Phem Tag Ib Tsev Neeg~08/17/2023~

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  • @nyc594
    @nyc594 Рік тому +15

    I wish when people tell these stories would tell us the family name so our kids won’t end up with their kids. Scary

  • @autumnlossij-muas1490
    @autumnlossij-muas1490 Рік тому +7

    I was married into a family such as this. Folks like this family DO EXIST.

  • @michaelf2700
    @michaelf2700 Рік тому +15

    What a weird & strange family, especially the MIL. A true "pog nplaum". Just be glad u got away. I wouldn't be able to live like that or with them.

  • @Zeb1245
    @Zeb1245 Рік тому +14

    Red flag: mama’s boy 😅

  • @yaseeyasee6227
    @yaseeyasee6227 Рік тому +5

    Cov niam pog zoo li no mas phim cov nyab nyaum 2 xwb

  • @PM-oe5mk
    @PM-oe5mk Рік тому +13

    Ladies, please get to know the family you plan on marrying into before you agree to marry the guy. If this young woman had just done her due diligence, she would have never married the guy because she would never want to be a part of this family. The same advice goes for a guy as well, because he could end up with a horror of a mil also.

    • @MSMAIYANG
      @MSMAIYANG Рік тому +3

      Some in-laws don't show their true selves until after marriage so you still don't really know what you are marrying into.

  • @2tuam
    @2tuam Рік тому +6

    Cov family li no mas poob qab tshaj Africa lawm thiab os.

  • @myprecious6751
    @myprecious6751 Рік тому +12

    OMFG sister leave that family and divorce your freaking husband. He isn't worth all that aggravation and stress and drama of that in laws

  • @maimoua1371
    @maimoua1371 Рік тому +1

    Hivhiv cas nyuam qhuav hnov kojtsev neeg inlaw no mas extremely super glue tiag2 kuv zoo siab uas kuv tau 1 tug niam pog hwm kuv saib taus kuv

  • @sandyvangyang110
    @sandyvangyang110 Рік тому +5

    I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself! Some people are pure evil!!! Not worth staying!!!!
    This is a great example of why we shouldn't judge divorcies because we don't wear their shoes. This family is obviously controlling. Hmong tradition or not, no one should be separated by their parents/ relatives/ and friends. Terrible family, I wouldn't have stayed either. This is why DATE FIRST and DIG DEEPER before marrying! LOL

  • @nancyvang3796
    @nancyvang3796 Рік тому

    Tsis txhaus ntseeg tias tseem muaj ib cov neeg coj li no os lawv!!
    Liam tiag tiag

  • @kayvaj
    @kayvaj Рік тому +17

    Monster in Law

  • @xwmkabyang354
    @xwmkabyang354 Рік тому +3

    koj mus ntsib dab ntxaug lawm ces kawg nrauj xwb mas me muam awd.

  • @LeeSolyna94
    @LeeSolyna94 8 місяців тому

    Hau yau me ntxhai aw… koj poob dab teb lawm o

  • @tracylee3141
    @tracylee3141 Рік тому +6

    Married to a weird, greedy family 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♂️

  • @pyang6075
    @pyang6075 Рік тому +1

    Can’t even finish this story.. it’s getting me annoyed of this family

  • @paj235
    @paj235 Рік тому +1

    I’m so happy you’re out of that evil house family

  • @tongyang6314
    @tongyang6314 Рік тому +3

    Vuag cas tsev hmoob ko yuav super glue ua luaj li na, ntshe lawv tsis txawj tuag ho yom.

  • @kelbra3689
    @kelbra3689 Рік тому +3

    Your MIL and her daughters are hypocrites. While they were forcing you to stay away from your family, your MIL constantly calls her daughters over to her house to lecture you about how bad it is to have connections with your parents. You should had called them out on this and kick the daughters out of your house.

