Thank you for watching guys☺️🌸Don’t forget to follow my Instagram🌸 instagram.com/kimono_mom This video has several subtitles so I hope you enjoy this vid in your language. Since I use a translator, they’re unnatural. Thank you for your understanding!
Wow, you are being a great full mom, Moe - san. You've done everything very nice and yet you manage to learn english via online class. That's amazing. 👍👍👍Sutan grow up so well too. Stay healthy and happy for all of us. 😊
thank you for your hardwork Moe, i hope you know it doesnt go unappreciated. mad respect for you as a professional, a mother, and a friend to us all. Your last part of the video had me teared up.
They way she raises her child is amazing. She is so patient and whenever the child disobeys she’s patient and try’s to distract her and she teaches her in such a manner. She is so young and thanks her mother for the meal. I hope we see more parents like this in the future. Energetic, loving, patient, hardworking. It is so amazing to see how she raises her child. She is going to grow up so obedient and respectful
i was disobedient girl too at her age, but my dad would slap my face all the time just to stop me from crying, but i cried louder and louder. i am so traumatized by his act and until now i am not ready to be a mom myself.
@@Jasmine-zy8lx I’m so sorry this happened to you and I completely understand. I was raised the same way and it’s traumatizing because that’s a form of discipline that you know, even though you know it’s not good. I hate that this has deterred you from wanting to be a mother. Seek counseling and a good support system to promote healing and I’m sure you will be a great mother. ❤️
It's easier to be a patient parent when you don't have to worry about paying the bills and can focus entirely on parenting, which a lot of parents are not in a position to do.
After watching your videos, I realized how difficult a mother's life is, especially the ones with young kids { no offense to the dads out there, you guys are working hard too } we've all been in these situations as kids but now after seeing things through a mothers perspective, I feel bad for not acknowledging my mom's daily life struggles, all thanks to you, keep posting these wholesome videos
I think she is still very lucky that ahe can spend so much time with her kid. There is so many mums who have to do all of that what she does plus work and earn equal amount of money as husband. In my opinion women do more than men. However here she does not have to work so it is always little bit less stress for her.
That last reflection about not letting her doing things out of “adults convenience” really got me thinking. The way you look after her with so much patience and really taking into consideration her feelings even though she’s so small it’s eye opening to me, as a mother to be. I’m definitely learning so much, not only about life in Japan and “oishiii” cooking, there’s a lot of motherhood tips and I’m so greatful for all! Thank you Moe, Sutan and Moto for letting us sneak a peek into your life 💕☀️
Taking into consideration her feelings? Kids should learn to respect their parents and their duties otherwise theyll get spoiled and cry whenever they want something. Letting them cry sometimes is muuch better then granting them every single wish. Its better for them in the long run
@@pazhallusta1897 u are right in a way I think..maybe it has to do with age..maybe this is fine until a certain age,&then try to discipline them when they grow more conscious of right & wrong
@@pazhallusta1897 No, letting kids cry is never the right way. That's a myth from the Nazi time, when the aim was to raise the perfect soldier. Ithas long been debunked, but sadly it was so ingrained in peoples mind, that many today still think it to be true. That doesn't mean you have to always give them whatever they want, but you always have to offer emotional support.
I like her last comments. Her life looks so happy and successful at first glance but she is telling us how she is struggling with parenting and how caring she is. That's one of the reasons she has got lots of supporters and fans😊❤️
I actually noticed her face through out the video and though out the day.. Something is on her mind..and really bothering her.. she's either too worried or realizing how difficult being a mom is.. Or maybe it's just an exhausting day.. And she's feeling tired and wish to rest..
Such a patient mom with positive energy. I love that you involve your daughter in everything including your English classes. It's good for your little ones to learn from your behavior. So inspiring!! 🌸
I was surprised at the emotions this video stirred up. I’m a 63 year old grandma, but watching your day with your daughter really brought back so many memories. We all go through the same things with our children. I stayed home with my three kids and remember all of this. Your daughter is at a rough age but hang in there, it will get better 🥰 My son unfortunately passed away very unexpectedly in 2016. Life is never what we expect, we have to roll with it and appreciate what truly matters. You would be surprised that kids tend to remember the good things, while we worry about our mistakes. Don’t be hard on yourself you are a good mom☺️sorry for the novel.
I don’t know you but i can tell your a really nice person, know that i love you and so does your son! No matter what you believe...weather your religious or not just know that his memories are always there and that he loves you!
@@mr-vb3idYes, but they are trying to say that children are adorable but come with an insane number of responsibilities, so it’s much easier to play with and adore other people’s children and give them back to their parents when they need a diaper change or something lmao
This family is a great example that you can raise and educate children without blows. I wish many parents understood. she never hits or assaults her daughter. And the girl is growing up with a lot of love and understanding, I hope that many parents take this family as an example to leave the blows and NEVER occupy them while raising a child
Pastor please pray for the release of curses and magic. Please pray to facilitate the brain and be given intelligence. Please pray to get rid of the disease in the body. Please pray for smooth finances and be given wealth.
A lot of moments you could tell it was hard for Moe, Sutan who is still just a baby doesn't know how much work she's making for Moe. I almost cried a bit at the end seeing how much Moe had to work and is even staying up after two to edit videos. You're so strong Moe, you're a wonderful mom!
Me too it makes me feel so bad. I think its just about time she let sutan cry instead of granting her wishes. She makes up for it by being lovely and giving her a great plate of food and other things when she relaxes so the kid can understand that all the bad times are as a result of her own behaviour and her fault so its not something they should feed in to. Otherwise the kid just thinks this is a normal part of her everday life when she can just cry and mom will grant her wishes...it shouldnt work that way. I felt bad for moe too..shes so awsome
You know, I cried at the end. I was watching the recent shorts and thought: what a wonderful well-behaved, smart and artistic little girl! And then I saw one of the comments saying how Sutan has grown from a fussy 2yo into this beautiful child. I got curious so I'm here now. And i am crying. Like yeah, we all know that raising children is not easy, but I wasn't expecting it to look that hard and exhausting. The amount of patience that Moe has. And the fact that it is the normal way to deal with parenting and you must be that patient with your child... That is how it's supposed to be for every child. But the amount of efforts a mother has to put in just so it would be possible... Honestly I can't imagine myself doing it that well. And I thought I wanted to become a mother in the future... I still want to and it's so scary
Such a beautiful comment. I cried as well. Motherhood is the most amazing thing in the whole wide world. It is difficult at times but it is beautiful. Children are too precious. And just by your comment I can tell that you're definitely going to make an amazing mom one day :)
not gonna lie, i cried a little at the end there. you're such a wonderful woman and a great mom, moe. being a full time youtuber, filming, editing, learning english while being a mom is surely not an easy job. I respect you a lot and thank you for sharing a sneak peek of your life with us! May God always bless you and your family 💕
Time flies! Started watching in Quarantine and enjoyed her first bday stream. I thank the algoritme gods after looking up Japanese broths for bringing this channel. Alongside Sutan the channel growing fast too! Nearing 1 million already, Moe and her assistant deserve all the succes🤞
This was the easiest 25 minutes to watch. You have been so real about what bringing up a toddler is like. Truly the joy the little child brings is the warmest feeling! You're the first person who has shown a true picture of what having a toddler is like. Well done, Kimono Mom ! The relief and joy in your face at 19:47 !!! Sooooo true and relatable !!!
