Women just need to embrace loneliness coz that’s the future of majority of them and us men we need to INVEST our money buy stocks and shares In companies that make Antidepressants coz these women be popping them like they CANDY
🤣🤣brah this chick at Walmart was making hella eye contact with me.. I kept catching her tryna look wen I ain’t looking from a distance…so wen she walk by me I said something she smile an kept walking like I was gonna leave my basket an chase her if you interested just stop walking an have a conversation…wen I was younger not gone lie I wudda followed her tryna talk ..I don’t give 2 fcks now lol on my purpose …some these females weird
The only time I approach a girl is when I know she will reciprocate my energy. I’m more attracted to the girls who are a little more straightforward because they don’t waste my time.
What’s crazy is women will do the same stuff they claim is “weird” like following someone they like around or at work they’ll start talking to you all day when you’re minding your own business but because it’s a woman it’s acceptable behavior.
Bro I was at a damn ATM machine and this white girl (maybe like 19 or 20, im actually 32 years old) came by the part of the machine I was using got down, and acted like she was looking for something.... Crazy....
Straight facts lol. They even get mad af or send you on a guilt trip if you reject them, don't let their friends be around for the rejection either, they gonna clown you to boost her rejected feelings.
Crazy how the women with PHD’s have some of the most idiotic logic… and averagely educated women (I highly assume she is) have the most common sense. 🤔
Yeah like woman told me back in the day you can have all the diploma you want it dosent make you intelligent it just show you have a good memories to remember the lesson🤷🏾♂️
A degree just means you sat in a class and remembered what you were told... it doesn’t equate to real world smarts. I was trying to teach this PhD how I manage my business and how I run it and she couldn’t put together anything until I explained it to her like she was an employee
The problem isn't the fact that men approach women, its how they're doing it, being the main issue, a lot of men can't accept no, and often leads to violence, catcalling is also a pretty common thing as well, no both of these aren't inherent to men, but society is responsible for this as well as men themselves,
@@kharma1815 So now all of a sudden men are the main problem huh? Your talking about a small group of men who assault women because they couldn’t handle rejection. It pisses me of when people use this argument because women use it as an excuse to act like a complete B**tch to men when all they are trying to do is respectfully approach and talk to her.
If I see a woman staring me down like a weirdo, Imma just keep it moving. If she’s truly interested, she can initiate a conversation. Everything is a game to them, they stare you down like a creep and when you approach them, they’ll act like you don’t exist. And when the men they really want don’t pay them no attention, they get mad about it. They created this mess, now they have to live with it😂😂🍿
So many good points in this, its crazy how u can literally be married and in love with a female and she still wants the attention of other guys to boost her ego...
And they wonder why they can’t keep a guy. All the attention whoring on social media, the guy thinks, ‘She’s keeping her options open. I’m outta here’. Then she’s left bawling her eyes out with her 10 cats, wondering (again) where it all went wrong.
IT'S NOT JUST EGO SOMETIMES WE GET COMFORTABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND WE LOOSE OURSELF. WE STOP DOING THINGS TO BUILD OUR CONFIDENCE. THEN WHEN OUR PARTNER AIN'T SHOWING US THAT ATTENTION. WE HAVE TO COME OUT OF OUR SHELLS TO SEE IF WE STILL GOT IT. THAT MAKES US FEEL LIKE WE STILL HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER OUR MEN.
Speacially in the gym guys that’s when u have to not give them no attention. I have went up to many women that gave me choosing signals but they were attention whores and rejected me. It’s crazy out here.
Right, never speak to any woman in the gym. I don’t even talk to women that approach me in the gym. They can talk to me on phone/one-on-one etc. but not with an audience
@@BRockin25 lol that's kinda extreme, you can chit chat here and there near the end of your workouts if y'all are both interested but I wouldn't shoot my shot then and there.
I get that different strategies work for different people, but for me, what is there to chat about? I prefer women who are direct and willing to put in work. I weed out those who don’t live like that, and am conscious of how they use surroundings for their own benefit.
@@GameN3rdz Hmmm, every time I say that “pick me’s” like this need to be wifed, they ALWAYS already have a boyfriend more times than not. I guess they’re doing what they’re supposed to in order to be cuffed and not being a bird 🤷🏾♂️
Bruh, you and I are in the same boat. It’s amazing not validating these females like they are the prize. Nah, we are the prize and they need to show, have, or bring some sort of value to even get me to consider an approach! Keep the vibes going my G.
fr man i cut off my ex for not making up her mind about dating and because i’m not approaching she hmu every 2-3 days going “i’m alive” then i just say ok til she makes up her mind. not giving my attention out to nobody but money rn.
fr I see some of my friends still chasing random females and getting rejected. then look at me weird because I aint doing the same lol foh these females ain't getting the validation from me
@@GQJamaal BIG FAX it's so funny when these females realize your not that guy or (simp) thats gonna pay attention and chase them, their whole aura changes 😭
She’s absolutely right. I’m a confident guy but I saw a women who was showing me all the signs that she wanted me to approach her, but I didn’t because I didn’t want to seem like a creep, or a weirdo🤷🏾♂️
In my opinion i dont think women are attracted to majority of the everyday man bc of his height and etc. i just think they love the attention they get from dudes approaching them so they can reject him bc of her ego
Facts I haven’t approached a woman in years due to what she said. Every girl that’s been in my rotation the last few years either approached me first or gave blatantly obvious signs of interest. Get in the gym guys. Having a nice physique will do wonders for you. Don’t fall for the “I love dad bods” bs they spew on social media.
I’m 23 just got out of a relationship and been watching Steph for a few days now and every video i see no lies at all!! Great job G redpill is the hard truth I wish I knew early on saving men’s lives everyday solid shit!
