A College Student with Down Syndrome and his Autistic Roommate

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  • @swimmer2127
    @swimmer2127 11 місяців тому +1767

    This Tanner from Love on the Spectrum season 2 on Netflix. I loved this guy. Blake and Frankie are the sweetest friends to him.

    • @MMMMutants
      @MMMMutants 10 місяців тому +5

      Yes ❤

    • @lizalphonse5416
      @lizalphonse5416 10 місяців тому +8

      I want to see that show. Theres a sweet couple Abbey and David and they are so cute❤
      These 2 college buddies are BFFs

    • @Nati-bn8xk
      @Nati-bn8xk 9 місяців тому +3

      I love that show and he has a great personality.

    • @swimmer2127
      @swimmer2127 9 місяців тому +2

      It’s my favorite show on Netflix I love the Australian version too. Hope they make more

    • @BookNerd1102
      @BookNerd1102 9 місяців тому +1

      Isn't he the sweetest??

  • @harperm1389
    @harperm1389 3 роки тому +3370

    I'm autistic, and I tend to be very reserved and quiet, usually have a book or a sketchpad in my hand, can be a little moody and impatient . . . and then there's Tanner, who's all like, "WE'RE GONNA HAVE PIZZA AND CAKE AND EVERYTHING IS AWESOME!" XD
    I love how much variability there is on the spectrum. We're all so unique and different, and there's something kind of great about that.

    • @briwitluv0555
      @briwitluv0555 3 роки тому +115

      That’s me and my friend, my friend and I have ADHD
      She is quite at times, but is really funny and I’m over here like HI I WANNA DO THIS AND I WANNA EAT THIS, OH WE SHOULD GO HERE, etc lol

    • @lsubandtrumpet2014
      @lsubandtrumpet2014 3 роки тому +34

      You are loved too! Pizza is my favorite food! I also love hot wings!

    • @Twentythree33
      @Twentythree33 2 роки тому +52

      I have autism too, and I'm extremely outgoing. I literally get in trouble with my parents because I talk too much.

    • @IDrawToothpicks
      @IDrawToothpicks 2 роки тому +20

      This is the best comment ever 💜💜💜

    • @Mr-qt4xr
      @Mr-qt4xr 2 роки тому +22

      I have autism but I appear neurotypical on the outside mostly. Really enjoyed this video.

  • @OriginalOWL
    @OriginalOWL 3 роки тому +1527

    Chris- “what would you change?”
    Blake- “my mind.”
    I feel you Blake. I feel you dog.

    • @ricardogonzalez448
      @ricardogonzalez448 3 роки тому +27

      I too would like to change my mind

    • @ImLiterallySoup
      @ImLiterallySoup 3 роки тому +52

      dog? is this an english epression or are you being disrespectful sorry im not totally fluent in english yet.....

    • @kevinl9075
      @kevinl9075 3 роки тому +178

      @@ImLiterallySoup It's an expression, like 'bro' or 'man'.

    • @lordbreastpads3626
      @lordbreastpads3626 3 роки тому +131

      @@ImLiterallySoup when you use it you should spell it like "dawg"

    • @ImLiterallySoup
      @ImLiterallySoup 3 роки тому +22

      @@kevinl9075 oh ok thank you !

  • @amitche7286
    @amitche7286 3 роки тому +1633

    “I don’t really wish for anything, I have everything I need here.” We can all take a lesson from these awesome guys. 🙏🏼

    • @wildrose5554
      @wildrose5554 2 роки тому +20

      And blake said he would change his mind, and that's ok too

    • @SonjaBlade608
      @SonjaBlade608 Рік тому

      They're both so inspiring, I hope they know how much they are valued and treasured! I bet they are awesome roommates too. I enjoyed your interview with these guys so much, thank you for sharing your gifts! ❤

    • @JamBadguy
      @JamBadguy Рік тому

      ok but if im starving i'd wish for food

  • @shawn5668
    @shawn5668 3 роки тому +1144

    "He teaches us how to play HALO" got me! Great dudes, all three of them

    • @autumn-6244
      @autumn-6244 3 роки тому +2

      ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssgssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
      try to fine the g

    • @clarifyk5967
      @clarifyk5967 3 роки тому +13

      @@autumn-6244 found it in like 2 seconds.

  • @d.k.4217
    @d.k.4217 3 роки тому +1061

    Blake and Tanner stayed in my building when I lived on campus; I use to pass Blake everyday coming from class. They seem like great friends. Glad they were able to live together, have some independence, and a college experience!

