Dating As A Black Woman

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  • @arturoluna475
    @arturoluna475 10 місяців тому +5168

    Second one had a more realistic point of view, that will serve her well long term

    • @themofomayor
      @themofomayor 10 місяців тому +156

      Successful marriage.. but divorced? Yup, very realistic

    • @kamilhoffmann2410
      @kamilhoffmann2410 10 місяців тому

      ​@@themofomayor translating from whomanese: she still regrets divorce & knows her situationships lead to nothing and there will be no progress. As a single mum, divorced, the chances of a long term relationship with a black doctor or engineer 6figure are close to zero, even if she deserve them all, what was the point to leave a husband and use all option for monkey branching, what's hard to confess, failed. And she could still keep her sister in delusion too, booth avoid responsibility and accountability for their action. They're still 10s

    • @ccc-qp7el
      @ccc-qp7el 10 місяців тому +35

      Being open to any guy is immature not realistic... Be for real. People really don't believe in love anybody. If I'd go and just marry a guy I can have a conversation with wtf is the point? Wtf is the point to marry if they ain't the one. Make it make sense Americans... Cause I don't understand you.

    • @kamilhoffmann2410
      @kamilhoffmann2410 10 місяців тому

      @@ccc-qp7el 34-16(school sweetheart) it's 18yrs of dating, searching and "exploring". How you can say "being open to any guy" it sounds just opposite "being extremely picky". It's like saying 20yrs dating = no one interesting was there? It's only her to blame for! She's delusional and overmarketing her value aka shopping out of her league (guys not want her much, she's not a catch, you women are not that special and unique)

    • @seanmorgan7452
      @seanmorgan7452 10 місяців тому

      It’s American WOMEN NOT MEN! Women have zero accountability!!!!

  • @wanchawancha5323
    @wanchawancha5323 5 місяців тому +1504

    2nd woman won’t be single for long. Extremely classy and feminine.

    • @Kolistwaky9161
      @Kolistwaky9161 5 місяців тому +70

      They are both pretty

    • @Tetebeenee
      @Tetebeenee 5 місяців тому +88

      @@Kolistwaky9161they said classy and feminine nothing about them being pretty

    • @realbrownblackhuman1317
      @realbrownblackhuman1317 5 місяців тому +6

      EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND THE SUN, PHOTOSYNTHESIS IS IN OUR SKIN HENCE EVERYTHING REVOLVING AROUND BLK MEN😮 THATS WHY THEY CANT LEAVE US BE

    • @Tetebeenee
      @Tetebeenee 5 місяців тому +18

      @@realbrownblackhuman1317 trust me we can leave y’all be, don’t be pompous

    • @corybee1
      @corybee1 4 місяці тому +4

      I agree definitely

  • @undefeatedaj
    @undefeatedaj 10 місяців тому +3764

    They think 30s is old. Wait til you turn 50, you’ll be depressed 😂

    • @kat420365
      @kat420365 9 місяців тому +18

      Are you over 50?

    • @undefeatedaj
      @undefeatedaj 9 місяців тому

      @@kat420365 I’m 82

    • @dedricklane4899
      @dedricklane4899 9 місяців тому +134

      For women they feel old, for men 30 is just entering your prime

    • @lakctalks2818
      @lakctalks2818 9 місяців тому

      Because these 50 year old pervs in the comments think anything past 25 is old for women.

    • @shellym4241
      @shellym4241 9 місяців тому +128

      I'm 54 and fabulous.

  • @AAMAZINLOVECRAFT
    @AAMAZINLOVECRAFT 5 місяців тому +253

    The taller darkskin beautiful lady with the long high-ponytail hairstyle speaking 2nd is very lovable, with such a pretty smile!¡!

    • @elegantrio
      @elegantrio 14 днів тому +2

      Heavy on the details 😂

  • @kingkongrc247
    @kingkongrc247 10 місяців тому +766

    The one that's 33 seems to have a good perspective on things and her personality seems to be lovely ❤

    • @JadedeaJade
      @JadedeaJade 5 місяців тому +11

      That's why she was married.

    • @realbrownblackhuman1317
      @realbrownblackhuman1317 5 місяців тому

      EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND THE SUN, PHOTOSYNTHESIS IS IN OUR SKIN HENCE EVERYTHING REVOLVING AROUND BLK MEN😮 THATS WHY THEY CANT LEAVE US BE

    • @Htxracing97
      @Htxracing97 4 місяці тому +5

      Yea but she hanging out with them type of women

    • @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty
      @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty 3 місяці тому +5

      @@JadedeaJadeThat’s why it doesn’t matter because men treat women the same way

    • @JadedeaJade
      @JadedeaJade 3 місяці тому +5

      @@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty Naw fam. Bad men treat any woman bad even a good woman. Good men never do that.

  • @jimmy291846
    @jimmy291846 10 місяців тому +3440

    The unnecessary neck roll and air grabs are a direct indication of why she’s single.

    • @edb484
      @edb484 10 місяців тому

      That’s how black women are lol always snapping that neck

    • @jaytaylor2090
      @jaytaylor2090 10 місяців тому +234

      😂😂😂😂...air grabs!!

    • @yvesbony8571
      @yvesbony8571 10 місяців тому +61

      Preach!

    • @kofiarthur3749
      @kofiarthur3749 10 місяців тому +148

      I'm a black man, From Ghana 🇬🇭 and I'm sad to hear Sister says "If Black men likes them?" Sure Black men love and will die for Black women but the attitude of your 34 year old friend is the reason a lot of Black men and "maybe" some non black men stay away from you

    • @Ribbitplease
      @Ribbitplease 10 місяців тому +176

      Isn’t that part of culture and growing up? Just like how black men talk like they’re rapping.
      How is it a “direct indication of why she’s single?”

  • @kingnorth135
    @kingnorth135 10 місяців тому +1144

    Second shorty was bout to start spittin

    • @Gsogreat
      @Gsogreat 10 місяців тому +91

      Spittin bs

    • @Titusvorenus
      @Titusvorenus 10 місяців тому +17

      ​@@Gsogreat😂

    • @yvesbony8571
      @yvesbony8571 10 місяців тому

      Nikkaaaaah! Lmaoooooo

    • @kofiarthur3749
      @kofiarthur3749 10 місяців тому +50

      I'm a black man, From Ghana 🇬🇭 and I'm sad to hear Sister says "If Black men likes them" Sure Black men love and will die for Black women but the attitude of your 34 year old friend is the reason a lot of Black men and "maybe" non black men stay away from you

    • @hmmmm8873
      @hmmmm8873 10 місяців тому

      ​@@Gsogreathow you know?

  • @martaleszkiewicz5115
    @martaleszkiewicz5115 6 місяців тому +872

    "I love black men, I just don't know if they love us back" 😢 I'm not a black man, but I felt that in my heart 🥺

    • @mistickjackal1267
      @mistickjackal1267 6 місяців тому

      yes black men like black women that's why when they date out they look for black female body types in other races notice dominance and Filipino have black dna they preference is black women at time having to compete with men over they women make them leave same with white men wanting asian women and arab men wanting latina and african women

    • @STARZCATZ_LOL
      @STARZCATZ_LOL 6 місяців тому +86

      A lot of black men don’t…they usually use the black woman…who wants to be used 😊

    • @mistickjackal1267
      @mistickjackal1267 6 місяців тому +85

      @@STARZCATZ_LOL no they don't they keep to themselves a majority of black men are childless

    • @STARZCATZ_LOL
      @STARZCATZ_LOL 6 місяців тому +63

      @@mistickjackal1267 😂🤣😂 wake up, you’re dreaming again…I know the truth hurts.

    • @spb8039
      @spb8039 6 місяців тому

      Black men don't love their women.

  • @ashab434
    @ashab434 10 місяців тому +737

    I feel that “I love Black men I just don’t know if they love us” …. DAMN 😢🤯🤯🤯

    • @adamknight1387
      @adamknight1387 7 місяців тому +79

      cap.

    • @bigdunks4eva
      @bigdunks4eva 7 місяців тому

      Y'all don't even respect us. Y'all only see the worst black men, and the top 1%. Those of us in the middle don't exist to y'all

    • @Mrfantastic-hp2en
      @Mrfantastic-hp2en 7 місяців тому +62

      ​@@adamknight1387😂😂😂 big as cap

    • @SoundHumility
      @SoundHumility 7 місяців тому +27

      It depends what black men she's talking about for the 2nd lady.... these women have choices cause they beautiful...... She is just hurt over her Ex but she has options.... she can talk to any man she likes.... but most men can't do what she can do

    • @tatienono
      @tatienono 7 місяців тому

      They are jealous of us especially when we were born with beauty. They live to destroy us because it makes them feel powerful. Chose wisely 😊❤

  • @AVG336
    @AVG336 10 місяців тому +1869

    "I got white, asian, hispanic, black and every kind of man wanting to be my husband" /yet she's still single 🤦🤦🤦

    • @MzRawndi
      @MzRawndi 10 місяців тому +289

      Because she doesn’t want them, you heard?

