Props to Jeannie for dodging the question. Not everything needs to be shared. Plus, Loni be in everybody business while not saying anything about herself smh
Bingo! Fun fact people have sex for different reasons in or out of marriage. Some reasons are: Pleasure, comfort, grief, anger, fear. Validation.(ego/self esteem boost) to avoid Depression, addiction, boredom, avoidance, abuse, to apologize, to communicate the list goes on...the reasons for lots of sex are not always healthy even in a marriage...
Yup there could be countless of reasons people might not have sex like low libido, genital mutilation (very sad and it's in some cultures), sexual trauma and even medical conditions can prevent couples from having it. I never judge a couple because of how little or how much sex they have. If it works for them. Good on them.
Yup! And sex is often not the reason men cheat, contrary to popular belief. If there’s a lack in emotional and mental connection, this puts the marriage at an enormous risk for problems and infidelity. I’ve seen it too often!
Adrienne also lives in a mansion, has no money problems, no kids, has multiple assistants and ppl who work for her, clean for her. So of course when you're living like that, sex is inevitable.
Javy 22 she doesn’t have to answer if she doesn’t want to... she knew Loni was trying to be funny but she chose to stick to the topic... as long as she is satisfied with how many times she does it a week privately that’s all that maters
Javy 22 they ask each other sex questions ALL the damn time... she does not have to answer THIS particular one if she wants to... it’s not that serious to call her out about it...
I really like how Jeannie explained her theories. She is really a woman with substance. She also respected her ex by not sharing what happened in the marriage :)
Why do I feel like Adrienne tries so hard to make it known she has a lot of sex with her husband. Feels like ppl who brag the most are usually the ones hiding something... idk it’s just weird ...
white america's worst nightmare That’s how I know you don’t watch the show because Adrienne has expressed her desire to be a mother numerous times. Maybe Israel’s soldiers don’t march anymore.
I feel the same way about what shes saying.Ive been married and Im older.I can just speak for me and my marriage.The sex lessen the longer we were married.Our relationship evolved to a place where it didnt need to be as physical.But,We ended up at a hell of a place(in a good way)emotionally.Its just different.A doesnt know what happens because she hasnt been married long enough yet.
I feel like Adrienne has always had this complex in her mind that sex rules over everything and that as a woman if you are not sexually satisfying your "man" everyday then he's heading out the door. I really feel like that is her fear in all of her relationships that she has been in. It's an immature mindset.
I agree because you don't need to have sex all the time to keep romantic and deep long term relationships. Let's say a woman gets sick and she isn't into having sex.. So man should leave? Yes exactly as you said it's immature mindset
NathNoella it’s probably the excuse he gave her. “My ex wasn’t giving me sex, I had to go elsewhere” and Adrienne probably bought it hook line and sinker.
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
Adrienne honey, some advice you give is only for you not everybody. How many times you do it depends on each relationship and it doesn't mean that it won't work out.
I think the thing that be irritating me when it's these types of convos, is that she speaks like shes an authority and refuses to be quiet and listen. Making judgments about people without having the benefit of experience to back up her position. as a wife and mom of 20+ years we have had dry seasons and very fruitful seasons, why cant she understand that that doesnt mean in the dry seasons we arent having a romantic love? Its ignorant.
We get it Adrienne..you get a lot of it. But I feel she was almost being way too judgmental on people that don't get it as much as she does. Plus If your relationship is based on sex, something is fundamentally wrong.
She's happy ... women who purposely don't have sex with their husband's are the main cause for divorce... yall want intimacy but aren't willing to satisfy your partner
I’ve never loved a human being so much in my life. Jeannie, dude you’re like the best conversationalist and informative person ever. Anything that comes out of Jeannie’s tongue whether fun or serious is so factual like u should do a podcast fam
they’re not saying she’s bragging, people were upset at how close minded she was in this topic and constantly putting down couples who don’t have sex (saying “someone is gonna tap out”)
My wife was shamed in this comments section for admitting to having a 'sexless marriage'. Yes, we're lucky if we get it once a month, but it's our reality at the moment and that's our life! Before kids, YES, sex all the time but after having two kids, both working full time, and no family around, it's been hard. We have spent a lot of time and energy raising two awesome kids and we wouldnt change it for the world. I implore that people on this forum need to be compassionate towards others and understand the whole picture before condemning them.
This segment just highlighted how insecure Adrienne is as a person and a wife. Adrienne be trying to wear Isreal out so he doesn't start having affairs again, point blank.
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies. Lemme school you want time. A marriage can last without sex once as you love the person GENUINELY, once he chemistry and the connection is there YES it can last without sex. Not everything has to circulate around sex GEEZZ
ABSOLUTELY NOT. That's a room mate and a best friend. If there's no physical involved nothing distinguishes the relationship from a friendship except for paperwork and a last name. Only exception is if y'all too old, one is very ill or y'all both asexual.
A marriage can exist and last without sex, but it can't without intimacy. Kissing, cuddling, holding hands, touching, etc those are all forms of intimacy without actual penetration. A marriage does not have to have sex, but it does need another form of intimacy. Plenty of couples are in a great happy relationship without having to have sex
I agree! Especially for those with regular or stressful/long hours jobs and with kids. Life gets busy. Squeezing in at least once a week isn't bad at all.
I still think that's not a lot. I think Tamera's number (4 time a week) is more normal for a couple with kids, and a little more times a week for a couple with no kids. That's how I would prefer it. But to each there own.
The only thing I'll say is this, if one partner wants to have s3x and the other person is putting them through a s3xless marriage then I can see the relationship not working. If both people are chill then it shouldn't affect it.
To me, Intimacy does not define sex.. intimacy is a whole different, VULNERABLE, feeling. It's crying and happiness and anger and for someone to understand you ar atleast try/ want too , your relationship is spiritually different. Some ppl can say that "they can't do it".. sex is pleasure. It's like eating your favorite chocolate.. it's a rush. Sex is also a part *keyword* PART of a relationship/ marriage... human nature, we all have the urge too but I think a marriage can last without sex. Personally.
@@fandm_fun504, I think sex can be a priority but you shouldn't put intimacy lower on the list. Sex is important for a relationship but it's not the only important thing to a relationship.
@@sonyataylor296 Every day and she never has a headache or stomach pain or anything ever, always feeling perfect and in the mood?? Sounds pretty strange to me. What about during that time of the month??
A lot of male friends in relationships/marriages would tell me "the first year was non stop, sex 3 times/day and lately nothing, we have only done it once or twice these past 12 months."; "every time i try to initiate it, she's too tired or tells me she is not in the mood" A lot of couples become roommates after a while, it's like something breaks... the connection/attraction is definitely something you have to nurture and cultivate, but cohabiting with someone not sexually attracted to me would make me depressed. I am not saying one partner owes sex to the other, but I don't see the point of staying in a sexless romantic relationship.
