Exactly. They carry child chick with the little change in their pocket and with a car bought with the support of their wives and still expect a happy marriage. Who does that. I don't support divorce. I always tell men to please, avoid pushing their wives to the wall.
Men in Nigeria think them marrying us is doing us a favour. Is marriage a Trophy??? A woman is happier single and childless in Africa. That miserable existence where you will loose your sanity ,your joy and if not carefull your life called marriage in Nigeria is not worth it. So what if people called you unmarried?? If we stop bothering about their insults and stay single , we would be happier. Getting married was the worst decision I ever made in my life. I do not wish marriage in Nigeria on my worst enemy. Imagine this man demanding conjugal rights and his children without being responsible for either the wife or the children. Woman don suffer for Nigeria.
Honestly ur right. Suffrage in marriage for a woman in Nigeria is almost guaranteed. Nigerian men were not raised to love or treat women like human beings. They see them as subhuman and only value those abroad or white. If a woman is financially ok she should just hv a child/children she can comfortably afford and live her life in peace. Let them keep their bondage/marriage.
It's disheartening to hear that most of the cases coming to the Justice Court is related to the children's upkeep. Who are then taking care of the Leaders of tomorrow? 😢
They never take care of their children financially. They will splurge on themselves but their children they only feel the woman should be the one to suffer and feed them. Selfish beings
Their mothers…. African men are no better than African American men when it comes to taking care of their children. African American are even better because they don’t hide their children as much
I like "The Justice Court" due to the fact that it is really appealing & interesting to me. It is also really soothing to watch whilst laying on my bed.
Judge Funmi can I be your baby girl. I love your patience, calmness and even when you correct, you do it with respect and politeness. God bless you ma.
@@Tommie_pipsyou are a top G..... am going through same issue now, her mom deceived her and they left with our child then I changed my keys, in the past I made it clear to her that any day u move out of our home without at least informing me first, u will never step your foot inside again and that decision is final. It might be hard but standard and boundaries must be set.
@lolaAjDada I tire o. African women Nigerian women especially don’t just walk out of a marriage.Everyone is insisting she goes back because secure women are not common in Nigeria- especially when it comes to leaving an abusive marriage-the regular thing is that men are allowed to philander and the woman is supposed to just stay there and even if she leaves a “sorry” should fix it.
You are just being unnecessarily sentimental. Did Esther debunk any of his claims about the intimidation her police brother was giving to the husband? Or because he is a man, so he deserves to be blamed for everything?
@domchibuike my brother, let's always try to be nice to men too especially when no evidence has proven that he is irresponsible. He hasn't committed any crime been born a MAN.
When did you last see your kids? He goes on a long sermon to explain how the Police castigated his ex-wife for not returning to him. Oga, when you do una traditional wedding, shey na Police join una, Abi na Police give the woman to you? 🤣🤣🤣 Does she not have a mind of her own to decide whether she has had enough of you? Your children remain yours, regardless of whether their mother has walked out of your union. You gotta pay for your kids upkeep, Sir.
I do not know your gender but just in case you're male, pray you don't experience this kind of heartbreak. Dude wasn't trying to castigate his wife but only expressing the all the efforts he made to try and save their marriage... Unless it's a serious, life-threatening case, couples shouldn't trivialize marriage by jumping out at the slightest excuse. The rate of divorce is high! People no longer hold sacred the vows of marriage. It does seem like they go in with a mind to walk out anytime,so most are not willing to put in the work. The children are the victims..next generation... God help us.
@@aarons.kombatcoo4219 Please, read my post again to know who said who castigated whom or tried to. The divorce rate will continue to to rise as long as one partner refuses to respect and recognise the rights of the other. Marriage requires two consenting adults; If one treats the other in a manner that makes them to withdraw their consent, and they choose to leave the marriage rather than lose their life or sanity, no one can force them to stay. The Police have no official marriage counselling duties, and have no authority to order that any partner remain in a relationship.
Well i don’t know about other culture. I love my Yoruba culture i don’t have to give money to my husband to buy land. I can build my house with my own money. It’s not necessary given money to your husband to buy land so if one decide to support fine. Not really a good idea anyway.
Please how do I contact this court. I have similar issue but mine is even worst because the father of my kids is nowhere to be found( he just disappeared) and I have been the one taking care of everything. I just need him to pay for upkeep and dissolve our marriage. I really need help
I pray that God will restore their marriage. Because if both of them are together they can be able to manage their family and take care of their children aa well. May God help them.
Really? So him committing adultery, abusing the woman by scamming her? You have to be joking. The woman’s aid several times she does not want to be with him again:
This Lazy man. Don't want to support the children 😔 I understand why she doesn't want him. He is no good and has been unfaithful. Shame on him😢 lazy Ant
He's not lazy. If my children are not in my house, I give no pin. If u want my money, you stay under my roof. He married from a bad family. Let them do co-parenting, because tomorrow he might not even see their money. Rubbish.. Let her family pay the fees. Bad family members
He is not the only lazy man there are plenty. The first thing they say. I'm not working. Only a fool would stay in a house where there is no PeAcE. Those days are gone stay for the children 😞
I will say that if this man has no work and is ready to put in 20k on the feeding of two kids, then that should be considered to avoid pressure that will lead a man to break and entry!😮
Don't forget she had a petition and the man responded. It takes 2 to tango. No need to waste time bcos the only issue was to rule on how to take care of the kids and provide access to them. The rules are clear.
