for those who feel like giving up - my story

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  • @ruriohama
    @ruriohama  Рік тому +353

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    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Рік тому +4

      R u still in Turkey because I wanted to meet with you ❤❤

    • @En_theo
      @En_theo Рік тому +2

      Didn't know you were Turkish. I know the mentality there (lot of Turkish friends) and yeah sometimes it's not easy for women, but nowadays it's going better.

    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Рік тому +2

      @@En_theo yep that’s right

    • @getinthering7309
      @getinthering7309 Рік тому +1

      could you talk about our lovelife & or what made you mistrusting ppl ??
      i cannot be the only one being intersted in what happened & moreover, what conclusions you pulled from that. of u are still poundering about those things & your thought process, steps etc..

    • @10Peace
      @10Peace Рік тому +1

      @@getinthering7309 I don’t have a love life but it’s harsh for women here because they disrespect women so much here and it’s not good

  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam Рік тому +1665

    If you believe no one believes in you, just know that there are at least 2 people believing in you: Ruri and me, congrats on 1m subs

    • @ralba.n
      @ralba.n Рік тому +24

      heisenbergfam 🥹🫂⚗️

    • @jollylucario2051
      @jollylucario2051 Рік тому +24

      Thanks Heisenberg

    • @erva2130
      @erva2130 Рік тому +13

      Let's make it three

    • @tifamai
      @tifamai Рік тому +10

      And we believe in you Heisenberg

    • @NertoFurity
      @NertoFurity Рік тому +4

      thanks, I also believe in you if you don´t

  • @senanr
    @senanr Рік тому +408

    In every Turkish family, there is at least one uncle who bankrupts the family and takes more than he deserves. If you say we don't have that person, then that person is your father. I appreciate your success ruri keep going❤

    • @Jupa
      @Jupa Рік тому +11

      wow - well said haha

    • @elifaksu3984
      @elifaksu3984 Рік тому +3

      @@Jupa that's right

    • @osmankaratekin02
      @osmankaratekin02 11 місяців тому +13

      ahhaahh bunu söyleyerek amcalarımı hatırlattın teşekkürler

    • @Aditya_Atodaria
      @Aditya_Atodaria 11 місяців тому +4

      Better not to generalize

    • @whatifoundout
      @whatifoundout 10 місяців тому +1

      Loool

  • @pintipandaYT
    @pintipandaYT 11 місяців тому +293

    When you talked about your dad's family, I felt the same emotions. Sometimes life hits you hardest when you never expect. Congrats on 1 million, keep going.

    • @exceptionalbeyond_.
      @exceptionalbeyond_. 10 місяців тому +4

      Same thoughts ❤

    • @godlyguts4483
      @godlyguts4483 9 місяців тому +3

      Big brother Tuna, i feel for both of you. Take care ❤❤

  • @markherzog1186
    @markherzog1186 Рік тому +391

    Dearest Ruri,
    I am a 55 year old man, husband, father of a 12 year old with adhd. We live in Atlanta.
    I just want you to know that I just completed my meditation and exercise routine for this morning and am sitting here sobbing. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your incredible story.
    I discovered your videos a week ago and listen to your videos over and over.
    Please continue fighting. There are many of us out here cheering for you.
    I am trying to get my son to watch your adhd videos.
    You DO offer sincere help to all of us and it is appreciated.
    Please continue speaking the truth. Human beings need truth, not information that is censored.
    Much love to you and your lovely parents from Atlanta, USA.. :)

  • @mindsetofthefew
    @mindsetofthefew Рік тому +497

    If you are reading this, always remember that the only person that has to believe in you no matter what is YOURSELF. Don't get approval from others. It should start within you. Thanks Ruri!❤

    • @Miu-chan
      @Miu-chan Рік тому +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @Marci-Ana-GMM
      @Marci-Ana-GMM Рік тому +3

      "Don't get approval from others"
      Also this channel:

  • @Jermainetheintrovert
    @Jermainetheintrovert Рік тому +48

    I find that believing in yourself is a skill that not many have. Imagine believing in yourself as much as you believe you will wake up in the morning to brush your teeth. You would see how much you would achieve.