A P what you saying here is completely normal. It’s sad, but it’s normal. This is monogamy’s massive flaw - that cannot go unnoticed. Responsible @3girlsinlove polygyny (Instagram) solves this problem perfectly. This is the future
It's a sad reality and often happens as the yrs go on as couples don't work at spending quality time together. Emotional intimacy at other times other than just on the bed is a very important ingredient that when is lacking causes many women to go off sex. And of course the biggest passion killer for women is kids. Can affect hormones and causes exhaustion to creep in. But from talking to women over the past 20yrs and in my own experience the biggest passion killer is resentment. Most women work 2 jobs. When they both come from work in many households still in this day and age a women is still working in the home until late whilst he relaxes until bed. It's easy to fix. Share the chores and kids so that she also gets a rest. She will have more energy and will appreciated u and want to have more sex. Women also have to voice their concerns too and recognise that sex is as important to a man as emotional intimacy is to a woman. Both sides need to communicate on this to keep things alive.
Cleo Will monogamy was not designed to work very well. Men are not designed to share household chores, although this is what I have done the last 7-8 years of our 10 year long marriage. I was designed to crush it in business and out in the world - and be rewarded when I come home, so that she doesn’t have to work. But it doesn’t work like that. Monogamy makes people unhappy and desperate - and causes cheating and annoyances on a continual basis. You can never have 10/10 consistent happiness in this form of relationship. However, are there any other kinds of relationships that work, and that does not cause societal negative repercussions? I say @3girlsinlove responsible polygyny is making its way to the forefront. This is three women with one man. They love each other, and they love their man - together! They share the household chores you mentioned, they take care of each other and the little things, so the man don’t have to. They are mothers to their own and each other’s kids, so no kids are ever neglected - and in fact they can be homeschooled. And as long as the man can crush it in the marketplace, there is no need for them to work outside the home. They can instead laugh, play and giggle instead. These things mentioned below are however critical to making it work: it’s the man taking the blame for EVERYTHING (meaning he also has a strong financial foundation), there is NO more than one child per woman per 8 years (family planning) and the women are intimate with each other (this comes naturally when they are unburdened and feminine). Learn more on my channel
@@WomenofHighValue that's interesting what u say as I could say the same. That I was designed to be at home and look after children. Having spent 6 yrs doing that and the rest of the time building a successful career I see the value in being at home and the difference between my older grown up kids who had me at home and my older teen who didn't. Unfortunately in this day and age most people cannot afford a household where only the man works. And certainly most men cannot afford to support several wives. At the end of the day society has evolved and women have more choices and can stay at home or work as the case may be. I have several male friends from Nigeria and Gambia who are the product of traditional polygomous relationships. And their stories are similar. Yes in some ways it is good to have the company of lots of kids and different mothers. However they all lacked attention from their father, even those whose fathers were financially well off. They all say the competition between the wives was fierce spilling over to favouritism with the children. And for the ones who grew up poorer there simply wasn't enough food to go around. And all of them talked about the harsh treatment of their mothers at the hands of their fathers and/or the favourite wife. Violence and control was rife and not one of them talked about their mothers ever being happy. I've heard this story from at least 6 people. And I've also heard men of these relationships saying that their dad's were always stressed trying to please all their wives and so would never want that level of stress themselves, financially and emotionally. In some societies it has its place if its equitable and loving. But when it's forced on people out of tradition. It is a very big problem. This way of life in my opinion is regression not progression. I know men like my dad and some of his friends who are happily married and manage to b monogamous. Although I'm not naive enough to think it's not a struggle for some men - my ex husband certainly couldn't do it. He used to talk about having another wife all the time. I told him he should have married an Angolan woman if he wanted that. So many of his friends did it too and I can tell u for those women it was soul destroying. And the poor mother in laws who then have grand kids played off against her in case she shows favouritism or if one wife is not good with the husband. Its so complicated and filled with hurt, I'm yet to see any successful examples after over 20yrs living in the African community. Society has moved on and most women don't want to share. Men wouldn't want to share their woman although I have seen tribes where women can have more than one husband like the man. But in modern society it doesn't work as women now want choices to have a career, which is only right and fair. And also going back to the original question in this video. How is the woman supposed to be sexually satisfied if she has to share him with other women and wait her turn. Some men struggle to satisfy one woman let alone many.. But then in traditional societies its all about his satisfaction anyway so it wouldn't have even come into it as she didn't have a choice about sex. I think u r going to find it hard to convince women to give up what they have for polygomous relationships. Especially as there isn't an imbalance of men and women as there used to b in many of these societies where polygomy developed. It had its value back then and in many cases this way of life supported survival in harsh circumstances and large family units could support each other better. But now.. No I'm not giving up my freedom and choices for that. I experienced high levels of control when married for over 20 yrs. Ur methods take away choices - some women enjoy having a career, not everyone likes the intimacy of another woman and to be limited by how many children they have. Have experienced having my fertility controlled and its not nice and desires for children change as yrs go on despite agreements that are made. And not all men want to take on all the financial burdens and like having a woman who can contribute to the household. But anyway it's good to hear u help round the Hse tho.. Other men need to do the same.
Cleo Will thank you for a long and thoughtful response. There are reasons for why those polygynous relationships failed where you have seen them. Did the man take the blame for everything going on in the household? Did the women live under the same roof, and were intimate with each other so as to provide true unity? Did the men start these types of relations when they were already well off, instead of before? Did the men limit the number of wives to the correct number of 3? Did they limit the amount of children to one child per woman every 8 years, and no more? These are the most essential things, and are based on the emotional needs of feminine women. Women might want careers, but the world is changing. We are entering uncertain times, and women will desire strength in numbers and a rich polygynous man - over their own freedom and careers. Eventually the truth will set us free. Responsible polygyny done right is the future. It’s ok if we disagree :)
I think Adrienne tries too hard when it comes to sex, and the persona of her being ‘sexy’. She admitted in one episode that she’s wearing herself out trying to have sex everyday. It’s almost as if she doesn’t have sex simply for the purity of it but she does it as part of a task. Like it’s something she has to do in order to maintain her marriage. That’s actually a very twisted mindset and it’s not healthy at all. Sex is not everything in a marriage, it’s an important factor but its not the main factor. Now that it’s starting to take a toll on her like she admitted it last time, I think she should really re-evaluate her priorities and not be so adamant on what she thinks is right otherwise life is going to give her a hard wake up call
Alyssa Bachas yeah if you watch her UA-cam channel she also said that was part of the problem. She wasn’t trusting God to give her a baby but she was trying to hard to get it herself. She wanted to control Gods narrative over her life. It all plays into sex, that’s my point. Her mentality concerning sex is not healthy at all. She tries too hard and it wears her out and it’s going to keep wearing her out if she doesn’t change her mentality
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
At the end of the day this comes down to compatibility. The husband and wife have to be on the same page. If one wants sex and the other doesn’t, that can be a huge problem. If they’re both fine with little to no sex then they’ll be fine.
Thanks Jeannie for giving the most mature and realistic opinion on this matter. Sex and intimacy can have two completely different meanings to different people. You can have sex all day but a weak spiritual, mental and emotional connection to each other. A great example is the difference between a physical affair which is purely just a sexual connection and an emotional affair that includes no sexual interaction but a mental and emotional connection. Once again Jeannie’s point of view was mature, honest and much appreciated.