If she sent him home then the woman's case will be delayed and this might be the 1st time he is coming to court. The judge already told him that the dressing is inappropriate and if he does that again then send back with fines
She is housing d kids n responsible for them on a daily basis. Bathing them, cooking, dressing them up, their homework, their security. And much more! They r his kids - he is not doing her a favor by taking care of HIS OWN kids
@@aeiou0123I would have asked has she married someone else. If she has his financial responsibilities need to be based on her and the new husband income.
@laurettabrooks exactly what I said in my comment, about what assessments is she using to come to many of her conclusions? Our laws should be fact-based, sadly it's emotional-based, hence the unless none stop crying many Nigerian women employ to seem like they are the victim.
@@sol_4real Exactly! I hate that a number of the judgments are biased in favour of the women under the guise of 'looking out for the children'. As it stands the economic situation in Nigeria is tough, hence it is completely unfair to demand a man with limited means to care for children alone when the other parent isn't dead.
@@laurettabrooksbut he won't be caring for the children alone, did you notice the judge didn't ask him to pay house rent and the transport money to take the kids to school?
Even though I agree with you, I believe people should not joke with their marriages because of side chick. If he was not into extramarital affairs, he will not be in this mess Imagine a woman supports car purchase, land purchase and other support in the home. Yet, the man could still find solace in the chest of another woman. Everyone should work on their marriages because the husband and wife being together in love is the best. Well, I feel for the man sha.
Man work and be responsible.E get why . If you cant take responsibility jsut remain single. .lets not bring chiildrn to come and suffer . Every child deserve a better life.
Your wife gave you money to buy a land and car, and you didn't bother to mention her name on the document. You go ahead and start keeping side-hen. This man only missed what he was getting from this woman. That is the truth. If it was for love, he should have valued the children's well-being as much.
that is too much for a man without a stable job.that lady has someone in her life already.if you think life is green on the other side,think again.women see in the future not the present
Why not watch and listen to the video again before you comment? That was what that was claimed earlier, but from what I heard, she didn't give her nay money for those items. And for the car, he said it belongs to someone else and the owner had withdrew the car from him already... Get the facts right please
Una go just enter comment and say what you have no knowledge about, even the judge refuses to say anything about it...broken marriage is not just what u can speak for any because there are always more to it that said...
For few year back he has not be caring for the children., but he leave all bills to the wife alone, if the woman should come back will he not take care of her nd kinds, or was he not giving his girl fruend money, .
Divorce is very complicated issues in life of a man sometimes especially when your ex took you to court in the issues of paying children bills that one gangan na the problem it may be the time you're broke court we begin to call you for the children's bill's
What kind of judgemen is this, why'd you give the woman a chance to talk so she should air her mind, air our what is paining her, it's not healthy for her to just bottle everything inside.
Man: Despite what people watch and hear, comprehension is poor for many. The man is definitely at fault, even from his words. Imagine your wife giving you money to buy car for you both and gave you money and you bought a land for yourself and put your name only on the property. So he was driving Uber, and it’s not his own car? What happened to the car he had from the money the wife gave? At the age this man is? Does he think the parents are the one to force the woman to stay in marriage? Is marriage by force? She said she no longer wants the marriage, yet the man wants family village meetings. This man needs to leave this woman alone please. Woman: You cannot stop the man from seeing his children. Unless he is dangerous, on drugs and other serious safe guarding concerns. If he is cheating (committing adultery), and you no longer feel safe to be intimate with your husband, you should leave the marriage. However, you should ensure you have evidence and not wrongfully accuse him.
@@P_bliss I cannot delete that part, until I have enough info. The lady did not even speak much. She has given more than 300K. If money can be fit for buying land to put in your own name. Then Oga, Uber can be included. The husband needs to wake up to the reality. No woman is going to support you, while you cheat and she provides for the family. That is abnormal.
Why are people here acting like school fees and hospital bills are all kids need to survive. Children need way more than that on a daily bases. 40000 is not that much to take care of kids in this economy. So the kids should starve because the dad wants to play hanky panky. Claiming because he wants her back she should run back. Why will a woman not want to be with the father of her kids. There is a reason behind.
Why don't you offer him job? Are you deaf or blind to hear or see that an average Nigerian live in less than one dollar a day and that was before the current exchange rate. Those women that don't wear earrings have not dealt with you before that's why, very wicked sets of humans.
My prayer for the man is for him to get a job and be able to stand as a man so that he can leave this situation.. he can go into event securities and night club securities.. She definitely got fed up with taking care of the responsibilities..‘unfortunately if it was the other way round the man would have been abused for not wanting to marry the broke woman again
What exactly do you men want. Oh I forget ,women as your slaves. One minute you want a traditional marriage where the woman worship s you,does all house work, cooking and childcare. So in that situation should she also run around to look for money to care for both you and the children.?? We refuse to allow you to kill us. My dear run for your dear life When you have worked yourself to death, he will still even be following other women while you are in that hell.