    • @moneymakingmachine1706
      @moneymakingmachine1706 10 місяців тому +207

      if she doesn't want them it means they are low quality, and that means that she attracts low-quality men. that's why she is single. Her attitude explains it all@@MzRawndi

    • @MzRawndi
      @MzRawndi 10 місяців тому +80

      @@moneymakingmachine1706 thats what you define it as, she did not say that. I think she was going off of what she is attracted to. Has nothing to do with their quality. But I wont fully assume that, unlike you did.

    • @tatianannar1065
      @tatianannar1065 10 місяців тому +98

      ​@@moneymakingmachine1706not necessarily. Sometimes there's no connection. That doesn't mean it's because they are low value tf

    • @faucetcupz2436
      @faucetcupz2436 10 місяців тому +29

      @@MzRawndiyeah okay, auntie.

  • @byronh77
    @byronh77 10 місяців тому +1539

    I think the first one is very single because she thinks she’s more attractive than what she actually is, plus her tone is very condescending.

    • @blackhawk6695
      @blackhawk6695 10 місяців тому +96

      Most bw over price themselves!!

    • @michaeljohnson-ym8zp
      @michaeljohnson-ym8zp 10 місяців тому +187

      @@blackhawk6695or most men underprice them.

    • @kalencwil3924
      @kalencwil3924 10 місяців тому +57

      She has attitude

    • @RapK-fu2sh
      @RapK-fu2sh 10 місяців тому

      Underprice? And overprice? Are ya'll not humans? Sounds like selling cattle at the market. Sorry I thought we were past the era where humans had pricetags and were bought and sold.
      Funny how this generation has all the freedom yet goes full circle to start using slave-trading terms to refer to themselves.

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +75

      ​@@michaeljohnson-ym8zpno..they are very arrogant and combative then wonder why people are off put. They are off putting...then they put out with abusive men because ether are the only ones that can "handle" them and excite them.
      Women like her leave a Rsspectable man with 2 options : either get walked over or Leave.
      There is NOTHING he can do to make her act right..she will always self sabotage.

  • @TheIsha826
    @TheIsha826 6 місяців тому +82

    I'm 46 and loving it. I'm not old she is tripping if she think 34 is old.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому +4

      She's old because of her 88 body count that's why.

    • @Self-improving72
      @Self-improving72 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes to Men Y'ALL are..far as long term no...we not doing it we know y'all been getting ran through like trains in y'all earlier years of adulthood...

    • @Self-improving72
      @Self-improving72 2 місяці тому +1

      So as a result we enforcing change amongst y'all,a new breed of black/Original women

    • @Self-improving72
      @Self-improving72 2 місяці тому

      ​@@mateaukalua4426exactly 💯

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@mateaukalua4426 You sound bitter with the hand life dealt you. 😂🤡

  • @Ruffsecs
    @Ruffsecs 10 місяців тому +552

    She driving them carcasian men crazy.

    • @jplayzbass310
      @jplayzbass310 10 місяців тому +57

      😂😂😂😂

    • @lindseynero1000
      @lindseynero1000 10 місяців тому +71

      🚗 casian!

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +23

      ​@@lindseynero1000that's a bar. Driving Car carcasian is crazy.

    • @kofiarthur3749
      @kofiarthur3749 10 місяців тому +24

      I'm a black man, From Ghana 🇬🇭 and I'm sad to hear Sister says "If Black men likes them" Sure Black men love and will die for Black women but the attitude of your 34 year old friend is the reason a lot of Black men and "maybe" non black men stay away from you

    • @Barbwire710
      @Barbwire710 10 місяців тому +6

      New favorite word unlocked….I thought I didn’t hear her right. 😂

  • @JustChill2x
    @JustChill2x 10 місяців тому +549

    The woman on the left should definitely stay away from the woman on the right

    • @benzelfranklin
      @benzelfranklin 8 місяців тому +39

      I was thinking the same thing. I think id have a much happier life with the one on the left

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 8 місяців тому

      They think men wanting them for sex automatically means they want to marry and take care of them. Lol.

    • @ivanscynthia4521
      @ivanscynthia4521 8 місяців тому

      but she is not trying to date you tho@@benzelfranklin

    • @raebeauty4568
      @raebeauty4568 7 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ntandokazimanqele9462
      @ntandokazimanqele9462 7 місяців тому +13

      Very very different women those two

  • @macgill6098
    @macgill6098 10 місяців тому +831

    "CAR-CASIAN" MEN! 😂😂😂😂

    • @kendallrackley1308
      @kendallrackley1308 9 місяців тому +45

      🚗-casian LOL

    • @soy_yo.la.amber.
      @soy_yo.la.amber. 8 місяців тому +21

      😂😂😂.. yes! high valued men will see your behavior first, the way you talk, walk, sit and present yourself! And with that vocabulary🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. You can have all types but not the Type!!

    • @animimeclips
      @animimeclips 7 місяців тому +11

      It's Calk Asian men 😂

    • @briannyakundi9662
      @briannyakundi9662 7 місяців тому +2

      Hahaha

    • @BeGreat365
      @BeGreat365 7 місяців тому +8

      Lmaoo I’ll never say it the same again 🤌🏾😂

  • @fayluv6693
    @fayluv6693 2 місяці тому +49

    They are both so
    Beautiful ❤

  • @Goodoverevil2
    @Goodoverevil2 10 місяців тому +687

    She get em but can’t keep em 😮

    • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
      @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 10 місяців тому +48

      that's most women

    • @Jacqxzdiva1
      @Jacqxzdiva1 10 місяців тому +28

      Chiiiile is the average person worth being kept? We as individuals need to do way more self improvement.

    • @obeylu2015
      @obeylu2015 10 місяців тому +54

      @@Jacqxzdiva1she’s 34, her time is up. Lmaoo

    • @WeMajorWright
      @WeMajorWright 10 місяців тому +1

      Facts.

    • @kofiarthur3749
      @kofiarthur3749 10 місяців тому +13

      I'm a black man, From Ghana 🇬🇭 and I'm sad to hear Sister says "If Black men likes them" Sure Black men love and will die for Black women but the attitude of your 34 year old friend is the reason a lot of Black men and "maybe" non black men stay away from you

  • @Northsmen
    @Northsmen 10 місяців тому +176

    When the air grabbing starts there’s nothing else to ask

    • @N.O.M.A.A.M
      @N.O.M.A.A.M 10 місяців тому +24

      Man I hate that 😂

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +11

      ​@@N.O.M.A.A.Munless she's arguing for me...then I'm clapping my hands on x every x single x word lmao

    • @N.O.M.A.A.M
      @N.O.M.A.A.M 10 місяців тому +1

      @@CorporationSKY 🤣😂🤣

    • @AprilReigns18
      @AprilReigns18 10 місяців тому +2

      Air grabbing?

    • @curtismorrison8171
      @curtismorrison8171 10 місяців тому +5

      I am Black and I DEFINITELY approve this message!

  • @WeebGuru6
    @WeebGuru6 10 місяців тому +450

    She’s met the guy she just didn’t realize it

    • @glecservices3114
      @glecservices3114 10 місяців тому +27

      She did she just don’t want to be pinned down to one man a lot of them want the benefits and upside of being with a man but don’t want the duty and commitment and them putting in the effort part to keeping a man happy they want luxury without any sacrifice or consequences on their part
      Men need to just find women abroad passport bros style

    • @WeebGuru6
      @WeebGuru6 10 місяців тому +5

      @@glecservices3114 facts my brother

    • @cellycell8970
      @cellycell8970 10 місяців тому +25

      Pookie and ray ray had her at her prime

    • @pookieredz2359
      @pookieredz2359 10 місяців тому +10

      ​@@cellycell8970 Nah, I've never had that one 😂😂

    • @jonjeskie5234
      @jonjeskie5234 10 місяців тому

      ​@@pookieredz2359😆

  • @anthonywadlington1173
    @anthonywadlington1173 5 місяців тому +71

    I see why the first one is single. Some how she thinks the men she's meeting don't fit her qualifications, not knowing she doesn't fit their qualifications.