Literally saw an example of this yesterday. This woman tweeted something like “where you live where men don’t approach you, it’s tiring with all these men wanting my number” but yet she posts a picture of her hands on her ass talking about “look at my nails 🤪” knowing the purpose was to show off that dump truck, and she was loving the thirsty male comments that came with it. Retweeting them and laughing at them. Doesn’t want a man but does things for validation. SMH
Women just started doing too much...I had a girl stairing at me so hard even this random dude asked me "u gonna holla at her"....when I tried she walked away like "no"!!...at that point I was completely done....I'll never approach a woman again..they just too weird..and they will try to downplay ur success..."oh u gotta mansion, that's kool ...my cousin dated a guy with a mansion but his was just a little bigger"...meanwhile she working at TMobile
Facts 💯 💯 ayesha curry, man I used to be married and over heard a group of wives mine included talking bout they understand her and these was Israelite women supposed to be in the truth modest shamefaced and virtuous (proverbs 31) long story short I got the fuck outta there
Just turned 28 two weeks back. Girls have been buying me drinks since I was allowed in bars tbh (granted, I was a professional dancer and I get fucking ridiculous when I'm out so that helps). I've never seen buying a girl a drink "work". Ever. Not even once.
@@austinjrb I fucked most of my 20s and had a kid in high school. I’m just getting my shit together. Quit smoking nicotine, weed, and alcohol. Went from 150lbs to 175lbs (I’m 5’11). I won’t say I’ve struggled per say, but it would’ve been cool to get 8s, 9s, and 10s but it is what it is. Never did the buy a drink thing but my personality and charisma pull it. and we all grew up without a phone so I’m sure we all have some level of social skills. Let’s go boys
@@bmwright1991 Only people in fitness can really grasp the struggle of gaining weight, because most people are obsessed with losing it. 10lbs is enough to make you look noticeably different... so 25 up is a transformation. Good shit my guy! Sometimes charisma and personality is all it takes though. We've all got a story of losing a girl to men who weren't even close to us in the looks, but their game was on point. And we've all seen a ugly dude walking around with a stunner. That shit counts for a lot. If you didn't give a fuck about rejection, pulling a dime or a 9 or an 8 would just be a matter of frequency/proximity. How often are you around them and talking to them? The more the better. That was one perk I had when I was dancing professionally, otherwise I probably would've been stuck dating average girls. Just keeping it a buck.
A women can throw you choosing signals because she sees you as a trick or a sucka. I used to work at Walmart and all the female boosters used to flirt with me everyday lol
No no my friend yes she does understand something, but let the milk go all the sour make women run too us don’t protect them from who they want to be no matter what they know or say.
Too much visible tattoos..nah she can protect herself. Just cause they are now feeling the effects of their behaviours don't mean they really want you.
Reminds me of Steph Curry's wife complaining how she don't feel sexy, because she didn't want to be known for wholesome and positive energy lmao. Meanwhile all she want is outside thirsty energy to stroke her ego. Even when women win, they find a problem with how they feel about the win.
My girl said “ men are trash” I’m a strong independent black woman and as soon as I took a step back she got mad at me… Disrespected me.. called me out my name and Still has contact with her ex.. every time I confront her she has no accountability… This woman is like a lot of women with her thinking which is why I’m exercising my options to find someone that’ll treat me better but what should I do in this case fellas?
Drop her never tolerate disrespect cause once it starts it never stops plus she still messing with her ex u might as well drop her he probably the imprint
She not your friend girl. You as a woman know women be on that bullshit. Hate on you on the low. Don't act like them? They judge you baby girl. Cut your loses. God does things for a reason 🙏
Its just like the weird thing girls do when they friend zone the guy they like and say they aren't into him and become confused when he leaves 🤦. "Why didn't he keep pushing for me? I was gonna say yes eventually😭" All games and validation They love the process not the guy himself. They'll take attention over love any day just to make them feel better.
Bruh if you stuck in the friendzone dont even communicate no more 😂 they’ll be tryna beg for your attention again and expose their “feelings” towards you. Dont fall for the bait tho, gotta let her know she aint special and you can get other girls.
@@Funkylover-sl7ew once the girl gets humbled and realizes she ruined all her own opportunities with good guys they stop playing games. But by that time they already have like a body count of 50 and are like age 27-30 and think its finally time to get that good man that tried to date her years ago back when she was in Hot girl summer mode.
@@Funkylover-sl7ew absolutely man, all we can do is play our cards right and adapt like we always have. They'll fall in line eventually as long as we stay in control.
Why aren't women being labeled "Perverts" for wearing revealing clothes that distracts men who had no intentions of being sexually distracted in the first place. Can we start saying as men that this is a form sexual assault on our bodies and mind. When we go places we just want to complete our tasks, so why do we have to be subjected to women who don't care about our bodies and mind? That is sexual assault...where is our Hashtag so we can be respected?
bro ty I feel at home here, like i be just tryna to have a nice peaceful day then I see nothing but legs/thighs/cheeks/bust popping all out. ofcourse I'm gonna look I'm a heterosexual man, then I gotta struggle with my self-control not to talk to her, but I've been REAL proud of myself lately lol
I had to go off on a female in the ⛽ store the other day because she asked my cousin why he was 👀 at her, she said, it's impolite to stare, I said " Hold up! I up downed you too, ain't no dresses in our closets! " I had the whole line cracking up! " it went from compliment to embarrassment just that quick, but 1 thing about it she wasn't going to destroy my fam self esteem in front of me like I was going to do nothing? Listen hear my brothers when they get disrespectful when you're complimenting them, you can be disrespectful too! Hurt they feelings and the next time they 👀 you they going to be jocking you! Call the girl that look better than you ugly if she try to go off on you, 👀 her 😭
Even if there was dudes getting at those chicks that night they would still find reasons to turn dudes down. You really cannot win nowadays with most black women. That’s why most black dudes with money getting at latinas and peckerwoods for a piece of mind. I have been hearing a lot of chicks complaining lately about dudes not approaching anymore and I do mean a whole lot. The market is finally making a much needed correction that’s been long over due
I think this pandemic opened a lot of men up to their game and brothers aren’t having it. Like Steph said why would I smash if you just want validation and bring nothing to the table. You don’t want a broke guy. Well I don’t want a broke women
It's being perpetuated like, "You've got to be super, super respectful to women, you can't invade her space, you can't talk to her, you can't approach her," and then it's kind of like, well what's left?'
The majority of the modern day woman needs to make up their damn minds. If she doesn't know what she wants, then how in the hell she expects a man to know?