You see this is the unfortunate way that we have been raised in Nigeria, to think that the man must carry all the responsibilities in the family. The children belong to both parties and a husband and wife are one, it should not matter who makes more money; the common objective is to make the family successful. It is so sad how finances keep ruining marriages, world over. May they find healing and peace for the children's sake
Pls I want to ask a very harmless question, if the man pays school fess, hospital fees, and monthly upkeep for the kids what is the work or does it mean the mother has nothing to provide?
Can the man even give birth to a baby, do they know what it means to be in the labour room. A woman risk her life to birth kids that is more than enough. But I still advise women to have Thier own money no matter what.
How about you focus on getting money and taken care of your family instead of chasing women. He is weak!!! But what else could he be. He is a NAB of society. 😂😂😂
This judgement is incomplete they never give the man they opportunity to say what he have we're all human being why forcing him on what he don't have ma still look into this case
40k upkeep per month multiply by 12months is 480k, with school fees, hospital and etc isn't fair at all considering the fact that he is an Uber driver who doesn't own the car, how can he save for his life, pay his own bills, reach out to his parents if they are alive, find another woman to marry n etc when this one has left him? This judgement is totally wrong and not fair
Society now shame me that wants to look good But will praise women for looking good also Women also don't want ugly men but will shame men for looking good.. Bro just chase money When u get it marry 15 wifes because na your money If they don't like it they can use the door
She may have her own reason not to continue with the marriage anyway, But,I think 40k is too much for uber driver to raise in a month, He's not even the owner of the uber, How much are they paying nigeria police as a salary? I think judge funmi purposely do this to him because of his dressing, Some businessmen didn't realise 40k in a month as a profits. You people are giving more power to Nigeria women,training them how to turn their men to slavery, Na wa oh.
I feel like the more children a couple have , the more the strain in a marriage. If you don't have money simply do not have children. Stay with your babe and enjoy sweet marriage without stress. One child can intensify stress, I can't imagine what more than one does...but Africans are not ready to talk about this. Sir, if that woman does not want you, please marry my sister. She is 42, beautiful no children independent. Doing great. That's if you are okay with marrying a non Nigerian. Thanks
You don't even know why the wife left him in the first instance, how can a sane woman leave her husband of about close to ten years, you should know it should be for a very tangible reason and you're already suggesting him for your sister, you don't even like your sister, so you think marriage validates a woman, it's happier to be unmarried atimes than staying in a toxic marriage, pls wish your sister the best and not this, she's late already, let her settle well
My problem with many women is they don't even think for 1 second what a child and family actually needs. You will see them roaming the streets looking for men to devour. Ask them how to make ends meet or what to do to pay bills, they don't have any idea. Then when men comes around they want you to do what they can even think of doing
The Judge needs to parental responsibilities for the kids a balance phenomenon 40k monthly for upkeep , Healthcare insurance, school fees -Men responsibility What’s the mother contribution? Shelter? Hummm Marriage a blessing or ? Men wise up
Yes . I forget. We are your slaves. We suffer to have, care for the children, bring money. Marriage end ,the man wants to abandon the children to the mother 😂😂 You men are funny
She's still underage to make a decision. The court makes the decision. The only way if u can prove that the mother is psychologically unfit or the mother is unhealthy or the mother willingly gives the father custody .
Not all If you marry correctly with the guidance of God you will enjoy your marriage . The issue with most marriages is the fact that most couples to be place more focus on carnalities.
Life isn't fair to men. Upon the emotional tuture, this man is going true. People are still insulting him on the comment section. He still loves her, but the woman family is the brain behind everything because they want his property, stay strong man I will be praying for you
If u lov a woman u don't cheat on her. Stop siding evil. If it's d woman dat keeps a boyfriend, will u side d woman? U don't know d risk we women face wen u men hv girlfriends or 2nd/3rd wife. If u want 2hv multiple relationships, b open frm d onset. Let d person know u r a fuck-about , u can't b faithful so d person is aware & accepts or not. U don't marry someone & start cheating upandan. Do u know how many diseases r out there? If u want 2cheat, stay on ur own & cheat. Infct carry prostitutes & fck upandan.
Do u know d emotional torture d woman has bin going tru? Just imagine knowing dat ur husband is ontop anoda woman, fcking her. It hurts ! Dat's wot d woman endured while married 2him.
I can understand your point. However, I do think women have it worse, especially single mothers and married women who face abuse. Hundreds of women die daily because of domestic violence. So your statement is quite bold
@@Mariamsadventure go and check well, some of the causes of domestic abuse, is the evil mouth and wicked heart of the women. But they will not tell you that. A person that controls his or her mouth keeps his own life. How many women can control what comes out of their mouth
The judge shouldn't have indulged that man's manner of dressing, she should have sent him away to go and put on appropriate attire. Didn't they tell him what the dress code is? Did he think he was going to the gym? Naija.