  • @NalyVallyyang
    @NalyVallyyang Рік тому

    Cov neeg thaum ntawv koom tes ua rau kuv ces tam sim no npam txua tus li lawm. Vim thaum ntawv lawv koom tes ua rau kuv ces kuv yeej tsis paub tawm tsam rov qaib li. Qhov kuv ua tau thaum ntawv ces yog quaj thiab xav tuag xwb. Vim tsis muaj niam muaj txiv nyob qhov twg yuav Los pab tau yus li. Ces yus tsuas tau txoj kev quaj xwb.
    Tam sim no MAs npam lawv loj tsaj plaws li. Kuv kuj ua tsaug rau tus tswv ntuj tseem hlub txog kuv thiab.
    Kuv qhov neej neeg mas long story heev li os! Vim lawv tsim kuv tau 22 lub xyoo Dian.

  • @sunnygirl973
    @sunnygirl973 Рік тому

    Yuav luag zoo lis kuv zaj thiab os !

  • @eddieyang1373
    @eddieyang1373 Рік тому +1

    Sound like my sister's life...

  • @diannaxiong693
    @diannaxiong693 Рік тому

    Zoo siab nrog koj dim plaws hauv dab xib tes lawm tiag tiag 😂😂

  • @MrsKervang
    @MrsKervang Рік тому +4

    I never understand stories like this. These are grown adult kids. Why are you guys still living with the parents?! Move out! You don't need to be living with them. There can only be one queen biatch in the house!!!

  • @charlesher.9508
    @charlesher.9508 Рік тому +2

    Yuav mus ua ib lub neej cas g noog caj noog ces zoo2 mam yuav os. Kuv ces twb pab koj ntshai tsev hmoob no qhov lawv txwv2 g pub tham xov tooj ces vim lawv tsev hmoob no phem g xws teb xws chaw thiaj ntshai tsam koj tsoo nws lub qe lwj xwb mas. Pab hlub koj kawg uas los ua neej yuam kev rau ib tsev hmoob phem2 txhua tus yuav tau mloog tus niam pog lus ua tau txaus ntxub dhau os...😂😂😂

  • @beevveil2240
    @beevveil2240 Рік тому

    Cas zoo li koj hais tshaj dhau lawm pob tsis muaj ib yim neej yuav hais thiab cem koj Cuag li koj cov muam thiab niam Tij cem li koj pob

  • @kvang1045
    @kvang1045 Рік тому +12

    That family is childish. Why hide an old person cane for? Pure evil. Glad u got had no kids with ur ex husband, they might try to control and manipulate your child.

  • @pkcyang2910
    @pkcyang2910 Рік тому

    Wow koj tus txiv yog mama's boy tiag2 li os. Nws tsis yog married es yus ua yus lub neej koom ib lub siab nrog yus tus pojniam ho yus yuav pojniam los rau nws niam lawv khoo.

  • @ouradventuresnspecialmoments
    @ouradventuresnspecialmoments Рік тому +1

    Word of Advice To Future Hmong Nyabs: Get to truly know your future in-laws & husband before you commit!!! This is the 21st century...

  • @hmoob-usalauj3934
    @hmoob-usalauj3934 Рік тому

    Unbelievable story. There’s two sides to a story. I’m shaking my head!

    • @Lovecookies01
      @Lovecookies01 Рік тому +6

      Probably because you're just like the monster in law 😂😂

  • @tusiabmoua9169
    @tusiabmoua9169 Рік тому

    Nej tsev neeg Yog neeg 9, 2, khaum,,,npaum 11:36 lwj npaum liam!!!!!

  • @tiffanyxiong6008
    @tiffanyxiong6008 Рік тому

    Zoo li koj los ntawm ib Tse neeg very traditional.
    Yuav Kom koj lub tsev huv siab koj yuav tau pauv.
    Zoo li koj yog ib tug neeg tsis nyiam huv, maybe because you was raised like that.
    Peb cov hmoob muaj ntau tsev neeg mas thaum koj mus txog hauv lawv lub tsev es qheb pho qhov rooj xwb ces yus twb ua tsis taus pa lawm.
    Lub tsev tsw ntxhiab sis zoj sis zas xwb.
    Thov pauv thiab os. 17:46

  • @NalyVallyyang
    @NalyVallyyang Рік тому

    Koj li es lawv ua rau koj Los lawv tseem hlub lawv tus tub.
    Kuv li es lawv ua rau kuv ces lawv lim hiam rau lawv tus tub thiab.
    5 xyoo dhau Los lawv cav ua dab rau kuv kom kuv mus tham hluas nraug na has tsis nim raug kuv🙏
    Rov mus raug lawv niag tub xwb. Ua nws lawv niag tub mus tham lawv 1 niag poj niam laus2
    Lawv txom tau lawv muab nplua nyiaj $1200 lawv xav tias ntse kuv yuav them no.
    Kuv tsis thab2 ua nws! Nws niam rov mag rho nws niam li nyiaj Los them kiag sav!
    Yog thaum twg nej li neej neeg tsis muaj ntau lawm kuv yuav coj kuv txoj tuaj tham rau nej mloog thiab.

