Because you need to have a sense of flair and style and an understanding of what suits a person's body and personality to shop for someone else - it's not just a 'shopper', but a stylist's job you're talking about. Does she really look like someone who could sell her skill as a style adviser?
Designer bags need to be in good condition to be sold on. Without creases and dents. It's annoying that she has them squashed in her wardrobe like that.
Cleopatra Anthony designer bags sell regardless of their condition. Go into a designer exchange shop and they have everything from “like new” to “totally beat up” and people still buy it. I’ve seen people buy second hand bags that I personally would just throw in the bin. Also she seems to buy and then not use them so they’d be in pretty good condition. Most designer bags are sturdy and can definitely handle being squished in a wardrobe.
I was expecting her to at least look fancy but she looks very basic. I think she should sell all her things and be the basic girl she really is at heart.
I wouldn’t even consider her to be “in debt”. All of her stuff has high resale value. One trip to a designer reconsignment store and she’s out of “debt” instantly.... she won’t struggle.
The only things she would get a good price from a consignment store for are the handbags and any clothes she hasn't worn. And she wouldn't get what she paid. Any shoes that are worn in the heel wouldn't get anything.
She needs therapy. Seriously. Part of her problem might be depression. I know of someone like that. When she FINALLY realized she had a problem, she went to the Dr. and was put on an antidepressant and within two months, she was giving half of her things away, sorting and organizing what she kept and is able to shop like a normal person.
She buys expensive things, then crams it in to the back of a closet. She doesn't even treat the expensive items she buys really well. And blaming her parents - come on. It's a cop out. She's never going to be able to stop because she has no insight in to herself or her behavior. Whatever man would marry a debt burden?
rlp230 the reason why she doesn’t wear the things she buys it’s because she did she doesn’t have a husband n friends so she’s lonely, I think she only works and stays home. And shopping is a way for her to be out n treat herself. Wether she wears them or not doesn’t matter as she does it to make herself happy, meaning the moment she shops around she feels important and satisfied. I think it’s more about shopping then showing off the items in her case. It’s sad it’s really sad. Theirs suffering stray animals and poor people why doesn’t she feed them. She will feel rewarded and will feel very peaceful.
She's not addicted to shopping. She's addicted to the "prestige" of having certain things. You notice on these , every one of these women, know *EXACTLY* how much each item cost. They just rattle it off, "Oh, 1100 " . If they were addicted to shopping, they could just go down to the bargain bin, and get a buttload of stuff. Wouldn't be the same to them, they wouldn't rub people's noses in that.
You are absolutely correct. It's an addiction to the wealthy lifestyle, the illusion of prosperity and glamour. It has little to do with the actual act of shopping. I'm addicted to shopping and I go to the thrift store every week, and it scratches the itch just fine.
My exact thoughts, too! I have been like her ( well, kind of...), but it was things that I needed, and it wasn't luxury at all. 1100£ for a purse? Come on! And there's probably the label still on it! Just like most of her possessions 🙄 Sorry, but poor little rich girl is going to get zero compassion from me 😐
@@catherinevaz6139 Right? That's just her being able to say , "I *HAVE* it. " (and that makes me a better person than you!) type kind of attitude. I mean, there's nothing wrong with having nice things, or even super expensive things, but like you said, she had a ton of things with all the tags and labels still on! How sad for her to feel as if shopping is all that makes her life worthwhile, for sure.
She sees presents as love. Her parents gave her presents to show their love. Now that she's alone she buys herself lots of presents to feel loved. The higher the price of an item, means the more her parent cared for her. So, now she wants to but herself expensive things to feel that love
She could spend her time: Volunteering to help children Running Excercising Painting Reading Learning a foreign language Designing Writing children’s books Going to social gatherings Exploring new hobbies etc. Spending money is not all there is.
I agree in theory, but in practice, she has an addiction which takes up her time. I had the opportunity to do those things (with my partner who did all those things), but I was addicted to gambling so even though I am a caring, compassionate person I would still spend my money and time gambling instead. You know you could do other things, but you can't stop doing the addicting thing.
