TikTok Gym Bro Got Cheated On And Now Hates Women…
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"maturing is realizing... every girl cheats" is so funny I can't believe it's not satire
Facts
Hyperbole I’m sure.
He's not wrong LOL
@@Squidwardsclarinet69I’m assuming you met half of the population to say that
@@Squidwardsclarinet69 he is though.
Dude imagine dating somebody for 2 months, breaking up and checking back with them and they post stuff like this about you. TWO MONTHS
She cheated. No?
@CatotheE yeah but 2 to 3 months is usually when a person's true colors shine. You shouldn't be that invested in the relationship yet.
@@kayleewilliams1232 Not if you date with intention. It baffles me how many people want to put this on the guy. If he was cheated on, she’s the bad one. I think red pill and manosphere bro’s have broken people. You can disagree with this guy and recognize that he was poorly treated. He’s the victim in that relationship. Just say that he shouldn’t use it to judge women broadly.
@@CatotheE cheating is bad. Obsessing over a dead relationship that the other person did a terrible thing to you after like 6 months is bad too. not every story has to have a hero.
@@LegoGoblin Not really. You can say he should move on, but that’s not a moral failing. The moral failing is with the wife. A lot of these guys are no better than the redpill people you mock. Can women Ever get criticism? She cheated. She’s the bad guy and he’s right to be upset about it.
This gives “all my exes suck/are crazy” energy. And at some point it’s like bruh, you’re the common denominator…
Was about to post this exact comment. These people need to do some serious introspection as to why they attract/are attracted to bad people.
Or to understand what’s wrong with themselves. Either way, they need to take accountability for these failed relationships.
I tell my friends who are having frequent bad luck with relationships to try getting to know someone they usually wouldn't go for. Gotta try to notice the patterns.
He is being a bit crazy but he to are knowledge was cheated on. Now how he’s acting is an overly attached but maybe he has some past problems saying he is the common denominator for cheating?
I mean most girls i’ve dated were toxic and manipulative but that’s because it’s what i attracted. this dude is LOST
Taylor Swift fans gotta hear this
I would fear for my life if I dated somebody for two months and this is what their TikTok became afterwards lol
Had a “fwb” for ONE day and broke it off bc he was a pos who took pics of me and he posted like this guy for at least a week until I told him to knock it off and blocked him. No idea if he still posts that shit but some people are crazy
@@BoatsBigDaywhy's he a POS for taking pictures of you? Y'all slept together 😂 did he rage post them after y'all ended things or something which why it's bad now?
@@sharpsrain8302 because he didn’t ask for my consent and tried to lie to me about it. He was also clearly going to send them to his friends behind my back
@@sharpsrain8302you don't take intimate pictures of somebody without their permission. Sleeping with someone is not giving the permission to take intimate pictures of you
@@jr5557 😂🤡so he somehow snuck pictures of her while she was naked in front of him use ur brain dumbA she whored around and doesn't wanna accept her wrong doing he had her consent doll they were the only ppl present -(well maybe the commenter might be "learning" about herself still 😂😂😂
It's kinda funny that all these gymbros act like they could take over the world while instantly turning into a whining machine that endlessly spews misogyny as soon as they get cheated or rejected
Ironically they’re the sensitive snowflakes that they hate. Bunch of whiners lmao
@@parisolivarious2 sides of the same coin😂
@@sharpsrain8302 found one!
Werd
I was with my man like, "We need to give men platforms to speak their feelings before it gets toxic" then he was like "two months"?!? Honey, no. 😭😭😭
What? Can you explain?
i don’t get it
@kstoneburgh8600 I meant,
Sure it's cringe now but it's better the guy let's out all these feeling of Heartbreak now- even on such a public platform- because we don't allow guys, typically masculine ones at that, to be able to feel such emotions like Heartbreak without criticism. If he lets it out now- it's better than him keeping it in and basically turning into a red pill/ black pill type months later
I had this mentality assuming this had been a long and very deep relationship.
And then it was mentioned that he and the supposed girl were only together for two months, and that just makes it hard to take him seriously now.
Like how deep could this relationship have been in two months to warrant such an extreme reaction.
OH I thought you meant ur bf
@@-N0V4-musta been a good lay
The "all girls are the same" caption with #positivity is definitely a choice, because nothing screams "positivity" like a guy ranting and raving like a psychopath over a girl he only dated for two months.
