A few years ago I knew this guy who joked about being super straight. He was bisexual, but he had only dated men twice. And BOTH times, it turned out they were actually closeted trans women. So he joked about how he was SO straight, he could be attracted to a woman before she even knew she was a woman.
Also they probably knew they were women. Transition doesn't start when you know you're trans, it starts when you have enough courage to face the hell that comes with being openly trans.
@@blackriver2531 dysphoria is a helluva drug. I knew I wanted to be a girl in middle school, then I intentionally let myself forget in high school, then I realized it again a few years ago.
@@blackriver2531 Ive actually had this happen to me before. They didn't even consider something like that until they met me. I called myself frequent, continuous, accidental lesbian as a result. They became hotter once they transitioned. So theres that. Happy bodies are fucking hot
@@blackriver2531 Trans woman here. In retrospect I can see obvious signs that I was trans. Like when puberty began I was literally brought to tears because some of the stuff going on just seemed so fundamentally wrong and body-horror like. Or how even before that I thought it would be good to be a girl. The sorts of signs that, in retrospect, could be used to say "I always knew". But I think the truth is, for many people (certainly for me), it's not so simple. I really only accepted the idea that I even could be trans many years later, maybe around 18. I actually recognized myself as trans in the mid and late half of my twenties. And then, I got together the courage to transition at age 29 (nov 13th of last year, in fact). When I came out to my friends and family, their response was overwhelmingly "Oh, that makes sense!". So obviously even other people picked up on something, even if they didn't know what. Anyway, my point is this: trans experiences differ a whole lot. Some people definitely fit the common narrative of "I always knew!", while others struggle and fight and rage against admitting the obvious to themselves, and still others are just oblivious or misinformed for a while.
My Bluetooth headphones were almost dead at 2:32 so when that line came up, I just heard... "The Deity of your religion appears to you in a vision and says "BATTERY LOW. PLEASE CHARGE NOW"."
I have never been asked people look at me and assume I am Bi which is wierd, I look like a typical Jesus pic, same height (5 foot jack shit) same hair, long and brown and wavy, serious beard, olive complexion, bit of socialist.
I Thing "Super straight" sound like you (before coming out as lesbian) were saying "I'm straight unless it's Melissa Benoist, Then very attracted." Or if I said "I'm straight unless it's Christopher Reeve" and that'd make sense. I as joking to make fun of the "Super straight" idiots, I am a Straight man and would have no problem dating a Transwoman if I liked them. Because a Transwoman is still a Woman.
The sad thing is, I first encountered this ideology over a decade ago when a bunch of lesbians in a room together told me they could never be attracted to a trans person. "Its just so obvious when a guy does this but I'm just too gay, I'm a 7 on the Kensey Scale. I'd know instantly if some guy were trying to trick me." And there i am, trans, sitting next to my date thinking, well this date is a bust. Broke my heart, never really got over that day, but none of those ladies ever knew. Somewhere out there is some jerk with his date explaining to her about being super straight with no idea she's trans. I guarantee it.
If a trans person is going on a date, they should tell their date they are trans. First because it is the moral thing to do. And second because the other person will find out eventually if the relationship lasts long term so why waste your time if they are going to break up with you the second they learn that you are trans?
@@greywolf7577 There are two separate ways of seeing this, what you describe is one way, which I generally prescribe to btw. But the counter argument to wait is basically, this is an extremely personal issue, possibly exceedingly dangerous depending on where you live (about a month after my first ever date a trans woman a 40 minute drive from me was beaten to death and her corpse left in a ditch. We HAVE to take our safety very seriously), and you may want to decide if the other person is even suitable enough to date before you commit to telling them something so serious. In the case I described, I was asked out randomly at a time in my life when I had a dating profile clearly stating I was trans. So it wasn't as though I was hiding anything but the subject hadn't come up. We were only just getting to know each other at a party. That experience taught me to be more wary of sharing, not less.
@Lex Bright Raven to be fair, their is such a thing as STDs. I’d kind of like to be aware of those before dating a person. That and weather or not they need to go to the bathroom when I need to go to the bathroom. I live in a one bath house.
@@Mrnotpib uhhhh... Would you go to the bathroom with your gf if she wasn't trans? That's a bit weird m8, especially if her being trans somehow stops you too.
Stuff like this just confuses me because I'm bisexual and once replied to a woman coming out to me before hooking up with "sick, I like women with penises too" She still laughs at me about it to this day
The way they claim that trans people get aggressive and scream transphobia when we're rejected is so divorced from reality. I'm more afraid of being met with violence from a potential partner than I am of being told "no thanks" by my crush.
I know right?? They are so pressed about people rightly being angry about their transphobia when there are so many trans people that are beaten and murdered just for expressing who they are to the point that im debating even trying to transition.
@@eila2635 That fear kept me in the closet, _even to myself,_ for five to ten years longer than I _wish_ I'd been in the closet. The last twenty years have changed things _immensely_ for the better, if only in terms of being able to reach out for help from far-flung comrades, so I urge you to keep having that conversation with yourself and those you trust.
Which scenario? And why wtf would it work? Nothing this guy says is ever logically sound its just loop hole jumping, reverse his logic it doesn't serve your purpose. Try it plz
I have to admit I got a bit confused by the celebrity scenario by choosing my favorite celebrity ,regardless of if I want to sleep with them. So now in my mind I'm standing in front Danny DeVito, who I already don't want to have sex with and then he's telling me hes trans and I have to decide if I still don't want to have sex with him.
@@crimsonwolf6866 also didn't look too bad dressed as the cheetah in the episode where the gang breaks up and he gets the other bar shut down. Much more like a house cat, but not in a bad way 🤔
If even a year ago, you heard someone say "I'm straight. No I mean, I'm really very straight. I'm SUPER straight." I feel like there are some pretty obvious assumptions you could make about that person's need for self-assurance.
@@ShadowSumac How is that a fucking response to what I said? You implied that leftists act like victims. I pointed out that only conservatives make supremacist positions into a default. You then offer some irrelevant waffle. And your waffle is still actually proof of my point. In fact, velvet ceiling advocates don't say trans folks are entitled to sex. They just point out that many trans folks are denied sex because of bigotry. Saying A can be caused by bad thing B doesn't deny it can be caused by benign thing C. So you're fucking up basic logic. But there ARE people who act entitled to sex. Say, folks like incels, and their daddy Jordan Peterson, who wants to make informally coercive means to make sure everyone can get sex. So... conservatives defend male entitlement to sex. Can you stop the projection?
@@MrCiberCiber No. I am saying people can be bigoted so that they don't act ways they would have otherwise. My position allows for closeted gay men. You have to pretend they don't exist because, for some reason, you've decided it's better to stan for some shitty meme than admit that people can be crappy to each other AND ALSO separately sometimes genuinely not be attracted to each other.
Gotta love the conservative thought process at work here. “Different sexualities aren’t valid, except when I’m making one up. Then they’re incredibly valid and you’re being mean to me 🥺”
@@stevebob2941 superstraight alone discredits itself through its own reasoning. “I am superstraight bc I don’t date trans people” implies that being in a straight relationship with a trans person is impossible because them being trans makes them less of the gender they say they are. Implying trans people aren’t “enough of a (insert gender) to be considered as such” is to say you don’t respect trans individuals’ gender identity on the principle that they are trans because “they aren’t their gender enough to possibly be in a straight relationship with”. It’s self-defeating rhetoric that crumbles to show poorly disguised bigotry when you so much as… (checks notes)… think about what it means past the cute tag-line of trying to crowbar your way into a community you hate
@@gameinsane4718 men arent women and women arent men. and aside from that super straight is a SEX-uality not a Gender-ality. you cant change your sex u are either male or female superstraights are people who are attracted to the biological opposite sex. Your whole argument is predicated on you thinking that saying you are a woman makes you one even if you arent biologically and yet you claim the people on the other side of the argument are science deniers
@@stevebob2941 for starters: gender-ality isn’t a word Secondly, sexuality is about attraction. Unless you’re in a nudist colony you’re not going to be seeing peoples’ genitals when you first meet them. Going back to the video, if you’re attracted to a woman, and she tells you she’s trans, and that is what turns you off it’s no longer about attraction. You were attracted to her but her trans-ness is what turned you off… it’s no longer about attraction. If you were attracted to a woman, and she says she’s a serial killer (literally an example in the video) and you don’t want to date her anymore… it’s not about attraction anymore. It’s the fact they’re a serial killer. Sexuality is about attraction. What you do with your attraction, and why, is a separate subject entirely from the attraction itself.
@@gameinsane4718 you do realize that you can tell if someone is a man or a woman generally based on facial/body structure you dont see their genitals to start with. something like 95 percent of the time you can tell just on that, so your argument is null and void right there first sentence you decided to type was wrong and stupid. 2ndly it is about attraction. the level of attraction you feel for someone can go from 100 - 0 with new information. people can go from being attracted to someone to not being. it sounds like you have never been in a relationship that has ended. you can go from being into someone to not been there done that. you have said nothing of value just claimed that attraction is somehow detached from your sexuality? which if thats the case why cant you just change who you are attracted to? heres the answer. you cant thats what the christian right used to want with conversion therapy and you are on the side that is advocating for the same thing. you want people to be attracted to things they arent attracted to because of your values "trans women are woman" no they arent because if they were that statement wouldnt be bleated on by you sheeps/useful idiots.
@@samson7294 Unfortunately, this only seems to be happening on culture war issues. They're kicking our asses in the economic and military/Empire-maintenance side of things.
Yass I was attracted to her before she transitioned, unfortunately, I’m not attracted to women in a romantic way Edit: OH FUCK MY MISTAKE LOVE WOMEN NOW
I knew someone who quit a good job because the company founder transitioned male to female. I was like but why did you quit and he kept saying “he was a man, then came back to work as a woman” and I was like “why did it cause a problem at work?” and he kept repeating that the founder changed genders. I never found out how that made it hard to work there. Honestly we kept going around over and over, because I was high and kept thinking I was missing something. I still can’t understand it, my acquaintance took a way shit job rather than keep working there.
