Bride Miss USA Fed Up With Future Mum-In-Law Hating Her Dress Picks | Say Yes To The Dress

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  • @johnnabuzby6103
    @johnnabuzby6103 2 роки тому +8167

    The bride clearly states at the beginning that her price point is No Higher than $7,000.00, yet all the gowns shown were over her budget.

    • @bexb6199
      @bexb6199 2 роки тому +766

      Exactly this... where is the acknowledgement of her budget. They have must have dresses under her budget.

    • @gerlinagard9713
      @gerlinagard9713 2 роки тому +87

      Exactly

    • @Teewriter
      @Teewriter 2 роки тому +461

      And then there is the veil. Ive heard quotes of $3,000 for a veil with lace trim 🤦‍♀️

    • @gerlinagard9713
      @gerlinagard9713 2 роки тому +80

      Ridiculous

    • @Harnacke76
      @Harnacke76 2 роки тому +648

      The moral of the story is: Whatever your budget actually is, tell them that it is $1000-$1500 less than that.

  • @aprilsmith6587
    @aprilsmith6587 10 місяців тому +108

    Honestly. Brides need to go shopping for their dress by themselves.

    • @yvonneeaster
      @yvonneeaster 5 місяців тому +3

      I would!

    • @julieford148
      @julieford148 3 місяці тому +4

      Agreed

    • @theriddlerUSA
      @theriddlerUSA 3 місяці тому +4

      I agree with you 100!!!

    • @tinaguy3954
      @tinaguy3954 Місяць тому +3

      I did, and it was the best experience. My appointment was just myself and the bridal consultant from the store. She knew exactly what I was looking for! It was the second dress! She insisted that I try on another style of gown just to be sure. I went home, to sleep on it, my consultant told me about the bridal show and that there was a surprise! The next day, I went to the bridal show, and the gown that I had chosen was featured in the fashion show! The store even offered a 20% discount for the trunk show since I attend the bridal show! I went back to the store the next business day, tried on the dress again, and me and my consultant were so emotional! I had alterations and added sleeves from the extra layers of tulle and ordered appliques from the designer for the sleeves. My dress was just the more beautiful with the custom features . The cap sleeves looked like they were supposed to be part of the original gown!!

    • @alisontopalian8592
      @alisontopalian8592 26 днів тому

      I went by myself. When I found a dress I wanted, I took my mother only. She wasn't crazy about it. But she understood this was my choice. No one else saw it til the day of the wedding

  • @respecthewoman
    @respecthewoman 2 роки тому +2808

    'She is the perfect woman for my son' how many women wish they could hear such remarkable words come from their in laws mouths? So precious.

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 роки тому +65

      Her opinion doesnt count. She's not the one getting married. As long as you have a strong man in your corner, you're good

    • @delmar9972
      @delmar9972 2 роки тому +34

      @S k. she’s marry to someone else now 🤣

    • @annemurphy9339
      @annemurphy9339 2 роки тому +12

      @@delmar9972 This must be a really old clip then.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому +28

      @S k. Wow, really? But yet they spent so much money on this dress and everything else. It feels like the more expensive a wedding is the faster they divorce.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 роки тому +22

      @@Impossibly_gorgeous True to some extent but in some cases, couples divorce due to the mother in law sadly.

  • @priscillag5734
    @priscillag5734 Рік тому +82

    Randy: "if anybody says anything we'll tackle them,- we'll tackle them". LOOL gotta Love Randyyy❤❤

  • @deargodwhatamidoing1122
    @deargodwhatamidoing1122 2 роки тому +7513

    Titel: “mother in law hates her dresses!!”
    Actual mother in law: give critiques but is never mean, and says the bride is the perfect woman for her son.

    • @SM-ji1qe
      @SM-ji1qe 2 роки тому +50

      Did you miss the part where she based it on what dress the bride chose? 🤔

    • @deargodwhatamidoing1122
      @deargodwhatamidoing1122 2 роки тому +152

      @@SM-ji1qe I have a slight feeling some good old classic “reality show editing” was done to make it seem that way. Either that or she said it, not because of the dress, but because her being in the final dress with the vail on, made the MIL emotional, and she just needed to say that. But if you wanna go with the “MIL only cares about dress” interpretation. Go for it.

    • @mikivanduyn9630
      @mikivanduyn9630 2 роки тому +1

      yes...iam 666...lol.

    • @SM-ji1qe
      @SM-ji1qe 2 роки тому +2

      @@deargodwhatamidoing1122 yeah, I’ll believe what I see and hear, and I’d appreciate it if you would not make up a quote I allegedly said. Perhaps before all that though, you’d do best to get over yourself. 😂

    • @deargodwhatamidoing1122
      @deargodwhatamidoing1122 2 роки тому +23

      @@SM-ji1qe I’m sorry if there was a misunderstanding, but I have always learned that these “” are used both for quotes and when naming specific things. I didn’t claim you said it, I just took your point and gave it a name. I will admit my way of doing so was quit childish. I am sorry. What I meant to say was that you could view the MIL any way you want. I just disagree, because again, editing in reality shows isn’t always to be trusted.

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 2 роки тому +10

    Who's going to wear this dress anyway? I certainly wouldn't care what my mother-in-law thought at this point. She won't be wearing it.

  • @sunnyscott4876
    @sunnyscott4876 2 роки тому +2522

    I agree, The MIL was NOT that bad. She offered her opinion and was not mean or hateful.

    • @richardmayora1289
      @richardmayora1289 2 роки тому +26

      She is a guest and should mind her business. She is a bully. Her comments are very condescending. Her sense of entitlement is off the charts.

    • @sunnyscott4876
      @sunnyscott4876 2 роки тому +7

      @@richardmayora1289 OK..........

    • @cindyj5522
      @cindyj5522 2 роки тому +13

      But who cares what she thinks? The bride is a grown woman who should have the last word without any pressure to please anyone but herself. This is so stupid.

    • @sunnyscott4876
      @sunnyscott4876 2 роки тому +29

      @@cindyj5522 She was brought along because her opinion was valued.
      She was reasonable and kind. If it's "your day" then use "your money" and go by "YOURSELF"........

