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I do agree body count should be zero or needs to be a good reason behind it not being zero. I just wouldn't be comfortable dating someone who has killed people
@@Largentina. Exactly! Plus the higher their body count the sloppier they get. I don't want a long distance relationship where I'll have to always be the one visiting...
The Tinder Swindler dude took the girls to fancy places to establish that he was a rich man so he could ask to borrow money later and they’d think he’d be able to pay them back quickly, not to make them feel “out of place” in order to avoid complacency.
Yep you are correct about the motive. This guy is giving 'advice' acting like he knows how women think but shows his inability to correctly asses behaviour in that comment.
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk growing up I was really confused when I heard the term gold digger and how it was mostly associated with women, because the amount of dudes I'd seen living off of women while providing nothing has been countless times.
Something tells me that “who hurt you” doesn’t apply in this case. I think “who didn’t give in to your every whim and in that moment showed you that you lack the power you thought you were entitled to” is a more fitting question.
@@_ITC_ nah, she's right. Too many dudes are entitled like this and then get bitter when they realise women are autonomous human beings and don't simply exist for men to do as they please to do them.
this guy literally said "women are DESIGNED to SEEK THE BEST POSSIBLE OPTION because of BIOLOGICAL HYPERGAMY" like it was some kind of epic own of womankind to observe that if you treat her badly she'll leave you for someone better
Every time I see this "women hypergamy bad(((" talk, I can't help but wonder if all other guys actually like, settle for literally whoever? I missed out on something Ig
See, what you describe is how reality actually works. But hypergamy just means "marrying above one's rank" or "dating up." These red pill or incel guys seriously believe that women are biologically programmed to go after the most attractive, wealthiest guy that will have them because evolutionarily speaking, those things would supposedly guarantee the best outcomes for her offspring. No, I'm not joking. Not even a little bit though I really wish I was. Anyway, when he says a woman will leave due to "biological hypergamy," he literally means that a woman will leave a man if a richer, hotter man shows interest in her, and that this is just the way the world works. It's absolute bullshit that can be disproven just by, I dunno, going outside and looking at couples in real life. Or, if touching grass is too scary for him, he can just go to Google and check out the surveys that psychologists and other researchers have done which show that the main reason why women will leave a relationship is not in fact because they're Chad thirsty, gold digging, back stabbing hos. 🤦 The misogyny is out of this world...
If the same men who have that mentality were to be raised by a step-dad who they would love for giving them the fatherhood that every child deserves, they'd look at it differently.
You can absolutely give a kid your last name, it's called adoption. Our dad legally adopted us after he married our mom and we got his last name. Never looked back on the pos that was our bio dad.
i have the utmost respect for good stepdads, even just ok stepdads that are trying. that's not an easy role. i tried and just can't, and none of the reasons why are the reasons described in the video
As a dude from the UK I could close my eyes and hear the static from his nylon tracksuit. I bet the book he's reading is well past its return to the library date
I'm a stepdad and it's great. My stepson's father shares custody, we get along great, and my (now) wife is a great stepmom to my kids. The idea that you have no "authority" over a stepchild is ridiculous, since my wife and I set the rules in the house for all the kids, treat all the kids equally, and individual relationships with each kid regardless of whether they're one of "mine" or "hers". What an asinine take this guy has.
whenever i hear that shit im like?? i have authority over all children everywhere bc im an adult. i dont exercise it without cause because that'd be weird but if i saw some kid like idk licking the floor and i yelled at them to cut that shit out i bet theyd listen. kids are practically designed to listen to adults. how beta are you that you think you couldnt reason with a child you arent related to?
Chronically online + low or no self worth + the ease of shifting “responsibility” for personal development on an entire other gender + a world full of grifters = the dating advice space
yooo that’s why he doesn’t wanna date a single mom bc he doesn’t wann have to compete with her kid HE wants to be her only kid that she takes care of! we cracked the case 😂
You are totally right about why “bad boys” are attractive. They aren’t desperate. And that thing about biological basis of attraction is so ridiculous. There’s a huge variety of types that different people are attracted to.
Amen. Guys who act like this dude are doomed to be forever lonely. He's a horrible person above all things and a psycho to top it off. Should be red flagged all over internet so no poor girl would ever have to suffer through trying to save him. Dude is a human equivalent of Titanic.