Does it matter if she cheated on him? Why the victim blaming.
@@CatotheEits one thing to be (rightfully, regardless of length of relationship) upset about getting cheated on. its another thing to say that all women are cheaters because you got cheated on.
you dont have to bash on women because you got played.
@@womankisserjermaluvr I agree, but my issue is that a lot of people here are basically defending the cheater.
@@CatotheE stop misusing therapy terms, defending the cheater isnt victim blaming, blaming the victim is
@@KavsLockedOut It’s definitely victim blaming.
We'll never know the full story, but as a woman who has been on the receiving end something about this screams lovebombing to me
sorta agree, although i think gunner missed that he said “2nonths ago” not “the 2 months we had”, idk personally how long they were together but from what it sounds like he’s not saying they were together fr two months, rather they ended two months ago.
still not how you react @@Wish-es it could have been a years long relationship and it would still be weird.
If dudes say "all girls are the same" then theyre the problem lol
Same types to seethe over women saying “all men are trash”
I don't put much stock in anyone. That uses blanket statements. They are never true, so they lose their credibility immediately.@@htm5814
Both genders are all trash I’m waiting for the next release
Same with the inverse
yeah. honestly, if anyone says “all __ are the same” then there’s a problem 🙂
Whenever someone says something like “people always leave me because I can’t help but love them so much,” that instantly tells me they are probably obsessive, clingy, and maybe even controlling. Please try working with a therapist before u resort to spewing misogynistic ideologies at impressionable kids on tik tok.
Broke up with my ex because of love bombing and neediness. I told him he should consider therapy ( he has very low self esteem) and he said he had worked with a life coach and didn't need therapy because the life coach helped much. I would have hated to have known him before that miraculous life coach.
This man was with her 2 months and became this psycho, and also mentioned "love you more" fights? 😒 definitely more toxic stuff below the surface
I think it's like i love you i love you more banter
I remember me and my ex of four years broke up (I dumped her) and I have hardly spoken on her in a negative light and she did some foul shit , yet I didn't claim it's "all women" or "women are bad" phase
She cheated tho
He didn't become a psycho cause of the breakup. That was already his personality and now he's just letting it all out there.
@alex-dm3sn oh yeah for sure. I'm sure there were red flags before but this is it all bubbling over
"no matter what you're going through: it's worth seeing the other side" well put
The other side of the cheater?
@@CatotheE why are you in all the comments insisting that his behaviour is okay because he got cheated on 😭
@@bolshevikapologist9957 Why are you people defending the cheater, bolshevikapologist9957?😭😂
Aint no pne defending the cheater. But you can be crazy and get cheated on. We dont need a murderer too@@CatotheE
Here’s my theory: the positive videos didn’t get as much engagement. The negative videos blew up. The market spoke and he listened
That's honestly makes so much sense. Misogynistic content absolutely THRIVES in the gym bro space
Hurt people hurt people he obviously was in a abusive relationship with a emotional dependent type. Where's his friends gone. Guess why. Guess who isolated him. Then left. He's broken sure but y'all shouldn't be laughing at that. When he's gone I hope y'all are proud of bullying him.
Gym bro is a generalization of men btw nice sexist comment.
@@Ave_Satana666wtf
@@Ave_Satana666 This is the reason why men don't speak about their emotions.
The kinda guy to spiral into dangerous depression when not in a state of being in a relationship
very weird and bad to diagnose people on the internet please don’t
@@mtlewis973 I'm a very weird and bad guy
@@MastaBroshiXFuck yeah 😈💸🗿
@@mtlewis973 If the dude doesn't want to be judged he shouldn't blast his misogynistic bullshit all over social media...
@@ajeenius7437 what? No, that's nonsense. He can be wrong for doing what he's doing, and someone trying to diagnose someone on the internet is wrong for what _they're_ doing. They're different levels of wrongness, but they're both still absolutely wrong. It's embarrassing that I need to explain this to you. Literally stuff we learned in Kindergarten...