The fragility of the people who feel the need to label themselves as 'super straight' is absolutely mind-blowing. Probably the type of guy who wouldn't use moisturizer because they worry their friends will think it makes them gay.
It's not fragility. There is nothing genuine or real about it. It's a parody of LGBT groups and meant exclusively to get a reaction out of LGBT people, which it has certainly gotten.
God I remember when I was that kind of guy. "Nah babe I'm going for the 'weather-beaten cod fisherman' skincare routine". How are so many grown ass men just totally chill with their dry-ass skin chafing after they wash their face, especially if they're going outside anywhere that has an actual winter?
@@st.michaelofcigarillo2845 lmaooo i love this. i don’t know if you’re being ironic, but i almost feel like it’s even funnier if you’re not. like if you genuinely believe that.
My "favorite" thing about this meme is that nazis will straight up post actual foghorn transphobic memes alongside the superstraight memes, completely defeating the purpose of the dogwhistle
You can be attracted to someone and not like their genitals. You can also, respect them enough to not make a public opposition campaign about it. Seems like pretty basic stuff to me.
it’s fine to prefer one set of genitalia over another. After all, that’s more than likely the thing you want to have sex with. However, you don’t get to be an ass about what kind of genitalia that person possesses and be like “you are less of a human being worthy of love and affection” because you don’t like modified genitalia, you goblin.
Attraction is more complex than this video wants to make it seem. You can be attracted to a person's secondary sex characteristics, but totally turned off by their primary sex characteristics.
@@stevenboelke6661 I think the point of the video is that You can be attracted to a specific gender and posess the sexual agency to not want to interact with genitalia you dont want to interact with. You can have your cake and eat it too (trans pepople are not put down while your sexual agency is intact ) while the nazi right super straigtts are trying to imply that you cannot have your cake and eat it to, The only way for you to express your sexual agency (in THEIR opinion) is to put down transgenders. so TLDR: I am attracted to women (that includes transgender people who present as women) but I can express my sexual agency to not want to interact with a penis that isnt mines.
@@samt965 First, if this video is painful to you you probably need some introspection of your own sexuality. Because this video is simply stating that sexual preference shouldn't justify transphobia and that transphobia is not a sexuality. Second, your uncomfortable feeling toward a video that make you realise you probably have internalised some transphobia for denying your sexual attraction the moment you learn somone is trans, have nothing to do with entergagement. Entergagement IS a funny word and I love it😂
@@xgzav3488 I’m not afraid or phobic of anyone, I’m uncomfortable with this video because, my preference and sexuality isn’t a choice. I’m uncomfortable because they say being and Transgender person has nothing to do with sexuality, AND THATS THE MAIN POINT of transgender people base their personalities and idea on Sexuality
@@samt965 you should probably learn what transphobia and transgender means before talking like that. Transgender have nothing to do with sexuality. It has to do with gender. It means you're not the gender you were assigned at birth. Transphobia is not being afraid of trans people, it's to not recognise that they realy are the gender they say they are. Like the video said: you would be transphobic for claiming you're not attracted to transwomen because they are not "real" women. You would not be transphobic for not being attracted to a transwomen for basicaly any other reason. The video literally said that you could hypotheticaly not be attracted by any trans person and still not be transphobic if the reason you're not attracted by them is not "they're trans". That's exactly the reason super straight is transphobic, it has notting to do with being sexually attracted to someone, it has to do with not wanting to consider trans people as the gender they say they are. That's also why the video ask you to imagine someone you're attracted to, then imagine you learn they were assigned a different gender before. If it change your attraction to them, it would mean that, consciously or not, you have transphobic views. You don't see them as the gender they are. If you still feel like your "super straight" or something like that, I would invite you to do some introspection, question yourself, because super straight can only exist with a completely transphobic perspective. I liked the video and I invite you to rewatch it with an open mind on your own someday. You may realy dislike it though, I don't know. If you don't want to watch it again its fine realy, there is another video, very different that I think ask questions that you would find interesting. It's "are traps gay" by Contrapoint. It's another video that discuss heterosexuality and its relation to gender transition. It's realy well made, I hope you like it.
@@xgzav3488 Why do they insist on the dogma that, in your words, " Transgender have nothing to do with sexuality.". "It has to do with gender." Your very next statement counters that, " It means you're not the gender you were assigned at birth". Sexuality is linked with your sex, there are always exemptions, but that fact remains. there is nothing a Trans women/Trans man could do for a superstraight to be with them because the SEX parts in wrong for them. They are not attracted to that in the same way it wold make you sick if you were with your parents
Did you know that when you leave a comment under a UA-cam video, It boosts the engagement of the UA-cam video regardless of the contents of that comment - Positive, negative, neutral? And the more engagement a video gets, the more times that the UA-cam algorithm sets that video in front of eyeballs! Real interesting stuff.
I've seen the Super Straight Snyder cut. It's just several hours of the Watchmen defending the Comedian's crimes while staring at a blue dick in case it makes any sudden moves.
Ahhh yes. Just like how I exclude pineapple on pizza and don't find it appealing because I am in fact secretly a pineapple pizza! Excellent logic ! 👏 👏 👏
Reminds me of a "movement" of gay and bi conservative men who call themselves "g0y" (idk how to pronounce it, don't ask), and claim outwardly to perceive anal sex as somehow intrinsically harmful and therefore to be avoided, but if you look at what they post in forums they don't expect outsiders to look at it turns out that in addition, they share slogans about "reclaiming" manhood from the LGBTQ community. It's not the same, but there are similarities I think.
I've never realized it before either, but now that you mention it, a whole new world has opened up to me of unknown husbands and the cakes they sit on. And also typos I have to go back and edit because my brain thought the word unknown had too many n's in it so I left one out just in case I needed an extra n later in my comment. I didn't though, hence the edit and this lengthy explanation of why I had to edit it that gives away the whole thing because now everyone will know how bad I am at everything.
Mildred said "When I believe something, I say so" and then my headphones crashed and the next several seconds was silence. I genuinely thought it was a tongue in cheek editorial decision.
People wanting to defend their sexual preferences from crazy incels - called alt-right. I hope you do understand that with this shit you push away even more people, who were or could on your side?
I used to think I was kind of transphobic for being grossed out by the thought of having sex with a trans person. Turns out I'm just asexual and it was specifically the 'sex' part of that thought that grossed me out, not the 'trans' part.
I don't think anyone is transphobic because they have specific genital preferences. It's something you can't consciously control. It's not transphobic to be initially attracted to a person but then not be into them as much when you find their genitalia doesn't match your sexual preferences. The transphobia comes into play when you then use those preferences to invalidate trans women and men as not 'real' women or men. EDIT: I want to add that it's certainly not right to assume that all transwomen or transmen have the same kind of body, or genital configuration. It could very well be, straight or gay, that as a cis person, a specific trans individual you are initially attracted to might be able, AND willing, to engage in the kinds of sexual acts that you prefer, or if that's not the case, you actually discover that you are open to finding other ways of sexual fulfillment. But if neither scenario happens, I don't think you could be labelled transphobic for your preference of certain sexual acts. This is a grey area, as sexuality is not something that is set in stone, and is a personal journey; but also precisely because of that, I am hesitant to label anyone as transphobic (or any other label) because they are not (yet?) willing to engage in whatever particular sexual acts with whatever particular person.
@@nelsonth Exactly. There’s nothing wrong with having a preference, but preference ≠ sexuality. Not being attracted to short people doesn’t make you “brachyphobic”, but it also doesn’t make you “altosexual” (I just made both of those words up).
I mean even then. Its. Like. Fine. If you, have genital preferences. Like. I guess. Its. I am trans and even in the trans community theres alot of debate on this subject but the general consensus is. If you believe trans people are the gender they identify as. Yourr probably fine. Emphasis on the probably though.
It's incredibly dull how in any discussion of transphobia people have to reaffirm their "genital preferences" as if anyone asked. Like you're so confident in that not being transphobic that you have to remind everyone present that you're not transphobic. Especially with the impact of HRT, even discounting surgeries altogether, trans people make it starkly apparent how analogous the genitals of each ostensibly distinct sex are, and how much overlap there can be between them. Treating "genital preference" as a core and necessary part of sexuality is rooted in major assumptions about what the genitals of a trans person will even look like, and what kinds of sex they're interested in having, and just generally stems for an obsession with superimposing cis binaries upon trans people. Like nobody seriously claiming to be progressive makes these kinds of claims about cis people - you might have opinions on how someone's junk looks but you don't suddenly lose your attraction cause it's a different shape or size than what you expected. Applying a different standard to trans people only really makes sense if you obsessively assign everyone a role in "PIV" and treat that as the real essence of sexuality, which just doesn't reflect reality, especially not when trans people are involved.
Honestly I gotta wonder if sticking nazi letters at the front of the acronym was the entire point, to see if they could push it mainstream like they did with the OK symbol.