  • @PH-ThailanD
    @PH-ThailanD Рік тому

    zoo kawg koj khiav dev log lawm tsev niag neeg li kom.npav noj kheej nwg tuag kav tswj swb log li kom xwb mas

  • @maivcua1272
    @maivcua1272 Рік тому +2

    Zoo qhov lawv muab koj cab tes tawm nraum zoo koj xwm kab pab koj kawg tej tsev hmoob kov cas phem xiam tiam ua luaj li

  • @beevveil2240
    @beevveil2240 Рік тому

    Tsis txaus ntseeg li ne zaj no nas

  • @angielo06
    @angielo06 Рік тому

    Cas yuav nplaum los nplaum, phem los phem li lauj.

  • @magicalunicorn5853
    @magicalunicorn5853 Рік тому +4

    Really it’s one year 😂. That’s so funny. Not even worth telling this story. If people are doing wrong things that doesn’t fit you, you really don’t need to do what they say. Your instincts tell you and you’re an adult. You don’t have to act like others who are evil. It’s your life. Make a decision.

  • @GniaBXiong8386
    @GniaBXiong8386 Рік тому

    Peb ua leej tib neeg nyob ces txawm qhib rooj lug los yeej tsis pluag, hos txawm kaw rooj nti los yeej tsis nplua nuj, tsev hmoob twg yog coj li zaj keeb puam no ces zam kev kom deb nawb.

  • @yingyang2542
    @yingyang2542 Рік тому

    Yog muaj tseeb yuav tau qhia rau peb cov hmoob tsam tej tub tej ntxhais mus yuav yuam kev nawb cov coob tsi qia dub raws li kuv pom2.

  • @Priyanoog24
    @Priyanoog24 Рік тому

    Sheesh what a terrible nightmare! So glad you left them!

  • @mymyvang3653
    @mymyvang3653 Рік тому +1

    Only you will stay marry in this family. I would of left the moment the mil talk about my grandparents and bringing them bad karma!!

  • @thestoryofmylife6979
    @thestoryofmylife6979 Рік тому +1

    Strange family especially the monster in law.

  • @kaylauj
    @kaylauj Рік тому

    You dodge a bullet. 😂😂😂, count your blessings.

  • @leecaskojlubneejyuavtxomny2019
    @leecaskojlubneejyuavtxomny2019 2 місяці тому

    Tsev neeg no ntxim ntxub dhau lawm os cas koj yuav ntshaw lawv tus tub ua luaj li os. Yog kuv ces kuv twb nrauj ntxov lawm os.

  • @kaylayang2555
    @kaylayang2555 9 місяців тому

    tug niam pog no mas cov muam dev xwb os😮😢

  • @Xng88
    @Xng88 Рік тому +1

    Tsev Neeg siab me tsis puab dabtsis

    • @yl7495
      @yl7495 Рік тому +1

      Siab dab os tsis yog siab me.

  • @NalyVallyyang
    @NalyVallyyang Рік тому

    Koj tseem muaj niam muaj txiv hos kuv ces yog me nyuam ntsuag xwb lawv haj yam saib tsis tais kuv os! Tias sis tam sim no kuv ua tau niam lawm, lawv tsis pub lawv tus tub yuav kuv Los kuv twb tsis ntsaw lawv niag tub lawm thiab. Thaum ib lawv niag tub yeej nrog lawv ua ib nqag rau kuv. Ua rau kuv muaj kev nyuaj siab tau 22 lub xyoo. Niam no nws tus tub tsis yuav kuv Los kuv kom tawm mus nws twb tawm tsis tau vim txawm nws tawm mus Los nws niam lawv twb tsis yuav lawv tus!