You're doing a great job disciplining her. As a parent, you telling her no is important as you telling her yes. You're a great mom. You are Kimono Mom!!
I love how she lets Sutan help with anything she can. She is a really good parent. I am so use to seeing the opposite and then parents wonder why their child can't function when they become adults.
Happened to me, I really hate it how my mom doesn't even realize that and just shouting at me bc of how useless i am at home like I was the one who are wrong since the beginning, and saying I'm just a burden to her, I think I shouldn't be born then 😓
@@NaomiMJS we all feel that way sometimes, and it's really easy to get into the habit of treating others without value, and devaluing ourselves because others have. Time and consideration are two priceless and nurturing things to give to those around us that are often monopolized by paid work and stress.
It is true that having a child is extremely taxing, tiring and frustrating. You lose time with your friends, hobbies and even just yourself. You also lose the freedom to do what you want and go where you want. But at the same time that is what forms the bond between parent and child. Every little step, seeing your world their first steps and interact with the world around them with innocence and curiousity; it melts your heart and brings you closer together and makes you a better person.
No truer words have been said! I have a three month old and a five year old and I am EXHAUSTED 24/7. My baby has been sick the past week so I’ve had literally two hours sleep max each day but seeing how they are so happy and safe makes it all worth it. EVERY SECOND. ❤️❤️
Moe, you deserve a medal for your patience. I know everyone talks about Sutan and she is indeed an amazing kid, she is so cute, but... I don't know how many people can understand how difficult what you do really is. Try to find moments for yourself, as much as possible and stay rested and healthy. I really admire you. Keep it up!
Reminded of my wife with two young daughters staying at home while I traveled for business. Moms staying home with children do the most important work with very little thanks. Thank you for posting this video. Thank you all the mothers for your loving care. Happy Mother's Day!❤
thank you for your recognition for us mothers!. I'm also thankful for this video, i remembered my time when I stayed at home with small children..and my husband wasn't at home for weeks or until late in the evening. just to earn money for our little family. ❤ With this video I can remember again & now be grateful to myself and my husband that we have put this difficult time behind us.
She shpuldnt be angry but she should just let her kid cry instead of just always granting them their wish otherwise the kid gets spoiled and thinks this is the normal everyday for her when she wants something cry and mom gives. No. Moms should let them cry it out so they start to understand that theyre the cause for feeling bad so they should try to change it. Moms make up for it with smiling and rewarding when the kid relaxes. Its that simple.
@@pazhallusta1897 yeah i know but some mothers are kind of irratable..in my country there are many like this but not all are just a few..hope you understand
@@qienahareyim2811 ofc. Im not saying screaming at the baby I hate that. I mean letting them cry it out...that way they understand that mom is always calm and happy. It them that are the problem.. because now you cant really teach them responsability unfortunately ....
Stay-at-home mothers deserve an medal because they do a lot of housework whilst looking after how many children they have together with their husband/partner. You can importantly see the family love between you, your husband and your daughter Sutan! Also, your daughter is so cute and very intelligent, by how she opened something that was taller than her.
No they don't. Whether u go out and have to work hard or stay at home to watch your kids. Its the choice u made. Staying home gives u the benefit of not having to travel to work every day, plan the day the way u see fit and not having a boss. A lot of moms use those excuses because they fear people will think them lazy. And a lot of them are. Moe is not but she could have it way easier than she has now.
Most stay-at-home moms are not lazy, it is not an excuse for them not to work! They CHOOSE to have children, they CHOOSE to look after them; fed them, clothe them, bath them, shower them with love and always support their decisions' even if they are wrong, - either on their own and with family help!
As a mother, she wants to spend her time taking care of her child by herself. Nothing is wrong as long as you dont have to worry about finance. Moreover, this period is very important for children to develop their behaviors and physical health, it will be better if parents observe and teach their children.
@@user-eu1rh2nm8j umm taking care of kids and spending a majority of your time with them while your partner can literally take a break is not easy. And it’s lazy for the working partner not to take part in chores, and childcare
Sutan is incredibly lucky to have you as her mother. She may not fully understand it now, but as she gets older she will appreciate the sacrifices and unconditional love you and Moto have given her. Cherish every minute of every day together ❤
That's what I was thinking. I do worry about her health, especially with everyone saying how inspiring and strong she is for working so hard. I mean, yes she is inspiring and strong, but not getting any sleep and damaging your health should not be glorified in my opinion.
@@RagDollCookie she is young though and his little girl is growing. A little bit of sacrifice and probably in 4 years she will have way more time for herself.
@@promero14 I worked a hospitality job for a couple yrs and got very poor sleep schedule and now I am left with consequences in health. Sleep is SO important. You can overdo a few days, but dont suggest "a little sacrifice" over four years. An ill mother cannot care well for her child. Moe-san needs her rest and I hope she gets it.
This was so nice to see. The fun and challenging parts of being a mom. Sutan is growing up so fast and it is nice to see that even when she's being disagreeable, like kids of that age can be, Moe is still surprisingly patient with her. It's kinda crazy to think that she does all that and still makes time to edit her videos and have them out on time. I really admire Moe. Moms are great and we got to see one in action today. Thank you for sharing this day in your life.
omg yes! I have a 5 month old, and right now..I am only "thinking" about getting vids out again. I only get to edit 5 mins here and there when she naps for only about 20 mins and fusses a lot but Moe is really WOW.
It’s so amazing that even at her age you both seem like such casual best friends! Your outings are so adorable, what a great routine you’ve created. I commend you both, so glad I found this channel! Family first, always.
Hey Moe! I'm a mum of an (almost) two year old also and I know how you feel with them getting to the terrible-twos. One little trick I have learn't recently is instead of telling them to do something, give them two options to choose between. So instead of saying "Please lie down so I can change your nappy", you could say "would you like to lie on the floor or on the sofa to change your nappy?". Then they feel like it was their decision :) It works nearly every time for me! :)
I do this and it used to work, but recently she just says no to everything. So when I give her two options and she just says NO, I tell her I gave her 2 choices not a yes or no question, her response? NO 😅 So it is really difficult and although I agree with you that this is a great approach, it definitely does not always have to work :) (My daughter is 22 months btw)
Don’t be though because you don’t really know, these are snippets. I don’t see as many bruises on Sutan in the newer videos but she had a several in videos from a few months ago, it could have been a fall but it would have had to be a big fall because her shoulder showed several shades of purple. Child abuse is very common in japan. Not saying that’s what’s happening here but just avoid judging your life or your family because of what your see of others. Especially on Social media.
@@supermodelwannabe I clearly said “not saying that is what is happening here” I just happen to know this is very common in Japan because they are generally very overworked, and other cultural influences. But that’s fine if you don’t want to take the suggestion no worries. Peace ✌🏻
Being kind and consistent are the most important qualities and you’re succeeding in both of these. Also, your love for your family is radiant and will pay off when your daughter becomes a wonderful adult one day.
I’m not a mom, but I am a big sister to my little four year old brother. Since my parents are busy with work, I take care of him for most of the day. Watching your videos inspire me to be better! Your relationship with Sutan is so adorable!
Being a mom is so tiring. I honestly never let my kids have too much nap in the afternoon. Usually only for 1 hour. And the napping time must not after 3 pm. So that they will go to bed early at night. Just watching this i can feel how tired is Moe. Please take care of your health. I will be moody the whole day if i dont have enough sleep. U are such a great mom Moe!!