    • @robertamaclean3384
      @robertamaclean3384 2 роки тому +3

      I think MIL got her 15 minutes of fame.

  • @andreazumpano8006
    @andreazumpano8006 2 роки тому +171

    At first I thought Tina was just going to be spiteful, but she clearly was just as excited but wanted something special for her. Tina rocks! So does the rest of the entourage! There’s a lot of love there!

  • @vashti2389
    @vashti2389 2 роки тому +2868

    Trying to please the mother in law is the most dangerous thing! It will never end!! Speaking from 17 years of experience!!

    • @kastynm.9004
      @kastynm.9004 2 роки тому +65

      I'm learning that now I've had to compromise every need in my pregnancy & to fight for my every want god I'm tired of this but hey if you've got advise lmk

    • @kirstinalphabet796
      @kirstinalphabet796 2 роки тому +46

      Italian Moms and their sons...🤷‍♀️

    • @melindaostergren8115
      @melindaostergren8115 2 роки тому +18

      Take a look at Carolyn Hax, advice columnist for the Washington Post. Much of the time she writes about setting and enforcing boundaries.

    • @lisbethcrisostomo8026
      @lisbethcrisostomo8026 2 роки тому +95

      @@kastynm.9004 DON’T EVER comprise for anyone !!! especially your mother in law! when she had her husband and had her kids she raised them her way and managed her marriage way! my mother in law doesn’t dare to control me! I have put her in her place! now we have a respectable relationship

    • @samday414
      @samday414 2 роки тому +69

      @@kastynm.9004 put in boundaries and let your husband know these boundaries as well. If his mother over steps them then it’s his job to put her back in her place. If your husband refuses to stand up for you over his mother then rethink your relationship because once your kid is born it will only get worse.

  • @annfraley-mylife
    @annfraley-mylife 2 роки тому +123

    I didn't realize that at the tender age of 20, I had enough wisdom to go wedding dress shopping by myself. I did it, I just didn't know how much better it was. I'm so glad I did.

    • @juditszabo8751
      @juditszabo8751 2 роки тому +8

      You did the right thing.

    • @kaymccastle1154
      @kaymccastle1154 2 роки тому +5

      I would only invite 2 other people to go with me if I shopped for a bridal dress.

    • @kathleenwindasgoodwin9165
      @kathleenwindasgoodwin9165 Рік тому +8

      I was 29 when I picked out my gown. The only person I brought with me was an extremely close friend.

    • @margarethagerman1652
      @margarethagerman1652 Рік тому +3

      Bought mine off the rack at age 28, all by myself. I l loved my mother, but I did not like shopping for my clothes with her.

    • @mirellymiranda9591
      @mirellymiranda9591 Рік тому +3

      Me too! 20 and chose my dress last month by myself! Best decision ever

  • @EH23831
    @EH23831 2 роки тому +3886

    Let’s face it - she’d look gorgeous in anything! Really doesn’t matter what she picks! 😁

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +54

      true, but she definitely picked the right dress. i don't think the severe mermaid silhouette was for her, the blingy embroidery on a fit & flare was just perfection.

    • @bengisuugur8206
      @bengisuugur8206 2 роки тому +11

      I came to write that but you already did 😊

    • @llc1976
      @llc1976 2 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @JouJouOuiOui
      @JouJouOuiOui 2 роки тому +3

      Agree.

    • @monicabastardo6898
      @monicabastardo6898 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lesliecruguet4136
    @lesliecruguet4136 2 роки тому +24

    Why on earth would any bride invite their future MIL to select their wedding dress??!!

    • @SizzlinSue-C
      @SizzlinSue-C 6 місяців тому +6

      Exactly!! The mother-in-law has no need to be there. The bride gets to pick the dress SHE likes. Plus, the MIL isn’t paying for it. Simple as that.

    • @kittykat57
      @kittykat57 Місяць тому +1

      I think as a gesture of good will and as a bonding experience. It wouldn't necessarily be a good idea for all MILs, but if you've got a sweetheart as a MIL, go for it.

  • @r.e.7138
    @r.e.7138 2 роки тому +2249

    There's literally nothing wrong with anything the mother in law did lol. Her mom even kept the same energy with her when she didn't like something. She found her dress and that's all that matters.

    • @celeste2751
      @celeste2751 2 роки тому +17

      you're her

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +26

      she said a dress absolutely covered in rhinestones was "too plain." even the MOB was fed up with her, this obviously wasn't the first time she shat her opinion all over the bridal appointment.

    • @poponachtschnecke
      @poponachtschnecke 2 роки тому +12

      @@dietotaku what's your deal? You're so angry

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird 2 роки тому +23

      It's just clickbait for the title. You could see she was hesitant to be honest at first until they coaxed her

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 роки тому

      @@celeste2751 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I like you

  • @Talesofsmi
    @Talesofsmi Рік тому +13

    The second dress was for it. She smiled all the way and it hugged her so good.

  • @SK-qj8sm
    @SK-qj8sm 2 роки тому +1443

    Okay, hear me out. Usually, mils can be annoying but Tina was actually a great critique and she even explained what she didn't like in any of the dresses. i definitely got the "These dresses don't speak her, she can do far better." vibes when she didn't initially like any of the dresses. And I AGREE WITH HER! It didn't do the bride anything at all.
    But the last dress she chose was perfect and I knew the mil will say the same, when she finally sees De dress on her, she gave her approval.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому +15

      I agree. Although I feel that she did not communicate exactly WHAT she didn't like as well as she could have, I think she and the test of the entourage gave good feedback so the bride got the dress that looked best on her and what she wanted.

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 2 роки тому +2

      They heard Randy and the Bride talking.

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 роки тому +3

      You missed the point. She doesn't get to have an opinion about the dress. Other things, maybe. Dress? Nope.

    • @amz.6580
      @amz.6580 2 роки тому +3

      Yeah but the bride was clearly a little frustrated. She could have toned it down just a little for her bridal appointment.