    • @africarenee
      @africarenee 2 роки тому +14

      Thank you for sharing that 💝💐🦋

    • @YouTubeShorts-pb6ww
      @YouTubeShorts-pb6ww 2 роки тому +15

      Man they are strong for sure

    • @kerryelainahayes-warrior
      @kerryelainahayes-warrior Рік тому +10

      I would love to have them as neighbors.

    • @katherinedupoise4604
      @katherinedupoise4604 10 місяців тому +5

      What college? Did they have a program for people with disabilities?

    • @idek9970
      @idek9970 10 місяців тому +16

      @@katherinedupoise4604 Im guessing Clemson, since that's what's on Blake's shirt. If so, then yes, they have a program for people with disabilities. Its called ClemsonLIFE :)

  • @ILoveMe.._
    @ILoveMe.._ 3 роки тому +725

    The way tanners eyes light up every time that Blake speaks it makes me so happy

  • @Kim-bq9hh
    @Kim-bq9hh 3 роки тому +1617

    blake wishing he could change his own mind really hurts. we've really let down so many of our own.

    • @Collinambulance
      @Collinambulance 3 роки тому +23

      or maybe he wants to change his own mind because having down syndrome is very challenging and affects everything in your life and wishing to not have it isn't wrong, and having down syndrome isn't wrong either. Im sure you can understand that and not feel like he shouldnt wish for a different mind like cmon really....

    • @eadghe
      @eadghe 2 роки тому +114

      You know, I saw a documentary about such people and how developement of their mind differs, depending on how much mental training and such they do, the earlier the better. Hearing such statement from Blake, means he has a deeper understanding of his situation. He is able to self-reflect. That's something even many normal people lack (sas but true). That's quite impressive! To some it might sounds sad, because they try to understand what he feels in that moment and I agree, that might be sad, but I think that sad stement is a good sign, if you know what I mean. Cheers!

    • @user-fm3tr3oe1k
      @user-fm3tr3oe1k 2 роки тому +49

      As someone that also lives with a disability I can completely get why he would say that, it’s really really frustrating and hard at times. Just like people without disabilities have things that are really hard and frustrating. I feel like being overly sympathetic of his struggles and turning a negative emotion or experience he has into some big complicated dramatic sad thing is almost like infantilizing, i don’t know if that’s the right word but it’s like you’re still treating him differently. Im pretty sure almost everyone experiences negative emotions about the things they can’t do or the things they have had deal with in their lives. I mostly just don’t understand why you’re saying “we’ve really let down so many of our own” like what do you mean?

    • @4hoofd
      @4hoofd 10 місяців тому +2

      ⁠@@user-fm3tr3oe1k What I assume they meant was something along the lines that we as humans tend to treat those who don’t fit the narrative of normal in undeserving ways, which leads to them having a lesser experience of life in general. The statement “I wish I was normal” is something we hear way too much. Sure, everyone has their personal struggles not perse caused by others. That’s not a concept we should make a special thing for neurodivergent people, cause I can see how that could feel like a form of alienation. The comment you were questioning was most likely targeted at the weight built upon those already existing personal struggles from societal prejudice.

    • @anonangel1938
      @anonangel1938 9 місяців тому +3

      There’s a part of an episode where his mom said he used to be angry all the time and would try to “fix” his autism but when she stopped trying to “fix” him he switched and was happier; EPISODE 3 Season 2; idk that just really inspired me and put me at ease for some reason even though I’m not autistic. Idk maybe just imagining the relief he felt when he was no longer being made to feel like something was “wrong” w him, reminds me how many of us are too hard on ourselves and feel like it’s wrong to be our true selves so we always try to fix ourselves and maybe if we stopped/calm down a bit we’d be happier…idk just putting this here in case someone needs it and it hopefully helps esp. those who are autistic.😌🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @j_mauser7981
    @j_mauser7981 3 роки тому +2896

    'what is it like to be you?
    'it's great'
    'why?'
    'because i love myself'
    Life lesson right there.

    • @autumn0-032
      @autumn0-032 3 роки тому +60

      if only all of us could feel like that

    • @realkevworld
      @realkevworld 3 роки тому +6

      @@autumn0-032 :¨)

    • @LeslieBeauty
      @LeslieBeauty 3 роки тому +4

      fr

    • @Woohchaiell
      @Woohchaiell 3 роки тому +11

      Wholesome thinking

    • @globin2555
      @globin2555 3 роки тому +5

      Bro their brains works slower than ours , of course they gonna say they love their life cz they cant think about the reality behind them

  • @fatdawgpeet
    @fatdawgpeet 3 роки тому +450

    2 minutes in, and Tanner astounds me with his honesty - he's basically able to tell it as it is, unfiltered, while being incredibly courteous, nice, and positive. He's awesome.