    • @niggasgang8784
      @niggasgang8784 Рік тому +3

      Sorry but is your last name really McDonald

  • @myheadphonesarebroken
    @myheadphonesarebroken 3 місяці тому +14

    Hi Ruri. Maybe you'll not see this but i want to leave a comment here.
    I saw your channel 3-4 years ago. I was feeling lonely and desperate. I didn't have motivation for anything, was spending my whole time in my room, trying to force myself to be more productive.
    After I started to watch your videos, you gave me the motivation I was looking for for months. You taught me that being productive is not a miracle that happens suddenly but is a process. It was a "start line" for me. I studied with your videos, learned many things. I believed that you are gonna be successful from the beginning. I am not a person who comments so much on videos but here I am. Because I wanted to thank you.
    Thank you for everything. Congrats on 1m subscribers.

  • @azkainu
    @azkainu 11 місяців тому +6

    Idk about being beautiful but I always remember what Marilyn Monroe said about it, "but my goodness doesn't it help?".

  • @mrgreen4874
    @mrgreen4874 Рік тому +218

    Ruri. You shouldn't excuse how you felt at the time by addressing your depression and financial problems as a "privileged experience". You felt that way, and no one should be so ignorant to lash out on you for telling your story. Congraulations on 1M and Lots of love from Sweden!

  • @CeltiXtime
    @CeltiXtime Рік тому +150

    Man it's crazy how down to earth you are,
    "My family got scammed twice, we had a restaurant and it burned out, we were in crippling debt and my parents worked day and night until late, sorry if this comes across as privileged"
    It doesn't, you did great where most would have gave up, as others said in the comments you're an example of resilience, your million sub didn't fall off from the sky, thanks for your insightful story.

  • @MrMysteryman00
    @MrMysteryman00 11 місяців тому +4

    Do not trust your father with any of your money. He is either lying about everyone scamming him or is a horrible judge of character. The restaurant burning down also seems slightly suspicious to me.

  • @michelle-rose
    @michelle-rose 10 місяців тому +200

    This is so motivating thanks for sharing, I'm really inspired. It's certain that the only person who will believe in you is you. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

    • @andreblechynden4578
      @andreblechynden4578 10 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

    • @michelle-rose
      @michelle-rose 10 місяців тому +6

      Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
      I hope it is useful to you.

    • @feihong6477
      @feihong6477 10 місяців тому +3

      How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

    • @gerainduany5710
      @gerainduany5710 10 місяців тому +2

      Congratulations to you Rose that's a great accomplishment keep it going

    • @michelle-rose
      @michelle-rose 10 місяців тому +6

      I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

  • @Joex0f
    @Joex0f Рік тому +116

    Hi Ruri,
    I don’t know if you’ll see this message, but I want to thank you personally. I found you in 2021, during a real dark time in my life. I want you to know that your story really resonated with me and you have been one of the biggest inspirations in my life AND UA-cam.
    Because of your inspiration and my hard work, I was able to go from 50 subscribers to almost 3k subscribers, now as a UA-cam partner. Your continuous hard work pushed me and I just want you to know how grateful I am you helped me by being you.
    Thank you so much and keep being you.

  • @sequencereversed3261
    @sequencereversed3261 Рік тому +38

    "Her channel is growing just because she is pretty" is exactly what I thought when I came across your channel for the first time, I'm glad I was open minded and gave you a chance, that was truly inspiring, Hope you sustain that growth for as long as possible since being a UA-camr is quite a volatile job.

    • @mika-yy7gk
      @mika-yy7gk 11 місяців тому

      you cant lie shes bad asfffff

  • @ramazanDOGNA
    @ramazanDOGNA Рік тому +7

    As a Turkish guy thank you for all this story. You are good girl with have a good hearth. U are so strong because of your past. U wouldnt be this Ruri if you dont live this problems. Just keep goin because you cant lose while you are fighting, the only way to you lose is to surrender 💪🏻

  • @torentosangaming6733
    @torentosangaming6733 7 місяців тому +22

    It’s beautiful how in your family’s time of need, your Japanese family saved you from the depths. So much compassion and unconditional love 😢

  • @danielpam6310
    @danielpam6310 Рік тому +130

    Please, DON'T BE SORRY! Thanks so much for opening up about this. For YEARS up to Now, my Filipino Grandma has been supporting us and saved my life too!
    You indeed bring so much value to the world! You're truly the definition of a strong woman, Ruri!