Hey! I'm a caveman with very kind LGBTQIA+ friends who hold my hand as I stumble ass-backwards through these issues. For other cavefolk, here's what I thought and what I needed to know: I had assumed this was primarily a conversation about sex and what genitalia one may find arousing-- It took me a long time to put language to that, but I thought the "Super straights" were just chads trying to say they really don't like the bepis. The conversation changed a lot for me when a friend pointed out that science can create a full transition for folks who choose that-- that is to say fully functioning sexual organs too. I had too google it, because I didn't think science had come that far. I realized then, that at the base level, this was truly the conversation my friends claimed it to be: A movement of people rejecting trans people, even those who pass as their gender in every possible way. My friends pointed out that nobody is arguing you need to have sex you don't want. There is an adjacent question relating to people who cannot or do not wish to transition fully. There are kind ways to have conversations about what sex is comfortable and what isn't. For some people, in a loving relationship, they may get over their hangup with the bepis (or whatever the conflict, I like this language because it's silly and I blush when I talk about sex). For others, that may be a legitimate deal breaker and that conversation can be had in a kind way that does not invoke gender validity. That said, for us heterosexual folk who are not always very informed about the experiences of our trans friends, the best response is to be kind to them about their gender and listen to them when they say something is hurtful. Ask sincere questions and use that understanding to become more kind. I'm married, so I don't date. Still, after all the conversations I've had, I understand enough to say I would not have a problem dating a trans woman, because I've always like women. :)
The thing is you dont hacve to date anyone you dont want, even if you were not married, you like whom you like, its more about the attitude to ust, not exclude that experience. And its more about tackling biases and being open to listen to , what you did. You seem do be a good friend and ally. And as your friend said, you dont have to like anyone you dont, which makes the outroar not even justified at all. ust stopping transphobia from pressutring people who might like trans partner, not to freak out. The trans panic defense is still legal in states. Thats scary, the goal is really getting rid of those perceptions. Throgh it cool you agnowledge you had no isues dating a hypothetical transitioned or transitioning person.
Thank you for bringing this up, I felt like I was being gaslit for 14 minutes not understanding that a full transition like you described was actually possible until I read your comment. Thank you !
I'm sorry but science cannot currently make a penis that ejaculates or a vagina that self-lubricates. So "fully functioning" genitalia is not how I'd describe it.
I really hope it's not. I may not insecure about my sexual attraction to be transphobic. That doesn't mean I don't feal weird that I'm the only person I know with a cake fetish. P.S. I don't want to use reddit to discuss this because ya' know reddit.
@@stadtbekanntertunichtgut I have plenty of respect for straight people, and I'll defend the right of anyone to choose not to have sex with anyone else for any reason (though it does need to be acknowledged that some of those reasons are also bigoted). But you don't get to change what constitutes a sexuality in an effort to avoid accusations of transphobia. Also, even just looking at the term "super straight", it's pretty obviously transphobic to imply that someone who's into trans people is somehow less straight. Fighting intolerance sometimes requires not tolerating intolerance.
@@stadtbekanntertunichtgut so based on what you just said, you're not arguing for a new "super straight" category for people who are only into cis people, you just don't think someone can be straight while also being attracted to trans people. That's not a new thing. Do me a favor and look at the trans men featured in the video. If you saw a man indicate that they were attracted to one of them, would you think he's gay or straight? Because all those trans men were assigned female at birth, but I bet if you saw a cis man holding hands with a trans man, you wouldn't think they're straight. Sexuality is complicated, but in general, the people who are attracted to trans women are people who are attracted to women, and the people who are attracted to trans men are people who are attracted to men.
This comment does not relate much to the subject of the video, as much as it does relate to the struggles of being trans. Hi, i'm a trans woman. Today i went out to buy throat medicine and some regular groceries. During all the time i was out of the perimeter of my house, i felt relatively scared, unsafe and worried. Thinking about what could happen if someone recognizes me as trans on the street, if they would shout something at me, if the people working in the drug store and grocery store recognize me and what would they do, how man would perceive me, how woman would perceive me, what potential dangers could harm me, and on and on. In the end, everything went well and i came home safely, even if i was misgendered and deadnamed, and even if i was a little sweaty from all the heat. The point that i'm trying to get to is that sometimes it can be hard trully being myself. Going through all of this, all the troubles and hassle. But what's most important, i think, is that after all of that i was safely back home. And i watched this video, and it reminded me how trully brave and courageous i am being, and how scummy and honestly detestable the people who stand against my happiness and safety are. And that made me feel better! This video made me feel better, it drives me to continue to be my true self, to rejoice in my transness and my beauty, and to well, continue to be alive being me. So thank you matt, and thank for everyone who has read this comment, it means alot to me.
Never been exposed to this "super straight" concept before. Probably because Ive had sexual retaliations with trans and femme individuals in the past. I see myself as a femmesexual: Im attracted to femininity. But this "super straight" thing is something Im just learning about and having a reaaallllyyy hard time with trying to figure out if a few people Ive known in the past fall under this category.
Thank-you for this video. Seriously. As a trans man who has always been fighting transphobia at work, from my family, and of course society at large, it really hurts when cis people are hiding behind shit like this to avoiding being seen supporting us or denouncing us. Makes me wanna scream tbh.
Oddly, reddit admins actually quickly banned the superstraight subreddit. A friend tipped me off to it, and it was a bizarre place for sure, and then next day, bam! banned. They actually did something good for once!
@Domi B I think they are trying to be a reverse 4chan. I.e. Reddit is trying to cater to a more liberal crowd, but that is just my experience with it. I mean I was mainly in SCP subs which are usually communist and liberal and such which is sorta weird given the site's origins but whatever. So yeah, Reddit is totally doing that.
I don't want to date a trans person.... I never really liked that about myself but I never really analyzed it ether. Thanks for the video. It had some things in it I needed to hear. I'm going to go rethink some stuff.
So far the best video I've seen about the topic. A couple others reacted quickly but weren't able to go into some depth or word it as well as you did. Both approaches are necessary and I'm happy we now have a "video to keep" for future reference. Very nice, thanks.
Mr The Predator, sitting on a cake, all for me... how can i listen to the rest of this (very good and helpful) video when youve given me everything ive ever wanted at such an early part of it?
Like an Epstein/Subway Jared predator or the race of alien hunters with the mouth designed by someone that probably (definitely) needs some time of therapy? Or some weird mix of them? Maybe a Weinstein with a floppy dong for a nose that tell you to come in and have a seat on the casting cake? Any of your choices are valid, but there are definitely some choices in the above group that may indicate that you need therapy probably (definitely)
Ok, "Rhetoric Spider" cracked me up. And now I'm trying to imagine the Ramones singing Rhetoric Spider's theme song. Now you are too, aren't you? Sorry. Anyway, keep up the great work.
Yeah, what I find hilarious about this is it only exists because people want to be loud about their bigotry. If people just dated who they wanted to date, no one would be able to tell the difference.
@@fredericchristie3472 So when people state their sexuality they are bigots? By this logic Gays who don't want to fuck vaginas or Lesbians who don't want to deal with dicks are bigots too. Not that you thought about this part, because it would rip your logic apart..or you just not smart enough to think of this.
You know what, I'm a cis man, I've only ever been sexually attracted to women, I've never known myself to be attracted to trans people, all I can say is I'm just straight. Super-straights are just transphobes. As a straight person I don't care to make a distinction in any way because I'd prefer not thinking about such trivial matters. Can I just let my feelngs be mine and leave those to myself and whoever I feel attracted to?
From what I've been able to gather, the denizens of /pol/ only caught on to the acronym similarity a month after the first superstraight posts were made, on TikTok by an edgy troll (who says that they were making fun of transphobes with the thing, but I personally don't buy it considering how widely adopted it became)
@@GrrrlStyleNow They're called Tories -- among other things. Right now, they're modelling themselves on the U.S. Republican Party, with little success federally (so far).
Alriiight, I'mma Be honest. My answer did change. Normally I'd decline having sexual acts with a Celeb, no matter who it was. But them admitting to me that they are trans is pretty darn cute, furthermore them trusting me of all people I find so heartwarming.
@@TheFatPunisher Tbh I prefer to say Bi because of comments like "if you like every gender, isn't that just pan?" or "you know 'bi' means 'two' so you can't be attracted to more than two genders, that's being pan" or "'bi' means just [cis] men and [cis] women, so bisexuality is transphobic" and other biphobic, transphobic shit that cis pansexual people have tried to push on me over the years. Edit: "bi for simplicity, pan in practice" or "bi for simplicity, bi in practice because there's no one correct way to be bisexual, other than liking multiple genders." Smh.
@Adiv Inhell when a bi person says they're attracted to all genders, which we often do, it's not your sacred duty to bring up pansexuality. we said what we said.
"People have sexual agency and trans people are valid" imagine having to argue this is 2021. Your voice is so important. Also youre my mums favourite youtuber!
"People have sexual agency" ...and that agency is bigotry if they have a preference for partners with certain genitals, or are looking for a long term relationship with a partner with whom they'd like to have offspring. The only thing that should matter is what the other person identifies as. I do love that he avoided the other side of the "super" coin, with the lesbians who are uninterested in penises and gay men who are uninterested in vaginas, regardless of how the persons with those organs identify themselves. "trans people are valid" Did any of them actually question that? I mean, beyond expresses a lack of interest in choosing them as a sexual partner? And if you want to argue that it's bigotry to not be interested in sleeping with certain people, in what way is that not attacking sexual agency? Some guys don't like blondes, many lesbians are uninterested in penises, some men like extremely feminine but still male partners, some folks will fuck anyone with a pulse. So long as it doesn't hurt anyone, why not just let people fuck who they wanna fuck?
@@steambom3350 So, genital preference and desire for a partner one can have offspring with are transphobia? Well fuck, I guess since I prefer sexual partners with vaginas (I wouldn't totally discard the possibility of a trans woman who has had bottom surgery as a partner presuming she checked all my other boxes) that makes me a transphobe. For a straight man to not be a transphobe, me must necessarily be interested in the feminine penis, right? For another example, are you suggesting that any man who was attracted to Eliot Page before he came out and started presenting male was really secretly bi and just didn't know it? Because presumably he's always been a man, that that fact only existed in his mind and not in his presentation or public identification doesn't matter, right?
@@Schadrach42 See that's the thing with your argument though: the "trans woman with a bottom surgery" parenthetical kind of undermines your whole point. I personally don't see a problem with genital preferences; those are valid to me. But a genital preference isn't a sexuality, and not all trans people will have the genitals you think they have anyway. If you prefer vagina, okay, but if someone checks all your boxes and has a vagina and is ALSO a man, is that going to be a problem for you? Because THAT'S why people who make this argument get accused of transphobia; you can't identify someone's genitals simply by looking at them while clothed.