I lowkey wish Amanda was here for this convo (I'm aware this video was filmed before Amanda joined the table officially) because I was waiting for someone to mention Asexuality and I feel she would've lol.
Yes. I know I can survive without sex. I've been surviving without sex for more than a decade and I'm only 42. Both of us have health problems. We've been married for almost 20yrs. Never once have I considered going elsewhere for sex. Its just not that important to us.
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
Totally disagree there are definitely couples that dont have sex and their marriage is still happy. Maybe sexless marriage cant work when youre young but im thinking of couple that are like 50+ with multiple grown kids i think sexless happy marriages are more common than we think
Sheeeit, I’m about to turn 40 and always have been active, I can’t see a 50-60 year old me being okay in a sexless marriage. Sex should never be off the table unless the other person is injured or sick
They can last and certainly be as happy and fulfilled as those who have sex every day, but from the sexless marriages I’ve seen and spoken to (that are not asexual or etc) they don’t share “in love” feelings but rather “caring for one another” as companions which isn’t bad either! I think both sides are natural, it’s dependent on the person.
I have a friend who has been married for 3 years without ever consummating the marriage. He is miserable but is used to being used. He supported her through her obtaining her degree and she goes on vacations with her friends. But he isn't allowed to go places without her. She refuses to go to marital counseling. It pisses me off to see her keep him down. We need to be teaching boundries in kindergarten.
I understand now when people says that sex is overrated, I already and always have believed that connection is supposed to be the key, without it, sex ain't even worth it like it's your body and soul
Some people really don’t have the time or energy for sex. Once a week can be fine if both are tired, busy with kids, etc. Cuddling and simple physical touch can be as important and effective intimacy as any other sexual activity. As long as that still happens, it’s okay.
As a Married woman realistically after about 5-10 years and with children sex everyday or even 4 times a week wont always be possible and there will be weeks you will go without sex esp if both partners work and are tired. Intimacy however is very important to maintain as often as possible which could be cuddling, quality time, deep kisses, touching, sending love text, talking about sexual things, date nights etc. keeping the flame alive is key and for those who grow old and decide to become sexless thats ok because at 70 and 80 being best friends is the goal!
Listen, I don’t care what other couples do in their relationships. They could bring stones and rocks and boulders into the bedroom, for all I care. What ever two consenting adults agree to, is their business. I support!
No, no, no I don’t believe what Adrienne is saying. There are couples who have a very chaste relationship before marriage and it is still a relationship. What about all those romances of the past like Jane Austen novels. The protagonists didn’t make out and they fell in love. I believe the kind of intimacy you build with your partner is different from family, friends etc. it is not even comparable. That is why I think Jeannie has really got it right. Being connected is very important. I mean I wouldn’t want a sexless marriage but they will be dry spells. Kids, jobs, maybe feeling down,health reasons, mourning and so many more reasons could be the reason why you are not into it at the moment. Communication is so much more important.
Ok so here’s my thing right... I think we live in a society that when we talk about intimacy people only think of what ? Sex... Anybody can have sex and truly not be in love with the person they are having sex with... so for me I would so there’s more than one way to make that intimacy and that love stays alive... not every healthy marriage is where it is today because of sex... btw I wanna say you can still be a romantic and love your partner and be asexual st the same time
Myronn Coleman this is true But physical touch and intimacy is different than just words or non physical actions After a while I want my body touched not cuz I’m a sex addict but because I want someone who can’t resist my mind body and soul
As someone who is married, sex 2 times a day is soo unrealistic and also becomes VERY chore like overtime. There gets to a point where there’s no more excitement and no room for sexual tension to build. She either lying or it’s true and that’s just what works for them but idk...
You can be intimate and wildly in love with each other without having loads of sex. I have sex once a month with my boyfriend and we’re crazy in love and content with that. No need to shame people for not having massive amounts of sex
When your giving opinions and sharing your experience, you have to remember, that is only coming from you and your experience. Your opinion isn’t everyone else’s reality and you should be more open minded to other possibilities other than your own @Adrienne @Tamera, you always seem shocked or surprised, when something is different than what you believe in or experience. Again everyone has different experiences. So there isn’t a need to voice your own without downing people who feel or experience the opposite or different.
Thank you!!! The fact people put each other down just shows how obsessed they are. Sex isn't the priority...I'm young (and virgin) but my opinion is, it's not everything and I view it as an extra. It'll prolly change when I'm older but I just don't like how people treat you if you don't.
@Never lose sleep over the small stuff an asexual is a person that doesn't have any sexual desire and doesn't have sexual attraction. They can be romantically attracted to people though.
I agree with Jeannie having sex every day doesn't necessarily mean you're intimate with your partner. I am not saying anything against Adrienne's marriage but I believe that intimacy isn't just sex. If she works every day or 5 days a week and spends all the time she is at home having sex, when does she actually talk to her husband and experience things with him which are not sex related or, as Jeannie calls it, when do they nurture their souls?
It’s disheartening I’m sure for individuals who have difficulty with intimacy (for a variety of reasons) to hear this discussion. Hearing “someone’s going to tap out” I’m sure would feel really upsetting. Some people are asexual, some people really struggle with libido, some people deal with erectile dysfunction, mental health can affect their intimacy, some people mentally must heal from physical or sexual trauma from their past which can affect their current sexual identities and activity.. the list goes on! Sexuality is not what makes a marriage, and certainly is not realistic for all marriages at all times in their relationship. Intimacy on an emotional level and a deep feeling that someone supports, uplifts and understands you is what makes a relationship work, in my opinion.
A sexless marriage can last!! I am 💯 proof of that. I have been married 10 years in March. In the beginning we had lots of sex...fast foward to 7 years later. Sex life stopped to maybe 2-3 times a year because life happens (medical and everyday life stresses). 3 years of only having sex maybe 3 times a year didnt change our marriage. The close bond did change. But me and my husband still love each other just as much as we did when we first got married. We still have those butterflies, No cheating from both sides. We travel, have fun enjoying life, seeing cool places. I have learned that sometimes sex isnt a given in a marriage unfortunately but to us, we have to be ok with it. We have seen therapists also and have learned to show love other ways if needed. But we are in a very good place and marriage is great for us.
adrienne saying sex defines a happy marriage like she ain’t been married the most out of this table, GIRL it clearly wasn’t what defined your happy marriages.
I feel like people in the comments don’t understand highly sexual women. People are judging Adrienne for her opinion and general stance on this topic from her perspective, but her response would be accepted if she was a man.
Tamera is highly sexual too and nobody is having an issue with her. The problem with Adrienne is that she's coming off as shaming others who are different than her.
PureSparkles22 some arranged marriages actually work better than the chosen ones. They are also more likely to last, since it doesn’t depend on a woman’s sexual desire. There are other reasons to stick it out together. But I agree that the girl should be very active in the choice. Would be way better if there is responsible polygyny
Props to Jeannie for dodging the question. Not everything needs to be shared. Plus, Loni be in everybody business while not saying anything about herself smh
Loni is too nosey for me. Enough said.
