 роки тому

    Great talk from 2016 given today's climate in 2020. Will have to check out the dudes book. thanks!

  • @sunka4557
    @sunka4557 7 років тому

    Thanks for the video, car dude. As always you get a thumbs up from me. And I'm gonna put Taleb's book on my list of future reads. Anyway just wanted to say that. Gotta leave for work in a minute. Peace & Respect!

  • @davidalen9279
    @davidalen9279 6 років тому +1

    excellent. read the book...a great (but not easy!) read...eu-stress and dis-tress...good and bad stress I think they are called...steels us for life...like your idea of LEARN don't lose...it is all a lesson....thanks for your work brother...

  • @mas7937
    @mas7937 5 років тому

    Thanks man your videos are always full of wisdom

  • @PhilosophyDaily
    @PhilosophyDaily 3 роки тому +1

    I found this video at the perfect moment.

  • @cdepree1
    @cdepree1 6 років тому +1

    Can't wait to listen to the book. The Black Swan is one of my favorite books. Hey Richard...How do you listen to audiobooks without getting distracted? While driving, before bed, while taking a walk???

  • @terrysmith8539
    @terrysmith8539 4 роки тому

    One of these days Richard is going to be driving his car FAST and you're going to hear sirens and see flashing red and blue lights in the rearview mirror lol and Richards going to say well I have to go for now see you in the next video when I tell you about how much my ticket cost LOL love you man!

  • @MidAtlanticBracing
    @MidAtlanticBracing 8 років тому +1

    Great video man (not just because of the M3--btw, love the growl in the background when you get on it a bit). Going through one of those 'tests' right now--hardest one of my life. Like everyone, I've been tested many times--result = me a stronger person. Persevere is all we can do. It's nice to hear someone else talk about it. Thanks for the morning thoughts, keep up the great vids (try to stomp on the gas more often please:)

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  8 років тому +1

      +Jason Ast Thx... Thats two requests now for something on the exhaust note..

    • @Arz00
      @Arz00 8 років тому

      +Entrepreneurs in Cars 3!

    • @ledzarulje
      @ledzarulje 7 років тому +1

      Arz00 4

  • @nl3712
    @nl3712 7 років тому +1

    Life is a series of TESTS. True.

  • @Last-Lap-Lando4
    @Last-Lap-Lando4 4 роки тому

    Being uncomfortable makes you stronger/better

  • @ourfutureisdark
    @ourfutureisdark 8 років тому +7

    Could you make a video on things you should know about real estate investing, bonds and or maybe stocks?

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  8 років тому +6

      +Wasiu Adeyeye Sure

    • @Krisler12
      @Krisler12 7 років тому +3

      Want that too !
      What kind of car is that ? It looks nice from the inside.
      Thanks !

    • @TheMentalblockrock
      @TheMentalblockrock 7 років тому

      its a shit one, a BMW M3.

  • @wendykay3195
    @wendykay3195 7 років тому +6

    I've been talking to my son about things on your videos and I asked him on a scale of 1-10 where he thinks I fall as a woman
    He said I am low on the scale because I am extremely independent, very strong emotionally and physically plus highly intelligent
    He said a woman should need a man and be willing to follow his direction rather than challenge his ideas or figure things out for herself
    I have grown very strong from my life's experience. ... I am far from fragile although I want to be treated as if I am fragile by the man i chose to be with
    I truly do not need a man but I want a partner

    • @wendykay3195
      @wendykay3195 7 років тому +1

      LOL my ex just told me I'm a 10 out of 10 hahaha that is very funny

    • @tomallen100
      @tomallen100 7 років тому +2

      Nothing wrong with being strong, find a man who can handle it.

    • @r.joseph8911
      @r.joseph8911 6 років тому

      I'd prefer a strong female. Someone that will push me to be more ambitious, or at the very least, not too lazy. There is a time for everything, including relaxation, but one needs a motivational inspiration- and men to women, or vice versa- should provide that for one another. That's my opinion, Ib think it'll work well

    • @cantstanja
      @cantstanja 5 років тому

      I hate to break it to you lady, but you're going to be single forever with that mentality. Your son is right.