The comment your say at the end is so insightful. How you reflect on stopping your daughter from doing something because she will dirty her clothes and that she should experience it instead. These are things we really only notice after the moment and having to go through video capturing that moment really forces us to notice it. So thank you for sharing that. You are a very patient mum. Much love, Puja x
I’m 23 years old and watch these videos with the biggest smile on my face. This little family is what everyone deep down wants. Seeing sutan being raised but such a compassionate, kind, caring, beautiful mother is healing things in me 🥹 good job kimono mama ♥️
Seriously you are a superhero, being a mom, a wife but most importantly and impressively you are being yourself in this hectic world/lifestyle and you are doing amazing! Thanks so much for sharing your busy lifestyle with us. I know that I personally enjoyed getting a peek at how you handle/juggle everything
Your note for Sutan made me cry. My daughter is as old as she is and is in the same phase. It's challenging but my god am I proud to be her mother. I love her so much and even when it's hard, it's wonderful.
You should sleep more. It's not worth spending so much time so early/late working on your channel, because it influences your health, and in the long term period you will experience all drawbacks of this lifestyle. You don't have to edit the video immediately after recording, separate the work into smaller chunks. We, your viewers are patient and I believe, that we could wait a little bit longer for a new video :) Take care of yourself!
My mom always said a man may work from Sun to Sun but a woman’s work is never done and it’s true especially when your partner must be away or travel for work. It’s unavoidable burning the candle at both ends. But it’s only for a time and then they’re grown and gone. Thanks to Moe for sharing so honestly.
I do worry about her health, especially with everyone saying how inspiring and strong she is for working so hard. I mean, yes she is inspiring and strong, but not getting any sleep and damaging your health should not be glorified in my opinion. Edit: to everyone saying that's just the sacrifice you have to make as a mother, that is completely missing the point. Technically her motherhood is from 7am-10pm, but she gets only a couple of hours sleep because of all the extra strain she is putting herself through. If it is a one off then that's fine but consistently that will cause so much unnecessary damage which is not ok and not normal, no matter what age or race she is.
Strongly agree with this. I saw the timestamp at the end of the video and I was shocked. The always hustle culture is really bad for us as humans. I hope that this video was just a one-off thing with how much sleep she gets and she sleeps much more than that typically.
Unfortunatley where i live things are the same for kids. My friend has to wake up at 5am cause the school bus comes at 6 and obv its mentally draining to do every single day for your entire life
This really reminds me of how I first came across Moe and her family on Paolo's channel 🥺they really came this far and Moe's English is getting better and better!
I know I am late but I recognise Moe is crying due to exhaustion..I do raise my son by myself while my husband is working..I feel you, Moe..those expectation when you think you finally able to take a little break when you see your child sleeping..but suddenly those expectation falls out when they woke up 😂..my son is 4 already now and seeing this sure brings back some memory..seeing them growing so much already really makes me want to cry..all hardwork has paid off..Ganbatte Moe..you've already do a good job..please take some rest..Its okay for not being okay..Love from Indonesia ❤
i don't know why i am crying at the end of the video 😢 Moe, you really did a great job as a mother, your patience is on another level. and I know for sure that you feel very very tired, you barely have a time for yourself. But thank you to bare it for Sutan. I understand how big is your sacrifice, your thought, and your love to your family ❤️ i hope and pray the best for your family and yourself, always be healthy and be happy, Moe the incredible mom ❤️
You’re so inspiring, I wish to be just like you when I’ll have a kid. However, Moe, please try to find a way to be on your own for a day once in a while... it is important to take care of yourself physically and mentally. You are not JUST a mother.
So astonishing! I just felt like I’m a terrible mom to raise my daughter, I never stayed that late for her as I’m always feeling tired after work. To be a full time mom in Japan is so tiresome, Moe is so brilliant and amazing, she’s raised an angle that I love most in the internet!
The part where you held her up to the mirror made me emotional, idk why. It felt so pure and authentic, you could feel the love through the screen you have for her and that she has for you. Beautiful family.❤️
My daughter is about the same age as yours. She cried for us to carry her all the time too. It helps if you kneel down at her level and tell her you want to play and pick her up but you can't right now. My daughter reacted better when we tried this approach. Good luck!! Hang in there!! It's hard!
Hi there! I am from Brazil and a mom of a 1 year old and by seeing the way you are with your daughter I realized how similar it is to me and my son. I see so far no big cultural differences although we live so far apart. Keep up the good content! :-)
Letting your child experience things by herself is a great way of teaching things. When I was about Sutan's age, I remember crying after eating a tube of wasabi which I thought was toothpaste, because I also ate toothpaste. He just smiled at me and asked, "Yummy?" I stopped eating toothpaste and wasabi after that
Thanks for this anecdote. I am not a mom, but sometimes I feel like kids aren't allowed to test (non threatening ofc) their suroundings and get a flat out "No!" left, right and center. How are they supposed to learn if they never experience some natural consequences? The parents should be present during these but let them see for themselves.
My little daughter is 2 too. I really understand how it is to stop being to overcautious, I needed to learn to stop saying No too and started to let her explore the world by herself and instead of no you can explain why she can't do that right now or something. And if you need help with translation I can do the German translation four you too. You really need more sleep and your strength for your daughter. Your doing a great job 👏
You talked about the struggle all parents go through how much to let them go even if they may get a little hurt. When to tell them no because it will make too much work for you. The balance is very hard to find. Every parent has to do what is right for there family. You seem to be doing fine. She is happy and healthy, bright, and engaged with the world.
I love this video! Especially at the end when you were saying how your daughters clothes getting dirty is an adult problem not the child’s. Definitely took that to heart as a mom. I need to do better in that aspect! Thank you for sharing!
You have an advantage over most moms. You get to watch a playback of the whole day and make the next day better. You are a great mom and it shows in your daughter. She is happy, secure and well adjusted.
When I watched your video, I thought that being a mother is a holly privilege because you're never getting tired of taking care of your baby girl, and also you have amazing energy. While I was watching, I almost cried as I saw your patience and pure love. You're like a superhero
So on average, how many hours of sleep do you get a night? It doesn't seem like you get a lot of sleep at all. I'm amazed at your energy through out the day, especially with trying to entertain Sutan and cook meals from scratch.
I got the Same question it was almost 24 Hours she doesn't slept. Her energy is absolutely phenomenal throughout the Day. I wonder how she doesn't get tired after all the hectic day.
I can't even imagine with a 5 month old now but I am guessing not everyday looks exactly the same. The next day she might need to sleep a lot more. I would die if everyday was like that 😆😅
I know it is a pain I've been there, but sometimes you just have to let the kid cry. Especially when it comes to being picked up. Sutan reminds me a lot of my son, and sometimes we would just let him cry it out. It's tough but helped us when he got older.
Yes, I think it would be helpful for Moe to set boundaries with Sutan. That way she can learn that she will be okay even when she is left alone. It seems to be very draining having to soothe a crying toddler most of the day. Also setting a routine and making sure not to stray from it will help Moe feel more comfortable. Discipline such as taking away tv or toys can be effective if used appropriately. No parenting is perfect but there are many tips and techniques that can help out struggling parents :)
@\ You are trying your best to sound clever, however when what you say is illogical nonsense that has nothing to do with the comment you're replying too, you come off as incompetent.