Same with people colouring their hair… tattoos and coloured hair works in the way poisonous species are super colourful… to repel predators. Giving human beings, specifically women and trans people, the superhuman ability to deter and repulse predatory men…
Who’s gonna tell this guy that his blood and name doesn’t mean anything if you don’t put ideals and values behind it, especially when your ideals and values are THAT
As an adopted person, the first TikTok really set the mood for me and I already knew what kind of person that guy was. You don't pass your DNA so nothing's in it for you lmao. So I guess to him (and his followers) my parents aren't my real parents? Hell to him I'm probably not even supposed to be living in my own country since I was born Korean but adopted by French parents? Never mind that I was brought up French, have always been speaking French, and don't really speak Korean lmao. I find these people very funny, like DNA/blood's soOOoo important, what are we in 1387?? Is he royalty? or maybe his blood is super precious because it can cure cancer that's why! /s Also yeah fyi Gunnar: for the biological family in an adoptive or foster family setting, I always advise people to use the adjective ‘biological’ (parents/mother/father/siblings/etc.) instead of ‘real’ or 'actual'- because if they are the 'real' ones, it implies the adoptive family is 'fake' (when by all logic it should be the other way around in most cases). I also sometimes use ‘the person(s) who birthed/conceived me’ but it’s a bit longer lol. Ofc that's just my opinion and I don't talk for every adopted person, but it’s always something I inform people of.
these dudes fr roleplay that theyre in the prehistoric times istg. acting like passing on "alpha" dna is so important. like you work a 9 to 5, you dont have to worry about whether your offspring will survive the winter
As soon as this person starts talking, my wife is pretty much every red flag he points out. If people like this had been around when I was younger, he might have cost me a 20 year marriage, my oldest son who I've raised since he was 9 months old (has my last name because I adopted him, someone clue him in on this). She's been everything I could have ever wanted, stuck with me through everything (including 3 deployments). I'm thankful people like this didn't have a platform like the internet when I was young.
I'm old and I'm married to the perfect man for me. You give good advice. I was young and stupid the first time I got married and I married someone who was abusive and unfaithful. My life is only good because my husband picked up the pieces of my broken life and I will forever be loyal and grateful to him.
I've been married for 20 years and change. I married a single mother, adopted my stepson, had another kid, got a vasectomy. F**k this guy. If you love her, the kid is only a deal-breaker if you let it be. I hope that advice guy stays well away from women.
Just found your channel and I’m obsessed! I don’t have the attention span for watching people live usually so I love when streamers start making UA-cam videos that put everything in a nice little video for us lol
& to have authority over them like that sounds scary i mean ofc i want my kids to respect me but i’m more focused on teaching & leading them in being a functional being in society
Yeah, this is why women are opting out. He doesn't even want to be a father. Well only by name. These dudes want the girl to work cook clean and care for children, and he just wants to come home and whine commands.
I'm glad this guy told me I'm not girlfriend material because of my tattoos. I guess I need to go tell my boyfriend of almost 8 years that he has to break up with me
My bio dad wasn’t really in my life and my stepdad stepped up, even AFTER he divorced my mom… still is my dad and talk to him daily. One thing my bio dad would say to me growing up is that he wanted a boy to pass down his last name, and would guilt me FOR BEING BORN A GIRL. (he only has one kid, didn’t want any, and his siblings all have girls; so he’d say that i was the last hope to continue the family name and I FAILED) 🤣🤣🤣 wild takes in this, my bio dad probably watches his vids
I think having boundaries is fine. There is no reason one to accept everything or anything. Just as you would choose a husband with certain personality traits.
It's weird how in Western countries men care so much about body counts coz in my country people never ask. If it comes up in conversation, fine, but it's rare for people to directly ask how many people you've been with. And guys in my country actually prefer NOT to hookup with virgins anyway
I think it's not the count or number that really matters. But I would prefer my parter not having a lot reckless hook ups. They are free to do what they want but it would be a consideration for me in terms of her character.
you know what I want to see? a man who's like: "raise another man's kid? you bet I will! I will be better then that kid's actual dad! I will make them love me more then you could ever imagine! You kid? no! Mine! Only mine!" competitive parenting, let's go men. flex on the other man by stealing their girl _and_ their kids.
Y'know what's the biggest fail of all these "dating advice givers" ever? They generalize and both humans AND relationships are way the fuck more complicated than what can be explained in a short video. Every single person and interpersonal relationship/situation is completely different from each other. So all of the TopGs are just farting in the wind. Even those in the 90s .. so called "pick up ARTists" bahaha
For real. You can’t make a guide for all relationships and even if you could, there’s no way you would achieve that in a short form video app like TikTok. It just doesn’t allow for the time necessary to analyze complex relationships like the one humans form. Heck, even birds and mammals have more complex reasoning for their relationships. But these people can still scam some people for a good profit by boiling everything down to simple and easy to understand cliches
Holy God i didn't get thru 4min and I already know a blind squirrel can give better dating advice. It's gonna be a struggle Guns.. but your excellent humor is everything! I should watch your Twitch coz i keep agreeing with the comments.. but there's just not enough hours in the day when you have a dementia parent. My Mom never remarried. I'm low-key glad, coz I've seen too many abusive fathers in my country (Bosnia.. but I'm in USA for like ages, longer than you're alive probs).