Maturing is realizing everyone has the potential to cheat, but if they cheat it is not a reflection on you or humanity, it is simply a reflection of who they are, and if you find yourself repeatedly being cheated on, I would seek therapy to heal those wounds and to figure out if there are relationship patterns you keep repeating
I was in a similar state after my last breakup but it was a 4 year relationship ! As an adult, if a 2 month relationship destroyed you that much, you weren't ready for a relationship at all
Same here. This dude is such a clown. I wish I hadn't wasted years on my last relationship, it's one of the worst parts.
Some of us women like to call his “loving her too much” as a warning sign, a red flag, if you will. 🚩
Thats how you end up on Forensic Files 😅
As someone who cheated on my ex with her best friend and we dated for a year plus I messed with her sister a few months after she dumped me over it
I can't really fault him for him being deeply hurt but then he just goes unhinged and generalizes all women and goes full rage mode on his ex
Btw I was friends with this ex for years and though she expressed how much it hurt her and how she can never get close to me because of it she never did what that guy did
@@Chuck_ELwhy are you admitting to being a terrible person?
@@Chuck_EL What you did was so much worse... What the fuck?
@@bobobsen why do you respond like this? They're clearly not endorsing their behaviour, they're obviously saying that what they did in the past was completely wrong. I mean he's effectively saying "I know how much that can hurt because I saw firsthand how badly my actions affected my ex when I cheated on her", so he clearly feels remorse for his actions. I don't think being a terrible person in the past makes you a necessarily makes you a terrible person in the present. It does a lot of the time (most, I'd say), but generally in those situations it's the people that refuse to even acknowledge that they ever did (or do) anything wrong in the first place. That is clearly not @thepubknight6144, though.. he knows what he did, and he knows it was wrong. I can't know for certain that they don't cheat anymore, be it seems like they wouldn't.
Idk, I guess all I'm saying is that we all start at a difference place in life. Some of us had good parents, some of us didn't. Some of us started out as relatively decent people, and some of us didn't. All we can do is try to be a better person than we were yesterday. The guy you're responding to appears to be doing that, so I don't think they're a bad person at all (at least not based on this one comment, anyway). I've noticed a trend over the past few years of deciding that anyone who has ever done anything bad is irredeemable and permanently a bad person. That's not how people work, at all. I mean even if we ignore the reality that good people often do bad things and bad people often do good things, people change over time! If we want people to reflect on their mistakes, realize they're wrong, and change/grow into a better person, we need to give them the grace to be wrong! I'm not saying anyone is obligated to forgive someone else (nobody is obligated to forgive anyone), but for the people that are genuinely trying to be better people.. we need to encourage them, not attack them. It's the people that throw temper tantrums and double down and say "I'm not wrong, YOU'RE wrong!" over and over that are the problem.
(that's normally a political rant about how tf we're ever going to integrate right-wingers back into American society, but it applies nicely here too lol)
You taking a moment to get serious about suicide part was really sweet. People caring about mental health is so important to me. Mad respect and love for you! So glad I found you on UA-cam.
In my twenties I went to a fitness camp for, well, fitness. I learned there that many people turn to working out and dieting when they have emotional, psychological, or addiction problems because changing the physical is much easier than addressing any of those. I agree with the suggestion for a shrink.
Honestly, sounds like Borderline Personality to me. Lol. My now husband moved in with me after knowing each other for 2 weeks. We get obsessed with people very quickly.
I have Borderline Personality Disorder and I agree. I've moved in with people after knowing them mere weeks. The black and white "all girls are the same." Having unaliving thoughts when someone breaks up with you. Moping for a prolonged time. His impulsive behavior is to exercise too much.. I could go on and on, you know?
Was gonna say, this sounds like the girl I dated with BPD. Wonderful (albeit patently insane) woman.
She's on meds now, got a little bb girl and doing great from what I can tell :)
edit: the other girl with BPD that I dated ended accusing the baby daddy of a bunch of heinous stuff, murdering her baby as to prevent him from getting custody, putting the body in her trunk, and fleeing the cops. She had a lot of other problems, it wasn't just BPD. Dodged a bullet there 😬
(shut up, yes I know I had/have terrible taste in women, I'm a little nuts myself. I'm working on it!)
@@idontwantahandlethoughon another comment you chastised someone for saying he went into a depression. in this comment you are diagnosing him. you're in so many of the comments. i don't like you.