Steph you was spitting all FACTS!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯. But I'm done trying to approach women it's not even worth it anymore smh 😒😑. I'm just focused on chasing success!!
Factsss man! This is exactly why the theme is “focus on improving yourself fellas”;because once you build yourself up;you become the prize. Mentally and spiritually. You got so many women out here that think there’re a prize but barely do a lick of anything to show improve for it; but yet they want to be treated as such. Your time is valuable and If she don’t respect/appreciate that’s their loss. Not the other way around.
Are you telling me that women are trying to tell us how to approach them? We know that already but women have put so many boundaries into place it’s starting to hurt themselves. They need us more than we need them. It’s always been like that but we have simps out here that’s screwing their heads up, given them fault entitlement. So going forward the women has to started saying hello first!
I say it's perfect that so many women have single handedly ruined the dating world, and turned a lot of men off, to the point that we don't want to initiate conversations with women much, anymore. Now, it's your turn, ladies. Get you some confidence and come up to us. Now you try putting your self esteem on the line for us, day in and day out.
Best thing I have learned so far. Always have fun and smile, even if they don’t fwy. Women love that shit and get interested when you’re enjoying yourself. Even if they won’t approach you, they do what’s called spatial awareness, and find ways to get closer to you without being direct. Stay woke 😂
Women DO WANT to be approached, but ONLY BY CLEARLY HIGH VALUE MEN.....such as Scammers(Swipers), Celebrities, Athletes, or Someone who HAS VISUALLY EXPENSIVE THINGS that gives off the PERCEPTION that A man can Afford Luxurious things. You're Welcome
Fair enough to the chick at the beginning - understanding and open minded. This absolutely wont get her shot by modern feminists saying she wasnt women enough.
My mother expects me to bring home a black women here in the US or in her home country 🇹🇹 but she doesn’t know that today’s modern black women are masculine, demanding non-submissive wild standards not even traditional because they are influenced by Meg & Cardi B
Hate to break it to you but black woman have been masculine like this since the 1970s bro. If u notice single motherhood in the black community started rising up around 1975 because of them acting so masculine
@@y.e.a.h5634 nah we not feminine buddy we just not approaching women anymore. If you like a dude approach him game is changed. We won’t scream harassment when women approach us to much to lose these days approaching women.
You got it right on trying to approach women trying to get a scarcity mindset out every time I have a chance try to talk to a girl.Been working on myself for a whole year I got a car I got a house I got a good job I don’t know what these girls want Sometimes I tell myself why approach but keep it
Bro, at this rate, the world is going to be so depressed in terms of dating, love and healthy relationships. It’s going to be like watching what some of our parents went through x 100
God bless this girl's heart. Finally a sensible woman (who isn't virtue signaling, or shaming men) on tik tok, that's spitting some logic and truth about what these delusional and entitled women out here, have done to cause men to not want to approach them anymore.
There is an old proverb that goes like this: Trying To hold a woman by her word is like trying to catch an eel by its tail. In addition: Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes hoping to pull out an eel. He who has a woman, has an eel, they are as a capricious as the seas. Good luck. Like gecko said, you need a friend, get a dog.
This is something I have learned about women…. They don’t really know what they want, they’re indecisive which is a default problem. Something as simple as knowing what to eat is really hard for them to decide… so when u give em what they want, they still complain.. women are more emotional and emotions change quickly and rapidly so it’s never easy to settle on one thing bc once u get it, u may feel a different way about it now. Idk if that made sense but yeah..😅
I agree with everything both of them saying but at the same time jus because a woman stared at you doesn’t mean she want you to approach her, maybe she jus is admiring your beauty, you can admire how someone looks without bein interested in them🙄I’ve done it plenty of times where I have looked at a man who is attractive, but I have a man so never wanted anything from him, he was jus attractive. Fellas do this too, if you have a woman and you see another fine woman don’t mean you actually want her you jus admire her beauty. It’s up to the man to find out if she’s looking because she wants you or jus admiring you🤷🏽♀️
Now I understand what’s going on from the man’s perspective, thank you. It’s making it harder for women like me who are ready to date for marriage and actually want to be approached, but are not being approached. I would appreciate an average everyday hardworking spiritually grounded good man any day, especially after the trash dudes I’ve dealt with in the past. And I’ve only entertained the problematic ones bc they were the ones who approached & chased me the hardest. Well not anymore. Plus I was friend-zoned by the good ones I threw my shot at so… 🤷🏾♀️
I only approach females if I see strong choosing signals, but other than that I rather just let it happen naturally or organically. alot of females out here ain't worth the validation from me personally
@@Kari_Michele the main ones for me depending on the situation and environment are #1 when she looks at me more then 3times(some guys go for it at just 2 glaces tho).#2 when she stares at me not caring who's seeing her do it.#3 when she finds a way to get closer&closer next to me. hope that helps you😌
@@cocolokoflacco Yea it helps and I’ve done that. But still nada. Pretty much friend-zoned I guess or they were still clueless to the obvious hints or they just weren’t interested.
@@Kari_Michele I feel you. don't force it tho your husband is out there you just gotta find him. you ever tried dating sites like Christian mingle or anything like that?
4:30 - 5:15 that's f***ing true steph, I responded to her story "wys missis" she said in her stories "new people chat with me" and I said wys missis. At that point, my screen was full of JUST ME sending my introduction, I think she ss it (and I also just peeped that she did share it on her gc oh look what I made this guy do) and I just sent, at that point, the straight face emoji like I'm tryna slide to you and you ain't even responding... When I get my phone imma reply to this comment and share wagwan.
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Wow she actually makes sense. You can thank RADICAL Feminism & the Bandwagoners who follow their stupid lead.
That sh# called SEXUAL HARASSMENT
Women just need to embrace loneliness coz that’s the future of majority of them and us men we need to INVEST our money buy stocks and shares In companies that make Antidepressants coz these women be popping them like they CANDY
Man… you need a mic bro.
Chicks will follow you around a whole store and not say one single word shit is hilarious.