@@Schadrach42 As a side note, the context of DATING trans people is specifically also important. Do you ask romantic partners what genitals they have on a first date? Would you consider it appropriate if someone did that to you?
My junior school teacher always told us to read through tests before starting to answer them. One day she gave us a paper with 60 not so much questions, but instructions on. I did the first two before deciding something seemed off and read through the whole paper. Number 60 said to ignore numbers 3 to 59. I was the only person who passed.
Thank you so much for eyeballing my video! Having a channel like yours help smaller channels like mine really means a lot man. Thanks for all you do for all the lil breadtubers out there.
So, when being TOLD who they SHOULD fancy, some people disagree, they should just shut up? SuperStraight is a REACTION to being told "you should fancy men" when they are not gay.
@@miff227 I think the video is saying that if you're attracted to a person until you find out they are trans then there's something else going on other than just not being attracted to trans people.
The "Two bros chilling in a hot tub....5 ft apart cuz they're not gay" meme has gained sentience.....
Lmao
Not to be confused with the super straits, narrow bodies of water that are difficult to cross
Faster than a shmooving train
I figured the super straights was a super group band involving the Dire Straits
Thank you for affirming my faith in humanity.
👏🏾😅😂🤣👍🏾
Ah, someone else who’s heard of The Bolton Strid...
A few years ago I knew this guy who joked about being super straight. He was bisexual, but he had only dated men twice. And BOTH times, it turned out they were actually closeted trans women. So he joked about how he was SO straight, he could be attracted to a woman before she even knew she was a woman.
Also they probably knew they were women. Transition doesn't start when you know you're trans, it starts when you have enough courage to face the hell that comes with being openly trans.
@@blackriver2531 Exactly
@@blackriver2531 dysphoria is a helluva drug. I knew I wanted to be a girl in middle school, then I intentionally let myself forget in high school, then I realized it again a few years ago.
@@blackriver2531 Ive actually had this happen to me before. They didn't even consider something like that until they met me.
I called myself frequent, continuous, accidental lesbian as a result.
They became hotter once they transitioned. So theres that. Happy bodies are fucking hot
@@blackriver2531 Trans woman here. In retrospect I can see obvious signs that I was trans. Like when puberty began I was literally brought to tears because some of the stuff going on just seemed so fundamentally wrong and body-horror like. Or how even before that I thought it would be good to be a girl. The sorts of signs that, in retrospect, could be used to say "I always knew". But I think the truth is, for many people (certainly for me), it's not so simple. I really only accepted the idea that I even could be trans many years later, maybe around 18. I actually recognized myself as trans in the mid and late half of my twenties. And then, I got together the courage to transition at age 29 (nov 13th of last year, in fact).
When I came out to my friends and family, their response was overwhelmingly "Oh, that makes sense!". So obviously even other people picked up on something, even if they didn't know what.
Anyway, my point is this: trans experiences differ a whole lot. Some people definitely fit the common narrative of "I always knew!", while others struggle and fight and rage against admitting the obvious to themselves, and still others are just oblivious or misinformed for a while.
My Bluetooth headphones were almost dead at 2:32 so when that line came up, I just heard...
"The Deity of your religion appears to you in a vision and says "BATTERY LOW. PLEASE CHARGE NOW"."
When god says "battery low", you better be fucking scared
Is this the so called "heat Death of the Universe"?
@@anarcopablo yes. Please plug in universe to prevent loss of progress
+ Underrated comment
Better start praying boys.
That intro was priceless. "Faster than a speeding bigot" is what got me.
Same. Priceless level of wordplay.
Second prize goes to the surprise Dom DeLuise cameo.
lol in 5 years this guy will be calling people a bigot for not being gay.
@@spellman007 that was criminally unfunny
@@spellman007 holy shit your brain is fucking amazing, it should be studied. Science must know how it's possible to be so stupid *and* unfunny.
“Super straight” sounds like what I called myself before was out as a lesbian and people asked me about my sexuality
same along with many many slurs.........before accepting i was pan i was an asshole.
I'm a super straight, I have an invulountary dislike for the same sex, its not a choice its just my biology
Or asshole, or miss use "hate".
I have never been asked people look at me and assume I am Bi which is wierd, I look like a typical Jesus pic, same height (5 foot jack shit) same hair, long and brown and wavy, serious beard, olive complexion, bit of socialist.
I Thing "Super straight" sound like you (before coming out as lesbian) were saying "I'm straight unless it's Melissa Benoist, Then very attracted." Or if I said "I'm straight unless it's Christopher Reeve" and that'd make sense.
I as joking to make fun of the "Super straight" idiots, I am a Straight man and would have no problem dating a Transwoman if I liked them. Because a Transwoman is still a Woman.
The sad thing is, I first encountered this ideology over a decade ago when a bunch of lesbians in a room together told me they could never be attracted to a trans person. "Its just so obvious when a guy does this but I'm just too gay, I'm a 7 on the Kensey Scale. I'd know instantly if some guy were trying to trick me." And there i am, trans, sitting next to my date thinking, well this date is a bust.
Broke my heart, never really got over that day, but none of those ladies ever knew. Somewhere out there is some jerk with his date explaining to her about being super straight with no idea she's trans. I guarantee it.
If a trans person is going on a date, they should tell their date they are trans. First because it is the moral thing to do. And second because the other person will find out eventually if the relationship lasts long term so why waste your time if they are going to break up with you the second they learn that you are trans?
@@greywolf7577 There are two separate ways of seeing this, what you describe is one way, which I generally prescribe to btw. But the counter argument to wait is basically, this is an extremely personal issue, possibly exceedingly dangerous depending on where you live (about a month after my first ever date a trans woman a 40 minute drive from me was beaten to death and her corpse left in a ditch. We HAVE to take our safety very seriously), and you may want to decide if the other person is even suitable enough to date before you commit to telling them something so serious.
In the case I described, I was asked out randomly at a time in my life when I had a dating profile clearly stating I was trans. So it wasn't as though I was hiding anything but the subject hadn't come up. We were only just getting to know each other at a party. That experience taught me to be more wary of sharing, not less.
@Lex Bright Raven "Hi my name is-"
"I AM A CHRISTIAN"
@Lex Bright Raven to be fair, their is such a thing as STDs. I’d kind of like to be aware of those before dating a person. That and weather or not they need to go to the bathroom when I need to go to the bathroom. I live in a one bath house.
@@Mrnotpib uhhhh... Would you go to the bathroom with your gf if she wasn't trans? That's a bit weird m8, especially if her being trans somehow stops you too.
Stuff like this just confuses me because I'm bisexual and once replied to a woman coming out to me before hooking up with "sick, I like women with penises too"
She still laughs at me about it to this day
Lol you are weird!😂
Another bisexual man here, god this comment is so relatable, lol😂
I don't care what you say Slime, "Sex Luther" is comedic GOLD
I concur.
But it's not poignant.
Which he then doubled down on with the Eyeball Zone, which made me cheer out loud.
Completely off topic but I'm loving the Urusei Yatsura pfp.
@@holonholon1141 Lol I was JUST about to say that! Lum is pretty cute 😍
The way they claim that trans people get aggressive and scream transphobia when we're rejected is so divorced from reality. I'm more afraid of being met with violence from a potential partner than I am of being told "no thanks" by my crush.
I know right?? They are so pressed about people rightly being angry about their transphobia when there are so many trans people that are beaten and murdered just for expressing who they are to the point that im debating even trying to transition.
@@eila2635 That fear kept me in the closet, _even to myself,_ for five to ten years longer than I _wish_ I'd been in the closet. The last twenty years have changed things _immensely_ for the better, if only in terms of being able to reach out for help from far-flung comrades, so I urge you to keep having that conversation with yourself and those you trust.
It’s true tho you guys literally call us transphobic for not wanting to sleep with men when where straight that’s why we needed to make super straight
@@solosolo8610 trans woman aren't men, some trans people have vj's, it's called bottom surgery
@@solosolo8610 Citation needed.
There is only one super-straght: the Trans-Australian Railway between Loongana, Western Australia and Ooldea, South Australia. Oops, it's Trans, too.
Don't disgrace my country with your shitty Euro/American political jokes.
@Stryker Nah we're into it
@@theentirepopulationofaustr6046 see what you did there
@@Stryker98
"Disgrace" Australia? I thought it was a matter of national pride that you didn't give a shit about anything, let alone your image.
Loongana is probably the most Australian word I’ve ever heard.
"If you want them to sit on a birthday cake? They'll do it, no questions asked."
I've been reading a lot of Achewood lately and this line murdered me.
Blood for the blood god, skulls for the skull throne, comments for the algorithm!
I am entergaged by this content.
who is the blood god?
@@surprisedlobsta8543 Khorne. He's a character from a pair of interconnected franchises, Warhammer Fantasy and Warhammer 40K.
Milk for the Khorne flakes!
@@juliankirby9880 butter for the pop khorne!
we both know that you really bow to the blueberry weeaboo space commies.
I like to see people sit on birthday cakes, but it isn't sexual, I just hate birthday cakes and they've got it comin.
What’s wrong with birthday cakes
@@joelle4226 it...it's a joke...
Nah fuck ya we're throwing hands. Cake is the single greatest culinary gift bestowed upon this cursed land and you will treat it with respect.
Say happy birthday TO THA GROUND!
they got it comin alright ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
I'm going to use this fictional scenario so much. Thank you, non binary slime.
Which scenario? And why wtf would it work? Nothing this guy says is ever logically sound its just loop hole jumping, reverse his logic it doesn't serve your purpose. Try it plz
@@blueyedevil1531 can you give me info on where to find and watch the film Ernest Scared Stupid 2 please i'm begging
@@biddyfox is that a tasteless reference to Atlanta?