I don’t get the issue with single moms. I was the kid of a single mom, had a runaway father. My mom remarried to a really great guy who adopted me a few years later. There is absolutely no difference in relationship between my dad and I than there would be if he was my biological father besides the fact that I have an extra sentence to use in a heated teenager vs dad fight (which luckily doesn’t happen often)
It’s nice to see him defending single mothers, I’m 21 with an almost 2 year old, people can assume his father left me but they’d be wrong, I was the one that left because it was so toxic, constant lies, manipulation, etc. I was miserable so I chose to leave an wish I had sooner. It hurts hearing people say it’s a red flag because no, I’m just trying to make a better life for my son and myself even if it means being on my own. My baby deserves so much more. I’m in college full time because I want to do right by my son and get the best job I can get. Don’t judge just by what you THINK happened. Thank you Gunnar ✨
Two things. 1. "Red flag if she's a single, female woman" - so that's where I'm going wrong, I've been going after single, male women! Cheers for the help, Gunnar! 😜😂 2. Nicw Welsh accent, Gunnar! You had to have done that before or at least practiced it because dude, that was on point!
Regarding raising someone else's child. It depends, because on one hand, it complicates things, since you'd need a compatibility of 3 people, not just 2 in terms of personality and how you get along. I don't pass on my DNA? It doesn't matter that much, I'm all for adoptions. Last name? That would count for me, to continue the family line. I would have some name changes, like attaching my name to his/her existing one. 0 authority? Well, it is lower since you're not his/her biological parent, so they'll probably feel less bound to you, since you weren't there all along the way, for their entire life. But on the other hand, I guess you can earn enough trust/credit/love to make it work. But yes, you might not ever be on the same level as a biological parent in the child's eyes. It depends on the exact circumstances of each case though. But let's be honest, as a step-parent (dad or mom) you start with a handicap compared to a biological parent. You might compensate for it, sure, but it takes more work to reach a good level than a biological parent would need.
7:45 when it comes to "bad boys' whatamy women find appealing about them is what they represent. They represent adventure, freedom, and rebelling against authority (or whatever doesnt suit your moral code). Usually women who are attracted to bad boys (and this can be true for men who like bad girls) often lack adventure and thrill in their lives. Maybe they feel restricted, theyre always playing by the rules. The bad boy/bad girl represents a fantasy that we too can be free and take exciting risks. The other side to this is some people are attracted to the bad boy/bad girl because of the 'i can fix him/her and we'll live happily ever after" fantasy
As someone who was raised by my step dad and consider him more of a father figure than my bio dad (I love my bio dad but my sister and I weren’t super high on his priority list growing up 😅), I hate that “don’t raise another man’s child” shit.
Also, a woman calling you her gay best friend could just be a mistake lol. My boss introduced her now husband to her family as her gay best friend. That was a funny one to walk back.
Like you pointed out, the guy doesn't have a clue what red flags are. Red flags are warning signs for bigger things so if he doesn't want to date someone with a kid a red flag would be that she keeps large amounts of children's toys at her place.
Bro, to the first one, I have a multiple friends who are extremely glad that someone dated their adult moms, because now they have a father in their life.
I have been with my girl for about 14 months now.We have known each other since 2018.I always said"The best Relationships,are based on the best Friendships".Proper communication is key,willing to make small sacrifices is important.If you are planning a child or two,folks please,plan at least 2-3 years in advance(financially etc.)Good Luck To All✌❤
People in times before spoke of Daddy Newman I'm all about Daddy Gunnar Side note : reminds me of a Chad Christian del grosso who's just at peak Perfection yet verbally and spoken voice reminds me of a 5th grader trying to curse like Jay Bauman in RLM ( for kids to young to remember VINE he was a vine star skit comedian )
As a Bi short king . . . Just be open about your sexuality and breaks they happen though be human about it cause I mean in my past had an engagement it didn't last but also was fault on us both we ran it pretty fast. But she did ask for a break and said yes since didn't want to force her into something she wanted some time away which hurt yet was right thing to do. Lasted 2 years so enjoyed magical memories I had. . . And her goopy brain when she was exhausted during movie Night Overall break was good cause gave us both time to reflect and I wanted to push for it but she didn't feel for it anymore and we ended it
Complacent ≠ loss of emotions Lost her emotions romantically cause I did some beyond not great stuff in that relationship I was in a dark spot and wasn't using my emotions properly I took it out in unneeded avenues Would snap more then care to say but she sorta took more then she should've though yeah on better leaf. . .though took me a while to get their in my life.
Not gonna lie 16:40 sounded like me that hit close I gas lit alot not due to cruel intent just was tired of her and was moving from job to job low pay family stressors and think one time even said in fury "What cocktail of drugs will have you still and not in pain" not my proudest moment yet was very low patience at that point and hadn't learned how to handle myself or my emotions towards her yet Economic factors do add cracks in a relationship but she was sweeter then honey in wine She gifted me any game bought on Steam . . Which till 2018 I had 0 and after I had Phasmaphobia Raft Paladins ( free but we melted 100 hrs into both Brawhahlla ( free but we melted 100 hrs into both Short story she was a gift of a person and I was a Brutish cave Man who got lucky and didn't know golden goose I had she even gifted me meals sometime when was near Homeless overall that's my main regret is how I treated her. . Yet laughter helps
Ugh, I have a 14 year old son and raising him is enough of a challenge without having to also worry about him seeing this harmful propaganda having to possibly counter program that shit.