Not insane, just out of touch from reality. I don't think she has a grasp on the value of money, as she says in the video her (apparently very wealthy) parents have always bought her whatever she wanted, so she's used to getting whatever she wants whenever she wants it for any reason or no reason at all
@@Jaxxie1981 the problem is that her parents got her whatever she wanted as a child, teenager, adult...and haven't taught her that she needs to stand on her own two feet....cause eventually they will find her a husband who will support her. Which will probably be easy cause they're loaded...so even if she's terrible with money, the husband will know they will inherit a lot. I've seen this many many times with colleagues of mine. One girl i knew, 28 years old, lived at home with her parents in zone 2 london. She didn't pay them any rent, bills...all the food at home was all bought by them! She walked to work so no travel expenses. She used to go shopping every lunch break and always got a £12 sushi. The girl had a salary of 30k and yet had 15k credit card debt. One day she broke down crying cause she was struggling to pay back her creditors, and asked my colleague to help her sort out her spending. Our colleague looked through her statements...she was spending 100-150 a day....about £3800 pcm when her net pay was under two grand a month....she tried for about a week to live on a budget but said it "wasnt the right fit for her"...her parents ended up paying off her debt...and she literally said that once she's married her husband will be able to support her lifestyle so there was no need for her to change... Just like Dipna, she had no style. Bought tons of stuff she never used. She would show off what she bought every lunch....but no one ever saw her wearing the clothes/shoes etc. This truly is a result of bad parenting ...and particularly parents still selling the idea to their daughters that a prince charming will come along some day!!
Being in a relationship does not mean, you can not feel lonely. Having a child is not only permanent joy, but can be stressfull. If her coping mechanism is Shopping whenever she feels unwell, she probably will continue Shopping while in a relationship and caring for a child. She Needs to develope healthier Habits of taking care of herself. She could start with a dog, and go for many walks per day before having a child and see if caring for another being is in her abilities.
I had the same compulsion with make up. I was lucky to have sn understanding bank who gave me details of a debt repayment scheme. I look back and wonder how I got into all that mess although a lot of it was triggered by world war three rumours after September 11th. I'm now 70 and have a decent pension - and my make up bag contains four lipsticks! Debts can be repaid and I managed it. I'm not smug...just grateful.
I can relate to her I do definitely use things to replace people cause I feel sad inside. Instead i have to try to find the happiness inside myself cause there’s no chance finding it in someone else
I'm sorry you feel that way and I'm happy you have found happiness within yourselve. I may not know you're story but I believe every person deserves love and understanding. I hope you are able to find that one day. I dont know you and I can say I care for you as a another amazing human being that has been placed on this Earth. I only wish you well and good fortune. Good luck and I hope you are able to find someone you can trust, truly cares for you and respects you the way you deserve. ❤💓❤
i related to her situation as well.sometimes i buy things to distract myself from any unhappiness i feel.you are right.in the end we all have to find happiness within ourselves.
She's an adult and responsible for her own actions. It's not fair to blame-shift and use cop-outs. At some point we become adults and make our own decisions.
@@beautyforashes2230 She's an adult but it's clear her family are still supporting her little habit by helping her with money, so it's still their fault too.
True, but how she was raised does affect her perceptions of the world as an adult as it does with everyone. That doesn't mean; however, it's acceptable behavior for her to engage in mindlessly shopping. She made the right decision by seeking professional help for her shopping behavior.
Yasi Mancher No she hasn't stored her bags correctly. Chanel needs to be kept in its original boxes to maintain its value. Your right though sell the lot.
I want not only love and cherish material things but to be able to afford to love and cherish them. Seriously though, this is a problem just like any other type of addiction. Having kids will not make her better. She needs to fix what's going on in the inside first.
Love how she said "not married YET" like she assumes she's somehow entitled to get married. I'm 33, lived independently for 15 years, tens of thousands in savings and I can't get a husband. But this brat assumes a man will want her.
Usually compulsive shoppers have something going on with them that leads to their shopping habit. I remember reading up on another young women who compulsively shopped as a way to cope in a dying and toxic marriage. For her it helped fill a void and briefly alleviate her depression. I really hope this young lady seeks professionally help.
Same. I would get so tempted to spend more. Sure I might not have a good credit score but at least I'm not in debt. Student loans is different from shopping debt.
Her dad is the owner of this really well know restaurant in south hall London and they definitely are successful ,she was recently on Gordon Ramsey’s show her restaurant against another Indian place
Shopaholics are actually kind of cute and amusing. They can shop and buy things without stress. I am so cheap I won't even buy a bed for myself or winter boots. Shopping is one big anxiety provoking experience because always I am calculating the price. I want to be wealthy so I can afford to date a shopaholic. I make the money and she shops and enjoys. To do what I can't do.
The bags and accessories she has have the highest markups in the industry, 100% or more. Unless they're rare and in high demand she's not going to sell them for what she bought them for.
she is shopping to feel comforted. She immediately went back to a happy memory of being with her dad shopping there is definatley a connection with that.
The only expensive thing I bought my life was a mk bag I felt so bad for spending £20o for a bag that I didn’t like I end up selling it on eBay. I dnt think designer products are nice looking it only has the name tag but that’s all there is to it. A lot of the time non designer products are much prettier.