We were talking about marriage sex though. Lonnie was trying her.
@Shay91 How is Jeannie a hypocrite?
@@bsbgirl85 Massah LEATHERFACE, that's new!
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Jeannie said something really important don’t let that go over your head just because you have a lot of sex doesn’t mean your (connected or happy)
Bingo! Fun fact people have sex for different reasons in or out of marriage. Some reasons are: Pleasure, comfort, grief, anger, fear. Validation.(ego/self esteem boost) to avoid Depression, addiction, boredom, avoidance, abuse, to apologize, to communicate the list goes on...the reasons for lots of sex are not always healthy even in a marriage...
Yup there could be countless of reasons people might not have sex like low libido, genital mutilation (very sad and it's in some cultures), sexual trauma and even medical conditions can prevent couples from having it. I never judge a couple because of how little or how much sex they have. If it works for them. Good on them.
There are also asexuals (do not like or crave sex) and that's fine. They make sure to find someone who is compatible with them.
Agatha z no one had to. It’s being insinuated and it’s generally the topic tf
Thank you 👏
Jeannie's answer was very realistic. Intimacy is more important, then sex.
jeannie is just too deep for these heffas...lol
Jeannie is right cause after sex....what elae do you have? Gotta be able to communicate
It is VITAL! I'm happy people know this
Yup! And sex is often not the reason men cheat, contrary to popular belief. If there’s a lack in emotional and mental connection, this puts the marriage at an enormous risk for problems and infidelity. I’ve seen it too often!
This is the comment I was looking for. Thank you as women we must learn that having sex with a man everyday will not stop him from cheating
Adrienne also lives in a mansion, has no money problems, no kids, has multiple assistants and ppl who work for her, clean for her. So of course when you're living like that, sex is inevitable.
Preach!!!!
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Seriously, I was struggling to do the math there.
Yes indeed
Sex last for 5 minutes every one can do it twice a day haha
In this segment:
Adrienne = Highly Immature
Jeannie = Highly Mature
Nah her marriage was over.
Exactly
Lauren totally agree
The ignorance of sex being the only thing that defines romance and commitment beyond platonic connection is wild.
You have to have a balance of everything.
Yup 💯
SyncSavvy How so? Cause I see it wild if a relationship is based on no sex ew. 💯🙄😑
they never said it´s the only thing. but it´s a contributing factor.
Exactly. If sex is all you have to offer to your partner; that’s scary. What other connections do you have? That’s why people get divorced so much.
Damn... Jeannie must be exhausted from carrying this show.
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Where is Amanda?
period lol
@@AlexaFoote this was prerecorded
Jeanne's Movie Chats we not gon do this 💀
I’ll listen to Jeanie on this one she’s been married for 10 years I don’t care how it ended she’s been thru it
Shay91 I’m sure your life is so perfect.
Javy 22 she doesn’t have to answer if she doesn’t want to... she knew Loni was trying to be funny but she chose to stick to the topic... as long as she is satisfied with how many times she does it a week privately that’s all that maters
Javy 22 they ask each other sex questions ALL the damn time... she does not have to answer THIS particular one if she wants to... it’s not that serious to call her out about it...
Javy 22 sounds like you’re reaching to me
Shay91 exactly. Adrienne is right
Adrienne is like that one girl in high school who got all her validation by sleeping with everyone
I really like how Jeannie explained her theories. She is really a woman with substance.
She also respected her ex by not sharing what happened in the marriage :)
I'm actually glad that Jeannie didn't answer the question. Not every little thing about your relationship always needs to be shared with the world.
D. L. *coughs* Tamera lol
Yeah I feel like she knew Adrienne was gonna give a ridiculous answer so she tried to match hers as best as possible
I see that as respect, I’m glad she didn’t say anything. Some things don’t need to be said.
She probably respects her new relationship and doesn't feel it's right to give out such personal information.
I was the last person to get this to 1k likes
Why do I feel like Adrienne tries so hard to make it known she has a lot of sex with her husband. Feels like ppl who brag the most are usually the ones hiding something... idk it’s just weird ...
VivaLaDari shes a scorpio lol we love sex. nothing personal
Agreed. 14 times a week just sounds ridiculous
VivaLaDari her and Tamera 🙄
@Pele Simone right!
white america's worst nightmare That’s how I know you don’t watch the show because Adrienne has expressed her desire to be a mother numerous times. Maybe Israel’s soldiers don’t march anymore.
Sex shouldn’t be the most important part of a marriage I agree with Jeannie
exactly, chemistry and connection matter more, sex is just a bonus
Absolutely. If you don’t have attraction, chemistry, CONNECTION...then the sex isn’t gonna be enjoyable at all.
slp2007 when you don’t feel this at all don’t marry that guy. You’ll become unhappy! Marry the one which you have all that vibes.
boof's2cents Sex is Life :-)
You're absolutely right, it's not and my marriage is living proof of that...
I love Jeannie for saying this and acknowledging that marriage is more than sex and no Adrienne someone won’t always “tap out”
Loni is that friend that wants to know everyones business but doesn't share her own
Of course Adrienne would be so adamant about this. Just because it's not for you doesn't mean it doesn't work for other relationships.
Sandra B she so passionate about ppl not having sex everyday like she is lol
Jasmine H the gag is that she probably doesn’t even have that much sex 😬
I hope you get laid soon Sandra B lol
I feel the same way about what shes saying.Ive been married and Im older.I can just speak for me and my marriage.The sex lessen the longer we were married.Our relationship evolved to a place where it didnt need to be as physical.But,We ended up at a hell of a place(in a good way)emotionally.Its just different.A doesnt know what happens because she hasnt been married long enough yet.
Kim Wright right. Her marriage is still new. She don’t know where her marriage will be in a couple of decades
I feel like Adrienne has always had this complex in her mind that sex rules over everything and that as a woman if you are not sexually satisfying your "man" everyday then he's heading out the door. I really feel like that is her fear in all of her relationships that she has been in. It's an immature mindset.
I mean Rob did cheat on her. Maybe that's why
Coley lol me too
I agree because you don't need to have sex all the time to keep romantic and deep long term relationships. Let's say a woman gets sick and she isn't into having sex..
So man should leave?
Yes exactly as you said it's immature mindset
She’s a Scorpio, that’s why. They’re constantly thinking about sex and can even make life-defining choices based on sex.
Or SHE is the one who is obsessed with sex...
Adrienne, we get it. You already told us 365 days ago.
On god 😂😂😂
redblueorange y’all are hilarious 😂😂😂
Adrienne should listen more. Jeannie is so wise.. this made me love her all the more
Adrienne knows her husband has cheated. She's trying to prevent that happening.
Hopefully she doesn’t have to find out that doesn’t always work. If a man wanna cheat he’s gonna cheat period.
NathNoella it’s probably the excuse he gave her. “My ex wasn’t giving me sex, I had to go elsewhere” and Adrienne probably bought it hook line and sinker.