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Hi 👋🏻 Gunnar. Yore funny
It’s been truly a pleasure editing videos for you, thank you so much for the shout out my man!
YO WHERE IS MY WOMANESE? did i miss it? it says 10/18
Ah shit nvm its 5:30am rn in est time, well shit, gonna have to watch it tomorrow on a VOD
@@Leon1233215 dawg its in 8 mins its 8:52 EST right now lol
@@gunnartvlive YEA LMAO didnt notice
I joined in great stream 10/10 best book ever
I do agree body count should be zero or needs to be a good reason behind it not being zero. I just wouldn't be comfortable dating someone who has killed people
Yeah, I agree. I'm just not super into murderers anymore. They're just...so... murdery. Ya know?
Yea.. Like it could be me next, you feel me?
You had me in the first half
@@Largentina. Exactly! Plus the higher their body count the sloppier they get. I don't want a long distance relationship where I'll have to always be the one visiting...
Totally feel the same dude
A chip on his shoulder? This man has a whole Lays factory.
Lmao good one
😂😂 dude. Accurate. I was trying to think up a reply myself but then I scrolled to this and... I just can't possibly beat it. 👌
The “Green flag: LOVES crypto” stream comment at 4:36 killed me 😂
I was just about to comment that lmao
The Tinder Swindler dude took the girls to fancy places to establish that he was a rich man so he could ask to borrow money later and they’d think he’d be able to pay them back quickly, not to make them feel “out of place” in order to avoid complacency.
Yep you are correct about the motive. This guy is giving 'advice' acting like he knows how women think but shows his inability to correctly asses behaviour in that comment.
@@snooganslestat2030 *assess
Though asses is pretty hilarious too 😂😂
@wynn1587 hey im a Nigerian prince ... can i have some moneis
Guys do this a lot. Never give any guy money ever!
@@WynnWynn-gl3fk growing up I was really confused when I heard the term gold digger and how it was mostly associated with women, because the amount of dudes I'd seen living off of women while providing nothing has been countless times.
Something tells me that “who hurt you” doesn’t apply in this case. I think “who didn’t give in to your every whim and in that moment showed you that you lack the power you thought you were entitled to” is a more fitting question.
Who hurt YOU?
@@_ITC_ nah, she's right. Too many dudes are entitled like this and then get bitter when they realise women are autonomous human beings and don't simply exist for men to do as they please to do them.
For real. "Who hurt you?" can still apply though, in reference to his ego. That thing is bruised and battered despite being overinflated.
@@fawnieeeUnfortunately guys like this are having more influence on younger guys & this attitude & bs is spreading.
this guy literally said "women are DESIGNED to SEEK THE BEST POSSIBLE OPTION because of BIOLOGICAL HYPERGAMY" like it was some kind of epic own of womankind to observe that if you treat her badly she'll leave you for someone better
Every time I see this "women hypergamy bad(((" talk, I can't help but wonder if all other guys actually like, settle for literally whoever? I missed out on something Ig
Guess that means he's 100% not the best possible option, biology says so
See, what you describe is how reality actually works. But hypergamy just means "marrying above one's rank" or "dating up." These red pill or incel guys seriously believe that women are biologically programmed to go after the most attractive, wealthiest guy that will have them because evolutionarily speaking, those things would supposedly guarantee the best outcomes for her offspring.
No, I'm not joking. Not even a little bit though I really wish I was. Anyway, when he says a woman will leave due to "biological hypergamy," he literally means that a woman will leave a man if a richer, hotter man shows interest in her, and that this is just the way the world works.
It's absolute bullshit that can be disproven just by, I dunno, going outside and looking at couples in real life. Or, if touching grass is too scary for him, he can just go to Google and check out the surveys that psychologists and other researchers have done which show that the main reason why women will leave a relationship is not in fact because they're Chad thirsty, gold digging, back stabbing hos. 🤦 The misogyny is out of this world...
Shit I gotta break up with my girl because her daughter who calls me dad isn't mine. I'm so cucked.
"It's not your blood so there's nothing in it for you!"
@@Largentina. yeah, i hate that quote :'( what about adopted kids?? Parents are still parents regardless of blood
@@i-love-anime-idols He makes zero sense lol.
@@i-love-anime-idols those are not your kids! They're pets for people that are allergic to actual animals! Wake up people!
If the same men who have that mentality were to be raised by a step-dad who they would love for giving them the fatherhood that every child deserves, they'd look at it differently.
He looks like he’s halfheartedly shadow boxing in every tiktok
"Low body count" Well damn... *Looks at the 12 dirt mounds in my backyard*
"The worst thing she can say is no"
Her: "Oh, I thought you were gay"
Eww, no
Her: “I wouldn’t date you if I was straight”
@@filmpeople1051 is ur gf still suitable for a long term relationship
Can't believe homophobia still exist
@@swearv3396 please tell me what my comment has to do with homophobia?