This happened to me the other day
🤣🤣brah this chick at Walmart was making hella eye contact with me.. I kept catching her tryna look wen I ain’t looking from a distance…so wen she walk by me I said something she smile an kept walking like I was gonna leave my basket an chase her if you interested just stop walking an have a conversation…wen I was younger not gone lie I wudda followed her tryna talk ..I don’t give 2 fcks now lol on my purpose …some these females weird
@@OgeeThegodfather fact bro
On everything bro facts
@@OgeeThegodfather lmaooo
“you gotta be rich to mess with a broke chick in america”🗣
I think the same 🤦🏾
🔥
Ain’t that some shit
🤣 🤣 🤣 Truth
damn
There are two ways to make a woman unhappy. Not giving her what she wants and giving her what she wants.
🤣 facts
Gotta find that balance fasho fasho
What a conundrum
Jesus
Which is why I’ll be the side dude so I don’t gotta worry bout this shit
The only time I approach a girl is when I know she will reciprocate my energy. I’m more attracted to the girls who are a little more straightforward because they don’t waste my time.
Same💯
sameeeeeee
ditto
Exactly u explained my whole setup
Exactly bro, it's better like that because no one time will be wasted. You get straight to the point.
What’s crazy is women will do the same stuff they claim is “weird” like following someone they like around or at work they’ll start talking to you all day when you’re minding your own business but because it’s a woman it’s acceptable behavior.
@I am Orisa Eda Never change yourself for anyone but yourself and I agree with your beliefs they align with mine.
Bro I was at a damn ATM machine and this white girl (maybe like 19 or 20, im actually 32 years old) came by the part of the machine I was using got down, and acted like she was looking for something....
Crazy....
@Icewulf lol crazy bruh
It's called Babylon & America bro .... That's wut this place iz called bro . 👏👏💯
Straight facts lol. They even get mad af or send you on a guilt trip if you reject them, don't let their friends be around for the rejection either, they gonna clown you to boost her rejected feelings.
Crazy how the women with PHD’s have some of the most idiotic logic… and averagely educated women (I highly assume she is) have the most common sense. 🤔
Yeah like woman told me back in the day you can have all the diploma you want it dosent make you intelligent it just show you have a good memories to remember the lesson🤷🏾♂️
Congrats on your brother making the finals my guy 💯🙌🏾😂
@@SMFCAWFAN he gonna win it too. Get your Argyle vests ready
A degree just means you sat in a class and remembered what you were told... it doesn’t equate to real world smarts.
I was trying to teach this PhD how I manage my business and how I run it and she couldn’t put together anything until I explained it to her like she was an employee
Degrees don't equal intelligence degrees just mean a person knows how to pass tests
Ask for something and complain when you get it. SMH
Show them heaven, she'll complain, show her hell, she'll offer to pay rent.
It's double talk
@@jamessimmons3921 🤔 Damn!
@@tonys9796 Damn is right.
That's women for you
It’s almost like women literally self sabotaging themselves from the good men on their grind Lmaoo. They are in for a rude awaking.
The problem isn't the fact that men approach women, its how they're doing it, being the main issue, a lot of men can't accept no, and often leads to violence, catcalling is also a pretty common thing as well, no both of these aren't inherent to men, but society is responsible for this as well as men themselves,
Half of women are forever alone in 2030
Only blk women
You just spoke some gospel Bro
@@kharma1815 So now all of a sudden men are the main problem huh? Your talking about a small group of men who assault women because they couldn’t handle rejection. It pisses me of when people use this argument because women use it as an excuse to act like a complete B**tch to men when all they are trying to do is respectfully approach and talk to her.
If I see a woman staring me down like a weirdo, Imma just keep it moving. If she’s truly interested, she can initiate a conversation. Everything is a game to them, they stare you down like a creep and when you approach them, they’ll act like you don’t exist. And when the men they really want don’t pay them no attention, they get mad about it. They created this mess, now they have to live with it😂😂🍿
don't forget to laugh back cus their reaction gets funnier when u dont give em validation 😂😂😂
exactly!!
So many good points in this, its crazy how u can literally be married and in love with a female and she still wants the attention of other guys to boost her ego...
And they wonder why they can’t keep a guy. All the attention whoring on social media, the guy thinks, ‘She’s keeping her options open. I’m outta here’. Then she’s left bawling her eyes out with her 10 cats, wondering (again) where it all went wrong.
First time huh
Im leaning on the ropes goin on the 4th round lol
Real relationships, should cancel social media, its the Bane of a relationship
IT'S NOT JUST EGO SOMETIMES WE GET COMFORTABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND WE LOOSE OURSELF. WE STOP DOING THINGS TO BUILD OUR CONFIDENCE. THEN WHEN OUR PARTNER AIN'T SHOWING US THAT ATTENTION. WE HAVE TO COME OUT OF OUR SHELLS TO SEE IF WE STILL GOT IT. THAT MAKES US FEEL LIKE WE STILL HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER OUR MEN.
To my younger brothers always remember 'women they seek privileges not equality'.
Noted 👌
A mouth full there Big Brother (pause).
Explain wtf that mean
@@MrSodaBelly basically they seek what’s gonna benefit them and how the situation can better them. Basically they are selfish
Based
Speacially in the gym guys that’s when u have to not give them no attention. I have went up to many women that gave me choosing signals but they were attention whores and rejected me. It’s crazy out here.
I be thinking about this so much since I’ve gotten myself together over the last year and can confirm this is true. Not all but most
Right, never speak to any woman in the gym. I don’t even talk to women that approach me in the gym. They can talk to me on phone/one-on-one etc. but not with an audience
@@BRockin25 lol that's kinda extreme, you can chit chat here and there near the end of your workouts if y'all are both interested but I wouldn't shoot my shot then and there.
I get that different strategies work for different people, but for me, what is there to chat about? I prefer women who are direct and willing to put in work. I weed out those who don’t live like that, and am conscious of how they use surroundings for their own benefit.