I definitely agree with setting boundaries. You're going to run yourself ragged being at the beck and call of a 2 year old, especially if you have tasks that need completing weighing heavily in the back of your mind. Yes you want her to feel loved and happy, but mom deserves the same as well. The trick is finding that balance. When I kept seeing you stopping what you were doing to pick Sutan up for the umpteenth time because she was crying to be picked up... you have the patience of a saint lol
I mean thats why kids all over the world grow up hating their parents or having little to no feelings toward them bc of this attitude towards kids I mean, for a kid they will see you as shit and uncaring, what would harm you if you stayed with them one hour or more so they can grow up better loving toward parents lol
Honestly, taking care of a kid has so much responsibilities. I took care of my little sister for a while when she was 3 and they are just so curious of everything that I found myself saying no all the time. The things she wants to do is not dangerous but troublesome for us. Like she kept wanting me to read to her or makes a mess so I found myself trying to stop her before she even thought about it haha. Maybe I'll learn more when I have my own.
@nop e I'm sorry you had to be traumatized to not have kids. But if you ever find the right one and share the responsibilities, that maybe would be better.
You are genuinely such brilliant parents and you have taught me so much for when I have kids in the future. You can really see how considerate and loving you are towards Sutan. You're a real inspiration Moe and Moto! 💕
Moe-san, Give yourself 2 pats on the back. Taking care of you takes care of your family, so get the rest you need, even if it means letting the editing go a day. Trust me, those of us with children understand completely how draining this time in a parent's life can be💎💎💎💎💎
don't be too hard on yourself, moe! you're doing an amazing job as a mother and a wife, it's so clear how much effort you put into spending quality time with sutan. not to mention you keep up with youtube and english lessons on top of everything else! hugs from canada 😊
OMG, thank you. You've been inspire every girl to be such a good mom in the future, actually me i've been learn a lot how you're parenting Sutan. I hope i can be a smart and kind mom too, soon..
I was a very well behaved child and my mom told me, that as long as she explained to me why sth. is a "no" or dangerous I accepted it. it was all about understanding and asking questions. maybe remebering that everything is new to her and talking a lot about the "why"s and general info will help.
Normally I dont comment, but this video has left an impression on me. Moe, thank you for spending the effort and precious time to make these vlogs. I have learned a lot about the struggles of mothers from you and just how much effort and energy it takes to raise a child, and how it affects you. By the end of the day you were struggling to keep it together, I have to praise your patience and your ability to cope and handle your emotions. It must be especially hard for you because, in addition to double guessing yourself normally, you also double guess your actions that you see while editing videos. It's all on there in camera. I wish you and your family all the best and I hope that you keep enjoying what you are doing in making these videos. I also hope that you can take care of yourself, even if it is clearly very difficult to do so. Thank you again for all the effort you put into videos for us, your hard work is noticed and greatly appreciated.
being a mom is tiring and hard work. never really realized this until in my adulthood when i saw vlogs like this and stories from friends. made me appreciate my mom more.
Thank you for watching guys☺️🌸Don’t forget to follow my Instagram🌸 instagram.com/kimono_mom
This video has several subtitles so I hope you enjoy this vid in your language. Since I use a translator, they’re unnatural. Thank you for your understanding!
hii its okayy !! sutan is so cute😔💗 and youre such a great mom!
Wow, you are being a great full mom, Moe - san. You've done everything very nice and yet you manage to learn english via online class. That's amazing. 👍👍👍Sutan grow up so well too. Stay healthy and happy for all of us. 😊
Hello Moe, could I know where did you buy your inner? Is it with pad?
thank you for your hardwork Moe, i hope you know it doesnt go unappreciated. mad respect for you as a professional, a mother, and a friend to us all. Your last part of the video had me teared up.
I come here because i like Sutan. His is child so kawaii "cute" and this i stay watch this video😀
Ladies and gentlemen, the level of patience in this house is *ASTRONOMICAL*
I agree ,.I can never be that patient
Honestly, we all could learn from her, that is MASTER'S LEVEL OF PATIENCE
Is that all the time???
@@ninareichel9368 she used to be a Maiko so I imagine that’s where the patience came from
@@annienguyen8369 what's a maiko?
She is the coolest mom ever... So much energy but she needs some rest
Taking care of kids is a toil on ur emotion & energy.
Her daughter she always so happy💕💕☺
There is no rest when you are a mother
Mamak gw ngurus 4 beban b aja :v
@@deka-un7fs sama, nenek gue 8 anak B aja😂
They way she raises her child is amazing. She is so patient and whenever the child disobeys she’s patient and try’s to distract her and she teaches her in such a manner. She is so young and thanks her mother for the meal. I hope we see more parents like this in the future. Energetic, loving, patient, hardworking. It is so amazing to see how she raises her child. She is going to grow up so obedient and respectful
i was disobedient girl too at her age, but my dad would slap my face all the time just to stop me from crying, but i cried louder and louder. i am so traumatized by his act and until now i am not ready to be a mom myself.
@@Jasmine-zy8lx I’m so sorry this happened to you and I completely understand. I was raised the same way and it’s traumatizing because that’s a form of discipline that you know, even though you know it’s not good. I hate that this has deterred you from wanting to be a mother. Seek counseling and a good support system to promote healing and I’m sure you will be a great mother. ❤️
@@Jasmine-zy8lx Honestly, same. And I wish some parents would stop doing this :(
@@raygin6581 True, people only show good side on social media, but i really hope she's doing the same on reality.
It's easier to be a patient parent when you don't have to worry about paying the bills and can focus entirely on parenting, which a lot of parents are not in a position to do.
After watching your videos, I realized how difficult a mother's life is, especially the ones with young kids { no offense to the dads out there, you guys are working hard too } we've all been in these situations as kids but now after seeing things through a mothers perspective, I feel bad for not acknowledging my mom's daily life struggles, all thanks to you, keep posting these wholesome videos
I think she is still very lucky that ahe can spend so much time with her kid. There is so many mums who have to do all of that what she does plus work and earn equal amount of money as husband. In my opinion women do more than men. However here she does not have to work so it is always little bit less stress for her.
That last reflection about not letting her doing things out of “adults convenience” really got me thinking. The way you look after her with so much patience and really taking into consideration her feelings even though she’s so small it’s eye opening to me, as a mother to be. I’m definitely learning so much, not only about life in Japan and “oishiii” cooking, there’s a lot of motherhood tips and I’m so greatful for all! Thank you Moe, Sutan and Moto for letting us sneak a peek into your life 💕☀️
Saying no seldom yields the desired result, I try to instead show them a better way of doing it.
Taking into consideration her feelings? Kids should learn to respect their parents and their duties otherwise theyll get spoiled and cry whenever they want something. Letting them cry sometimes is muuch better then granting them every single wish. Its better for them in the long run
Btw I love moe. Shes too amazing. Your comment just made me think I needed to say that....much love.
@@pazhallusta1897 u are right in a way I think..maybe it has to do with age..maybe this is fine until a certain age,&then try to discipline them when they grow more conscious of right & wrong
@@pazhallusta1897 No, letting kids cry is never the right way. That's a myth from the Nazi time, when the aim was to raise the perfect soldier. Ithas long been debunked, but sadly it was so ingrained in peoples mind, that many today still think it to be true.
That doesn't mean you have to always give them whatever they want, but you always have to offer emotional support.
Moe, you're just so impressive as a mother and housewife, don't ever doubt yourself otherwise.