Sometimes I feel like people are being overdramatic with their shopping habits, but I believe her. Her eyes alone kind of convey how focused she is on shopping being her singular habit/comfort.
She sounds like my life story, 😂 I know I have a shopping problem, to be honest I shop to fill the Void. I have to admit, I only buy designer Luxury brand products, it gives me some sort of comfort. Also when I look good I feel better 🙈😂🥂
So why not sell your house and and all your possessions so those starving people can eat? It really bugs me when people comment on how others should do xyz or shouldn't do xyz "because there are starving people in the world". There will always be inequality in the world no matter what.I'm a minimalist and have chosen to live this way as I prefer it but if I decide to suddenly live a more materialistic life, I'd do it without thinking about the inequality in the world. It's like those silly messages I receive on WhatsApp saying to skip eating pizza and give that money to the maid instead...well, should we all just switch to eating rice and lentils so we can all do nothing but close the inequality gap?
Why would someone sell their house and possessions? They are allowed to have an opinion on a girl who clearly has a shopping addiction.......think you really missed the point....
She still lives at home so she probably doesn't even spend money on rent and she also said she's spoiled so i'm sure her parents still pay for all her shit
@@Username0467 Most people know that alcoholism is a serious addiction, because there are many stories about abusive parents who are alcoholics. So it's morbid to make fun of such miserable people. But people don't see that compulsive shoppers don't enjoy shopping, they need this thrill when they spend money, it's like a drug to them.
I used to have a real real bad shopping addiction I would estimate that since I was a teenager I would feel the urge to buy something.Even if I didn't need it it would calm me down and make me feel a high.Than comes the regrets and the telling yourself that your problem isn't that bad.I have spent at least half a million easily.Every inch of my place was covered in purchases.I finally got it through my head that this wasn't helping me and I had to address my actual problems.I do struggle some days but I also let the feeling past before going crazy and justifying myself.
Jesus Christ. I love shopping, but there’s no way I could do this. NEVER GET A CREDIT CARD, NEVER ! It’s also so sad that she feels that without shopping she has nothing and no life. Something is obviously wrong psychologically.
I think she associated shopping with fun and good memories from a young age, and it's trying to reproduce the experience she did as a child to fill the void. This woman needs purpose.
I don’t have any sympathy. All the comments saying “oh but it’s a mental issue” no it’s not, she just can’t control herself. Stop making excuses for people like this.🤦🏻♀️
Wow! How is this girl only 7500. in debt. if she is, Good for her! I'm impressed with her paying the debt off with the hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stuff. I don't consider myself a shopaholic by any means but know for a fact I'm over 7500 in dept.
I swear these people are addicted to shopping but wear nothing that wows you.
I thought that chanel belt was lovely.
They dont want the clothes, they want the thrills
Because it isn't about the clothes lol.
Exactly
Shockingly
Why not be a personal shopper for someone? Spend their money, not yours and still get the satisfaction of shopping.
Jennifer No Vaxx that’s why I started my lingerie store🤦🏾♂️
Jennifer No Vaxx That’s a good idea
Because you need to have a sense of flair and style and an understanding of what suits a person's body and personality to shop for someone else - it's not just a 'shopper', but a stylist's job you're talking about. Does she really look like someone who could sell her skill as a style adviser?
Yeah, since these obsessive shoppers don't even wear anything they buy
Good idea, Jennifer!
She could easily sell 2 of her bags to solve her debt problem. But it's really sad that she thinks there is no meaning to life if she can't shop 😞
Designer bags need to be in good condition to be sold on. Without creases and dents. It's annoying that she has them squashed in her wardrobe like that.
@@cleopatraanthony5195 yh
She could read a book... seems vapid to me.
Cleopatra Anthony designer bags sell regardless of their condition. Go into a designer exchange shop and they have everything from “like new” to “totally beat up” and people still buy it. I’ve seen people buy second hand bags that I personally would just throw in the bin. Also she seems to buy and then not use them so they’d be in pretty good condition. Most designer bags are sturdy and can definitely handle being squished in a wardrobe.
Kaitlyn Ervin tbh that’s how I feel I mean what is my life without clothes and shoes
I want to be the first to know when she decides to have a yard sale
She might never have a yard sale. Chances are you will see her on an episode of hoarders in the future.
