People say there are always two sides to a story. This is wrong, sometime, there is only one side. The problem to this story is simple, we are all adults, and we are responsible for what we do. You are responsible if you: 1. Decide to go to school 2. Go to casino 3. Spend your life savings You are a feeakin adult. Own up to your feeakin actions.
NEVER help someone who insists on keeping their actions a secret because it will come back to bite you in the butt! Only surprise parties/gifts are good to keep as a secret if you are asked... everything else is pretty much a no no!
Twb ruam thiab npab nauj tsis taus los haj tseem ua siab phem rov taw tuam ntuj rau tus neeg uas tau pab yus. Tos tus niam tsev no tus txiv tsis xav kom nws txawj thiab ntse los vim nws tsis yog ib tug neeg siab ncaj ncees. Cov niag neeg uas txawj dag li no ces tsis sawm zoo kiag li. Ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws.
I hope you learned a valuable lesson. Doing secret things will result in trouble. Idk how you keep it from your husband, I would have told my husband the first day already. 😅
This story reminds me of me helping my ex SIL. She was always talking about being broke, so I helped her to get a job where I was working. I then ended up finding a better paying job and left the old job. Later she decided to cheat on her husband and he blamed all on me because I helped her by getting her a job. I told my ex in-laws that I felt bad that they were always broke so I gave a hand to help recruit her for the better but I didn't put a gun to the SIL's head to cheat. That was her choice! Years later, she still cheated on him multiple times which caused their divorce. Since then, I'm effy to help out again.
Yeah, sometimes its not good to help people, especially the closest people around you, I learned my lesson the hard way too, if i had known that helping them would make me the bad person at the end, then i would never have helped and everything wouldnt be as ugly, now they wont even look at me. Lesson learned.
To the lady in this story, you need to stop lying to urself and take responsibility for your actions. How u gonna blame a person for helping you and then turn around and stab her in the back. Shame on you lady. You deserve your 1975 husband because u just proved him right. Tus txiv no ruam ib yam li nws tus poj niam .
Tus viv ncaus peb yog neeg siab zoo es kuv los ua zoo tau phem ib yam li koj thisb es peb txhob hlub2 lwm tus os mog es yus yuav tau hlub yus ua ntej tso mam hlub cov sab nraum os mog . Tij yam no ua rau yus ntses zog xwb os.
You know you have a busy schedule but yet you still willing to help her. In the beginning you were taking her then change so you should have told her husband what was going on. That is why you should never trust no one!!!! Let karma gets those done you wrong, girl!!!!!
I would never go above and beyond to help anyone. It’s not my job to take someone to and from school. If her husband doesn’t approve of her going to school let them be. Some people are meant to stay dumb where they belong. They don’t know how to distinguish between what’s good and bad.
When you help families, always do it so when everyone agrees (especially when that person has a spouse). It is your fault for keeping her secret and helping her.
Tus txiv nws yeej paub nws tus poj niam zoo lawm thiaj tsis pub tus poj niam mus ua ib yam dab tsi li lo mom yus nyob sab nrauv twb tsis paub lawv tej niam txiv es yus ho tias yus ua zoo tau phem no naj
I can't believe the husband even blamed on the niam ntxawm too. This is what happened when hmong men are too controlling. Once your partner gets out of the cage, she's going to spread her wings to fly away or do bad things n keep secrets from you.
Ntau xyoo dhau los lawm kuv muaj ib tug txheeb ze thov 22 kom kuv coj nws mus nrog kuv ua hauj lwm ntawm kuv lub chaw ua hauj lwm thaum kuv coj nws mus nrog kuv ua hauj lwm lawm nws tus txiv tseem hu mus foob kuv rau nws ib tug txheeb ze nws tus txheeb ze hu phone tuaj cem 22 kuv kawg li thiab tiag , ua zoo tau phem.
You were money greedy and was happily pocketing her money for helping to keep the secret away from her controlling husband. You should had been straight and keep her husband inform about what you are doing with his wife since they are still a married couple? This is your fault too! On the other hand, their issue is not your business. Stick the middle finger in their face and block them off. Any further harassment will result in a legal case against that couple.