@@blueyedevil1531 im trying to watch the eleventh ernest movie i cant find it anywhere on youtube and youre the only one who can help me
@@blueyedevil1531 hey hey buddy take a deep breath
I have to admit I got a bit confused by the celebrity scenario by choosing my favorite celebrity ,regardless of if I want to sleep with them. So now in my mind I'm standing in front Danny DeVito, who I already don't want to have sex with and then he's telling me hes trans and I have to decide if I still don't want to have sex with him.
He didn't look bad when he shaved all the hair off his body and covered himself in hand sanitizer.
@@crimsonwolf6866 also didn't look too bad dressed as the cheetah in the episode where the gang breaks up and he gets the other bar shut down.
Much more like a house cat, but not in a bad way 🤔
The question was the celebrity you want to fuck the most, not just your favorite
Did “Straight Krypton” orbit a binary star? Sorry, I’ll show myself out...
Yes, it actually is part of a binary system. one man star and one woman star the way Gawd intended!
I love the idea of a Non-Binary Star :D That's cool.
@@euansmith3699 apparently about 85% of stars are in binary systems, so about 15% of stars are legitimately non-binary!
@@L0U_ZER I didn't realize that the ratio was so high. The fact that we here in the Sol System are such an exception is amazing. Helios is Non-Binary.
@@euansmith3699 That explains why the Sun is a "he" in some languages and a "she" in others.
I would watch the hell out of a SuperStraight vs Sex Luthor movie, I'm not going to lie. In my head, it's like Austin Powers meets The Boys.
So if Superstraight and Sex Luthor are distinct and opposed entities, and Sex Luthor is the cowardly transphobic villain, who would Superstraight be?
If even a year ago, you heard someone say "I'm straight. No I mean, I'm really very straight. I'm SUPER straight." I feel like there are some pretty obvious assumptions you could make about that person's need for self-assurance.
I suspect both of us still make those assumptions.
Except we live during the time, when some group of people consider themselves entitled for everything, including sex, thus pushback is needed.
@@ShadowSumac How is that a fucking response to what I said? You implied that leftists act like victims. I pointed out that only conservatives make supremacist positions into a default. You then offer some irrelevant waffle.
And your waffle is still actually proof of my point. In fact, velvet ceiling advocates don't say trans folks are entitled to sex. They just point out that many trans folks are denied sex because of bigotry. Saying A can be caused by bad thing B doesn't deny it can be caused by benign thing C. So you're fucking up basic logic.
But there ARE people who act entitled to sex.
Say, folks like incels, and their daddy Jordan Peterson, who wants to make informally coercive means to make sure everyone can get sex.
So... conservatives defend male entitlement to sex.
Can you stop the projection?
@@fredericchristie3472 so, someone is denied sex because of bigotry. Are you saying that sexual preferrances can be bigoted?
@@MrCiberCiber No. I am saying people can be bigoted so that they don't act ways they would have otherwise.
My position allows for closeted gay men. You have to pretend they don't exist because, for some reason, you've decided it's better to stan for some shitty meme than admit that people can be crappy to each other AND ALSO separately sometimes genuinely not be attracted to each other.
Gotta love the conservative thought process at work here. “Different sexualities aren’t valid, except when I’m making one up. Then they’re incredibly valid and you’re being mean to me 🥺”
gotta love commie logic. we can make stuff up but noone else can
@@stevebob2941 superstraight alone discredits itself through its own reasoning.
“I am superstraight bc I don’t date trans people” implies that being in a straight relationship with a trans person is impossible because them being trans makes them less of the gender they say they are. Implying trans people aren’t “enough of a (insert gender) to be considered as such” is to say you don’t respect trans individuals’ gender identity on the principle that they are trans because “they aren’t their gender enough to possibly be in a straight relationship with”.
It’s self-defeating rhetoric that crumbles to show poorly disguised bigotry when you so much as… (checks notes)… think about what it means past the cute tag-line of trying to crowbar your way into a community you hate
@@gameinsane4718 men arent women and women arent men. and aside from that super straight is a SEX-uality not a Gender-ality. you cant change your sex u are either male or female superstraights are people who are attracted to the biological opposite sex. Your whole argument is predicated on you thinking that saying you are a woman makes you one even if you arent biologically and yet you claim the people on the other side of the argument are science deniers
@@stevebob2941 for starters: gender-ality isn’t a word
Secondly, sexuality is about attraction. Unless you’re in a nudist colony you’re not going to be seeing peoples’ genitals when you first meet them. Going back to the video, if you’re attracted to a woman, and she tells you she’s trans, and that is what turns you off it’s no longer about attraction. You were attracted to her but her trans-ness is what turned you off… it’s no longer about attraction.
If you were attracted to a woman, and she says she’s a serial killer (literally an example in the video) and you don’t want to date her anymore… it’s not about attraction anymore. It’s the fact they’re a serial killer.
Sexuality is about attraction. What you do with your attraction, and why, is a separate subject entirely from the attraction itself.
@@gameinsane4718 you do realize that you can tell if someone is a man or a woman generally based on facial/body structure you dont see their genitals to start with. something like 95 percent of the time you can tell just on that, so your argument is null and void right there first sentence you decided to type was wrong and stupid.
2ndly it is about attraction. the level of attraction you feel for someone can go from 100 - 0 with new information.
people can go from being attracted to someone to not being. it sounds like you have never been in a relationship that has ended. you can go from being into someone to not been there done that.
you have said nothing of value just claimed that attraction is somehow detached from your sexuality? which if thats the case why cant you just change who you are attracted to?
heres the answer. you cant thats what the christian right used to want with conversion therapy and you are on the side that is advocating for the same thing. you want people to be attracted to things they arent attracted to because of your values
"trans women are woman" no they arent because if they were that statement wouldnt be bleated on by you sheeps/useful idiots.
Dude: [Does a transphobia]
Also dude: "You can't say I'm transphobic now."
Jfc.
@@samson7294 Cheers to that!
@@samson7294
😁👍
@@samson7294 Yes, this!
You can tell how not transphobic he is by, at his own admission, how often people call him a transphobe.
@@samson7294 Unfortunately, this only seems to be happening on culture war issues. They're kicking our asses in the economic and military/Empire-maintenance side of things.
Good video. ♥️
I also really liked your video on this. I always appreciate getting your perspective on these things
Onee-chan…
I love your videos thank you for being visible and helping other black girls
Hi you’re pretty & a great role model.
Omg Kat Blaque 🥰🥰🥰
I'm such a straight man I was attracted to Abigail Thorne even before she came out 😎
NOW THAT'S PRETTY FUCKIN STRAIGHT.
...Abigail has consistently had excellent aesthetics and fashion sense, it's true.
im so gay, the only dude I was attracted to turned out to be a trans woman so i get you lol
Yass I was attracted to her before she transitioned, unfortunately, I’m not attracted to women in a romantic way
Edit: OH FUCK MY MISTAKE LOVE WOMEN NOW
I...
Shit you rite
I guess that's what they call straightdar
I knew someone who quit a good job because the company founder transitioned male to female. I was like but why did you quit and he kept saying “he was a man, then came back to work as a woman” and I was like “why did it cause a problem at work?” and he kept repeating that the founder changed genders. I never found out how that made it hard to work there. Honestly we kept going around over and over, because I was high and kept thinking I was missing something. I still can’t understand it, my acquaintance took a way shit job rather than keep working there.
As a transwoman and a comic book nerd, I have to say I loved the Sex Luthor joke. That was on point imo.
I was the 69th like. And thus shall be the last this comment shall receive
Jokes on you, I've been here for so long that i got both your trick questions right lol
The fragility of the people who feel the need to label themselves as 'super straight' is absolutely mind-blowing. Probably the type of guy who wouldn't use moisturizer because they worry their friends will think it makes them gay.
That, or the dipshits who refuse to wash their assholes because on some subconscious level they're afraid that doing so will make them gay.
@@MsGrandTheftAutumn bruh I was gonna say this lmao
It's not fragility. There is nothing genuine or real about it. It's a parody of LGBT groups and meant exclusively to get a reaction out of LGBT people, which it has certainly gotten.
God I remember when I was that kind of guy. "Nah babe I'm going for the 'weather-beaten cod fisherman' skincare routine". How are so many grown ass men just totally chill with their dry-ass skin chafing after they wash their face, especially if they're going outside anywhere that has an actual winter?
@@DiabetoDan Real macho men destroy their skin to own the libs!
"Dipshitusphere" is one of the greatest terms I've ever heard
I swear if Super Straight vs Sex Luthor is not a porno featuring trans adult actors in the next week Im going to try to get a gofundme started for it
Christian XXX would probably play Sex Luthor.
Maybe Chuck Tingle might be up to the task if you don't mind your erotica being in written form.
Legras Martin is right, that sounds exactly up Chuck's alley.
I would watch that
I will put every cent of my 401K into funding that project. Keep me updated.
My little brother just told me about this, with great disdain. I've taught him well
a young comrade in learning!
@@st.michaelofcigarillo2845 shush bigot
@@st.michaelofcigarillo2845 lmaooo i love this. i don’t know if you’re being ironic, but i almost feel like it’s even funnier if you’re not. like if you genuinely believe that.
@@user-xh6eg1ts1t people believe this, it’s the genuine belief of many homophobes
@@st.michaelofcigarillo2845 ah shut it
My "favorite" thing about this meme is that nazis will straight up post actual foghorn transphobic memes alongside the superstraight memes, completely defeating the purpose of the dogwhistle
For a second, I read that as Foghorn Leghorn transphobic memes.
@@Mrnotpib I reread that like 5 times and never once realized leghorn wasn't in there. That sentence makes a lot more sense now
Gee, it's almost like it's not actually Nazis doing all of this and TS is full of shit
The intro was great. "able to leap to conclusions in a single bound" got me. XD
You can be attracted to someone and not like their genitals. You can also, respect them enough to not make a public opposition campaign about it. Seems like pretty basic stuff to me.
one might think, and yet
it’s fine to prefer one set of genitalia over another. After all, that’s more than likely the thing you want to have sex with. However, you don’t get to be an ass about what kind of genitalia that person possesses and be like “you are less of a human being worthy of love and affection” because you don’t like modified genitalia, you goblin.