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 11 місяців тому +1

      I have to see😂you very times again in next I'll never forget you 🎉

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 11 місяців тому +1

      I😂wish to you😂 families good job and with health bodyguard women in

    • @kuethmok3431
      @kuethmok3431 11 місяців тому +1

      I understand English but I can't to learning and then will not speaks with you very i am sorry you 🎉

  • @thortremble2794
    @thortremble2794 Рік тому +72

    Great job Ruri. You're a living example of RESILIENCE. My favourite part about your videos is your AUTHENTICITY. You mentioned speaking in front of a camera is your talent. Yes, for sure, I can feel your energy when I watch you speak. Your authenticity & emotion, I can feel that. I've never seen a person like you before in my life with your personality so to me, you're not just another pretty face. Your content & authenticity with your videos is so real & relatable that I respect that a lot about you. Great work & congratulations! ❤

  • @the_boatswain
    @the_boatswain 7 місяців тому +20

    Wow! I am like a late 30s random dude in the US. I am a former Police Detective and now am scraping by a self-employed private investigator. I am not sure how your video's popped up in my feed -- but I have to say, your story is amazing and motivating. I found myself opening my notebook several times to write down some of the things you're saying. You're absolutely awesome and motivating! Great content! Cheers!

    • @Random-qd1sv
      @Random-qd1sv 5 місяців тому

      Wow an old man supporting a female shame on you what have men become

  • @studiozone2203
    @studiozone2203 10 місяців тому +38

    This young woman is awesome. A great role model or inspiration for anyone wanting to better their lives.Much respect! P.S. When you have hate coming your way, that means you're doing something right.

  • @Spartan-zz7lk
    @Spartan-zz7lk Рік тому +16

    Congratulations Ruri!!!!!! You deserve it!!!!! 😊Greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽✨

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Рік тому +28

    Congratulations dear Ruri for 1 Million Subscribers I am so so so happy for you and you deserve it🙂💫💓💐🎊🎂

  • @elliecha4240
    @elliecha4240 7 місяців тому +9

    I am a single mom with two teen children. i came across your video last week and have been feeding on them. As a subscriber, i admire you for all your sharing. With deepened respect, i look up to you as an inspiration now that i heard what you just shared. Thank you for having me in your life journey!

  • @ElhusseinyWagehOfficial
    @ElhusseinyWagehOfficial Місяць тому

    I really appreciate and respect you more after hearing that. Keep moving forward and never ever stop supporting your family. Really wishing you be 10M Subs Soon. All of us are proud of you as a content creator like your great small family.
    Keep hustling champ, you deserve the best :)

  • @theotakuweeb193
    @theotakuweeb193 Рік тому +29

    Ruri dont ever let this world fail you. You're strong, stronger than me actually. All this struggle that you've been through is ending because you ended it. Now good days will come, sure struggle is always there, but so is happiness. Keep that fire lit in your heart, and "Set your Heart ablaze"

  • @geetube79
    @geetube79 Рік тому +10

    Never apologize for being yourself girl.
    Congratulations on your achievements.

  • @scottpierc7519
    @scottpierc7519 8 місяців тому +10

    I just wanted to let you know, Ruri - You have a good soul…and never let anyone tell you otherwise or make you feel the lesser.
    Sending you love and light! The future is waiting for you with open arms.🙏🏻✨❤️✨❤️🌟🤗

  • @guptacorp
    @guptacorp 10 місяців тому +13

    You are touching and changing lives for the Better. One suggestion: do NOT apologize when you did no wrong. IF someone feels "triggered" or that you are "privileged", that is THEIR wrong thinking. Never be afraid to Speak Your Mind and Share Your Thoughts. Some may criticize, but they do not matter. The people you inspire, uplift, encourage, mentor and give Hope to are the ones to focus on. God Bless You and your family on your incredible Journey!

  • @SinSationNation
    @SinSationNation Рік тому +88

    Congratulations on making it to 1M subscribers. You absolutely deserve it and for those who bad mouth you for achieving that goal are jealous and envious because they only want what they don’t have and that’s…SUCCESS 😊

    • @Revament
      @Revament Рік тому +2

      Your comment scared me lol I just saw that same picture I have been using for a long time and thought I had wrote someting I dont even remember.😆

    • @SinSationNation
      @SinSationNation Рік тому +2

      @@Revament That’s funny ☺️because you are the only person besides me who has the same picture except that your picture is facing the opposite direction from mine

    • @Aurora-bv1ys
      @Aurora-bv1ys Рік тому

      Damn this has to be a one in a million chance

  • @hiddentreasure1119
    @hiddentreasure1119 Рік тому +15

    I love how you don't sugar coat the monetary aspect of your profession. The way you explain things about UA-cam and views and the cut-throat competition made me realize how hard it actually is to achieve what you have, as opposed to what I was lead to believe by other channels.

