Let’s talk mutual respect vs manipulation when it comes to submission in today’s episode. Is submission in marriage/ relationships worth it??? Are you enjoying its benefits in your relationship? Grab your Newmans snack and drink and let’s dig in! Video credits: Production: Garage Group Set: Golden Tulip Kampala Outfits: Fashion Episode Shoes: Shoe Puzzle Hair: Zuri Luxury If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove
Thanks ladies. I feel like everyone gave an example but Manuela was general. Would have loved to listen to what exactly she was fighting against in her marriage. Was it something her husband needed that she didn’t want to submit to? Was it that she didn’t want any financial help from her husband?? Overall great episode.
I was listening to Kenyan gospel giant Emmy Kosgei on an interview the other day. She said something I found profound about submission in a marriage. This is what she said and I paraphrase: submission is when it comes freely, willingly and natural. It is not submission when it’s demanded, forced or required.
@@pumlanabachwa8668pumla waffe how are you?kasuku mentioned you in one of his videos and i cant wait to see you on kasuku live......i am sure it will a blast😂
The story of the 4 women is in Numbers 27:1-7: Now the daughters of Zelophehad son of Hepher, the son of Gilead, the son of Machir, the son of Manasseh, belonged to the clans of Manasseh son of Joseph. These were the names of his daughters: Mahlah, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah, and Tirzah. They approached the entrance to the Tent of Meeting, stood before Moses, Eleazar the priest, the leaders, and the whole congregation, and said, “Our father died in the wilderness, but he was not among the followers of Korah who gathered together against the LORD. Instead, he died because of his own sin, and he had no sons. Why should the name of our father disappear from his clan because he had no sons? Give us property among our father’s brothers.” So Moses brought their case before the LORD, and the LORD answered him, “The daughters of Zelophehad speak correctly. You certainly must give them property as an inheritance among their father’s brothers, and transfer their father’s inheritance to them.
I remember the days we prayed and believed God for this country to hold such spiritual conventions, those that didn’t have to talk about immortality, kumansula and lies name it, and honestly I’ve been a bump lover and follower, for a year or so, you beautiful ladies are so amazing, I love how you truly share all your beautiful life experiences without us even paying a single penny, but to have a life touched what an amazing price you have chosen to pay…. This submission topic hit me so deeply God continuously bless you all, right from the camera crew to even the venue hosts. I love you Vee…
Nabachwa and ladies on bumplove thank you so much. ❤ In African family setting ,submission is trained to women from their home. When a woman gets married, she goes in full motion to practice her trained submission, but when in marriage she feels loved, protected and provided for, submission comes naturally, it is not trained, demanded or required. When a sane mature woman doesn’t feel loved, protected and provided for, her masculinity takes over femininity because of her natural instinct to love, protect and provide for her children. She puts on her guard and full armour and that’s when submission dies, because the trust is lost. She grabs the leadership role, because her helper role has lost meaning. Society has done so well to guide and prepare the girl child for marriage but has done little to nothing for the boy child, so when these two get married, it’s a recipe for disaster. Some men will prey on submission and take, take and take, until you are drained and have nothing to give any more. To Submit is to GIVE, ACCEPT TO BE GIVEN and ACCEPT TO GIVE IN. SO WHEN SHOULD A GOOD WIFE STOP SUBMITTING?
It is liberating to see educated, successful, accomplished women speak about submission and actually advocate for it. This is one thing i can say I have always feared about getting married, now my mindset is shifted, thanks to you ladies! I think I might be ready for partnership/marriage now 😅😅
Just like respect, submission is earned and not called for. Unfortunately, in the world we are living today, there's a thin line between submission and control. That's why most women have a negative connotation to submission.
Ladies, thank you for being selfless and allowing God to use you over and over again. In this season of my life, this is exactly what I need to listen to.
"Submission comes naturally to a woman who is loved." I felt that. And not necessarily loving you in the ways you want, but sometimes men imagine submission is a transaction and entitlement and that's why I agree with those who say it's earned in a way.
Please bump love never put down the videos you make for us coz for me am going to use them for my girls when they grow up,for me you’ve really helped me with my entire life(family,relationship,spiritual life,and everything).Thank you ladies
Ladies, your intellect is at another level! I wish you could educate other ladies to understand the marriage covenant. Marriage is for the mature. Some analysts interpret it from their world view and in the end mislead other women. Keep doing the good job my fellow intellectuals.