    • @hp7639
      @hp7639 3 місяці тому +1

      You were right to start with, not the second part. Most men would just accept her as she is, but she is way too picky. She may have a requirement of 6'3 and 100k income or she drops them. Her fish in the sea is limited.

    • @jamescollier7360
      @jamescollier7360 3 місяці тому +1

      @@hp7639 naw the men are not choosing her, she’s just masking her emotions.

    • @hp7639
      @hp7639 3 місяці тому

      @jamescollier7360 She's not a bad looking black lady. Most men are suckers for looks even if the woman is brainless, so it has more to do with her than the men. But of course you are entitled to your opinion as well. I've met a number of these kind of women.

    • @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty
      @EnlightenedGoldenBeauty 3 місяці тому +2

      Women choose men first. She clearly said they wanted more. She has the right to choose correctly the first time so y’all won’t blame her later

    • @hp7639
      @hp7639 3 місяці тому

      @oncode7735 My comment to him was taken down for some reason. I probably mentioned a color that wasn't green. But yes, it is almost always the woman that chooses the man.

  • @gilbertgarcia69
    @gilbertgarcia69 10 місяців тому +110

    May god bless them with a partner they can create a family with and live a happy life together.

  • @fts12-g7x
    @fts12-g7x 10 місяців тому +523

    This video proves why they’re single and nothing to do with race. I bet she’s tough to deal with at home.

    • @_noname2032
      @_noname2032 10 місяців тому +17

      I thought exactly the same brother

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 10 місяців тому +25

      They always are tough to deal with

    • @Shark-hn4mv
      @Shark-hn4mv 10 місяців тому +43

      Chill. Can't expect perfect answers. Their responses are leagues better than what you'd get from most women when asking about their dating life. At least she has standards that hasn't made her into a thot or single mom.

    • @santos016
      @santos016 10 місяців тому

      When you say race are you referring to ethnicity because in the Black Culture this is all we see when it comes to black females, there aggressive, mean, loud, obnoxious, w/attitudes.

    • @charlesbrown-cv3jx
      @charlesbrown-cv3jx 10 місяців тому

      Which is usually a black woman's problem. Race has to do with it as well. Black women are more masculine, which causes issues that men do not want, and that makes them the lowest to be desired in the dating marketplace

  • @allensmith9620
    @allensmith9620 10 місяців тому +709

    1st GIRL ls hilarious..... 2 lady is very respectful 💯🙏🏽

    • @dank1883
      @dank1883 6 місяців тому

      She said “single now” then “im married”

    • @jillbob
      @jillbob 5 місяців тому +12

      @@dank1883*She was married

    • @realbrownblackhuman1317
      @realbrownblackhuman1317 5 місяців тому

      EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND THE SUN, PHOTOSYNTHESIS IS IN OUR SKIN HENCE EVERYTHING REVOLVING AROUND BLK MEN😮 THATS WHY THEY CANT LEAVE US BE

    • @jillbob
      @jillbob 4 місяці тому +5

      @@realbrownblackhuman1317 “Photosynthesis is in our skin”? What are you a plant?

    • @realbrownblackhuman1317
      @realbrownblackhuman1317 4 місяці тому

      @@jillbob I FEEL BAD FOR YOU. I’M NOT A PLANT. THE SUN WAS MADE FIRST. EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND IT. MELANATED MEN ARE THE SEED OF HUMANITY THATS WHY YOU ARE SO INFLUENCE OR INSPIRED BY EVERYTHING WE DO BUT TOO INSECURE TO ACTUALLY BE US. I GUARANTEE IF YOUR A NOT BLACK, LGBT, A FEMALE OR WHITE (.), I BET YOU ARE INFLUENCED IN 1 WAY OR ANOTHER BY MELANATED MEN. A RAPPER, BASKETBALL PLAYER, CEO, OR BUSINESS OWNER. AND I BET YOU ACKNOWLEDGE MELANATED PPL AS THE EMOTIONAL PUNCHING BAG FOR EVERYONE TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES, I ALSO BET YOU’D DECLINE TRADING PLACES BECAUSE YOU PROBABLY WON’T BE ABLE TO DO THINGS LIKE BE INCARCERATED THEN BECOME A CEO

  • @TeanaDaMogul
    @TeanaDaMogul 6 місяців тому +22

    They literally look so good

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому

      Will spend all your fxcking money too....

  • @Itzblu777
    @Itzblu777 10 місяців тому +116

    One on the right definitely ran off all the good dudes

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому

      Plot Twist: there are no "good dudes." 😂

    • @bangtanphoenix7280
      @bangtanphoenix7280 Місяць тому

      @@TomikaKellythere are. you must think like her

  • @azeefox
    @azeefox 10 місяців тому +110

    the part when she said she doesnt know if black men love black women was cut short

    • @eleashaeatman
      @eleashaeatman 6 місяців тому +34

      Right and that was the most important part of the interview.

    • @thomslotusflower6025
      @thomslotusflower6025 6 місяців тому +30

      It's because the toxic egotistical BM are always trying to project themselves as desirable for having dark skin but in the converse try to put down BW for having the same skin tone and try to portray them as not desirable. Make it make sense.
      These were pretty, fit BW and he couldn't box them into a stereotype so he could justify his and alot of BM's love for preferences and their internalized colorism.

    • @defaultdacat
      @defaultdacat 6 місяців тому

      ​@@thomslotusflower6025 welllll...I mean...she did say
      CARcasian men 😂😂😂😂 she's obviously not educated and has an attitude. Such a turn off.

    • @MarvelMadness2003
      @MarvelMadness2003 6 місяців тому +2

      @@thomslotusflower6025I think he just asked them a question because there’s a lot of black women that have low self esteem. So he was just asking how they felt

    • @thomslotusflower6025
      @thomslotusflower6025 6 місяців тому +14

      @MarvelMadness2003 I appreciate your point of view but I think you're being very generous.
      I have seen a lot of his videos and he does not hold women in high regard. He is one of those "What do you bring to the table types" He is also colorist, he is darker than the both of them and he is trying to reinforce the trope that no men find BW attractive and that only preferences and WW rate. I mean probably in his world.
      I wouldn't doubt some BW have low self esteem, any women at some stage in her life may be subject to it.
      The thing that is concerning that BM, these toxic manosphere ones are always trying to push the narrative that BW aren't attractive. The hypocrisy of thinking our skintone is a hindrance as a woman and it's to be celebrated when it pertains to him. It's about these type of BM , trying to make BW small to justify their preferences and build their egos trying to make BW feel small and undesirable.
      She felt the need to defend herself by naming the groups of men she attracts, in order to counter his attack.
      You seem like a very wholesome person, who gives the benefit of the doubt. But judging from this creator's body of work, I feel compelled to call attention to his very toxic behavior.

  • @jimmydabutler9022
    @jimmydabutler9022 10 місяців тому +618

    "Single now" meaning her other lonely single friend broke that marriage up. I guarantee it .

    • @dijonalexander3666
      @dijonalexander3666 10 місяців тому +39

      Spot on my friend!!
      It's something about the excitement of being free and them having money now to do and go where ever they please.
      This behavior has ruined the traditional standards values of family.
      I blame the parents!!!!!
      They failed to teach them these types of things.
      And half of them now are doubling their parents salary.
      Once they get to that point in life, they tend to forget where they came from and walk around like there s____ don't stink!!!
      No respect for authority!!!
      Think that the world is revolved around them!!
      I also blame society of this modern woman living.

    • @gvhgbbn6472
      @gvhgbbn6472 10 місяців тому

      you’re schizophrenic

    • @Wanderer25
      @Wanderer25 10 місяців тому +44

      I'd put money on it that her bad attitude friend was in her ear influencing her leave her marriage. Now they're both for the streets 🤣

    • @mokococolata
      @mokococolata 10 місяців тому

      Blaming parents before society... Why​@@dijonalexander3666?