  • @changthao6377
    @changthao6377 Рік тому

    I will say this. If you're a good person, then at least one person will lik2 w

  • @kimberlyvx
    @kimberlyvx Рік тому

    Wow, this family is something! And what i dont understand is why are the niam tij just like them too? I guess those niam tij matches this family prefectly.

  • @insideout2201
    @insideout2201 Рік тому +1

    This is why I highly suggest letting your kids go over to their bf/gf's houses. It is so important to get to know and see that person's family! Vice versa, let your children's bf/gf come over to YOUR HOUSE! How else are you going to get to know the person your child may potentially marry into your family some day. Stop being xyoo 75 OG's.
    By the way: if your thinking "That's how pregnancy happens!" Well then, you as a parent failed to have a good and close relationship with your child. Don't just be their parent, be their best friend also and you wouldn't have to worry about it. You will be able to help/guide/be there for your child when it comes to that SUBJECT.

  • @PhoHmooAmerica
    @PhoHmooAmerica Рік тому

    Mama boy

  • @_missDovely
    @_missDovely Рік тому +1

    So how come the niam pog allows her daughters to stay friend with her when she expect her nyabs to unfriend their mom (nyab’s side of the family)? Hmmm 🤔

  • @xwmkabyang354
    @xwmkabyang354 Рік тому +2

    sij neej no coj tau qees neeg tshaj li los sav cas es tseem khav tias coj tau zoo tshaj no ne. koj hmoov phem ces koj mus ntsib ib tsev hmoob super glue thiab tsev neeg dab hmoob lawm lau

  • @kuvxwb9466
    @kuvxwb9466 Рік тому

    Some of the things your went through, I also went through. I’m so thankful I am no longer in that family. It is so toxic.

  • @NalyVallyyang
    @NalyVallyyang Рік тому

    Tus sister aw! Koj tsev neeg ko tseem yog number 2 number 3 lawm os! Kuv tsev neeg sab tov MAs yog number 1 kiag naw! Thaum kuv hluas MAs kuv haj tseem ntshai tsaj koj os! Kawg hais tias ua2 rau kuv es kuv cia li xa tuag lawm xwb. Niam no los haj tseem ua but kuv laus lawm kuv paub qhov twg yog qhov twg tsis yog. Niam no kuv tsis nyoo lawv li yav tag los lawm. Thiab kuv twb tsi xis tig tsis ncaj lawv lawm os!

  • @_milly
    @_milly Рік тому +2

    Ummmmm I’m sorry but I would never ever allow anyone to control me and tell me to unfriend my own family members.

  • @miabhlub63
    @miabhlub63 Рік тому

    Sis, you dodge a fireball!

  • @perrfectlee1775
    @perrfectlee1775 Рік тому

    Whoever get into this kind family I feel sorry you…

  • @electricgenie966
    @electricgenie966 Рік тому +1

    What family is this. Sounds like a drama movie. I have a daughter and hopefully she never encountered such a family. My daughter is always welcome at my house no matter how old she is. My daughter will always be my daughter, I do not have a face to lose. Glad you got out of the devils house.

  • @Lifemoments54
    @Lifemoments54 Рік тому

    I used to live with a family that turns off all the lights in the house every night instead used flashlights. I couldn’t bear it so I moved out

  • @sombunman5551
    @sombunman5551 Рік тому

    Tawm tsis tau cais nrauj kiag xwb , tseem yuav nyuaj ua neej tsi nawb ?

  • @angielo06
    @angielo06 Рік тому

    I am glad you got out. Cia lawv coj lawv tus cwjpwm li ko es lwm hnub niam tuag ces tub pam hos tub tuag ces niam mam pam xwb maj.

  • @lisat9918
    @lisat9918 Рік тому

    Do I believe 💯 of this story…there is her side and the other wise, then the truth. But if you’re not happy, then leave, why stay?

  • @kajsiabyaj981
    @kajsiabyaj981 Рік тому

    Mentxhais aw koj mus yuam kev rau tsev neeg monster.