@@mandateman424 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽 I hope it doesn't come to that
@robin mcgregor we can go together😄
Nae West buuuut if she has a yard sale then she will have more money to shop LOL
@@taylornezovich7552 I'm sorry I can't hear you over all that Chanel and Dolce Gabbana lol
For someone who likes to shop at luxury brands, she has 0 style. She dresses like an elderly librarian. What a shame lol
I was expecting her to at least look fancy but she looks very basic. I think she should sell all her things and be the basic girl she really is at heart.
for real 😂😂 shes totally wasting her money.
I notice that all the time with people like this. Money cant buy style or taste
sup_ monica lmao I thought the same
She has a mental problem, she's obsessive... she probably never wears what she gets
Its just loneliness. Have gone through such phases.
Dipna asked herself a very pertinent question “what would I do without shopping”. Thats the crux of it - she doesnt feel any sense of purpose.
I wouldn’t even consider her to be “in debt”. All of her stuff has high resale value. One trip to a designer reconsignment store and she’s out of “debt” instantly.... she won’t struggle.
You are correct bcoz she's got thousands of 💰 worth she can sell which would easily pay off her debt and still have loads of money left over
However, she would probably receive a lot less than she paid for each item, so a lot of her money would have gone to waste.
She’d probably get back into debt very quickly though as it’s clearly a deep seated issue for her.
@@Scifi-eh8fw She needs help.
The only things she would get a good price from a consignment store for are the handbags and any clothes she hasn't worn. And she wouldn't get what she paid. Any shoes that are worn in the heel wouldn't get anything.
She needs therapy. Seriously.
Part of her problem might be depression. I know of someone like that. When she FINALLY realized she had a problem, she went to the Dr. and was put on an antidepressant and within two months, she was giving half of her things away, sorting and organizing what she kept and is able to shop like a normal person.
Exactly. She needs to be helped by a professional, not berated.
or potentially bipolar, compulsive buying and spending can be a problem during a manic or mixed phase
She doesn't use half the the things she's buying -- she's wasting a lot off money !!!
She can literally sell ten items and be out of debt...
That's what I was thinking
The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is helpful.
She buys expensive things, then crams it in to the back of a closet. She doesn't even treat the expensive items she buys really well. And blaming her parents - come on. It's a cop out. She's never going to be able to stop because she has no insight in to herself or her behavior. Whatever man would marry a debt burden?
She is like a expensive hoarder.
rlp230 the reason why she doesn’t wear the things she buys it’s because she did she doesn’t have a husband n friends so she’s lonely, I think she only works and stays home. And shopping is a way for her to be out n treat herself. Wether she wears them or not doesn’t matter as she does it to make herself happy, meaning the moment she shops around she feels important and satisfied. I think it’s more about shopping then showing off the items in her case. It’s sad it’s really sad. Theirs suffering stray animals and poor people why doesn’t she feed them. She will feel rewarded and will feel very peaceful.
that’s the effect of a compulsive behaviour, it doesn’t matter what it is focused on, it’s completely compulsive
Or a shallow person who values material things above everything else.
@@rush6968 Some good ideas but I need to stress yet again that not every woman needs a man. The community suggestions are good though.
She's lonely. You can see it in her voice. She seems super lovely but yearning for friends or something. Hope she gets help for it soon.
She's actually a very successful chef.. she has a lot of friends
I am confused. She is a chef and on tv and insta. Is her life all fake?
I found on goodgle that she married in 2016 but this video is 4vyears old which would make it 2018. Something not adding up here :/
@@EAAAA1505 lol yeh maybe remarried though?
@@ppate8 It doesn't seem like it. Per the article the groom yes.This is his second marriage.
She's not addicted to shopping. She's addicted to the "prestige" of having certain things. You notice on these , every one of these women, know *EXACTLY* how much each item cost. They just rattle it off, "Oh, 1100 " . If they were addicted to shopping, they could just go down to the bargain bin, and get a buttload of stuff. Wouldn't be the same to them, they wouldn't rub people's noses in that.
You are absolutely correct. It's an addiction to the wealthy lifestyle, the illusion of prosperity and glamour. It has little to do with the actual act of shopping.
I'm addicted to shopping and I go to the thrift store every week, and it scratches the itch just fine.
My exact thoughts, too! I have been like her ( well, kind of...), but it was things that I needed, and it wasn't luxury at all. 1100£ for a purse? Come on! And there's probably the label still on it! Just like most of her possessions 🙄
Sorry, but poor little rich girl is going to get zero compassion from me 😐
@@catherinevaz6139 Right? That's just her being able to say , "I *HAVE* it. " (and that makes me a better person than you!) type kind of attitude. I mean, there's nothing wrong with having nice things, or even super expensive things, but like you said, she had a ton of things with all the tags and labels still on! How sad for her to feel as if shopping is all that makes her life worthwhile, for sure.