  • @hanalee1934
    @hanalee1934 3 роки тому +2202

    I normally don't comment on UA-cam videos, but I was so overjoyed when I learned that SBSK got their comments back! I keep coming back to this specific video because I love Blake and Tanner's friendship. I really hope that they're doing well during the pandemic (and that their friendship is still going strong)!

    • @MrLionelrichtea
      @MrLionelrichtea 3 роки тому +20

      Exactly the same.

    • @MissCarlyJoy
      @MissCarlyJoy 3 роки тому +39

      Yes keep commenting! It helps the algorithm to spread their videos. This is the good stuff on this channel - the very best of us.

    • @Joemamma664
      @Joemamma664 3 роки тому +21

      It's hard not to leave a positive comment when watching these videos .. love it

    • @joserodriguez6173
      @joserodriguez6173 2 роки тому +8

      I !ove these guys!

    • @MochaQueen5
      @MochaQueen5 2 роки тому +3

      I feel the same way.

  • @SirPhoenixofSoCal
    @SirPhoenixofSoCal 3 роки тому +480

    Blake saying “yes sir” to his best friend is so endearing and sweet❤️

  • @candy123258
    @candy123258 11 місяців тому +312

    I saw this young man on a dating on the autism spectrum show recently. He’s super friendly and enjoyed learning more about him and his roommate.

    • @katherinedupoise4604
      @katherinedupoise4604 10 місяців тому +1

      He has a girlfriend?

    • @candy123258
      @candy123258 10 місяців тому +4

      @@katherinedupoise4604 it was a reality dating television series,I don’t believe he wound up with a “girlfriend”.

    • @dillonr6265
      @dillonr6265 9 місяців тому

      No, he was on a tv show on Netflix, he is trying to start dating but new to it, so the tv show explores him starting to try dating@@katherinedupoise4604

    • @EmilyHeili
      @EmilyHeili 9 місяців тому +4

      he is so cute

    • @Yuuzhanvongg
      @Yuuzhanvongg 3 місяці тому +1

      He is awesome

  • @PKcrash
    @PKcrash 3 роки тому +125

    Tanner has taught everyone a very very very valuable lesson today. If you dont know something, just ask. Living a life of ignorance is not the way. Good job Tanner.

  • @Dranamolous
    @Dranamolous 3 роки тому +676

    This is the video that made me cry. Doesn’t matter who you are, everyone knows what friendship is and everyone needs it.

  • @MrKooderna
    @MrKooderna 8 місяців тому +46

    His ability to simply ask to explain something because he doesn't understand is next level stuff, imagine if everyone you knew did that. We would always all be on the same page.

  • @lakenr
    @lakenr 3 роки тому +2006

    man they actually seem so cool, i wanna be friends with them bro

    • @ginaxs7975
      @ginaxs7975 3 роки тому +61

      Right? I was thinking the same thing!

    • @safir2241
      @safir2241 3 роки тому +55

      they are real ones

    • @silverbullett6684
      @silverbullett6684 3 роки тому +51

      Right! They would probably be better than any friends I've ever had. They don't judge you. Very sweet!

    • @DioBrando-ln1to
      @DioBrando-ln1to 3 роки тому +62

      @@silverbullett6684 Honestly genuine friends are hard to find these boys would be better company than half the people I've ever come across

    • @Nantosuelta
      @Nantosuelta 3 роки тому +13

      @@DioBrando-ln1to amen to that!

  • @vomm
    @vomm Рік тому +681

    Tanner is a golden retreiver in human form

    • @Imovedchannelsookkk
      @Imovedchannelsookkk Рік тому +12

      Yeah

    • @TargetedIndividuallivesmatter
      @TargetedIndividuallivesmatter 8 місяців тому +1

      More like a pitbull

    • @Polaf3456
      @Polaf3456 8 місяців тому +19

      @@TargetedIndividuallivesmatter Why do you say that?
      I love all dog breeds, but pitbulls are more seen as singularly defensive attack dogs, and golden retrievers are seen as "family dogs".
      I think you extrapolating that information to a human being is confusing at best without further clarification.