    • @olababs2048
      @olababs2048 10 місяців тому +14

      😂😂😂 she should run from her before she break any relationship she's going to have in future

  • @TheTruthIsBlurred
    @TheTruthIsBlurred 5 місяців тому +291

    Black men seem to be loving other black men more than women these days
    -Katt Williams

    • @afro_princess1671
      @afro_princess1671 4 місяці тому +6

      I wonder why

    • @Shillery-n1i
      @Shillery-n1i 4 місяці тому +24

      @@afro_princess1671the Diddy effect everybody knows BLK men love men

    • @TheTruthIsBlurred
      @TheTruthIsBlurred 4 місяці тому +6

      @@afro_princess1671 well tell us then

    • @Htxracing97
      @Htxracing97 4 місяці тому

      Nigga quoting katt Williams like he somebody to look up to

    • @Mii..
      @Mii.. 4 місяці тому +2

      Right lol. They diss their women so hard for other girls that are not bw. 😂

  • @ToriiVii.Legiterally
    @ToriiVii.Legiterally 10 місяців тому +142

    one of these women was so classy and definitely a woman i could respect and reasons with. The other... Makes me wonder why they are even friends😅

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +32

      My ninja...that's the whole fkn problem.
      Men can't tell the difference cause they stand so close to each other.
      Single friends will keep friends single
      Girl on the Left's red flag IS being friends with the girl on the Right.
      And why can't men ask for her Age? Or Weight? but she can publically embarass him for Cheesecake factory (salary) and being "too short"?

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 10 місяців тому

      I find that many of the most classy educated black women will still associate themselves with ghetto girl friends for the sake of “sisterhood”. It’s truly sad.

    • @E.P.7131
      @E.P.7131 10 місяців тому +9

      Now you understand men's dilemma

    • @whitneywilliams317
      @whitneywilliams317 10 місяців тому +5

      Finally a woman that understands lol

    • @mokococolata
      @mokococolata 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@CorporationSKYimagine she may be trying to help her friend get on track to get her life together fully. Is being friends with someone to help her out too?

  • @lindseynero1000
    @lindseynero1000 10 місяців тому +177

    She had a successful, long marriage but now single… Couldn’t have been that successful?? 🧐🧐

    • @Billyb0b557
      @Billyb0b557 10 місяців тому +28

      Plus she's only 33. It couldn't have been that long either? 15 years max and that's if she got married at 18 which is unlikely

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +19

      ​@@Billyb0b55710 years is a long time...need more info behind the break though. If she says she was the issue, and she left before she ruined it...I'd believe it..or go with the classic response "he was boring and I was unhappy..I fellt like I could do better" hahaha

    • @kamilhoffmann2410
      @kamilhoffmann2410 10 місяців тому +1

      I can guess:
      1) he (exHusband) was narcissistic and abusive.
      2) very successful, long marriage (= single mum of 2, living off exHusband money, house)
      3) bright future seems not so bright! Single sisters keep other sisters still single and they cross-empowering themselves still in delusion!
      4) they're not settle for less till 40+, they're still queens 10/10. Single "only now", "explore options" 🤪🤦‍♂️

    • @xxxxxxxx8903
      @xxxxxxxx8903 10 місяців тому +47

      Successful until he cheated maybe

    • @MisterJackson-so9lo
      @MisterJackson-so9lo 10 місяців тому +69

      ​@@xxxxxxxx8903Yeah it seems like she was cheated on. The comment "I love black men but I don't know if they love us" spoke volumes.

  • @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast
    @TheUndefeatedOfTheEast 10 місяців тому +57

    That hand was working overtime.

  • @islandgirl024
    @islandgirl024 5 місяців тому +64

    I love being a black woman

  • @georgeparker8198
    @georgeparker8198 10 місяців тому +180

    Girl with the red bag seems insufferable.

    • @davida99
      @davida99 10 місяців тому +19

      I feel bad for the simp that would be willing to put up with her BS. Let’s hope she stay single

    • @Itzblu777
      @Itzblu777 10 місяців тому +5

      It looks kinda orange

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому

      ​​@@Itzblu777she has her victim testicles in there ...its red from the blood

    • @kofiarthur3749
      @kofiarthur3749 10 місяців тому +5

      I'm a black man, From Ghana 🇬🇭 and I'm sad to hear Sister says "If Black men likes them" Sure Black men love and will die for Black women but the attitude of your 34 year old friend is the reason a lot of Black men and "maybe" non black men stay away from you

    • @Pink_celeb420
      @Pink_celeb420 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @Resarchaic
    @Resarchaic 10 місяців тому +121

    How she started that her first answer and being all extra, is why she single..

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому

      ....and bitching in the comment section on UA-cam about women you don't know and will never meet is why YOU are single...😂🤡

    • @jemiinou
      @jemiinou Місяць тому

      Extra? Putting some emotion into your voice is being extra? Do you prefer robots?

    • @AFW-q6w
      @AFW-q6w Місяць тому

      ​@@jemiinouhow about being demure, feminine and knowing how to talk. Maybe taking a cue from her 33yr old friend. Why is this hard for you black American women ? This is just common sense behaviour in every other culture. I am not American but am black. As a woman you should know how to talk right

    • @jemiinou
      @jemiinou Місяць тому

      @@AFW-q6w Proving my point. You don't want women, you want robots. Go make robots in your own culture. I never understand how a woman not being feminine harms you in the slightest, but here you are complaining about non-problems. The cultures you're talking about likely have a rape culture, women are appliances, and/or still in the bronze age of technology.

    • @jemiinou
      @jemiinou Місяць тому

      @@AFW-q6w the fact u think a random woman should care what you think is beyond me. she doesn't represent anyone but herself, but obviously you have hivemind. i should've stopped typing when you non-ironically used the word demure.

  • @traiteursmarseillais9426
    @traiteursmarseillais9426 10 місяців тому +71

    We love you B. Women , we love all shades of you ladies, it’s not about what you look, it’s about your attitude….

    • @monas
      @monas 10 місяців тому

      Maybe their attitude wouldn't be so terrible if their community didn't look like 💩

    • @farahelf6120
      @farahelf6120 8 місяців тому +15

      Attitude is not a race thing. I don't like when people say that. Attitude is just due to upbringing or the environment someone's was raised in rather you black or white or Hispanic.

    • @monas
      @monas 8 місяців тому

      @@farahelf6120 True

    • @Still_theBaddest_561
      @Still_theBaddest_561 8 місяців тому +22

      Doesn’t seem like you love them if you generalize a whole group. Not all of them are like that but that’s how you see them and that’s your problem.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Still_theBaddest_561Her hand gestures say attitude. No man is good enough for her Highness. Fxck all that BS.

  • @chrisj7793
    @chrisj7793 6 місяців тому +232

    First girl is the type to go to the club and diss you for approaching her even though that was her whole point of going

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому +4

      both women

    • @concernedcitizen6676
      @concernedcitizen6676 5 місяців тому +12

      100% women like this aren't intentional the dating and relationship is a huge game to them and most of the time its just rejecting men and ruining their lives for an ego boost

    • @michaelregis1015
      @michaelregis1015 5 місяців тому +4

      What types of women y'all been around😂? Is this supposed to be somethimg relatable?

    • @notreallyafamousartist695
      @notreallyafamousartist695 5 місяців тому +3

      @@michaelregis1015yes lmfao, you must be 40+

    • @michaelregis1015
      @michaelregis1015 5 місяців тому +2

      @@notreallyafamousartist695 bro, I'm in my twenties 🤣. I've just never had that happen to me.

  • @truthseeker4460
    @truthseeker4460 7 місяців тому +252

    Both are extremely pretty 😍 ✨️

    • @chilled99
      @chilled99 6 місяців тому +20

      The challenge is to be pretty on the inside too

    • @defaultdacat
      @defaultdacat 6 місяців тому

      Unfortunately only that. Not educated. She gets CARcasian men. 😂😂😂😂

    • @Jcrash71
      @Jcrash71 6 місяців тому +5

      You need glasses

    • @truthseeker4460
      @truthseeker4460 6 місяців тому +21

      @@chilled99 she is though

    • @chilled99
      @chilled99 6 місяців тому +4

      ​@@truthseeker4460As an individual I'm not saying whether she is or isn't as I don't know her, do you know her personally when saything that? BTW which she are we even talking about?

  • @brios816
    @brios816 10 місяців тому +156

    Women in AMERICA are Done! Too much emotional Damage!

    • @Charly300-c3c
      @Charly300-c3c 10 місяців тому +5

      Haha all of looking for Bill gate😂

    • @simba8665
      @simba8665 10 місяців тому

      America is not real, it’s a simulation

    • @tonyadams8812
      @tonyadams8812 10 місяців тому +3

      In the UK too!

    • @michaelbishop3439
      @michaelbishop3439 10 місяців тому +8

      Shit more like the West!

    • @__Paul__
      @__Paul__ 10 місяців тому +7

      It's not just America. It is happening in many countries nowadays.

  • @munyarte
    @munyarte 10 місяців тому +60

    Give yourself 34 more years girl, you’ll meet him.