No it’s not that ! Adrienne is very sexual . High libido I get her
She has high libido. I get that. We all get that. But implies that that will prevent cheating...
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
Adrienne honey, some advice you give is only for you not everybody.
How many times you do it depends on each relationship and it doesn't mean that it won't work out.
Liz L she is so obsessed to talk sex . We get it relaxe
I know right!
I think the thing that be irritating me when it's these types of convos, is that she speaks like shes an authority and refuses to be quiet and listen. Making judgments about people without having the benefit of experience to back up her position. as a wife and mom of 20+ years we have had dry seasons and very fruitful seasons, why cant she understand that that doesnt mean in the dry seasons we arent having a romantic love? Its ignorant.
I wonder how many marriages are going to last during this lockdown period even with all the sex in the world.
Right!
I so agree
I think in China a lot of people are getting divorced.
I heard that the divorce rate is increasing because of it
Me too
We get it Adrienne..you get a lot of it. But I feel she was almost being way too judgmental on people that don't get it as much as she does. Plus If your relationship is based on sex, something is fundamentally wrong.
Absolutely.
Happy she is enjoying herself but that shaming on others have to stop. So childish
Thank you
she was a bit too aggressive.. as if shes triggered by the people who dont have as much sex?
She's happy ... women who purposely don't have sex with their husband's are the main cause for divorce... yall want intimacy but aren't willing to satisfy your partner
I’ve never loved a human being so much in my life. Jeannie, dude you’re like the best conversationalist and informative person ever. Anything that comes out of Jeannie’s tongue whether fun or serious is so factual like u should do a podcast fam
Adrienne wasn’t bragging. She was asked like everybody at the table.
right. she even tried to be modest and not talk about it lol
Adrienne just gave her perspective. Nothing wrong with that
Exactly, it's not her fault she has a high sex drive lol. Don't see what the issue is.
People here just don't like Adrienne, they always find something negative to say about her, she's living her best life let her
they’re not saying she’s bragging, people were upset at how close minded she was in this topic and constantly putting down couples who don’t have sex (saying “someone is gonna tap out”)
Lol Adrienne lying….cmon now, 2 times a day….even me as a man dont wanna do it that much. Feels like a chore at that point.
Nana Gyambibi It’s probably true Adrienne’s probably bending over in the morning and swallowing at night....
Agreed
@@cicisintamour3833 the vagina is a muscle. Too much sex does nothing to it except you inherited the loose one.
Really??! Maybe you have a low sex drive lol...
Eddie N 😆🤣😂😭 I just can’t lol
Ppl who brag and boast their ass off tend to be pretty tame in the sack.... Just saying.
bsbgirl85 🤣🤣
bsbgirl85 and that's on that!
@@bsbgirl85 I'm mean ok but is it THAT serious? Damn...
bsbgirl85 get that stick out of your ass
Yes jeannie and adrienne and loni are probably crap. They boast the most
I am loving Jeannie's input lately! Adrienne's comments are so ignorant sometimes i swear!
kat mu she’s literally the only one making sense lately lol
i agree adrienne has been so annoying lately
I’m glad someone is also noticing how ignorant her comments are.
Ughh I can’t stand her
I can't stand her!
Adrienne comes off very young-minded when it comes to sex in relationships
My wife was shamed in this comments section for admitting to having a 'sexless marriage'. Yes, we're lucky if we get it once a month, but it's our reality at the moment and that's our life! Before kids, YES, sex all the time but after having two kids, both working full time, and no family around, it's been hard. We have spent a lot of time and energy raising two awesome kids and we wouldnt change it for the world. I implore that people on this forum need to be compassionate towards others and understand the whole picture before condemning them.
An honest man.
@@coolhead8686 Thank you 😇
This segment just highlighted how insecure Adrienne is as a person and a wife. Adrienne be trying to wear Isreal out so he doesn't start having affairs again, point blank.
Or maybe she just likes it
No she just loves sex. She's said that multiple times.
@@thynek16 yes i want to know 👂
Nah sis Adrienne just loves sex 😂 I honestly think she’s addicted
ouch.
Ladies, Ladies, Ladies. Lemme school you want time. A marriage can last without sex once as you love the person GENUINELY, once he chemistry and the connection is there YES it can last without sex. Not everything has to circulate around sex GEEZZ
ABSOLUTELY NOT. That's a room mate and a best friend. If there's no physical involved nothing distinguishes the relationship from a friendship except for paperwork and a last name. Only exception is if y'all too old, one is very ill or y'all both asexual.
@@Vixenallure365 gurlllll no no no no absolutely not, u dont hv to be intimidate for a relationship to last wtf
A marriage can exist and last without sex, but it can't without intimacy. Kissing, cuddling, holding hands, touching, etc those are all forms of intimacy without actual penetration. A marriage does not have to have sex, but it does need another form of intimacy. Plenty of couples are in a great happy relationship without having to have sex
@@kokoaverage5239 exactly!!!
🤣🤣🤣
58 times a year isn't that bad. 52 weeks a year, which makes it at least once a week.
I agree! Especially for those with regular or stressful/long hours jobs and with kids. Life gets busy. Squeezing in at least once a week isn't bad at all.
Agreed.
The extra 6 days are 3 holidays, 2 birthdays, and 1 Valentine's day lol.
What.
I still think that's not a lot. I think Tamera's number (4 time a week) is more normal for a couple with kids, and a little more times a week for a couple with no kids. That's how I would prefer it. But to each there own.
The only thing I'll say is this, if one partner wants to have s3x and the other person is putting them through a s3xless marriage then I can see the relationship not working. If both people are chill then it shouldn't affect it.
Lol they discussed this ages ago and tam said once a week. And Adrienne gasped. And now tam says 4 times. These women look insecure af
To me, Intimacy does not define sex.. intimacy is a whole different, VULNERABLE, feeling. It's crying and happiness and anger and for someone to understand you ar atleast try/ want too , your relationship is spiritually different. Some ppl can say that "they can't do it".. sex is pleasure. It's like eating your favorite chocolate.. it's a rush. Sex is also a part *keyword* PART of a relationship/ marriage... human nature, we all have the urge too but I think a marriage can last without sex. Personally.
Exactly I hate how for some ppl sex is a priority
Agreed
@@fandm_fun504, I think sex can be a priority but you shouldn't put intimacy lower on the list. Sex is important for a relationship but it's not the only important thing to a relationship.
Exactly!
Sex can be intimate too
Adrienne sounds ridiculous
😂
She didnt say YOU need to do it. Geez
Her answer is just too perfect. Who wants that like saying atleast once a day is cool but twice a day every day come on
@@sonyataylor296 right
@@sonyataylor296 Every day and she never has a headache or stomach pain or anything ever, always feeling perfect and in the mood?? Sounds pretty strange to me. What about during that time of the month??
I love Jeannie’s answer! A marriage is so much deeper than sex.