😢She is the only one that knows what she experienced while she was living with him. It takes a lot for a woman to say a final no to her marriage.
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Especially a Nigerian woman.
It takes a lot o. The woman would have endured to the last extend. It is not easy o
When it comes to upkeep and responsibility, they always claim they dont have money..but you have money to keep side hen. Eberibe promax.
I noticed that irresponsible human beings
Exactly. They carry child chick with the little change in their pocket and with a car bought with the support of their wives and still expect a happy marriage. Who does that. I don't support divorce. I always tell men to please, avoid pushing their wives to the wall.
@@adereleabiodunjames883 everybody na OXLADE and PAPAYA EX , na who Dem catch be MERCY eyeBAE , JUDY AUSTIN n YUL EDOCHIE
No mind them always run to
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂yes na
The stark difference in appearance between the two parties tells the whole story.
Men in Nigeria think them marrying us is doing us a favour. Is marriage a Trophy???
A woman is happier single and childless in Africa. That miserable existence where you will loose your sanity ,your joy and if not carefull your life called marriage in Nigeria is not worth it.
So what if people called you unmarried?? If we stop bothering about their insults and stay single , we would be happier.
Getting married was the worst decision I ever made in my life. I do not wish marriage in Nigeria on my worst enemy.
Imagine this man demanding conjugal rights and his children without being responsible for either the wife or the children.
Woman don suffer for Nigeria.
Lol, the ones that don't give their wives money, are the once that demand for conjugal right more
Honestly,u nailed it my sister
Thén dont marry stay in Ur papa house
Honestly ur right. Suffrage in marriage for a woman in Nigeria is almost guaranteed. Nigerian men were not raised to love or treat women like human beings. They see them as subhuman and only value those abroad or white. If a woman is financially ok she should just hv a child/children she can comfortably afford and live her life in peace. Let them keep their bondage/marriage.
@@chibuikefrancisJosephwe don’t have to stay in anyone’s house u animal. We are capable of purchasing our own homes.
Someone that's hungry does not lift weight. 😅
😂😂😂😂
It's disheartening to hear that most of the cases coming to the Justice Court is related to the children's upkeep. Who are then taking care of the Leaders of tomorrow? 😢
Very sad... and it causes the kids to have a lack of respect for fathers because of their suffering 😢
They never take care of their children financially. They will splurge on themselves but their children they only feel the woman should be the one to suffer and feed them. Selfish beings
Hmmmmm l tireooooo
Their mothers…. African men are no better than African American men when it comes to taking care of their children. African American are even better because they don’t hide their children as much
Later they’ll come crying that their children abandoned them in old age
6 packs and all the muscle 😂😂😂😂😂 this my number one judge so hilarious. Man, God is your strength
@n.yblack channel
"All marriage has issues " quote of abusers
How did he abuse his wife?
Ode
Issues. Misunderstanding. Small fight. Just one slap. 😂😂😂 Those words sum up a lot of evil.
is that? u need to rethink your statement
Correct 💯
You are a judgeGod bless you this woman will not suffer alone
I envy judge Funmi’s temperament. She is an angel.
That's why she's a judge
I like "The Justice Court" due to the fact that it is really appealing & interesting to me. It is also really soothing to watch whilst laying on my bed.
Judge Fumi is right to focus on the welfare of the children.
Very simple, i agreed on the judgement. And the man tried his Best...
Thanks!
Welcome! Thanks for the support
What part of she doesnt want to be married to him he doesnt understand!
🤣🤣 I think it's the "doesn't want" part of it he can't comprehend 🤷🤣🤣
True
I wonder why he want back by force 😅
If she doesn’t, want you anymore that’s okay, stop being a dead beat father and take care of your children, let her be.
Exactly! Marriage is not "do or die." He needs to take care of his kids and she must give him access to his children, period!
He needs access to the children. How can he be a deadbeat, when he does not know the whereabouts of his children?
6 pack lol.judge is spot on😂.
thank you judge for the remark before the opening of the session ...
Judge Funmi can I be your baby girl. I love your patience, calmness and even when you correct, you do it with respect and politeness. God bless you ma.
Go meet the ones wen full ur DM first
The line "To The Glory Of God" 😢 this man is funny
It's not by force. She no want again. I don't know why some men carry on as if na by force to return to a marriage she doesn't want.
Olosho poor mumu confused jobless girl talking nonsense
He's an idiot if he doesn't know that he can replace her.
Na who get una time,i will replace you before you finish statement self 😅
@@Tommie_pipsyou are a top G..... am going through same issue now, her mom deceived her and they left with our child then I changed my keys, in the past I made it clear to her that any day u move out of our home without at least informing me first, u will never step your foot inside again and that decision is final. It might be hard but standard and boundaries must be set.
@lolaAjDada I tire o. African women Nigerian women especially don’t just walk out of a marriage.Everyone is insisting she goes back because secure women are not common in Nigeria- especially when it comes to leaving an abusive marriage-the regular thing is that men are allowed to philander and the woman is supposed to just stay there and even if she leaves a “sorry” should fix it.