To the ladies at BumpLove and everyone that makes this show possible, A MAJOR THANK YOU!!!! The impact you are making on our lives as your viewers, wow! wow! Wow! May God's glory shine on you for allowing your lives and experiences to nurture us. I'm such a HUGE lover of Bumplove for years but had never been one to leave comments(on any show generally). I always feel like.. what do I say? what do I leave? Ehhhh! Idk why I'm particularly commenting on this episode.. is this me submitting to you?🤣🤣 This show has made me understand myself so much better and various relationships around me.. I resonate most with Pumla and Manuela; I see a lot of myself in them; we come in BIG BOLD packages that just add life and color to everything! Angie too.. because I can be very stubborn but yet very reflective and sentimental. Bump Love has helped me navigate some really tough seasons but also reflection on things I've experienced.. where I realize, there's someone else just like me; there's LOADS to learn from you all! Whatever the persona, it is reflected through the diverse cocktail at BumpLove. I feel like you're my community. As a young lady, there's so much wisdom and guidance from you all. I see A LOT of Manuela and Angie in me.. Maybe someday I could have the priviledge to meet you all and watch as you as you shoot, to just have an in-person experience. The way you have touched my life, I can't fully describe. Thank you for helping us as women understand our partners and other relations better... you've restored peace and sanity more than you know! Bump Love has even led me to other shows like #RideWIthTheMulondos, Reality Check(this is actively restoring my rship rn), Life.Work.Balance... Wabula mwebale! Thank you for making us feel that we are not alone in our experiences. You allow yourselves to be vulnerable enough to share yourselves with us in such an authentic way! I love that somehow, there's always a reference to God! SOMEHOW! You have a special place in the gratitude chamber in my heart! MWEBARE! 🤍
This episode was filled with knowledge, wisdom and insightful experience. You ladies a changing the world, one woman at a time. God richly bless you. ❤
Wabula Mr gundi thank you for loving our Pumla right 👏👏👏 I love how her relationship talks are evolving lately, Congrats P. Back to submission i can testify that it truthfully comes with maturity and time. And submission is so fullfilling banange and the peace it comes with, i can only ask my fellow women to submit asking for help from the Holy Spirit because its also very tiresome doing it on your own. Thank you ladies for this episode its so deep, we are learning.
Am not yet married but you don't know what you mean to me you ladies coz I ve raised myself I ve no close people but many times you act like my Aunties .. thank you all love you nyoooo😊❤ This topic was so meaningful and worthy watching. God bless you
Yes Pumla. I love how she explains a point in its entirety, without overriding other's points. Manuela and Rachel, we can always count on you to remind us of God's Truth in everything. Rosette and Angie are the realist. I guess they think of things the way the rest of us here would . We're learning a lot from you guys. 👏👏🙌 Bottom line is, submission comes easy where love is present.
My dad told me something about submission in line with what Rachel said about doing your part. He said I dont guarantee you reciprocity as the Bible states but it is imperative in you that you do your part. Recently RukhShana (who I wish you would host her fyi- her marriage is interesting and inspiring) said something in their (with her husband) series Which brought this home she said “perhaps it would be easier if every husband was deserving of it. But submission like honor is not about the one to whom it’s accorded but about who accords it” I calmed down about this topic.
Woo woo woo well said ladies...I have enjoyed submission..it gives us our positions in marriage....it's a natural thing that I can't explain..our marriage is at a point where my husband sends me to talk to God......am overwhelmed..... It was beautiful on our wedding day...we took the scripture readings ourselves and we understood submission on that day
Successful educated beautiful women teaching us about submission is all we need to hear in the generation ❤.I love what Rachel said do your part and the rest shall flow
I came across this channel through the UA-cam algorithm. I like the title and it is interesting to hear ladies' opinions about submission in marriage. In my opinion, women's submission in marriage is related to how their husbands love their wives and treat them with respect. Without True love, submission to women will mean slave work.
Why would you be with someone you can't respect in the first place...our superficial choices as women are the reason why we later find the men we choose unable to be good husbands...we don't marry someone based on values but materialistic standards
Am a guy who rarely pays attention to ladies talk shows but this episode was great. thank you madam Manuela Mulondo for always acknowledging GOD in every statement that comes from your mouth.
I believe women have so much energy and can do anything. We have a lot of power and sometimes it needs to controlled because we can do anything and everything. So I really believe Submission is power under control.
Pumla is so realistic and wise. To be honest I have never liked the word submission because of how 'men' and 'clergy' have used it in the past on women. There are some people who use it to undermine women and to show power. Personally I prefer the words love and respect.
You ladies look fire!🔥 I love this conversation. I’ve learnt a lot and I agree with you all. But I am mostly for the school of thought that submission is earned and should happen organically. That way, you do it without even being conscious of it. Thanks again Bump Love for being my nice cup hot chocolate every Friday with these diverse educative topics.👏🏾 Love your consistency!🫶🏽
Thank you ladies for this conversation🎉🎉🎉. I personally have learnt alot. May God give you more wisdom to reach to our generation today. I would love you to share a conversation on " Can marriage thrive with religious differences between a man and a woman? " Ie the two being of different Faith most especially A christian and Muslim.
This is an excellent program. For one it shows me that marriage is actually a good thing which allows for growth and maturity. I also love the fact that it shows practically that choosing the right partner will pull a person closer to Christ. Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences 😊
Can we take a moment and appreciate these ladies and the whole production team. Imagine producing an episode like this good, you can’t afford to produce less than this for the next episode 🙆🏻♀️ I started following bumplove from 2020 and every episode is 10* better than the previous one. I am thankful to God for the wisdom that is shared in these episodes. Thanks team bumplove🙌🏼
I love that this conversation about marriage and submission is centred on God being the head,truly there's no marriage success without the author of it
Always looking forward to a new episode. You are all unique, and its the blend of your experiences and ideas that make the show tick. You are right and our differences is what makes the society interesting. Thats why we are friends, if we were all the same life would be boring. Love you ladies.