Facts be looking at staring more than 3 times then u approach them “ oh I gotta boyfriend “ like bitch you know what lol
She don’t even sound like a pick me just someone who understands both sides🤧
She taken
@@GameN3rdz Hmmm, every time I say that “pick me’s” like this need to be wifed, they ALWAYS already have a boyfriend more times than not. I guess they’re doing what they’re supposed to in order to be cuffed and not being a bird 🤷🏾♂️
Hard telling ; should still assume she a chameleon though
Idk if u taken I want see a ring am married.
Can someone explain to me what a 'pick me' is?
They want to be approached. Just not by us regular dudes. 😅 They wouldn't turn down Trey Songz no matter how "creepy" he came across.
Perfect example: R Kelly
No matter how many aexual accusations, they wont turn trey down fa sho
In there dreams
Or Chris brown lol
Usher either after that whole herpes situation though that was just a allegation
"You got to be rich to talk to a broke chick in America "💀😂that’s crazy
This truth is so valid 😂
Ong 😂😂
I felt that line 😂
Only black women think like that.. try different races of women totally different mindset
@Hold Your Own Nuts simps like you, why Blackwomen are confused. Make it hard for the average hard working man.
This how you know if men stop giving women attention they won’t know what to do with themselves
🤣🤣🤣facts
Women don’t even know how to feel about themselves until we tell them.
😂💯
Lesbian
Fascinating isn't it ???! 👀🔬🙏💯
I get called boujee for not approaching females now or just shutting them out in general. But this what they wanted and they can’t take it.
Bruh, you and I are in the same boat. It’s amazing not validating these females like they are the prize.
Nah, we are the prize and they need to show, have, or bring some sort of value to even get me to consider an approach!
Keep the vibes going my G.
fr man i cut off my ex for not making up her mind about dating and because i’m not approaching she hmu every 2-3 days going “i’m alive” then i just say ok til she makes up her mind. not giving my attention out to nobody but money rn.
“Fuck love get focused”
fr I see some of my friends still chasing random females and getting rejected. then look at me weird because I aint doing the same lol foh these females ain't getting the validation from me
@@GQJamaal BIG FAX it's so funny when these females realize your not that guy or (simp) thats gonna pay attention and chase them, their whole aura changes 😭
Remember approaching It's only creepy & harassment if the chick don't like you
She’s absolutely right. I’m a confident guy but I saw a women who was showing me all the signs that she wanted me to approach her, but I didn’t because I didn’t want to seem like a creep, or a weirdo🤷🏾♂️
You did the right thing 👌 fuck them
Had a chick in the liquor store bust out singing "you dont know my name" i thought to myself cuz u didnt tell me! Maybe next time -🤷
Yo someone needs to do a “UNTIL SHE BUUUUHHH” compilation.
For the culture!
@Ronald Mack GALLONS MOUTH WIDE OPEN AAHHHH
@@user-sj5rb7dc3c BICEP GUTS AHHH
I believe there is actually😂😂😂
😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄 🤣
look at the power of keeping your energy for yourself and for people who deserve it! now they scrambling! make em come to you
@@John28_ yh let em look from a far! dont take it to em!
Isaiah chapter 3 and chapter 4. Right on
@@sentrysize6187 yessir!!!!
This shit right here bro! All facts
@@MVRBFree 💯💯
In my opinion i dont think women are attracted to majority of the everyday man bc of his height and etc. i just think they love the attention they get from dudes approaching them so they can reject him bc of her ego
Yeah they love the attention that’s it, and then they’ll go sleep with a guy that pays them little to no attention
Oh yeah my sister and her sorority sisters told me straight up that women turn down men for an ego boost .
Correct
PRECISELY!!!
Facts
Facts I haven’t approached a woman in years due to what she said. Every girl that’s been in my rotation the last few years either approached me first or gave blatantly obvious signs of interest.
Get in the gym guys. Having a nice physique will do wonders for you. Don’t fall for the “I love dad bods” bs they spew on social media.
Will do 👍👍👍
I agree with this statement.
The dad bod thing never caught on with me. If they do like it, it's only to compare themselves to something that makes them feel less insecure.
"They Didn't Want Me Back Then Now I'm Hot They All on Me"
Remember *Never Take Them Back* 😤
@@GraveRave agreed, It’s classic gaslighting bro.
I’m 23 just got out of a relationship and been watching Steph for a few days now and every video i see no lies at all!! Great job G redpill is the hard truth I wish I knew early on saving men’s lives everyday solid shit!
Literally saw an example of this yesterday. This woman tweeted something like “where you live where men don’t approach you, it’s tiring with all these men wanting my number” but yet she posts a picture of her hands on her ass talking about “look at my nails 🤪” knowing the purpose was to show off that dump truck, and she was loving the thirsty male comments that came with it. Retweeting them and laughing at them. Doesn’t want a man but does things for validation. SMH
It disgusting
I see that shit all the time smh crazy
the ones who do shit like that is lame af and I treat em as such, idc how pretty she is
Hate is strong word but I’m very close to hating these Gump azz men out here!
Stop commenting on her post or give them attention. They’ll come back to reality
steph changed my life fr bruh
Shiiiiii thought I was the only one
Facts 💪🏾
Mines to bro 😎
Mines as well
No lies here
Lol "I cant bring no value to his life but it's his loss" 😂😂 walk right past these women if she ain't something you really want.
Women just started doing too much...I had a girl stairing at me so hard even this random dude asked me "u gonna holla at her"....when I tried she walked away like "no"!!...at that point I was completely done....I'll never approach a woman again..they just too weird..and they will try to downplay ur success..."oh u gotta mansion, that's kool ...my cousin dated a guy with a mansion but his was just a little bigger"...meanwhile she working at TMobile
True
I stopped chasing women for a while and started traveling,working out, I found a hobby and now I'm trying to start my own business
That's what I call LEVELING UP at best. Good luck, sir. 👍💯
Facts 💯 💯 ayesha curry, man I used to be married and over heard a group of wives mine included talking bout they understand her and these was Israelite women supposed to be in the truth modest shamefaced and virtuous (proverbs 31) long story short I got the fuck outta there
Yeah our Israelite sisters still have the worldly spirit on them ach very shamefaced
@betoquint619 everything was in english baby brain
Everyone’s just gunna be sad and single in like 5 years
Especially these females.