  • @francesjeanlouis9285
    @francesjeanlouis9285 7 місяців тому +93

    They look really good to be in their thirties!❤

    • @fatimah230
      @fatimah230 5 місяців тому +28

      30 isn’t old though lol

    • @anthonywadlington1173
      @anthonywadlington1173 5 місяців тому +4

      ​@@fatimah230Yeah I know, they look good to be in their 30's he must be 5 years old 😅

    • @roo4051
      @roo4051 3 місяці тому +6

      30s ain't even old! 😂😂

    • @jewlzn7130
      @jewlzn7130 3 місяці тому +6

      That's how black women look in their 30s. I'm 41 and people think I'm in my 30s. Black doesn't Crack

    • @g-love0704
      @g-love0704 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@jewlzn7130True, I agree, being 42, alot of ppl think I am younger than what I am.

  • @bobmohan9815
    @bobmohan9815 10 місяців тому +21

    Oh my gawd! I can't believe she called herself old! Dam, I'm 58, I was born a woman, don't let the name fool ya & this beautiful young woman needs to celebrate life at every age & own it! She has standards & good for her, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! I doubt she has a few "baby dad" running around, she loox clean, classy, intelligent, well put together, she knows what she wants, her parents did a fantastic job & as I already said, she's beautiful.
    Enjoy 2024 people!

    • @Kingkongmental
      @Kingkongmental 9 місяців тому +3

      I’m 29 and I’m old af

    • @EliHank
      @EliHank 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Kingkongmental Just wait until you turn 30 like I did 3 days ago. Enjoy your youth while you still can my guy 💀

    • @bobmohan9815
      @bobmohan9815 9 місяців тому

      @Kingkongmental I wish I was 29 again! I promise when u get oldish u'll realize that 29 is toddler age for people over 18! At 29 I was married, had 2 kids & we thru parties in our basement & always had a band playing, we'd fill the kids swimming pool with ice & turn it into a huge cooler! Git on out, have some fun & no more saying ur old or this biznatch will ground u! 😉
      JK of course! I'm laid up with a bad back & I have nobody to yak with. I'm sorry I ramble way too mucking fuch!

    • @bobmohan9815
      @bobmohan9815 9 місяців тому

      @EliHank49 well happiest bday to u ya old hag! 😉
      Do u know what they refer to those in their 30's?!? Dirty 30s! 🙃
      Start living it up, do it for me!
      When u do go out, I'll have a tequila shot with a vodka & oj! 😉
      Gramz doesn't get out often & I'd appreciate it! JK of course
      Sorry for rambling stranger but I'm kinda, no, not kinda, I am fncking bored! Have a good one

  • @christiaanx454
    @christiaanx454 8 місяців тому +7

    That first response told me everything I needed to know.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah...you probably can't afford her and she likely won't put up with your bs. 😂

  • @QueenV.420
    @QueenV.420 9 місяців тому +12

    Finally someone who responded traditionally. It was always rude to ask a woman her age and it's a problem cuz how guys judge us. She could've just said she was 20 like most the girls on here but I'm glad she didn't.

  • @eleashaeatman
    @eleashaeatman 6 місяців тому +8

    When she said “I get”, that explained it all.

  • @gentlemans.guidance365
    @gentlemans.guidance365 10 місяців тому +122

    As a black man myself. I definitely prefer black women over ANY OTHER woman

    • @chanellepeoples6190
      @chanellepeoples6190 7 місяців тому +5

      👀

    • @AndreRodriguez-BlkRican
      @AndreRodriguez-BlkRican 7 місяців тому +11

      Oh please🙄.

    • @haywoodjablowmi1427
      @haywoodjablowmi1427 6 місяців тому +2

      @@AndreRodriguez-BlkRican i don’t know if you’re an insecure woman or a borderline racist dude, but it’s completely normal for people to prefer their own race over any other. people tend to date people who are like them.

    • @defaultdacat
      @defaultdacat 6 місяців тому +14

      Ummm. You must aint ever seen Latinas. Columbians, Puerto Ricans, Mexican...

    • @defaultdacat
      @defaultdacat 6 місяців тому

      ​@@AndreRodriguez-BlkRican that dude is tripn. Latinas are my kryptonite

  • @HumptyMcFly
    @HumptyMcFly 10 місяців тому +30

    If you get with a younger millennial or older Gen Z woman just know you will have the most selfish woman ever created in American history. So don’t expect much. Especially happiness.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому +3

      Tell us your life sucks without telling us...😂😂😂

    • @HumptyMcFly
      @HumptyMcFly Місяць тому

      @@TomikaKelly Your life sucks

  • @desmondclarke4994
    @desmondclarke4994 10 місяців тому +20

    The second she opened her mouth .... it was over😂 hard to deal leave them alone nuff said!!

    • @whitneywilliams317
      @whitneywilliams317 10 місяців тому

      Nah the first one on the right is the problem, the one on the left is okay once she realizes her friend is the problem and holding her back

    • @desmondclarke4994
      @desmondclarke4994 7 місяців тому

      @@whitneywilliams317 yeap correct the one on the right. Buy a dog.....

  • @zenanofficial7728
    @zenanofficial7728 4 місяці тому +7

    As an Asian,I don’t really fit into our culture,I’m more like a black person because of my family music influences,I would love to date this sis🤘🤘🤘she’s hot 🥵

  • @Jstvcks
    @Jstvcks 10 місяців тому +18

    Damn that attitude

    • @GwenYah
      @GwenYah 14 днів тому

      Sassy would be a word used if the young woman were a different ethnicity. We’ve been taught to hate our own and find fault in everything not like our oppressor; or our oppressor’s woman. Willie Lynch taught many of our ancestor’s owners how to keep us enslaved without the chains , simply by teaching us to hate one another. Obviously, it still works. I hope you find peace in loving yourself and your own , because without one the other will disappear. Shalom

  • @jg7014
    @jg7014 10 місяців тому +244

    They will continue to be single with that attitude

    • @davida99
      @davida99 10 місяців тому +51

      Just the one on the right

    • @gamechanger114
      @gamechanger114 10 місяців тому +22

      ​@@davida99 Facts. Wonder if she was raised to also be that off-putting in a first impression

    • @klopcodez
      @klopcodez 10 місяців тому +22

      Too Masculine

    • @Lee935
      @Lee935 10 місяців тому +8

      They?

    • @yvesbony8571
      @yvesbony8571 10 місяців тому

      @@klopcodezshe wasn’t to masculine. She was to retarded.

  • @JiggyMiggytv
    @JiggyMiggytv 10 місяців тому +68

    She was difficult off the jump 😹

    • @bluecity9789
      @bluecity9789 10 місяців тому +1

      How?

    • @bluecity9789
      @bluecity9789 10 місяців тому

      How?

    • @siriusblackwhitebuffalo7370
      @siriusblackwhitebuffalo7370 9 місяців тому +7

      ​@bluecity9789 the fact you don't see crazy

    • @JiggyMiggytv
      @JiggyMiggytv 9 місяців тому +5

      @@siriusblackwhitebuffalo7370 I know right 🤣

    • @froyokid
      @froyokid 8 місяців тому

      @@bluecity9789they just call bw difficult. No comment said what they did wrong except for talk with their hands like most Latinas and Italians do 💀🤦🏾‍♀️ they HATE black women

  • @dariusdeberry1273
    @dariusdeberry1273 Місяць тому +5

    I never got the "never ask a woman her age thing" because I was raised by a southern woman who always stated her age. And the women in our family never had a problem stating their age. They always without asking told people their age. My grandmother, my mother, my aunties always willingly stated their age. I think that this whole "don't ask a woman her age thing" is a social media thing because I only see this don't ask a woman her age thing on social media. I asked my mother about it and she told me that those are only the insecure ones that do that. Don't get mad at me because I just asked the question. She gave me the answer.

    • @MVPA-io5ee
      @MVPA-io5ee Місяць тому

      could also be cultural too... and I'm asian in asian country...
      some woman just prefer not to say their age.

    • @KatieAJ
      @KatieAJ Місяць тому +1

      Hmm its not just a social media thing. Traditionally, It's actually rude to ask a woman her age and weight because this is how men judge us. It's better not to disqualify yourself too soon.

  • @blackjay3771
    @blackjay3771 10 місяців тому +113

    “I get Asian men. I get Caucasian men. I get all types of men.”
    Tell me you’re as 304 without saying you’re a 304. 😂😂

    • @mirali7488
      @mirali7488 10 місяців тому +5

      Carcasian*

    • @moniquew3603
      @moniquew3603 9 місяців тому

      Really? How is that 304 behavior because she attracts men of different races? That's ridiculous.