    • @Cc-fh1io
      @Cc-fh1io 7 місяців тому +22

      Pitibulls are actually very loveable and friendly and exciting or relaxed, they just have negative public sterotype.

    • @Polaf3456
      @Polaf3456 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Cc-fh1io I agree, I own one and she is the most loving cuddly dog ever.

  • @taxicab780
    @taxicab780 3 роки тому +306

    I’m so glad to have the most wholesome comment section back, im crying

  • @biggestcomplainer
    @biggestcomplainer 8 місяців тому +38

    Tanner … national treasure. We must protect him at all cost

  • @breitnerredondosuarez7627
    @breitnerredondosuarez7627 3 роки тому +214

    5:12 You can see how Blake breathes in too.
    Man you can tell they support each other during hard times in their daily basis.
    Wholesome, I've watched this interview so many times.
    It brings pure joy.

    • @bkk1996
      @bkk1996 10 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for timestamping this bc I was almost at that part of the vid when I saw your comment. I probably would've missed it otherwise. Such a small gesture that succinctly highlights their bond ❤ So sweet and wholesome, I teared up a bit

    • @james5796
      @james5796 9 місяців тому +1

      It also brings me a ton of joy

  • @ColinR_From214
    @ColinR_From214 3 роки тому +398

    PLEASE Chris, interview these fine young gentleman again! I would love to see how they are doing now during this pandemic! Two of my favorite SBSK friends!

    • @meganrosbury3504
      @meganrosbury3504 11 місяців тому +21

      You might be interested to know that Tanner is on the second season of the Netflix show “Love on the Spectrum” 😊

  • @annaliesefowler
    @annaliesefowler 3 роки тому +609

    They way the constantly complement each other is so heartwarming. So happy to have the comments back!

  • @katarzynanowak2087
    @katarzynanowak2087 3 роки тому +562

    I live in a country, where there is not much help for people with disabilities, they are often being isolated, children in schools do not learn about diversity and disabilities. When I saw this video and got to know, that people with intellectual disabilities can be in a college and that there is a special assistant, who helps them to live an independent life I was shocked, in a positive way of course. I wish it was a norm everywhere in the world. The bond between Blake and Tanner is beautiful:)

    • @Th3_Int3rn3t_RuIn3d_M3_
      @Th3_Int3rn3t_RuIn3d_M3_ 3 роки тому +15

      Im still looking for colleges ahead of time currently as I have autism and I live in America and I don't wanna leave country so im looking for some good school...its good to know colleges do have assistance but looking for one has taken me a year...I started looking in tenth grade and im going to eleventh...where I live there isn't really much but there is some help and fun programs.

    • @Cindy99765
      @Cindy99765 3 роки тому +17

      @@Th3_Int3rn3t_RuIn3d_M3_ I don't know what part of the US you're in, but one school called Rutgers University (New Jersey) is pretty nice for students with different disabilities. We have an office of disabilities where you can apply for accomodations for exams, attendance, and sometimes in housing. There are notetakers who can take notes for people with severe conditions too. There's lots of majors and clubs to pick from and the Douglass campus is very quiet and rural.

    • @glebsokolov2366
      @glebsokolov2366 3 роки тому +1

      Why do people in Poland need to learn about “diversity”? It has its own native ethnic group.

    • @dorothybarrett1853
      @dorothybarrett1853 3 роки тому +3

      @@Th3_Int3rn3t_RuIn3d_M3_ Vermont Technical College used to do an excellent job at providing support for its autistic students. I don't know if that's still the case, but might be worth checking into.

    • @typ044
      @typ044 3 роки тому +15

      @@glebsokolov2366 She didn't mean ethnic diversity.

  • @smurphul23
    @smurphul23 9 місяців тому +39

    "we're gonna have pizza, there's gonna be cake!"
    "is there anything else you want, if you could have anything?"
    "not really!"
    LOVE his attitude.

  • @sergpie
    @sergpie 3 роки тому +67

    When Blake was asked if he could change one thing in the world and said “My mind”. Wow. The average person seldom sees themselves as something they wish to change in the world… What a special and genuine couple of guys.

  • @leahb3853
    @leahb3853 2 роки тому +174

    Blake just seems like an amazing person. Really captured my attention. Quiet, but when he speaks he spits wisdom and maturity that many college students don't.

    • @rmcgee
      @rmcgee 2 роки тому +4

      Fr! Thinking he’d be an excellent philosophy major haha!

