(Super Practical) Advice for Chastity in Dating
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- Waiting for marriage is hard, especially in our culture today! Do how can you practically practice the virtue of chastity in your dating relationship? In this video Elizabeth Busby gives some SUPER PRACTICAL advice for couples struggling with chastity.
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You guys should literally sell a chastity puzzle! That would be hilarious and also very helpful for couples.
This was pretty useful. Thank you for the advice and general testimony to the beauty of our bodies, of rightly ordered sexuality and marriage
What do I do? I started attended mass at my local Catholic Church. Everyone attending has white hair and are all retired. There is nobody my age, let alone a young woman to date. what do I do?
Dan
Same here, very few, I was asked out by a 76 and 90 year old man. Nice people and way to go to their confidence.
Usually the younger people are either engaged in university chaplaincies, Opus Dei centres, or traditional Latin mass groups! I was really surprised by the last one, but the nearest Latin mass parish to me has a very large young adult group ☺️ I hope you find what you’re looking for! Praying for you
Young people are in small groups like the Néo-catechumenal Way, Alpha, Bible group ecc. You should check those groups for your spiritual life and to search for a partner
I'm sorry, but you're not going to church to date. If God has it for you to meet someone, you will, but refrain from seeing mass as a place to go to meet your date.
@@sebastos- ok. Fair enough. I accept your criticism. But I never said my sole purpiae is to 'meet' someone. It just would be nice!
Your Energy is awesome 🤩
The way you express the joy received in heart .
Thanks for keeping on keeping on.
Literally the first 2 minutes were SO helpful to hear!!!
I think there’s one piece of advice that’s a little controversial but I’ll give it anyway.
I don’t recommend hanging out alone at the guys house or the girls house.
You’re absolutely right by saying that there is struggle in the wait.
I think it’s a great idea to have an accountability partner.
It could be a sibling of the guy or girl, a parent, or a friend.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with going out on dates in public but perhaps if you’re home together, invite somebody over. It’s a lot of fun to have company anyway.
Another really good tip I think is that both of you are either sitting down or standing up.
The two key words are vertical and clothed.
It’s true but sex is good and wonderful but it can be miss used and abused as well.
Maybe pray the rosary and the Divine Mercy chaplet together.
Puzzles are a great idea as well as you said.
Also think ahead. Come up with a game plan together about what you will do in moments of temptation. Trying to figure out what to do in the spur of the moment is not going to work.
Bravo
i suggest a video about matrimonial chastity! many catholic couples here in brazil dont know it!
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much for this video. Your spirit and joy are so great, lol! God bless (:
I am a Protestant and I really enjoy your thoughts and advice on this issue. It’s important to note that sex is a beautiful thing that is made even better through waiting.
i wish this video was longer!! so good!
Thank you so much! This was wonderful.
Thank you so much for your affirmation and advice! It gives me such freedom to love! ❤️
thats amazing! i am in my wifes account, we just got married. I am gooing to put you guys on my prayers! i
What’s a girl to do? Take the advice of my wife, Crystalina, who wrote in her book Pure Womanhood, “Instead of looking for the ideal man, become the ideal woman and let him look for you.”[6] Take your focus off the dating scene for a time, and pursue God with as much sincerity as you wish a guy would pursue you. As one high school girl said to me, “A woman should hide her heart in God, and a man must go there to find it.” Another girl wrote, “A woman should be so hidden in Christ that a man has to see Christ just to see her.” When you do this, you’ll come to see that you are loved and desired by Love Himself. You will see that Christianity is not a list of rules, but rather an encounter with a Person who knows and loves you perfectly. As you allow His love to transform you, you will realize your tremendous worth and you will become a persuasive force in teaching boys how to become the kind of men women truly deserve.
From the book
Theology of His Body / Theology of Her Body, Jason Evert
Chastity puzzle reminds me of the chastity belt from the Robbin Hood men in tights movie scene 😅
Perfect timing! God is good! Thank you❤
Wait...so...TWO chastity puzzles or one? Thanks for the video!
Two! Sometimes you finish one puzzle and are still yearning for the sexual burn so it’s helpful to have a second puzzle:)
Thank you! God bless you! 🙏 🙏 🙏
Yes, all people need Catholicism (religion) in their lives.
Where did you find the statue of the women caught in the adultery?
Does anyone know where can I find a picture of the statue? Or who the artist is?
I think you can find it at Spencer’s gift shop! I saw it there the other week on a mission trip with my church. It’s imperative that you visit, ASAP!
Chastity puzzles? Really? Now I remember why I came out of chruch.
I was in a pure chaste romantic relationship once (sorry, only once) and I thought that I was pretty good at resisting temptations until... I started to ask for more attention and cuddles, became too clingy, nervous, angry and couldn't explain myself why I'm so insufferable and annoying. My bf couldn't stand me being like this and left me heartbroken and emotionally broken. No puzzles would've helped me back then. And how I cried when I realized that my wish to be chaste until marriage is incompatible with my psyche...
Idk, if I got lucky, or is it the God who still doesn't abandon me somehow, but I have a stable romantic relationship now. Even if it's not that pure and chaste, I do feel true love between us and that's what truly matters.
What is this statue called? I can't find it online anywhere!
Fr Brett Brannen
Discerning and accepting one’s vocation is like building a pyramid. It must be constructed from the bottom up. A man will not be able to know and accept his secondary or particular vocation-marriage or priesthood, for example-until he has been seriously striving towards his primary vocation of holiness. Some have tried to do it in reverse, and almost always have failed.
# Our Primary Vocation is Holiness Happiness is doing the will of God. Interestingly, that could also be the definition of holiness. The primary and universal vocation of every person in the world is to be holy-to become like Jesus Christ. Christ-likeness is the only success recognized by God.
What is her podcast?
Hi, I just checked Spotify and found “Discerning Marriage” hosted by Eilzabeth Busby
I think guys stuggle or rather push the limits... thst issue should be addressed by a man doung s similsr podcast as a guide .
First of all, not a very modest photo for the video cover...
Elizabeth chastity on dating.....give a break
I saw a great future w this guy so I did my best to do the right thing so we can walk towards that marriage path. But then things happened and I didn’t see a future w him anymore so I let go and allowed the temptation to take over. I felt super guilty and ashamed about that.. it happened recently and I’ve set the boundaries again but things just didn’t feel the same as before 🥹