    • @birgittabirgersdatter8082
      @birgittabirgersdatter8082 2 роки тому +6

      @@Impossibly_gorgeous only the whole reason she was invited was so that she would be able to have her opinion. If she wasn’t going to be allowed to have an opinion in the dresses, she wouldn’t have been invited. Strange you missed that important clue.

  • @Yonidevargas
    @Yonidevargas 2 роки тому +13

    The prices keep going up and up, WTFFFF! Wasn’t her budget supposed to be $7,000!?

  • @mariellavandergaast9055
    @mariellavandergaast9055 2 роки тому +151

    They sure didn't listen to or respect her budget. She clearly said no MORE than $7,000.

  • @rachellebrown2411
    @rachellebrown2411 2 роки тому +50

    WOW! To hear a mother say her soon to be daughter in-law is the perfect woman for her son is a true honor. THATS something you hear and many women don’t care.
    WOW! Congratulations! God Bless

    • @Beth-mi2hf
      @Beth-mi2hf Рік тому +1

      I wonder if she said that to her sons new wife. They are divorced and both have remarried

  • @PASwiftUTube
    @PASwiftUTube 2 роки тому +511

    I was annoyed by the fact that they disrespected the bride when they ignored her budget. So rude of the bridal company.

    • @mtb1015
      @mtb1015 2 роки тому +11

      Rude of Randy!

    • @wildflower1397
      @wildflower1397 2 роки тому +31

      They did not ignore it, they stayed right in her range. For people who are used to purchasing high priced items, it is understood that "$7000" means up to "$7,999". She is a beauty contestant and would have the experience to expect this, as well as knowing that alterations will likely be hundreds of dollars. Any extras, such as added lace, beading, or accessories such as a veil will not be included in the first quote. They even left enough room in the budget to ensure she would not go over the $8000 mark with alterations.
      While I agree it is disrespectful to only show dresses above the bride's budget, that was not the case in this episode. If the bride's budget was $1500 and they showed $2000 dresses, it would be rude, because that $500 more is 1/3 of her original budget. However, going a few hundred over on a $7000 budget is just a small fraction of the budget higher. Either way, they should never pressure the customer to try on or purchase what they can't afford.
      Brides need to be ready to stand their ground on budget and not try on anything shown to them above budget. Better yet, state a budget lower than what they can actually afford, so they can view a range of prices. However, don't fault a salesperson for showing them something over budget if it is exactly what they are asking for. It's not always about their commission. Sometimes what the customer wants is simply not in their price range, and they deserve the chance to turn down their perfect dress or increase their budget so they can have it.

    • @Pollyjpocket
      @Pollyjpocket 2 роки тому +48

      @@wildflower1397 she did say "no higher than $7000" ...

    • @Cbop77
      @Cbop77 2 роки тому +15

      @@wildflower1397 It's super manipulative and wrong to go over someone's budget. The consultants know the dresses and prices; why they always go right at the top of the budget or above is beyond me, instead of choosing similar dresses ~$500 below the bride's max budget. Like so annoying.

    • @amiroquet7476
      @amiroquet7476 5 місяців тому

      ​@@wildflower1397Not only that it she would know that the type of dress she wanted aka something with lots of lace and beading from a high end boutique with expensive brands, would cost more than 7000

  • @politesmile7812
    @politesmile7812 2 роки тому +161

    That mother-in-law knows her stuff! I was happy with the dresses until I saw that last one. That dress was a show stopper! The mother-in-law’s critical eye is better than most. She could be an amazing stylist.

    • @laceyfox3384
      @laceyfox3384 2 роки тому

      Yeah....ok

    • @politesmile7812
      @politesmile7812 2 роки тому +1

      @@laceyfox3384 ok Lacey with your chunky turquoise necklace from 2014 and your Shirley temple curls. Let’s take fashion advice from the home school lookin’ grandma. 🙄

    • @laceyfox3384
      @laceyfox3384 2 роки тому +4

      @@politesmile7812 wow you really zoomed in to check me out! FYI it's a genuine Royston lariat from the same company that drew Barrymore buys her turquoise from. It's not costume jewelry sweetheart

    • @politesmile7812
      @politesmile7812 2 роки тому

      @@laceyfox3384 all one has to do is click on your face in comments and it opens your profile, where I see your tacky 2014 photo and your HBHG playlist. No zooming needed boomer. BTW I loved Drew Barrymore in the Wedding Singer and I’m sure her stylist at Hippie Cowgirl could help you put a modern spin on that necklace. You could use some updating sweetheart. It’s time to put the velour Juicy bag away.

    • @rosechapman2796
      @rosechapman2796 2 роки тому +4

      @@laceyfox3384 To be fair, Polite Smile didn't say your necklace looked fake, they said it was chunky and old school. It being "genuine" doesn't make something more or less tacky to others.
      Wear what you want and makes you feel good though. I wear corsets and look like a pirate/elf half the time because I like it. Others find it gaudy. That's the fun thing about style, it's subjective.

  • @andydufresne5297
    @andydufresne5297 2 роки тому +1106

    When the shows are this old, I always have to go look to see if the marriage ever took place or if they are still married. This bride married her fiance in 2014. They divorced, and she has since remarried. Ah, true love!

    • @KJ-ut4rw
      @KJ-ut4rw 2 роки тому +339

      Thank you for letting us know. I always wonder how many couples make it.m

    • @lydiapicano8806
      @lydiapicano8806 2 роки тому +145

      That's really sad.

    • @karenacton3854
      @karenacton3854 2 роки тому +83

      How do you find this info? How sad but I found the different generations look at marriage differently.

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 2 роки тому +33

      Wow. Thank you for the update.

    • @andydufresne5297
      @andydufresne5297 2 роки тому +79

      @@karenacton3854 All you have to do is look up her name (it's displayed around 0:16 in the clip) and "miss universe". Shortcut: Look for her wiki entry. It's in there.

  • @ilmarahman6047
    @ilmarahman6047 2 роки тому +14

    I've seen this a lot on this show and it really bothers me that push dresses higher than the given budget and are always trying to upsell dresses and drama. I've heard from bridal consultants that they generally don't show dresses higher than the client's budget because nobody wants to fall in love with a dress you can't afford! The relationship dynamics were refreshing to watch and not over the top hateful and toxic at all!