You can absolutely give a kid your last name, it's called adoption. Our dad legally adopted us after he married our mom and we got his last name. Never looked back on the pos that was our bio dad.
Plus one can hyphenate the new guy and the mom’s last name
There is that "They won't have your last name" They will if you adopt them!
I have a 1yo and I'm single. Bc my fiancé DIED 11m ago. I guess I'm done for 😅😂
maybe it's just me, but being the father that her ex couldn't be sounds alpha af
Yeah, but being a father requires commitment, responsibility and positive masculine traits so these guys are terrified of it
i have the utmost respect for good stepdads, even just ok stepdads that are trying. that's not an easy role. i tried and just can't, and none of the reasons why are the reasons described in the video
@@vaelxn surprising that mrsisterfister couldnt be a stepdad (no disrespect)
no the alpha got weary of the DAMAGED GOODS, enjoy his leftovers
I was exclusively raised by my “stepdad” and I think of him as my true dad to the point I changed my last name to his last name
As a dude from the UK I could close my eyes and hear the static from his nylon tracksuit. I bet the book he's reading is well past its return to the library date
I'm a stepdad and it's great. My stepson's father shares custody, we get along great, and my (now) wife is a great stepmom to my kids. The idea that you have no "authority" over a stepchild is ridiculous, since my wife and I set the rules in the house for all the kids, treat all the kids equally, and individual relationships with each kid regardless of whether they're one of "mine" or "hers". What an asinine take this guy has.
Hey, Ryan. It's me, the biological dad. I hope you're doing well. I'll see ya this weekend when I bring little Timmy over.
You're so sweet!
whenever i hear that shit im like?? i have authority over all children everywhere bc im an adult. i dont exercise it without cause because that'd be weird but if i saw some kid like idk licking the floor and i yelled at them to cut that shit out i bet theyd listen. kids are practically designed to listen to adults. how beta are you that you think you couldnt reason with a child you arent related to?
It takes a village to grow a child, I don’t understand this new thing from insecure men
these men are the type to say that we have a father crisis, but think being a step-person is bad.
Chronically online + low or no self worth + the ease of shifting “responsibility” for personal development on an entire other gender + a world full of grifters = the dating advice space
Green flags- “she Loves taking care of you”
Lmaooooo this dude is just looking for another Mama 😂😂
Would a better example be, "Green flags- She hates being around you and wishes that you'd go away more often."
yooo that’s why he doesn’t wanna date a single mom bc he doesn’t wann have to compete with her kid HE wants to be her only kid that she takes care of! we cracked the case 😂
You are totally right about why “bad boys” are attractive. They aren’t desperate.
And that thing about biological basis of attraction is so ridiculous. There’s a huge variety of types that different people are attracted to.
And there's a large amount of evidence that what is considered attractive in a man is dependant on culture and biology plays very little in that role.
@@Astepole like? I mean being tall is a plus point regardless of where you are from.
@@senatorarmstrong2100 not for everyone lol that's a very broad statement
Amen. Guys who act like this dude are doomed to be forever lonely. He's a horrible person above all things and a psycho to top it off. Should be red flagged all over internet so no poor girl would ever have to suffer through trying to save him. Dude is a human equivalent of Titanic.
@@Soapcookies sounds like copium to me
As a tattoo artist, I guess I'm protecting women from men like this by giving them tattoos 🤔
Chad moves.
You're doing the lord's work.
Keep upselling too! 😂
Same brother!
Same with people colouring their hair… tattoos and coloured hair works in the way poisonous species are super colourful… to repel predators. Giving human beings, specifically women and trans people, the superhuman ability to deter and repulse predatory men…
Who’s gonna tell this guy that his blood and name doesn’t mean anything if you don’t put ideals and values behind it, especially when your ideals and values are THAT
extremely well said!!🗣️🗣️
my bad dating advice is to date me.
We should talk.
Dude, you probably need help
@@roxassora2706 That's all sorted
@@roxassora2706 What?
Dating in general is a bad idea. Just stick to you guns and stay single.
I can't wait to learn womanese, idk how I've survived this long as a woman without speaking it
The subconscious is dangerous, femoid
That weird guy's take for red flags on women is basically "Does she have a personality and free will? She's no good bro"
As an adopted person, the first TikTok really set the mood for me and I already knew what kind of person that guy was. You don't pass your DNA so nothing's in it for you lmao. So I guess to him (and his followers) my parents aren't my real parents? Hell to him I'm probably not even supposed to be living in my own country since I was born Korean but adopted by French parents? Never mind that I was brought up French, have always been speaking French, and don't really speak Korean lmao. I find these people very funny, like DNA/blood's soOOoo important, what are we in 1387?? Is he royalty? or maybe his blood is super precious because it can cure cancer that's why! /s
Also yeah fyi Gunnar: for the biological family in an adoptive or foster family setting, I always advise people to use the adjective ‘biological’ (parents/mother/father/siblings/etc.) instead of ‘real’ or 'actual'- because if they are the 'real' ones, it implies the adoptive family is 'fake' (when by all logic it should be the other way around in most cases). I also sometimes use ‘the person(s) who birthed/conceived me’ but it’s a bit longer lol. Ofc that's just my opinion and I don't talk for every adopted person, but it’s always something I inform people of.