That’s what I thought too, also contrasting his positive content with his negative content fits BPD with intense emotional experiences, I bet he really deeply means it with those clips about wishing everyone well & hoping others can be happy. He likely feels those emotions at times just as strongly as his anger & his fear of abandonment at others. Hopefully he gets the help he needs cause nobody deserves to feel the instability that BPD comes with & we’re capable of loving passionately & being loved when we sort some things out
it’s the generalizations. that’s one of the worst things i can hear someone i’m talking to do. you can’t generalize women. you can’t generalize men. just because some people in the group you’ve experienced have been that way, you still can’t comment on those people as a whole.
Pattern recognition doesn’t exist right?
Cultures don’t exist or influence us either? Your comment one big hypocritical generalization. How can you even say this? Why don’t you go move to the hood then? Wouldn’t want to generalize your perceptions about the area right? It’s just a good deal where’s the downsides?
@@uncertaintytoworldpeace3650 It absolutely does, and it can be helpful.. it's just NOTORIOUSLY faulty, and thus we need to be careful not to apply these patterns too widely.
The human brain is really, really, _exceptionally_ bad at estimating statistics, and that's all "pattern recognition" really is at the end of the day. Our brains were simply not built for such mathematics, and that's why we need to look at the _data_ to show us that many of "patterns" we see aren't actually real.
TL;DR - your brain is designed to make quick decisions based on incomplete information in order to keep you alive. It is not designed to uncover universal truths or statistical trends.
@@idontwantahandlethough😂🤡😂wrong brother we wouldn't exist if we couldn't recognize patterns stop giving excuses for the majority who are genuinely stupid the issue doesn't lie in pattern recognition it's the application of it ie patterns exist but ignoring the other factors/the rest of the data eventually leads to you framing ppl or situations to broadly, incorrectly close but no cigar
@@sharpsrain8302humans are so unintelligent i can’t you are a living example of why shampoo has instructions
not me finding out one of my guy friends unironically follows this guy and likes his posts 😭 gym bros are truly something else, man 💀
unfriend him
@@mikeblazin5400 will do! 😍🙈
@@mikeblazin5400will do! 😍🙈
Hugs 🫂
@@aniota1648 ew weirdo
I live 3 hours away from my boyfriend because of school and his gym bro (that i literally met like maybe twice at the time) said “you know she’s probably cheating on you” to him. Genuinely absurd that he didn’t even know me but had the audacity to fucking say some shit like that. All because he had 1 long distance relationship not work out 10 years ago with the “love of his life” so I guess that’s his excuse for treating women like shit and cheating on his girlfriend.
These men who decide all women are cheaters based off their ex are also the first men to scream not all men!
1000%
The internet needs to stop taking everything at face value, guy said "women leave me because I love them to much" and dudes went "wow yes, that is objectively true, no more context needed"
This dude needs a therapist real bad. And I don’t mean that in a mean way, I’m being 100% genuine. Maybe a Partial Hospitalization Program, or maybe even an inpatient stay. I’ve been there, it’s so important to work through this appropriately. I wish him well
Thank you Gunnar, that short segment about mental illness was done great. Not often people can portray that legitimatley
I’m going to say this. It is easy to blame all women for getting this way when your behavior isn’t obvious. My ex left me when it got serious I was this angry. It took a lot and I mean a lot of reflection.
I was being to clingy and rushing into things too fast and her just out a long term committed relationship got freaked out. We both needed time to chill. It took awhile but we are recognizing our issues and not pressuring each other. Nor rejecting just letting it slowly build. You really have to see the full picture not just your side. Plus sometimes the girl was wrong for you.
well said. It's a hard lesson to learn, but an important one!
(btw I'm proud of you bro 🤗)
True. Men are almost always at fault. Blame yourself. Not the woman that cheated on you.😤
@CatotheE not you again 😭
@@bolshevikapologist9957 You’re back? Lol.
Is it possible that this girl took his "v" card and that's why he's emotionally unstable about it? Legit curious because I know that that first time can be very emotional for anyone.
Well now I feel bad 😔
I think it might be more something along the lines that she was his first "hot girl", now I don't know how to put it without sounding too misogynistic - but she was like a fantasy girl to him and somehow managed to date her. Every guy has to go through it, you get the girl you never thought you could even dream up the chance of being with - screw up and she bails, and then deal with the emotional aftermath of blowing your chance.