All i can say is that am taking down notes and be assured that you ladies have made me to be a better wife and mother when that time comes. Oooh! as always your fashion sense is on fire,🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ohhh wow❤....foe the futat time i listened together with my hubby. You should have seen him agreeing to everything...ladies, thank you..God is really using you goe my good❤❤❤.... My marriage gets better every time and Fridays bumplove is just my "relax moment* to shop something new for my Marti and family. May God bless you my girls....❤i love you ❤
When you enter marriage as partners because you are bringing different but complimentary strengths to the team, y'all need to submit to eachother. There are some areas where my leadership as a woman is excellent and my husband submits to me. There are areas where his leadership is excellent and i submit to him. Though he is the head of our house for social and leanage purposes, that doesn't mean whatever he says, even when it doesn't make sense i agree to follow like sheep. Rachel's anology of an organization is different as it emphasizes power dynamics. What about the analogy of two really good business that come together as partners, nobody is anyone's boss but they still get things done? Well me and my husband are partners and we submit to eachother for the purpose of serving our team not our egos.
@Pumla I had a similar perspective of submission (everything being patriarchal) while growing up....but as started interacting with other people I knew it wasn't going to help me in my marriage. I looked out for a book called "Love & Respect, The love she most desires, the respect he desperately needs " It changed my perspective completely and helped me understand how men and women are wired differently. You ladies have beautifully talked about the topic of submission. Much Love ❤
Thanks bumplove. I believe this episode on submission is a good take home. The journey of submission does really start with intention and allowing time to move. Happy to be here
Me like Manuella I didn't see submission at home growing up with a mother that was raised by her father 😂ahaa my mum was another general hmmm I can't even explain well but am lucky the little time I went to my grandparents on ma father's side it's when I saw the true meaning of love and submission haaa the other bakadde loved each other banange grandma couldn't finish eating a small bread without thinking about her husband 😊😊and it gave me a new picture about love😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
Yes I read that scripture also those 5 daughters lost their father who would have been the right person to get his share of the land. Yes Manuela was right. That scripture empowered me as a woman to show me that God will turn things around for me. Thx ladies💕
Thank you ladies for your submissions,i am enlighten and know that the struggle to submit in a way points towards the relationship with Christ. The times i have argued( sometimes without proof) is because i don't even know or remember what the Bible says about the issue at hand. Yet if i let my partner do as he has forethought,it works out some if not most times. The massage of a man's ego is a key take home,most times when we let them do as they think and hit rock bottom,the submission that comes after experience is incomparable. However,may we not forget that there is submission that can break you. One minute you are submissive and you are misunderstood.#maywedobetter!
Don't we all?! I just be waiting to hear it. And I love the trick wen she speaks last. But I love how she relates with wat most people think "otherwise" n makes it ryt in some way. I applaud u
@naggayijoan3962 TTTrrrrrrruuuuuuuuùuuuuueeeeee. The energy that goes into digesting every one's reality & view of the world & still firmly keep your stand is unimaginably incredible. This woman has invested so much in her awareness, its such a flex to agree on things that don't align with your ream of reality & be able to carry on yours. I love her she is my all time favourite among the crew.
What a sweet sweet conversation . Guys 🎉🎉your the real deal. I want also to appreciate how different you all are and the ability to respect each others submissions 😅to the different topics you discuss. As a woman I want to congratulate you fellow women for thriving together in such a space . Your all unique and anointed for this very cause that we may watch and be encouraged, and learn , unlearn , among very many other things. Thank you for putting words to the things that we probably just feel and have no words for and above all thank you for this episode . Am soooo blessed. God increase you mighty women
Looking good ladies. Thank you for this one, many lessons. Today, I will only say that the ring only amplifies what was already there. People make poor choices before the ring so the results end in divorce if they do not put in work. The relationships that are working, people are putting in effort.
Thankyou Ladies for yet another educative and Nation building subject. Need I say you all look dashing. One's got to be loved into submission. Men are the heads whereas women are the neck.