Glad you found some loving parents!
That was my first thought, "so you would never adopt a child? Fuck you, since when does it even sounds normal"
The fyi part is really important 👌
these dudes fr roleplay that theyre in the prehistoric times istg. acting like passing on "alpha" dna is so important. like you work a 9 to 5, you dont have to worry about whether your offspring will survive the winter
My step-dad was adopted so according to this dude my grandparents are, like, double fake LMAO
As soon as this person starts talking, my wife is pretty much every red flag he points out. If people like this had been around when I was younger, he might have cost me a 20 year marriage, my oldest son who I've raised since he was 9 months old (has my last name because I adopted him, someone clue him in on this). She's been everything I could have ever wanted, stuck with me through everything (including 3 deployments). I'm thankful people like this didn't have a platform like the internet when I was young.
I'm old and I'm married to the perfect man for me. You give good advice. I was young and stupid the first time I got married and I married someone who was abusive and unfaithful. My life is only good because my husband picked up the pieces of my broken life and I will forever be loyal and grateful to him.
That's y I always tell women not to worry. There is always some guy to pick up the pieces.
I'm not the stepdad, I'm the dad that stepped up 💯😤🪜🦾
You’re really killing it, pissy socks!
I've been married for 20 years and change. I married a single mother, adopted my stepson, had another kid, got a vasectomy. F**k this guy. If you love her, the kid is only a deal-breaker if you let it be. I hope that advice guy stays well away from women.
I think it's also a deal breaker if someone just doesn't want kids. It's better for the kid if such a person doesn't become their parent
@@tomlxyzyeah. Someone who doesn't want to have his or her own kids should inform the partner.
as an individual whose bio father tragically died on the job, I feel fairly grateful that a step father was apart of my life
Just found your channel and I’m obsessed! I don’t have the attention span for watching people live usually so I love when streamers start making UA-cam videos that put everything in a nice little video for us lol
always looking forward to your videos bro! keep up the A1 content
Thank you Davy!!
Gunnar has two dads everyone, we all know what that means...
if someone’s reason for having kids is just to pass on their blood rather than to love and care for a child, they shouldn’t have kids
& to have authority over them like that sounds scary i mean ofc i want my kids to respect me but i’m more focused on teaching & leading them in being a functional being in society
I don't want someone else kids. Cry about it.
Yeah, this is why women are opting out. He doesn't even want to be a father. Well only by name. These dudes want the girl to work cook clean and care for children, and he just wants to come home and whine commands.
@@Anonymous_47the you do not deserve a woman nor a child. Cry about it😂😂
@@Anonymous_47ok good for you I guess
This dude is selling a masterclass in gaslighting your underage girlfriend
Love your vids top G
Im top G
@@Qronous what color is your Bugatti?
@@pelinalseth Invisible 😎
I'm glad this guy told me I'm not girlfriend material because of my tattoos. I guess I need to go tell my boyfriend of almost 8 years that he has to break up with me
My bio dad wasn’t really in my life and my stepdad stepped up, even AFTER he divorced my mom… still is my dad and talk to him daily. One thing my bio dad would say to me growing up is that he wanted a boy to pass down his last name, and would guilt me FOR BEING BORN A GIRL. (he only has one kid, didn’t want any, and his siblings all have girls; so he’d say that i was the last hope to continue the family name and I FAILED) 🤣🤣🤣 wild takes in this, my bio dad probably watches his vids
If you squint really hard, Gunnar looks like Nick Jonas
I actually thought by body count he meant deaths.
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What question?
9:44 That psychopathic stare matches his psychopathic talk and reasoning.
4:57 this moment just proved i'm not bulletproof, because it literally had me dead
Majority of people need to stop these bad videos and just leave things alone lol great video Gunnar love watching your content
Thank you Inkys!
The stress of consistently being insecure would make me gain weight 😂
I think having boundaries is fine. There is no reason one to accept everything or anything. Just as you would choose a husband with certain personality traits.
Dude wants the virgin mary as a gf
You're such a genuine guy, bro. Really refreshing, you're a new role model for me. :)
A UA-camr is your role model? Not an inspiration or someone that you are a fan of, your role model. My god.
Track suit AND a bowl cut? 😂 He's like those creepy dudes who work at mall kiosks who constantly hit on high schoolers
Victor if he was a red pill fuckboy
It's weird how in Western countries men care so much about body counts coz in my country people never ask. If it comes up in conversation, fine, but it's rare for people to directly ask how many people you've been with. And guys in my country actually prefer NOT to hookup with virgins anyway
I think it's not the count or number that really matters. But I would prefer my parter not having a lot reckless hook ups. They are free to do what they want but it would be a consideration for me in terms of her character.
you know what I want to see? a man who's like: "raise another man's kid? you bet I will! I will be better then that kid's actual dad! I will make them love me more then you could ever imagine! You kid? no! Mine! Only mine!" competitive parenting, let's go men. flex on the other man by stealing their girl _and_ their kids.