@@Chromeize I can understand this, but this guy would be considered attractive with hot women because he has the standard gym bro body and his face isn’t bad either, so I find it a little hard to believe what you wrote is the case for him. I think something else is going on. Maybe he’s a ride or die kinda guy and falls hard for who ever he’s currently with, but this time he got cheated on, and it majorly effected him.
Oh nah. Sis dodged a bullet. Its def giving “toxic BPD”
2 months is crazy for "i love you more fights".
I didn't tell my bf I loved him til 4 months of dating and 6 months of knowing him. And we didn't fight for like the first year.
I'm 99% sure he didn't mean real fight, but that nauseating "I love you more" "no I love YOU more" "no I love _YOU_ more" nonsense 😂
Damn, even six months would be too early to me! But two months?? Holy....
@@DwynTwo Fr. I need to really get to know a person in every aspect before I can fully commit (I’d be loyal, but I need a lot of time to develop trust and safety with a person before I get physically and emotionally invested) let alone say “I love you”. That takes way more than 2 months. I personally think it takes years to truly fall in love with someone.
Yeah I think I took like 9 months. 2 months would've freaked me out.
This guy is a walking red flag 🚩
These messages triggers my fight or flight…
If all women leave you the same way, maybe you are the problem dude😅
But she cheated on him tho? Like me personally I wouldn't care but I can see where he is coming from
@@senatorarmstrong2100 understandable to get upset about someone cheating, but when your in your mid 20's and so upset after a 2 month relationship that you feel its ok to send ur ex a text talking and sh and wanting to off yourself, he obviously has deeper issues beside this breakup and can dangerous for other is he doesn't get help. Cheating doesnt excuse his behaviour imo no one should act like this tbh
@@senatorarmstrong2100 so? He's a psychopath. They dated for two months, as adults, and he's been throwing fits and raging for 6months. He's in the wrong regardless of what she did
Hope he isn't dealing with self harm but many abusive relationships have a partner that threatened self harm to manipulate everything.
that paired with all the "intense" love on his end after only 2 months is scary as a woman. that's love bombing for sure and if i were dating someone like that, i'd leave as well
True. My ex boyfriend used to threaten to kill himself whenever I did something he didn't like. I would do anything he asked just so that I didn't upset him. I finally had to cut him off completely after lots of therapy because my health took a nosedive. If anyone does something like that in a relationship, leave.
The gym can absolutely be a form of self harm. From personal experience, pushing yourself beyond your physical limits on a regular basis can fulfill the same effects of self harm. And its very very common for the "classic gym-bro type" to be lifting as a form of mental health managment. This all makes for an extremely toxic community.
But that's all to say, I wouldn't be even remotely surprised if both things were true. 1) he actually is suicidal 2) as a misogynistic gym douche, he used that fact as a form of manipulation
2 months seems a little crazy for this reaction but I can empathize with what he's going through. Things do get better though and there is good people in the world. All you can do is work on yourself and grow as a person and things will eventually fall into place. Stay strong everyone ♥
It's saddening seeing people get so hurt and obsessive and vindictive over an ex because like, when you can break up with someone and still be good friends with them, it's such a beautiful and healthy thing. Speaking from experience here, one of my best friends is someone I used to be in a relationship with.
It's not always possible, I've experienced that too and had to just cut ties with certain people because they were genuinely terrible to me, but you just gotta move on and not blame everyone else for it. I was young and naive. I understand that now and I'm wiser for it. And now I've been able to get into a wonderful long term relationship and hardly ever even think of the people who hurt me anymore. It does genuinely get better.
This gym bro could not broadcast "I got dumped for being an obsessive, clingy ass" any harder. That bullshit of "I loved them too much" is such a tell for being obsessve, and that part with him saying girls have tons of guys' numbrs in their phones really implies he was digging through their phone messages. This dude is a nut with a ton of red flags.
The 2 month reveal knocked me flat.
Ive seen more than a few shitty self help or fitness related content where you can clearly tell they have some personal issues they're using as motivation for personal or financial gain; which would be fine if they would just be fucking honest with not only themselves but members of their audience that struggle to cope with emotions.
Itd be nice if therapy wasnt so taboo and looked down upon in that scene; all for healing through training every part of their body except the one that gives them these demons.
"Men be fighting demons but the demons are just unaddressed depression/PTSD/compulsory heterosexuality and they need THERAPY" is what came to mind.