It goes the other way too.. the coupon hoarders
She sees presents as love. Her parents gave her presents to show their love. Now that she's alone she buys herself lots of presents to feel loved. The higher the price of an item, means the more her parent cared for her. So, now she wants to but herself expensive things to feel that love
She could spend her time:
Volunteering to help children
Running
Excercising
Painting
Reading
Learning a foreign language
Designing
Writing children’s books
Going to social gatherings
Exploring new hobbies etc.
Spending money is not all there is.
carmay3600 maybe even designing clothes or learning to sew.
carmay3600 and you appreciate your clothes so much more when you sew them because you realise the work that’s put into making them
Why do women have to do things related to children?
@@elleelle9048 I think that made it into the list because the girl in the video says she loves children more than shopping.
I agree in theory, but in practice, she has an addiction which takes up her time. I had the opportunity to do those things (with my partner who did all those things), but I was addicted to gambling so even though I am a caring, compassionate person I would still spend my money and time gambling instead. You know you could do other things, but you can't stop doing the addicting thing.
She said she got a old Mercedes. She need the new one cause of the shape. She’s insane lol
Stace Mo 😂😂😂😂exactly
@@lilipurr7228 she isn't mentally sick. She's an insufferable, spoiled adult child.
Not insane, just out of touch from reality. I don't think she has a grasp on the value of money, as she says in the video her (apparently very wealthy) parents have always bought her whatever she wanted, so she's used to getting whatever she wants whenever she wants it for any reason or no reason at all
Need the new benz because it got the new shape...first world problems never cease to amaze me 😂😂😂
@@Jaxxie1981 the problem is that her parents got her whatever she wanted as a child, teenager, adult...and haven't taught her that she needs to stand on her own two feet....cause eventually they will find her a husband who will support her. Which will probably be easy cause they're loaded...so even if she's terrible with money, the husband will know they will inherit a lot.
I've seen this many many times with colleagues of mine. One girl i knew, 28 years old, lived at home with her parents in zone 2 london. She didn't pay them any rent, bills...all the food at home was all bought by them! She walked to work so no travel expenses. She used to go shopping every lunch break and always got a £12 sushi. The girl had a salary of 30k and yet had 15k credit card debt. One day she broke down crying cause she was struggling to pay back her creditors, and asked my colleague to help her sort out her spending. Our colleague looked through her statements...she was spending 100-150 a day....about £3800 pcm when her net pay was under two grand a month....she tried for about a week to live on a budget but said it "wasnt the right fit for her"...her parents ended up paying off her debt...and she literally said that once she's married her husband will be able to support her lifestyle so there was no need for her to change...
Just like Dipna, she had no style. Bought tons of stuff she never used. She would show off what she bought every lunch....but no one ever saw her wearing the clothes/shoes etc.
This truly is a result of bad parenting ...and particularly parents still selling the idea to their daughters that a prince charming will come along some day!!
Buying things that i don’t need frustrate me, I can’t understand her.
Reem Muzahem Why can’t she just take a picture of these “nice things” instead?
@@Evieteresa she likes to have them I guess
same makes me upset and disappointed in myself
It makes me sick.
She’s lucky her debt is in the single digits 🙈
Sami’s TattooRemovalChannel the single digits? re-read ur comment😂
Swim4ever 28 lmaooo my bad, what I meant was it’s only 9k by memory of this video and not 100k+
Sami’s TattooRemovalChannel ohhhh that makes sense. and that’s very true😂
Swim4ever 28 hahahaha!! 😂
9 dollars
Being in a relationship does not mean, you can not feel lonely. Having a child is not only permanent joy, but can be stressfull. If her coping mechanism is Shopping whenever she feels unwell, she probably will continue Shopping while in a relationship and caring for a child. She Needs to develope healthier Habits of taking care of herself. She could start with a dog, and go for many walks per day before having a child and see if caring for another being is in her abilities.
“I can’t imagine not shopping” I bet she isn’t doing well in Quarantine 😂😂
online shopping exists tho
No, she probably online shops twice as much from the comfort of her own home .
I am a shopaholic and I shop a hundred times more online than I do in stores so...
I pretty much only shop online 😬
There's a such thing called shopping online😁
Spends $1k in one day?!? She could of gone of a weeks vacation somewhere with that amount
Also, because it's in British pounds it's worth more than dollars. So like a rough estimation would be $1 and a half k for US$
damn
Katie xox omg!!!
I went on a five-day vacation to Seattle and between myself and my traveling companion we spent just over that in total.
Right!!! If I had 1k to spare, I would go on a vacation, not buy a designer bag/clothes/shoes !!!!!!