    • @lightingrod5907
      @lightingrod5907 4 роки тому

      Wendy Barker how old is your son

  • @jmass4207
    @jmass4207 6 років тому

    Can be summed up by Jocko’s mantra in response to challenge: good.

  • @Unheard_tillnow
    @Unheard_tillnow 4 роки тому +1

    He gives me the advice in never got from my father...

  • @J-Giles54
    @J-Giles54 6 років тому

    Excellent message!

  • @DevonWayne
    @DevonWayne 7 років тому +8

    have you ever been pulled over while filming

  • @JDOGFTW
    @JDOGFTW 2 роки тому

    The More I get stress from people the stronger my body gets I turn into a damn monster times 4. Keep getting into the fire.

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому +1

    when you r spouse dies your life expectancy cuts in half. immediately. every year you survive your expectancy exponentially increases.

  • @DigitalDistortion
    @DigitalDistortion 2 роки тому

    Great Post 👍

  • @kenellis8567
    @kenellis8567 7 років тому

    Dude thank you for this video!!

  • @whitenoise5161
    @whitenoise5161 8 років тому +7

    Point on man. Could we get an exhaust video sometime? :)

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому +2

    l grow back bet Terra that's why God tests us so we come forth like Gold.

  • @strykerrrukerr5491
    @strykerrrukerr5491 7 років тому

    Easy to say! Always u learn it hard way only,u always must go thru it,hard true,after u only got antifragile. U can say other person but they cant understand this in deep level. When man go thru this he was expierienced all bad things and good. Thats why older man always advice younger,but younger dont listen,went years by and after they understand what father and grandfather sayd. Every man must expierence it. thats how man is made. sry for my english,im from europe bros.

  • @raineoffyre
    @raineoffyre 7 років тому

    True grit! love it.

  • @AlexairwayL995
    @AlexairwayL995 6 років тому

    Spot on!

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому

    yeah ! only the strong survives.

  • @cgeetaryan
    @cgeetaryan 8 років тому

    thanks for sharing this video!

  • @stefan-stocksmadesimple5241
    @stefan-stocksmadesimple5241 8 років тому

    Very helpful and accurate as always

  • @2112reg
    @2112reg 4 роки тому

    Great content Rich

  • @jimjawz
    @jimjawz 3 роки тому

    Big ups Rich

  • @appointedone9574
    @appointedone9574 4 роки тому

    Hey Rich what are you driving in this video? I couldn’t help but notice how fast you got up to speed when looking at that truck that rolled up beside you

  • @Braam89
    @Braam89 6 років тому +1

    Nietzsche knew all about this

  • @kirks386
    @kirks386 3 роки тому

    1) Create a philosophical view. 2) Get followers. 3) Collect money. Or learn to think for yourself.

  • @StandYourGrounds
    @StandYourGrounds 7 років тому

    Thank you.

  • @vimosera41
    @vimosera41 7 років тому

    very interesting video,keep up the great work!

  • @Yerrarat
    @Yerrarat 6 років тому +1

    Whatever happens, happens :) worrying means you suffer twice

  • @markflierl1624
    @markflierl1624 3 роки тому

    Our society is sick. We need a major stress event to wake people up. It looks like it will be coming soon.

  • @Andrii87
    @Andrii87 6 років тому

    If you put "book rewiew" frase in the description, it would be easyer to find.

  • @DrthCola
    @DrthCola 3 роки тому +1

    Kintsugi Kintsukuroi

  • @AMERICANLIMO1
    @AMERICANLIMO1 7 років тому

    what is the name.brand of sunglasses you are wearing in this video?

  • @vonblocko2431
    @vonblocko2431 7 років тому

    Great video

  • @Richard_AKL
    @Richard_AKL 6 років тому

    Dude, I love your videos and your awesome sounding car... but you need to go out and buy a Prius specifically for recording videos... I have to turn the vids up so loud to be able to hear you over the car noise, but then my sound system is booming the base note of the car and shaking my house... :)

  • @OfficialRelaxRain
    @OfficialRelaxRain 6 років тому

    What kind of car is this??? Sounds so goos

  • @bennybronx4990
    @bennybronx4990 6 років тому

    Question what are you driving that thing is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @dweliq2993
    @dweliq2993 7 років тому

    Id like total chaos for everyone in the world.