I relate with you Angie the lessons u have learnt over time. Thanks Rachel n Manuella for standing for the truth. Pumla girl you rock, Rossette babe u glow
Listening to you ladies ❤!!...you know when u have gone through all stages of life almost alone, and then u hear 5 ladies bring it all in one day😂😂, amazing. Truly as the Bible says, when you were young, we talked like a child, and when u have grown..., I think as we grow in marriage, submission too comes as bonus to us especially when u have a loving a Patient husband. Very educative topic especially the young ladies following, please avoid mistakes we went through if you can. Blessings, ladies. Pumla God has set you apart for a special purpose. You don't know how many people you are changing lives for. Your lifestyle speak to many young girls out there. Keep it ladies. You r are a full package
@@nankabirwamary1349 Pumla said in an old episode that she doesn’t have the brain space to think about other hairstyles that will give her peace, comfort, easy and saves time. So that’s why she does just that hairstyle. 😂 which is btw a good one
It always hurts me when I look away from youtube for a second and return to check if Bumplove has uploaded yet and boom 1k views. 😢like why I'm I this late and why are these people so fast😅😅😅😅😅😅
Rosett is so smart and glowing 😢😢😢... Pumla thank you always for your submissions... girl is informed... And this episode y'all did welll.... thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
First: Ayeiyeiyeiyeiyeiiiiiiii....... Kaluulu of joy for Pumla. Secondly: Thank you ladies for the show. Third: Submission submission submission. For me, if it's a journey of a thousand steps, I am on my tenth. To reach the tenth step, I also attribute it to God for sure. Please note that even on the tenth step, I think I have gone back to step two many times. Probably because of the words my grandmother told me before marriage and God as the ultimate speaker. This year in October, we shall make three years in marriage. I can't say that I ain't enjoying my marriage coz I think I would have missed lots if I wasn't. The fruits of our marriage, the fun and the love are so overwhelming. Naye the submission part. You guys, it's a sure struggle. Like Rachel, I can go to church, come back all renewed, do all that I am supposed to do as a wife, and then there comes a day when guy is like, "Babe, please get me a glass of water to drink"... Hmmm... In my mind, that's a hustle. I mean, you can't go to the fridge!?? Don't you have hands!?? Okay, please send your son... Etcetera. Now I've got another remedy, thanks to Pumla and Rachel. In my mind I will keep saying, " Small small water!?? " "Small small tea!?? " There is something else that I sometimes use. I get it from the scripture that says everyone is created in the image of God. So sometimes, in my mind, I just say, "Let me not quarrel with the image of God"😂 That's what adds on those steps. But woman demon banange, get behind me satan. For sure sometimes I even cause the trouble and I be like, " Poor man has seen days! " Thanks for the show ladies😅
WOWWWW Rosette.... I always enjoy your input. You speak to the ordinary person..You really understand how to maneouvre submission in the marital institution. I wish you all the best in your marriage...wama oli mukyala muganda waawu ❤
I have honestly enjoyed this episode. It is informative and evokes self reflection love. It has a lot to take away and of course the entertaining. Thank you ladies.
Let’s talk mutual respect vs manipulation when it comes to submission in today’s episode.
Is submission in marriage/ relationships worth it???
Are you enjoying its benefits in your relationship?
Grab your Newmans snack and drink and let’s dig in!
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Thanks ladies. I feel like everyone gave an example but Manuela was general. Would have loved to listen to what exactly she was fighting against in her marriage. Was it something her husband needed that she didn’t want to submit to? Was it that she didn’t want any financial help from her husband?? Overall great episode.
I think it should be in all coz it is the beginning
I was listening to Kenyan gospel giant Emmy Kosgei on an interview the other day. She said something I found profound about submission in a marriage. This is what she said and I paraphrase: submission is when it comes freely, willingly and natural. It is not submission when it’s demanded, forced or required.
Totally agree. Love it. P
And that's true
💯 agree
@@pumlanabachwa8668pumla waffe how are you?kasuku mentioned you in one of his videos and i cant wait to see you on kasuku live......i am sure it will a blast😂
True but several speakers and preachers have said the same, how's that profound?
The story of the 4 women is in Numbers 27:1-7: Now the daughters of Zelophehad son of Hepher, the son of Gilead, the son of Machir, the son of Manasseh, belonged to the clans of Manasseh son of Joseph. These were the names of his daughters: Mahlah, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah, and Tirzah. They approached the entrance to the Tent of Meeting, stood before Moses, Eleazar the priest, the leaders, and the whole congregation, and said, “Our father died in the wilderness, but he was not among the followers of Korah who gathered together against the LORD. Instead, he died because of his own sin, and he had no sons. Why should the name of our father disappear from his clan because he had no sons? Give us property among our father’s brothers.”
So Moses brought their case before the LORD, and the LORD answered him, “The daughters of Zelophehad speak correctly. You certainly must give them property as an inheritance among their father’s brothers, and transfer their father’s inheritance to them.
I really love Racheal’s eloquence, she articulates my thoughts so well.
I remember the days we prayed and believed God for this country to hold such spiritual conventions, those that didn’t have to talk about immortality, kumansula and lies name it, and honestly I’ve been a bump lover and follower, for a year or so, you beautiful ladies are so amazing, I love how you truly share all your beautiful life experiences without us even paying a single penny, but to have a life touched what an amazing price you have chosen to pay…. This submission topic hit me so deeply
God continuously bless you all, right from the camera crew to even the venue hosts. I love you
Vee…
Sometimes I just feel Racheal and Pumla should talk and talk … non stop .❤❤can’t get tired of listening to them
Same here
Exactly....
That's it👌
Nabachwa and ladies on bumplove thank you so much. ❤
In African family setting ,submission is trained to women from their home. When a woman gets married, she goes in full motion to practice her trained submission, but when in marriage she feels loved, protected and provided for, submission comes naturally, it is not trained, demanded or required.
When a sane mature woman doesn’t feel loved, protected and provided for, her masculinity takes over femininity because of her natural instinct to love, protect and provide for her children. She puts on her guard and full armour and that’s when submission dies, because the trust is lost. She grabs the leadership role, because her helper role has lost meaning.
Society has done so well to guide and prepare the girl child for marriage but has done little to nothing for the boy child, so when these two get married, it’s a recipe for disaster.
Some men will prey on submission and take, take and take, until you are drained and have nothing to give any more.
To Submit is to GIVE, ACCEPT TO BE GIVEN and ACCEPT TO GIVE IN.
SO WHEN SHOULD A GOOD WIFE STOP SUBMITTING?
💯💯📍📍📍 everything you said. I shouldn’t say more.
This is so nicely put Nakabiri. Thank you
Exactly!
Your ideas r terrific
Thanks very much. You spoke for me, my exact thoughts n belief
When Rachel said "I feel like marriage was made for me." it is amazing.