  • @AlmostMiddleAgedASMR
    @AlmostMiddleAgedASMR 2 роки тому +414

    i love when the mother in law said "that is the perfect woman for my son" so sweet

    • @stacymagnusson5683
      @stacymagnusson5683 2 роки тому +33

      According to wikipedia, the marriage lasted less than 2 years.

    • @heather7287
      @heather7287 2 роки тому +2

      @@stacymagnusson5683 😲

    • @stacymagnusson5683
      @stacymagnusson5683 2 роки тому +7

      @@KD-fh8fc I just wish more people would focus on the marriage instead of the frills leading up to it. There would be less heartache and less debt.

    • @np100
      @np100 2 роки тому +5

      @@stacymagnusson5683 Surprise, surprise. Mama's boy. Horrible MIL. It happened to me, and nothing can be more hurtful than having your husband choose his mother over you.

    • @karenhouser4123
      @karenhouser4123 2 роки тому +4

      Well I thought it was wrong to give the MIL so much power. It's not her day, it's not her dress, so why is her opinion, the make or break approval given so much importance? She was brought dresses over $7,000 , when she had said her limit was $7,000. She's beautiful and the dress looked perfect. I wasn't thrilled with this episode tho. It just didn't sit right regarding the power given to the MIL.

  • @rennigaderedd9483
    @rennigaderedd9483 2 роки тому +10

    This is why I picked out, and got my wedding dress by myself, with no one helping me, because I was going to be wearing the dress, it was my wedding, and the only one whose opinion mattered about my dress was mine.

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 2 роки тому +256

    The second dress was very unique. It looked stunning on her. And, fit her perfectly.

    • @JL-wm7my
      @JL-wm7my 2 роки тому +5

      Agree

    • @bhquilter
      @bhquilter 2 роки тому +15

      I thought it was the most flattering of all the dresses.

    • @catherineaw2545
      @catherineaw2545 Рік тому +5

      I agree totallu - the second drexx is absolitely gorgeous and purrfect for her. Its a pity she didnt try it on again.

    • @Jerseygal53
      @Jerseygal53 Рік тому +1

      I agree!!

    • @irenedhakde4692
      @irenedhakde4692 Рік тому +2

      Absolutely. The best cut, classy, tasteful and suited her skin tone.

  • @VYetzer-ux1sd
    @VYetzer-ux1sd Рік тому +5

    That second dress she tried on was GORGEOUS

  • @almaeclu
    @almaeclu 2 роки тому +254

    She had a higher budget than most on the show. And yet they exceeded it.

    • @louannhuber2651
      @louannhuber2651 2 роки тому +2

      It’s only money

    • @valerieblack6445
      @valerieblack6445 2 роки тому +20

      I guess if your top budget is 7 you should tell them it 5 or 6..they almost always push the amout

    • @skadi6750
      @skadi6750 2 роки тому +2

      @@valerieblack6445 What do we know, maybe most of them already do that.-D

    • @annarchy665
      @annarchy665 6 місяців тому

      She did say, "like" $7k, not a *firm* 7k. If she balked at the extra $200, they would have reduced it.

    • @amiroquet7476
      @amiroquet7476 5 місяців тому

      It's because of what she wanted. The type of dress she wanted was always going to be over her range, it's a miracle they had dresses that were still within the 7-8 thousand range. She's at a high end run way designer bridal boutique in New York. Of course it's going to be a bit over her range. The dress type she wanted was always going to be expensive no matter where she went though. I'm sure she understood she might need extra.

  • @charlenebailey61
    @charlenebailey61 2 роки тому +6

    My daughter is getting married in October...there was none of what others thought! She chose and that was that no matter what the rest of us thought!

  • @Moiyikyoi
    @Moiyikyoi 2 роки тому +441

    The mother in law wasn’t even that bad. The mom even gave the same amount of criticism as her. They even agreed they both didn’t like the second and third dresses. This looks like a nice and normal appointment to me with normal amount of notes on the dresses and not at all discouraging the bride or anything.

    • @celeste2751
      @celeste2751 2 роки тому +5

      you're her

    • @dawniebug784
      @dawniebug784 2 роки тому +4

      I see the mother in law's vision. I don't see how the staff don't

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +7

      what? the mom LOVED the second dress. FMIL just hated everything. a gazillion rhinestones = it's too plain. mermaid style = too broken up. fit & flare = not broken up enough. i don't know how anybody could "see the mother in law's vision" because she isn't articulating what that vision is and it doesn't even matter because IT'S. NOT. HER. WEDDING. (edit) okay they cut this together REALLY weird because at 3:36 she's trying on the daniella caprese dress that FMIL says "isn't broken up enough" but then at 6:37 they're putting her in the same dress and calling it dress #3 instead of #2.

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 2 роки тому +5

      The difference is that her mother is Her Mother. The MIL is just her mil. Her opinion does Not count when it comes to the brides wedding dress.

    • @stephanieyee9784
      @stephanieyee9784 2 роки тому +3

      @@dawniebug784, really? You mean the manipulative, demanding, meddling, "I know what's best for my son" garbage she's displaying?

  • @RBLong0928
    @RBLong0928 2 роки тому +51

    I love what she got! $600 over? It's totally impossible for me to relate. When I started looking at David's Bridal I did not choose right away. In the meantime a cousin called me and asked if I had a dress yet. She had a friend that called off her wedding. She had a dress altered and wondered if I wanted to just take a look. I figured why not. I'm 5'2", 120. The dress fit perfectly and I loved it more than any I had seen so far. Total $35. Yes I got blessed. This business of spending thousands is crazy. At least be within reason.

    • @jesseostone386
      @jesseostone386 2 роки тому +8

      I also think the outrageous prices for a dress worn ONCE is beyond comprehension. But I’m nothing if not practical. My wedding dress was a God-given blessing. It fit me perfectly without alterations, had all the features I wanted and made me feel fabulous, and cost $400.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 5 місяців тому

      A blessing for my mom was a lost opportunity for me. Her dress was borrowed and fit perfectly without alterations. I absolutely loved it (long story here, but I never saw photos until >45 years after my wedding) - and WAY more than the dress that I chose/wore. And we were exactly the same height/frame, so it would've fit me perfectly.