Agreed
I love Jeanie so much more for not answering the question. Protect your privacy in this relationship 💕
A lot of male friends in relationships/marriages would tell me "the first year was non stop, sex 3 times/day and lately nothing, we have only done it once or twice these past 12 months."; "every time i try to initiate it, she's too tired or tells me she is not in the mood" A lot of couples become roommates after a while, it's like something breaks... the connection/attraction is definitely something you have to nurture and cultivate, but cohabiting with someone not sexually attracted to me would make me depressed. I am not saying one partner owes sex to the other, but I don't see the point of staying in a sexless romantic relationship.
A P what you saying here is completely normal. It’s sad, but it’s normal.
This is monogamy’s massive flaw - that cannot go unnoticed.
Responsible @3girlsinlove polygyny (Instagram) solves this problem perfectly. This is the future
It's a sad reality and often happens as the yrs go on as couples don't work at spending quality time together. Emotional intimacy at other times other than just on the bed is a very important ingredient that when is lacking causes many women to go off sex. And of course the biggest passion killer for women is kids. Can affect hormones and causes exhaustion to creep in. But from talking to women over the past 20yrs and in my own experience the biggest passion killer is resentment. Most women work 2 jobs. When they both come from work in many households still in this day and age a women is still working in the home until late whilst he relaxes until bed. It's easy to fix. Share the chores and kids so that she also gets a rest. She will have more energy and will appreciated u and want to have more sex. Women also have to voice their concerns too and recognise that sex is as important to a man as emotional intimacy is to a woman. Both sides need to communicate on this to keep things alive.
Cleo Will monogamy was not designed to work very well.
Men are not designed to share household chores, although this is what I have done the last 7-8 years of our 10 year long marriage.
I was designed to crush it in business and out in the world - and be rewarded when I come home, so that she doesn’t have to work. But it doesn’t work like that.
Monogamy makes people unhappy and desperate - and causes cheating and annoyances on a continual basis. You can never have 10/10 consistent happiness in this form of relationship. However, are there any other kinds of relationships that work, and that does not cause societal negative repercussions?
I say @3girlsinlove responsible polygyny is making its way to the forefront.
This is three women with one man. They love each other, and they love their man - together! They share the household chores you mentioned, they take care of each other and the little things, so the man don’t have to. They are mothers to their own and each other’s kids, so no kids are ever neglected - and in fact they can be homeschooled. And as long as the man can crush it in the marketplace, there is no need for them to work outside the home. They can instead laugh, play and giggle instead.
These things mentioned below are however critical to making it work: it’s the man taking the blame for EVERYTHING (meaning he also has a strong financial foundation), there is NO more than one child per woman per 8 years (family planning) and the women are intimate with each other (this comes naturally when they are unburdened and feminine).
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@@WomenofHighValue that's interesting what u say as I could say the same. That I was designed to be at home and look after children. Having spent 6 yrs doing that and the rest of the time building a successful career I see the value in being at home and the difference between my older grown up kids who had me at home and my older teen who didn't. Unfortunately in this day and age most people cannot afford a household where only the man works. And certainly most men cannot afford to support several wives. At the end of the day society has evolved and women have more choices and can stay at home or work as the case may be. I have several male friends from Nigeria and Gambia who are the product of traditional polygomous relationships. And their stories are similar. Yes in some ways it is good to have the company of lots of kids and different mothers. However they all lacked attention from their father, even those whose fathers were financially well off. They all say the competition between the wives was fierce spilling over to favouritism with the children. And for the ones who grew up poorer there simply wasn't enough food to go around. And all of them talked about the harsh treatment of their mothers at the hands of their fathers and/or the favourite wife. Violence and control was rife and not one of them talked about their mothers ever being happy. I've heard this story from at least 6 people. And I've also heard men of these relationships saying that their dad's were always stressed trying to please all their wives and so would never want that level of stress themselves, financially and emotionally. In some societies it has its place if its equitable and loving. But when it's forced on people out of tradition. It is a very big problem. This way of life in my opinion is regression not progression. I know men like my dad and some of his friends who are happily married and manage to b monogamous. Although I'm not naive enough to think it's not a struggle for some men - my ex husband certainly couldn't do it. He used to talk about having another wife all the time. I told him he should have married an Angolan woman if he wanted that. So many of his friends did it too and I can tell u for those women it was soul destroying. And the poor mother in laws who then have grand kids played off against her in case she shows favouritism or if one wife is not good with the husband. Its so complicated and filled with hurt, I'm yet to see any successful examples after over 20yrs living in the African community. Society has moved on and most women don't want to share. Men wouldn't want to share their woman although I have seen tribes where women can have more than one husband like the man. But in modern society it doesn't work as women now want choices to have a career, which is only right and fair. And also going back to the original question in this video. How is the woman supposed to be sexually satisfied if she has to share him with other women and wait her turn. Some men struggle to satisfy one woman let alone many.. But then in traditional societies its all about his satisfaction anyway so it wouldn't have even come into it as she didn't have a choice about sex. I think u r going to find it hard to convince women to give up what they have for polygomous relationships. Especially as there isn't an imbalance of men and women as there used to b in many of these societies where polygomy developed. It had its value back then and in many cases this way of life supported survival in harsh circumstances and large family units could support each other better. But now.. No I'm not giving up my freedom and choices for that. I experienced high levels of control when married for over 20 yrs. Ur methods take away choices - some women enjoy having a career, not everyone likes the intimacy of another woman and to be limited by how many children they have. Have experienced having my fertility controlled and its not nice and desires for children change as yrs go on despite agreements that are made. And not all men want to take on all the financial burdens and like having a woman who can contribute to the household. But anyway it's good to hear u help round the Hse tho.. Other men need to do the same.
Cleo Will thank you for a long and thoughtful response.
There are reasons for why those polygynous relationships failed where you have seen them.
Did the man take the blame for everything going on in the household? Did the women live under the same roof, and were intimate with each other so as to provide true unity? Did the men start these types of relations when they were already well off, instead of before? Did the men limit the number of wives to the correct number of 3? Did they limit the amount of children to one child per woman every 8 years, and no more? These are the most essential things, and are based on the emotional needs of feminine women.
Women might want careers, but the world is changing. We are entering uncertain times, and women will desire strength in numbers and a rich polygynous man - over their own freedom and careers.
Eventually the truth will set us free. Responsible polygyny done right is the future. It’s ok if we disagree :)
I think Adrienne tries too hard when it comes to sex, and the persona of her being ‘sexy’. She admitted in one episode that she’s wearing herself out trying to have sex everyday. It’s almost as if she doesn’t have sex simply for the purity of it but she does it as part of a task. Like it’s something she has to do in order to maintain her marriage. That’s actually a very twisted mindset and it’s not healthy at all. Sex is not everything in a marriage, it’s an important factor but its not the main factor. Now that it’s starting to take a toll on her like she admitted it last time, I think she should really re-evaluate her priorities and not be so adamant on what she thinks is right otherwise life is going to give her a hard wake up call
Charlotte yeah I think having sex twice a day almost ruins the fun in it. doesn’t make it exciting or make me crave it 🤷🏻♀️ that’s just me tho
She’s also trying for a baby last we checked remember
Alyssa Bachas yeah if you watch her UA-cam channel she also said that was part of the problem. She wasn’t trusting God to give her a baby but she was trying to hard to get it herself. She wanted to control Gods narrative over her life. It all plays into sex, that’s my point. Her mentality concerning sex is not healthy at all. She tries too hard and it wears her out and it’s going to keep wearing her out if she doesn’t change her mentality
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
Lol she's happy .. the rest are sexless and miserable
jeannie ain’t sharing nothing 😂
Jenna Smith she’s with Jeezy 😂 I don’t think it’s sexless
Because she doesn’t want to say for two men ex husband or new bf
why should she?