Rossetti...girlll that whole attire is givingggg....
🥰🥰🥰Thanks☺️
@@roseviela.30periodt , the hair too
She's always best dressed
Who else wants to see OJ i love how she talks about her husband you can tell they are so much in love .
Banage I'm dying to see OJ...honestly bring him on set
I am among who wants to see OJ
I too can't wait...Angie please
It's clear that she is loved. Automatically she will submit
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Pumla is an intellectual and I’m here for it❤
It is liberating to see educated, successful, accomplished women speak about submission and actually advocate for it. This is one thing i can say I have always feared about getting married, now my mindset is shifted, thanks to you ladies! I think I might be ready for partnership/marriage now 😅😅
THIS!
Hahahaha! Happy to hear it ❤
It's because their husbands are providers and responsible
Just like respect, submission is earned and not called for. Unfortunately, in the world we are living today, there's a thin line between submission and control. That's why most women have a negative connotation to submission.
Ladies, thank you for being selfless and allowing God to use you over and over again.
In this season of my life, this is exactly what I need to listen to.
"Submission comes naturally to a woman who is loved." I felt that.
And not necessarily loving you in the ways you want, but sometimes men imagine submission is a transaction and entitlement and that's why I agree with those who say it's earned in a way.
Please bump love never put down the videos you make for us coz for me am going to use them for my girls when they grow up,for me you’ve really helped me with my entire life(family,relationship,spiritual life,and everything).Thank you ladies
I'm also relying on these videos for future use
Pumla, I’d sit down to listen to a sermon by you. You speak with conviction jeezzz. Love love❤
Oh thank you. Now let me look for some Pentagon money 😊
@@pumlanabachwa8668 naye Nabachwa haaha
P you are already aiming for the white house too😂
Nedda nyabo@@pumlanabachwa8668 we aren't giving you more money for pentagon may be hexagon 😅
Sometimes I finish watching the show when I don't want it to end.
Thank you so much ladies
Ladies, your intellect is at another level! I wish you could educate other ladies to understand the marriage covenant. Marriage is for the mature. Some analysts interpret it from their world view and in the end mislead other women. Keep doing the good job my fellow intellectuals.
Pumla speaks and i am in awe. Girl i love your wisdom.
Thank you for the vote of confidence and trust 🙏🏾
@@pumlanabachwa8668Pumla as I’ve always said is me personality wise and l’m happy she’s finally naturally submitting to someone she can trust.
@@pumlanabachwa8668 ❤❤❤❤i personally Love you So much
Greetings from Rwanda❤
I do too spits wise words
To the ladies at BumpLove and everyone that makes this show possible, A MAJOR THANK YOU!!!!
The impact you are making on our lives as your viewers, wow! wow! Wow! May God's glory shine on you for allowing your lives and experiences to nurture us.
I'm such a HUGE lover of Bumplove for years but had never been one to leave comments(on any show generally). I always feel like.. what do I say? what do I leave? Ehhhh! Idk why I'm particularly commenting on this episode.. is this me submitting to you?🤣🤣
This show has made me understand myself so much better and various relationships around me.. I resonate most with Pumla and Manuela; I see a lot of myself in them; we come in BIG BOLD packages that just add life and color to everything!
Angie too.. because I can be very stubborn but yet very reflective and sentimental.
Bump Love has helped me navigate some really tough seasons but also reflection on things I've experienced.. where I realize, there's someone else just like me; there's LOADS to learn from you all! Whatever the persona, it is reflected through the diverse cocktail at BumpLove. I feel like you're my community. As a young lady, there's so much wisdom and guidance from you all.
I see A LOT of Manuela and Angie in me.. Maybe someday I could have the priviledge to meet you all and watch as you as you shoot, to just have an in-person experience. The way you have touched my life, I can't fully describe.
Thank you for helping us as women understand our partners and other relations better... you've restored peace and sanity more than you know! Bump Love has even led me to other shows like #RideWIthTheMulondos, Reality Check(this is actively restoring my rship rn), Life.Work.Balance... Wabula mwebale!
Thank you for making us feel that we are not alone in our experiences. You allow yourselves to be vulnerable enough to share yourselves with us in such an authentic way! I love that somehow, there's always a reference to God! SOMEHOW!
You have a special place in the gratitude chamber in my heart! MWEBARE! 🤍
When you start submitting,your eyes are opened to see the goodness in your partner❤️
Racheal’s hair is everything ❤
Am heading to the saloon to demand for that look.
I like how Rachel has expounded her submission 😊
First thing I always check is length…1hr 44mins. I am so excited, the episodes keep getting longer, deeper and hence more fun! Love it!
This episode was filled with knowledge, wisdom and insightful experience. You ladies a changing the world, one woman at a time. God richly bless you. ❤
I like how Manuela always has a reference from the bible,,, thus makes me relate and even read again.
My thought too and maybe she must be coming from a good BIBLE based church.
Yaaasss
Wabula Mr gundi thank you for loving our Pumla right 👏👏👏 I love how her relationship talks are evolving lately, Congrats P. Back to submission i can testify that it truthfully comes with maturity and time. And submission is so fullfilling banange and the peace it comes with, i can only ask my fellow women to submit asking for help from the Holy Spirit because its also very tiresome doing it on your own. Thank you ladies for this episode its so deep, we are learning.