I wish more men would go to therapy. I've been going for a decade now and it's one of THE BEST decisions I've ever made. Sometimes there are weeks (or months, hopefully someday years!) where I don't really even need it, but even then it's still nice to have someone to talk to that you know won't (can't) tell anyone. Or even just to say "I feel good this week" and they can say "Hell yeah, you did that dude! That was YOU!". Idk, I guess it's just nice to have someone who you know will always be in your corner, so to speak.
Brains need to be taken care of too, after all! What's the point of having a rockin' bod if your brain is a toxic hellscape?
Highly recommend it :)
Sounds JUST like one of my old college classmates. I’m a double major but he was one of the theatre majors and he was obsessed with his girlfriend and was crying to everyone when she cheated on him but then desperately chased her and got back together
Did she cheated again?
I came to laugh and broke down in tears at the "you are enough, see it through the other side" bit of the self unaliving portion. That's probably not a good sign...
Unironically, thank you, Gunnar, for that serious side tangent.
aye, just wanted to say that you're a dope, valid, worthwhile human being :)
I've been pretty depressed too lately. We'll get through this eventually 🤗
@@idontwantahandlethough We got this! Thank you for the wholesome and sweet comment.
Had exes who bad mouthed their exes.......it all started sounding the same!! Thinking it was a him problem not a their problem 😒🙄
Wait, at first I was as like "ya, getting cheated on sucks" but 2 months isn't even steady. Like, that's the feeling out stage. If you barely experience 2 menstrual cycles with her, that isn't a serious relationship.
I think it's a good thing she found a way out of that relationship with him early on, cause if it was two years, he might be unaliving her.
Maybe if you’re into hookup culture or don’t date with intention. Yes. Getting cheated on here still makes him the victim. Even after two months.
@@CatotheE no bro, 2 months in middle school is a serious relationship. If it's not long enough for a season change, it's not enough to go mental like how he's going.
@@slashismyhommie8182 By go mental, you mean be upset about getting cheated on. Why do you people feel the need to defend cheaters?
Tell me you're a cheater without telling me you're a cheater.
@@CatotheE The dude is crying way too much. He's lucky he only wasted 2 months on her. It's insulting to have him dramatize something so minor.
This is literally textbook manipulation. Make it public until she breaks down and asks for him back. That’s why he kept the open invitation back into his life, used the notes app as a cry for help, and has done it for an unrealistic amount of time. He’s hyper fixated
sounds like homie has BPD
I got cheated on in a 2 month relationship which led me to end the relationship, and was confirmed by other people after I ended it. He also cheated on me with multiple girls LOL. Made me laugh a bit and feel somewhat used but, in no way did I spiral and make it into something crazy. I'm in no way trying to act like I'm better than him but 2 months doesn't even feel like a true relationship - how you gonna freak out like this? 😭
In the Aura ad read when you said you might have one or two of these tools, all I could think of is Matsuflex and that idiot with the Karen hair cut, lol
Being in a two month relationship and end up this wound up after it ends is wild. Bro needs therapy if he's still not over it or at least in recovery at this point
Bro needs to be mad at his friend too cause wtf bro I know it was only 2 months but that’s still not cool. Imagine loosing your gf and bsf while you are already feeling super down on yourself. I hope he feels better soon.
The way I saw this weeks ago and was honestly so concerned, I'm glad someone is talking about it
Sounds to me like she probably found him suffocating. If he was in love & apparently loved her too much after only 2 months i imagine he was somewhat demanding of her physical & emotional time.
I feel like its unfair for so many people to be dismissive of this guys feelings.
1. Two months isnt a grace period for still acting single. Once you agree to a relationship everyday matters.
2. He got cheated on, and it seems she cheated with his so-called best friend. You have to imagine what kind of a woman would do that?
If not for these things it would look a lot worse for him. But he would be over this phase a lot faster with family and friends letting him vent for awhile.
Everyone calling him a red flag for being angry will just make it harder for him to let go.
They are calling him a red flags for turning this into a women hating bs after two months
Don't get me wrong if the guy was not doing this i would genuinely feel for him it would still show that he has issues but🤷🤷
As someone that turned into an absolute psychopath for a long time over being cheated on, so much of the rage stems from investing time, effort, hopes, opportunity costs, building your life around a person and so on - based on lies. Like your life is reduced to a prop in someone else's lame ass movie. Every memory feels invalidated.