All good moms doubt themselves. That's why their good moms. They just want to do right for their loved ones.
@@ACalmingHome respect 😌😌
I like her last comments. Her life looks so happy and successful at first glance but she is telling us how she is struggling with parenting and how caring she is. That's one of the reasons she has got lots of supporters and fans😊❤️
soou neee :'>
I actually noticed her face through out the video and though out the day.. Something is on her mind..and really bothering her.. she's either too worried or realizing how difficult being a mom is.. Or maybe it's just an exhausting day.. And she's feeling tired and wish to rest..
Such a patient mom with positive energy. I love that you involve your daughter in everything including your English classes. It's good for your little ones to learn from your behavior. So inspiring!! 🌸
I was surprised at the emotions this video stirred up. I’m a 63 year old grandma, but watching your day with your daughter really brought back so many memories. We all go through the same things with our children. I stayed home with my three kids and remember all of this. Your daughter is at a rough age but hang in there, it will get better 🥰 My son unfortunately passed away very unexpectedly in 2016. Life is never what we expect, we have to roll with it and appreciate what truly matters. You would be surprised that kids tend to remember the good things, while we worry about our mistakes. Don’t be hard on yourself you are a good mom☺️sorry for the novel.
Jane , you are amazing mother 🥰
I don’t know you but i can tell your a really nice person, know that i love you and so does your son! No matter what you believe...weather your religious or not just know that his memories are always there and that he loves you!
@@chobusmin8202 🙏🏼❤️
I am not surprised people do have emotions I am more grateful that Moe is showing them like it's normal and no like they used to show in TV adverts
@@annagregory4367 Agree completely. People would have a happier life if they threw out their TVs
Being a mom isn't easy. I am tired just from watching
Haha ikr
@@nasya7336 what is ikr
@@bastian5742 i know right
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Everything about being a mom is exhausting but rewarding.
When Sutan watches this 15 years from now, she's gonna love u even more.
True
definitely
Children are adorable
when theyre the offspring of other people
They're still cute even if they are yours.
😂
🤣
and usually the father only gets the good part.
@@mr-vb3idYes, but they are trying to say that children are adorable but come with an insane number of responsibilities, so it’s much easier to play with and adore other people’s children and give them back to their parents when they need a diaper change or something lmao
This family is a great example that you can raise and educate children without blows. I wish many parents understood. she never hits or assaults her daughter. And the girl is growing up with a lot of love and understanding, I hope that many parents take this family as an example to leave the blows and NEVER occupy them while raising a child
THIS! she always reacts calmly or positively no matter what.
Wait till you get 2 children..
@@TheChenchen there’s still no need to physically abuse your children
So glad I live in Sweden where it is illegal to hit your children...
@@TheChenchen don’t have two, if you can’t handle them
She is so adorable! A true doll! May God bless her 🙏🏻
Pastor please pray for the release of curses and magic. Please pray to facilitate the brain and be given intelligence. Please pray to get rid of the disease in the body. Please pray for smooth finances and be given wealth.
It is always very important to take hair away from area of eyes, otherwise kids eyes will break and she wiil need glasses :(
A lot of moments you could tell it was hard for Moe, Sutan who is still just a baby doesn't know how much work she's making for Moe. I almost cried a bit at the end seeing how much Moe had to work and is even staying up after two to edit videos. You're so strong Moe, you're a wonderful mom!
Me too it makes me feel so bad. I think its just about time she let sutan cry instead of granting her wishes. She makes up for it by being lovely and giving her a great plate of food and other things when she relaxes so the kid can understand that all the bad times are as a result of her own behaviour and her fault so its not something they should feed in to. Otherwise the kid just thinks this is a normal part of her everday life when she can just cry and mom will grant her wishes...it shouldnt work that way. I felt bad for moe too..shes so awsome
You know, I cried at the end. I was watching the recent shorts and thought: what a wonderful well-behaved, smart and artistic little girl! And then I saw one of the comments saying how Sutan has grown from a fussy 2yo into this beautiful child. I got curious so I'm here now. And i am crying. Like yeah, we all know that raising children is not easy, but I wasn't expecting it to look that hard and exhausting. The amount of patience that Moe has. And the fact that it is the normal way to deal with parenting and you must be that patient with your child... That is how it's supposed to be for every child. But the amount of efforts a mother has to put in just so it would be possible... Honestly I can't imagine myself doing it that well. And I thought I wanted to become a mother in the future... I still want to and it's so scary
Such a beautiful comment. I cried as well. Motherhood is the most amazing thing in the whole wide world. It is difficult at times but it is beautiful. Children are too precious. And just by your comment I can tell that you're definitely going to make an amazing mom one day :)
not gonna lie, i cried a little at the end there. you're such a wonderful woman and a great mom, moe. being a full time youtuber, filming, editing, learning english while being a mom is surely not an easy job. I respect you a lot and thank you for sharing a sneak peek of your life with us! May God always bless you and your family 💕
cute ptp
Moe is the definition of Natural Beauty.
Right
Sutan is growing so fast, "yesterday" she was still a baby
YEAH gosh what's happening
Time flies! Started watching in Quarantine and enjoyed her first bday stream. I thank the algoritme gods after looking up Japanese broths for bringing this channel. Alongside Sutan the channel growing fast too! Nearing 1 million already, Moe and her assistant deserve all the succes🤞
The day she was born she was a baby
Exactly! Feels like a watched her for the first time a couple of hours ago. But it has been a year already , maybe more !
Yeah time flies
This was the easiest 25 minutes to watch. You have been so real about what bringing up a toddler is like. Truly the joy the little child brings is the warmest feeling! You're the first person who has shown a true picture of what having a toddler is like. Well done, Kimono Mom !
The relief and joy in your face at 19:47 !!! Sooooo true and relatable !!!
You're doing a great job disciplining her. As a parent, you telling her no is important as you telling her yes.
You're a great mom. You are Kimono Mom!!
Every kid should have a kimono mom 🌹
Sutan’s personality is developing more and more each day. She already has the cutest sense of humor. 💕
I love how she lets Sutan help with anything she can. She is a really good parent. I am so use to seeing the opposite and then parents wonder why their child can't function when they become adults.
Happened to me, I really hate it how my mom doesn't even realize that and just shouting at me bc of how useless i am at home like I was the one who are wrong since the beginning, and saying I'm just a burden to her, I think I shouldn't be born then 😓
@@NaomiMJS you’re wonderful the way you are. Don’t let others tell shit about you!
@@NaomiMJS we all feel that way sometimes, and it's really easy to get into the habit of treating others without value, and devaluing ourselves because others have. Time and consideration are two priceless and nurturing things to give to those around us that are often monopolized by paid work and stress.
@@NaomiMJS I prayed for you... my mom was really mistreated and ended up so loving. Don't give up...
It is true that having a child is extremely taxing, tiring and frustrating. You lose time with your friends, hobbies and even just yourself. You also lose the freedom to do what you want and go where you want.
But at the same time that is what forms the bond between parent and child. Every little step, seeing your world their first steps and interact with the world around them with innocence and curiousity; it melts your heart and brings you closer together and makes you a better person.
No truer words have been said! I have a three month old and a five year old and I am EXHAUSTED 24/7. My baby has been sick the past week so I’ve had literally two hours sleep max each day but seeing how they are so happy and safe makes it all worth it. EVERY SECOND. ❤️❤️
Awwwww such sweet video. Interesting to see how other moms live. Your daughter is just about the same age as mine. I thoroughly enjoyed watching
I love watching videos of other moms daily lives too
Am your subbie from Kenya 💕💕.