@Shay91 how is she a heffa? She's skinny 🤔
Well she’s not married right. So no need to answer. And respecting Jeezy
At the end of the day this comes down to compatibility. The husband and wife have to be on the same page. If one wants sex and the other doesn’t, that can be a huge problem. If they’re both fine with little to no sex then they’ll be fine.
T Michelle Agreed
That’s what Adrienne was trying to tell them
Thanks Jeannie for giving the most mature and realistic opinion on this matter. Sex and intimacy can have two completely different meanings to different people. You can have sex all day but a weak spiritual, mental and emotional connection to each other. A great example is the difference between a physical affair which is purely just a sexual connection and an emotional affair that includes no sexual interaction but a mental and emotional connection. Once again Jeannie’s point of view was mature, honest and much appreciated.
I need to know which lashes are on Jeannies eyes
I lowkey wish Amanda was here for this convo (I'm aware this video was filmed before Amanda joined the table officially) because I was waiting for someone to mention Asexuality and I feel she would've lol.
YES 10000% agree with this. She adds more intellect, knowledge and sense to these kinds of conversations.
And she would've shut Adrienne down!
I hope this doesn't sound ignorant, do many asexual people even get married?
I think it was mentioned in the second part
@@shaebubblegum3212 yes they do. They want a partner but not the sex. They always try to find someone they're compatible with like another asexual.
Loni is the best when she’s in a playful mood & is actually interested in the conversation 😊
Hans ‘ *yeah, she’s everything* 🦋
Yeah, here she was actually engaging instead of sitting there with an attitude and trying to be funny. She should be like this all the time.
That's when she is the funniest.
Lmao Tamara looks like a school girl who knows a secret
Sophi Balerdi Scissoring her school girlfriends to sleep lol
She always looks like that when they talk about sex. And she's in her 40s.
I LOVE JEANNIE'S ANSWER ITS SO MATURE
That is really sad that some people think sex defines a relationship. Sex can come from anywhere, but a lasting connection is hard to find.
Yes. I know I can survive without sex. I've been surviving without sex for more than a decade and I'm only 42. Both of us have health problems. We've been married for almost 20yrs. Never once have I considered going elsewhere for sex. Its just not that important to us.
Interesting
Wow
Thanks for sharing your point of view.
What about him ?
@@WomenofHighValue she said he also had medical problems that affected it
Tell us how many times u do it Loni? Tf u asking everyone for and not telling
Shosho Ahmed story of her life
javi ruiz wtf 😂😂😂
She answered in the next clip
javi ruiz LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@javi ruiz I shouldn't have laughed...
Jeannie's contribution is important. Intimacy is more important than sex.
“I don’t believe in a sexless marriage” girl whaaat
Sad but truth - there are women who feel their worth as a woman only when being wanted sexually.. You know getting laid and that tbh it is a very sad way of feeling oneself's worth..
Twice a day? Bye Adrienne
I don’t believe it 🤣
She even said it a few weeks ago in one of the episodes that she’s wearing herself out trying to have sex everyday.
You know she lying right
Why does she lie so much lmaoo
I'm 32 and can't go twice a day everyday 😂😂😂 well I guess it just depends on what your man working with😂
Jeanie is 💯% correct.
Thank you Jeanie! Adrianne is spreading a message that’s not for everyone.. whether it be due to “medical” or not.
I love Jeannie's answer...so classy.
Adrienne always wants to look like the dream girl, the dream wife.
Totally disagree there are definitely couples that dont have sex and their marriage is still happy. Maybe sexless marriage cant work when youre young but im thinking of couple that are like 50+ with multiple grown kids i think sexless happy marriages are more common than we think
sandySxoxo I guarantee you that’s not true.
Sheeeit, I’m about to turn 40 and always have been active, I can’t see a 50-60 year old me being okay in a sexless marriage. Sex should never be off the table unless the other person is injured or sick
They can last and certainly be as happy and fulfilled as those who have sex every day, but from the sexless marriages I’ve seen and spoken to (that are not asexual or etc) they don’t share “in love” feelings but rather “caring for one another” as companions which isn’t bad either! I think both sides are natural, it’s dependent on the person.
Mmmm ive never seen a "in love" couple like that. I think youre talking about the "I love u like a bestfriend not a lover" marriage
Old people have sex too
Props to Jeannie for speaking beyond her herself.. some ppl just DONT LIKE SEX!
Adrienne is being being very oblivious to different experiences besides her own.
Jeannie's answer was very mature and real and Adrienne sounds like a teenage girl who is trying to please her guy in order to keep him from leaving.
I have a friend who has been married for 3 years without ever consummating the marriage. He is miserable but is used to being used. He supported her through her obtaining her degree and she goes on vacations with her friends. But he isn't allowed to go places without her. She refuses to go to marital counseling. It pisses me off to see her keep him down. We need to be teaching boundries in kindergarten.
They sound so naive. Companionships are just as fulfilling as long as you’re in love. The relationship is not sex. Sex is just an additional treat.
Thank you! My sentiments exactly. I love my husband more now than I did 20yrs ago.
M. -Sex is the glue.
Agreed!!!
Lee48Lee Absolutely not. Sorry about your relationships.
M. -Lol right back at you. You made my husband laugh. 😎
Y’all! Let Jeanie talk!
I understand now when people says that sex is overrated, I already and always have believed that connection is supposed to be the key, without it, sex ain't even worth it like it's your body and soul
Did y’all forget asexuals exist?
Some people really don’t have the time or energy for sex. Once a week can be fine if both are tired, busy with kids, etc. Cuddling and simple physical touch can be as important and effective intimacy as any other sexual activity. As long as that still happens, it’s okay.
As a Married woman realistically after about 5-10 years and with children sex everyday or even 4 times a week wont always be possible and there will be weeks you will go without sex esp if both partners work and are tired. Intimacy however is very important to maintain as often as possible which could be cuddling, quality time, deep kisses, touching, sending love text, talking about sexual things, date nights etc. keeping the flame alive is key and for those who grow old and decide to become sexless thats ok because at 70 and 80 being best friends is the goal!
IAmEssence and you wonder why your husband is always working late and midday meetings with out of state co-workers
IAmEssence I love your comment!!
Princess Bleu Im sorry you had that experience.
Britanie Williams thanks sweetpea
Listen, I don’t care what other couples do in their relationships. They could bring stones and rocks and boulders into the bedroom, for all I care. What ever two consenting adults agree to, is their business. I support!