  • @shiroyuki1943
    @shiroyuki1943 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm crying, thanks for share your story with us

  • @porobertdev
    @porobertdev 5 місяців тому +2

    It was only about an hour ago I came accross your channel, while searching for calendar and time blocking. I'm so grateful that I have found you. And coincidence or not, it's 1st January.
    This is the best video I have watched since a while. Yes, it triggered me in a good way, to the point that I have got some tears, because I can relate to some things, including family.
    I'm currently trying to get into IT, specifically web programming, and I also get laughs from some people around me, but they can't stop me. They can't take the "inner fire" away from me, but I still have to work towards being more stronger mentally.
    You are a very inspiring, ambitious and hard working girl, and I can see how you will never give up.
    And you are right about money, but I think it depends on people too. They choose what type of content to consume, and that's why other videos that scam or provide a wrong value goes viral. I think social media would be a better place if there would be more people like you
    Thank you so much for sharing your story! You have improved another person's life🙂
    Cheers from Romania.

  • @Wonderwillis522
    @Wonderwillis522 Рік тому +16

    Dude your videos are so encouraging and inspirational for me. Thank you so much and keep doing everything you are doing

  • @TheStrugglingShiba
    @TheStrugglingShiba Рік тому +18

    This video resonates with me so deeply it almost hurts. Coming from a good family, sometimes people always see whats on the surface, never what's below. Not many people will bother to take the time to know that everyone has deep struggles, and just because its not on social media, doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. When you said apologized for having good circumstances and also for not being in as "bad" of a situation as some others out there, it made me realize how easy it is for people to judge others behind a screen. People so often lack compassion towards others online and project all their insecurities on people that have what they do not. As the only child in the family to 2 retired parents, I recently had to take the role to provide for my family, so all your struggles are something I can really relate to. Your channel not only drives me to work even harder, it also gives me a realistic view on how there are so many ups and downs in each persons journey. Thank you for making this video, I thought there was nobody out there who could understand my circumstances, but I'm glad I found your channel when I was trying to learn Japanese. I admire you so much for achieving 1m subscribers, especially when English isn't your first language, despite being made fun of and called cringe, despite failing to get views for years, you pulled through. A girl stepping up to be the provider for her family and never quit until she succeeded, that is something nobody can ever take from you! I wish you nothing but success and I'll continue to support whatever you do moving forward! You've gained a follower for life :) Don't ever stop being yourself!!

  • @yelyel2620
    @yelyel2620 6 місяців тому +3

    I relate to you on so many levels. Being able to feel other ppl's emotions so deeply can feel like a curse sometimes but it also gives us a purpose to keep on going.
    I hope u know that there are a lot of ppl out there who support you, and I am one of them. Thank you for being authentic. Thank you for being yourself. You do make an impact, and provide value for others.

  • @roqtest3070
    @roqtest3070 4 дні тому

    The only problem in this video is you apologizing in case your story triggered someone, never apologize for your genuine true experiences. It is your story, your pain and your life - you owe no one any apologies. If someone gets triggered it's on them for being immature and creating an issue where it doesn't belong. Thank you for sharing your story, it was very inspiring.

  • @ultimateswx
    @ultimateswx Рік тому +35

    You've gone through a lot of hardship and still came out on top. You're a huge inspiration! You dedication to your family and your career is so admirable as well. I hope one day I can be as disciplined and hard working as you.