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♥️
Moe, you deserve a medal for your patience. I know everyone talks about Sutan and she is indeed an amazing kid, she is so cute, but... I don't know how many people can understand how difficult what you do really is. Try to find moments for yourself, as much as possible and stay rested and healthy. I really admire you. Keep it up!
I could literally see tears in your eyes when sutan wasn't sleeping. Your patience is next level. You are a wonderful woman Moe ❤
Reminded of my wife with two young daughters staying at home while I traveled for business. Moms staying home with children do the most important work with very little thanks. Thank you for posting this video. Thank you all the mothers for your loving care.
Happy Mother's Day!❤
thank you for your recognition for us mothers!. I'm also thankful for this video, i remembered my time when I stayed at home with small children..and my husband wasn't at home for weeks or until late in the evening. just to earn money for our little family. ❤ With this video I can remember again & now be grateful to myself and my husband that we have put this difficult time behind us.
she is the best mother, always patient, she's not easy to angry her daughter and i respect her ! 😍❤
She shpuldnt be angry but she should just let her kid cry instead of just always granting them their wish otherwise the kid gets spoiled and thinks this is the normal everyday for her when she wants something cry and mom gives. No. Moms should let them cry it out so they start to understand that theyre the cause for feeling bad so they should try to change it. Moms make up for it with smiling and rewarding when the kid relaxes. Its that simple.
@@pazhallusta1897 yeah i know but some mothers are kind of irratable..in my country there are many like this but not all are just a few..hope you understand
@@qienahareyim2811 ofc. Im not saying screaming at the baby I hate that. I mean letting them cry it out...that way they understand that mom is always calm and happy. It them that are the problem.. because now you cant really teach them responsability unfortunately ....
Elles sont tellement mignonnes 💛 la maman a un calme et une patience remarquable
Waa Qienah, hay muchas madres que son como ella mejores que ella.
Stay-at-home mothers deserve an medal because they do a lot of housework whilst looking after how many children they have together with their husband/partner. You can importantly see the family love between you, your husband and your daughter Sutan!
Also, your daughter is so cute and very intelligent, by how she opened something that was taller than her.
No they don't. Whether u go out and have to work hard or stay at home to watch your kids. Its the choice u made. Staying home gives u the benefit of not having to travel to work every day, plan the day the way u see fit and not having a boss. A lot of moms use those excuses because they fear people will think them lazy. And a lot of them are. Moe is not but she could have it way easier than she has now.
Most stay-at-home moms are not lazy, it is not an excuse for them not to work! They CHOOSE to have children, they CHOOSE to look after them; fed them, clothe them, bath them, shower them with love and always support their decisions' even if they are wrong, - either on their own and with family help!
As a mother, she wants to spend her time taking care of her child by herself. Nothing is wrong as long as you dont have to worry about finance. Moreover, this period is very important for children to develop their behaviors and physical health, it will be better if parents observe and teach their children.
@@user-eu1rh2nm8j apparently if the it was a stay-at-home dad everyone would glorify him. But if its a women, everything they do is invalidated.
@@user-eu1rh2nm8j umm taking care of kids and spending a majority of your time with them while your partner can literally take a break is not easy. And it’s lazy for the working partner not to take part in chores, and childcare
Sutan is incredibly lucky to have you as her mother. She may not fully understand it now, but as she gets older she will appreciate the sacrifices and unconditional love you and Moto have given her. Cherish every minute of every day together ❤
Agree
SO NOBODY'S GONNA MENTION HOW CUTE HER BABY IS 🥺🥺✨✨✨✨✨✨
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I wouldn't worry about- we all know that Sutan is an adorable little angel...such a sweet and cute little pumpkin then and now at 4 plus years old.
Because we're not shallow and don't care about looks.
Kimono mom, as hard as it seems you need to try to sleep more, it can psychology hurt you not getting enough rest/sleep! Do it for your health!
That's what I was thinking. I do worry about her health, especially with everyone saying how inspiring and strong she is for working so hard. I mean, yes she is inspiring and strong, but not getting any sleep and damaging your health should not be glorified in my opinion.
@@RagDollCookie she is young though and his little girl is growing. A little bit of sacrifice and probably in 4 years she will have way more time for herself.
@@promero14 I worked a hospitality job for a couple yrs and got very poor sleep schedule and now I am left with consequences in health. Sleep is SO important. You can overdo a few days, but dont suggest "a little sacrifice" over four years. An ill mother cannot care well for her child. Moe-san needs her rest and I hope she gets it.
This was so nice to see. The fun and challenging parts of being a mom. Sutan is growing up so fast and it is nice to see that even when she's being disagreeable, like kids of that age can be, Moe is still surprisingly patient with her. It's kinda crazy to think that she does all that and still makes time to edit her videos and have them out on time. I really admire Moe. Moms are great and we got to see one in action today. Thank you for sharing this day in your life.
omg yes! I have a 5 month old, and right now..I am only "thinking" about getting vids out again. I only get to edit 5 mins here and there when she naps for only about 20 mins and fusses a lot but Moe is really WOW.
Sutan’s outfit is so cute, I love her rainbow cardigan.
It’s so amazing that even at her age you both seem like such casual best friends! Your outings are so adorable, what a great routine you’ve created. I commend you both, so glad I found this channel! Family first, always.
Hey Moe! I'm a mum of an (almost) two year old also and I know how you feel with them getting to the terrible-twos.
One little trick I have learn't recently is instead of telling them to do something, give them two options to choose between. So instead of saying "Please lie down so I can change your nappy", you could say "would you like to lie on the floor or on the sofa to change your nappy?". Then they feel like it was their decision :) It works nearly every time for me! :)
My childless self taking notes : )
Haha , our daughter would refuse both 😆😆😆
I do this and it used to work, but recently she just says no to everything. So when I give her two options and she just says NO, I tell her I gave her 2 choices not a yes or no question, her response? NO 😅 So it is really difficult and although I agree with you that this is a great approach, it definitely does not always have to work :) (My daughter is 22 months btw)
@@kristynarachova2145 Oh no! I'm dreading the day when it doesn't work for me either >_
@@biellaspointofview2054 Hahaha same here.
One day Sutan will watch this and realize how much of love and affection her Mom and Dad always have for her 💜 You rock Moe!! Fighting!! 💪
I have a difficult relationship with my mom so im kinda jealous of Sutan. she's blessed to have a great mother
Same
Don’t be though because you don’t really know, these are snippets. I don’t see as many bruises on Sutan in the newer videos but she had a several in videos from a few months ago, it could have been a fall but it would have had to be a big fall because her shoulder showed several shades of purple. Child abuse is very common in japan. Not saying that’s what’s happening here but just avoid judging your life or your family because of what your see of others. Especially on Social media.
@@PunsandPixels its ironic you're telling me that when you're making assumptions yourself from what you also see in their videos lmao
@@supermodelwannabe I clearly said “not saying that is what is happening here” I just happen to know this is very common in Japan because they are generally very overworked, and other cultural influences. But that’s fine if you don’t want to take the suggestion no worries. Peace ✌🏻
@@PunsandPixels tf? I can see ur point but its so obvious that the child is very healthy.
She is an amazing mother. Being an educator myself, I can see that she's a great educator. Her daughter is going to grow to be a wonderful lady.