Cov niag neeg kuag kab kuag hlau li koj tus niam tij no ces thaum nws txhaum ces nws tom yus li ub li no kom nws yeej thiab kom yus swb nws ntag mas zaj no ces twb ua ib qhov kev rau koj kawm tiav kiag ib Daim degree lawm mas mog
Tus poj hmoob no mas siab phem tiag2 koj twb pab tau mus rau txoj kev zoo thaum kawg los tseem tau txais qhov phem li no. Tsim nyog koj sab laj rau koj tus txiv ua ntej os vim neeg lub siab lim2 hiam kawg. Kuv mas pab koj chim siab rau tej tug neeg zoo li no. Nws niag txiv los liam tshaj txhua yam no yog tim yus niag poj niam tib leeg nyias laus nyias g muaj leej twg quab yuam tau yus mus ua dab tsi na.😂😂😂
The uncle/older bro is dumb. Embarrassing. I dont care for these kind of drama. That's harassment and I would take them to court instead. I dont care for the Hmong talks.
Don't ever secretly do something under cover to someone you put yourself in big troubles. Koj ruam tshaj plaws koj niag hlob ntshais ntshais niag hlob los koj tseem mus xab problem tiag
People say there are always two sides to a story. This is wrong, sometime, there is only one side. The problem to this story is simple, we are all adults, and we are responsible for what we do. You are responsible if you:
1. Decide to go to school
2. Go to casino
3. Spend your life savings
You are a feeakin adult. Own up to your feeakin actions.
NEVER help someone who insists on keeping their actions a secret because it will come back to bite you in the butt! Only surprise parties/gifts are good to keep as a secret if you are asked... everything else is pretty much a no no!
Yog kawg ua zoo los tau phem.
People need to take responsibility for their own actions and stop blaming others for their own problems.
Kuv los tib yam, yus ua zoo tau phem. Lesson learned for me too.
Twb ruam thiab npab nauj tsis taus los haj tseem ua siab phem rov taw tuam ntuj rau tus neeg uas tau pab yus. Tos tus niam tsev no tus txiv tsis xav kom nws txawj thiab ntse los vim nws tsis yog ib tug neeg siab ncaj ncees. Cov niag neeg uas txawj dag li no ces tsis sawm zoo kiag li. Ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws.
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Hell no! She ain't gonna blame me for her gambling problem. And her husband ain't gonna blame either. You better fight!
Koj txhaum qhov koj nyiag pab lawv tus poj niam nawb uas yam tus txiv tsis pom zoo tsis pub nws tus txiv paub Koj txhaum 100% nawb
Never give up to do the right thing as you did. Let god take care of those liars...
Secrets always come back to bite us.
I hope you learned a valuable lesson. Doing secret things will result in trouble. Idk how you keep it from your husband, I would have told my husband the first day already. 😅
Neeg phem ces zoo li no ntag ma 😢😢😢
This story reminds me of me helping my ex SIL. She was always talking about being broke, so I helped her to get a job where I was working. I then ended up finding a better paying job and left the old job. Later she decided to cheat on her husband and he blamed all on me because I helped her by getting her a job. I told my ex in-laws that I felt bad that they were always broke so I gave a hand to help recruit her for the better but I didn't put a gun to the SIL's head to cheat. That was her choice! Years later, she still cheated on him multiple times which caused their divorce. Since then, I'm effy to help out again.
Yog luag tus txiv los sis tus Poj niam tsis pom zoo ces yus txhob mus ua2 niam ua txiv rau luag yus thiaj tsis tau ib ceg nrog tw li ko nawj
Yeah, sometimes its not good to help people, especially the closest people around you, I learned my lesson the hard way too, if i had known that helping them would make me the bad person at the end, then i would never have helped and everything wouldnt be as ugly, now they wont even look at me. Lesson learned.
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What you should have done was tell your husband what is going on? And do your husband feel
About it?
Koj tus niam mas siab lim hiam tshaj li os neeg laus mas txhob xyaum dag nawb
To the lady in this story, you need to stop lying to urself and take responsibility for your actions. How u gonna blame a person for helping you and then turn around and stab her in the back. Shame on you lady. You deserve your 1975 husband because u just proved him right. Tus txiv no ruam ib yam li nws tus poj niam .