Hold the line gents.
Give them nothing they didn't earn.
@@jasonBGI on god
Speak for yourself lol
Investing in petco will be one of the best performing stocks in 5-10 years, all these 304’s buying a dog and dying alone
@@evanace4817 how do invest in petco bro
They hate men until you ask them about their brother and father 😐
And they just like us too
“Love yourself” . . .
“BUT, YOU GOTTA A BRAZILIAN BUTT LIFT !!!”
😭😂😭 G, I’M IN TEARS
"Buy me a drink", I been through that. But now that my young old ass is 28, hell tah the nah.
My young old ass 😂😂😂. I’m 29, what’s up my fellow millennial. Remember that time before phones existed?
Chill... I'm turning 28 next month 👴🏽
Just turned 28 two weeks back. Girls have been buying me drinks since I was allowed in bars tbh (granted, I was a professional dancer and I get fucking ridiculous when I'm out so that helps). I've never seen buying a girl a drink "work". Ever. Not even once.
@@austinjrb I fucked most of my 20s and had a kid in high school. I’m just getting my shit together. Quit smoking nicotine, weed, and alcohol. Went from 150lbs to 175lbs (I’m 5’11). I won’t say I’ve struggled per say, but it would’ve been cool to get 8s, 9s, and 10s but it is what it is. Never did the buy a drink thing but my personality and charisma pull it. and we all grew up without a phone so I’m sure we all have some level of social skills. Let’s go boys
@@bmwright1991 Only people in fitness can really grasp the struggle of gaining weight, because most people are obsessed with losing it. 10lbs is enough to make you look noticeably different... so 25 up is a transformation. Good shit my guy!
Sometimes charisma and personality is all it takes though. We've all got a story of losing a girl to men who weren't even close to us in the looks, but their game was on point. And we've all seen a ugly dude walking around with a stunner. That shit counts for a lot. If you didn't give a fuck about rejection, pulling a dime or a 9 or an 8 would just be a matter of frequency/proximity. How often are you around them and talking to them? The more the better. That was one perk I had when I was dancing professionally, otherwise I probably would've been stuck dating average girls. Just keeping it a buck.
To all the 304's:
“She is the equivalent of filth, thus I must treat her as such”
-Life is good 2:16
I see you that you read the good book
@@joshuaokaro773 yes the holy misogyny my brotha 🙏
Uhh where can I get a copy of the holy scripture my brothers?
Facts
For anyone wondering what a 304 is, type it on a calculator and flip it upside down
If she isn't giving signals then don't approach. They're still working on giving a smile.
But even when she giving signals u can still get denied lol these women just wanna feel good about themselves
A women can throw you choosing signals because she sees you as a trick or a sucka. I used to work at Walmart and all the female boosters used to flirt with me everyday lol
@@scinnyc 😂
@@scinnyc Lol... that’s the hood Walmart. Probably don’t even sell guns.
@@301tg8 California Walmarts haven't sold guns in years. And all the boosters are what made that Walmart hood lol.
Men on their purpose always win in the end 💸💪
Fr
Facts
A man chasing money will never run out of women, but a man chasing women will always run out of money.
@@y.e.a.h5634 unless you have billions. Lol
Big Facts
“You gotta be rich to mess with a broke chick” -stephiscold
not the 1st time he said it either.... and he is right
They're ruining it for the women who want Foodie calls and other free schitt!..... 🤣🤣🤣
We need to protect her at all costs 💯
Fo sho
Nope. She clearly belongs to the streets. She just hasn’t found any luck with men. She found out why and now she speaking up about it.
I don’t find her attractive but it’s nice to have women who are on our side !
No no my friend yes she does understand something, but let the milk go all the sour make women run too us don’t protect them from who they want to be no matter what they know or say.
Too much visible tattoos..nah she can protect herself. Just cause they are now feeling the effects of their behaviours don't mean they really want you.
Reminds me of Steph Curry's wife complaining how she don't feel sexy, because she didn't want to be known for wholesome and positive energy lmao. Meanwhile all she want is outside thirsty energy to stroke her ego. Even when women win, they find a problem with how they feel about the win.
her husband 6'3 NBA Player, Millionaire, but she want attention from us, broke ass regular dudes
Bruh anybody who know me know not to get me started on that Aeisha Curry bih...
"She wanna be famous"
My girl said “ men are trash” I’m a strong independent black woman and as soon as I took a step back she got mad at me… Disrespected me.. called me out my name and Still has contact with her ex.. every time I confront her she has no accountability… This woman is like a lot of women with her thinking which is why I’m exercising my options to find someone that’ll treat me better but what should I do in this case fellas?
ghost her ass, one thing you should never put up with is disrespect from a female.
Drop her never tolerate disrespect cause once it starts it never stops plus she still messing with her ex u might as well drop her he probably the imprint
Leave bro. Just came out your same situation. Dealing with the ex and disrespectful. It doesn’t get better trust me. Walk away while you still can.
She not your friend girl. You as a woman know women be on that bullshit. Hate on you on the low. Don't act like them? They judge you baby girl. Cut your loses. God does things for a reason 🙏
Leave that ish alone
Its just like the weird thing girls do when they friend zone the guy they like and say they aren't into him and become confused when he leaves 🤦.
"Why didn't he keep pushing for me? I was gonna say yes eventually😭"
All games and validation
They love the process not the guy himself.
They'll take attention over love any day just to make them feel better.
Bruh if you stuck in the friendzone dont even communicate no more 😂 they’ll be tryna beg for your attention again and expose their “feelings” towards you. Dont fall for the bait tho, gotta let her know she aint special and you can get other girls.
So how do sum guys get married or relationship s what's they tip
@@Funkylover-sl7ew once the girl gets humbled and realizes she ruined all her own opportunities with good guys they stop playing games. But by that time they already have like a body count of 50 and are like age 27-30 and think its finally time to get that good man that tried to date her years ago back when she was in Hot girl summer mode.
@@TJ-nj6bj lol this world is crazy
@@Funkylover-sl7ew absolutely man, all we can do is play our cards right and adapt like we always have. They'll fall in line eventually as long as we stay in control.