She’s such a good mom, the fact that she’s open about her motherhood journey is amazing and strong!
Being kind and consistent are the most important qualities and you’re succeeding in both of these. Also, your love for your family is radiant and will pay off when your daughter becomes a wonderful adult one day.
When Sutan grows up and starts watching these videos her mom has for her, i know she's going to understand and appreciate just how loved she is
The baby girl is very lucky to have such a mother 👩
I’m not a mom, but I am a big sister to my little four year old brother. Since my parents are busy with work, I take care of him for most of the day. Watching your videos inspire me to be better! Your relationship with Sutan is so adorable!
Good luck for you! ❤
We are rooting for you
Thank you so much 😊
@@chuche5651 you're welcome! 😉
Being a mom is so tiring. I honestly never let my kids have too much nap in the afternoon. Usually only for 1 hour. And the napping time must not after 3 pm. So that they will go to bed early at night. Just watching this i can feel how tired is Moe. Please take care of your health. I will be moody the whole day if i dont have enough sleep. U are such a great mom Moe!!
The comment your say at the end is so insightful. How you reflect on stopping your daughter from doing something because she will dirty her clothes and that she should experience it instead. These are things we really only notice after the moment and having to go through video capturing that moment really forces us to notice it. So thank you for sharing that. You are a very patient mum. Much love, Puja x
I’m 23 years old and watch these videos with the biggest smile on my face. This little family is what everyone deep down wants. Seeing sutan being raised but such a compassionate, kind, caring, beautiful mother is healing things in me 🥹 good job kimono mama ♥️
I don't think everyone wants this, different people want different lives
Imagine every time you get back home you see those two faces. Her husband is a happy man indeed
@@raygin6581 ikr
and moto deserves it because he is a loving husband to moe and good father to sutan ❤️
@@sheenamarietubiano317 true that
True
Wow Sutan is so cute asking “これ何〜” and then waiting for you to tell her, and she is getting so big, she can already repeat the word back ❤️
Seriously you are a superhero, being a mom, a wife but most importantly and impressively you are being yourself in this hectic world/lifestyle and you are doing amazing!
Thanks so much for sharing your busy lifestyle with us. I know that I personally enjoyed getting a peek at how you handle/juggle everything
Thank you for being honest with your feelings
I love how HARDWORKING their whole family is.
Lets just take a moment and look at how beautiful she and her child are
Facts
True
A mum herself with a little child like this everyday,
will definitely soon be crazy. How can she associate with other adult?!
@@katekim591 She actually reminds me of my mom. My mom still managed to find the time to be with friends, and I'm sure Moe does as well
@@katekim591 whats with you and your negative comments lmao😂, and no she will not be crazy cuz she's not you lady
I pray that everyone's motherhood and marriage life be this peaceful. 😇
Your note for Sutan made me cry. My daughter is as old as she is and is in the same phase. It's challenging but my god am I proud to be her mother. I love her so much and even when it's hard, it's wonderful.
you're so patient and so loving towards your family, and you never stop learning/ upgrading yourself, you're an amazing mother & a wonderful woman!
Moe has improved so much over the past few months. English speaking, video editing and even video recording. Keep it up Moe.
Moe looks like shes gonna cry anytime soon at the end. You’re a strong mom ❤️
And noticed that too :"(
You should sleep more. It's not worth spending so much time so early/late working on your channel, because it influences your health, and in the long term period you will experience all drawbacks of this lifestyle. You don't have to edit the video immediately after recording, separate the work into smaller chunks. We, your viewers are patient and I believe, that we could wait a little bit longer for a new video :) Take care of yourself!
Exactly
Agree
Good point
You are a great mom with so much patience. I hope that you give yourself huge credit because motherhood is hard and you're doing amazing.
My mom always said a man may work from Sun to Sun but a woman’s work is never done and it’s true especially when your partner must be away or travel for work. It’s unavoidable burning the candle at both ends. But it’s only for a time and then they’re grown and gone. Thanks to Moe for sharing so honestly.
I do worry about her health, especially with everyone saying how inspiring and strong she is for working so hard. I mean, yes she is inspiring and strong, but not getting any sleep and damaging your health should not be glorified in my opinion. Edit: to everyone saying that's just the sacrifice you have to make as a mother, that is completely missing the point. Technically her motherhood is from 7am-10pm, but she gets only a couple of hours sleep because of all the extra strain she is putting herself through. If it is a one off then that's fine but consistently that will cause so much unnecessary damage which is not ok and not normal, no matter what age or race she is.
No
Strongly agree with this. I saw the timestamp at the end of the video and I was shocked.
The always hustle culture is really bad for us as humans. I hope that this video was just a one-off thing with how much sleep she gets and she sleeps much more than that typically.
completely agree
Unfortunatley where i live things are the same for kids. My friend has to wake up at 5am cause the school bus comes at 6 and obv its mentally draining to do every single day for your entire life
Thats the price of motherhood, sacrificing always for children
This really reminds me of how I first came across Moe and her family on Paolo's channel 🥺they really came this far and Moe's English is getting better and better!
I know I am late but I recognise Moe is crying due to exhaustion..I do raise my son by myself while my husband is working..I feel you, Moe..those expectation when you think you finally able to take a little break when you see your child sleeping..but suddenly those expectation falls out when they woke up 😂..my son is 4 already now and seeing this sure brings back some memory..seeing them growing so much already really makes me want to cry..all hardwork has paid off..Ganbatte Moe..you've already do a good job..please take some rest..Its okay for not being okay..Love from Indonesia ❤
i don't know why i am crying at the end of the video 😢
Moe, you really did a great job as a mother, your patience is on another level.
and I know for sure that you feel very very tired, you barely have a time for yourself. But thank you to bare it for Sutan. I understand how big is your sacrifice, your thought, and your love to your family ❤️
i hope and pray the best for your family and yourself, always be healthy and be happy, Moe the incredible mom ❤️
You’re so inspiring, I wish to be just like you when I’ll have a kid. However, Moe, please try to find a way to be on your own for a day once in a while... it is important to take care of yourself physically and mentally. You are not JUST a mother.
So astonishing! I just felt like I’m a terrible mom to raise my daughter, I never stayed that late for her as I’m always feeling tired after work. To be a full time mom in Japan is so tiresome, Moe is so brilliant and amazing, she’s raised an angle that I love most in the internet!
The part where you held her up to the mirror made me emotional, idk why. It felt so pure and authentic, you could feel the love through the screen you have for her and that she has for you. Beautiful family.❤️
"i always try to finish today task in the morning"
"once its down,it will never stick again" --- moe 2021
so inspiring ,all kudos to u moe!!!
I literally cried in the end😭 no one is perfect, but I can see clearly that you always give your best to be a mom and a wife. 頑張ってくれてありがとうございます! ♥️
My daughter is about the same age as yours. She cried for us to carry her all the time too. It helps if you kneel down at her level and tell her you want to play and pick her up but you can't right now. My daughter reacted better when we tried this approach. Good luck!! Hang in there!! It's hard!