  • @nathanmalik1697
    @nathanmalik1697 2 роки тому +183

    Ah. I see why she won Miss USA. She's so beautiful in every dress.

    • @lynnoserb1228
      @lynnoserb1228 Рік тому +4

      You don't have to win Miss USA to be beautiful.. All those girls that didn't win Miss USA still beautiful in every dress

  • @YcatsMartinez
    @YcatsMartinez 2 роки тому +25

    After watching the show, I think the bride’s entourage is awesome. I will admit that I am the type of mom/mom-in-law that will pretty much love everything, but I think the opinions were nicely given.

  • @roos24k65
    @roos24k65 2 роки тому +113

    If your budget it $7000,- tell them it's $6000,-.

    • @Ms_Sharpie
      @Ms_Sharpie 2 роки тому +12

      Right! Also, I doubt that the $7600 included sales tax and alterations.

    • @merricat3025
      @merricat3025 2 роки тому +5

      Can't imagine spending that much money on a dress

    • @bridgetclement8167
      @bridgetclement8167 2 роки тому +5

      @@merricat3025 Me either!!! I spent $40 on my Dress. Cause i had a Justice of the Peace ceremony. Cause my Hubby has NO FAMILY except his WITCH of a Mom. I have my Mom, friends, and my Aunt and Uncle came to Ceremony. My Uncle gave me away in place of my Dad

    • @lisah935
      @lisah935 2 роки тому +5

      Did you ever stop to think that that's what she did?? Perhaps her budget was actually $8000, and that's why she said $7000.

    • @lesliebrickey8357
      @lesliebrickey8357 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Ms_Sharpie probably didn't include the veil either

  • @jonnarobinson7541
    @jonnarobinson7541 2 роки тому +17

    As a mother-in-law I never would’ve imposed my views on my sons wife about her dress. The only comment I made about their wedding was that my son‘s younger brother needed to be a groomsman. (They were not planning on including him in the wedding party). I just stay out of their business and out of her way. She is never going to be able to say that her mother-in-law interfered in her marriage.

    • @vakiatue
      @vakiatue 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly! But this bride seemed to be a very nice and naive woman. Her mother seemed very kind as well. They appear to be people-pleasers or peace setters. In the other hand, the mother in law is more incisive and controlling. It's a "perfect match" of someone who likes power and someone who wants to please.

  • @Kittykatkatt
    @Kittykatkatt 2 роки тому +30

    What a clickbait of a title! 🙄
    The mother in law was actually really nice and gave positive constructive feedback!

  • @dorrainecrump3396
    @dorrainecrump3396 11 місяців тому +2

    Randy is the best part of this show. What a gem!

  • @emilysmalley6795
    @emilysmalley6795 2 роки тому +127

    STOP asking the entourage what they like. It's not their wedding, it's the bride's. Her wishes are all that matter. All the dresses were lovely on her.

    • @stephanieanderson3626
      @stephanieanderson3626 2 роки тому +11

      But if they didn't cause drama, would the show get as many views?

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому +20

      She brought them, yes? She wants their opinions, yes? And...if she had gotten the first dress she loved (that her entourage didn't) she would not have tried on the last one. So maybe they actually helped her to find the perfect dress. So maybe they were an asset.
      They all didn't just mimic her opinions on the dresses. So what? What are they there for? Why did she bring them?
      And you forget that this is a reality show. The application supposedly has a list of people you can bring, and then the producers tell you who you have to bring. The episodes all have a story, and the entourage is often part of it. Since all the brides apply to be on this show, they all agree to all the terms. If not, they would have a regular appointment that no one would see on their TV.

    • @raqui174
      @raqui174 2 роки тому +1

      @@stephanieanderson3626 exactly

    • @sneal64
      @sneal64 2 роки тому +1

      I agree with you 100%; is the bride it is getting married not them!!!! Tina needs to have her opinion if she’s married for her second vows!!!!! Her daughter-in-law is gorgeous and can wear anything; she needs to be quiet; she is rude!!!!! She was supposed to be a support system and not chaos!!!!

    • @Angel-ts8rc
      @Angel-ts8rc Рік тому +2

      @@catladyfromky4142 Entourages are they to be an entourage! That’s it! Moral support. They don’t get a say on the dress. If someone wants options that fine, but it’s unnecessary for the consultants to keep asking and even let them pick out dresses

  • @kittykat57
    @kittykat57 5 місяців тому +1

    When brides are too nice and are more concerned about making everyone else happier than themselves. I was that bride - I hated my dress (my bossy sister picked it) and almost everything about my wedding, even though we were paying for it. I am divorced now, and if I ever get married again, I'll elope.

  • @zimnizzle
    @zimnizzle 2 роки тому +71

    The mother in law was really helpful, actually. That last dress was absolutely perfecto.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 5 місяців тому

      I MUCH preferred the second dress - but it's the bride's choice.

  • @desynoer4401
    @desynoer4401 2 роки тому +6

    I can see whom she inherited her beauty from! Her mom is stunning!!

  • @stevennieves3327
    @stevennieves3327 2 роки тому +62

    This is from 2014 so here’s a little update: Erin and Tony got married on December 13, 2014 but unfortunately divorced two years later. They’ve both since remarried other people and Tony and his current wife recently welcomed their second child.

    • @karissakline6765
      @karissakline6765 2 роки тому +22

      What a huge waste of time and money on that big wedding for two years together 😂

    • @Q1cool8790
      @Q1cool8790 2 роки тому

      How you know this?

    • @stevennieves3327
      @stevennieves3327 2 роки тому +9

      @@karissakline6765 well, they were together for years leading up to the engagement and no one gets married with the intention of getting divorced. Some things just don’t work out.

    • @stevennieves3327
      @stevennieves3327 2 роки тому +5

      @@Q1cool8790 they’re both prominent on social media. Look up their names and you’ll see their IG pages with pictures of their current respective spouses. The date of Erin and Tony’s wedding is on Erin’s Wikipedia page.