  • @yajliabcuam5609
    @yajliabcuam5609 Рік тому

    Qhia koj tsev neeg qia dub pub rau peb paub thiab mas twb tham tau kom teb chaws hnov lawm yuav tsum qhia kom teb chaws paub thiab pob!!!! Yuad

  • @paoher56
    @paoher56 Рік тому

    Tsev neeg zoo li hais no muaj tiag os. Kuv tus muam yuav tau ib tse xeem Tsab coj li no thiab os. Thaum kuv tus muam thiab nws tus txiv sib nrauj, tus ceev xwb nrog kuv tus muam mus nqa nws cov khoom tiam sis lawv tias lawm tsis muaj nws li khoom lawm no xwb ces cia li tag li. Lawv nyiag nws cov khoom tag. Twb yog puag tom qab no, lawv muab nws cov khaub ncaws Hmoob rau ib tug ntxhais hnav mus ua tshoob es mam li paub tias lawv tseem khaws nws tej khoom lawv nyiag cia no xwb os.

  • @pajtshiabtsheej1984
    @pajtshiabtsheej1984 Рік тому

    Oh my goodness. Txoj neej neeg no zoo li tej laus hais dab neeg yav puag thaum ub tias mus poob zoo rau zos hmoob noj neeg lawm.

  • @Lovecookies01
    @Lovecookies01 Рік тому

    They exist!!!!! Monsters!

  • @colleenchan9872
    @colleenchan9872 Рік тому

    Vuag cas phem tag sim neej li os! Cov neeg ko av tsis lim ces ntshe lawv yuav ua poj nrauj yawg nrauj tag li xwb os… nrauj los zoo mas cov neeg phem qia dub siab nyoos siab lim hiam li ko muab tso plig kiag mus txhob khuv xim thiab nco li os! Ua neeb quas kiag mus kom tag tiam neej tsis pom ntxiv mas!!!

  • @moa-maioutdooradventures483

    If I marry into this family I leave already

  • @Lotus-og6if
    @Lotus-og6if Рік тому +3

    The family sounds so controlling but what the heck were you thinking to bring your gma to the home of such a witch? That was your fault as well. You can’t just bring whoever over, you should work hard to get out with your husband and get your own place and then invite whoever over.

    • @Faifferz
      @Faifferz Рік тому +3

      If you miss someone and they wanted to come visit you, wouldn’t you say yes too?
      She said they couldn’t move out because his parents said he’s the youngest son so they couldn’t move out.
      My advice would have been to NOT marry the youngest son or to get to know the family before you marry them.

  • @kaam6671
    @kaam6671 Рік тому

    Ntuj aw cov niam pog li no ma tsi txau ua nw pov khawv nkau! Poj dab ntxwg nyoog!
    Why let this mil controls your life..!

  • @greentortoise4629
    @greentortoise4629 Рік тому

    Wow-would have called the cops and has then jailed.

  • @thorvang2899
    @thorvang2899 Рік тому +1

    Tsev hmoob no mas yuav txau tshai ua luaj tseem phem tshaj dab ntxuag lawm thiab os

  • @jackieyunan4899
    @jackieyunan4899 Рік тому

    When you're married to a negative family, it's time to let go and move on..

  • @moa-maioutdooradventures483

    Ugh if this mil say that shit about my grandparents I would divorce that husband

  • @maileemvang
    @maileemvang Рік тому

    Wow what a family that is. Shame on the husband too for being useless and can't even man up. Good thing you got out. They don't deserve you.

  • @EK99_00
    @EK99_00 Рік тому

    It’s easy, divorce

  • @shaggythao7538
    @shaggythao7538 Рік тому

    Tsev neeg ko yog tsev neeg dev thiab qias dub

  • @visibopath1412
    @visibopath1412 Рік тому

    I would divorce him in a heart beat my neeg tsa is police. A family like that always listen to your conversation because they notice their bad eggs. Hiding grandma's cane is so evil. Dab vaj dab tsev ces yog koj tus niam pog ko xwb mas hahhaha..

  • @MSMAIYANG
    @MSMAIYANG Рік тому

    That's so rude of your husband to not let you have friends or keep in touch with your family/relatives. I don't understand those people who knew you were this type of person and still want to date you but then try to put authority on you and cut you off from the world you know after marriage. You should still get to be yourself even though your priorities changed a little after marriage.
    And does mil still keep in touch with her side of the family? What a b!