1000 pounds is even more in CAN $ than US. It’s over $1700 Canadian....
Minimalism will save her
This girl has a very sad life I can feel it
I had the same compulsion with make up. I was lucky to have sn understanding bank who gave me details of a debt repayment scheme. I look back and wonder how I got into all that mess although a lot of it was triggered by world war three rumours after September 11th. I'm now 70 and have a decent pension - and my make up bag contains four lipsticks! Debts can be repaid and I managed it. I'm not smug...just grateful.
Im guilty of this and I can definitely say it’s the most frustrating symptom of my loneliness and depression. Trying to fill that void with stuff
Me too I’m totally guilty of this
Same
It’s the hunger. I crave new things. Right now I want pink nail polish but have no money to buy any.
I can relate to her I do definitely use things to replace people cause I feel sad inside. Instead i have to try to find the happiness inside myself cause there’s no chance finding it in someone else
I'm sorry you feel that way and I'm happy you have found happiness within yourselve. I may not know you're story but I believe every person deserves love and understanding. I hope you are able to find that one day. I dont know you and I can say I care for you as a another amazing human being that has been placed on this Earth. I only wish you well and good fortune.
Good luck and I hope you are able to find someone you can trust, truly cares for you and respects you the way you deserve. ❤💓❤
i related to her situation as well.sometimes i buy things to distract myself from any unhappiness i feel.you are right.in the end we all have to find happiness within ourselves.
Yes please look inside you!!! I need to as Well
Her family ruined her. Shopping is not love.
She's an adult and responsible for her own actions. It's not fair to blame-shift and use cop-outs. At some point we become adults and make our own decisions.
@@beautyforashes2230 She's an adult but it's clear her family are still supporting her little habit by helping her with money, so it's still their fault too.
@Hannah Jones She does not make enough and is not that much in debt, her family are clearly enabling her.
@@cleopatraanthony5195 Bullshit. Grow up and quit shifting blame on anyone else's actions for your own decisions.
True, but how she was raised does affect her perceptions of the world as an adult as it does with everyone. That doesn't mean; however, it's acceptable behavior for her to engage in mindlessly shopping. She made the right decision by seeking professional help for her shopping behavior.
Only 7,500 pounds debt? Sell it all pay it off and buy more
I kinda understand her. Buying something new gives me extreme pleasure that changes my entire mood.
Same and once that temporary joy wears off I want to buy more stuff to experience that feeling again
girls we're on the same page
she is a chef and was on gordon ramsey show a while back
Sell the items? It’s not rocket science those bags channel can be sold for the same value.
Yasi Mancher No she hasn't stored her bags correctly. Chanel needs to be kept in its original boxes to maintain its value.
Your right though sell the lot.
Olive Grove yes even if she sells them for half their value it is still money.
Actually second hand items sell very poorly especially with the range of choice online
I want not only love and cherish material things but to be able to afford to love and cherish them. Seriously though, this is a problem just like any other type of addiction. Having kids will not make her better. She needs to fix what's going on in the inside first.
Holy hell...I already feel bad for her future husband, if she ever does snag a fool. Poor guy's going to be over his head in debt.
@THEwhimsical1 Hahaha - good idea!
nah her fam will prob still bail her out
She could be gay
@@lillianconstantine6287 She mentions in the video that her future husband better have a big house, so chances are she wants to get with a man.
Love how she said "not married YET" like she assumes she's somehow entitled to get married. I'm 33, lived independently for 15 years, tens of thousands in savings and I can't get a husband. But this brat assumes a man will want her.
Momand dad must be funding her lifestyle=enablers
She comes across as very shallow...
because she IS v shallow
More miserable than shallow..i think she needs help.
It's coco nut - She doesn’t know how to connect with anything other than THINGS... She doesn’t know how to connect with people... Including herself...
She’s compensating for something.
She comes across as broken and trying to find happiness through shopping
Usually compulsive shoppers have something going on with them that leads to their shopping habit. I remember reading up on another young women who compulsively shopped as a way to cope in a dying and toxic marriage. For her it helped fill a void and briefly alleviate her depression. I really hope this young lady seeks professionally help.
Her voice makes me so relaxed
I love shopping too but some things can wait. 💁🏼♀️
That why I never get credit cards I don’t like to spend money I don’t have it make me nervous 😬
Same. I would get so tempted to spend more. Sure I might not have a good credit score but at least I'm not in debt. Student loans is different from shopping debt.
same, bcoz it creates more stress better to save and buy the things that u needed and treat yourself if you have extra or save it for the rainy days.
Same here, and unless I have at least a few hundred in my savings and my account I feel guilty spending!