    • @centigradz2centigradz289
      @centigradz2centigradz289 2 роки тому +3

      All that money wasted for nothing. She might as well have worn a paper bag and not had a mil for a critique.

  • @whalesong4401
    @whalesong4401 2 роки тому +13

    It's funny watching this show because at my wedding i wore the dress i wanted, no body liked it but me and my husband. I don't don't regret wearing it. I loved it.

  • @patty_pb2986
    @patty_pb2986 2 роки тому +429

    Bride: no more than 7000 dollars
    First dress: worth 7200 dollars
    Second dress: 7400
    Last dress: 7600
    Me: 🤦‍♀️

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому +9

      First dress: the one in the picture that she showed them as the perfect dress. That they actually have in the store. That is only a few hundred over her budget. That she would have been upset had she NOT put it on.
      All the other dresses: in the same price range as the first dress.
      You: angrier than the bride for trying on the dresses. You did not see the video of her looking at the price tag, saying "too much," then sending them out for dresses all under her budget, did you? Perhaps the price (being a little over budget) was not as important to you as it was to her.

    • @nimcoahmed6375
      @nimcoahmed6375 2 роки тому

      @@catladyfromky4142 Don't know why you are so mad fool, but when someone clearly states that they do not want a dress over a special price and that's exactly what you do, it's normal to feel decieved and angry. Even if she did look at the price and was upset they would ovbiously not keep that clip. The only dress that can be concidered reasonble to keep in this is the first one. "Only a couple of hundred dollars"? You're clearly quite ignorant and don't know the worth hundreds of dollars have. 100 dollars is 1/10 of 1000. Do you get that? The last dress was 7600? That number is closer to 8000 than 7000. And that is a little over the budget to you? Do you know what a budget is for? And how do you know she saw the price before she put it on ? I have watched there other episodes and they often tell them later. Making someone put on a dress, fall in love, than later tell them it's over budget is cunning and decieving. Of course they'll be okay with it and try to buy it anyway since they are already inlove with it and they probably can barely aford it. Look at all the dresses they have. You really believe that they dont have a single dress under 7000 that she would fall inlove with? You think that they coincidently have 4+ dresses that are perfectly above 7000 for their own benefit that can please her? You really believe that?

    • @gwens5093
      @gwens5093 2 роки тому +5

      @@KD-fh8fc All retail store do the same it is called upselling .

    • @ndisfoshiz
      @ndisfoshiz 2 роки тому +3

      Antonella does this ALL THE TIME!

    • @cyflym11
      @cyflym11 2 роки тому +8

      I wonder why none of them ever say "sorry but that's over my budget, can you put it back?". It's not as if 7 grand is peanuts.

  • @509wildflower
    @509wildflower 2 роки тому +7

    I think it’s hard to top a dress when you’ve seen your daughter/daughter-in-law in so many amazing and gorgeous pageant dresses already. Coming from someone that had a sister in the pageant world!

  • @SumanSingh-eb8lr
    @SumanSingh-eb8lr 2 роки тому +60

    Tina done good job actually she said yes to the perfect gown for her... She looks stunning in that

  • @Nublet67
    @Nublet67 2 роки тому +20

    This is precisely why my daughter decided to pay for her own dress, because she wanted to make her own mind up and not have to get a dress that she didn’t like because someone else was buying it…

    • @gwens5093
      @gwens5093 2 роки тому +4

      I did the same paid for my own and went shopping alone.

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 5 місяців тому

      @@gwens5093 Ditto.

  • @aishaaijazahmad6184
    @aishaaijazahmad6184 2 роки тому +40

    Bride: Not more than 7000
    *brings out all dresses more than 7000*
    So frustrating honestly.
    ALSO, the MIL was great! She gave constructive criticism and wasn't mean in any way, and even the bride's own mom was mostly on the same page with her. The video title was just clickbait and unnecessary! Bride looks beautiful in the dress she picked!

  • @Adoptpets833
    @Adoptpets833 Рік тому +2

    I appreciate Erin as Miss USA, her beauty isn't just surface beauty💖

  • @Ihavenoideawhatthisevenis
    @Ihavenoideawhatthisevenis 2 роки тому +26

    That second dress is absolutely stunning,it looks like something from Titanic.

    • @donnaleach8119
      @donnaleach8119 2 роки тому +3

      @Shannon Matlock: agreed! I loved that one so much!

  • @joralemonvirgincreche
    @joralemonvirgincreche Рік тому +1

    I'll never understand why some of these brides cede so much control to the mother-in-law. Let the mother-in-law obsess over what the GROOM is wearing. His tux. What the bride wears is none of her business. And none of the groom's business either. These brides are so immature, they're barely adult. Stand up for yourself and get what you want to wear.

  • @reneeangele4766
    @reneeangele4766 2 роки тому +39

    I really liked the genuine love the mother's had for each other :)

  • @CeltycSparrow
    @CeltycSparrow 2 роки тому +6

    I agree with the Mamas. She looks absolutely stunning in that dress. A true Queen, who will look gorgeous on her wedding day.

  • @ladyjustice1474
    @ladyjustice1474 2 роки тому +274

    The bride can wear anything, and look smashing. She should wear the dress she loves.

  • @SCloud-ny9xz
    @SCloud-ny9xz 2 роки тому +11

    Randy: "Tina! Tell us what you really think!" / Tina: *is honest* / everyone else: "no way tina 😐"

  • @ShelbyZealand
    @ShelbyZealand 2 роки тому +16

    To be fair, I also thought that 5:00 - 6:00 dress looked like it had mold growing on it. The beading placement was just odd... in my opinion.

  • @dell7277
    @dell7277 Рік тому +1

    This happens there too?? I'm from India and purchasing wedding ornaments is a major thing in here. Same happened to me during jewelry selection. My mother in law disliked everything I choose and we were forced picked her own choices in my Father's budget. My father payed, I wore, my MiL selected..

  • @amethystsamia
    @amethystsamia 2 роки тому +43

    I don’t understand why all these brides will choose something else just because the crew doesn’t like it. It’s their dress. Not the friends/fam. I’d want opinions of course but damned if I’d have to please everyone. My MIL tried to dictate everything about my very small private wedding and I was very comfortable saying no. I’m not doing that.