I have this strong feeling that this man is irresponsible.
Your take is insensitively ssentimental. What evidence do you have? The onus is on you to prove.
@@solomonosekene9608 Lol. Grammar.
You are just being unnecessarily sentimental. Did Esther debunk any of his claims about the intimidation her police brother was giving to the husband?
Or because he is a man, so he deserves to be blamed for everything?
@@danielchidozie1546 take it easy man.
@domchibuike my brother, let's always try to be nice to men too especially when no evidence has proven that he is irresponsible. He hasn't committed any crime been born a MAN.
😅😅😅six pack and ten thousand for two children shame
When did you last see your kids? He goes on a long sermon to explain how the Police castigated his ex-wife for not returning to him. Oga, when you do una traditional wedding, shey na Police join una, Abi na Police give the woman to you? 🤣🤣🤣 Does she not have a mind of her own to decide whether she has had enough of you? Your children remain yours, regardless of whether their mother has walked out of your union. You gotta pay for your kids upkeep, Sir.
I do not know your gender but just in case you're male, pray you don't experience this kind of heartbreak. Dude wasn't trying to castigate his wife but only expressing the all the efforts he made to try and save their marriage...
Unless it's a serious, life-threatening case, couples shouldn't trivialize marriage by jumping out at the slightest excuse. The rate of divorce is high! People no longer hold sacred the vows of marriage. It does seem like they go in with a mind to walk out anytime,so most are not willing to put in the work. The children are the victims..next generation... God help us.
@@aarons.kombatcoo4219 Please, read my post again to know who said who castigated whom or tried to. The divorce rate will continue to to rise as long as one partner refuses to respect and recognise the rights of the other. Marriage requires two consenting adults; If one treats the other in a manner that makes them to withdraw their consent, and they choose to leave the marriage rather than lose their life or sanity, no one can force them to stay. The Police have no official marriage counselling duties, and have no authority to order that any partner remain in a relationship.
As soon as the judge says upkeep for the children, then the next answer as of now I am not working.
That man doesn't want to see his children he wants to make more children
Judge Funmi no get time for story oooo. No run emotions here.
Don't give a man money to buy land without your name listed as co-owner.
Well i don’t know about other culture. I love my Yoruba culture i don’t have to give money to my husband to buy land. I can build my house with my own money.
It’s not necessary given money to your husband to buy land so if one decide to support fine.
Not really a good idea anyway.
😅@@sekinatowoseni7714
Since everyother person dey drag for second, I be third o😂😂😂😂
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Initially he didn't answer d first question right. He totally drifted away from it....
Please how do I contact this court. I have similar issue but mine is even worst because the father of my kids is nowhere to be found( he just disappeared) and I have been the one taking care of everything. I just need him to pay for upkeep and dissolve our marriage. I really need help
I pray that God will restore their marriage. Because if both of them are together they can be able to manage their family and take care of their children aa well. May God help them.
Really? So him committing adultery, abusing the woman by scamming her?
You have to be joking. The woman’s aid several times she does not want to be with him again:
@@Mariamsadventurekeep quiet 🤫🤫 please
@@FEComedies1na u suppose keep quiet
This Lazy man. Don't want to support the children 😔 I understand why she doesn't want him. He is no good and has been unfaithful. Shame on him😢 lazy Ant
Why would you say he's a lazy man?
What's your proof that he's lazy?
Please asked her ooh
@@fridaykalu5850 Imagine that?
He's not lazy. If my children are not in my house, I give no pin. If u want my money, you stay under my roof.
He married from a bad family.
Let them do co-parenting, because tomorrow he might not even see their money. Rubbish..
Let her family pay the fees. Bad family members
He is not the only lazy man there are plenty. The first thing they say. I'm not working. Only a fool would stay in a house where there is no PeAcE. Those days are gone stay for the children 😞
Man take responsibility of your children
It's not a must she comes back to you..
Only God knows how you both treated each that cost you your marriage
Very indecently dressed indeed!
To make the judge believe he is broke
I will say that if this man has no work and is ready to put in 20k on the feeding of two kids, then that should be considered to avoid pressure that will lead a man to break and entry!😮
who is supposed to feed his children? His kids, his responsibility. Like the judge says, he's not missing any meals. He's the father, find a way.
Judge, Nigeria is hard ooooh, take it easy on the man
The man should also take it easy on the woman
Men need to be men. That’s the problem in this world. God gave man the lot of hard work, but they don’t want to bare their responsibilities.
@@judechimaiwu7250what did the man say against the woman in this court ?
So the woman should suffer abi?
Stay strong man, God will see you through.
She will surely stay strong for herself and her children. God got them.
A man who have you in the marriage would have bought the land in boths name
So your biggest problem is the identity on the land documents?
@@michaelwhite8768land identity is bigger than the marriage to her.
It's a proof of love to her. See how she talk
So she can claim the land with her police Brother??
@@kaluafasi8737her money oo
How does verdict get passed without hearing from the second party?