That's such a glass half full approach, I love it !
Only a buffoon would raise another man’s seed.
Just burst out laughing when someone in chat said “Gunnar has two dads?”
"Gunnar has two dads" "no you've taken me out of contest"🤣🤣🤣
They think all women are the same, but they think they're a unique alpha male. 😆
Dude's got a family size bag of chips on his shoulders
They can call you out on the "unflattering parts of your female nature", but say anything similar to them and it's disrespect.
Real Red flags are people not willing to make compromises in relationships
I literally have been re watching your videos and the editing and jokes just hit different
“Body count” sounds like they’re a murderer
loving this 2nd channel x
As a woman myself, I’m not sure I even am fluent in womanese! We could all use anther video on the topic 💁🏼♀️
I wish duolingo offered some courses on it😔
please learn womenese. I can't believe I've lived so long on this earth without knowing the language of my people
Same thing with manese
Another banger from top G live proud youve been able to crank these out hope you're doin alright
Y'know what's the biggest fail of all these "dating advice givers" ever?
They generalize and both humans AND relationships are way the fuck more complicated than what can be explained in a short video. Every single person and interpersonal relationship/situation is completely different from each other.
So all of the TopGs are just farting in the wind. Even those in the 90s .. so called "pick up ARTists" bahaha
For real. You can’t make a guide for all relationships and even if you could, there’s no way you would achieve that in a short form video app like TikTok. It just doesn’t allow for the time necessary to analyze complex relationships like the one humans form. Heck, even birds and mammals have more complex reasoning for their relationships.
But these people can still scam some people for a good profit by boiling everything down to simple and easy to understand cliches
There are definitely rules in relationships that can be explained in short form. However, these guys are just insecure losers that hate women
I, a real human, love and understand this video. I shall consume.
Holy God i didn't get thru 4min and I already know a blind squirrel can give better dating advice. It's gonna be a struggle Guns.. but your excellent humor is everything! I should watch your Twitch coz i keep agreeing with the comments.. but there's just not enough hours in the day when you have a dementia parent. My Mom never remarried. I'm low-key glad, coz I've seen too many abusive fathers in my country (Bosnia.. but I'm in USA for like ages, longer than you're alive probs).
I don’t get the issue with single moms. I was the kid of a single mom, had a runaway father. My mom remarried to a really great guy who adopted me a few years later. There is absolutely no difference in relationship between my dad and I than there would be if he was my biological father besides the fact that I have an extra sentence to use in a heated teenager vs dad fight (which luckily doesn’t happen often)
I think they are just referring to stats about them not turning out well in general. But there is always exceptions. There is a will there is a way
It’s nice to see him defending single mothers, I’m 21 with an almost 2 year old, people can assume his father left me but they’d be wrong, I was the one that left because it was so toxic, constant lies, manipulation, etc. I was miserable so I chose to leave an wish I had sooner. It hurts hearing people say it’s a red flag because no, I’m just trying to make a better life for my son and myself even if it means being on my own. My baby deserves so much more. I’m in college full time because I want to do right by my son and get the best job I can get. Don’t judge just by what you THINK happened. Thank you Gunnar ✨
I'm having bad arthritis pain today. Also discovered my house has mice. Despite all that, you made me laugh, Gunnar. Thank you.
Two things. 1. "Red flag if she's a single, female woman" - so that's where I'm going wrong, I've been going after single, male women! Cheers for the help, Gunnar! 😜😂
2. Nicw Welsh accent, Gunnar! You had to have done that before or at least practiced it because dude, that was on point!
He's basically saying be as selfish as humanly possible cause we all know women love dudes who fulfill absolutely none of her needs & wants
The best news I’ve heard all week is that Gunnars single. 😦
Regarding raising someone else's child. It depends, because on one hand, it complicates things, since you'd need a compatibility of 3 people, not just 2 in terms of personality and how you get along. I don't pass on my DNA? It doesn't matter that much, I'm all for adoptions. Last name? That would count for me, to continue the family line. I would have some name changes, like attaching my name to his/her existing one. 0 authority? Well, it is lower since you're not his/her biological parent, so they'll probably feel less bound to you, since you weren't there all along the way, for their entire life. But on the other hand, I guess you can earn enough trust/credit/love to make it work. But yes, you might not ever be on the same level as a biological parent in the child's eyes. It depends on the exact circumstances of each case though. But let's be honest, as a step-parent (dad or mom) you start with a handicap compared to a biological parent. You might compensate for it, sure, but it takes more work to reach a good level than a biological parent would need.
And there is nothing wrong with ppl for not wanting to take such a path.