    • @terrib627
      @terrib627 2 роки тому +6

      There wouldn't be a show if they didn't pick spineless brides (or those pretending to be doormats just to get on the show to generate drama).

    • @amethystsamia
      @amethystsamia 2 роки тому

      @@terrib627 Lmao! True!! But it gets old fast. Surely they can generate drama some other way. I like watching the feuding exes (bride’s parents). That’s always fun! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mandywalker7639
    @mandywalker7639 2 роки тому +4

    The way she looks sideways when she says 'our relationship has only grown stronger over the last couple of years' rang alarm bells for me. I think this marriage won't work.

    • @Djbluedreamz
      @Djbluedreamz 2 роки тому +1

      Youre right! They're divorced now

    • @mandywalker7639
      @mandywalker7639 2 роки тому +2

      @@Djbluedreamz oh gosh! Really? That's sad but I'm not surprised.

    • @Djbluedreamz
      @Djbluedreamz 2 роки тому +1

      @@mandywalker7639 Yes! Its so sad, I wish it hadn't worked out like that

  • @rottierumbles9451
    @rottierumbles9451 2 роки тому +5

    Another headline to get people watching for the "DRAMA" when there was none, well done.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому

      LOL. Although I agree with you, some commenters here just saw what they wanted to see (because of the title perhaps). Some wrote that she may have divorced her husband because of this woman. Others wrote that the bride allowed her to dominate the appointment. It is weird how people can be easily led...

  • @rachelclancy5290
    @rachelclancy5290 2 роки тому +21

    I don’t think the MIL was anything but supportive. She was never mean just thought she could look better. And at the end she was soo sweet to say “she’s the perfect women for my son,” how sweet that is. I would love to have a MIL that felt soo highly of me and wasn’t dishonest about how I looked and gave honest feedback without being hurtful. It’s a given its Erin’s choice in the final say in the end. Do you have another son Tina? Lol … I remembered trying on clothes with my mom and a sales lady was soo nosey and told my mom that everything she tried on looked great and one shirt my mom was questioning and once I saw it, I saw the same thing my mom was seeing. It wasn’t horrible but it also wasn’t very flattering and told her honestly and the sales lady scolded me for saying the truth. And my mom told her that’s why I’m asking my daughter because I know that she will tell her me the truth good or bad.

  • @LadyMarigoldWithers
    @LadyMarigoldWithers 2 роки тому +13

    How did they STILL go over a 7k budget?!

  • @Bowman2026
    @Bowman2026 2 роки тому +9

    I understand that what they think is important to her. At the end of the day, she's needs to love the dress and she needs to fight for the dress that she loves!

  • @laurastuart3814
    @laurastuart3814 2 роки тому +92

    To me, that looks more like an evening dress than a dress I would wear to a wedding.

    • @christinemeleg4535
      @christinemeleg4535 2 роки тому +5

      The woman who is the bride, is still looking for an audience to cheer her on. This is a wedding not the "pageant world".

    • @freshstart4423
      @freshstart4423 2 роки тому +1

      Ball gowns say Bridal, but women hear so much criticism they can't discern.

  • @equalityforall5620
    @equalityforall5620 7 місяців тому +1

    "This is the perfect girl for my son." I can't belive this MIL had the nerve to say that. She's so lucky that this young woman loves her son. She could do much worse. She could actually have a DIL who doesn't care what she thinks.

  • @jan5148
    @jan5148 2 роки тому +7

    A sweet bride, her mother is elegant, kind, and supportive along with her beautiful BFF's. I hope when it comes to style and fashion the bride will always please herself and not take advice from her mother-in-law, whose own sense of style was leftover from the 80s and whose grammar could use correcting.

  • @maggiec5311
    @maggiec5311 Рік тому +16

    The MIL was actually kind and she was completely right. She wasn't being a drama queen, she was gently offering her honest opinion. I saw nothing wrong with it.

  • @angrydonutface7420
    @angrydonutface7420 2 роки тому +11

    Some entourages confuse being helpful with trying to choose the dress entirely. If the bride loves something and it generally looks good on her, just be supportive, even if it's not exactly the dress you'd pick!

    • @Varaidzo1
      @Varaidzo1 2 роки тому +2

      I know right? Why can't people understand that!

  • @haleywells7369
    @haleywells7369 2 роки тому +25

    I think the mother talking about how she’s been dreaming of “being a bride”
    for so long explains a lot about her marriage, divorce, and eventual remarriage. It seems like she was way more focused on the wedding itself and on being a bride then she was focused on who she was actually getting married to and whether that person with the right person to have a marriage with.

  • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
    @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 роки тому +33

    Loved all the dresses and let's face it - she would look fabulous in anything

  • @TightyWhiteyTrash
    @TightyWhiteyTrash Рік тому +1

    The bride had put a bad taste in my mouth at 0:11 seconds in when she introduced her best friends as “bffsss” 🙄 Her mom is a sweetheart tho.

  • @margeretdaniels2282
    @margeretdaniels2282 2 роки тому +16

    the mother in law was right, she could have done wayyyy better, especially with the budget she had

  • @MehediHasan-bd3jt
    @MehediHasan-bd3jt 2 роки тому +4

    The dress she chose is just drop dead gorgeous... Loved it

  • @slimbj3899
    @slimbj3899 2 роки тому +6

    She is absolutely STUNNING.....and what a smile !!!

  • @puddysue
    @puddysue 10 місяців тому +2

    I never understand this... the BRIDE is wearing the dress, and whether she loves it or not should be the only thing that matters.

    • @ReneeDelBorrello-h5j
      @ReneeDelBorrello-h5j 9 місяців тому

      Agreed, but, sometimes it helps to have someone there who can let you know if a dress honestly is not flattering on you. Sometimes we are so obsessed with wanting a gorgeous dress that we saw in a magazine or in the store on the rack, that we subconsciously overlook reality if it’s not flattering on our individual figures. Unfortunately, most high end dresses seem to be designed for super thin and super tall women, because they want the dresses to look great on the runway. Anyways, that was my personal experience at Kleinfelds. I came in thinking mermaid would look amazing on me, and turned out a ballgown actually was the most flattering. It gets toxic though when the people with you give unproductive feedback, especially feedback that has nothing to do with how it looks on you, and more of just their own personal taste in dresses, which is about 50% of the people on this show.