  • @munga
    @munga Рік тому +22

    I very rarely comment on UA-cam videos, but I would like to express my gratitude for sharing your story and for being a strong example of not giving up. I'm going through one of the toughest times in my life right now, where I'm putting myself back together piece by piece. Your videos, presentation, thinking, thoughts impress me, they help me a lot and I am glad that I found your UA-cam channel. Good luck with everything! Forward to 2M subscribers so that more people know about you! 💪💜

  • @studioconifere
    @studioconifere Місяць тому

    Having reached this heartbreaking point in my life where ALL my effort and ALL my work is absolutely not working, to see that I document, plan, organize and carry out absolutely everything on my own... I discover a video of you explaining your UA-cam strategies because I need to get out of it... little by little I discover your channel and I see myself 200% in your story... I constantly fail, on the verge of giving up, this video remains in my head and pushes me to persevere... Thank you Ruri.

  • @The_Wander_Maker
    @The_Wander_Maker 9 місяців тому +4

    This world needs people like you Ruri! NEVER give up!

  • @cayplusconnects
    @cayplusconnects Рік тому +16

    You have touched people's lives and inspired me in many ways. Thank you for sharing your story. No need to apologize for our circumstance. We all have unique life story and I respect that. Congratulations, Ruri🎉!

  • @cipriantaoshu
    @cipriantaoshu Рік тому +20

    It can be seen that you are a person who suffered a lot in the past, but it's happy with his results.
    Your videos gave me the courage to overcome a little depression.
    Thank you very much, Ruri! :X

  • @serenerei
    @serenerei 6 місяців тому +3

    You are something to look up for. Thank you for helping me .

  • @syndiosin
    @syndiosin 11 місяців тому +13

    ruri, i can't imagine how hard it's to have parents from 2 very different culture. i also feel depressed when my parents were in bad financial situation and seeing my dad struggling with it. i also blamed myself if i can't do anything for them :(
    i almost shed a tear listening to your story because i relate in some part. i hope our life are always getting better and better and congrats for your youtube achievement :)

  • @MiljanBojovic
    @MiljanBojovic Рік тому +16

    I just wanna hug her so badly for the weight she carries and the bad experiences she had. But honestly I'd mainly do it because she is opening all the experience and sharing them, letting us know things are possible. Not easy but in the end, it is possible to reach a goal.
    Thank you Ruri for being the inspiration and motivating us all.

  • @Organicwatermelon123
    @Organicwatermelon123 Рік тому +43

    So proud of you for coming this far, your vids have helped me so much and I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share your story with us
    Keep up the good work! You're doing great!
    ❤️

  • @randall1fc616
    @randall1fc616 24 дні тому

    Rui, I am impressed by your "never-say-die" attitude. Those horrible and demoralizing events and people you'd encountered are parts & parcels of life; they are character building. The harder it hit you, the more determined you are to rise up and run again, the sharper, the tougher and more knowledgeable person you'll become. Pls continue doing what you have planned and are planning for yourself. You'll be successful and happy gradually but definitely. I am the youngest in a big family but the brothers who would help me passed away, and the surviving ones are totally useful. I am more financially stable and happier now, than all of them; I have to thank those who turned away from me, as their actions revealed their true identity, and to due this, have made me become a much better and stronger person. Never bear grudges with those who failed you or it will only hurt yourself spiritually and mentally. Just forget their existence. Be happy.

  • @hamzireal9119
    @hamzireal9119 2 місяці тому +1

    Words cannot express how I feel after watching this video. What I can say is that you are my role model❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @CG-yl8vz
    @CG-yl8vz Рік тому +5

    Congratulations Ruri, sometimes you make me feel like i'm not working hard enough.😅

  • @circlesquare5216
    @circlesquare5216 Рік тому +53

    Oh my heart when I saw you crying! Congratulations Ruri! We'll never be able to know how much work you've put for this. Thank you for your channel it has helped me not just once. And look at you sharing this again to inspire others. Will definitely continue to support you! I know a lot more people will come and support your channel like I've always believed since I've found it. Keep up! I might not know you personally but as a follower I am so proud and happy of you and for you. THANK YOU! Edit: Yes your story is so "triggering" it triggers me to work hard and not give up on my dreams. Gotta have to watch this again when discouragements come.

  • @rbogdan6782
    @rbogdan6782 10 місяців тому +2

    Damn, I almost cried , Im sorry for the hardship you had to endure but I do believe it made you stronger and better in life and I hope you are doing very well and you and your family are good . Thanks for the vid !

  • @firebirdmotorcarriersoluti4815

    I relate so much to your story - it felt like you were telling my very story only with minor differences.
    Congrats on 1 million! 🎉 I’ll be here to congratulate with many more.