  • @mayneeyuh8713
    @mayneeyuh8713 3 роки тому +172

    OMG I love these two. Tanner is energetic and happy while Blake is low key and laid back. A perfect combination!
    Isaac is a godsend with FANTASTIC eyebrows. 😂 Great interview!

  • @MrLionelrichtea
    @MrLionelrichtea 3 роки тому +425

    Every so often when it all gets a bit too much I come back to this video. It gives me a lot of happiness and I get very nice emotions form it. Thanks Blake & Tanner.

    • @broidk9032
      @broidk9032 3 роки тому +17

      i came back to this video today because i had a bad day.

    • @jollytrawler5349
      @jollytrawler5349 3 роки тому +12

      This comment is some much more wholesome coming from "lionelrichtea" 🤣

    • @svenskakrigare9543
      @svenskakrigare9543 3 роки тому +6

      I agree. This is great

    • @felin_de_la_nuit
      @felin_de_la_nuit 3 роки тому +5

      Me too ✌🏼 Always makes me feel better and puts a huge smile on my face 😊

    • @henobani8039
      @henobani8039 3 роки тому +4

      i usually go to the video of the zebra getting their nose bitten off by crocodiles... that makes me a bit happier i guess.

  • @ES-em6os
    @ES-em6os 3 роки тому +207

    It’s my 21ST birthday today and I was upset at the fact that my birthdays on a Tuesday and it won’t be as fun to get drunk and go out clubbing and hearing him say all he wanted for his 21ST was pizza and cake made me feel so ungrateful and humbled me . I have now made plans to spend this day with my family ❤️ these two are amazing !!

    • @anazcm7489
      @anazcm7489 3 роки тому +14

      👍

    • @elizabethrose104
      @elizabethrose104 3 роки тому +13

      Exactly and I always feel bad that mine was during the pandemic and I didn’t drink at all cause I was just with my parents and didn’t see anyone else because of covid but this guy really knows what life is truly about 🥺

    • @joserodriguez6173
      @joserodriguez6173 2 роки тому +8

      @@elizabethrose104 that might just have saved your life though.. I believe everything happens for a reason.

    • @phoebeel
      @phoebeel 10 місяців тому +1

      You can party another day ;) birthdays are a concept anyway, if you don't like the season you're birthday is in, just celebrate it a few months later. No worries.
      I'm an autumn child, end of October. It's shitty to celebrate because you have to do something indoors. So I decided to celebrate together with my partner on midsommar :) the friends love it too because who doesn't like a BBQ? 😁

  • @derek6460
    @derek6460 3 роки тому +196

    Their positivity is infectious...hope these guys are doing well!

  • @michaelriegler2594
    @michaelriegler2594 2 роки тому +19

    " If you could change one thing what would you change?"
    The fact that he said his mind kind of broke my heart a little bit.

  • @idek7438
    @idek7438 3 роки тому +76

    My man Tanner is so confident, I wish I was as confident as he is. He's right, everyone should feel good about themselves for being nice and polite. Those are qualities that are not easy to find in people.
    I think his confidence really complements Blake's more subdued demeanor too. These two are like the epitome of an introvert and an extrovert balancing each other's personality and being perfect together. Such a positive interview!

  • @mollyrogers5851
    @mollyrogers5851 2 роки тому +37

    I LOVE how comfortable Tanner is with saying "I don't understand". I'm pretty neurotypical, and its so hard for me to ask for help.

  • @cassn8725
    @cassn8725 3 роки тому +35

    I'm autistic, high functioning and l wish the best for this guy. He seems lovely and so bright and positive. I feel for Blake but I'm glad they have a friendship that is beyond what many could hope for.

  • @marcusgusfre2888
    @marcusgusfre2888 3 роки тому +48

    When Blake said that he want to change his mind, it really hurt. It makes me take for granted the life I have. These two have figured out life more than I have.

  • @COLT-zr3jf
    @COLT-zr3jf 3 роки тому +37

    These two young men could teach the world a thing or two about friendships, loyalty and love.

  • @barbaratreuil6591
    @barbaratreuil6591 10 місяців тому +10

    Their parents are obviously awesome. They have made sure their sons have gotten all the love and assistance they’ve needed from birth and now are promoting independent living.

  • @Iamliterallyjustagirlonline
    @Iamliterallyjustagirlonline 3 роки тому +130

    Hello Tanner and Blake. You two seem like really good friends. Thank you for coming and sharing about yourself with us.