  • @tomallen100
    @tomallen100 7 років тому +2

    Black swan.

    • @nl3712
      @nl3712 7 років тому

      Tom Allen yes, that's the other book by same auther

    • @sasi5841
      @sasi5841 6 років тому

      Skin in the game

  • @reesebobby99
    @reesebobby99 7 років тому

    good content

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому

    its not fair, yup. no potty.

  • @2112reg
    @2112reg 4 роки тому +2

    Im late to the party lol

  • @appointedone9574
    @appointedone9574 4 роки тому

    Chaos eventually made me HATE my ex

  • @JDOGFTW
    @JDOGFTW 2 роки тому

    What's wrong with being bothered? I'm not afraid to admit a guy got my goat. Still doesn't mean anything without actions!? Right? I can be fragile as long as I don't react to that emotion what's wrong? I'll take an L that you so want. give the people what they want!

  • @bojanjovanovic3712
    @bojanjovanovic3712 5 років тому

    I expected more from him on this topic, as it is quite important

  • @yuefei8711
    @yuefei8711 6 років тому

    In its correct pronounciation it should go like:
    Naseem Taulib

  • @Andolem
    @Andolem 6 років тому

    Is that a BMW you are driving.

  • @Goremeister100
    @Goremeister100 6 років тому

    speed kills

  • @ipownedu99
    @ipownedu99 7 років тому

    What kind of car does he drive

    • @mrzed2349
      @mrzed2349 7 років тому

      matt d I think it's an x5 BMW

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 3 роки тому

    Because all hot girls go to Chaos places

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 3 роки тому

    I will drive this car no doubt , first dont let any girls scam my money

  • @wookieiam1
    @wookieiam1 6 років тому

    Good stuff

  • @JDOGFTW
    @JDOGFTW 2 роки тому

    Yall know nothing about chaos imagine CHAOS in this world being an Paranoid schiozphrenic plus shizho affective plus anxiety. It's like CHAOS at the up most level yall can't handle me brah.

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому

    yeah! test. testosterone. ?!

  • @vonblocko2431
    @vonblocko2431 7 років тому +1

    The car looks good, the glasses look douche.

  • @eddiehaynes1360
    @eddiehaynes1360 3 роки тому +1

    Chase excellence not women Eddie oakland ca 🙂

  • @comment305
    @comment305 7 років тому

    If it had a billion dollars I would set up a field full of 1000 huge glass mirrors and then drive a $1,000,000 Ferrari right through all of them. Then I'd probably cover the ferrair in gasoline and set it on fire while sitting back on a lawn chair sipping on some $2000 champagne and eating caviar out of a 25 karat gold bowl with a pure diamond spoon. Then when the firefighters and the cops show up I would just pay them each $10,000 then slowly walk away while putting on my $2000 shades. Then I'll hop in my Bugatti and drive by the cops and throw another $1000 cash all in 10 dollar bills out my window.

  • @RamonRuizG
    @RamonRuizG 6 років тому

    Do you really need to make your videos while driving? The noise that you make with your car sometimes is disturbing.

  • @wintergoosey6412
    @wintergoosey6412 7 років тому +1

    this guy is a show off, really a turn off for me?

    • @YZFMANIAC08
      @YZFMANIAC08 7 років тому +5

      GreenJuice TerraFast K bye!

    • @1111111111202
      @1111111111202 7 років тому +3

      we dont want you. we do like this man though. so kindly, close the door on your way out!

    • @konicu
      @konicu 7 років тому +10

      is that a statement or a question?

    • @DavidMay2nd
      @DavidMay2nd 6 років тому +2

      So kick rocks. And dont follow

    • @superhuman5857
      @superhuman5857 6 років тому

      Winter Goosey know one cares what you think 😂