See this one 😂😅😂
The way I have waited for this comment all week 😅😅😅😅😅
Indeed God's timing is always the best, he makes things beautiful.
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Emikolo ginatera okutuwuba we the bump lovers.💍
Am not yet married but you don't know what you mean to me you ladies coz I ve raised myself I ve no close people but many times you act like my Aunties .. thank you all love you nyoooo😊❤
This topic was so meaningful and worthy watching. God bless you
Pumla is at 96% a D1 for her to perfect marriage. Good job girls
Submission was created for me to enjoy my marriage. Submission is for my good. Very profound
Thank you ladies.....Ephesians ......Husbands also ....let them play their role to earn the submission.
Yes Pumla. I love how she explains a point in its entirety, without overriding other's points.
Manuela and Rachel, we can always count on you to remind us of God's Truth in everything. Rosette and Angie are the realist. I guess they think of things the way the rest of us here would .
We're learning a lot from you guys. 👏👏🙌
Bottom line is, submission comes easy where love is present.
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Rosette
Gal just love your energy now days
Ateh the way your glowing ❤❤and the outfit is giving 🎉🎉
On this very same topic, we need the men’s view on it please) 🙏
Thanks ladies
I second this suggestion
Me too
Me 3
I agree 😂😂😂
Me 5
Rachel you're blessed with wisdom ❤
This whole episode was so informative ❤. Thank you ladies for making this happen.
Submission is the key to a successful marriage/ relationship❤
My dad told me something about submission in line with what Rachel said about doing your part. He said I dont guarantee you reciprocity as the Bible states but it is imperative in you that you do your part.
Recently RukhShana (who I wish you would host her fyi- her marriage is interesting and inspiring) said something in their (with her husband) series Which brought this home she said
“perhaps it would be easier if every husband was deserving of it. But submission like honor is not about the one to whom it’s accorded but about who accords it”
I calmed down about this topic.
I remember this episode 😊
I love listening to the Kitakas 😊
Woo woo woo well said ladies...I have enjoyed submission..it gives us our positions in marriage....it's a natural thing that I can't explain..our marriage is at a point where my husband sends me to talk to God......am overwhelmed.....
It was beautiful on our wedding day...we took the scripture readings ourselves and we understood submission on that day
Successful educated beautiful women teaching us about submission is all we need to hear in the generation ❤.I love what Rachel said do your part and the rest shall flow
I came across this channel through the UA-cam algorithm. I like the title and it is interesting to hear ladies' opinions about submission in marriage.
In my opinion, women's submission in marriage is related to how their husbands love their wives and treat them with respect. Without True love, submission to women will mean slave work.
Submission comes naturally when your leader is leading well❤❤ you can't submit to a bad leader💜 lots of love bump love❤
That's right my dia
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I agree
Why would you be with someone you can't respect in the first place...our superficial choices as women are the reason why we later find the men we choose unable to be good husbands...we don't marry someone based on values but materialistic standards
Preeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaacchh! ❤
Thank you all. Praying for pumla's salvation. You will be such power house preacher gal
Haha! Amen!
I love Angies closing remarks
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thanks for the episode, worth watching.
Am a guy who rarely pays attention to ladies talk shows but this episode was great. thank you madam Manuela Mulondo for always acknowledging GOD in every statement that comes from your mouth.
I believe women have so much energy and can do anything. We have a lot of power and sometimes it needs to controlled because we can do anything and everything. So I really believe Submission is power under control.
This is one of the episodes you don't watch once. Incredible ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Pumla is so realistic and wise. To be honest I have never liked the word submission because of how 'men' and 'clergy' have used it in the past on women. There are some people who use it to undermine women and to show power. Personally I prefer the words love and respect.
Love & Respect ❤
Thank you Makena
You ladies look fire!🔥 I love this conversation. I’ve learnt a lot and I agree with you all. But I am mostly for the school of thought that submission is earned and should happen organically. That way, you do it without even being conscious of it. Thanks again Bump Love for being my nice cup hot chocolate every Friday with these diverse educative topics.👏🏾 Love your consistency!🫶🏽
Thank you Dee. I also believe submission is earned and should happen organically
I agree 💯💯💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Thank you ladies for this conversation🎉🎉🎉. I personally have learnt alot. May God give you more wisdom to reach to our generation today.
I would love you to share a conversation on " Can marriage thrive with religious differences between a man and a woman? " Ie the two being of different Faith most especially A christian and Muslim.
Ladies, this topic is encouraging, uplifting into our relationships/marriages... But remember love is the pillar of all......
are you single?asking for a friend 😂
Hey!! Girls I just love the way you are explaining this submission subject biblically. I used to ignore your shows but I have loved this one.
This is an excellent program. For one it shows me that marriage is actually a good thing which allows for growth and maturity. I also love the fact that it shows practically that choosing the right partner will pull a person closer to Christ. Thank you ladies for sharing your experiences 😊
Thank you so much ladies for this ministry. You literally don't know what your doing for us. GOD BLESS YOU ❤
Can we take a moment and appreciate these ladies and the whole production team. Imagine producing an episode like this good, you can’t afford to produce less than this for the next episode 🙆🏻♀️ I started following bumplove from 2020 and every episode is 10* better than the previous one. I am thankful to God for the wisdom that is shared in these episodes. Thanks team bumplove🙌🏼
Rossett thanks for the tip..