  • @Blarnix
    @Blarnix 3 роки тому +175

    It’s so interesting that Tanner is super happy to express himself and give his true feelings, that’s honestly great to see

  • @vampire7144
    @vampire7144 3 роки тому +24

    "I wouldn't wish for anything because I have everything right here" We need more people like Tanner in this world 🥺

  • @oliviajackson9616
    @oliviajackson9616 3 роки тому +85

    I'm an autistic college student and I love seeing this friendship 💖

  • @Twomadthe2nd
    @Twomadthe2nd 3 роки тому +1835

    "Were gonna have pizza and we are gonna have cake" The most inspiring words of a legend
    edit :thx for the likes but what in da world is going on in the replies section?

  • @tori1901
    @tori1901 3 роки тому +59

    Oh man, they are so cute! you can notice how much Isaac is doing a great job being their ILA and a good friend. Also, I love Blake and Tanner's friendship. That video just melted my heart

  • @lurelin4801
    @lurelin4801 3 роки тому +98

    Glad to have a huge part of the community back and able to comment again

  • @eatnplaytoday
    @eatnplaytoday 7 місяців тому +15

    Tanner is obviously an extrovert 😅. What a pure soul. Conner is very patient with him; obviously they are meant to be friends

    • @aquastartv1895
      @aquastartv1895 2 місяці тому

      as an autistic extrovert, I definitely agree with you.

  • @usefulpoison673
    @usefulpoison673 3 роки тому +92

    What a beautiful bond between friends.

  • @4theloveofcartoons
    @4theloveofcartoons 5 місяців тому +6

    “There’s people that are nice on the outside and mean on the inside.” So true Tanner! ❤

  • @annac.valente3538
    @annac.valente3538 11 місяців тому +54

    I was watching love on the spectrum and I recognized Tanner from somewhere. Nice to see more of him! This is one of my favourite videos from the channel.

  • @yaltasciallo1835
    @yaltasciallo1835 3 роки тому +17

    I’m a special education teacher & I hope my students have a living opportunity such as theirs on a college campus.
    These two young men seem like wonderful roommates. Isaac made a great point. You don’t have to be a superhero to work with people with disabilities. They are warm and sweet and kind and will bring out the best qualities in you.

  • @svenmarkert6368
    @svenmarkert6368 3 роки тому +49

    When I heard that the comments are back on, I immediately rushed to this video because this is my absolute favorite! These guys are awesome! How they found and compliment each other is amazing. What a pure and true friendship! Isaac is definitely not lying when he says these two are the best roommates he's ever had.

  • @dylanbanks3656
    @dylanbanks3656 5 місяців тому +3

    Tanner speaks from the heart. Everyone should learn something off this man, rather than pleasing others and saying things they think people want to hear.

  • @ftroop2000
    @ftroop2000 3 роки тому +70

    I feel for these boys. We all know how mean people can be, and take advantage of others innocence.

  • @emmafleming2676
    @emmafleming2676 11 місяців тому +16

    Watching "Love on the Spectrum" season two. Absolutely love seeing Tanner again 4 years later! Wishing him luck on his dating journey! :)

  • @inayahcee3131
    @inayahcee3131 10 місяців тому +10

    I can't believe Tanner is on Love on The Spectrum now!! I knew I recognized him, he is a breath of fresh air.

  • @nikkoleadams4677
    @nikkoleadams4677 3 роки тому +85

    It IS okay to be wrong, and it’s okay to ask as many questions as you need to! Such wisdom from these dudes!

  • @HeZappy
    @HeZappy 11 місяців тому +18

    I knew I recognized Tanner from somewhere after watching the recent season of Love on the Spectrum! I wish him nothing but the best of luck to find true love

  • @maisy7926
    @maisy7926 3 роки тому +32

    Thankyou so much for this video. My adult son is Autistic and this video has made me feel less alone. There are others like
    him. What a lovely set of people. God Bless you all xxx❤️

    • @evonline
      @evonline 3 роки тому +5

      They are lovely. I wish we had more extended families & communities. I'd love to hang out with them at a family party.

  • @tararogic7299
    @tararogic7299 3 роки тому +38

    This is one of my favorite sbsk videos. Their friendship melts me. Such genuine love for one another. It's so special. I feel blessed to be able to witness it through this video.

  • @digi_gabrielic
    @digi_gabrielic 10 місяців тому +6

    I was so happy to be able to come back to this video after seeing Tanner on Love on the Spectrum. I said out loud to my mom, "I've seen him before!" I like the part where he says he is happy to be autistic because it is not a bad thing. I used to think my autism was a bad thing, but I know it's not because of this channel and shows like love on the spectrum.