  • @adelinaflyth5365
    @adelinaflyth5365 Рік тому +7

    tebrik ederim Ruri senin adına çok mutlu oldum umarım başarılarının devamı gelir çok daha iyilerini hak ediyorsun

  • @FebruaryWashington
    @FebruaryWashington Рік тому +10

    The way you spoke your story is really great. Thank you for letting a girl believe in herself and try again.
    It's true that you weren't required to talk about having a loving family and being socially privileged, but as a trans woman it feels like my parents' love is conditional - that if I slip up, I fail.
    You just acknowledging this gave me the strength to forgive myself and try again tomorrow. ❤

  • @phamdevin
    @phamdevin 10 місяців тому

    You saved me Ruri as I stumbled upon 2 of your video’s today. I see your pain, struggles, and your time you’ve given. And I agree, we’re just humans. And we’re here to overcome and provide our communities with hope. And it’s starts with ourselves. With love, thank you so much. ❤

  • @Angelaknight2.0
    @Angelaknight2.0 7 місяців тому +3

    The vulnerability in your story is amazing, I’m currently experiencing everything similar you’re explaining. Thank you so much for this

  • @lagomholly
    @lagomholly Рік тому +5

    Everything starts with self belief. It’s so hard having self belief even with the support of others but when no one supports you it almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that you will never believe in yourself or aren’t worthy of doing so at all. It’s a working progress but you have to be your biggest cheerleader, you’re the only one in it for the long run. Great video!🙂

  • @Churlz
    @Churlz Рік тому +36

    Hey Ruri, just wanted to say congratulations on your 1M subscribers. I was having a terrible day today, but your video lifted me up.
    I wish you and your family well.

  • @darthvader6005
    @darthvader6005 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story, it is very relatable and inspiring! Much love and respect to you for being so loyal to your parents, we live in a world where that kind of devotion and love needs to be instilled into our community. Be strong and stay blessed!

  • @badgerbryan
    @badgerbryan 9 місяців тому +1

    Sounds like you went through an emotional rollercoaster growing up. I'm glad you found a way to keep going. Keep posting videos. You're helping me a lot to grow my online business. So young, yet so wise. I wish you all the best, Ruri

  • @YalinTsai0601_
    @YalinTsai0601_ Рік тому +10

    Your video is incredibly inspiring and practical in real life! I’m 15 years older than you but still learning a lot from your channel! Thank you Ruri! ❤

  • @asudeyildirim2402
    @asudeyildirim2402 Рік тому +3

    Ruri, I also come from a Turkish family and I understand you so much. Congratulations on your 1M subscribers and keep it up, don't let anyone stop you!

  • @joelkong9060
    @joelkong9060 9 місяців тому +1

    Ruri, thank you for sharing your life story, vulnerabilities, failures and ultimately successes through sheer hard work, sacrifices, determination and perseverance. You give me inspiration to not give up so easily, to keep an open mind for learning and shut out the noises. You just got yourself another subscriber. Much love from Malaysia.

  • @xinhhu
    @xinhhu 3 місяці тому +1

    After watching this video, I suddenly realized that the only way to make ourselves and our loved parents happy is by making yourself stronger and unstoppable!!!!!!! Thank you, Ruri! You made me think about it transparently.

  • @nilayustun
    @nilayustun Рік тому +21

    Congratulations on 1M and Lots of love from Turkey. There are good and bad everywhere and in every family free from countries and cultures. Anyway, keep reading and learning and share with us :) Nilay, still with 25 subscribers :D

    • @kuvarss
      @kuvarss Рік тому

      Aynen öyle her ülkede her toplumda kötü insanlar var

  • @Rusctrify9390
    @Rusctrify9390 Рік тому +11

    You deserve the 1mil subscribers. The amount of heart you put into your videos is inspiring! I cannot wait to see you go further!💙

  • @user-yh4pq9hc6v
    @user-yh4pq9hc6v 4 місяці тому +1

    Just found you today and got impressed a lot. Fighting ya! U showed such a strong mental and hard work, i may forget these days.