Thanks for the tips! My babe's still 8 months but gonna keep this in mind
Hi there! I am from Brazil and a mom of a 1 year old and by seeing the way you are with your daughter I realized how similar it is to me and my son. I see so far no big cultural differences although we live so far apart. Keep up the good content! :-)
Letting your child experience things by herself is a great way of teaching things. When I was about Sutan's age, I remember crying after eating a tube of wasabi which I thought was toothpaste, because I also ate toothpaste. He just smiled at me and asked, "Yummy?" I stopped eating toothpaste and wasabi after that
Thanks for this anecdote. I am not a mom, but sometimes I feel like kids aren't allowed to test (non threatening ofc) their suroundings and get a flat out "No!" left, right and center. How are they supposed to learn if they never experience some natural consequences? The parents should be present during these but let them see for themselves.
My little daughter is 2 too. I really understand how it is to stop being to overcautious, I needed to learn to stop saying No too and started to let her explore the world by herself and instead of no you can explain why she can't do that right now or something. And if you need help with translation I can do the German translation four you too. You really need more sleep and your strength for your daughter. Your doing a great job 👏
Well said 👍🏻
I love how honest Moe is, showing all part of her day even when she is struggling, this is very rare to see and I appreciate it
2:52 Sutan's "Oishi~" is a whole mood, she's so cute~
Sutan was very clingy to you all day, but when she heard the voice of his dad. She was soo excited to be released. Kawaiii
You talked about the struggle all parents go through how much to let them go even if they may get a little hurt. When to tell them no because it will make too much work for you. The balance is very hard to find. Every parent has to do what is right for there family. You seem to be doing fine. She is happy and healthy, bright, and engaged with the world.
I love this video! Especially at the end when you were saying how your daughters clothes getting dirty is an adult problem not the child’s. Definitely took that to heart as a mom. I need to do better in that aspect! Thank you for sharing!
You have an advantage over most moms. You get to watch a playback of the whole day and make the next day better. You are a great mom and it shows in your daughter. She is happy, secure and well adjusted.
You're such a good mom. I love how you interact with her, asking her questions and not getting frustrated.
When I watched your video, I thought that being a mother is a holly privilege because you're never getting tired of taking care of your baby girl, and also you have amazing energy. While I was watching, I almost cried as I saw your patience and pure love. You're like a superhero
So on average, how many hours of sleep do you get a night? It doesn't seem like you get a lot of sleep at all. I'm amazed at your energy through out the day, especially with trying to entertain Sutan and cook meals from scratch.
I got the Same question it was almost 24 Hours she doesn't slept. Her energy is absolutely phenomenal throughout the Day. I wonder how she doesn't get tired after all the hectic day.
I can't even imagine with a 5 month old now but I am guessing not everyday looks exactly the same. The next day she might need to sleep a lot more. I would die if everyday was like that 😆😅
I think I’m the first video she shot she said she sleeps 4 hours
Ты замечательная мама.Может по-русски?
I appreciate your sincerety in the vlog, it makes me appreciate my mom more
I know it is a pain I've been there, but sometimes you just have to let the kid cry. Especially when it comes to being picked up. Sutan reminds me a lot of my son, and sometimes we would just let him cry it out. It's tough but helped us when he got older.
Ya, Moe let Sutan crying a lot when she's crying before time to sleep.
Yes, I think it would be helpful for Moe to set boundaries with Sutan. That way she can learn that she will be okay even when she is left alone. It seems to be very draining having to soothe a crying toddler most of the day. Also setting a routine and making sure not to stray from it will help Moe feel more comfortable. Discipline such as taking away tv or toys can be effective if used appropriately. No parenting is perfect but there are many tips and techniques that can help out struggling parents :)
@\ You are trying your best to sound clever, however when what you say is illogical nonsense that has nothing to do with the comment you're replying too, you come off as incompetent.
I definitely agree with setting boundaries. You're going to run yourself ragged being at the beck and call of a 2 year old, especially if you have tasks that need completing weighing heavily in the back of your mind. Yes you want her to feel loved and happy, but mom deserves the same as well. The trick is finding that balance. When I kept seeing you stopping what you were doing to pick Sutan up for the umpteenth time because she was crying to be picked up... you have the patience of a saint lol
I mean thats why kids all over the world grow up hating their parents or having little to no feelings toward them bc of this attitude towards kids
I mean, for a kid they will see you as shit and uncaring, what would harm you if you stayed with them one hour or more so they can grow up better loving toward parents lol
im accidentally learning japanese because of how you talk to sutan
Lol
I know, right? I've noticed that I've started recognizinnng some phrases without having to look at the subtitles, lol.
Accidental language acquisition 😂😂
this is one of the reasons i watch her videos lol. Sutan being a baby and her still learning japanese really helps me as well
lmaoooo me top hahaha
Honestly, taking care of a kid has so much responsibilities. I took care of my little sister for a while when she was 3 and they are just so curious of everything that I found myself saying no all the time. The things she wants to do is not dangerous but troublesome for us. Like she kept wanting me to read to her or makes a mess so I found myself trying to stop her before she even thought about it haha. Maybe I'll learn more when I have my own.
Same here
Same for me. We'll learn in time.
@nop e I'm sorry you had to be traumatized to not have kids. But if you ever find the right one and share the responsibilities, that maybe would be better.
You are genuinely such brilliant parents and you have taught me so much for when I have kids in the future. You can really see how considerate and loving you are towards Sutan. You're a real inspiration Moe and Moto! 💕
“Abc” “mochi mochi”
Sutan is a ball of cuteness!
Her patience is on a whole different level. But at the same time, idk what it's like to be a parent..
It the biggest challenge in Life
Moe-san, Give yourself 2 pats on the back. Taking care of you takes care of your family, so get the rest you need, even if it means letting the editing go a day. Trust me, those of us with children understand completely how draining this time in a parent's life can be💎💎💎💎💎
Being a mom is hard. Thank you for your insights. You work so hard and give so much of yourself. Wishing you and your family the best. 💕
don't be too hard on yourself, moe! you're doing an amazing job as a mother and a wife, it's so clear how much effort you put into spending quality time with sutan. not to mention you keep up with youtube and english lessons on top of everything else! hugs from canada 😊
OMG, thank you. You've been inspire every girl to be such a good mom in the future, actually me i've been learn a lot how you're parenting Sutan.
I hope i can be a smart and kind mom too, soon..
Me too! She inspires me to be a good mother one day too 💗
I love how's she look at her way of parenting and acknowledge what must she do and dont
I was a very well behaved child and my mom told me, that as long as she explained to me why sth. is a "no" or dangerous I accepted it. it was all about understanding and asking questions. maybe remebering that everything is new to her and talking a lot about the "why"s and general info will help.
Normally I dont comment, but this video has left an impression on me.
Moe, thank you for spending the effort and precious time to make these vlogs. I have learned a lot about the struggles of mothers from you and just how much effort and energy it takes to raise a child, and how it affects you. By the end of the day you were struggling to keep it together, I have to praise your patience and your ability to cope and handle your emotions. It must be especially hard for you because, in addition to double guessing yourself normally, you also double guess your actions that you see while editing videos. It's all on there in camera.
I wish you and your family all the best and I hope that you keep enjoying what you are doing in making these videos. I also hope that you can take care of yourself, even if it is clearly very difficult to do so.
Thank you again for all the effort you put into videos for us, your hard work is noticed and greatly appreciated.
being a mom is tiring and hard work. never really realized this until in my adulthood when i saw vlogs like this and stories from friends. made me appreciate my mom more.
Eres una mamá admirable y más aún en una sociedad donde tener hijos se ha vuelto una carga. Ojalá muchas japonesas sigan tu buen ejemplo. Saludos