    • @amandaisnotmyrealname3518
      @amandaisnotmyrealname3518 9 місяців тому

      She never said she sleeps with them. You're nasty

    • @malcolmskinner3117
      @malcolmskinner3117 9 місяців тому +1

      Willing to take care of me??? Get down girl, g'on head get down.Get girl, g'on head get down. Get down, girl, head, get down.

    • @esemusic8294
      @esemusic8294 9 місяців тому +21

      Tell me you're insecure and inadequate without telling me.

  • @MirageP911
    @MirageP911 9 місяців тому +24

    Ahh the good old ratchet air grabbing hands 😂😂

    • @MVPA-io5ee
      @MVPA-io5ee Місяць тому

      it's not ratchet

    • @AFW-q6w
      @AFW-q6w Місяць тому

      ​@@MVPA-io5eevery ratchet.

  • @talk2s5061X
    @talk2s5061X 10 місяців тому +175

    I can feel the aggression 😂

    • @bluecity9789
      @bluecity9789 10 місяців тому +39

      I don't see it. They seem calm to me

    • @azchanna
      @azchanna 10 місяців тому +24

      Stereotype

    • @tomare6479
      @tomare6479 10 місяців тому +4

      @@bluecity9789 well, you are outvoted

    • @tomare6479
      @tomare6479 10 місяців тому +5

      @@azchanna no, it’s body language

    • @hermanhitt5055
      @hermanhitt5055 9 місяців тому +9

      The masculine characteristics are strong 💪🏾 in this one.🧐🙏🏽

  • @WhispersOnLy
    @WhispersOnLy 5 місяців тому +3

    In due time, the streets shall and will settle 👌🏿⚡

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 місяці тому

      You seem like the person that the streets settle with when they don't get the better option they wanted.🤔🧐

  • @davidnunya6296
    @davidnunya6296 10 місяців тому +9

    the older one is Hallucinating

  • @mzmiss1826
    @mzmiss1826 10 місяців тому +44

    These days.... she forgot to mention DL men.. she's absolutely correct, you have to be very careful as a woman. Doesn't matter the race

    • @elvincarroll
      @elvincarroll 9 місяців тому

      More women are DL than men.

    • @GodsProphet23
      @GodsProphet23 9 місяців тому

      Women are DL more statically double standard

    • @LBFufuEata
      @LBFufuEata 8 місяців тому

      That’s an excuse single women give themselves as to why they’re single. I’m single, because they’re a lot of DL men. GTFOH, y’all are single because y’all are undesirable.

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      60% of DL black people are women.

    • @effervescent_smegma-s1w
      @effervescent_smegma-s1w 3 місяці тому

      If the men you attract are DL & Zesty men; maybe you should stop acting like a man 💯

  • @Cece-oo1zx
    @Cece-oo1zx 10 місяців тому +51

    "I love black men i just don't know if they love us" facts though smh

    • @Globalsouthlander
      @Globalsouthlander 10 місяців тому +14

      Its not her they don't like, it's her friend.

    • @Regal23_
      @Regal23_ 10 місяців тому +1

      Straight up ​@@Globalsouthlander

    • @whitneywilliams317
      @whitneywilliams317 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@GlobalsouthlanderExactly, it's the friend not her, her friend is holding her back.

    • @theoreticalviews2939
      @theoreticalviews2939 7 місяців тому +4

      They probably are rarely together
      She was talking about her observation as an individual.

    • @lawrenzo_12
      @lawrenzo_12 3 місяці тому

      There's a difference between love and attraction, some black women think because we're not attracted to them means that we hate them, no I love you I don't hate you but i am not just attracted to you. You can't choose who you wanna be attracted to , it came naturally .

  • @witchplease9695
    @witchplease9695 5 місяців тому +64

    I married outside my race. More BW need to do the same. A productive and gentle man brings peace..

    • @DeskDesk19
      @DeskDesk19 5 місяців тому +6

      What?

    • @123paschal
      @123paschal 5 місяців тому

      Most black women can't. Dating app data shows black women are the least desired race for a relationship, but the most looked up on adult content. You are the exception to the rule.

    • @fanalittletruthincog8168
      @fanalittletruthincog8168 5 місяців тому

      Diverter?

    • @casey3c
      @casey3c 5 місяців тому

      So does a gentle woman.

    • @wolfwest92
      @wolfwest92 5 місяців тому +3

      Judge not by the color of the skin but by the content of their character

  • @StratusP
    @StratusP 10 місяців тому +29

    Get and keep meaning different things

    • @Billyb0b557
      @Billyb0b557 10 місяців тому +1

      She can keep, she just doesn't condone to it cause she knows what she wants 😂😂😂🤥

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Billyb0b557...kinda shit it that lol?

  • @ozDiim3zo
    @ozDiim3zo 7 місяців тому +64

    Only black men I’ve known that treat me with love and respect is my father and 2 guys I grew up with

    • @AlbertBrown-n2b
      @AlbertBrown-n2b 7 місяців тому +19

      As they should we don’t owe you shit 🤣

    • @ozDiim3zo
      @ozDiim3zo 7 місяців тому +54

      @@AlbertBrown-n2b you should’ve just put troll in your username and called it a day

    • @tangoalpha94
      @tangoalpha94 7 місяців тому

      @@AlbertBrown-n2bexactly lmaoo

    • @Linahreacts
      @Linahreacts 7 місяців тому

      @@AlbertBrown-n2b black men from America hate black women and they're disrespectful asf but they don't see it, they have high standards for black women but don't mind anything from women of other races, it's embarrassing.

    • @15thelongway
      @15thelongway 6 місяців тому +15

      How many bm have you loved and respected? I need a number on it

  • @nannie18
    @nannie18 9 місяців тому +36

    Know why did you cut the last part ?😑🤣

    • @thelastshallbefirst6036
      @thelastshallbefirst6036 8 місяців тому +21

      Because it's the truth and black will refuse to open up their eyes and ears and see black men for who they really are

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      because you can watch the full vid on his channel

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому +1

      @@thelastshallbefirst6036 victim complex

    • @123paschal
      @123paschal 5 місяців тому

      ​@@thelastshallbefirst6036 well according to the data. Top 3 ways ppl meet are dating apps, gym, and work. The dating apps show that black women are the least desired race. According to the data black men are the only men that want black women. Sorry the truth hurts.

    • @JadedeaJade
      @JadedeaJade 5 місяців тому +1

      @@vg1024 They clearly edited the video and could have edited so that the second lady's response could have been fully included. At least that one sentence. They could have cut off homegirl with her list of men to make more room for the second lady. They chose to keep nearly everything the first lady said, and very little of what the second lady said. This isn't victim complex, this is catering to the audience of people not carrying about good black women, and continuing the stereotype that we don't exist. So no not victim complex, pointing out perfectly edited propaganda.

  • @mrsgoldie14
    @mrsgoldie14 7 місяців тому +5

    That’s first one 🧢’n 😂

  • @andreaplatt-ue8rh
    @andreaplatt-ue8rh 9 місяців тому +266

    The last thing the Second Lady said was “I love black men, I just don’t know if they love us” and I feel that and it makes me sad. It seems like most black men lack the ability to be monogamous and at the very least open and honest about their true intentions.

    • @mynameisnotimportant2854
      @mynameisnotimportant2854 9 місяців тому +50

      Notice how that part was intentionally cut off?

    • @philipbell5448
      @philipbell5448 7 місяців тому

      Monogamous men get treated like trash

    • @moforyguy6803
      @moforyguy6803 6 місяців тому

      Maybe cuz females role models are singing about WAP so it makes it really easy to get some with females mentality these days

    • @SM-si5
      @SM-si5 6 місяців тому

      @@mynameisnotimportant2854Because it’s nonsense. if she can’t find quality men it’s her own fault. The statistics show that black men mainly marry black women. They’re too busy acting like her friend is.

    • @atyourbest5385
      @atyourbest5385 6 місяців тому +19

      This is getting tired. Everyone thinks the other group don't like them, soo...what now? We going continue living in perpetual victim Hood or sort this out because clearly according these men and women we aren't ready to date ANYONE if we have that much hatred in our soul. Why take that hatred to another relationship?

  • @islandfever825
    @islandfever825 10 місяців тому +33

    But yur still single ..

  • @TWN321
    @TWN321 10 місяців тому +37

    ❤️SISTER… BLACK MEN LOVE YOU!!!❤️
    Don’t let media convince you otherwise!!