Another banger so quickly after the last one! Gunnar you are slaying it man!!!!!!
greetings from germany my brother
Gunnar trying to decipher this guy's Welsh accent is hilarious to me
7:45 when it comes to "bad boys' whatamy women find appealing about them is what they represent. They represent adventure, freedom, and rebelling against authority (or whatever doesnt suit your moral code). Usually women who are attracted to bad boys (and this can be true for men who like bad girls) often lack adventure and thrill in their lives. Maybe they feel restricted, theyre always playing by the rules. The bad boy/bad girl represents a fantasy that we too can be free and take exciting risks.
The other side to this is some people are attracted to the bad boy/bad girl because of the 'i can fix him/her and we'll live happily ever after" fantasy
That book is the greatest thing ever. All you have to do is the opposite of what the book says and you’ll get all types of girlfriends.
As someone who was raised by my step dad and consider him more of a father figure than my bio dad (I love my bio dad but my sister and I weren’t super high on his priority list growing up 😅), I hate that “don’t raise another man’s child” shit.
Very excited for more Top G content
Guys my girlfriend is suitable for long term relationship I’m hyped
Also, a woman calling you her gay best friend could just be a mistake lol. My boss introduced her now husband to her family as her gay best friend. That was a funny one to walk back.
Like you pointed out, the guy doesn't have a clue what red flags are. Red flags are warning signs for bigger things so if he doesn't want to date someone with a kid a red flag would be that she keeps large amounts of children's toys at her place.
"I've met two before"
Gunnar was created for the female gaze ♡ top g do you have a lisp? If so I love it :)
Gunnar you’re too epicly and based keep up the good work
"don't go for single moms, do not take care of another men child" and that is is how kids grow up without a good male role model.
yes
The crush I have on Gunner is embarrassing 🥺
Bro, to the first one, I have a multiple friends who are extremely glad that someone dated their adult moms, because now they have a father in their life.
I have been with my girl for about 14 months now.We have known each other since 2018.I always said"The best Relationships,are based on the best Friendships".Proper communication is key,willing to make small sacrifices is important.If you are planning a child or two,folks please,plan at least 2-3 years in advance(financially etc.)Good Luck To All✌❤
Love seeing Gunnar misunderstand the Welsh lol
The book he's holding looks like the Bible?
Thank you Mr Tv for your dating advice
Keep it up,man!
I needed a good laugh for the Start of my day and you never disappoint there!
:)
I leanred that, dont wait for the Light to turn Green, just Don drive over a Red Light
People in times before spoke of Daddy Newman I'm all about Daddy Gunnar
Side note : reminds me of a Chad Christian del grosso who's just at peak Perfection yet verbally and spoken voice reminds me of a 5th grader trying to curse like Jay Bauman in RLM ( for kids to young to remember VINE he was a vine star skit comedian )
BIODAD sounds like an alternative band that sells cassette recordings only with a Kazoo one man band . . .
As a Bi short king . . . Just be open about your sexuality and breaks they happen though be human about it cause I mean in my past had an engagement it didn't last but also was fault on us both we ran it pretty fast. But she did ask for a break and said yes since didn't want to force her into something she wanted some time away which hurt yet was right thing to do. Lasted 2 years so enjoyed magical memories I had. . . And her goopy brain when she was exhausted during movie Night
Overall break was good cause gave us both time to reflect and I wanted to push for it but she didn't feel for it anymore and we ended it
Complacent ≠ loss of emotions
Lost her emotions romantically cause I did some beyond not great stuff in that relationship I was in a dark spot and wasn't using my emotions properly I took it out in unneeded avenues
Would snap more then care to say but she sorta took more then she should've though yeah on better leaf. . .though took me a while to get their in my life.
Not gonna lie 16:40 sounded like me that hit close I gas lit alot not due to cruel intent just was tired of her and was moving from job to job low pay family stressors and think one time even said in fury "What cocktail of drugs will have you still and not in pain" not my proudest moment yet was very low patience at that point and hadn't learned how to handle myself or my emotions towards her yet Economic factors do add cracks in a relationship but she was sweeter then honey in wine
She gifted me any game bought on Steam . . Which till 2018 I had 0 and after I had
Phasmaphobia
Raft
Paladins ( free but we melted 100 hrs into both
Brawhahlla ( free but we melted 100 hrs into both
Short story she was a gift of a person and I was a Brutish cave Man who got lucky and didn't know golden goose I had she even gifted me meals sometime when was near Homeless overall that's my main regret is how I treated her. . Yet laughter helps
I got a fucking dating advice ad on this video 💀
damn I kind of want to see the contents of that book too now, see what's in this guy's brain. Video is an ad now lol
Hahaha it's gonna be worth the wait!
Dude that shit he was reading at the end is verbatim from the fresh and fit podcast no surprise he listens to that shit
I was listening to this video in the background and I tabbed over to it and was genuinely surprised the "male coach" had hair lmao
finally the algorithm has made me fine Gunnar's Live channel
Ugh, I have a 14 year old son and raising him is enough of a challenge without having to also worry about him seeing this harmful propaganda having to possibly counter program that shit.