I love that this conversation about marriage and submission is centred on God being the head,truly there's no marriage success without the author of it
When a woman is loved right pipo,submission is a flowwww period.
Always looking forward to a new episode. You are all unique, and its the blend of your experiences and ideas that make the show tick. You are right and our differences is what makes the society interesting. Thats why we are friends, if we were all the same life would be boring. Love you ladies.
All i can say is that am taking down notes and be assured that you ladies have made me to be a better wife and mother when that time comes. Oooh! as always your fashion sense is on fire,🔥🔥🔥🔥
Submission is one concept that is stereotypically mis-understood. Thanks for shedding some light on this topic.
Ohhh wow❤....foe the futat time i listened together with my hubby. You should have seen him agreeing to everything...ladies, thank you..God is really using you goe my good❤❤❤.... My marriage gets better every time and Fridays bumplove is just my "relax moment* to shop something new for my Marti and family. May God bless you my girls....❤i love you ❤
I swear to God,bumplove,may God bless you all the ladies,the crew, Mr.Mulondo everyone behind this your doing an amazing job
This is the most nourishing conversation I've heard. My take home. You do your part as the wife ❤❤. I love you ladies. Thanks for this.
When you enter marriage as partners because you are bringing different but complimentary strengths to the team, y'all need to submit to eachother. There are some areas where my leadership as a woman is excellent and my husband submits to me. There are areas where his leadership is excellent and i submit to him. Though he is the head of our house for social and leanage purposes, that doesn't mean whatever he says, even when it doesn't make sense i agree to follow like sheep. Rachel's anology of an organization is different as it emphasizes power dynamics. What about the analogy of two really good business that come together as partners, nobody is anyone's boss but they still get things done? Well me and my husband are partners and we submit to eachother for the purpose of serving our team not our egos.
This is a life changing episode for me😢😢thank you bump love
Pumla, I feel you. You are so intelligent!
This is an awesome informative talk, you would not love it to end.❤
Submission is earned it comes naturally to a woman who is loved....thank you pulma!
@Pumla I had a similar perspective of submission (everything being patriarchal) while growing up....but as started interacting with other people I knew it wasn't going to help me in my marriage.
I looked out for a book called "Love & Respect, The love she most desires, the respect he desperately needs "
It changed my perspective completely and helped me understand how men and women are wired differently.
You ladies have beautifully talked about the topic of submission. Much Love ❤
Oh thank you. Let me look for that book
The way I love Ms Pumula .. its now beyond … she sooo legitimate of real issues … cheers Ma’m
Submission is a provoked emotion or action..
Thanks bumplove. I believe this episode on submission is a good take home.
The journey of submission does really start with intention and allowing time to move.
Happy to be here
Me like Manuella I didn't see submission at home growing up with a mother that was raised by her father 😂ahaa my mum was another general hmmm I can't even explain well but am lucky the little time I went to my grandparents on ma father's side it's when I saw the true meaning of love and submission haaa the other bakadde loved each other banange grandma couldn't finish eating a small bread without thinking about her husband 😊😊and it gave me a new picture about love😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
Yes I read that scripture also those 5 daughters lost their father who would have been the right person to get his share of the land. Yes Manuela was right. That scripture empowered me as a woman to show me that God will turn things around for me. Thx ladies💕
Zilephad daughters
Totally agree with Rach, each one has to focus on playing their role. I'm impressed ladies by this discussion. Brilliant
This conversation is for the books! Such depth and rawness on a very sensitive subject. Thank you ladies!
Overflow of wisdom.....thankyou ladies❤
Much love from 🇰🇪. I sincerely love indepth conversations such as this because in this day and age they seem to be scarce.
Banange me I have literally enjoyed every bit of this conversation, you girls are so witty and fascinating, you are so beautiful together. GBU
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Thank you ladies for your submissions,i am enlighten and know that the struggle to submit in a way points towards the relationship with Christ. The times i have argued( sometimes without proof) is because i don't even know or remember what the Bible says about the issue at hand. Yet if i let my partner do as he has forethought,it works out some if not most times.
The massage of a man's ego is a key take home,most times when we let them do as they think and hit rock bottom,the submission that comes after experience is incomparable.
However,may we not forget that there is submission that can break you. One minute you are submissive and you are misunderstood.#maywedobetter!
Woow 😂😂😂 interesting. I live 4 Pumla's confessions. That girl is natural genius.
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This life!
Don't we all?! I just be waiting to hear it. And I love the trick wen she speaks last. But I love how she relates with wat most people think "otherwise" n makes it ryt in some way. I applaud u
@naggayijoan3962 TTTrrrrrrruuuuuuuuùuuuuueeeeee. The energy that goes into digesting every one's reality & view of the world & still firmly keep your stand is unimaginably incredible. This woman has invested so much in her awareness, its such a flex to agree on things that don't align with your ream of reality & be able to carry on yours. I love her she is my all time favourite among the crew.
@@Immaculaten8936-yg2yc o my God U just said it all. That's it
@@naggayijoan3962oh thank you love 🙏🏾
Thanks, Ladies, I really needed this, was struggling this break fast thing
This was so phenomenal, thanks ladies❤❤
Banange... This year the episodes are movie duration.