Why aren't women being labeled "Perverts" for wearing revealing clothes that distracts men who had no intentions of being sexually distracted in the first place. Can we start saying as men that this is a form sexual assault on our bodies and mind. When we go places we just want to complete our tasks, so why do we have to be subjected to women who don't care about our bodies and mind? That is sexual assault...where is our Hashtag so we can be respected?
Facts
You’re right. We gotta call them perverts. There’s kids out there and they’re dressed like that smh
Yup.
bro ty I feel at home here, like i be just tryna to have a nice peaceful day then I see nothing but legs/thighs/cheeks/bust popping all out. ofcourse I'm gonna look I'm a heterosexual man, then I gotta struggle with my self-control not to talk to her, but I've been REAL proud of myself lately lol
@@cocolokoflaccofrom now on i repeat to myself, "she wants the attention"........." she wants the atte..."
They want attention even if they are married, shout-out to Ayesha Curry...
"I jus want Wats fat back there"😂😂
This was honestly refreshing.
Breath of fresh air
dont be naive simps.
I had to go off on a female in the ⛽ store the other day because she asked my cousin why he was 👀 at her, she said, it's impolite to stare, I said " Hold up! I up downed you too, ain't no dresses in our closets! " I had the whole line cracking up! " it went from compliment to embarrassment just that quick, but 1 thing about it she wasn't going to destroy my fam self esteem in front of me like I was going to do nothing? Listen hear my brothers when they get disrespectful when you're complimenting them, you can be disrespectful too! Hurt they feelings and the next time they 👀 you they going to be jocking you! Call the girl that look better than you ugly if she try to go off on you, 👀 her 😭
Take no shit from the women that show no high interest or respect to you, just keep grinding 💯
Even if there was dudes getting at those chicks that night they would still find reasons to turn dudes down. You really cannot win nowadays with most black women. That’s why most black dudes with money getting at latinas and peckerwoods for a piece of mind. I have been hearing a lot of chicks complaining lately about dudes not approaching anymore and I do mean a whole lot. The market is finally making a much needed correction that’s been long over due
Yes sir! Spot on
I have strangely noticed something a little similar where I am too.
I think this pandemic opened a lot of men up to their game and brothers aren’t having it. Like Steph said why would I smash if you just want validation and bring nothing to the table. You don’t want a broke guy. Well I don’t want a broke women
it's not only bw
I agree... In the club where theres every type of guy these women would want get no play either... Lol
Bro said “WHATCHU GON DO ABOUT IT!” @7:30 IM DEAD 😂😭😭☠️☠️
She ain't going to do shit about it because she ain't shit.
🤣🤣🤣the look on his face
Misandry is a officially a common thing in this day in age.
And it’s up to us to stop that
Damn I had to look that up, that's tha opposite of misogyny. Just learned a new word, misandry. Thanks bruh
Never give these chick's free validation and attention or boost their ego 💯💯
“WALK BACK INTO MY TOYOTA”
😹😹 BRO THIS SHIT IS GOLD
TOYOTA FOR LIFE! 🤣🤣
It's being perpetuated like, "You've got to be super, super respectful to women, you can't invade her space, you can't talk to her, you can't approach her," and then it's kind of like, well what's left?'
that new camera looking cleaaaan no cap
i was wondering when you was gonna talk about this steph, man you must be reading my mind.
“YOU HAVE TO BE RICH TO TALK TO A BROKE GIRL IN AMERICA” . . . BRUH 💯
This is me 😂😂
The majority of the modern day woman needs to make up their damn minds. If she doesn't know what she wants, then how in the hell she expects a man to know?
Steph you was spitting all FACTS!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯. But I'm done trying to approach women it's not even worth it anymore smh 😒😑. I'm just focused on chasing success!!
Women should approach us. The servents bow to the king
Tru shit bro
wtf lmao
And we must choose a queen
Fact
Kiss the ring chick
Factsss man! This is exactly why the theme is “focus on improving yourself fellas”;because once you build yourself up;you become the prize. Mentally and spiritually. You got so many women out here that think there’re a prize but barely do a lick of anything to show improve for it; but yet they want to be treated as such. Your time is valuable and If she don’t respect/appreciate that’s their loss. Not the other way around.
She ain't wrong.
And yeah, women still want us to approach them, but if you knew the game was rigged so you lose 99% of the time, would you play it?
Just feels like a waste of time and energy most of the time to me.
PREACH
men are confused about how to make a first move in a way that is confident and mindful of a woman’s boundaries
Are you telling me that women are trying to tell us how to approach them? We know that already but women have put so many boundaries into place it’s starting to hurt themselves. They need us more than we need them. It’s always been like that but we have simps out here that’s screwing their heads up, given them fault entitlement. So going forward the women has to started saying hello first!
100% man. Thanks for this. We men are sick of approaching, I stopped long ago.... I don't even do the bar scene anymore becuse it's toxic AF
I say it's perfect that so many women have single handedly ruined the dating world, and turned a lot of men off, to the point that we don't want to initiate conversations with women much, anymore.
Now, it's your turn, ladies.
Get you some confidence and come up to us.
Now you try putting your self esteem on the line for us, day in and day out.
They set themselves up to lose. So sad. Radical Feminism was never their friend at all.
Want to be a man so damn bad. Well here you go lol. You know it’s hard out here for a pimp.
“What you gon do about it” my mood for eternity. Steph for another dub
Best thing I have learned so far. Always have fun and smile, even if they don’t fwy. Women love that shit and get interested when you’re enjoying yourself. Even if they won’t approach you, they do what’s called spatial awareness, and find ways to get closer to you without being direct. Stay woke 😂
Women DO WANT to be approached, but ONLY BY CLEARLY HIGH VALUE MEN.....such as Scammers(Swipers), Celebrities, Athletes, or Someone who HAS VISUALLY EXPENSIVE THINGS that gives off the PERCEPTION that A man can Afford Luxurious things.
You're Welcome
Mostly black and some Latino women care about that shit. Start going to different scenes, you'll get further at a winebar, rooftop lounge, coffee shop
When you dont give into her bs her self-esteem crashes like Lehman Brothers in during 2008 - 8:30
That's a big ass crash!📉
😄 🤣
I agree with her G fasho. We need a female to speak on our behalf so as know one of the females at least understand
More women need to speak up about this might shed some sense into these other females.