@IAmJalex I prefer people like you who see the reasons why thus happens to those smug buggers who sneer.
Her dad is the owner of this really well know restaurant in south hall London and they definitely are successful ,she was recently on Gordon Ramsey’s show her restaurant against another Indian place
Girl buy me an iPhone XS Max
"She's struggling to fund her habit..."
And here I am, struggling to live lol
Not even able to buy the cheapest clothes, and make up, ok! 😂
Talk about filling a void
If she has children those kids will be spoiled af lol
You can't have a relationship with showing BUT you can have a relationship with MONEY.
Change your mindset and change your life.
her fashion sense...........
It doesn't exist
The Chanel pieces that she has are timeless! I hope she kept them because they are now worth so much more.
My strange addiction is....
I LOVE SHOPPING
3:26 “But that doesn’t matter because I’m not going to be wearing them.”
Yeah, neither is she.
Shopaholics are actually kind of cute and amusing. They can shop and buy things without stress. I am so cheap I won't even buy a bed for myself or winter boots. Shopping is one big anxiety provoking experience because always I am calculating the price. I want to be wealthy so I can afford to date a shopaholic. I make the money and she shops and enjoys. To do what I can't do.
Focus Focus facts tho. even if it’s a payday i still get the dollar menu at mcdonalds 💀
‘If I didn’t shop I’d have nothing to look forward to ‘ what a sad, sad girl !!!
Annie Mclionz she’s not sad at all!!
@@e3samal1k17 She clearly is. She did say she has nothing to look forward to without shopping. What would you describe her as then?
Yikes!!! I have anxiety just watching her shop!😯
Um she's investing in the designer stuff, if she sold it she'd be fine 😂
The bags and accessories she has have the highest markups in the industry, 100% or more. Unless they're rare and in high demand she's not going to sell them for what she bought them for.
@@anemone6260 - But she'd get SOMETHING back. That's the point.
I feel sorry for her. Her life is so shallow.
GET help for your addiction please,u deserve a real fulfilling life and to be healthy.
Dam she got money
she don't tho. she in debt
Looool
Having money is when you use cash, not credit
Her dad probably. She Definately gets money from parents, otherwise with the amount she spends she should be in A Lot debt than 7k
@5:58 ''my love for kids will be more extreme than my love for shopping''... translate: my kids will become my new obsession.
with in 10 seconds i knew she was depresed
I am stunned with this young lady. Shopping is her life. No remorse. I am very grateful to understand not to do such thing.
Awww, I feel sorry for her. I hope she's doing well today with a husband and children and lots of gal pals. 💔
she is shopping to feel comforted. She immediately went back to a happy memory of being with her dad shopping there is definatley a connection with that.
"Which makes sense...."
"NO it doesn't"
There's more to life than just accumulating stuff. Family and friends are more important.
Work a week in retail and shell soon learn theres more to life than shopping 😂😂
This gal needs some friends. Like the highlight of my week is seeing my bffs!
I'm such a saver (not miserly), and watching this hurts my soul. 🙄
This hits close to my heart here in San Diego California USA.😢
I feel guilty spending £30 or more on clothing 😂😂😂
Yes even I feel the same. I do feel lonely and then I go to shop but then not to such an extent like the video above. I know when I have to say "No".
The only expensive thing I bought my life was a mk bag I felt so bad for spending £20o for a bag that I didn’t like I end up selling it on eBay. I dnt think designer products are nice looking it only has the name tag but that’s all there is to it. A lot of the time non designer products are much prettier.
Exaclty. They getting richer while other getting poorer. Just a brand name.
thats a personal issue boo. I love my designer items.
I also lovedesigner items,but I see what I want themselves up hardworking them and buy when I can afford it
Sometimes I feel like people are being overdramatic with their shopping habits, but I believe her. Her eyes alone kind of convey how focused she is on shopping being her singular habit/comfort.
She is very pretty. I think she’s trying to fill some kind of void in her life though.
Like, the fact that she's single, and she wants a baby so bad. This might be symptomatic of a depression, for all I know. Only my opinion, though...😬
“When I can’t shop I get depressed”
This is when you know you have a problem
She sounds like my life story, 😂 I know I have a shopping problem, to be honest I shop to fill the Void. I have to admit, I only buy designer Luxury brand products, it gives me some sort of comfort. Also when I look good I feel better 🙈😂🥂
same here. when i look good, i feel better.
these videos make me feel better about my "shopping problem"
And people are dying because they don’t have food everyday so sad
Ines Bentrad : EXACTLY! Omg, thank you ☺️
So why not sell your house and and all your possessions so those starving people can eat?