Don't forget she had a petition and the man responded. It takes 2 to tango. No need to waste time bcos the only issue was to rule on how to take care of the kids and provide access to them. The rules are clear.
Please always show the phone number of the court and email because of those of us in diaspora can take advantage of the court service
Father in-law and cold what GOD has join together let know man separate please I beg oooo
That man was suppose to be sent home, no court allows such kind of dressing
This Judge is intimidated by men.
If she sent him home then the woman's case will be delayed and this might be the 1st time he is coming to court. The judge already told him that the dressing is inappropriate and if he does that again then send back with fines
The man will pay school fee, medicals, feeding. What is the woman providing? Since she's the one who left the marriage. The judge is biase
She is housing d kids n responsible for them on a daily basis. Bathing them, cooking, dressing them up, their homework, their security. And much more! They r his kids - he is not doing her a favor by taking care of HIS OWN kids
Very good question. She decided to leave because she felt she is capable to care for the kids
@@aeiou0123I would have asked has she married someone else. If she has his financial responsibilities need to be based on her and the new husband income.
Mr,"to the glory of God"pay upkeep money period
He wants to squeeze the children because of their mother who left him
Child support should be means tested. Your comprehensive monthly income is used as one of the bases in determining how much you should pay.
This!!
And men shouldn't be sole providers where the women earn a living. #MyTwoCents
@laurettabrooks exactly what I said in my comment, about what assessments is she using to come to many of her conclusions? Our laws should be fact-based, sadly it's emotional-based, hence the unless none stop crying many Nigerian women employ to seem like they are the victim.
@@sol_4real Exactly!
I hate that a number of the judgments are biased in favour of the women under the guise of 'looking out for the children'.
As it stands the economic situation in Nigeria is tough, hence it is completely unfair to demand a man with limited means to care for children alone when the other parent isn't dead.
@@laurettabrooksbut he won't be caring for the children alone, did you notice the judge didn't ask him to pay house rent and the transport money to take the kids to school?
Even though I agree with you, I believe people should not joke with their marriages because of side chick. If he was not into extramarital affairs, he will not be in this mess Imagine a woman supports car purchase, land purchase and other support in the home. Yet, the man could still find solace in the chest of another woman. Everyone should work on their marriages because the husband and wife being together in love is the best. Well, I feel for the man sha.
Man work and be responsible.E get why . If you cant take responsibility jsut remain single. .lets not bring chiildrn to come and suffer . Every child deserve a better life.
Your wife gave you money to buy a land and car, and you didn't bother to mention her name on the document. You go ahead and start keeping side-hen.
This man only missed what he was getting from this woman. That is the truth.
If it was for love, he should have valued the children's well-being as much.
that is too much for a man without a stable job.that lady has someone in her life already.if you think life is green on the other side,think again.women see in the future not the present
Why not watch and listen to the video again before you comment? That was what that was claimed earlier, but from what I heard, she didn't give her nay money for those items. And for the car, he said it belongs to someone else and the owner had withdrew the car from him already... Get the facts right please
@@DjZandathat's not the same car that was mentioned, and nowhere did he deny that she gave him money
Chief judge
Una go just enter comment and say what you have no knowledge about, even the judge refuses to say anything about it...broken marriage is not just what u can speak for any because there are always more to it that said...
I love her judgment
Very nice judgement, u are doing well Madam. ❤❤❤❤
For few year back he has not be caring for the children., but he leave all bills to the wife alone, if the woman should come back will he not take care of her nd kinds, or was he not giving his girl fruend money, .
George Asaolu judgement give me guss bums she is just an angel❤
Divorce is very complicated issues in life of a man sometimes especially when your ex took you to court in the issues of paying children bills that one gangan na the problem it may be the time you're broke court we begin to call you for the children's bill's
What kind of judgemen is this, why'd you give the woman a chance to talk so she should air her mind, air our what is paining her, it's not healthy for her to just bottle everything inside.
Why not hear both sides before giving your decision. Both parties must be heard first!!!
So Grace you don't want the man to see his Children?
Men go tru alot but they hardly speak out may God help us🙏🙏🙏
After talking for the entire video 😂😂. The ex wife hardly said anything
Man:
Despite what people watch and hear, comprehension is poor for many. The man is definitely at fault, even from his words.
Imagine your wife giving you money to buy car for you both and gave you money and you bought a land for yourself and put your name only on the property.
So he was driving Uber, and it’s not his own car? What happened to the car he had from the money the wife gave?
At the age this man is? Does he think the parents are the one to force the woman to stay in marriage? Is marriage by force? She said she no longer wants the marriage, yet the man wants family village meetings.
This man needs to leave this woman alone please.
Woman:
You cannot stop the man from seeing his children. Unless he is dangerous, on drugs and other serious safe guarding concerns.
If he is cheating (committing adultery), and you no longer feel safe to be intimate with your husband, you should leave the marriage. However, you should ensure you have evidence and not wrongfully accuse him.
300k car can't be fit for Uber madam. Delete that part.
@@P_bliss I cannot delete that part, until I have enough info. The lady did not even speak much.