  • @yeryang-thao3078
    @yeryang-thao3078 Рік тому

    Whatever they do, they think you will do like them, that’s why they against everything you good. They don’t want you to be too good.

  • @npaujlis-angel8889
    @npaujlis-angel8889 Рік тому

    And I thought my mother-in-law is a wicket lady. Although my in-laws are second to this one.

  • @LaBelle22
    @LaBelle22 4 місяці тому

    This is abuse and controlling behavior.

  • @pavang5531
    @pavang5531 Рік тому

    Considered yourself lucky os sis! You don’t want any of those sticky offspring! Your ex in laws are the type that I don’t want to be related to or married into! She don’t want you to contact your family but still allows her daughters to visit when they are considered “outsiders” once they married. I would have called the cops on them if I was you. This is why these days you should try to see or get to know your bc/gf side of the family before you married into them. Have to do your homework! Tsev niag neej no mam yog tsev neej liam thiab siab phem kawg!

  • @maivthoj5627
    @maivthoj5627 Рік тому

    It was red flag from the beginning. Run when u can. Your husband is not a husband he's control from mom (mama boy).

  • @nouyang3166
    @nouyang3166 Рік тому +1

    Tsis tau pom dhuav. Your ex family is jus pure sticky. Like i told my husband, hmong like to said adjust to your new family. Yog lawv tub sab ces koj nrog lawv tub sab, yog lawv nquag koj yuav tau nrog lawv nquag. Im sorry husband but im not gonna be a thief just bc your family are 😂😂😂

    • @MonaLisa-de4cp
      @MonaLisa-de4cp Рік тому

      Yeah. What a stupid lesson to teach to a new bride/nyab! Tsi qhia kom ua qhov zoo xwb, tseem qhia ua qhov phem tibsi.

  • @sgks3325
    @sgks3325 Рік тому

    nws niag tub twb yuav yuav
    nws niam los mas koj twb tsis paub los

  • @LimeLM3
    @LimeLM3 Рік тому

    OMG I’m half way through this story and what a weird family! This family needs help. Oh girl, be happy they make the decision for you. If they haven’t dragged you out, you’ll probably still living in hell with that family.

  • @maiyang570
    @maiyang570 Рік тому

    DIVORCE

  • @whatheck6797
    @whatheck6797 Рік тому

    I probably wouldn’t last a year in that family. Sound like my ex.

  • @leejmuam1
    @leejmuam1 Рік тому

    In this story, I am more mad at you than them because you were threatening several times and still refuse to leave that mamma boy. What's good about a boy like your ex? Nothing.

  • @L04d1ngg
    @L04d1ngg Рік тому

    Controlling much? Should've visited and got to know him and his family better before you married him.

  • @muas7603
    @muas7603 Рік тому

    Girl you the one that got away!! Weird family.

  • @yingvang1276
    @yingvang1276 Рік тому

    Wow, your mil is a controlling narcissist. Don't be sad for losing that marriage, be very very thankful.

  • @wildnorthchannel101
    @wildnorthchannel101 Рік тому

    Tsev niag hmoob 75 tsev niag hmoob dev cas tseem tuaj txom mekas teb thiab hmoob ruam.
    Peb hmoob twb tuaj tau 50 xyoo rau mekas teb nos lawm es tseem coj thaj 75 tas lis xwb hmoob ruam aw.

  • @diannaxiong693
    @diannaxiong693 Рік тому +1

    Hi me ntxhais aw coj phem npaum li tsi tau muaj menyuam kav tsij khiav kom dim xwb os...Hnov xwb twb ntshai2 kawg li os...Me ntxhais aw niag poj dab siab phem heev uas li cas koj tseem nyob nrog cov niag dab ntxwj nyoog nyob tau thiab naw.

  • @goldeneagle2394
    @goldeneagle2394 Рік тому

    Omg sounds like my ex and his family

  • @akulathao4654
    @akulathao4654 Рік тому +1

    Sister! Did your ex-husband ask his mom first before come to bed with you?

    • @leejmuam1
      @leejmuam1 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂he probably did.