It really bugs me when people comment on how others should do xyz or shouldn't do xyz "because there are starving people in the world".
There will always be inequality in the world no matter what.I'm a minimalist and have chosen to live this way as I prefer it but if I decide to suddenly live a more materialistic life, I'd do it without thinking about the inequality in the world.
It's like those silly messages I receive on WhatsApp saying to skip eating pizza and give that money to the maid instead...well, should we all just switch to eating rice and lentils so we can all do nothing but close the inequality gap?
it’s an addiction what do you expect😂
Why would someone sell their house and possessions? They are allowed to have an opinion on a girl who clearly has a shopping addiction.......think you really missed the point....
Redistribute the wealth
She and her dad were on The Hotel show. She is not hurting for money from daddy.
Like I get stomach pains if I spend more than 150$ on anything (not counting rent, food, bus pass, phone or medication)
I can’t believe she’s only 7000 pound in debt
Hey parents must give her money
She still lives at home so she probably doesn't even spend money on rent and she also said she's spoiled so i'm sure her parents still pay for all her shit
They do
Her dad's restaurant featured in a Gordon Ramsay show once. This girl was shown working in the kitchen.
Her LV bags are fake. They probably cost $50
@@babyyvie You don't know if they are so don't assume things here!
I can relate.......many many years ago I did that. But lack of money is the best cure for shopaholic.....😀😀😁😁.
No one would make fun of her if she were an alcoholic. She's addicted, so stop saying she's just spoiled and doesn't want to stop.
You can say that about alcoholics too.
@@Username0467 Most people know that alcoholism is a serious addiction, because there are many stories about abusive parents who are alcoholics. So it's morbid to make fun of such miserable people. But people don't see that compulsive shoppers don't enjoy shopping, they need this thrill when they spend money, it's like a drug to them.
I think its so true bout her being sad n lonely. Wish she gets 2 have a family of her own soon
“Husband with a huge house” reasons why men divorce
@@TheSkete What do those initials mean? I see them a lot.
@@anniespencer7879 - Somehow, I think you know. But if you don't please do a video search on that term.
She is so cute! I like her. Although I don't like shopping. I am a minimalist, opposite of shoppoholics.
I think the reporter is really rude. You shouldn't act so judgemental in front of someone who's obviously suffering
Self inflicted
"Suffering" haha what a joke...this girl is blaming her parents on the fact that she puts material things before anything else.
Quallentina Knievel
Victim mentality. This girl needs a rude awakening from her self imposed suffering.
@@blackkittypurr She shouldn't blame her parents.
I seriously thought the narrator said her name was "Dipnut" and then I was like, "well no wonder she's a shopaholic with that name"
i have never spent more than £30 on a bag ... i couldnt fathom spending £1k on a bag... all the things i could buy with that!
They can always take advantage of return policies so they can continue with their passion without falling into debt.
The maths doesn’t add up. If you make 500 a week but spend 7k a week there is no way you will be in 7.5k in debt more like 75k.
I used to have a real real bad shopping addiction I would estimate that since I was a teenager I would feel the urge to buy something.Even if I didn't need it it would calm me down and make me feel a high.Than comes the regrets and the telling yourself that your problem isn't that bad.I have spent at least half a million easily.Every inch of my place was covered in purchases.I finally got it through my head that this wasn't helping me and I had to address my actual problems.I do struggle some days but I also let the feeling past before going crazy and justifying myself.
Jesus Christ. I love shopping, but there’s no way I could do this.
NEVER GET A CREDIT CARD, NEVER !
It’s also so sad that she feels that without shopping she has nothing and no life.
Something is obviously wrong psychologically.
I think she associated shopping with fun and good memories from a young age, and it's trying to reproduce the experience she did as a child to fill the void. This woman needs purpose.
_I thought she has a shopping addiction, why is she losing thousands of pounds? Maybe this is like a disease_
She’s really cute and I like her personality
She should volunteer to work in a food kitchen for homeless people. That should give her a sense of purpose and keep her out of the shops.
There's a small book titled "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels, that's popular. I recommend it.
Its a real addiction.
I know that from experience.
"There would be no life without shopping." :( Sad
I don’t have any sympathy. All the comments saying “oh but it’s a mental issue” no it’s not, she just can’t control herself. Stop making excuses for people like this.🤦🏻♀️
Wow! How is this girl only 7500. in debt. if she is, Good for her! I'm impressed with her paying the debt off with the hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stuff. I don't consider myself a shopaholic by any means but know for a fact I'm over 7500 in dept.
3:29 here is the moral of the story !!!!!
Material things can only make you happy for a short period of time.