  • @evilr.714
    @evilr.714 2 роки тому +23

    Always baffle me, my wedding, my dress..I don't care about your opinion.I went shopping on my own.. turn out just Fab!

  • @kateliias1838
    @kateliias1838 2 роки тому +8

    Although I love the dress and love how happy she is in it, I don't love how they clearly disregarded her budget.

  • @sheadeveney6774
    @sheadeveney6774 2 роки тому +9

    That dress is absolutely gorgeous she looks so good in it

  • @classicalbk
    @classicalbk Рік тому +1

    It's amazing how different mermaid dresses look on the same person. Some were way more flattering than others.

  • @AnniCarlsson
    @AnniCarlsson 2 роки тому +9

    Why bring MIL with you if she not supportive in the dress you want?

  • @susanh.352
    @susanh.352 2 роки тому +1

    The Bride SPECIFICALLY STATED, she DID NOT want to go over $7,000. for her dress. What did the Bridal Shop do? They brought out dresses OVER what the Bride stated she wanted to pay. I've noticed on several occasion's they have brought out dresses way over a Brides budget. Really Tacky Kleinfeld!

  • @SevenDaysofStyleNY
    @SevenDaysofStyleNY 2 роки тому +52

    She could wear anything and still look gorgeous! As for the future mother in law, watch out. Trying to please her over HER dress is a major red flag!

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 2 роки тому +4

      According to another commenter, bride and husband married in 2014, but are now divorced, with her now being married to someone else, so that particular MIL is no longer in the picture.

    • @NoName-sp5dp
      @NoName-sp5dp 2 роки тому +2

      MIL wasn't even bad

  • @Winner4HIM
    @Winner4HIM 2 роки тому

    Gagging every time Randy says hello beautiful to EVERY BRIDE!

  • @ChristineInNornia
    @ChristineInNornia 2 роки тому +6

    The tension between the Mum and Mum-in-Law😬
    The bride should have brought just her Mum.

  • @kellijohnson6449
    @kellijohnson6449 Рік тому

    Randy's "hey beautiful" makes me smile every time

  • @keyqchan
    @keyqchan 2 роки тому +11

    The title is very clickbait-y. The MIL was reasonable and not rude whatsoever. The bride was probably mildly irritated but definitely not what the video title tries to insinuate.

    • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
      @xxarianahiltonxx5116 2 роки тому

      She was all over the place. She didn't know what she liked. I'd be annoyed too.

  • @cheryleaston6820
    @cheryleaston6820 2 роки тому +2

    When the mother in law is paying for the dress she gets a say otherwise shut up. I am the mother in law who just sat and looked at my daughter in laws face and that said it all. I was honored that she included me in this adventure to be quite honest.

  • @stefw46
    @stefw46 2 роки тому +4

    that second dress was so beautiful...

  • @doberman1ism
    @doberman1ism 2 роки тому +2

    Since when does a mother-in-law have a say in what the bride to be is going to wear on her special day?

  • @emilyspeece9866
    @emilyspeece9866 2 роки тому +6

    This why I went by myself to pick out my wedding gown.

    • @sahtification
      @sahtification 2 роки тому

      Could you talk about the experience, pls? Did you felt doubtful at any time?
      Did you decide to shop the gown without show to anyone?
      When my time comes I'm thinking about going alone but I have these questions

    • @BasicYTHandle
      @BasicYTHandle 5 місяців тому

      Actually, I never even considered having family or friends come with me. However, I did bring my fiance. AFTER I picked the gown that I wanted, I had him brought into the room to see various options - and, WITHOUT my identifying my choice, he chose the same one!

  • @sandimccracken2781
    @sandimccracken2781 11 місяців тому +1

    Stand up to Mother-in-law now … if you don’t do it now you’ll never be able to do it.

  • @rezotydnic
    @rezotydnic 2 роки тому +3

    That poor girl. She's going to have soo much trouble with that mother inlaw. 🤦‍♀️
    Why are mother inlaws at wedding dress shopping adventures? No no no.....

  • @jennifermcdonald5432
    @jennifermcdonald5432 Рік тому +1

    I don’t understand why ALL the brides INSIST on their whole entourage okaying their choice. Of course their opinion counts, counts a great deal, but surely not to the point of overriding the brides own choice!

  • @laurenw1168
    @laurenw1168 Рік тому +8

    As much as the editing tried to make the mother-in-law out to be a nasty woman, I really think they failed lol. She just came off to me as a loving mom who didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, that knows she's an opinionated person, but has it pretty well in check. I liked her :)

  • @bnadira212
    @bnadira212 2 роки тому +2

    I personally liked the second dress with the lace. But it’s her day and she loved the one she picked

  • @lifesjourney65
    @lifesjourney65 2 роки тому +8

    Mother in law is gonna rule that household if she keeps deferring to her for decisions

    • @terrib627
      @terrib627 2 роки тому +2

      I'd say she's potentially part of the reason this marriage didn't last.

  • @czgator9000
    @czgator9000 2 роки тому +2

    Not only is she beautiful, but is smart. She now has an MBA and is a financial analyst.

  • @crystalp6076
    @crystalp6076 2 роки тому +5

    “No more than $7000.” Picks her a dress for $7400 and $7600. I’m convinced these people can’t hear. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @magyarfull
      @magyarfull 2 роки тому

      Drama...ratings, angst, hand wringing, ratings. The American dream!

  • @daggidina3446
    @daggidina3446 Рік тому +1

    "No more than 7k."
    *Proceeds to pull the very first dress that's 200 dollars over.* Randy plz

  • @Lindalindali
    @Lindalindali 2 роки тому +11

    The satin dress that was behind Erin when she was commenting would have looked great on her.

  • @strawberryjones7193
    @strawberryjones7193 Рік тому

    omigosh, she looked so beautiful in that second dress... that dress is gorgeous!