She has given more than 300K. If money can be fit for buying land to put in your own name. Then Oga, Uber can be included.
The husband needs to wake up to the reality. No woman is going to support you, while you cheat and she provides for the family. That is abnormal.
@@MariamsadventureHmmmm you've said it all
I just love the calmness of judges.Funmi
Is like this woman is doing the do in back
Judge ma , you did not allowed the woman to say anything but you promised to allow her to say something and you went ahead and give judgment why?
Why was the husband allowed to dress so casual in Court?
Very inappropriate dressing. I was surprised to see him enter the courtroom dressed that way.
That's too much for the man, the judge should have agreed with 20k
He won't pay anything bcus he doesn't have anything n nothing will happen
@@victorezeagu1893I hope you ain’t married cos ur comment shows how irresponsible of a husband and father you will become
Why are people here acting like school fees and hospital bills are all kids need to survive. Children need way more than that on a daily bases. 40000 is not that much to take care of kids in this economy. So the kids should starve because the dad wants to play hanky panky. Claiming because he wants her back she should run back. Why will a woman not want to be with the father of her kids. There is a reason behind.
Why don't you offer him job? Are you deaf or blind to hear or see that an average Nigerian live in less than one dollar a day and that was before the current exchange rate. Those women that don't wear earrings have not dealt with you before that's why, very wicked sets of humans.
Nigeria with God matter ,as if God is a man.
Please leave God out of nonsense.
Why silent the woman???😢😢😢😢😢
Why should he go and be chasing other women?
What's de proof. N do u expect him to be masturbating
“I don’t have a job now, but to the glory of God…” bla bla bla. Oga, get a job first.
To the glory of which God my brother 😅😅😅
My prayer for the man is for him to get a job and be able to stand as a man so that he can leave this situation.. he can go into event securities and night club securities.. She definitely got fed up with taking care of the responsibilities..‘unfortunately if it was the other way round the man would have been abused for not wanting to marry the broke woman again
What exactly do you men want. Oh I forget ,women as your slaves. One minute you want a traditional marriage where the woman worship s you,does all house work, cooking and childcare. So in that situation should she also run around to look for money to care for both you and the children.?? We refuse to allow you to kill us.
My dear run for your dear life
When you have worked yourself to death, he will still even be following other women while you are in that hell.
You see this is the unfortunate way that we have been raised in Nigeria, to think that the man must carry all the responsibilities in the family. The children belong to both parties and a husband and wife are one, it should not matter who makes more money; the common objective is to make the family successful. It is so sad how finances keep ruining marriages, world over. May they find healing and peace for the children's sake
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Pls I want to ask a very harmless question, if the man pays school fess, hospital fees, and monthly upkeep for the kids what is the work or does it mean the mother has nothing to provide?
It is the responsibility of the man to provide all that his children need. Your wife can only assist.
She provides primary care. That is more than money. Much more
@@funmilayoishola-lemomu3769 wow more than money so why can't we reverse the case
Can the man even give birth to a baby, do they know what it means to be in the labour room. A woman risk her life to birth kids that is more than enough. But I still advise women to have Thier own money no matter what.
Poverty has killed Nigerian man
Same woman has been taking care of the children since the separation. Na wah oo
Why did the woman choose to go for just she thought he is having affair with another woman
If it were you will you continue with the marriage?
How about you focus on getting money and taken care of your family instead of chasing women. He is weak!!! But what else could he be. He is a NAB of society. 😂😂😂
HI, I am the first Amibor to comment . Oh 😅😅😅
This judgement is incomplete they never give the man they opportunity to say what he have we're all human being why forcing him on what he don't have ma still look into this case
So sad!
@@AyebakuroTech hmmmmm
It's shameful that school isn't free for children. In Aftica, poverty is real.
40k upkeep per month multiply by 12months is 480k, with school fees, hospital and etc isn't fair at all considering the fact that he is an Uber driver who doesn't own the car, how can he save for his life, pay his own bills, reach out to his parents if they are alive, find another woman to marry n etc when this one has left him? This judgement is totally wrong and not fair
But he had money to sustain a gf outside marriage?
Pls there is God.
@@preciousakhidue2799 What happened to God?
I'm 603rd
At least no one will contest with mw on that 😅
Your honor hope the children are not girls Sha me I don't want them to be with their father
Why isn't that couples always have issues of up keep for their children I don't get it
Nice judgement
Better yet, drop them kids off and move on with your life lady. 😂😂😂😂. I would
What a great mother you are… you get a trophy for Abandonment 🏆 cheers.
It 50/50. Pls this Court favors women, too much. Many women will lave their marriage because they can be favored..
Society now shame me that wants to look good
But will praise women for looking good also
Women also don't want ugly men but will shame men for looking good..
Bro just chase money
When u get it marry 15 wifes because na your money
If they don't like it they can use the door
Marital issues everywhere
This is a mumu man , is only the woman who knows what she is running away from
How do u know
@@Jeff-kz9jfWill a woman run away from a good man. Look at him he thinks he's a playboy.