Attraction is more complex than this video wants to make it seem. You can be attracted to a person's secondary sex characteristics, but totally turned off by their primary sex characteristics.
They wouldn't be the only one who don't like them.
@@stevenboelke6661 I think the point of the video is that You can be attracted to a specific gender and posess the sexual agency to not want to interact with genitalia you dont want to interact with. You can have your cake and eat it too (trans pepople are not put down while your sexual agency is intact ) while the nazi right super straigtts are trying to imply that you cannot have your cake and eat it to, The only way for you to express your sexual agency (in THEIR opinion) is to put down transgenders.
so TLDR: I am attracted to women (that includes transgender people who present as women) but I can express my sexual agency to not want to interact with a penis that isnt mines.
Entertainment for the entertainment god,
engagement for the engagement throne,
Thought Slime is entergaging!
This video is painful, and it’s blind to real people feelings, hows do they get sexual astronomy but I don’t?
@@samt965 First, if this video is painful to you you probably need some introspection of your own sexuality. Because this video is simply stating that sexual preference shouldn't justify transphobia and that transphobia is not a sexuality.
Second, your uncomfortable feeling toward a video that make you realise you probably have internalised some transphobia for denying your sexual attraction the moment you learn somone is trans, have nothing to do with entergagement.
Entergagement IS a funny word and I love it😂
@@xgzav3488 I’m not afraid or phobic of anyone, I’m uncomfortable with this video because, my preference and sexuality isn’t a choice. I’m uncomfortable because they say being and Transgender person has nothing to do with sexuality, AND THATS THE MAIN POINT of transgender people base their personalities and idea on Sexuality
@@samt965 you should probably learn what transphobia and transgender means before talking like that.
Transgender have nothing to do with sexuality. It has to do with gender. It means you're not the gender you were assigned at birth.
Transphobia is not being afraid of trans people, it's to not recognise that they realy are the gender they say they are.
Like the video said: you would be transphobic for claiming you're not attracted to transwomen because they are not "real" women. You would not be transphobic for not being attracted to a transwomen for basicaly any other reason.
The video literally said that you could hypotheticaly not be attracted by any trans person and still not be transphobic if the reason you're not attracted by them is not "they're trans". That's exactly the reason super straight is transphobic, it has notting to do with being sexually attracted to someone, it has to do with not wanting to consider trans people as the gender they say they are.
That's also why the video ask you to imagine someone you're attracted to, then imagine you learn they were assigned a different gender before. If it change your attraction to them, it would mean that, consciously or not, you have transphobic views. You don't see them as the gender they are.
If you still feel like your "super straight" or something like that, I would invite you to do some introspection, question yourself, because super straight can only exist with a completely transphobic perspective.
I liked the video and I invite you to rewatch it with an open mind on your own someday. You may realy dislike it though, I don't know.
If you don't want to watch it again its fine realy, there is another video, very different that I think ask questions that you would find interesting. It's "are traps gay" by Contrapoint. It's another video that discuss heterosexuality and its relation to gender transition. It's realy well made, I hope you like it.
@@xgzav3488 Why do they insist on the dogma that, in your words, " Transgender have nothing to do with sexuality.". "It has to do with gender." Your very next statement counters that, " It means you're not the gender you were assigned at birth". Sexuality is linked with your sex, there are always exemptions, but that fact remains. there is nothing a Trans women/Trans man could do for a superstraight to be with them because the SEX parts in wrong for them. They are not attracted to that in the same way it wold make you sick if you were with your parents
A meme isn't a sexual orientation, unless you're exclusively attracted to people wearing a Horse Head Mask. That's legit.
That's my fetish!
Mmm horsey
Nekos?
or to trash bins.
I agree, "attack helicopter" is not a sexual orientation
Did you know that when you leave a comment under a UA-cam video, It boosts the engagement of the UA-cam video regardless of the contents of that comment - Positive, negative, neutral?
And the more engagement a video gets, the more times that the UA-cam algorithm sets that video in front of eyeballs!
Real interesting stuff.
Never been rejected because never put myself out there gang 🤙🤙
I'm sorry, I'm just not interested. You are like a sibling to me.
trans and avoidant-/rejection-sensitive-dysphoric-five!
Good on you. I started to do the same after some rejection.
I’m Turbo-Pansexual. It means I’ll date anyone except people who call themselves super straight.
Preach
I am turbo Passexual- the only people I find attractive are those who like to program in turbo pascal
@Raw You're an SSETP then. A Super Straight Exclusionary Turbo-Pansexual.
@@camelopardalis84 no step on ssetp
@@JM-mh1pp if I knew anything about computer science I’m sure I’d find that joke very funny, sadly it’s wasted on me
“And thus would not reward them with the pleasure of my body.” Why is the way you said this making me laugh so hard
I looked at my hands when he said "How can you tell if someone is right-handed or left-handed." I did look.
“release the snyder cut of super straights”
i got the notification for this as i finished watching the snyder cut(i’m talking about it for charity)
I've seen the Super Straight Snyder cut.
It's just several hours of the Watchmen defending the Comedian's crimes while staring at a blue dick in case it makes any sudden moves.
@@juststatedtheobvious9633 checks out.
Is it worth the HBO Max subscription?
@@fredericchristie3472 there are better reasons to get hbo max tbh
I'm pretty sure every Snyder film is a super straight Snyder cut.
The real eyeball zone has fully returned, all hail Lord Occulon
"Super Straight" sounds like something made up by someone who's not straight but doesn't want to accept it, so they become way too defensive over it.
Haggard’s Law?
It’s also sounds like an ironic goof made by a very gay circle of friends
Ahhh yes. Just like how I exclude pineapple on pizza and don't find it appealing because I am in fact secretly a pineapple pizza! Excellent logic ! 👏 👏 👏
That was literally my first thought. "The straights protest too much, methinks."
Reminds me of a "movement" of gay and bi conservative men who call themselves "g0y" (idk how to pronounce it, don't ask), and claim outwardly to perceive anal sex as somehow intrinsically harmful and therefore to be avoided, but if you look at what they post in forums they don't expect outsiders to look at it turns out that in addition, they share slogans about "reclaiming" manhood from the LGBTQ community.
It's not the same, but there are similarities I think.
HEY!! It's incredibly difficult to come out to your friends and family as super straight. The hysterical laughter hurts.
it is, we are laughed at and mocked or called nazi and bigot by superphobes who claim to be tolerant people
also, happy birthing person day to those who identify as "mother"
Sex Luther is legit the best thing I've heard all week
Are you the rhetoric spider
are you an arachno-communist?
I didn't realise how much I need my husband to sit in a birthday cake...
Does one sit _in_ or _on_ birthday cake? 🤔
@@user-sf4fy8bq1h first one, then the other ;)
I've never realized it before either, but now that you mention it, a whole new world has opened up to me of unknown husbands and the cakes they sit on.
And also typos I have to go back and edit because my brain thought the word unknown had too many n's in it so I left one out just in case I needed an extra n later in my comment. I didn't though, hence the edit and this lengthy explanation of why I had to edit it that gives away the whole thing because now everyone will know how bad I am at everything.
You have ruined the cake. I will now be reversing time and rescuing him in my cake rehabilitation ranch to be released back into the wild
@@augustaseptemberova5664 I love you
Matt Thoughtslime this is the third consecutive video you’ve mentioned cakesitting are you okay
I uh, noticed that too and became a bit concerned.
Mildred said "When I believe something, I say so" and then my headphones crashed and the next several seconds was silence. I genuinely thought it was a tongue in cheek editorial decision.
Thank you for this. I constantly get Matt Walsh ads praising this movement.
The worst part of crypto is that it gave 4chan 'fuck you money' 😅
Oh god, sympathies extended. I just get adverts from my fascist congresscritter.
@@grmpEqweer "Everyone I don't like are fascists".
Funny, with such statement you show yourself as a fascist.
@@ShadowSumac
Edit, I merely said my own congressional representative is a fascist.
So you're putting words in my mouth.
Why are you doing that?
@@grmpEqweer Maybe your language gives a certain vibe?
Describing what the alt right does as an "I'm not touching you!" tactic is so accurate. Really good video
Which is why you push into them :) .
People wanting to defend their sexual preferences from crazy incels - called alt-right.
I hope you do understand that with this shit you push away even more people, who were or could on your side?
@@ShadowSumac anime avatar
The birthday cake thing is turning into a recurrent character here...and Im living for it.
ray smucklespilled
I just gotta let you know, right after you said "it's the nazis!" UA-cam immediately tried to sell me a Mitsubishi Outlander.
I used to think I was kind of transphobic for being grossed out by the thought of having sex with a trans person.
Turns out I'm just asexual and it was specifically the 'sex' part of that thought that grossed me out, not the 'trans' part.
I don't think anyone is transphobic because they have specific genital preferences. It's something you can't consciously control. It's not transphobic to be initially attracted to a person but then not be into them as much when you find their genitalia doesn't match your sexual preferences. The transphobia comes into play when you then use those preferences to invalidate trans women and men as not 'real' women or men.
EDIT: I want to add that it's certainly not right to assume that all transwomen or transmen have the same kind of body, or genital configuration. It could very well be, straight or gay, that as a cis person, a specific trans individual you are initially attracted to might be able, AND willing, to engage in the kinds of sexual acts that you prefer, or if that's not the case, you actually discover that you are open to finding other ways of sexual fulfillment. But if neither scenario happens, I don't think you could be labelled transphobic for your preference of certain sexual acts. This is a grey area, as sexuality is not something that is set in stone, and is a personal journey; but also precisely because of that, I am hesitant to label anyone as transphobic (or any other label) because they are not (yet?) willing to engage in whatever particular sexual acts with whatever particular person.