    • @Resarchaic
      @Resarchaic 10 місяців тому +14

      No they dont

    • @uncleelroy6353
      @uncleelroy6353 10 місяців тому +11

      We love you. But you know the saying. 1 bad apple spoils them all. Separate yourself from women who don't share the same philosophy as you.

    • @Foreign84
      @Foreign84 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

    • @charlesbrown-cv3jx
      @charlesbrown-cv3jx 10 місяців тому

      🧢🧢🧢

    • @Jp-do9ny
      @Jp-do9ny 10 місяців тому

      Black men date out more than any other race. You clearly don't

  • @MadChristoph
    @MadChristoph 5 місяців тому +9

    Those girls do not look 33 and 34, they look like they are in their 20s

  • @Natepullup
    @Natepullup 7 місяців тому +5

    Bruh ain’t nobody trying to deal with the 1st woman’s aggressiveness, those hand gestures crazy

  • @dcchitown6892
    @dcchitown6892 10 місяців тому +111

    SEASONED, VINTAGE,AND SINGLE FOR LIFE.... SIDEPIECES AT BEST...
    DANGER ZONE!

    • @desmondclarke4994
      @desmondclarke4994 10 місяців тому +2

      💯 cat ladies😂😂

    • @Ligma_Jonson
      @Ligma_Jonson 10 місяців тому +5

      Permanent jumpoffs.

    • @Nonya3005
      @Nonya3005 10 місяців тому

      Now.. This comment is worse than the girls attitude. What sensible, self respecting man would stick his dick in a “DANGER ZONE” smh. Some of yall are so damn dumb

    • @Love2Love927
      @Love2Love927 10 місяців тому +5

      Nobody wants the wrong relationship. Take your time & find the right man for you. Who needs to rush thru the process??!!! Finding the RIGHT one takes time these days. Ppl are great actors, breadcrumbers, fakes/frauds, cheaters, liars etc. Nobody wants to jump from relationship to relationship every 6 months smh!

    • @uok6216
      @uok6216 6 місяців тому

      Yall sound as bitter as them lool.

  • @Hyvtt
    @Hyvtt 10 місяців тому +31

    She gets carcasian men. The Honda civic ones 😂

  • @joannaazar7396
    @joannaazar7396 Місяць тому +1

    It’s definitely different personally! 💯

  • @tannehmckown2925
    @tannehmckown2925 10 місяців тому +42

    They both are gorgeous. And won’t be single for long I’m sure

    • @fantasma8253
      @fantasma8253 9 місяців тому +19

      Yes they will stay single. Too difficult too deal with for nothing

    • @balebu1
      @balebu1 9 місяців тому +5

      What you are not willing to see is 'getting' a man is easy. (we'll tolerate a bad attitude long enough to get that cookie)
      Getting a 'good man', especially to stay is not possible for the first one...because of her personality.

    • @sagittariusbeauty
      @sagittariusbeauty 9 місяців тому

      @@fantasma8253You that bitter to talk down on someone who don’t know you….

    • @CoinOperated.
      @CoinOperated. 8 місяців тому +8

      😂 Men don't want attitudes like the first girls attitude. Shes definitely staying single and not by choice.

    • @S-u-r-e-n
      @S-u-r-e-n 8 місяців тому +5

      I mean if 34 years is not long then...good luck to her 🤦‍♂️

  • @jsj31313jj
    @jsj31313jj 10 місяців тому +9

    "Sow a thought, and you reap an action; sow an act, and you reap a habit; sow a habit, and you reap a character; sow a character, and you reap a destiny.”
    -Ralph Waldo Emerson

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому

      "Sew a hole in a sock and u get about 3 more months more of wear out of it."
      ~Pookies Grandma.😉😭

    • @jsj31313jj
      @jsj31313jj 8 місяців тому +1

      @@catsrgoodpeople2 “We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light”.
      -Plato

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому

      @@jsj31313jj there is nothing to forgive a child of their innocents when we as men question and balk at the unknown ourselves? And in light there be truth and in the pursuit of truth, there be honor.
      me:

    • @jsj31313jj
      @jsj31313jj 8 місяців тому +1

      @catsrgoodpeople2 Ephesians 2:3 states that everyone is born with a corrupt nature that only wants to follow the flesh.
      The desires of the flesh are sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry, jealousy, fits of anger, division, envy, drunkenness, drugs, etc.

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому +1

      @@jsj31313jj Job, Mary the few dudes who got caught up and were taken to heaven?
      Sinful behavior is learned.
      Adam learned from Eve.
      Don't get me wrong, I understand that these are the exception but in this case I think it's relevant to the subject. 🙏🕊️👊

  • @Kin95tyl3
    @Kin95tyl3 10 місяців тому +41

    To the first lady, stop fooling yourself darling. The (serious) men with good intentions who chose you were willing build a life with you. You messed it up by thinking you're superior than them.
    To the second lady, hopefully you'll meet your ideal husband soon. You deserve it. You are a Well spoken, calm and reasonable lady.

    • @joshforeman1723
      @joshforeman1723 9 місяців тому +2

      My friend, don't be deluded, they are birds of thisame feather, the 2nd one she seems a lil better but remeber she left her husband.

    • @rocciteeny57
      @rocciteeny57 9 місяців тому

      ​@@joshforeman1723💯🎯my bro

    • @reginageorgetownuni
      @reginageorgetownuni 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@joshforeman1723maybe he cheated, who knows?

    • @joshforeman1723
      @joshforeman1723 8 місяців тому

      @@reginageorgetownuni Always thisame stuff, a poor right to justify some wrong.
      He cheated is always the perfect excuse.
      The percentage of breakups because the man cheated is way less they want to portray,
      2nd, cheating is not thisame in a man vs a woman cheating, it implies a whole different meaning, motives and effects.
      3rd, in men cheating many times women have a direct influence of it like neglecting they partners, starving them from intimacy and affection many times rejecting them and sometimes when the men burst and he cheat he is guilty but it takes a place all that neglection that their females paethers had subjected them.
      4rd, Also if she is in a good relationship, married and was going good, for that slip she left him and prefer to wreck her home, she still is not wifey. And after a divorce way less, a woman changes after a divorce, for worst.
      And now include her new scallywags circle and her h03 activities she has been doing and still doing since her divorce.
      She is a big no no no.
      And that is why she is going to be in the streets and from sheets to sheets.
      And trying & want to be in a relationship with a man that even he is not as good as her husband that she left.

    • @MiaFaitht
      @MiaFaitht 8 місяців тому

      Wtf

  • @Noneofyourbizness247
    @Noneofyourbizness247 Місяць тому +1

    Awww I love these two, they are going to work. 🥰🥰😍😍💕💕

  • @chinajfine5905
    @chinajfine5905 10 місяців тому +7

    He rubbed me the wrong way in this 1.🙄AND the way how he kept asking a wealthy man why he didnt want a 25yr old IS the EXACT reason🙄

  • @jasondiggs4006
    @jasondiggs4006 4 місяці тому +3

    She said like walking red flag 🚩

  • @eshamilton2819
    @eshamilton2819 10 місяців тому +11

    Translation: The guys she really wants don’t want her!!!!

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      right.

  • @DJMatBlack83
    @DJMatBlack83 7 місяців тому +1

    The problem we all have is we think we have TIME
    - Kobe Bryant

  • @jas8471
    @jas8471 10 місяців тому +50

    The tone of the men on the comments is different when African American women come on screen, though these women have done and said nothing wrong.

    • @societyisscaredofmasculine8546
      @societyisscaredofmasculine8546 10 місяців тому +21

      Her behaviour was horrible.. the fact you don't see that is the problem. She had a horrible attitude and she's narcissistic.

    • @societyisscaredofmasculine8546
      @societyisscaredofmasculine8546 10 місяців тому

      Studies show that BW are the least desired of any race. Thats a FACT. They have higher testosterone, why would any man want that?

    • @mariekano9730
      @mariekano9730 10 місяців тому +1

      Bruh it's her attitude. The guy simply asked her age and she knows she's being filmed yet snaps at him. Black women already has a stereotype for attitude issues hence why she single. She says she can get all kinds of men but no ring. So she a 304? Sounds like projection and a cry for therapy

    • @melanatedenterprises4278
      @melanatedenterprises4278 9 місяців тому

      They never wanna see it bro. Its never them​@@societyisscaredofmasculine8546

    • @lifestraight
      @lifestraight 9 місяців тому +23

      ​@@societyisscaredofmasculine8546 Her attitude wasn't horrible

  • @AB-ze2ho
    @AB-ze2ho 10 місяців тому +8

    Not Answering that basic demographic question is crazy lol. No one can tell us the reasoning behind it

    • @AprilReigns18
      @AprilReigns18 10 місяців тому

      My grandma used to say that. I her 90s she was just kidding but I've heard other women in that age range say it. It's not like anyone is gonna ask though if they wanna give me a senior discount I'm all for it 😂

  • @mwilson7097
    @mwilson7097 5 місяців тому

    The wall is approaching very very very fast! And it is undefeated!