  • @teachmefriend.
    @teachmefriend. 11 місяців тому +3

    The tears in your eyes are the mixture of sadness and joy! ❤

  • @danielg3918
    @danielg3918 Рік тому +15

    Congratulations on 1 million, Ruri! Your hard work really shows in these videos. You definitely maximize the value you provide in every video

  • @3dgrade
    @3dgrade Рік тому +9

    I've actually cried at the cafe watching this video. Congrats, Ruri! I promise, from now on I won't give up and will work hard alongside you. Thank you for all you do for us and your family! It was a long journey❤

  • @CreepyREX-8
    @CreepyREX-8 21 день тому

    You know what .... Thank you you've gone through alot ❤ It's all Worth it at the End .

  • @minthmaytas
    @minthmaytas 8 місяців тому +1

    I needed this. Thank you Ruri.
    Your story is really precious to the world.

  • @doc2ur_who
    @doc2ur_who Рік тому +5

    Thank you for having the tenacity to succeed and continue to share your life and experience with everyone. You definitely helped me. ❤

  • @____Enes____
    @____Enes____ Рік тому +4

    Seninle tanıştığım için çok şanslıyım. Bu videonda hem kendi derdinin hemde biz Türk gençlerinin gerçek anlamda tercümanı olmuşsun. Yalnız hissetmemek güzel Ruri, nice 1 milyonlara💙

  • @grande_caliber
    @grande_caliber 11 місяців тому +4

    Seriously, thank you so much for this video, Ruri!
    I really wanted to comment since it all hits really close to home for me: The money issues, family and friends disappearing when you need them, the trust issues, all of it. Honestly, it's so hard to believe in yourself when life and people are telling you otherwise.
    I'm 27, and it feels like it takes so much to not give up and be lost in depression.
    However, watching you makes me feel like there is a way out of the darkness, and I want to step up and be strong like you! ☺
    You're real to me because you know the struggle, and I respect you and want to support you more because of it!
    I'm still figuring things out for myself, and I don't know how far I can go, but I want to believe and reach my dreams like you!
    Congrats on the 1M subscribers, and always believe in yourself! You have a believer in me! 😁
    Christian

  • @dainsleif1068
    @dainsleif1068 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, needed this and goodluck to everyone!

  • @lightsaver7785
    @lightsaver7785 Рік тому +6

    This is sooo touching, I'm rooting for you, your success, and your family!! Continue to evolve, learn and apply the knowledge in your life - thank you for the inspiration!

  • @misty_00.
    @misty_00. Рік тому +6

    Congratulations, Ruri.. i just so much i admire you for your effort, and for not giving up even when times are hard.
    I do believe in you because i think with your determination and hard work, even though it's not easy, you can do anything! you inspire me a lot to just not give up in life ❤

  • @irfansajal4007
    @irfansajal4007 5 місяців тому +3

    It’s not about making videos, the way you put emotion and passion to making videos, highly deserved a subscription. Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @josealonso1748
    @josealonso1748 Рік тому

    Ruri thank you for let us believe in ourselves once again! Greetings from Mexico.

  • @InPursuitOfCuriosity
    @InPursuitOfCuriosity Рік тому +12

    Ruri, wow, I can't believe how amazing your growth has been - and at such a young age. You have experienced some challenging times, but thanks to your attitude and hard work you are supporting your family and thriving as a young woman. You are a really family-orientated and kind person whose work ethic is admirable. I do wish you and your family all the best so you can experience financial and emotional stability.

  • @Sandulvinsuka
    @Sandulvinsuka Рік тому +5

    Congrats on the 1 mil Ruri! Well deserved!!! and thanks for sharing your story with the world!!

  • @hellohello-ho7fs
    @hellohello-ho7fs 9 місяців тому +15

    Hi Ruri. I am a female doctor in Japan and I loved your story of how you overcame your struggles ! You are an inspiration to a lot of people, especially young girls! Good luck with your new journey in Dubai :)

  • @JtsTubes
    @JtsTubes 8 місяців тому +1

    Lovely story, sounds like your success came at the perfect time. We need more people out there with your drive and perspective.

  • @EdgarWhy
    @EdgarWhy Рік тому +17

    This is such a beautiful video, Ruri. Also, a huge inspiration. I created my own channel earlier this year, even though I’m not an English native speaker, I wanted to challenge myself making videos in English. I live with my mother and my sister and my goal is to provide them a good life, just like you did with your family. Thank you for sharing your story and congratulations on reaching 1M subs!!!