Not being attracted to trans people isn’t inherently transphobic, but calling yourself “superstraight” is because it has transphobic implications
@@nelsonth Exactly. There’s nothing wrong with having a preference, but preference ≠ sexuality. Not being attracted to short people doesn’t make you “brachyphobic”, but it also doesn’t make you “altosexual” (I just made both of those words up).
I mean even then. Its. Like. Fine. If you, have genital preferences. Like. I guess. Its.
I am trans and even in the trans community theres alot of debate on this subject but the general consensus is.
If you believe trans people are the gender they identify as. Yourr probably fine. Emphasis on the probably though.
It's incredibly dull how in any discussion of transphobia people have to reaffirm their "genital preferences" as if anyone asked. Like you're so confident in that not being transphobic that you have to remind everyone present that you're not transphobic.
Especially with the impact of HRT, even discounting surgeries altogether, trans people make it starkly apparent how analogous the genitals of each ostensibly distinct sex are, and how much overlap there can be between them. Treating "genital preference" as a core and necessary part of sexuality is rooted in major assumptions about what the genitals of a trans person will even look like, and what kinds of sex they're interested in having, and just generally stems for an obsession with superimposing cis binaries upon trans people. Like nobody seriously claiming to be progressive makes these kinds of claims about cis people - you might have opinions on how someone's junk looks but you don't suddenly lose your attraction cause it's a different shape or size than what you expected. Applying a different standard to trans people only really makes sense if you obsessively assign everyone a role in "PIV" and treat that as the real essence of sexuality, which just doesn't reflect reality, especially not when trans people are involved.
This is such a minor petty thing but... the guy who says "we're the SSLGBT" kills me. Like, gotta claim immediate dibs on coming first in the acronym!
They need to feel special.
Yeah, but when they use the "SSLGBT" acronym they really mean "Schutzstaffel" for the "SS."
Honestly I gotta wonder if sticking nazi letters at the front of the acronym was the entire point, to see if they could push it mainstream like they did with the OK symbol.
They're supremacists. They have to come first.
So, like any LGBBTACBSBSVBSM,NSACBWJAEGFJSBV+ member ever?
ahh, thought slime so fresh you can still smell the gooey synapses!
MAJOR props to this guy! Thank you for standing up for us
"oh yeah I'm *suuuuuuuper straight* you guys, you wouldn't even believe how straight I am hahaha PLEASE BELIEVE ME"
Don't know, seems kinda gay to me.
Hey! I'm a caveman with very kind LGBTQIA+ friends who hold my hand as I stumble ass-backwards through these issues. For other cavefolk, here's what I thought and what I needed to know: I had assumed this was primarily a conversation about sex and what genitalia one may find arousing-- It took me a long time to put language to that, but I thought the "Super straights" were just chads trying to say they really don't like the bepis. The conversation changed a lot for me when a friend pointed out that science can create a full transition for folks who choose that-- that is to say fully functioning sexual organs too. I had too google it, because I didn't think science had come that far. I realized then, that at the base level, this was truly the conversation my friends claimed it to be: A movement of people rejecting trans people, even those who pass as their gender in every possible way. My friends pointed out that nobody is arguing you need to have sex you don't want.
There is an adjacent question relating to people who cannot or do not wish to transition fully. There are kind ways to have conversations about what sex is comfortable and what isn't. For some people, in a loving relationship, they may get over their hangup with the bepis (or whatever the conflict, I like this language because it's silly and I blush when I talk about sex). For others, that may be a legitimate deal breaker and that conversation can be had in a kind way that does not invoke gender validity.
That said, for us heterosexual folk who are not always very informed about the experiences of our trans friends, the best response is to be kind to them about their gender and listen to them when they say something is hurtful. Ask sincere questions and use that understanding to become more kind.
I'm married, so I don't date. Still, after all the conversations I've had, I understand enough to say I would not have a problem dating a trans woman, because I've always like women. :)
The thing is you dont hacve to date anyone you dont want, even if you were not married, you like whom you like, its more about the attitude to ust, not exclude that experience. And its more about tackling biases and being open to listen to , what you did. You seem do be a good friend and ally.
And as your friend said, you dont have to like anyone you dont, which makes the outroar not even justified at all. ust stopping transphobia from pressutring people who might like trans partner, not to freak out. The trans panic defense is still legal in states. Thats scary, the goal is really getting rid of those perceptions.
Throgh it cool you agnowledge you had no isues dating a hypothetical transitioned or transitioning person.
LGBTQIA2S+ *
Thank you for bringing this up, I felt like I was being gaslit for 14 minutes not understanding that a full transition like you described was actually possible until I read your comment. Thank you !
I'm sorry but science cannot currently make a penis that ejaculates or a vagina that self-lubricates. So "fully functioning" genitalia is not how I'd describe it.
Your friend will never be a woman.
Super straights: I dont want to date trans people!
Okay, would trans people date you?
hopefully not.
The real question is would anyone want to date a super straight?
When you said “it was nazis the whole time” I immediately got an ad for warpath with a nazi in it, perfect timing
Being gays not a choice, it's a competition. And I'm winning.
This reminds me of a joke Paul Rudd made where he said “I’m not a practicing Jew. I’ve perfected it.”
It’s a war
you're fun
I’m coming for your spot. You’re my new rival, and I’m going to become gayer.
Best comment thread I've enjoyed in awhile. Ty
"Sex Luthor" got me real bad, idk why you thought that was a bad one
Thank you for uploading and freeing me from being alone with my own not so pleasant thought slime
Matt has mentioned someone sitting on a birthday cake too many times for it to be a joke.
I really hope it's not. I may not insecure about my sexual attraction to be transphobic. That doesn't mean I don't feal weird that I'm the only person I know with a cake fetish.
P.S. I don't want to use reddit to discuss this because ya' know reddit.
Hey amazing people! Please drink some water today okay? Love y’all
Thanks, internet stranger! Please take some time to do something you enjoy 💕
*stares in how dare you give me good advice*
@@stadtbekanntertunichtgut I have plenty of respect for straight people, and I'll defend the right of anyone to choose not to have sex with anyone else for any reason (though it does need to be acknowledged that some of those reasons are also bigoted). But you don't get to change what constitutes a sexuality in an effort to avoid accusations of transphobia.
Also, even just looking at the term "super straight", it's pretty obviously transphobic to imply that someone who's into trans people is somehow less straight.
Fighting intolerance sometimes requires not tolerating intolerance.
@@stadtbekanntertunichtgut so based on what you just said, you're not arguing for a new "super straight" category for people who are only into cis people, you just don't think someone can be straight while also being attracted to trans people. That's not a new thing.
Do me a favor and look at the trans men featured in the video. If you saw a man indicate that they were attracted to one of them, would you think he's gay or straight? Because all those trans men were assigned female at birth, but I bet if you saw a cis man holding hands with a trans man, you wouldn't think they're straight.
Sexuality is complicated, but in general, the people who are attracted to trans women are people who are attracted to women, and the people who are attracted to trans men are people who are attracted to men.
This comment does not relate much to the subject of the video, as much as it does relate to the struggles of being trans.
Hi, i'm a trans woman. Today i went out to buy throat medicine and some regular groceries. During all the time i was out of the perimeter of my house, i felt relatively scared, unsafe and worried. Thinking about what could happen if someone recognizes me as trans on the street, if they would shout something at me, if the people working in the drug store and grocery store recognize me and what would they do, how man would perceive me, how woman would perceive me, what potential dangers could harm me, and on and on.
In the end, everything went well and i came home safely, even if i was misgendered and deadnamed, and even if i was a little sweaty from all the heat.
The point that i'm trying to get to is that sometimes it can be hard trully being myself. Going through all of this, all the troubles and hassle. But what's most important, i think, is that after all of that i was safely back home. And i watched this video, and it reminded me how trully brave and courageous i am being, and how scummy and honestly detestable the people who stand against my happiness and safety are. And that made me feel better! This video made me feel better, it drives me to continue to be my true self, to rejoice in my transness and my beauty, and to well, continue to be alive being me.
So thank you matt, and thank for everyone who has read this comment, it means alot to me.
Thank you for this!
stay strong ❤ i know its hard. i wish you the best.
You are very brave. Don't let them bring you down. Be the beautiful butterfly you can be!
People out there want you to be loved and safe. Nowhere near enough of them but some. Keep living: it makes Nazis suffer and that is awesome.
"Things which totally happened.jpg"
GDDAMN, YOU MADE THE ARGUMENTS THAT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO MAKE IN VERY CLEAR AND SIMPLE WAYS!!!
It can never be simple enough for the superstraight brain
@@nassiemartinez4399
That's because they don't want to get it. You can lead a jackass to water but you can't make them think.
@@nassiemartinez4399 More like supersmooth brain amirite.
@@blarg2429 superstraight does imply their brains are just flat
@@nassiemartinez4399 Good point.
Never been exposed to this "super straight" concept before. Probably because Ive had sexual retaliations with trans and femme individuals in the past. I see myself as a femmesexual: Im attracted to femininity. But this "super straight" thing is something Im just learning about and having a reaaallllyyy hard time with trying to figure out if a few people Ive known in the past fall under this category.
Omg... that smirk "...with the pleasures of my body. " Even alone, I actually guffawed.
Thank-you for this video. Seriously. As a trans man who has always been fighting transphobia at work, from my family, and of course society at large, it really hurts when cis people are hiding behind shit like this to avoiding being seen supporting us or denouncing us. Makes me wanna scream tbh.
Super straight is not transphobic lmao we are just want to date real women how is that offensive
Ignore them, they've been all over the comments whining. Stay safe brother.
@@solosolo8610 Ugh, go away. Nobody likes you.
Sorry you have to go through this, Dain.
@@rosemali3022 true can’t argue against facts
Oddly, reddit admins actually quickly banned the superstraight subreddit. A friend tipped me off to it, and it was a bizarre place for sure, and then next day, bam! banned. They actually did something good for once!
Reddit admins have been great lately.
Love hearing stuff like this.
@Domi B niche communities are pretty good, but the mainstream reddit is pretty trash.