I love it, slow watch it on Saturday after meditation it slaaaaaps🙌
Thank you ladies 😊
What a sweet sweet conversation . Guys 🎉🎉your the real deal. I want also to appreciate how different you all are and the ability to respect each others submissions 😅to the different topics you discuss. As a woman I want to congratulate you fellow women for thriving together in such a space . Your all unique and anointed for this very cause that we may watch and be encouraged, and learn , unlearn , among very many other things. Thank you for putting words to the things that we probably just feel and have no words for and above all thank you for this episode .
Am soooo blessed. God increase you mighty women
Oh thank you Tracy
Looking good ladies. Thank you for this one, many lessons. Today, I will only say that the ring only amplifies what was already there. People make poor choices before the ring so the results end in divorce if they do not put in work. The relationships that are working, people are putting in effort.
YES! Submission in MARRIAGE is worth it, NOT for a boyfriend! ❤️
Wisdom and more wisdom
Thankyou Ladies for yet another educative and Nation building subject. Need I say you all look dashing. One's got to be loved into submission. Men are the heads whereas women are the neck.
I relate with you Angie the lessons u have learnt over time. Thanks Rachel n Manuella for standing for the truth. Pumla girl you rock, Rossette babe u glow
Listening to you ladies ❤!!...you know when u have gone through all stages of life almost alone, and then u hear 5 ladies bring it all in one day😂😂, amazing. Truly as the Bible says, when you were young, we talked like a child, and when u have grown..., I think as we grow in marriage, submission too comes as bonus to us especially when u have a loving a Patient husband. Very educative topic especially the young ladies following, please avoid mistakes we went through if you can. Blessings, ladies. Pumla God has set you apart for a special purpose. You don't know how many people you are changing lives for. Your lifestyle speak to many young girls out there. Keep it ladies. You r are a full package
Bambi, can we one day have an episode on hair so that Racheal can take us through her hair journey.🥰
Me pumla .coz I always ask myself is she having locks or weave .I even went back to watch old videos just to view her hair .hahahah
@@nankabirwamary1349same here 🤭
@@nankabirwamary1349 Pumla said in an old episode that she doesn’t have the brain space to think about other hairstyles that will give her peace, comfort, easy and saves time. So that’s why she does just that hairstyle. 😂 which is btw a good one
Okkk
It always hurts me when I look away from youtube for a second and return to check if Bumplove has uploaded yet and boom 1k views. 😢like why I'm I this late and why are these people so fast😅😅😅😅😅😅
Imagine - Even me a host, I feel the same way 😂😂😂
We have notifications on, the moment the ka video is uploaded, we just ruuuun to watch😂😂
Speaking for me😂😢
Me too
I have listened for 2 hours and there is a lot to learn.Thank you for sharing your experiences ladies.❤
Rosett is so smart and glowing 😢😢😢... Pumla thank you always for your submissions... girl is informed... And this episode y'all did welll.... thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
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I wish this exact episode had a continuation, I love topics about submission. Thank you ladies for the great words. 😍😍😍. We appreciate
First: Ayeiyeiyeiyeiyeiiiiiiii....... Kaluulu of joy for Pumla.
Secondly: Thank you ladies for the show.
Third: Submission submission submission. For me, if it's a journey of a thousand steps, I am on my tenth. To reach the tenth step, I also attribute it to God for sure. Please note that even on the tenth step, I think I have gone back to step two many times. Probably because of the words my grandmother told me before marriage and God as the ultimate speaker. This year in October, we shall make three years in marriage. I can't say that I ain't enjoying my marriage coz I think I would have missed lots if I wasn't. The fruits of our marriage, the fun and the love are so overwhelming.
Naye the submission part. You guys, it's a sure struggle. Like Rachel, I can go to church, come back all renewed, do all that I am supposed to do as a wife, and then there comes a day when guy is like, "Babe, please get me a glass of water to drink"... Hmmm... In my mind, that's a hustle. I mean, you can't go to the fridge!?? Don't you have hands!?? Okay, please send your son... Etcetera.
Now I've got another remedy, thanks to Pumla and Rachel. In my mind I will keep saying, " Small small water!?? " "Small small tea!?? "
There is something else that I sometimes use. I get it from the scripture that says everyone is created in the image of God. So sometimes, in my mind, I just say, "Let me not quarrel with the image of God"😂 That's what adds on those steps.
But woman demon banange, get behind me satan.
For sure sometimes I even cause the trouble and I be like, " Poor man has seen days! "
Thanks for the show ladies😅
"Let me not quarrel with the image of God"
WOOOOOOOOWWWWW! How powerful is this. I'll never forget it
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Mwebale ladies naye nga yo bu shoes are mwah❤ n on point
Nanti shoe puzzle 😃
WOWWWW Rosette.... I always enjoy your input. You speak to the ordinary person..You really understand how to maneouvre submission in the marital institution. I wish you all the best in your marriage...wama oli mukyala muganda waawu ❤
In the spirit of picking a thing or two, today I picked a whole tree of wisdom😂. Thank you, ladies, for sharing. God bless you.
I have honestly enjoyed this episode. It is informative and evokes self reflection love. It has a lot to take away and of course the entertaining. Thank you ladies.
The vulnerability and wisdom in this episode❤.Love you ladies