The juiciest thing to come from this conversation is Jeannie saying we have 364 days a year
Taylorr YumTum leap year ..
@@deem.4527 366 days in a leap year like 2020, 365 days other years.
Lol 😂
I ❤️ Jeannie 😂
I'm with jeanie on this one. Perfectly said girl.👌👊✌
No, no, no I don’t believe what Adrienne is saying. There are couples who have a very chaste relationship before marriage and it is still a relationship. What about all those romances of the past like Jane Austen novels. The protagonists didn’t make out and they fell in love. I believe the kind of intimacy you build with your partner is different from family, friends etc. it is not even comparable. That is why I think Jeannie has really got it right. Being connected is very important. I mean I wouldn’t want a sexless marriage but they will be dry spells. Kids, jobs, maybe feeling down,health reasons, mourning and so many more reasons could be the reason why you are not into it at the moment. Communication is so much more important.
Ok so here’s my thing right... I think we live in a society that when we talk about intimacy people only think of what ? Sex... Anybody can have sex and truly not be in love with the person they are having sex with... so for me I would so there’s more than one way to make that intimacy and that love stays alive... not every healthy marriage is where it is today because of sex... btw I wanna say you can still be a romantic and love your partner and be asexual st the same time
Myronn Coleman this is true
But physical touch and intimacy is different than just words or non physical actions
After a while I want my body touched not cuz I’m a sex addict but because I want someone who can’t resist my mind body and soul
Guys are not gonna appreciate this form of relationship. If they do, there is some heavy trauma going on, or tired of asking
It really depends on the type of marriage and other factors
2:41 what about yyyooouuu Loni you asking everybody else😀
They didn't ask her. He said multiple times "why nobody asking me?"
As someone who is married, sex 2 times a day is soo unrealistic and also becomes VERY chore like overtime. There gets to a point where there’s no more excitement and no room for sexual tension to build. She either lying or it’s true and that’s just what works for them but idk...
You can be intimate and wildly in love with each other without having loads of sex. I have sex once a month with my boyfriend and we’re crazy in love and content with that. No need to shame people for not having massive amounts of sex
When your giving opinions and sharing your experience, you have to remember, that is only coming from you and your experience. Your opinion isn’t everyone else’s reality and you should be more open minded to other possibilities other than your own @Adrienne
@Tamera, you always seem shocked or surprised, when something is different than what you believe in or experience. Again everyone has different experiences. So there isn’t a need to voice your own without downing people who feel or experience the opposite or different.
It’s so annoying. I wish they would go out more and stop being so close minded
Thank you!!! The fact people put each other down just shows how obsessed they are. Sex isn't the priority...I'm young (and virgin) but my opinion is, it's not everything and I view it as an extra.
It'll prolly change when I'm older but I just don't like how people treat you if you don't.
y’all haven’t heard of asexuals????🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Never lose sleep over the small stuff an asexual is a person that doesn't have any sexual desire and doesn't have sexual attraction. They can be romantically attracted to people though.
As someone who is asexual... I felt awkward and anxious watching this
I guess some asexual people make it work 🤷🏾♀️
Jeannie is really the only one making REAL sense these days.
Sometimes i feel like Adriennes trying to overcompensate for something. Always trying to show off now that shes married...
How's is Loni gonna be in everybody's business but not tell her own lol
basketballbabe03 she told her own in part 2
*to each their own;*
*no need to judge* 🕊
Loni 😂😂 “Talk Slow, Talk Slow“
I agree with Jeannie having sex every day doesn't necessarily mean you're intimate with your partner. I am not saying anything against Adrienne's marriage but I believe that intimacy isn't just sex. If she works every day or 5 days a week and spends all the time she is at home having sex, when does she actually talk to her husband and experience things with him which are not sex related or, as Jeannie calls it, when do they nurture their souls?
Adrienne always grabs her cup and holds/sips whenever she's uncomfortable with the question and about to answer hahah 😂
It’s disheartening I’m sure for individuals who have difficulty with intimacy (for a variety of reasons) to hear this discussion. Hearing “someone’s going to tap out” I’m sure would feel really upsetting. Some people are asexual, some people really struggle with libido, some people deal with erectile dysfunction, mental health can affect their intimacy, some people mentally must heal from physical or sexual trauma from their past which can affect their current sexual identities and activity.. the list goes on! Sexuality is not what makes a marriage, and certainly is not realistic for all marriages at all times in their relationship. Intimacy on an emotional level and a deep feeling that someone supports, uplifts and understands you is what makes a relationship work, in my opinion.
A sexless marriage can last!! I am 💯 proof of that. I have been married 10 years in March. In the beginning we had lots of sex...fast foward to 7 years later. Sex life stopped to maybe 2-3 times a year because life happens (medical and everyday life stresses). 3 years of only having sex maybe 3 times a year didnt change our marriage. The close bond did change. But me and my husband still love each other just as much as we did when we first got married. We still have those butterflies, No cheating from both sides. We travel, have fun enjoying life, seeing cool places. I have learned that sometimes sex isnt a given in a marriage unfortunately but to us, we have to be ok with it. We have seen therapists also and have learned to show love other ways if needed. But we are in a very good place and marriage is great for us.
Oh, they’re talking about sex again... what a surprise 😏
it's gets more views
Lady Hamilton xoxo I was gonna say their sex topics get between 500K to 1 million views lol
10 times a year I wish I could get even that
Jeannie is the most open minded. That women is gold
Some ppl don’t like sex🤷🏾♀️it may not be common but it isn’t weird and if the ppl in the relationship feel the same way about sex then they’ll last
I agree. There’s a lot of Important factors to a happy relationship not just sex. It’s all about compatibility at the end of the day regardless.
adrienne saying sex defines a happy marriage like she ain’t been married the most out of this table, GIRL it clearly wasn’t what defined your happy marriages.
Shes literally only got married once ...
She didn't say sex defines a marraige. She said sexual intimacy is an important component of marraige.
I feel like people in the comments don’t understand highly sexual women. People are judging Adrienne for her opinion and general stance on this topic from her perspective, but her response would be accepted if she was a man.
Tamera is highly sexual too and nobody is having an issue with her. The problem with Adrienne is that she's coming off as shaming others who are different than her.
T Michelle, I agree with you, she just has a high sex drive, lots of women have that
Why does Jeannie always speaks FACTS?!??!????????!!!!!!!
everyone is different and that alone should help you understand that sex isn't necessary for some couples to stay happy
my parents haven't slept in the same bed in 20 years and they're still going strong
Mine did that too. But it wasn't a marriage I would want. Mainly for money and old school "values".
@Shay91 it was an arranged marriage
@Shay91 well some people don't have a choice
@Shay91 ITA. and If you live in a developed country, you can avoid it, but it would be more tough in a developing country like India..
PureSparkles22 some arranged marriages actually work better than the chosen ones. They are also more likely to last, since it doesn’t depend on a woman’s sexual desire. There are other reasons to stick it out together.
But I agree that the girl should be very active in the choice. Would be way better if there is responsible polygyny