Tus viv ncaus peb yog neeg siab zoo es kuv los ua zoo tau phem ib yam li koj thisb es peb txhob hlub2 lwm tus os mog es yus yuav tau hlub yus ua ntej tso mam hlub cov sab nraum os mog . Tij yam no ua rau yus ntses zog xwb os.
Tiam 21 no tsis zoo ua siab phem rau neeg nawb..txawm luag chim chim siab luag tsis foom los yus cia li npam npam li thiab ov..
You know you have a busy schedule but yet you still willing to help her. In the beginning you were taking her then change so you should have told her husband what was going on. That is why you should never trust no one!!!! Let karma gets those done you wrong, girl!!!!!
I would never go above and beyond to help anyone. It’s not my job to take someone to and from school. If her husband doesn’t approve of her going to school let them be. Some people are meant to stay dumb where they belong. They don’t know how to distinguish between what’s good and bad.
That lady did not want to take the blame on herself and putting the fault on you
And this is why I don't help people anymore.
I stay low key and no longer help people, even my own family
When you help families, always do it so when everyone agrees (especially when that person has a spouse). It is your fault for keeping her secret and helping her.
Tus txiv nws yeej paub nws tus poj niam zoo lawm thiaj tsis pub tus poj niam mus ua ib yam dab tsi li lo mom yus nyob sab nrauv twb tsis paub lawv tej niam txiv es yus ho tias yus ua zoo tau phem no naj
I can't believe the husband even blamed on the niam ntxawm too. This is what happened when hmong men are too controlling. Once your partner gets out of the cage, she's going to spread her wings to fly away or do bad things n keep secrets from you.
Tsis yog cuab leej cuab tam os hais tias cuab yeej cuab tam no hos
Doesn't matter if you took her or someone else took her. She is an adult and in control of her own actions don't blame anyone else, but your own wife.
It also your fault too doing and keep as a secret even your husband didn’t know too. When she say keep as a secrets u should know right there!
You just helped the wrong person. I feel bad for you.
She tossed you under the bus, then gaslights you 😅 she is a coward and cannot own up to her bad decisions to become a gambler
Ntau xyoo dhau los lawm kuv muaj ib tug txheeb ze thov 22 kom kuv coj nws mus nrog kuv ua hauj lwm ntawm kuv lub chaw ua hauj lwm thaum kuv coj nws mus nrog kuv ua hauj lwm lawm nws tus txiv tseem hu mus foob kuv rau nws ib tug txheeb ze nws tus txheeb ze hu phone tuaj cem 22 kuv kawg li thiab tiag , ua zoo tau phem.
Poj niam hmoob ces tus ntse tus ruam los yeej siab phem sib phim xwb nawb lawv aw...
Poj niam no education ces zoo kiag li nej niag niam hlob ko ntag. Tos niag txiv khoos khoos kaw cuag npuas os.
You were money greedy and was happily pocketing her money for helping to keep the secret away from her controlling husband. You should had been straight and keep her husband inform about what you are doing with his wife since they are still a married couple? This is your fault too!
On the other hand, their issue is not your business. Stick the middle finger in their face and block them off. Any further harassment will result in a legal case against that couple.
Cov niag neeg kuag kab kuag hlau li koj tus niam tij no ces thaum nws txhaum ces nws tom yus li ub li no kom nws yeej thiab kom yus swb nws ntag mas zaj no ces twb ua ib qhov kev rau koj kawm tiav kiag ib Daim degree lawm mas mog
Tus poj hmoob no mas siab phem tiag2 koj twb pab tau mus rau txoj kev zoo thaum kawg los tseem tau txais qhov phem li no. Tsim nyog koj sab laj rau koj tus txiv ua ntej os vim neeg lub siab lim2 hiam kawg. Kuv mas pab koj chim siab rau tej tug neeg zoo li no. Nws niag txiv los liam tshaj txhua yam no yog tim yus niag poj niam tib leeg nyias laus nyias g muaj leej twg quab yuam tau yus mus ua dab tsi na.😂😂😂
The uncle/older bro is dumb. Embarrassing. I dont care for these kind of drama. That's harassment and I would take them to court instead. I dont care for the Hmong talks.
Don't ever secretly do something under cover to someone you put yourself in big troubles. Koj ruam tshaj plaws koj niag hlob ntshais ntshais niag hlob los koj tseem mus xab problem tiag