2 months? He should count his blessings. It's definitely a red flag, and that probably goes for me as well despite having years invested in my own relationship.
I have immense respect with how you handled this delicate situation. Now more than ever we need to realize how potentially severe feelings like this can get, and where they may lead. I know you're usually all laughs and I dig that about this channel, but when topics like this come up...I just think you handled it appropriately and with class.
Now that all that's out of the way, where's season 2 of either beauty and the geek OR alternate and bring it back to TOOL ACADEMY SEASON 2!!!
I was told by my ex that she loved me.
So i opened up to her and fell in love, i realized after 2 years she was full of shit and was fucking around with other dudes.
Didn't make me hate women it just taught me to be more careful.
Hating women because one broke your little fragile heart makes you look soft 😂
Also 2 fucking months! 😂
Dude exact fucking same, made me fall for her shit ended after 2 years because she was running around. And I mean yeah ofc that shit messed my self esteem up even to this day but I absolutely love my saint of a current girlfriend and trust her completely. I can't fucking imagine blowing my entire worldview up so much over a 2 month relationship
"Hating women because one broke your little fragile heart makes you look soft"
There is nothing wrong with being soft, and nothing wrong with being a more emotional dude. I just feel like it's important to say that because we don't need any more guys thinking it's somehow "not manly" to have feelings. It's both manly and human, obviously (because men have feelings and are ostensibly human).
_However..._ there is *absolutely* something wrong with acting like that guy is acting.
If he was saying this stuff in therapy while working through his anger and warped beliefs, that would be super amazing. But he's not, he's infecting others with his toxic nonsense :/
Jesus christ 2 months?! Like that's not even really a relationship at that point its in the finding out phase. She obviously found out she liked his friend more.
I'm 3 minutes in and I already don't want to watch any more of the guys dumb tiktoks.
It's true though. If a person gets into a relationship immediately after a break-up, they have been thinking about that person for a while, and maybe something happened. The woman who spoke against that is dumb. Calling him wrong when she has absolutely nothing to do with the situation smh
Thanks Gunnar !
I was looking for smg to watch before going to bed, your timing is perfect !
Am I the only dude that only had a gym phase once I got married? Completely dont understand the post-break up gym craze.
I think somewhere they have the thought that they will somehow get hot. And it'll be the revenge they wanted against their ex Partner. Because nothing is healthier than driving your own health and fitness around what somebody else might be wanting.
13:30 thank you for handling such a sensitive subject with care fr
It’s crazy how much bro backtracked 😭
This sounds like my controlling and manipulative ex.
Jesus loves you
I thought it was bad until those texts.
That's HEAVY prison sentence at some point in his life vibes... whatever the charges might end up being.
I'm going through my gym phase without the heartbreak.
Heartbreak is needed for self improvement for me
I love you! 🥰
I hate you, we're through! 😤
Ok, there ya go bud. I just rekt your heart, no need to thank me :)
It's weird bc he looks like Charlie Hunnam but has the maturity level of that toxic guy named Trevor everyone went to high school with
“You can come back, but it’s over now. At least for long as I think”
Sounds like something cringe a gym bro would say 😂
Some guys do that to get pity points. Its the “I’m damaged” arch, looking for validation. Even though some women like the project boyfriend experience
The fact that im in highschool and know multiple relationships that have lasted longer than this one is proving something.
I wont lie....that Baby Filter works just a little *TOO* well with Gunnar's face xD, He's already so baby faced that he turns it on and he's just a real baby
I appreciate your empathy at the end there, and your acknowledgement that this is someone’s true feelings and you can’t really tell them what to think or feel. That was kind of you to pause the comedy and acknowledge it. Great video as always
This is definitely one of the character arcs of all time
"i love you wars we used to get into" -man after 2 months 😂 😂
Thank you for your pause to acknowledge mental health and tell us that we're enough. Always very good to see public conversation and acceptance
I was going thru a hard time last year and found a ring that says " I am enough". Helps me out on those ( only) occasional bad days. Therapy helps 😊
Honestly, people like to say that when people move on soon then the other person was there all along, but they neglect to think about the abundance of men that just randomly show up to try and date us randomly
I have a younger coworker going through this break up/gym phase. He went to the gym often while he was in a relationship, but when that relationship ended around the New Year he went balls deep in weights. He’s even got some of my other coworkers going with him after shifts. I just sit back, cringe, and tell him “more power to ya”.