Fair enough to the chick at the beginning - understanding and open minded. This absolutely wont get her shot by modern feminists saying she wasnt women enough.
As we say in the south, “a closed mouth doesn’t get feed.”
"You gotta be rich to mess with a broke chick in America" sent me 🤣🤣🤣
In the words of haha Davis GOD TAKE ME NOW 😂!!!
A majority of these women have that jezebel spirit.
My mother expects me to bring home a black women here in the US or in her home country 🇹🇹 but she doesn’t know that today’s modern black women are masculine, demanding non-submissive wild standards not even traditional because they are influenced by Meg & Cardi B
Hate to break it to you but black woman have been masculine like this since the 1970s bro. If u notice single motherhood in the black community started rising up around 1975 because of them acting so masculine
That's just happening in general bro. Women are becoming more Masculine and Men are becoming more Feminine.
@@y.e.a.h5634 nah we not feminine buddy we just not approaching women anymore. If you like a dude approach him game is changed. We won’t scream harassment when women approach us to much to lose these days approaching women.
SAY IT LOUDER TO YOUR MOM!
You got it right on trying to approach women trying to get a scarcity mindset out every time I have a chance try to talk to a girl.Been working on myself for a whole year I got a car I got a house I got a good job I don’t know what these girls want Sometimes I tell myself why approach but keep it
I tell you what Steph. Ever since I find your channel and started working on myself woman approach me all the time 💯
Boutta be a lot of single old women in the future
2030 UA-cam bout to be crazy. The aftermath
That's why they got dog's
🤣😂🤣 this Ninja Steph be killin me !!. But u spot on bro bro 💯
Bro, at this rate, the world is going to be so depressed in terms of dating, love and healthy relationships. It’s going to be like watching what some of our parents went through x 100
so be it.... this world should drown in its own blood anyway
Stop approaching them. Stop dming them, stop liking their pics. Stop chasing them. Ignore them and develop yourself.
Truth brother! I see all these simps nowadays commenting on one girls post or pics competing for her attention.
The "love yourself" bit had me in tears. Quality content!
Shout out to the lady talking sense and the GOAT Steph is cold
“ You lose a lot of money chasing women,
you’ll never lose women chasing money “ 💰
Stay on your purpose and you will win in the end 💯💯
She said the undeniable indisputable and irrefutable truth 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
My dawg steph about to become the first red pill R&B singer
Good looks for the good content on my bday steph
HBD bro
Have a good one bro bro
hbd homie
HBD
Thank you all 🙏🏽💙
God bless this girl's heart. Finally a sensible woman (who isn't virtue signaling, or shaming men) on tik tok, that's spitting some logic and truth about what these delusional and entitled women out here, have done to cause men to not want to approach them anymore.
There is an old proverb that goes like this: Trying To hold a woman by her word is like trying to catch an eel by its tail.
In addition: Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes hoping to pull out an eel.
He who has a woman, has an eel, they are as a capricious as the seas. Good luck. Like gecko said, you need a friend, get a dog.
This is something I have learned about women…. They don’t really know what they want, they’re indecisive which is a default problem. Something as simple as knowing what to eat is really hard for them to decide… so when u give em what they want, they still complain.. women are more emotional and emotions change quickly and rapidly so it’s never easy to settle on one thing bc once u get it, u may feel a different way about it now. Idk if that made sense but yeah..😅
Facts!
In the crib (the Chi) listening 2 this fool Steph go in and I'm in my 50s 💯 Classic! 🤘🏾
I agree with everything both of them saying but at the same time jus because a woman stared at you doesn’t mean she want you to approach her, maybe she jus is admiring your beauty, you can admire how someone looks without bein interested in them🙄I’ve done it plenty of times where I have looked at a man who is attractive, but I have a man so never wanted anything from him, he was jus attractive. Fellas do this too, if you have a woman and you see another fine woman don’t mean you actually want her you jus admire her beauty. It’s up to the man to find out if she’s looking because she wants you or jus admiring you🤷🏽♀️
“You gotta be rich to mess with a broke chick in America.”
COT DAMMIT, CHUUCH!!! 💯💯💯
Now I understand what’s going on from the man’s perspective, thank you. It’s making it harder for women like me who are ready to date for marriage and actually want to be approached, but are not being approached. I would appreciate an average everyday hardworking spiritually grounded good man any day, especially after the trash dudes I’ve dealt with in the past. And I’ve only entertained the problematic ones bc they were the ones who approached & chased me the hardest. Well not anymore. Plus I was friend-zoned by the good ones I threw my shot at so… 🤷🏾♀️
I only approach females if I see strong choosing signals, but other than that I rather just let it happen naturally or organically. alot of females out here ain't worth the validation from me personally
@@cocolokoflacco Oh I see. What’s an example from you of a strong, choosing signal from a woman? I’m curious as it might be helpful for me.
@@Kari_Michele the main ones for me depending on the situation and environment are #1 when she looks at me more then 3times(some guys go for it at just 2 glaces tho).#2 when she stares at me not caring who's seeing her do it.#3 when she finds a way to get closer&closer next to me. hope that helps you😌
@@cocolokoflacco Yea it helps and I’ve done that. But still nada. Pretty much friend-zoned I guess or they were still clueless to the obvious hints or they just weren’t interested.
@@Kari_Michele I feel you. don't force it tho your husband is out there you just gotta find him. you ever tried dating sites like Christian mingle or anything like that?
She's absolutely correct. These last few months all I've seen on Facebook is posts about how woman bash men ..
4:30 - 5:15 that's f***ing true steph, I responded to her story "wys missis" she said in her stories "new people chat with me" and I said wys missis. At that point, my screen was full of JUST ME sending my introduction, I think she ss it (and I also just peeped that she did share it on her gc oh look what I made this guy do) and I just sent, at that point, the straight face emoji like I'm tryna slide to you and you ain't even responding... When I get my phone imma reply to this comment and share wagwan.