  • @wesleypipes622
    @wesleypipes622 10 місяців тому +7

    Seriously she don’t look 34 she looks way younger and sound like it to

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      did you wake up on the sunny side of your rock shelter or the shaded side?

  • @joyadams4883
    @joyadams4883 4 місяці тому +5

    “ I love black men I just don’t know if they love us” END SCENE
    this is where it ended, but this is actually where the conversation should have started. too many black women question whether or not black men love them. Black women don’t feel loved by black men and black men don’t feel respected by black women. healing is desperately needed but it looks like we’ve given up on each other. We’re not gonna make it without each other.

    • @sihyna5438
      @sihyna5438 3 місяці тому +2

      No man loves us

    • @joyadams4883
      @joyadams4883 3 місяці тому

      @@sihyna5438the devil is a LIAR

    • @lawrenzo_12
      @lawrenzo_12 3 місяці тому

      There's a difference between love and attraction, some black women think because we're not attracted to them means that we hate them, no I love you I don't hate you but i am not just attracted to you. You can't choose who you wanna be attracted to , it came naturally .

  • @lawrenzo_12
    @lawrenzo_12 3 місяці тому +3

    There's a difference between love and attraction, some black women think because we're not attracted to them means that we hate them, no I love you I don't hate you but i am not just attracted to you. You can't choose who you wanna be attracted to , it came naturally .

    • @KatieAJ
      @KatieAJ Місяць тому

      Well then what good is your love if it's not enough to want to build with me?

    • @lawrenzo_12
      @lawrenzo_12 Місяць тому

      @@KatieAJ you love your mom but are u attracted to your mom ? You love your sister but are you attracted to your sister? You probably have friends from the other gender in your friend group that you are not attracted too right ? But you don't hate them right?

    • @lawrenzo_12
      @lawrenzo_12 Місяць тому

      @@KatieAJ maybe because I don't find you attractive ? And if I don't find you attractive does it means that I should hate you ? No I shouldn't hate you. You see that you can love someone wish him or her a good things in life although you are not attracted to that person.

  • @Chystyle
    @Chystyle 4 місяці тому

    The ATTITUDE is the reason

  • @ReysRants
    @ReysRants 4 місяці тому +7

    They’re pretty! Black really does not crack. She doesn’t look like an average 34. And 34 is not old. Women live until like 80 lol 😂

    • @daddyeyez740
      @daddyeyez740 4 місяці тому

      34 aint old enough for that phrase. 34 is young.

  • @jprime007
    @jprime007 5 місяців тому +25

    Some of yall in the comments dislike black women for no reason and it shows.

    • @daddyeyez740
      @daddyeyez740 4 місяці тому +3

      Yeah yall NEVER EVER do anything to earn dislike.

    • @AdaezeAgbasi-rg3uw
      @AdaezeAgbasi-rg3uw 3 місяці тому +2

      Exactly. And it's mostly black men saying goofy shit in the comments

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 3 місяці тому

      @@daddyeyez740lol well luckily for us we’re dating out to avoid the drama and potential life threatening consequences that come with yall

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 3 місяці тому

      @@daddyeyez740majority of us haven’t did anything to deserve this drama and trauma. But it’s cool. It’s other guys out here

    • @ramses-vici
      @ramses-vici 3 місяці тому

      “For no reason.” 😂😂 Here are a few: black women treat BM terribly; BW have the highest child abuse rates; BW are the fattest American women; BW are perpetually victims; BW worship white men; BW have the worst attitudes of any women; BW take credit for everything, but responsibility for nothing; and BW blame black men for literally everything.
      I could go on and on.

  • @jabbaweezy
    @jabbaweezy 10 місяців тому +8

    I can tell by the last few words that the 2nd woman was gonna do the opposite of cook 😪

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому

      😂😂😂 that's why she single probably. She can do better 😂

  • @um52
    @um52 12 днів тому +1

    “She gets so many men from different races yet she’s still single. “ let that sink in

  • @mupetv6381
    @mupetv6381 10 місяців тому +10

    Ladies!! What's with the HAND MOVEMENTS 🤦

    • @davidking42086
      @davidking42086 10 місяців тому

      It's called air-grabbing. New word alert

    • @SoloJourneyandPJ
      @SoloJourneyandPJ 10 місяців тому

      Expression 🙄

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому

      I have a ghetto Caucasian coworker who does that and it's unattractive when they do it as well. 😂😂

    • @ramses-vici
      @ramses-vici 3 місяці тому +2

      It’s sign language. She’s signing, “I’m for the streets!” 😂

  • @Abdi_shuffle
    @Abdi_shuffle 10 місяців тому +6

    If a female start using her hand when she’s talking it’s ⛳️ 🏃‍♂️💨

    • @lizatizitagobey4747
      @lizatizitagobey4747 2 місяці тому +1

      Don’t come to most Mediterranean countries then, our hands are an extension of our speech 😅

    • @MVPA-io5ee
      @MVPA-io5ee Місяць тому

      I'm Asian, and i also speak like her.. it's normal

  • @AlanaeImontae
    @AlanaeImontae 3 дні тому

    These comments make me proud to have been 4B these past few years. Both of these ladies are beautiful & deserving of love & every positive thing that shall come their way. 30 is also not old, but I know what a joke sounds like.

  • @ernestsnowden1552
    @ernestsnowden1552 10 місяців тому +43

    I really just think the first girl was triggered by the age question. Judging someone off of this 60 second clip is wild.
    The comments are saying that BW overpriced themselves.. as they should. When society tries to constantly reminds us that they should be viewed as less than, they aren’t- and have just as much value or more than the next W.

    • @janeaj.g4613
      @janeaj.g4613 10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you! And cousins!

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому

      Nope. Just nah. 😶

    • @ernestsnowden1552
      @ernestsnowden1552 8 місяців тому +3

      @@catsrgoodpeople2 I stand on what I said. I appreciate your opinion tho.

    • @catsrgoodpeople2
      @catsrgoodpeople2 8 місяців тому +1

      @@ernestsnowden1552 I respect yours as well.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому

      Women are priceless. I am not going to attach a money value to any of them. Also a woman better be my legal wife if I am spending significantly on her. No ifs ands or buts about it homeboy. Fxck the dumb shyt.

  • @Mesena2773
    @Mesena2773 10 місяців тому +13

    "TAKE CARE OF ME" yep red flags on the play

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      she's independent and looking for a baller in Miami. Sprinkle sprinkle.

    • @concernedcitizen6676
      @concernedcitizen6676 5 місяців тому

      All women wanna be taken care of, dunno how that is a red flag tbh. No woman worth dating and wifing up is someone i wouldn't wanna take care of.
      The real issue is these women have issues and are selling themselves as young first timers when they've both clearly been going at this for a long time with zero results.

  • @marzdabull
    @marzdabull 10 місяців тому +19

    Carcasian

  • @afro_princess1671
    @afro_princess1671 4 місяці тому +1

    Because i am old. I love them both. They r amazing❤

  • @Nepiermyrick_
    @Nepiermyrick_ 10 місяців тому +4

    She be want to fight for no reason 😂

    • @vg1024
      @vg1024 6 місяців тому

      speak engrish

  • @Ghost-tx5jf
    @Ghost-tx5jf 10 місяців тому +37

    The 34 year old never had that many people that wanted her

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 10 місяців тому +10

      Imagine bragging about how all men want her then saying none of them met her requirements. It sounds like she's the problem, not them

    • @tyworlds6474
      @tyworlds6474 10 місяців тому

      Technically she has , but they only wanna fuck her instead but not be with her for long term😂

    • @purplepheasant4776
      @purplepheasant4776 9 місяців тому +3

      I likes her. Why do you think she is lying. She simply said that she doesn't have a problem attracting men.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 6 місяців тому

      ​@@purplepheasant4776 Using a period when asking a question is hilarious. 😂

    • @purplepheasant4776
      @purplepheasant4776 6 місяців тому +1

      @mateaukalua4426 I didn't mean to, but grammatically you can. The question becomes polite or rhetorical. 🙂🙃