  • @Verinius
    @Verinius 3 роки тому +116

    "Is it great to be you?"
    "Yes it's great to be me."
    "Why?"
    "Because I love myself."
    HECK YEAH. There are people out there who are rich, good looking, smart and still they don't love themselves. That's not greatness.

  • @olafelsberry420
    @olafelsberry420 2 роки тому +8

    These two young men are soul brothers, I’m glad they have a strong emotional connection.

  • @angelalicea7871
    @angelalicea7871 3 роки тому +24

    This video inspired me to make a change in my life and go back to something I thought wasn’t for me, but it is. Thank you Chris, Blake, & Tanner.

  • @Jumping-cholla
    @Jumping-cholla 3 роки тому +9

    Blake and Tanner are yin and yang. Tanner is outgoing and energetic while Blake is so mellow and laid back. They complement each other perfectly!

  • @kimmiecat420
    @kimmiecat420 9 місяців тому +8

    Tanner saying he feels more confident then asking what confident meant again, that was so cute

  • @xx-des6628
    @xx-des6628 11 місяців тому +66

    I KNEW HE LOOKED SO SO SO FAMILIAR !! ❤❤ AHHH this season of LOS🧩 is so good bc of Tanner !!

  • @D-me-dream-smp
    @D-me-dream-smp 3 роки тому +14

    This shows how everyone just wants to be accepted for who they are, feel respected and appreciated. A great example of true friendship. It’s great seeing programs that support these guys reaching their full potential.

  • @typ044
    @typ044 3 роки тому +28

    A round of applause for Isacc as well and all the people out there that make people's lives a little more bearable.

  • @DAVEJJR
    @DAVEJJR 3 роки тому +4

    Tanner & Blake are the truest example of friendship and unconditional love I’ve seen in a very long time! God bless these beautiful young men!

  • @austinsy8056
    @austinsy8056 2 роки тому +42

    Who wouldn’t wanna be friends with these guys? They seem cool as heck

  • @Zlinky.4220
    @Zlinky.4220 3 роки тому +39

    Their friendship makes me smile so much! All these videos are so incredibly well done and I have to thank you for always doing such a good job of spreading awareness and being an amazing interviewer

  • @alyssagauk
    @alyssagauk 10 місяців тому +6

    I just started Love on the Spectrum and KNEW I had seen Tanner before. It was from this interview! Such a lovely, bright soul.

  • @zonkedmusician1502
    @zonkedmusician1502 7 місяців тому +3

    This will always be one of my favourite SBSK videos ever. Love these guys. There is just honesty, love and respect. We could learn a lot from these guys.

  • @teahorseguitarstraps1856
    @teahorseguitarstraps1856 3 роки тому +36

    One of my favorite SBSKs so far. These guys must be a lot of fun to hang out with.

    • @evonline
      @evonline 3 роки тому +4

      I think if we had more extended families & less mobile communities we would be more aware of how much fun it is to have a variety of people in our lives.

  • @bobevans1395
    @bobevans1395 3 роки тому +7

    BEAUTIFUL SOULS no ego, no trying to put one over..just being...lot to earn from these people...

  • @WCove99
    @WCove99 3 роки тому +9

    I wish I had roommates as cool as these young men! Love how they are all genuine and really enjoy each other's company!

  • @itme999
    @itme999 3 роки тому +47

    SO PSYCHED to have comments back 🥰
    This is one of my favorite SBSK videos so far. These guys are so pure and positive and I want to hang out with them.

  • @colemarie9262
    @colemarie9262 7 місяців тому +9

    Tanner is famous now! Couldn’t have happened to a nicer person 😊

  • @wolfganghaiden5817
    @wolfganghaiden5817 2 роки тому +4

    Tanner is an amazing human being. I feel so happy now after watching this video. This guy is so sincere and has just such a great charisma. I wish more people would be like him and be just nice and polite to each other and start helping them instead of pushing each other down

  • @millions2nette
    @millions2nette 3 роки тому +9

    He said..."I'd change my mind". Wow! That is quite deep. These boys are golden.

  • @jackstraw0223
    @jackstraw0223 Місяць тому +1

    Tanner, my man. I wish I could be as nice and understanding as you. You probably bring joy to everyone you meet. What else could someone ask for?