  • @nihan9834
    @nihan9834 Рік тому +3

    I felt you Ruri, and you had such a supportive mom. I'm doing my PhD and still they try to interfere. I'm still fighting. Thank you for sharing your story. I dont feel alone. You deserve everything, love xx

  • @sofiyaristl1053
    @sofiyaristl1053 7 місяців тому

    She is absolutely stunning in every way. Thank you for being so open with your audience!❤

  • @dorothytran2926
    @dorothytran2926 Рік тому +4

    This is so vulnerable. Thanks for sharing you’re very strong and smart. I watched a ton of YT too when I was depressed and it helped a lot. Glad you’re seeing things go up Ruri. I’ll keep pushing too until I succeed I needed to see this today. ❤

  • @lucasfernandochannel
    @lucasfernandochannel Рік тому +5

    If you're in a position you need money, you go for it. Very wise words. This video is so inspiring. Congratulations!

  • @user-if9lo8kc4l
    @user-if9lo8kc4l Рік тому +7

    You're truly an inspiration! I love your story and content. I just discovered your channel few days ago and I'm obsessed with the value you're providing. I'm a painter and I've been thinking about UA-cam for years now and I didn't start. Your videos made me decide that I have to start my channel this year..and I will succeed! Thank you for this inspiration and congratulations for the 1M subscriber. Sending love from Tunisia 🇹🇳

  • @rotschimmel
    @rotschimmel 2 місяці тому

    what a wonderful human being you are, Ruri!
    Congratulations for going all the way through your dream, and for reaching your goals!
    You surely bring value, and you are a so inspiring person!
    Well done!!

  • @user-up1il4vl9d
    @user-up1il4vl9d 11 місяців тому +1

    Ruri I'm so proud of you , you are a brave , strong, successful, creative, women. You might not know how this video inspired me and give me a lot of hopes and such a positive way of thinking i don't get bored of listening to your story

  • @lukeskywalkerthe2nd773
    @lukeskywalkerthe2nd773 Рік тому +32

    I find your story deeply moving and inspiring in a lot of ways. Your tenacity and unwillingness to give up in spite of overwhelming odds, and your determination to help your family especially. You have truly earned your success, Ohama-san, and no matter what comes your way I know you will face your problems and solve them! I'm honored to be your subscriber! I find that my life is at a bit of a crossroads between what I really want, and how I'm tired of falling into the same old bad habits, knowing that I can be so much better than I'm being right now. But your videos and your story give me hope that maybe I can be a better person, and make a better life for myself and my loved ones. I just gotta take that first step. Happy 1 million subs! :)

  • @HiuBii1816
    @HiuBii1816 Рік тому +12

    You have been such a big inspiration to me since 2020, it's so heartwarming to see your channel grow this big after all your struggle.
    Thank you Ruri. Will always support you !

  • @jerthedev
    @jerthedev 10 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your story. You can see it in your eyes, as you talk about and relive old memories just how painful it was to shoot parts of this video. Overall, I guess I've been privileged too, but I have also had times where I’ve lost everything. A devastating loss is a devastating loss regardless of where you start from, and I think if you’ve experienced a better life and then lose it - it’s just very hard because you know what you’ve lost and are missing. Despite the fact your losses were devastating, it speaks a lot that your immediate concern is that you may trigger someone with even less. Empathy is a rare quality in the world.
    Anyway, congrats on 1M, Ruri, I can see that it’s well deserved.

  • @swoosh3684
    @swoosh3684 6 місяців тому

    I completely understand your story especially when you started speaking about your mom. I feel like we lived the same lives and I have been trying youtube for a while. It's so encouraging to see how far you've come because I see myself in you so much in our backgrounds and determination to make the best of what we have. This was so emotional for me to watch.

  • @luisalberto-cantantegarcia1046

    CONGRATULATIONS RURI. I do celebrate your million subscribers. You inspire me to go on, I´m glad you made it. Sky is the limit.

  • @neycovena2724
    @neycovena2724 Рік тому +10

    Having to see your family sacrificing everything, so that you can have a good future is gut-wrenching and I totally understand how you could've felt, because I'm living that frustrating experience with my mom, too. Thank you Ruri, you are a really strong woman!

  • @zindyallen
    @zindyallen 2 місяці тому

    I'm also a non-native english speaker who just started my youtube channel. Ruri, you inspire me to keep going. Thank you so much!