Please ask the people coming to court to dress appropriately. From face caps to weird eyeglasses, it seems everything/anything goes here. Not cool.
So true dress code must be properly why sunglasses 😎 in a court no way for me 😖
The judge always addresses it….the glasses she allows if you have a eye condition…there is no inappropriate dressing that she doesn’t adress
Exactly.
She addresses all these. She does not allow it. Except one has eyes problem.
It's not a real court of law nor is she a real judge. They just use a court setting although she's a lawyer
She may have her own reason not to continue with the marriage anyway,
But,I think 40k is too much for uber driver to raise in a month,
He's not even the owner of the uber,
How much are they paying nigeria police as a salary?
I think judge funmi purposely do this to him because of his dressing,
Some businessmen didn't realise 40k in a month as a profits.
You people are giving more power to Nigeria women,training them how to turn their men to slavery,
Na wa oh.
Don't worry he has money for side chick.
He has money for side chick ,see his head I wish they could make it harder for men when it comes to this kind of case
I feel like the more children a couple have , the more the strain in a marriage. If you don't have money simply do not have children. Stay with your babe and enjoy sweet marriage without stress. One child can intensify stress, I can't imagine what more than one does...but Africans are not ready to talk about this. Sir, if that woman does not want you, please marry my sister. She is 42, beautiful no children independent. Doing great. That's if you are okay with marrying a non Nigerian. Thanks
You don't even know why the wife left him in the first instance, how can a sane woman leave her husband of about close to ten years, you should know it should be for a very tangible reason and you're already suggesting him for your sister, you don't even like your sister, so you think marriage validates a woman, it's happier to be unmarried atimes than staying in a toxic marriage, pls wish your sister the best and not this, she's late already, let her settle well
Even if it’s one, I tell my wife this that stress put strain on any marriage. So it’s to have less kids and be happy with themS
@@oluwasikuoluwatosin701 I agree you may be right
@@osazeimalele2256 you are 100% correct
My problem with many women is they don't even think for 1 second what a child and family actually needs. You will see them roaming the streets looking for men to devour. Ask them how to make ends meet or what to do to pay bills, they don't have any idea. Then when men comes around they want you to do what they can even think of doing
The Judge needs to parental responsibilities for the kids a balance phenomenon
40k monthly for upkeep , Healthcare insurance, school fees -Men responsibility
What’s the mother contribution? Shelter? Hummm
Marriage a blessing or ?
Men wise up
Emotional and psychological care ,her time etc money can’t buy all of that .
It is the duty of a man to provide for his children, the woman can only assist.
Yes . I forget. We are your slaves.
We suffer to have, care for the children, bring money. Marriage end ,the man wants to abandon the children to the mother 😂😂
You men are funny
God bless Judge Funmi Asaolu
What if a child that's still a minor say 10yrs old decides he/she wants to stay wt his dad instead... What happens then?
She's still underage to make a decision. The court makes the decision. The only way if u can prove that the mother is psychologically unfit or the mother is unhealthy or the mother willingly gives the father custody .
Marriage is something in this country...
Not all
If you marry correctly with the guidance of God you will enjoy your marriage .
The issue with most marriages is the fact that most couples to be place more focus on carnalities.
When a woman is done, she is Done! Mr. 6 pack with very muscular arms.Hmmm! Time and money to spend time building body🤣
Omo I don't pray to get divorce in my life
Life isn't fair to men. Upon the emotional tuture, this man is going true. People are still insulting him on the comment section. He still loves her, but the woman family is the brain behind everything because they want his property, stay strong man I will be praying for you
If u lov a woman u don't cheat on her.
Stop siding evil.
If it's d woman dat keeps a boyfriend, will u side d woman?
U don't know d risk we women face wen u men hv girlfriends or 2nd/3rd wife. If u want 2hv multiple relationships, b open frm d onset. Let d person know u r a fuck-about , u can't b faithful so d person is aware & accepts or not.
U don't marry someone & start cheating upandan. Do u know how many diseases r out there? If u want 2cheat, stay on ur own & cheat. Infct carry prostitutes & fck upandan.
Do u know d emotional torture d woman has bin going tru?
Just imagine knowing dat ur husband is ontop anoda woman, fcking her. It hurts ! Dat's wot d woman endured while married 2him.
I can understand your point. However, I do think women have it worse, especially single mothers and married women who face abuse.
Hundreds of women die daily because of domestic violence. So your statement is quite bold
@@Mariamsadventureright
@@Mariamsadventure go and check well, some of the causes of domestic abuse, is the evil mouth and wicked heart of the women. But they will not tell you that. A person that controls his or her mouth keeps his own life. How many women can control what comes out of their mouth
I don't like as she judged this matter
Once you are born into this life as a Man, Life is already leading you by 1-0
I keep on missing the live show. :( Why is he showing his bare shoulders in court?
Cos he thinks he’s sexy
I need the contact of this court
The judge shouldn't have indulged that man's manner of dressing, she should have sent him away to go and put on appropriate attire. Didn't they tell him what the dress code is? Did he think he was going to the gym? Naija.