  • @greyspinzon
    @greyspinzon 11 місяців тому +5

    I came here after all these years because I saw Tanner on the new season of Love on The Spectrum. I'm so happy we get to see more of him!
    Thank you for introducing us to him ❤

  • @andromedahearme63
    @andromedahearme63 3 роки тому +100

    What is it like to be you?
    "It is great to be me"
    Why?
    "Because I love myself"
    This is amazing

    • @watermelonice2419
      @watermelonice2419 3 роки тому +10

      I agree. You can tell he loves himself, he radiates pure joy. I wish I had more self love like him. It’s really a beautiful thing to see.

  • @sopuruobiesie4303
    @sopuruobiesie4303 3 роки тому +24

    Boy am I glad I checked out youtube today. My eldest sister is 32years with severe Down syndrome symptoms. I am not very convinced she couldn't be as independent as these two given she has had no access to special needs services. My parents once placed her in a boarding school for special needs kids (run by catholic sisters) but withdrew her after she was physically abused on several occasions for being "disobedient" and bedwetting. I love her to pieces. Spare a thought for all special needs persons in developing countries with little or no access to care.

  • @nicknatale1438
    @nicknatale1438 4 місяці тому +4

    I Iove their dynamic. I feel so happy they have each other and so much love for each other and themselves.

  • @DJPRS
    @DJPRS 3 роки тому +12

    SBSK having their comments turned back on means the world to me! When I’m feeling down and feeling like I didn’t do much in my day to make the world a better place I sit down and watch these videos and seeing all the amazing and wonderful people smiling and overcoming so much makes me a bit better because I know that if they can wake up and tackle the next day then I know I can too!

  • @anjavoigt3489
    @anjavoigt3489 3 роки тому +12

    I would really like to see another interview with them! I know that living as a person with disability is not happy clappy all the time, but somehow this interview spreads optimism and that is beautiful!!! I think that has also to do with the attitude that these two young fellas or three young fellas have in their situation and the organisation does a great job!

  • @Tqueenboss1
    @Tqueenboss1 3 роки тому +19

    I really love the relationship they have. They have such positive attitudes, and I wish them well!

  • @caitlinelizabeth1023
    @caitlinelizabeth1023 2 роки тому +8

    This absolutely moved me to tears from beginning to end. I am so glad these two were able to share the experience together. So awesome! My son has Down Syndrome and he continues to amaze me everyday. ❤💚💜💛💙

  • @Anastasia-ahhh
    @Anastasia-ahhh 10 місяців тому +11

    Tanner is such a Golden Retriever.

  • @TheNoonie50
    @TheNoonie50 10 місяців тому +4

    Tanner is such a LOVELY person. I watched him on a show called "Love On The Spectrum". He is always so happy. Of course Blake is lovely too!!

  • @marisgoldenhour6212
    @marisgoldenhour6212 2 роки тому +3

    I find that kindness question difficult to answer too. I love Tanner's answers on that one and his ask for clarification of the interviewers questions. Very refreshing they had no fear saying they didn't understand something and asking the interviewer to repeat or explain. Thank you for sharing!

  • @replyhazy
    @replyhazy 11 місяців тому +17

    Just saw Tanner on Love on the Spectrum! He’s so positive and awesome 😊

  • @gabriellaberman
    @gabriellaberman 11 місяців тому +8

    I’m watching the new season of Love On The Spectrum and knew I recognised Tanner from somewhere! It wasn’t until I saw his house and his roommates that I knew it was from here! Rooting for him!

  • @valerieolive9100
    @valerieolive9100 9 годин тому

    They are absolutely the cutest. I believe they can be HUGE inspirations to other kids/people with disabilities. Keep it up you guys. You're both very blessed to have found each other. I love it

  • @LilyHeartfelt
    @LilyHeartfelt 5 місяців тому +3

    The pink guy has so much light and life and happiness to him 😭

  • @BaronVonGarius
    @BaronVonGarius 3 роки тому +5

    This is one of the most beautiful channels I've ever been lucky enough to come across, thank you Blake and Tanner

  • @madisonwallace
    @madisonwallace 10 місяців тому +3

    I KNEW I'd seen Tanner before when I watched Love on the Spectrum. Just realized it's because I've been following SBSK for years. So happy for Tanner and how he's blossomed.

  • @snuspede5569
    @snuspede5569 3 роки тому +12

    tanner is really smart for his disability i think it only affects his speech cause he seems emotionally intelligent

  • @toddsin8611
    @toddsin8611 3 роки тому +13

    Wow, I love all sbsk vids but this friendship really hit me deep. I am so envious of their happiness and confidence.