Love you Gunnar!!
I am not defending him but I can understand what he is going from. It could just be a trauma bonding and that's why he is so attached to her even if it was for 2 months
Thank you dude... needed this more than I could say. 13:23
Damn going through a villain arc over someone that you knew for 2 months is crazy. I wouldn't even be mad if someone that I dated for 5 years cheated. Just thug it out
Different people different problems i find it silly but🤷🤷
I think if the guy was talking about his problems without turning this into a women aint shit bullshit i would defitely simpatize with him
Thanks for going silly mode at the end Gunnar, it really cheered me up
The main problem is he is getting reinforcement from the internet, with all the views and Likes
You could torture me to death and yet you wouldnt get me to post those texts if i was him lmao
Gunnar - bring your stache back 😊
I’m only at the ad break and I’m already crying laughing 😂😂😂 “that’s the opposite of my ex wife” that look after - Gunnar you’re friggin brilliant😂😂😂
We had a 2 month relationship and now I’m using you for clout….
"All girls are the same" (that's litterally impossible).
There's one common denominator, him. He must be acting similarly towards all women, which is causing them to react to him negatively. His ego won't let him see he's the problem otherwise he'd be aware enough to realize how ridiculous that statement is.
2 months into a relationship and he wants to die over it? Nope, thats attention seeking and sick to do because there are people who actually feel that way. If he was gonna do it, he'd just do it, not blast it all over social media.
I had an ex once threaten that shit to me. I left because he was abusive and him saying that was him just trying to guilt me into coming back. I knew it and called the cops and sent them to his house to "help him". He admitted he was fine and he never did anything to himself, just kept harassing me.
This dude prob has serious mental health issues.
This sounds like someone who didn't have enough socialization growing up. Maybe didn't have a lot of friends. I know people like that, and unsurprisingly they tend to get pretty clingy. It can get better though. Hopefully this guy has someone else in his life who can help coax him out of this, and therapy would definitely help.
He’s Gunnar go live. Gunnar go live. Gunnar go live. Shits still stuck in my head
I broke up with Gunnar and he acted this same exact way. Why do you think he went missing for a few weeks at the beginning of January? Psh his whole "spending time with family" excuse is super see through. He was missing my pole very much. Admit it Gunnar! -
Best Regards,
Gary from the Russian Bath House.
this guy seems like he may have BPD and the woman who left was probably his "favourite person"
basically, he needs to see a therapist
I really do look forward to your videos like no other UA-camr I’m glad you are serious about topics that need that also lots of people care about you too Gunnar 🙏
This guy is just the gym version of just neckbeard things.
Or like a “you don’t want to wake the beast inside me” type cringey post. He gives that same kind of cringe.
Almost incel esque
I always get annoyed seeing the trend of every post of dude's being down as having the only solution as "just go gym" with nothing else suggested. It's kind of pathetic to see :/
I know way too many people like this 💀💀💀IN HIGHSCHOOL
Imagine deadlifting only 450lb and thinking you have some special secret
That might be 535, but still same
Being that attached to someone after only 2 months is not healthy. It took me so long to learn this, I hope he learns quicker.
Around the age of 30 I made myself a rule to never get official with anybody before:
- 6 months of knowing them
- Seeing them having a bad day
It saves you from a lot of headache.
Guy is Bipolar. I am and I know these issues well. Best of luck to him on his journey to sound health.
the tone of these paragraph messages are all over the palce. IT HURTS!
It’s always sad to see a story where the stuff starts positive then gets sad 😕. I Feel bad for the guy. It’d be a whole different thing if his content was always like this
(Michael Jordan meme)
Like seriously, who tf spirals this hard off of a 2 month relationship?! That is actual psychotic behavior.That woman dodged a whole ass nuclear bomb. At least he self-reported so no other women have to get involved with him.
People like this have no life/sense of self of their own, which is why they get so overly attached. Toxic af.
7:47 Cap. There's never any reason to cheat. If the relationship is dead, then break up. It's not rocket science lol
Anyone who says differently is almost certainly a selfish coward or in denial.