Is he RIGHT TO QUIT? - Josh Tan Reacts to CNA Insider "I Spent 14 Years As A Stay-At-Home Dad"

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  • Опубліковано 3 жов 2024

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  • @UltraUber
    @UltraUber 3 місяці тому +13

    I want to encourage the dad in the video. It’s easier said than done, but ignore noises and nasty comments, especially so when they dont contribute to your family income. Jiayou!

  • @kaliyaperumaldeepan85
    @kaliyaperumaldeepan85 3 місяці тому +3

    This video is fantastic. How many dads will stay home to full on take care of his son. He also faced all the criticism. It is not easy to take care of your son that is facing health issues. Good job and bravo to him.

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому

      Yes the amount of criticism I'd imagine is bad

  • @TheZyphre
    @TheZyphre 3 місяці тому +3

    to add on to josh's tips on starting a taichi youtube channel. if his son is interested to get involved, he could possibly inherit the channel from dad in the future, which may help alleviate anxiety on son's future income source.

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому +1

      Yes exactly. Let it start to be a side hustle

  • @david888a
    @david888a 3 місяці тому +7

    You play with the cards u dealt with,be it $6K or $10K, what about others facing the same situations n making much less? With a big decision such as this, the couple weighs their pros n cons n come to a decision.
    One of my friend who’s daughter has Down syndrome decided to quit work n look after her n that’s in the 80s where there’s no support of this illness from the Sg Gov in terms of schools etc etc n he was in his early 30s. He is 70+ now n still looking after her fortunately he became a millionaire investing in stocks in the 90s. He sold his landed property in Sg for $3.8M a few years ago n bought a $1.1 M condo. Life dealt him a good set of cards….😂😂😂😂

  • @jasonlim4512
    @jasonlim4512 3 місяці тому

    yes, nvr be too quick to judge who are unemployed, who dun wan to side hustle, dun want to take a 2nd job.

  • @philipchew640
    @philipchew640 3 місяці тому

    Who are we to judge other ppl

  • @chengjm7696
    @chengjm7696 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Josh, sorry I hv a question on S’pore savings bond. May I know when is the best time to redeem? Beginning of the month? Many thks

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому +1

      No diff, it will pay start next month. Closing is on end of month. This time it’s 25june

    • @chengjm7696
      @chengjm7696 3 місяці тому

      Josh, many thks

  • @jcsan8071
    @jcsan8071 3 місяці тому +2

    I am proud of the Dad. Whoever critise him are shallow. Money is not everything

  • @annagoh2527
    @annagoh2527 3 місяці тому

    The husband staying home definitely make a lot of sense since wife is making higher income and also get lots of tax exemption from working mum child care relief. Man don't get much child tax relief. This is such out-dated tax relief when it is so normal for woman /wife to be working nowsday. Such tax relief should be shared among the couple instead.

  • @jamesk6673
    @jamesk6673 3 місяці тому

    10K income per month do you infer nett or before cpf & tax payables (giro)?

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому +1

      Not as a hard rule James. Just a suggestion.
      Median household income in SG with CPF is around $10k.
      I believe, with experience on the ground, that below that, its hard to save for a couple retirement

  • @thomaslee5477
    @thomaslee5477 3 місяці тому

    The family with double income the children may have no bonding with one of the parent, which suppose to be example to them. The children are closer to the maid or grandparents which may spoil them.

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому

      That really depends actually. Ive two young boys w me

  • @yokeling2567
    @yokeling2567 3 місяці тому

    I'm very agreed with the husband's sacrifice. you don't expect a paid in maid to do beyond that what is in their own flat/house, do you? how about the wife? can she drive her son around, talk to the doctor make decisions regarding finance and medical decisions. cannot right?

  • @ralfkhoo2164
    @ralfkhoo2164 3 місяці тому +1

    Every family has its own woes
    Probably should just keep those nasty comments to yourself

  • @jackyjacky4220
    @jackyjacky4220 3 місяці тому

    There is too many things that is not discussed in this video. Normally both parent will be working and engage a maid to help out.

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому

      For special needs child, a parent being around may still be needed

  • @tedchandran
    @tedchandran 3 місяці тому

    Jai Hind. Many high flyers could even divorce their spouses rather than allowing them to become homemakers.

  • @DannyKhiew
    @DannyKhiew 3 місяці тому

    Its my dream to become a stay home father

    • @joshconsultancy
      @joshconsultancy  3 місяці тому +2

      That sounds throllish?

    • @DannyKhiew
      @DannyKhiew 3 місяці тому +4

      No. I'm really working hard to quick my full time job by 45 and take care my children

    • @tzltzl574
      @tzltzl574 3 місяці тому

      Primary caregiving is a respectable job!