Yeah, Reddit finally did something that a lot of sites really need, it banned hate speech from its platform.
@Domi B I think they are trying to be a reverse 4chan. I.e. Reddit is trying to cater to a more liberal crowd, but that is just my experience with it. I mean I was mainly in SCP subs which are usually communist and liberal and such which is sorta weird given the site's origins but whatever. So yeah, Reddit is totally doing that.
I don't want to date a trans person.... I never really liked that about myself but I never really analyzed it ether. Thanks for the video. It had some things in it I needed to hear. I'm going to go rethink some stuff.
So far the best video I've seen about the topic. A couple others reacted quickly but weren't able to go into some depth or word it as well as you did. Both approaches are necessary and I'm happy we now have a "video to keep" for future reference.
Very nice, thanks.
I think Matt is waiting for us to question the birthday cake comments so they can make a "haha thats totally not my fetish" joke
Mr The Predator, sitting on a cake, all for me... how can i listen to the rest of this (very good and helpful) video when youve given me everything ive ever wanted at such an early part of it?
Like an Epstein/Subway Jared predator or the race of alien hunters with the mouth designed by someone that probably (definitely) needs some time of therapy? Or some weird mix of them? Maybe a Weinstein with a floppy dong for a nose that tell you to come in and have a seat on the casting cake? Any of your choices are valid, but there are definitely some choices in the above group that may indicate that you need therapy probably (definitely)
2:33 "The deity of your religion appears to you in a vision."
Me, a cultist of Cthulhu: Guess I'll die.
Jesus: Hey buddy remember love all people regardless of race gender or creed.
@@brandonrobinson3829 thank you 💕💕💕
NOW CTHULU KNOWS WHY THEY CALL ME THE DEEP ONE!
You are really on a roll with these Cake Farts jokes. I approve. Take my thumb.
So many cake farts jokes!
Ok, "Rhetoric Spider" cracked me up. And now I'm trying to imagine the Ramones singing Rhetoric Spider's theme song. Now you are too, aren't you? Sorry. Anyway, keep up the great work.
When you're so obsessed with trans people you make a sexuality thinking about them
Yeah, what I find hilarious about this is it only exists because people want to be loud about their bigotry. If people just dated who they wanted to date, no one would be able to tell the difference.
You're so manly you even want to have sex and relationships with men. (And no, that's not a homophobic joke. That's how I actually see gay men.)
Pot calls kettle back: trans were too much obsessed with who people fuck, finally they receive a pushback their movement deserve.
@@fredericchristie3472 So when people state their sexuality they are bigots?
By this logic Gays who don't want to fuck vaginas or Lesbians who don't want to deal with dicks are bigots too.
Not that you thought about this part, because it would rip your logic apart..or you just not smart enough to think of this.
So whats skoliosexual
That intro cracks me up every time
I don't say this often, but you're fucking hilarious X D
He's just smug in my opinion... this video is such a dumb take
You know what, I'm a cis man, I've only ever been sexually attracted to women, I've never known myself to be attracted to trans people, all I can say is I'm just straight. Super-straights are just transphobes. As a straight person I don't care to make a distinction in any way because I'd prefer not thinking about such trivial matters. Can I just let my feelngs be mine and leave those to myself and whoever I feel attracted to?
Their abbreviation is SS, lmao. The subtlety of rightwingers shines through again.
Don't go on /pol, it rots your brain.
@K4nzler Untrue and silly.
From what I've been able to gather, the denizens of /pol/ only caught on to the acronym similarity a month after the first superstraight posts were made, on TikTok by an edgy troll (who says that they were making fun of transphobes with the thing, but I personally don't buy it considering how widely adopted it became)
@@surprisedlobsta8543 hey, incel was first used by a transwoman.
Fash take things and ruin them.
You'll never be a woman.
"- or worse voted tory"
Please continue to pander to my cluster of islands.
Tories infest Canada, too.
@@floraposteschild4184 I didn't know they were called tories there too!
@@GrrrlStyleNow They're called Tories -- among other things.
Right now, they're modelling themselves on the U.S. Republican Party, with little success federally (so far).
Yeah, I clocked he was mostly referring to the Canadian kind.
Alriiight, I'mma Be honest. My answer did change.
Normally I'd decline having sexual acts with a Celeb, no matter who it was. But them admitting to me that they are trans is pretty darn cute, furthermore them trusting me of all people I find so heartwarming.
"It was na zis the whole time"
**Ad plays**
So about that UA-cam algorithm...
Yeah, I doubt my local “Conklin Auto-Group” likes that lead in; they don’t even sell Volkswagen.
I'm super bisexual.
However a trans person identifies, i will ultimately still end up attracted to them.
@Adiv Inhell I prefer to say Bi because everyone already knows what that is, and I don't wanna explain to people what pan means.
@@TheFatPunisher Tbh I prefer to say Bi because of comments like "if you like every gender, isn't that just pan?" or "you know 'bi' means 'two' so you can't be attracted to more than two genders, that's being pan" or "'bi' means just [cis] men and [cis] women, so bisexuality is transphobic" and other biphobic, transphobic shit that cis pansexual people have tried to push on me over the years.
Edit: "bi for simplicity, pan in practice" or "bi for simplicity, bi in practice because there's no one correct way to be bisexual, other than liking multiple genders." Smh.
@Adiv Inhell when a bi person says they're attracted to all genders, which we often do, it's not your sacred duty to bring up pansexuality. we said what we said.
@@sholem_bond Amen!
@Adiv Inhell no it's not actually
"People have sexual agency and trans people are valid" imagine having to argue this is 2021.
Your voice is so important. Also youre my mums favourite youtuber!
"People have sexual agency" ...and that agency is bigotry if they have a preference for partners with certain genitals, or are looking for a long term relationship with a partner with whom they'd like to have offspring. The only thing that should matter is what the other person identifies as.
I do love that he avoided the other side of the "super" coin, with the lesbians who are uninterested in penises and gay men who are uninterested in vaginas, regardless of how the persons with those organs identify themselves.
"trans people are valid" Did any of them actually question that? I mean, beyond expresses a lack of interest in choosing them as a sexual partner?
And if you want to argue that it's bigotry to not be interested in sleeping with certain people, in what way is that not attacking sexual agency? Some guys don't like blondes, many lesbians are uninterested in penises, some men like extremely feminine but still male partners, some folks will fuck anyone with a pulse. So long as it doesn't hurt anyone, why not just let people fuck who they wanna fuck?
Your mum has good taste
@@steambom3350 So, genital preference and desire for a partner one can have offspring with are transphobia? Well fuck, I guess since I prefer sexual partners with vaginas (I wouldn't totally discard the possibility of a trans woman who has had bottom surgery as a partner presuming she checked all my other boxes) that makes me a transphobe. For a straight man to not be a transphobe, me must necessarily be interested in the feminine penis, right?
For another example, are you suggesting that any man who was attracted to Eliot Page before he came out and started presenting male was really secretly bi and just didn't know it? Because presumably he's always been a man, that that fact only existed in his mind and not in his presentation or public identification doesn't matter, right?
@@Schadrach42 See that's the thing with your argument though: the "trans woman with a bottom surgery" parenthetical kind of undermines your whole point.
I personally don't see a problem with genital preferences; those are valid to me. But a genital preference isn't a sexuality, and not all trans people will have the genitals you think they have anyway. If you prefer vagina, okay, but if someone checks all your boxes and has a vagina and is ALSO a man, is that going to be a problem for you? Because THAT'S why people who make this argument get accused of transphobia; you can't identify someone's genitals simply by looking at them while clothed.
@@Schadrach42 As a side note, the context of DATING trans people is specifically also important. Do you ask romantic partners what genitals they have on a first date? Would you consider it appropriate if someone did that to you?
I love Kyle Royce saying “people are scared of backlash” like he wasn’t complaining about being called transphobic
All these trick questions. WHAT IS THIS, HIGH SCHOOL?
My junior school teacher always told us to read through tests before starting to answer them.
One day she gave us a paper with 60 not so much questions, but instructions on. I did the first two before deciding something seemed off and read through the whole paper.
Number 60 said to ignore numbers 3 to 59.
I was the only person who passed.
@@wendyheatherwood I got the same test in 3rd grade. Failed miserably. 3rd grade me was not amused.
High school never ends. Anyone who told you it does is just trying to prevent you from killing yourself.
*Sees picture of Dom DeLuise* "I hope this doesn't awaken anything in me."
Not surprised Dankula thinks its just a troll. He thinks puberty blockers are dangerous so he's a complete transphobe
The most useful idiot around, I can't think of a bigger idiot than him
"Surprise, it was Nazis the whole time," would be a great alternate title for "Know Your Fash"
fun fact: pink kryptonite turns super man gay
Not going to lie, I had to Google this because it the kind of thing that simultaneously sounded like absurd bullshit and and sadly true.
Matt, I know that it's funny, but this recurring reference to sitting on birthday cakes has me concerned.
Ooh I’ve been waiting for this!!!
thought slime i'm gonna need you to keep up these cakefarts references for the rest of time
Thanks a lot for this one. "[those whose] courage they despise" is going to stick with me.
Trans and courage? LOL.
Sex Luthor would be a fantastic drag name tho.
Sex Luthor and her leggy arch-rival Superglam
Thank you so much for eyeballing my video!
Having a channel like yours help smaller channels like mine really means a lot man. Thanks for all you do for all the lil breadtubers out there.
Anyone who feels the need to say so emphatically that they're not attracted to trans women are totally attracted to trans women.
The supers doth protest too much, methinks.
So, when being TOLD who they SHOULD fancy, some people disagree, they should just shut up? SuperStraight is a REACTION to being told "you should fancy men" when they are not gay.
@@miff227 Literally no one is saying that lmao
@@LisaBeergutHolst this video is literally saying that.
@@miff227 I think the video is saying that if you're attracted to a person until you find out they are trans then there's something else going on other than just not being attracted to trans people.